I think everyone judges others by their appearance to some extent, it's unavoidable and something we're programmed to do. I think the main implication with that saying is that you shouldn't act bad/shitty towards someone based on their appearance and your biases toward them, and that you should try to mitigate your biases a bit. For example, if you treat someone badly because you think they look like a "pedophile" that'd be kind of fucked up as you're harshly manifesting your prejudice toward that person for simply existing with the appearance they were born with and have no control over.
i love your videos because i can insert "ma'am this is a wendy's" at any point in said video and it'd make sense . i think it's because you're fully insane
It starts becoming a problem when you start projecting your inner biases onto people, instead of taking in the real data available. You might dislike how a pink hoodie looks on a dude and it'd be okay, the moment you start treating him based on how you feel towards him instead of what he deserves, you're being a problem
its clear how she filmed so many things in total different times and months apart but never wanted to edit them as their individual videos so she just added them all into this one and i love this lol. great 2am content XD
i clicked on this expecting a full-blown analysis about how one's appearance correlates with their personality but instead i got insanity in different unrelated segments.. *subscribes*
someone once told me that you shouldn't judge a book by its cover, but that the cover should give you a good idea of what the book wants to present itself as, which can be telling of what is inside. it doesn't translate very well with people because we don't always have control over how we look to others. that someone was me btw. i tell myself that.
Agree well put! ( unfortunately I judge and get pissed at people at work and feel a bit guilty but now I don't feel bad at all : When a woman puts her used pad on the bathroom bench and leaves it there then re-uses it ! I get SO pissed and disgusted and want the world to end and to be done with people
@@kuronblue I read your comment wrong the first time and thought you had half a face 😂🤦 but that would be interesting; I'd say don't give a damm about what people think ( cause we aren't the brightest) enjoy life and sing
people naturally judge others by their looks. it's kind of built in. what's important is to realize your assumptions are often incorrect, and to not let your biases affect how you treat people
@@FrNSICs so this is the norm ? Instead of physically and even aesthetically going to the gym u say ‘it’s conventionally attractive so I won’t improve myself’-🤓. Lemme guess ur type is a fat dream fan ?
“Don’t judge a book by its cover” has never made sense to me. I can just look at the cover, maybe read the blurb, if I don’t like it I put it back on the fucking shelf and leave it alone. Cuz who has time to read every book?!
I'm certain it's a metaphor but same... I've read about 65 books this year and every single one of their covers were judged by me, why else would they be there lmao
@@gaughrfield people forget that the cover is the first thing you see of a book, if the author doesn’t even try to make it pleasant to the eye, then why bother?
@@kaydollar2490 not trying to disagree or anything, but authors really have little to say on the cover art and stuff. theres a lot of controversy over that lol
I don't judge someone by their looks but I do keep it in the back of my head what kind of a person they look like. I just never will a 100% assume someone's personality or behavior just by their looks
from the eclectic story telling to the random stuff that appears in the background makes this so much better. the fact that you get a knife advert halfway through, and then Norman appears behind you when you sign off just add to the insanity. bro this shit wildin and I love it
I look like a creep so people treat me as such. It affected me negativity and messed up my self esteem.....but I got lucky. I know of dudes who were treated like a criminal their whole life and later became criminals. Some of these guys i knew are now serving time for serious crimes. It is better to get to know someone before you judge them.... Unless they are bronies. They are the lowest of the low.
You are treated like a creep because you are a young male with considerable muscles. Young males are automatically considered 'dangerous' regardless of whatever you do. Make sure not to show off your body and only wear long sleeved shirts or corporate wear. Office workers are automatically deemed not dangerous and productive members of society.
