"If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but your estimate of it." (Marcus Aurelius) at 3:01 - such a powerful quote. And what a beautiful, layered video Maleeka - this was really quite something else!
"internal beef with my mom" is so real 🤣 I'm currently having this issue with a potential partner and I knew that I needed to do some shadow work but I didn't know what exactly to do it on. Thank you. I have clarity now.
Just because you have unhealed wounds doesn’t mean you can’t have love… hell maybe you are already in a relationship. There are plenty of folks with a lover or relationship that aren’t completely healed. Sometimes that addition will allow you to heal. As long as you are willing to see it, work on it and heal it is what matters. It may be innocuous but telling anyone they must be fully healed to have something is a misjudgment. We will always be fracturing and repairing. As long as you are open and looking for ways to resolve it then you are worthy of love. But I still think Maleeka’s video is relevant, “see what is inside, become aware of your actions”
EIYPO is true but the part that is blown way out of proportion is the topic of Free Will. What people don’t understand is that true spiritual enlightenment is detachment. you’re supposed to be detached from earthly desires and that includes people. Saying that no one has free will is just a cope mechanism to believe you have control over other people like a puppet when that is far from the truth. People pick up on your energy and aura and you can influence them, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t have free will or that we live in separate realities. This perception does far more damage than good and is baseless; built completely on anecdotal evidence Just my take on it
I really adored my ex. E was smart, witty, handy, funny, caring.....but had a bad short temper/anger issues. I still like him but that just turned me off. I couldn't get into him. I like his personality but I just couldn't get comfortable with the uncertainty of his anger issues. I will say that he was NOT my normal go to type. He was very much different. Almost had perfection in a guy....maybe next time or maybe he will change. I really like him. He was 100% all about me. It was amazing having somebody that was all into me. I assume his anger goes away and he comes back
I love listening to you late at night while I'm about to sleep. This video came in the right time. I dated a man for a few weeks 10 years older than me, just right after I ended a 10 year relationship with my ex. This man was everything I wanted in a partner. He was so ethereal. Ambition, drive, perfect on paper, you name it. Turns out, his ambition was what I wanted for myself. His traits were what I wanted for me, traits that I buried away when I was being inauthentic and people pleasing my ex. I'm learning how to come back to me, and I'm learning how to clean my wounds.
Mind blown 🤯 I’ve heard the term “everything is you pushed out” multiple times before cause I read Neville Goddard’s work, but your explanation of it struck a chord, it’s like I’ve been awakened one step closer
I have never felt more seen in my entire life. This might have just changed the way I move through world. It's 12:17 am where I am. I have had a fight with my boyfriend about how his coldness has been effecting me. Although I follow your channel all the time, somehow I missed watching this video. In order to cope with the no contact we have today, I went through your Instagram threads and you posted this a while ago. I am in shock. I have been struggling with feeling the true love on a deep level for a few months now(thanks to mercury retrograde) it's been challenging to say the least. This has opened my eyes truly. Thank you, I'll listen to this every day twice to remind myself of this epiphany. I think I owe you everything ❤❤
It’s giving perfect timing, it’s giving 11:11. You always come with high tier deep work for me, Maleeka; however, today you delivered like never before. Sending thanks, gratitude and prosperity to you this week.
I just came across your channel a couple days ago and I must say that your mastery over your creation process is inspiring. You seem to have mastered your style, cadence, aesthetic, approach, and delivery. The amount of success that you have now will continue growing & multiplying. Much love to you and thank you for sharing your message in your own unique way 🙏🏽
This topic could not hv come at a better time. I honestly cannot live without your videos. Thank you 🙏 and I love the calming retro-ish side video bits u do in the middle (I hope tht makes sense 😭) but ugh I love the vibe always ❤ may u always be happy and healthy.
