GOOD FOR HER! Finally, a girl that has a backbone and will show James, through actions, that she won’t be a doormat. I wish her the absolute best and I hope James finally makes a definitive decision to make some changes that will ensure his sobriety.
Oh what a surprise! No charges!.....not much of a deterrent for him really, as usual. I really don't get why he's treated like a naughty kid...he's not 16 anymore, he's in his 30's!
The fact the court is deciding not to move forward with charges does not mean that James did not pick up and throw somebody to the ground. His attorney’s announcement is such a slap in the face for victims of DA. James could’ve taken this opportunity to hold himself accountable and apologize to Ally but when Alex Baskin has allowed the boys (not men) of VPR to get away with everything but murder for so long it’s no shock why James wouldn’t feel the need to…Allegedly
Ally not choosing to cooperate with testimony or pressing charges ensures James will do this to other people until someone gets seriously hurt (as that’s the only way that’ll stop)
This is a publicity written issuance by his PR person. Therefore, it has zero effect on how he’s perceived. He harangued Ally until she agreed to not press charges.
Hey dopey dope, if he abused anyone there would have been charges against him! He was found innocent hence no assault or domestic violence, just a loud, drunken, shouting match!
In CA, it would not matter if Alley did not want to press charges because the DA makes the determination to prosecute regardless...if there was an injury and grounds to charge. Unfortunately, I have first-hand experience with this type of situation.
It's very difficult to adjudicate when the victim refuses to cooperate. No judgment, but letting him off the hook isn't helpful to him in the long run. He's unlikely to experience a magic transformation without intensive treatment for his substance and MH issues, and he's unlikely to take the time to pursue intensive treatment because (as he has so many times previously) he'll want to get right back to his DJ gig and "get back out there and prove I've changed." At least she separated from him.
Can’t he be let go? It’s repetitive behaviour that he never has to be accountable for. Well done to Ally, don’t look back young lady. Time to grow up James.
As lovable and funny he’s been at times on VPR, I think he has some serious rage issues. Alcohol doesn’t turn a nice person into a monster, it brings out who you really are! I think James needs to remain single for a long time….
Wrong, in an alcoholic alcohol changes one’s entire personality! Substances never bring out who you really are as they alter your brain and emotional responses and decision making! The only thing that brings out who you truly are is sobriety!!!!
@ Ummm.. K. I’ve been in rehab twice in my life, but alright.. I never hurt anyone or said and did awful things. I was tired and not very productive for 6 years, but I was always me.
I’m happy she has left a toxic relationship, but not happy he is getting away with physical abuse yet again. Unless he keeps his sobriety he will continue to physically abuse a woman. I also don’t believe that his verbal abuse is related to alcohol. He needs some serious treatment for his anger issues.
James truly gets away with everything. Schwartz and Sandoval literally lost their restaurant because of a cheating scandal but we’ve seen James be abusive towards all of his partners and nothing happens to him.
It depends on the DA. Usually though it’s not up to the victim as the charges come from the DA’s office. They probably felt that without the victim’s testimony, they don’t have much of a case. Who knows. IMO, they shouldn’t have dropped the charges.
I mean I’m not surprised on the charges and as I said in the last video good for Ally, James needs to work on himself, he should be nowhere near a relationship with anyone until he has been sober for sometime, it wouldn’t be fair to Ally to be stuck in that relationship, so I am glad she stuck to her guns
It’s so crazy to me; that in the US, it’s up to the victims to decide, if the perpetrator gets charged! In Canada 🇨🇦 THE POLICE decide, if and who gets charged. The police investigate, and prosecute the culprit, who often the victim, is too scared to charge. This way the victim is also not blamed for the charge. The police officers decide if someone is charged and with what. As it should be. Period.