This is just sad in all aspects. Its you proclaiming you feel no remorse for judging physical appearance, not even just personal style but just every part of appearance seemingly and then the rest is just you being miserable, lonely, uninvited to friends events and homeschooled. Maybe im interpreting it all wrong but this feels a lot like people who say "people don't like me because I tell it how it is" or something akin to that.
also some of us born with the face we have and may be less beautiful than most doesn't mean we are a bad person , just bec a person is handsome don't mean he's a good person either i don't think you should trust people with your children just based on the person looks only it's different story if that's behavioral issues.
no matter how you look you are still special and dont let these stupid people get to you if anyone bullies you for your looks that person deserves to get punished to the point where they w i l l n e v e r f o r g e t t h e i r m i s t a k e its unfair to judge someone by their looks whether someone is ugly 0r beautiful doesnt determine who they are because everyone is a human if you have a good persnality then their is nothing you shoulc change about that because their is more important things than just looks looks are the least important thing when it comes to a person
Your appearance is only important when it says something about you. "Ugly" doesn't tell me if you're friendly or like sports or are good at drawing, those are things that are shown by your clothes or the way you do your hair or your posture or your facial expression. Your genetics don't define you as a person
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@@gadli3981 everyone judges everyone by how they look. Even if you think you don’t, it’s physically impossible to not do that, it’s literally part of our nature
@@Lunrbatzz I'll re write what i said. It is in our nature to frick everyone too and be (by today's standarts) incredibly vulgar, but do you see humans ramping the streets like dogs trying to frick every living thing? No. At least I hope you don't. Wearing clothes isn't in our nature, yet we do it? We have etiquette and culture that basically refuses us to show our true human-ish biology driven colours. We're not neanderthals. All it takes is a change in mindset, not biology, don't blame biology here.
beauty is subjective, everyone is beautiful imo, im not a fan of the way she worded her thoughts on that in this video. Just know youre probably a lot more beautiful than your mind wants you to believe. Lots of people feel like that and it's a shame. I struggle w it too even tho I'm a guy. Best thing for me was realizing how genuinely stupid some people are, it's helped me to value their opinions less.
I wonder if this channel was so popular if aisha’s face was more unique. I wonder if she would have developed the confidence to post nonchalant tangential rants that generalise and put down people based on random factors like identity and physical appearances if her face was more unique
@@ribbonsinmyheart as a white person who has nothing to do with colonialism, coming from a group of people with no civil rights until less than a hundred years ago, I find that "the occasional white people joke" is very unoriginal, not-based-at-all and actually kinda like bigotry dressed up in air jordans. Still, I wonder if having the privilege of conventional beauty allows people like aisha to get away with saying poor taste stuff like that
I'm sorry dood, hope that doesn't deter you from being social and making friends. Remember if the Thumb can get many ladies (big ed from 90 day fiancée), so can you, just build upon your confidence, little by little. Some advice I can offer is offering a nice compliment to yourself in the mirror every day.
Nahh u need JIM BRUHH but joke aside don't worry to much about things you have no control over rather than focus on areas you can work on and also after 30 this bitch will props make a video about why i couldn't find a long lasting relationship she is just a insane person ignore this video
It's okay to judge people by how they look, you can't help it, it's natural. But it's not okay to implement your inner judgments into your behavior towards that person when you don't even know them. Love you Aisha for saying what I was scared to say!
I'm over here looking at the posters just thinking "CULTURE!" Side note like 30 seconds later, two videos in one month is mf great, glad you're back whether it's for a bit or just in general, hope all is well.
she is literally the human form of the expression "you just said what we ALL been thinking but were too afraid to say it!" and that's a vibe i'm in love with
Not true. People become depressed & withdrawn because stereotypes like these meanwhile people like Ted Bundy are trusted because he didn’t look threatening.
This comment section just proves how toxic and insecure some people can be like I get it, though you may not like how somebody looks but that doesn’t mean you should treat them Indifferently than other people that’s why some of you guys have problems with everyone
when you asked what world tragedy did you fixate on as a child and I immediately answered 'titanic' followed by you bringing out that titanic book it brought a tear to my eye and I said out loud 'soulmates'. Yes, I had a titanic sinking poster on my ceiling to look up at before I went to bed yes I am in cognitive behavioural therapy this comment was a journey.
I'm 26 and the stuff with the marrying and pregnancy hits even harder when you live in your parents basement because a pandemic pairs up with another economic crash and everone else seems not to be affected by it.
'Don't judge a book by its cover' Simply means: Be an open minded person. someone that knows that sometimes a book's cover doesn't do justice to the story that it has inside. Also: For having preconceived opinions based ONLY on the cover of the book, ( which is really like 1% information about the whole book ) you are the one that is missing an opportunity to potentially read a fantastic story.