❤️ Thanks for bring this to light. Definitely answered a lot of the questions I had about relationships and situations. I wanted understanding and here you are 🤭. Thank you, Angel 🤴
This video was desperately needed for me today. I have been noticing some relationship issues lately. I pray that I overcome this so I can eventually meet someone who complete me as much as I am complete with myself. ❤🙏🏽😌
Dear Chelsea, Thank you very much for all your amazing content and simple and clear yet brilliant explanations! I just want to make a request from you. Could you please do a video on "How to deal with the fear you have about your unconscious manifestations?" I have been practicing all your methods, techniques and theories so far. And they have worked very well on me. However sometimes I find it hard to deal with my own fears about unwanted manifestations.
There hasn't been ONE video where you haven't straight up attacked me💀 Always attracted to distant women and never the ones who are into me. I like the chase🥴
who follow unconscious ly or consiously some % quntum law .....they get in touch with magical vibration... So grateful and thankful for all those blessings and vibration s
I don't have enough words to say how much this resonates. You are brilliant and you helped me with years of feeling confused. ❤ I'm really curious about this " Why did you feel harm in the first place? " If that was based on our misinterpretations of love in the past and we've wired ourselves that way. Does that mean that nothing is wrong in the 3D and if we are to manifest a healthy relationship the answer is detachment and not being triggered? Or we really do have healing work to do? Can we just assume our way out of it?
I am always like "im so unlikeable" but then when i get in touch with people, they always seem to like me, but i just dont believe it. Just like i say that i am shy, but when i have to do something im absolutely confident, i hate that i believe all the lies my mind tells me
She said, “But once this connection has ended, does it mean the problem has been resolved? Because if it had been, why do we find ourselves attracting the same type of people?” That is a statement of introspection and self evaluation. How is that not taking accountability? Everytime people make comments like this it’s only proof they cherry picked the video. She’s big on accountability, if you actually watched her channel.
It must be a sign from the universe. You see I was sad. Because my friend left me for a boy. And i questioned myself for why I don't feel loved by anyone. After everything happened to me
Perception doesn't change a bowl of poop into anything other than poop. Perception versus reality, we must always weigh it out in proper portions. When we lost touch with reality we have loss the whole point of manifesting. Such as I am statements like, I am wealthy is great for improving confidence and setting intentions, yet reality is your bank account is not wealthy. Don't forget to make statements for the outcome and to show gratitude for small amounts of your wish manifest. Nairaland Identity Fraud.
Kick a dog around too much they either get mean or they get wary of affection. Why shouldn't kick dogs around and ww aren't talking about dogs but people. Don't know what game everyone is playing.
I like this person so much. and they like me back. but they've been hurt in the past and they don't want to get hurt again. I wanna give them the world but they're not ready to take it. What do I do? It's like seeing an abandoned puppy and not being able to help it.
Es simple Yo Amor no estoy en los sentimientos no emociones ni en besos ni en sexo no en dependencias...búscame y Yo Amor hábito con Vida Eterna...Shalom el camino es de Ascención..
The thing in common with each man described at the beginning of your video was: they both tried to dominate you. That’s what has repeatedly shown up in my life too… sometimes I wonder if it’s a deeply internal drive within men, like whatever compels me to nurture (even though I don’t want kids). Sometimes I worry most of them are inherently sociopathic and nowhere is safe, except being with myself and other women. I’m trying to heal, but can’t deny that ever since I’ve exclusively chosen to spend all my time with femme people my life has gotten significantly better.
what is ur take on the silva mind control method ?, Have you tried it yet! I just happened to come across it and your content falls somwhere in the same path.
Hi Maleeka! This is completely unrelated to the video but I have a video suggestion!!! So every time I start manifesting, my dreams tend to show me the opposite of my manifestation. For example, before I went to bed, I used SATS and affirmed that I have the perfect side profile and the most perfect small nose. That same night, I had a dream of a family member telling me how gigantic my nose is and how my side profile is absolutely terrible (🥲). I know that this dream isn’t my reality but I’m so confused why my dreams always show the opposite of my manifestation. It would be great if you made a video explaining this conundrum !!! I’m sure many other people are also experiencing this as well
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"They felt like home....but was your home a good place"👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Girl 😭 your mind must be one of the best blessings society has ever had.
