Not really, there are actual real and justified reasons for isithembu in some families. Currently we only see and hear about the narcissist guys that are in public eye. Some are actually genuine and don't revolve on new money driving that
My op as well it sounded like he wanted to have his ego stroked now and again which i assume is what drained the Lady siBusy aswell no time to continuously baby sit adults bakity Yo! Ngahluleka nam bandla its exhausting 😫😩
Kakhulu, I was talking to a guy just like this. He has a wife of 20 years and tried to marry his side chick. He paid lobola and had a baby with the side, she started cheating on him. He tried to go back to his wife and kids, his wife let him know that she didn't care what he does but she was not leaving her house, and he could go if he wanted to. He was distraught. He had major low self-esteem issues. Black and ugly in the face, you know the vibes.
@@Thecutest_Giraffe im sure their only goal in life from the young age is to have money so it can be easy for them to get women , now when the women start showing them they are nothing without their money they freak out
@NormaJileka Exactly, this is why therapy is important. Money doesn't make them better people. When they do have access to beautiful women, they act crazy and abusive. It's a vicious cycle. Side note: Felix needs to go to the gym. That tummy is too much.
That's what i noticed as well, he is such a weak weak man, now that he is cheated he wants to break up because he sees that nobody cares or is hurt bc of his cheating, and the long paragraphs, a man who talks like a woman yet he wants isithembu, he is a joke this one bt bamlayile labafati bakhe😢😅😅
yho ngathi its texts from a small boy ofuna ukunakwa nje iscefe sento nje kanti ubaba omdala omnyama othwele umkhabakazi, abantu abanje bayathanda ukutotoswa benjalo nje baya fvckupa bese they blame it on you
I don't know if she cheated but the tempremental nature of his messages given the short time periods between the messages is alarming. The man sounds like a nightmare to live with... Worst of all, he's a comedian so he can mask his horrible behaviour with bad jokes! I pity Tracy 😭 Good thing the other lady had a job. Ladies, don't leave your jobs for a husband/ man. When he turns, he will leave you with nothing 😢
Ayikho into ongayikhuluma with someone who already has their mind made up 😩 look at him spinning it and pretending to be the one to ask for ibreakup 😂😂😂 what a joke
I don't even feel sorry for Filix at this point. He can't feel betrayed by cheating when he started it. I love it for mamcani for being this nonchalant about everything and you can tell tgat Filix wa gower
Angkaqedi nokqeda ngiqedwa uwena... The way you're reading Felix's texts it's giving "haaaa haaaa sengzokhala, ngzokhalake, sengyakhalake njalo" 🤣🤣🤣🤣the energy all round is giving childish. Give him a plaster for his "bubu". 😭💀😩
lol if I was the wife and saw my husband begging another woman and being rejected like this bengizomshiya shame. I’d leave him for le part yoba bengamfuni 😂
Bakufake ngamandla kwi toxic reality yabo" typical woman not taking accountability bcz akho Tracy omfake zindabeni she did that herself ngoyongena pha she entered relationship ekhona uTracy but nguye ngok ivictim mesengafun ndoda le yakhe😂😂😂
Felix une low self esteem that needs soothing from women😅 Tracy cheated just like he did before introducing uAyanda as a second wife he wanted to take… He must give Tracy the same grace she gave him…
Isithembu will never work, l am happy she choose herself and decided to part ways ,heal & start afresh, there's no peace kwi Sthembu look at Musa's wives they don't get along ..African science nayo baleka Sis
Hhaybo lo gal uyena usile. She's trying to act non chalant, that time uyasha. Sile! Felix tried to be a gentleman and even the way he addressed her yena eloku eba u mean gal. Sile lo. Becabanga ukuthi u first wife uzosala, mnxim
The sisterhood is proud of mamncane 🤜🏾
Very proud sis🤛
Never been so happy about indaba zabantu😂😂😂
And mamkhulu too. The girlies are up 😅
Why are they happy? cause having sex or re marrying after is adultry
Women in men fields , hawu I'm proud of both women ngeke 🙊😂😂😂
Nami ngichazekile shame! 😅
Me too sis
A man that wants isthembu is a narcissist by default
Clock it!🎯
💯🎯
Main ingredient..
Hello!!!