Okay, I hear you. BUT, and hear me out. This is the worst idiom ever. The whole POINT of a books cover is so that you can judge it at a glance and decide if you wanna read it or not. Like the message of the idiom makes sense and is nice but literally only doesn’t apply to books.
Sometimes its okay to judge a book by its cover. But when it comes to "Ew i dont want to be with them" or "They look snobby and annoying". I just say to not be like oh thats their personality because thats what they look like. I just want sterotyping to not exist. You never know what a person will be like untill you try to know. Most of the time you dont fully know a person cause you arent that person
@@ifisawyourreplyiwillanswerback If you judge someone based on their looks,the moment you see someone with a disabilitie like Stephen Hawking you'll judge their appearence. That's what he was saying.
@@kalimera3452 Worst way to do it. All it does is further solidify your insecurities lol But we all guilty. Best way to stop judgement all together is to become aware of when it is happening dont judge yourself for judging just observe whats occuring with no personal bias.
@anais rose absolutely, i have meet people that look and dress really let say humble but most of the time are really friendly, loyal, honest and people you can have great conversations. In the other side most people that are dressed in expensive clothes all the time are people you can't trust selfish, arrogant, dishonest and not worth your time.
@@coffee7180 But that's also a judgement based on looks. We can't escape it, human brains are made in a way to judge things by their looks so that we wouldn't die in ancient times
@@bruh-hr1mt no that's called experience, I am talking about my paste. If I meet someone I will not judge him/her by the look's but what they say and do.
@anais rose Well If you actually assume someone Is a pedophile by how they look you’re not at all the greatest person, I don’t mean joking about how they look like the stereotype I mean flat out assuming they are one
fine I'll get on that. because there's a difference between accepting that your brain is wired to judge people by their appearances but it's another to actively and intentionally do it
Ikr? It's always been hilarious to me that there are people who try to disprove metaphors that shouldn't apply 100% of the time, and yet are terribly proud of themselves =D
@@syressx9098 because it is a natural thing for us to judge people or everything. It is a trait that human species adopted because of natural selection and evolution.
well if someone is poor they can't always be fashionable and pretty so I think it's not very nice to do that but whatever people in this generation are judgemental for everything
I see the people in the comments are taking the metaphor from only one angle. A book can have a very appealing cover and still have a bad story. This is why the metaphor exists. Sure we all judge people based on how they look , even subconciously and thats fine.Its our nature. But what I understand from the metaphor is not everyone is what they seem but everyone deserves a chance. It doesn't have to be two chances. Just a chance
@@envylake2565 Yes and what's wrong with the guy she showed in the beginning of the video, I found nothing wrong, how can people judge others by just their appearance, thats totally wrong and it's the misuse of our brain
yes, but they said they just tend to think of peoples' personalities on the basis of their looks. this person never really specified if they actually treat those people how they think of them, just thoughts.
A month ago I had this certain book all around my newsfeed but I didn't pay much attention to it for a whole year due to it's wackadoo title and uninteresting "cover" until I finally ran out of books to read which forced me to give it a chance. Then BOOM! I completely fell inlove with the book! Couldn't believe how much I hated myself for not giving it a chance sooner, and then decided to never judge a book by it's cover ever again! It was honestly a beautiful feeling but not that most of you will care.
Anybody that doesn't know the difference between "adage" and "metaphor" would probably also be daft enough to judge people based on their appearance. No surprises here.
its genuinely not possible to do that ...social psychology talks a lot about how impressions are everything and they exist bc theyre such a helpful tool for our minds and theyre not a bad thing!!! even if they are bad lol
i'm like genuinely curious how some youtubers use their phones as mics for their videos. do they record the audio separately and link it up later? is it a special app that they use? and the audio is so clear too. amazing
I've been watching so many of these "thought dump" "video essay" videos, and this was the one that prompted me to record my own. Just finished recording it (will probably never post it, but it was fun). thanks for inspiring Aisha
Negativity is rampant …… sarcasm is the norm……. and society is all about making comments to provoke a reaction for the moment. Life lessons and observations from a self absorbed narcissist who has no life lessons to give.