Whenever hit the lowest, I watch your video. Gives me a doze of calmness on instant
Happy to hear that hon😊
Yesss🥹🩶👌
"If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but your estimate of it." (Marcus Aurelius) at 3:01 - such a powerful quote. And what a beautiful, layered video Maleeka - this was really quite something else!
Bestie could you do a video on self love? You seem so in touch with yourself ❤️
i second this!
Yes 🖐️
This hits home. I just left someone that i thought checked all my boxes but he was the same experience with a different face
"internal beef with my mom" is so real 🤣 I'm currently having this issue with a potential partner and I knew that I needed to do some shadow work but I didn't know what exactly to do it on. Thank you. I have clarity now.
Just because you have unhealed wounds doesn’t mean you can’t have love… hell maybe you are already in a relationship. There are plenty of folks with a lover or relationship that aren’t completely healed. Sometimes that addition will allow you to heal. As long as you are willing to see it, work on it and heal it is what matters. It may be innocuous but telling anyone they must be fully healed to have something is a misjudgment. We will always be fracturing and repairing. As long as you are open and looking for ways to resolve it then you are worthy of love. But I still think Maleeka’s video is relevant, “see what is inside, become aware of your actions”
EIYPO is true but the part that is blown way out of proportion is the topic of Free Will. What people don’t understand is that true spiritual enlightenment is detachment. you’re supposed to be detached from earthly desires and that includes people.
Saying that no one has free will is just a cope mechanism to believe you have control over other people like a puppet when that is far from the truth. People pick up on your energy and aura and you can influence them, but that doesn’t mean that they don’t have free will or that we live in separate realities. This perception does far more damage than good and is baseless; built completely on anecdotal evidence
Just my take on it
Just like MJ sang "you're just another part of me"...
And "I'm starting with the man in the mirror"
Wonderful video
Mother slayed once again
I really adored my ex. E was smart, witty, handy, funny, caring.....but had a bad short temper/anger issues. I still like him but that just turned me off. I couldn't get into him. I like his personality but I just couldn't get comfortable with the uncertainty of his anger issues. I will say that he was NOT my normal go to type. He was very much different. Almost had perfection in a guy....maybe next time or maybe he will change. I really like him. He was 100% all about me. It was amazing having somebody that was all into me. I assume his anger goes away and he comes back
I love listening to you late at night while I'm about to sleep. This video came in the right time. I dated a man for a few weeks 10 years older than me, just right after I ended a 10 year relationship with my ex. This man was everything I wanted in a partner. He was so ethereal. Ambition, drive, perfect on paper, you name it. Turns out, his ambition was what I wanted for myself. His traits were what I wanted for me, traits that I buried away when I was being inauthentic and people pleasing my ex.
I'm learning how to come back to me, and I'm learning how to clean my wounds.
how do you always know what I need to hear? guardian angel indeed
Mind blown 🤯 I’ve heard the term “everything is you pushed out” multiple times before cause I read Neville Goddard’s work, but your explanation of it struck a chord, it’s like I’ve been awakened one step closer
I have never felt more seen in my entire life. This might have just changed the way I move through world. It's 12:17 am where I am. I have had a fight with my boyfriend about how his coldness has been effecting me. Although I follow your channel all the time, somehow I missed watching this video. In order to cope with the no contact we have today, I went through your Instagram threads and you posted this a while ago. I am in shock. I have been struggling with feeling the true love on a deep level for a few months now(thanks to mercury retrograde) it's been challenging to say the least. This has opened my eyes truly. Thank you, I'll listen to this every day twice to remind myself of this epiphany. I think I owe you everything ❤❤
Your articulation of quite esoteric and deep psychological issues is incredible. This will be a video I return to
It’s giving perfect timing, it’s giving 11:11.
You always come with high tier deep work for me, Maleeka;
however, today you delivered like never before. Sending thanks, gratitude and prosperity to you this week.