I grew up with a abuser in my home my mother and who ever she was dating at the time and I married one he didn't start till I was 5 months prego and already married but I didn't stay right after my child was born I left but abuser never get shit ever I never seen anyone that abuses women ir kids or men let's be honest they get anger management and abuser don't have anger problems they have frfr problems anger management isn't fixing stalking or rage or crazy its sad suntik someone kid or mom or sister gets hurt I don't think the laws will b changed well inforced
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Speaking from experience it is extremely hard to go through pressing charges on a partner you once knew and loved. I think she did the right thing as far as breaking it off and getting away from this relationship. Although some don’t understand I do know she didn’t press charges due to the good that James has given her and her knowing he isn’t a horrible human being, she is giving him an opportunity to change.
Ally is a kind person. It's never wrong to take the high road. I'm not a huge fan of James - like I don't follow him. But I certainly don't wish bad things for him. I hope he is able to make changes and get his life sorted. I would definitely watch a show with Ally in the cast before I would watch something with James. Maybe I'm wrong but IMO his career choice is not exactly conducive to a sober lifestyle.
I find it interesting that some of you were relentless in your hatred of Sandoval. But it’s Crickets for someone who we all know is a batterer ALLEGEDLY😤🙄🤮😊
I’m glad Ally has moved on but I still feel sad for James. He grew up in mayhem and he needs some serious help. His mother had addiction issues and his father gives off a really bad vibe. James is a product of his upbringing and he will need a lot of help to reset his life choices
i know this isn’t related to the video, but i kept seeing people talk about the book Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane in the comments of so many videos. at first, i thought it was just hype, but i gave in and read it. honestly, it’s been a game-changer. it’s not just about “thinking positive”-it really breaks down how to align your energy with what you want in a way that feels real. seeing little shifts in my own life now, i can see why so many people swear by it.
Ally knew what she was getting herself into. Not saying she deserved it because no one deserves to be abused. However, you play with fire, you’re gonna get burned.
James chooses lovely women because he is kind and loving UNTIL he drinks! This is a problem for millions of people around the world! He never assaulted anyone as proof of no charges being filed!!! The facts are in and the drama is extinguished! Thank God!
i know this isn’t the place for it, but i kept seeing Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane mentioned over and over in comments, and curiosity finally got the better of me. i read the book, and honestly, it’s one of the most practical guides to understanding manifestation i’ve ever seen. it’s not about instant results, but you can feel the difference as you apply what it teaches. seeing how people respond to me now, i totally get why it’s all over the comments.
Charges were dropped n Ally said there was no contact!!!! This proves he was innocent! Ally has stated it was a shouting match!! Get your facts in order, this is someone’s life so don’t create conjecture!!!! There was no battery!
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GOOD FOR HER! Finally, a girl that has a backbone and will show James, through actions, that she won’t be a doormat. I wish her the absolute best and I hope James finally makes a definitive decision to make some changes that will ensure his sobriety.
Oh what a surprise! No charges!.....not much of a deterrent for him really, as usual. I really don't get why he's treated like a naughty kid...he's not 16 anymore, he's in his 30's!
Unfortunately this happens way too often. If the victim doesn’t pursue charges it often gets dropped
No proof equals no charges! Was he drunk, yes, was he angry, yes, did they fight, yes, did he assault her, NO!!! Facts!
@@janinepeabody1890Wrong. That's not at all how it works.
Wow…so you are ok with someone picking you up and throwing you to the ground? That’s just sad
Disgusting! This is why it goes on
The fact the court is deciding not to move forward with charges does not mean that James did not pick up and throw somebody to the ground. His attorney’s announcement is such a slap in the face for victims of DA. James could’ve taken this opportunity to hold
himself accountable and apologize to Ally but when Alex Baskin has allowed the boys (not men) of VPR to get away with everything but murder for so long it’s no shock why James wouldn’t feel the need to…Allegedly
From my experience with my ex, first offense is up to the victim. The second time, they didn't ask me. He was formally charged.
That's what I was wondering. Did he not get charged bc Ally didn't press charges? Probably wants to just forget him
Ally not choosing to cooperate with testimony or pressing charges ensures James will do this to other people until someone gets seriously hurt (as that’s the only way that’ll stop)
The fist time a partner puts their hands on you, you are a victim. Beyond that, you are a volunteer. NEVER, EVER give someone that second opportunity!