There's a difference between "book" an inanimate thing used to provide us knowledge or entertainment and people who are not inanimate and aren't there to provide us entertainment. And then there's personification which makes an inanimate object relate to human lessons not to be taken literally. I hope you're educated enough to not judge a book by it's cover (aka human) because that's shitty
Everyone judges people man but we don't TREAT them differently! You aren't a bad person all bc of that bc i mean i judge people but i still treat everyone with respect yk???
damn this was perfect to watch when im upposed to be working and regularly zoning out then back in finding that we're on an entirely new subject i think i may gotta subscribe
I can't lie, I do that too just by looking at them I feel like I can tell a few things about them already so I technically due judge people by their looks😅 and yet I'm right most of the time
I mean we are both 19, and we would rather watch anime and use snapchat filters alone in our room, rather than try to be funny to school friends and fake people so we dont get annoyed by dumb group pressure. Dont deny it Aisha :)
Sometimes you gotta judge a book by its cover to keep safe. If I try to make a friend or buy from someone and they look off, you gotta judge em. Not judging a book by its cover is valid, but judging one is just as valid tbh.
Yesterday I realized "2 birds 1 stone" predicted the 11/9 terrorist attack, that's totally unrelated to the video I just wanted to say this because it's a metaphor
7:08 the pompeii eruption. i loved learning about how people got stuck in time in hardened ash, or simply evaporated from the heat, as well as all the excavation process. pompeii by bastille was the first song i ever learned by heart
how is it ok to assume a person is a p3do? ( i know u took a guy who was actually one, but that's still not ok to make such assumptions about people only based on their looks)
book covers with actual real people on them scare me
same plus book covers with the author on them. Idk why I just instantly lose all trust in whatever is in that book
Agreed
sameee
sameee bruhh
It's funny how someone always says exactly what you've been thinking. 😭
I think everyone judges others by their appearance to some extent, it's unavoidable and something we're programmed to do. I think the main implication with that saying is that you shouldn't act bad/shitty towards someone based on their appearance and your biases toward them, and that you should try to mitigate your biases a bit. For example, if you treat someone badly because you think they look like a "pedophile" that'd be kind of fucked up as you're harshly manifesting your prejudice toward that person for simply existing with the appearance they were born with and have no control over.
T H A N K Y O U
They have control over it tho
@@gooddogreallygooddog6157 if someone was born with an eye on the back of their head how will they fix it?
@@kuronblue He's talking about things like hairstyle, outfits, makeup, etc.
@@manamemajeff6283 oh oke
Love when the title of a video tells me exactly what I’m going to get
You look like my first gf. Que tengas un buen fin de semana, seas quien seas, saludos
@@VinylHead94 pls ??!!
Literally😭
@@VinylHead94 LMFAOO 💀
I'm guessing you're being sarcastic
"a 40 year old woman"
"smut from the 80s"
...aisha, i don't know how to say this but 40 year old women were born in 1981
Uh umm😶
I forget that it's 2020esh right now and just insert age with regards to 2010.
Preconceived ideas left in a corner to collect dust bunnies.
I never saw Aisha before this video and the 1st thing I thought when I saw her was, "She's bad at math."
@@palecap 🤣
i love your videos because i can insert "ma'am this is a wendy's" at any point in said video and it'd make sense . i think it's because you're fully insane
"I THINK IT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE FULLY INSANE"💀
"I THINK IT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE FULLY INSANE"💀
"I THINK IT'S BECAUSE YOU'RE FULLY INSANE" 💀
“I THINK IT’S BECAUSE YOU’RE FULLY INSANE” 💀
“I THINK IT’S BECAUSE YOU’RE FULLY INSANE” 💀
It starts becoming a problem when you start projecting your inner biases onto people, instead of taking in the real data available. You might dislike how a pink hoodie looks on a dude and it'd be okay, the moment you start treating him based on how you feel towards him instead of what he deserves, you're being a problem
Based
based
Based.
based and logicpilled.
based
its clear how she filmed so many things in total different times and months apart but never wanted to edit them as their individual videos so she just added them all into this one and i love this lol. great 2am content XD
ikr 😭😭
this is the first video i watched from her (besides the "draw me" skit), and it is easily the coziest video i've ever seen
@@itsano808 excuse me but uhhh wtf? Lol
@@itsano808 huh?-
@@itsano808 what
i clicked on this expecting a full-blown analysis about how one's appearance correlates with their personality but instead i got insanity in different unrelated segments.. *subscribes*
SAME
furry art portfolio, something about that sounds worrying
Hmmmm, amogus~
never thought i would hear this in my life but here i am questioning everything up until now
someone once told me that you shouldn't judge a book by its cover, but that the cover should give you a good idea of what the book wants to present itself as, which can be telling of what is inside. it doesn't translate very well with people because we don't always have control over how we look to others.
that someone was me btw. i tell myself that.