This is the life changing video I needed during my “what’s happening with me” phase
It seems like 3 hours with my psychologist. Excellent !!! And a genuine thank you
It's always a pleasure to watch your content Chelsea.
Man I think Chelsea might be my SP man the universe is crazzy another dope video
I just came across your channel a couple days ago and I must say that your mastery over your creation process is inspiring. You seem to have mastered your style, cadence, aesthetic, approach, and delivery. The amount of success that you have now will continue growing & multiplying. Much love to you and thank you for sharing your message in your own unique way 🙏🏽
one thing i love about chelsea is her witty one liners that never fail to make me rethink life and live better
You unpack this of often very difficult to understand concept so well, would love to hear more about it from you ! ❤
This topic could not hv come at a better time. I honestly cannot live without your videos. Thank you 🙏 and I love the calming retro-ish side video bits u do in the middle (I hope tht makes sense 😭) but ugh I love the vibe always ❤ may u always be happy and healthy.
I'm always impressed with the way you express things. You put it in such understanding terms.
It felt like we've had the same experience, and this video consequently appears in the right mood and right time.
i love love love this topic! please please make more of these!
❤️ Thanks for bring this to light. Definitely answered a lot of the questions I had about relationships and situations. I wanted understanding and here you are 🤭. Thank you, Angel 🤴
This video was desperately needed for me today. I have been noticing some relationship issues lately. I pray that I overcome this so I can eventually meet someone who complete me as much as I am complete with myself. ❤🙏🏽😌
Dear Chelsea, Thank you very much for all your amazing content and simple and clear yet brilliant explanations! I just want to make a request from you. Could you please do a video on "How to deal with the fear you have about your unconscious manifestations?" I have been practicing all your methods, techniques and theories so far. And they have worked very well on me. However sometimes I find it hard to deal with my own fears about unwanted manifestations.
This video came along at the perfect moment for me. Thank you so much for being here.
gurllll you really got me with this one😮
This is one of your best. ❤
There hasn't been ONE video where you haven't straight up attacked me💀 Always attracted to distant women and never the ones who are into me. I like the chase🥴
This literally resonated with me very deep
You are becoming more and more beautiful
You‘re truly my favorite youtuber, I love every video of yours and you never fail to teach me something new. Thank you so much❤️
I love her voice 😊
I LOVED THIS! Totally resonated!
WOWWW...how amazingly u articulated all!!! 👌👌👏👏Hats off!! Love it so much! ❤❤❤
Loving all the skincare and self care 💖🩵 BTW I love this introspective take on eiypo😊 4:58
Such intimate contents🕯️- Glad the 'algo' drift me 🌬️⛵ across your channel Chelsea. 😊🌟
who follow unconscious ly or consiously some % quntum law .....they get in touch with magical vibration... So grateful and thankful for all those blessings and vibration s
Wow! Now you've really outlined why I'm better off alone. Every woman's a minefield.
your videos always seem to come at the perfect time for me, thanks for this ❤️
Thanku my dear beautiful sis🥰😘
i like the experimentation with the b - roll. Keep it up!
Well damn. This was exactly what I needed to hear! Thank you! ❤
Brilliant. I always love your poet love that shows from the level of your introspection
I don't have enough words to say how much this resonates. You are brilliant and you helped me with years of feeling confused. ❤
I'm really curious about this " Why did you feel harm in the first place? " If that was based on our misinterpretations of love in the past and we've wired ourselves that way. Does that mean that nothing is wrong in the 3D and if we are to manifest a healthy relationship the answer is detachment and not being triggered? Or we really do have healing work to do? Can we just assume our way out of it?
❤❤❤ awesome video
That’s was great🙂💎
Dear Marleeka, would you please consider make a video about healing the wounds?
wow...hits deep
"but was ur home a good place" - OOP. Your vids are always putting me in check, thank you.