Not really, there are actual real and justified reasons for isithembu in some families. Currently we only see and hear about the narcissist guys that are in public eye. Some are actually genuine and don't revolve on new money driving that
It's funny how they get sick when they are served their own medicine 😅
Imagine
Lmao this narc wanted our dear sister to send long paragraphs begging him and sh*t, I love her nonchalant vibes.
Love her too. We don’t do paragraphs anymore 🤞🏼
Nah, but that “okay” was diabolical 😩😂
It was very hurtful 😢😢
Hectic!
The sisterhood is proud of you sister Tracy 👏👏. It was fine when he was cheating 😂😂😂😂😂
Soon as she found side piece, she agreed to the Isithembu... she was like let somebody else deal with loyo mkhaba😂
@@MsSwanlake She matched his energy, he went and found umamnane and she went and for ubabomncane naye 😂😂😂I love it for her
Lol... uFelix uyaGowa kuleChat🤣🤣.
It's all fun & games maku feba bona, once a woman does it, umuntu uyakhala
When a woman’s fed up, it ain’t nothing you can do about it…*in R.Kelly’s voice *
😂😂😂
I don't care about their broke up, daaamn u such a good storyteller ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I cam listen to u the whole day ❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉
I want to be Ayanda,I want to be this "okay " type of babe but I can't help write Thesis after Thesis!
😂😂😂😂You not the only one😢
😂😂😂
I dont wnnna laugh i'Thesis' 😅😅 You will get there my sweety
She deserves an award 🥇 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Lalela girl made sure to leave the relationship while she was still in it.. 🤣🤣🤣 OMpolaya thata a re "okay"
Ohhhhh sana both these women make me so proud 😊 and,, if Tracy cheated wooooowza well done girl, help him because he was also busy with mamncane
Wavele wathi uAyanda “OK” 😂😂😂
I love how both women handled this. Singaphela.
noTracy wavele waphenduka is'striker, I love it!😅😊
That “Ok” after all those texts 💀🌚
😂😂😂😂
Yo!
💀
she is done 😂😂😂
Ofcourse he’s a narc 🤣🤣🤣🤣that’s why he wanted to take a second wife 😂😂😂
Lento yesthembu inobu low self esteem shame, he needs to be validated so bad and all the time, I was going to react like umamncane nami
My op as well it sounded like he wanted to have his ego stroked now and again which i assume is what drained the Lady siBusy aswell no time to continuously baby sit adults bakity Yo! Ngahluleka nam bandla its exhausting 😫😩
Kakhulu, I was talking to a guy just like this. He has a wife of 20 years and tried to marry his side chick. He paid lobola and had a baby with the side, she started cheating on him. He tried to go back to his wife and kids, his wife let him know that she didn't care what he does but she was not leaving her house, and he could go if he wanted to. He was distraught. He had major low self-esteem issues. Black and ugly in the face, you know the vibes.
@@Thecutest_Giraffe im sure their only goal in life from the young age is to have money so it can be easy for them to get women , now when the women start showing them they are nothing without their money they freak out
@NormaJileka Exactly, this is why therapy is important. Money doesn't make them better people. When they do have access to beautiful women, they act crazy and abusive. It's a vicious cycle. Side note: Felix needs to go to the gym. That tummy is too much.
My husband texting this to another woman while married to me 😢
ube safety
“You’re the only thing I want” 💔
shame he is so weak he cant handle isthembu he must forget he is weak😂😂😂😂😂😂
That's what i noticed as well, he is such a weak weak man, now that he is cheated he wants to break up because he sees that nobody cares or is hurt bc of his cheating, and the long paragraphs, a man who talks like a woman yet he wants isithembu, he is a joke this one bt bamlayile labafati bakhe😢😅😅
He is so needy.. 🤔
Bathong Felix! Closure is for wigs😂😂😂😂
Dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@pearlpridegonya3467 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂 haibo wena Thato 🤫 😶 🔇
@@nomfundocharitydlomo4627 🤣🤣🤣🤣🙈
😂😂😂😂😂😂Mpolaye gape
😂😂😂 “ok” is exactly the response he deserved. He was trying to manipulate her. Good for her she didn’t fall for it
Oh kanti it’s Ayanda Bhengu?! lol she was my schoolmate.. Anyway love how she handled it👏👏Singaphela amadoda
yho ngathi its texts from a small boy ofuna ukunakwa nje iscefe sento nje kanti ubaba omdala omnyama othwele umkhabakazi, abantu abanje bayathanda ukutotoswa benjalo nje baya fvckupa bese they blame it on you
😂😂 ewu!!