@Lilo if someone was born with half a face but can somehow live *how can they change that?*
@Lilo so going by your logic people should try to appeal to other people standarts?
@Lilo then for what reason should we control our looks?
Agree well put!
( unfortunately I judge and get pissed at people at work and feel a bit guilty but now I don't feel bad at all : When a woman puts her used pad on the bathroom bench and leaves it there then re-uses it !
I get SO pissed and disgusted and want the world to end and to be done with people
@@kuronblue I read your comment wrong the first time and thought you had half a face 😂🤦 but that would be interesting; I'd say don't give a damm about what people think ( cause we aren't the brightest) enjoy life and sing
this video felt like a facetime call
yeah, seriously. like your friend would randomly call you and just ramble
Which makes it SO much better!!!!
people naturally judge others by their looks. it's kind of built in. what's important is to realize your assumptions are often incorrect, and to not let your biases affect how you treat people
so well written
Precisely! 🥰
she’s really in tune with her inner outcast
Fr
THIS is why I'm scared of conventionally attractive people...
ifkr 😭
Cuz u aren’t and don’t have the courage to hit the gym and improve yourself ? No wonder
@@bobowiththedodo8155 going to the gym =/= being conventionally attractive, also incredibly weird comment
@@FrNSICs so this is the norm ? Instead of physically and even aesthetically going to the gym u say ‘it’s conventionally attractive so I won’t improve myself’-🤓. Lemme guess ur type is a fat dream fan ?
@@FrNSICs but he's right?
“Don’t judge a book by its cover” has never made sense to me. I can just look at the cover, maybe read the blurb, if I don’t like it I put it back on the fucking shelf and leave it alone. Cuz who has time to read every book?!
I'm certain it's a metaphor but same... I've read about 65 books this year and every single one of their covers were judged by me, why else would they be there lmao
@@gaughrfield people forget that the cover is the first thing you see of a book, if the author doesn’t even try to make it pleasant to the eye, then why bother?
Ive never read a good book with a bad cover tbh
@@kaydollar2490 not trying to disagree or anything, but authors really have little to say on the cover art and stuff. theres a lot of controversy over that lol
@@OddTillTheEnd same, but that's just because I never read books with bad covers...
"40 year old woman" "smut from the 80s because that's the last time they had a passionate night" 💀sis the timeline is kinda sus ngl
Oop-
the malala scene pleaseee
I AM BLESSED TO SEE YOU HERE
Gawd lauren how did the harry concert go
woah guys look!! its lauren :)
HELLO MOM
I don't judge someone by their looks but I do keep it in the back of my head what kind of a person they look like. I just never will a 100% assume someone's personality or behavior just by their looks
i respect people like you
@@kuronblue thanks
@@notcoolenoughforschool1825 u too
from the eclectic story telling to the random stuff that appears in the background makes this so much better. the fact that you get a knife advert halfway through, and then Norman appears behind you when you sign off just add to the insanity. bro this shit wildin and I love it
I didn't focus on reading your comment so I understood half of it buuut I'm gonna drop a like just to be the 600th person thank you
“But when the world needed the dislike counter the most, it disappeared.”
guess what
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Avatar: the last opinionbender
I don’t remember subscribing to you but I sure am grateful for it
Same lol
same lmao
oh she is the same girl who made the artists problem video, her most popular i think i subbed to her from that
@@movedchannels3680 same except I realized the video I subbed for was the zootopia one
@@toxicsugarart2103 NICK WILDE 👌👍👍
Past you doing you a favor
I look like a creep so people treat me as such. It affected me negativity and messed up my self esteem.....but I got lucky. I know of dudes who were treated like a criminal their whole life and later became criminals. Some of these guys i knew are now serving time for serious crimes. It is better to get to know someone before you judge them.... Unless they are bronies. They are the lowest of the low.