I'm shocked she isn't going to go back to him but extremely happy she isn't!
He’s not returning to the show , so why would she ??? I’m glad she’s done with the trash
Hope so. I (unfortunately) think in 3-6 Mon the she’ll take him back 🙃
This is a publicity written issuance by his PR person. Therefore, it has zero effect on how he’s perceived. He harangued Ally until she agreed to not press charges.
No charges? This guy will continue abusing women. So done. Foh James Kennedy.
Hey dopey dope, if he abused anyone there would have been charges against him! He was found innocent hence no assault or domestic violence, just a loud, drunken, shouting match!
It’s called Dry Drunk! They are worse than when drinking.
So just because he’s not having charges pressed doesn’t mean he didn’t do DV so u go rehab and that cancel your bad behaviour 🤔
In CA, it would not matter if Alley did not want to press charges because the DA makes the determination to prosecute regardless...if there was an injury and grounds to charge. Unfortunately, I have first-hand experience with this type of situation.
It's very difficult to adjudicate when the victim refuses to cooperate.
No judgment, but letting him off the hook isn't helpful to him in the long run. He's unlikely to experience a magic transformation without intensive treatment for his substance and MH issues, and he's unlikely to take the time to pursue intensive treatment because (as he has so many times previously) he'll want to get right back to his DJ gig and "get back out there and prove I've changed."
At least she separated from him.
Can’t he be let go? It’s repetitive behaviour that he never has to be accountable for. Well done to Ally, don’t look back young lady.
Time to grow up James.
As lovable and funny he’s been at times on VPR, I think he has some serious rage issues. Alcohol doesn’t turn a nice person into a monster, it brings out who you really are! I think James needs to remain single for a long time….
Wrong, in an alcoholic alcohol changes one’s entire personality! Substances never bring out who you really are as they alter your brain and emotional responses and decision making! The only thing that brings out who you truly are is sobriety!!!!
@ Ummm.. K. I’ve been in rehab twice in my life, but alright.. I never hurt anyone or said and did awful things. I was tired and not very productive for 6 years, but I was always me.
If you have it in you, you have it in you. James does and that is who he is, consistently.👎
@@janinepeabody1890 disagree, it does bring out who you are.
I’m happy she has left a toxic relationship, but not happy he is getting away with physical abuse yet again. Unless he keeps his sobriety he will continue to physically abuse a woman. I also don’t believe that his verbal abuse is related to alcohol. He needs some serious treatment for his anger issues.
No way, California not prosecuting? Weird.
It's common.
James truly gets away with everything. Schwartz and Sandoval literally lost their restaurant because of a cheating scandal but we’ve seen James be abusive towards all of his partners and nothing happens to him.
James is James own worse enemy . He has zero self awareness and will never take accountability for real . He’s 100% a lost cause
Just saying..James won't be single long..waa it 3 weeks between Rachel and Ally..James has a dependency issue with women also
It depends on the DA. Usually though it’s not up to the victim as the charges come from the DA’s office. They probably felt that without the victim’s testimony, they don’t have much of a case. Who knows. IMO, they shouldn’t have dropped the charges.
Sounds right. I agree. 💯 👍
They all scamper off to rehab when jail looms.
IDC
I mean I’m not surprised on the charges and as I said in the last video good for Ally, James needs to work on himself, he should be nowhere near a relationship with anyone until he has been sober for sometime, it wouldn’t be fair to Ally to be stuck in that relationship, so I am glad she stuck to her guns
It’s so crazy to me; that in the US, it’s up to the victims to decide, if the perpetrator gets charged! In Canada 🇨🇦 THE POLICE decide, if and who gets charged. The police investigate, and prosecute the culprit, who often the victim, is too scared to charge. This way the victim is also not blamed for the charge. The police officers decide if someone is charged and with what. As it should be. Period.
You should watch the news. Victims in other countries are blamed.
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James Kennedy almost had me!!!
Not me. No matter what he is a Dirtbag. 😒
Money talks hey ,probably convinced the other party not to pursue it. I hope she stays away from him !
