Why I Married My Wife, though she was the least on my list - Choosing the right spouse

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  • @courageiwendi6639
    @courageiwendi6639 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Having a good marriage is God’s will for me 🥰

  • @Nombulelo_ace
    @Nombulelo_ace 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    he just told you were never number 1 am I the only one who finds this weird ...hmmm the things yall share on social media then use scriptures to justify tolerance/ disrespect and laughing it out loud like this is okay 😮 definitely he picked you sis but you never won, oneday the cracks will show ...

    • @LethoHali
      @LethoHali 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      You are blowing this out of proportion. Context is everything. You missed the whole point of this video.

    • @KORMBAT
      @KORMBAT 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@LethoHaliThank you

  • @mousebr549
    @mousebr549 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I bet she feels special, being referred to as "the least". Really???

    • @martadominkak
      @martadominkak 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He didn't even say a single thing he loves about her...

    • @benjaminnkem5623
      @benjaminnkem5623 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @mousebr549 and @martadominkak I'm left with no choice than to believe that there's no place for honestly in your dictionary. I wouldn't advice your partners to be vulnerable with either of you. It takes maturity to handle such conversations which obviously they both have.

    • @mousebr549
      @mousebr549 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@benjaminnkem5623 you are entitled to your opinion. However, you don't know me. You don't know my partner. I am married to a Ghanaian man, I am American. We are very happy. Do I think that I am the most beautiful woman he has ever seen? No, I am very aware that he chose me for my depth of character, my love and respect for him and his culture. And he loves me for the reasons that he holds in his heart.
      Everything does not need to be said.
      There's a Chinese proverb that says, once a plate is broken, you can glue it back together. But you can never put it back the way it was.
      I should not criticize your relationship as well. If it works for you, then I am happy for you. Just remember, women's minds work differently from men's minds. And you have planted this seed in your wife's mind. Hopefully, it won't grow. Women never forget.

    • @mousebr549
      @mousebr549 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@benjaminnkem5623 I probably should not criticize your marraige. What works for you may not work for others. But you don't know me, or my husband. He is a Ghanaian and I am a American. Do I think that I am the most beautiful woman he has ever been with? No I am sure I am not. I know he loves me because I respect him and I love his culture. I am sure there are many other reasons he keeps in his heart, as do I. Everything does not need to be said out loud. There is a Japanese proverb that states: "If you break a plate, it can be glued back together. But it can never be in its pristine state, and the flaws will always be there. And so it is with our words. Once they are spoken, they cannot be retrieved".
      The nature of a woman is that she is very sensitive. And a woman never forgets anything, especially the things her husband says and does. You have planted a seed in your wife's mind. I would not nurture that seed. Hopefully it won't grow into resentment. Just a bit of advice from a woman.

    • @martadominkak
      @martadominkak 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@benjaminnkem5623 Have you considered that it is possible to be honest while also being mindful of the other person's feelings?Explain to me please how on earth telling your partner that they were just an option for you help them be comfortable with being vulnerable. It is however a great way to make your partner feel unvalued and undesired.

  • @martadominkak
    @martadominkak 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    What a sad thing to say

  • @courageiwendi6639
    @courageiwendi6639 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Mama was the list 😌😌😌😌

  • @emmywonder6597
    @emmywonder6597 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    She was the LIST not the LEAST 😂

  • @simisola6194
    @simisola6194 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I’m the second then😂😂❤️❤️❤️

  • @AjatoFaith
    @AjatoFaith 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    The whole list 😊hmmmmn

  • @SignsOkwunwa
    @SignsOkwunwa 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Am I the first to comment???

  • @KORMBAT
    @KORMBAT 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    MY PEOPLE

  • @toluoyelade4526
    @toluoyelade4526 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