You know what first impression means? Yes thats it, people judge people that is how we socialize as humans.
@@ian3087 real
You are treated like a creep because you are a young male with considerable muscles. Young males are automatically considered 'dangerous' regardless of whatever you do. Make sure not to show off your body and only wear long sleeved shirts or corporate wear. Office workers are automatically deemed not dangerous and productive members of society.
@@syasyaishavingfun
Sad but true, insecurity and fear lead to judgement
@@syasyaishavingfun no dummy it's all about your face. good muscles and face look amazing
That You/Yandere Simulator section made everything make sense..
This is just sad in all aspects. Its you proclaiming you feel no remorse for judging physical appearance, not even just personal style but just every part of appearance seemingly and then the rest is just you being miserable, lonely, uninvited to friends events and homeschooled. Maybe im interpreting it all wrong but this feels a lot like people who say "people don't like me because I tell it how it is" or something akin to that.
also some of us born with the face we have and may be less beautiful than most doesn't mean we are a bad person , just bec a person is handsome don't mean he's a good person either i don't think you should trust people with your children just based on the person looks only it's different story if that's behavioral issues.
A truly happy person can be alone and still be happy but you know sad people who fully judge others by appearance are sad for a reason.
@@Vik1919 true these people are narcissistic
Yup people like that are usually miserable, petty, & jealous/envious of others who are just minding their own business.
not the artists fault if the furries pay the most money
@@vlals434 furry inflation porn is where the moneys at
@@vlals434 furries with fursuits are rich because that shit costs thousands of dollars
I hate how I can't see the dislike ratio
I’ll add furry artist to my list of potential work options. I do like money, so… 🤔
fair
Me too 😶🤚
As an anime NSFW artist of 3 years
Pros: money and a dedicated group of followers/fans
Cons: I've seen too much. I shall not elaborate further.
@@MKr-pf5ql oh where do you post your art, I'd love to support an artist who gets traumatized by their own work Lmao
Love the pfp
As an ugly person, wow i don't even deserve to live
You're beautiful
no matter how you look you are still special and dont let these stupid people get to you if anyone bullies you for your looks that person deserves to get punished to the point where they w i l l n e v e r f o r g e t t h e i r m i s t a k e
its unfair to judge someone by their looks whether someone is ugly 0r beautiful doesnt determine who they are because everyone is a human if you have a good persnality then their is nothing you shoulc change about that because their is more important things than just looks looks are the least important thing when it comes to a person
Your appearance is only important when it says something about you. "Ugly" doesn't tell me if you're friendly or like sports or are good at drawing, those are things that are shown by your clothes or the way you do your hair or your posture or your facial expression. Your genetics don't define you as a person
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Being ugly is not the problem, how you dress is. That shows your group affiliation.
my world tragedy i hyperfixated on as a child was the salem witch trials
you look like the kind of person to make this kind of video , honestly
Judging by the way you look, I would assume you're an author, love frogs and are very welcoming
"Very welcoming" as she says she judges people by how they look:)
@@gadli3981 everyone judges everyone by how they look. Even if you think you don’t, it’s physically impossible to not do that, it’s literally part of our nature
@@Lunrbatzz I'll re write what i said.
It is in our nature to frick everyone too and be (by today's standarts) incredibly vulgar, but do you see humans ramping the streets like dogs trying to frick every living thing? No. At least I hope you don't. Wearing clothes isn't in our nature, yet we do it? We have etiquette and culture that basically refuses us to show our true human-ish biology driven colours. We're not neanderthals. All it takes is a change in mindset, not biology, don't blame biology here.
@@gadli3981 well our mindsets are technically rooted in our biology
@@Lunrbatzz Well I don't think blind people do-
But aside from them, you're right
im a girl with a unique face that was just learning to feel pretty anyway and this just ruined it idk what reality is anymore thanks babe
beauty is subjective, everyone is beautiful imo, im not a fan of the way she worded her thoughts on that in this video. Just know youre probably a lot more beautiful than your mind wants you to believe. Lots of people feel like that and it's a shame. I struggle w it too even tho I'm a guy. Best thing for me was realizing how genuinely stupid some people are, it's helped me to value their opinions less.