Thank you universe and thank you YOU. Ugh I love you
Unrelated but.... you in that face mask... its giving the grinch😂😂❤
I am always like "im so unlikeable" but then when i get in touch with people, they always seem to like me, but i just dont believe it. Just like i say that i am shy, but when i have to do something im absolutely confident, i hate that i believe all the lies my mind tells me
Resonates deeply. Thank you
In psychology it’s called “attachment wounds” which show up when you experienced childhood emotional neglect or abuse.
Thank you
Always enjoy your videos ❤
wooowwww I needed this
-BETTY
Doesn't matter subject I addicted your video and charming voice
I propose to talk about healthy thinking
Accountability is a hard pill to swallow for many western women.
🙄
She said, “But once this connection has ended, does it mean the problem has been resolved? Because if it had been, why do we find ourselves attracting the same type of people?”
That is a statement of introspection and self evaluation. How is that not taking accountability?
Everytime people make comments like this it’s only proof they cherry picked the video. She’s big on accountability, if you actually watched her channel.
Chelsea, can you make a video about abandonment issues/fear of abandonment? I've always been curious.
Cest fantastique 😍🥰♥️
It must be a sign from the universe. You see I was sad. Because my friend left me for a boy. And i questioned myself for why I don't feel loved by anyone. After everything happened to me
Hang in there sweetie🤍
@@maleekaismyguardianangel 🫶
Oh my god I needed this
This is so good I have to save it 😅
How do you save videos on TH-cam
This is irrelevant but you look really pretty. Love your make up in this video☺️
Perception doesn't change a bowl of poop into anything other than poop. Perception versus reality, we must always weigh it out in proper portions. When we lost touch with reality we have loss the whole point of manifesting. Such as I am statements like, I am wealthy is great for
improving confidence and setting intentions, yet reality is your bank account is not wealthy. Don't forget to make statements for the outcome and to show gratitude for small amounts of your wish manifest. Nairaland Identity Fraud.
They are still there. Others need to show it back though
Kick a dog around too much they either get mean or they get wary of affection. Why shouldn't kick dogs around and ww aren't talking about dogs but people. Don't know what game everyone is playing.
I like this person so much. and they like me back. but they've been hurt in the past and they don't want to get hurt again.
I wanna give them the world but they're not ready to take it. What do I do? It's like seeing an abandoned puppy and not being able to help it.
Es simple Yo Amor no estoy en los sentimientos no emociones ni en besos ni en sexo no en dependencias...búscame y Yo Amor hábito con Vida Eterna...Shalom el camino es de Ascención..
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The thing in common with each man described at the beginning of your video was: they both tried to dominate you. That’s what has repeatedly shown up in my life too… sometimes I wonder if it’s a deeply internal drive within men, like whatever compels me to nurture (even though I don’t want kids). Sometimes I worry most of them are inherently sociopathic and nowhere is safe, except being with myself and other women. I’m trying to heal, but can’t deny that ever since I’ve exclusively chosen to spend all my time with femme people my life has gotten significantly better.
what is ur take on the silva mind control method ?, Have you tried it yet! I just happened to come across it and your content falls somwhere in the same path.
Please what are your signs(big 3) you’re too relatable like the stories of the 2 exes 😳
I like her ❤
can you talk about robotic affirming
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What instrumentals do you use for your videos?
It's a huge mixture of tracks, all of which I credit at the very end😊
@@maleekaismyguardianangel I see thank you ❤️
Why are u vaping
dependency paradox
Hi Maleeka! This is completely unrelated to the video but I have a video suggestion!!! So every time I start manifesting, my dreams tend to show me the opposite of my manifestation. For example, before I went to bed, I used SATS and affirmed that I have the perfect side profile and the most perfect small nose. That same night, I had a dream of a family member telling me how gigantic my nose is and how my side profile is absolutely terrible (🥲). I know that this dream isn’t my reality but I’m so confused why my dreams always show the opposite of my manifestation. It would be great if you made a video explaining this conundrum !!! I’m sure many other people are also experiencing this as well
Thank you