I don't understand IsiZulu well but this comment ended me 😂😂😂 bathong you're hilarious Shem
sgaxa after sgaxa🤞🤣🤣🤣🤣
I can't stand a man who thinks money can buy love
I don't know if she cheated but the tempremental nature of his messages given the short time periods between the messages is alarming. The man sounds like a nightmare to live with... Worst of all, he's a comedian so he can mask his horrible behaviour with bad jokes! I pity Tracy 😭 Good thing the other lady had a job. Ladies, don't leave your jobs for a husband/ man. When he turns, he will leave you with nothing 😢
I don't feel sorry for him. Akezwe kunjani to be rejected and cheated on 😂. Singaphela amadoda!!!
Felix sounds so manipulative
Phezukwakhe my girl im so proud of you 😆 😊!
Ayikho into ongayikhuluma with someone who already has their mind made up 😩 look at him spinning it and pretending to be the one to ask for ibreakup 😂😂😂 what a joke
Someone give that woman a Bell's 🎉
Azikhale😂😂😂😂😂wuuuu mara izindaba zabantu zimnandi yaz
Kante Felix can be so simpy ,acting all mancho there on facebook saying he doesn't beg women. Aaaiii amadoda..
Hahaha banjalo vele😂😂😂😂😂. This is funny.
It's always the one who tells people I don't do this then turns around and do it😂😂😂
THEY ALL LIKE THAT, BENZELA ABANTU BESLISA BUT THEY ARE LOSERS IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS, INGAKHO BEHLUKUMEZA ABANTU BESFAZANE
@@babybop9817 the abuse neh? Pathetic to the core 🙄..
@@diamcee12345 aibo oe I'm shook can't even laugh..
She really won this he will NEVER heal 😅😅😅😅😂😂😂😂
Friend, you have to start drawing a chart when there’s too many people involved. My ADHD can’t keep up 😭😭😭
True😂😂😂I had to watch again
Dude and I don't know who's who 😂😂
Like Wendy Williams 😂😂😂😂
@ she needs to bring a chart and a pointer for us her neurodivergent audience 😭😭😭
Private investigator vibes 😂
It’s beautiful when it’s the men writing the paragraphs and we just “ok”
Hai Felix what is this ...okare a teenage boy bathong
😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂
@@MsSwanlake so awkward 👀 😂😂😂
Funniest comment 😂😂😂😂😂😂
OMG! this guy is a typical narcissist lol this reminds me of my ex😅
Judging from the conversation chat on screen it proves kuthi ubhuti omdala ufelix uweak😅
Sivuka ngezndaba zabantu😂bafethu umgosi umnandi
Lol this man wanted this isithembu so bad 😂😂😂and he wanted her to beg him to continue and she's just so sick of him and his 🐂💩
I don't even feel sorry for Filix at this point. He can't feel betrayed by cheating when he started it. I love it for mamcani for being this nonchalant about everything and you can tell tgat Filix wa gower
This guy is loosing his mind😂😂
Tjo talk about "a taste of your own medicine" 😂
Angkaqedi nokqeda ngiqedwa uwena... The way you're reading Felix's texts it's giving "haaaa haaaa sengzokhala, ngzokhalake, sengyakhalake njalo" 🤣🤣🤣🤣the energy all round is giving childish. Give him a plaster for his "bubu". 😭💀😩
Awuuu kodwa uFelix dissertation engaka 😂😂😂
These men that take back imoto that was GIFTED after a break up aren't really who they pretend to be 😂😂 big loser energy
True and mean boy energy so immature I would gladly return it 😂😂😂😂
Aybo, imoto you'll get it kundodayakho entsha
@@zulu9357 then it's not a gift, it's a tool to control the recipient's actions
@@Facieee ewe baryt nathi nje we take even their underwears if umntu sfike ngenazo why ulibele ngok
@@zulu9357 nangok bafuna yojola ngeemoto zoobani aybo nam I’ll take mine from my partner xengandifuni alok
Nver trust u guy o postonayo😂😂😂
Thank you delivering umgosi ngendlela and reading ngendlela
lol if I was the wife and saw my husband begging another woman and being rejected like this bengizomshiya shame. I’d leave him for le part yoba bengamfuni 😂
Its so embarrassing 😢😢
Wuuu, hhayi uFelix🙄
Bakufake ngamandla kwi toxic reality yabo" typical woman not taking accountability bcz akho Tracy omfake zindabeni she did that herself ngoyongena pha she entered relationship ekhona uTracy but nguye ngok ivictim mesengafun ndoda le yakhe😂😂😂
And I see nothing wrong kuguy for venting on social media angithi broken hearted women do the same🤷🏾♀️ ay abantu banama double standards
Usexakwa yinto ayeyifuna
@@Uthabilendlovu ngxaki I think sizi bully thina we don’t take into xisenziwa ngabanye kodwa thina siyazenza ezanto
Felix une low self esteem that needs soothing from women😅
Tracy cheated just like he did before introducing uAyanda as a second wife he wanted to take… He must give Tracy the same grace she gave him…
Felix is manipulative
I love the God of this coloured girl 😂😂😂😂 😍😍😍
Well done Tracy....🎉🎉🎉A woman needs love too.