Don't let other people tell you who you are. You are beautiful the way you are and no one can replicate who you are.
Screw the self-absorbed haters
I wonder if this channel was so popular if aisha’s face was more unique. I wonder if she would have developed the confidence to post nonchalant tangential rants that generalise and put down people based on random factors like identity and physical appearances if her face was more unique
@@johndory1446 She really doesn’t put people down besides the occasional “white people” joke
@@ribbonsinmyheart as a white person who has nothing to do with colonialism, coming from a group of people with no civil rights until less than a hundred years ago, I find that "the occasional white people joke" is very unoriginal, not-based-at-all and actually kinda like bigotry dressed up in air jordans. Still, I wonder if having the privilege of conventional beauty allows people like aisha to get away with saying poor taste stuff like that
saw a person with a "women fear me fish want me cap" and i felt safe, so like, yknow
I don't judge a book by its cover, I judge it based on the summary and first 20 chapters
Yup
Based.
Starts off by talking about judging people’s appearances and ends with talking about wanting to sink in the next titanic
I'm ugly & I hate myself so people probably judge me to be disgusting af which makes me sad to think about
Damn I need therapy or smth
Damn
I'm sorry dood, hope that doesn't deter you from being social and making friends. Remember if the Thumb can get many ladies (big ed from 90 day fiancée), so can you, just build upon your confidence, little by little. Some advice I can offer is offering a nice compliment to yourself in the mirror every day.
@@Duhgel Aw thanks dude
Don't listen to this Walmart looking vecna with black hair, you're good the way you are.
Nahh u need JIM BRUHH but joke aside don't worry to much about things you have no control over rather than focus on areas you can work on and also after 30 this bitch will props make a video about why i couldn't find a long lasting relationship she is just a insane person ignore this video
The insult "child" is nothing to me.
Will be my new mantra
It's okay to judge people by how they look, you can't help it, it's natural. But it's not okay to implement your inner judgments into your behavior towards that person when you don't even know them. Love you Aisha for saying what I was scared to say!
I'm over here looking at the posters just thinking "CULTURE!"
Side note like 30 seconds later, two videos in one month is mf great, glad you're back whether it's for a bit or just in general, hope all is well.
I'm not sure how I feel about this video, let's just hope you don't harass ppl just cus of how they look without doing anything suspicious/dangerous
your personality is that of a very good friend that will call you out of nowhere at like 11 pm and i enjoy it very much
she is literally the human form of the expression "you just said what we ALL been thinking but were too afraid to say it!" and that's a vibe i'm in love with
Exactly. Sure its terrible, but this is how people thinks.
Including her tangent about furry art? 😭
Not true. People become depressed & withdrawn because stereotypes like these meanwhile people like Ted Bundy are trusted because he didn’t look threatening.
Wow yeah I definitely wanna treat people bad by the way they look!
Girl who is we💀👀 speak for yourself
I like how you said that you'd get off the ship to tell the story and not because you don't want to die for a hunk of metal
This comment section just proves how toxic and insecure some people can be like I get it, though you may not like how somebody looks but that doesn’t mean you should treat them Indifferently than other people that’s why some of you guys have problems with everyone
its always a good hoot to watch your videos of any kind, especially that one abt not being a furry if I found nick wilde weirdly charming
a good hoot 🦉
I never knew aliens like you can judge other people
You seem bothered
@@sea_bunnie243 and you seem obsessed lol
Woah you are so unique you judge people by looks i thought no person on earth do that lol.
You seem upset
when you asked what world tragedy did you fixate on as a child and I immediately answered 'titanic' followed by you bringing out that titanic book it brought a tear to my eye and I said out loud 'soulmates'. Yes, I had a titanic sinking poster on my ceiling to look up at before I went to bed yes I am in cognitive behavioural therapy this comment was a journey.
I'm 26 and the stuff with the marrying and pregnancy hits even harder when you live in your parents basement because a pandemic pairs up with another economic crash and everone else seems not to be affected by it.
also Malala is now married
7:50 aged like fine wine.
that's exactly what I came back here for😭
Steven silently agreeing with Aisha in the background
'Don't judge a book by its cover' Simply means: Be an open minded person. someone that knows that sometimes a book's cover doesn't do justice to the story that it has inside.