I grew up with a abuser in my home my mother and who ever she was dating at the time and I married one he didn't start till I was 5 months prego and already married but I didn't stay right after my child was born I left but abuser never get shit ever I never seen anyone that abuses women ir kids or men let's be honest they get anger management and abuser don't have anger problems they have frfr problems anger management isn't fixing stalking or rage or crazy its sad suntik someone kid or mom or sister gets hurt I don't think the laws will b changed well inforced
Lovely kind sir Adam....i can't believe you can't cook...get microwave yummies... why did you walk not drive thru the snow...5 miles... sometimes walking thru the snow is very pretty and calming and QUIET ❤❤❤
IM from SD... hardly any snow this year just Hella 🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶🥶COLD
Speaking from experience it is extremely hard to go through pressing charges on a partner you once knew and loved. I think she did the right thing as far as breaking it off and getting away from this relationship. Although some don’t understand I do know she didn’t press charges due to the good that James has given her and her knowing he isn’t a horrible human being, she is giving him an opportunity to change.
James luck will run Out!!! 😡😡
Ally is a kind person. It's never wrong to take the high road. I'm not a huge fan of James - like I don't follow him. But I certainly don't wish bad things for him. I hope he is able to make changes and get his life sorted. I would definitely watch a show with Ally in the cast before I would watch something with James. Maybe I'm wrong but IMO his career choice is not exactly conducive to a sober lifestyle.
No your right.👍
I hope he gets 🤬😡😡 under control... maybe Lala and James can marry...that would be a show!!!!
That would be so toxic!! 🤪😵😵💫🥴
I find it interesting that some of you were relentless in your hatred of Sandoval. But it’s Crickets for someone who we all know is a batterer ALLEGEDLY😤🙄🤮😊
That's right! 👍 I get Sandoval. There's No Excuse for James.
Was James drinking that night?
Ally is such a sweetheart and smart beautiful girl ..
Well he's always on the pot....tee hee...so am I
Me too !! 😄❤️✔️🌿🌴🌲🤪😵😵💫🥴😊
Just because she didnt press charges . Doesnt nean the d.a. wont pick it up if they dont . Than there was no crime committed
It doesn't mean there was no crime.
@valsmith9133 well if there was a d.v. crime the d.a will pick it up
@@HARLEYKRS Not necessarily unfortunately. 🤷😔
Right... these really nice brunettes
I don't think Ally gives a crap about VPR...does she even get paid???
If your not a full cast member you get paid very little with no residuals
She did enjoy the lifestyle that she had with James for sure.
I’m glad Ally has moved on but I still feel sad for James. He grew up in mayhem and he needs some serious help. His mother had addiction issues and his father gives off a really bad vibe. James is a product of his upbringing and he will need a lot of help to reset his life choices
Alleys gone because show is kaput😅
i know this isn’t related to the video, but i kept seeing people talk about the book Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane in the comments of so many videos. at first, i thought it was just hype, but i gave in and read it. honestly, it’s been a game-changer. it’s not just about “thinking positive”-it really breaks down how to align your energy with what you want in a way that feels real. seeing little shifts in my own life now, i can see why so many people swear by it.
Ally knew what she was getting herself into. Not saying she deserved it because no one deserves to be abused. However, you play with fire, you’re gonna get burned.
James chooses lovely women because he is kind and loving UNTIL he drinks! This is a problem for millions of people around the world! He never assaulted anyone as proof of no charges being filed!!! The facts are in and the drama is extinguished! Thank God!
That's not how it works.🤷
i know this isn’t the place for it, but i kept seeing Vibrations of Manifestation by Alex Lane mentioned over and over in comments, and curiosity finally got the better of me. i read the book, and honestly, it’s one of the most practical guides to understanding manifestation i’ve ever seen. it’s not about instant results, but you can feel the difference as you apply what it teaches. seeing how people respond to me now, i totally get why it’s all over the comments.
Charges were dropped n Ally said there was no contact!!!! This proves he was innocent! Ally has stated it was a shouting match!! Get your facts in order, this is someone’s life so don’t create conjecture!!!! There was no battery!
Ally told the police that James threw her.