The sisterhood is proud😂😂😂
😂😂I like the "ok" response
Seems like udikiwe umamcane and futhi uthi aka cheati so nam I'll respond "OK" 😅
“You're bahavingnlikeva cheating
woman. Like you're juggling two guys.” is crazy to say when you juggling 2 women yourself. The nerve 😂😂
lol he’s going through it😂😂😂😂
Narcissist and gaslighting a women favorite words ,according to women every man is like that when there’s fights etc wow 😂😂😂😂
This lady nhe what a Queen 👸🏽😂😘 paragraphs ezingaka from a men. A married men nogal
Speaking of isgaxa with receipts. Wow
Am proud of this girls 😅😅😅😅
I never ever saw Tracey coming like that😂😂😂
He has low self esteem that’s why he wanted a second wife
He tried so hard to manipulate her. 😅
Nami i would cheat on Felix guys ai bo😂
Isithembu will never work, l am happy she choose herself and decided to part ways ,heal & start afresh, there's no peace kwi Sthembu look at Musa's wives they don't get along ..African science nayo baleka Sis
Keyword “Okay”.
It serves him right.Guys really don’t know how isithembo works.
Uthini ngo Chidima now that she has made it to the top
YAAAAASSSS AYANDA #WOMENINMALEDOMINATEDFIELDS
Ay ziyakhala ngibuka ibody language yalo wife umnikeza igift... No maan is not make sure!
Being famous is the pits. WTF would think people care about Felix’s intimate life?
Now he' want d car back and want her to empty the apartment
“Ihlung Ayanda” 🤣
This guy was talking to himself, shame man!!😢
Its a lie told by a guy himself Siya Avai laba and it happened to me recently😂😂 Men cheat and they do not want women to cheat. How does that work?
The "2nd wife" to be cheated😂😂😂
Madness nje la
Adults nit teens
She is me i am her. When they start to play victim ngvele ngithi ok. And ngihamba ngempela futhi😂
lol he posted his wife out of hurt and to spite the lady that rejected him 😂😂
True 😹
Lol 😂😂😂😂😂 yhoo uyagowa u guy wow
U guy wa ma paragraph 😂 😂😂
At least I'm not the only Narcissist.
Haw 😹 I
uzoba neReality Show uFelix iPR ntoni ntoni🤦🏻
I’ll carry it for the rest of my life 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 omg the drama
Zaze zamnandi izindaba zakwaHlophe😅🤣🤣☕️
Hhaybo lo gal uyena usile. She's trying to act non chalant, that time uyasha. Sile! Felix tried to be a gentleman and even the way he addressed her yena eloku eba u mean gal. Sile lo. Becabanga ukuthi u first wife uzosala, mnxim
These are the most *Sexy/calm* break up messages I've ever read 😊.....
😂😂😂😂woza December eeeee
#Womeninmalefields 🙈
🤣🤣this
Ngaze ngamthanda u Ayanda 😂😂😂
Gaslighted her
2024 😂😂😂
Good Tracy😊😊
Aphi kanti amadoda asondelene no Felix??
Why bengamubonisi ukuthi akangalenzi iphutha lokushada umuntu onezingane nomunye umuntu
Isifebe esibonile ukuthi abantuuu bashadile yena uzothandana njaloo filix hope kodwa uyazi ukuthi ushadile . Nani mama first wife niya Diana bophani lezinjaa zenuu nenza ngathi umuthi aniwaziii yikho nizofebelwa yilama doda enuuu