Also: For having preconceived opinions based ONLY on the cover of the book, ( which is really like 1% information about the whole book ) you are the one that is missing an opportunity to potentially read a fantastic story.
Okay, I hear you. BUT, and hear me out. This is the worst idiom ever. The whole POINT of a books cover is so that you can judge it at a glance and decide if you wanna read it or not. Like the message of the idiom makes sense and is nice but literally only doesn’t apply to books.
thanks, I'll keep this in mind the next time I'm shopping for books !
Sometimes its okay to judge a book by its cover. But when it comes to "Ew i dont want to be with them" or "They look snobby and annoying". I just say to not be like oh thats their personality because thats what they look like. I just want sterotyping to not exist. You never know what a person will be like untill you try to know. Most of the time you dont fully know a person cause you arent that person
"Imagine how the children feel" 💀💀
She's so right, let's judge people by their color next 😍
got under your skin real good huh
🥶🥶
@@sea_bunnie243 Cannot accept criticism (in the form of sarcasm) huh
This whole video has “stranger coming up to you at a bus stop” vibes
Alright but maybe don’t judge people with physical disabilities
Most people don't care at all about anyone with physical deformities, they become 'invisible' in the first place.
She didn’t say anything about disability tho.
@@ifisawyourreplyiwillanswerback If you judge someone based on their looks,the moment you see someone with a disabilitie like Stephen Hawking you'll judge their appearence. That's what he was saying.
all judgement stems from our own insecurities lol
Agree
@@theforcelockgamer2972 its always the peope who judge the most that are really hurt from what I can see.
As an overly judgemental and paranoid person, yes, accurate
@@spintillimdizzy2340 Yep, we’re just trying to protect ourselves lol.
@@kalimera3452 Worst way to do it. All it does is further solidify your insecurities lol But we all guilty. Best way to stop judgement all together is to become aware of when it is happening dont judge yourself for judging just observe whats occuring with no personal bias.
At least you're open about being a terrible person. That's respectable.
@anais rose absolutely, i have meet people that look and dress really let say humble but most of the time are really friendly, loyal, honest and people you can have great conversations.
In the other side most people that are dressed in expensive clothes all the time are people you can't trust selfish, arrogant, dishonest and not worth your time.
@@coffee7180 But that's also a judgement based on looks. We can't escape it, human brains are made in a way to judge things by their looks so that we wouldn't die in ancient times
@@bruh-hr1mt no that's called experience, I am talking about my paste. If I meet someone I will not judge him/her by the look's but what they say and do.
@anais rose Well If you actually assume someone Is a pedophile by how they look you’re not at all the greatest person, I don’t mean joking about how they look like the stereotype I mean flat out assuming they are one
@anais rose jokes are supposed to be funny
fine I'll get on that. because there's a difference between accepting that your brain is wired to judge people by their appearances but it's another to actively and intentionally do it
This is the most honesty i've seen in a while. Good job.
Bold words coming from someone whose eyes live in different zip codes
if you have to actually deconstruct why a metaphor isn't literal for 10 minutes you are the problem
Ikr? It's always been hilarious to me that there are people who try to disprove metaphors that shouldn't apply 100% of the time, and yet are terribly proud of themselves =D
@@syressx9098 because it is a natural thing for us to judge people or everything. It is a trait that human species adopted because of natural selection and evolution.
Me: Wow, you seem really toxic!
Me: *notices the Steven Universe poster*
Me: Well, that checks out.
well if someone is poor they can't always be fashionable and pretty so I think it's not very nice to do that but whatever people in this generation are judgemental for everything
I see the people in the comments are taking the metaphor from only one angle. A book can have a very appealing cover and still have a bad story. This is why the metaphor exists. Sure we all judge people based on how they look , even subconciously and thats fine.Its our nature. But what I understand from the metaphor is not everyone is what they seem but everyone deserves a chance. It doesn't have to be two chances. Just a chance
You can tell a lot about someone just by their grooming standards and fashion.
@@Phantom-kc9ly You mean by your grooming standards and fashion sense
haha but irony is that the author spends their whole time writing rather than worrying about the book cover
Exactly. These people are too shallow to see the book's worth on mere cover for 5 seconds
@@envylake2565 Yes and what's wrong with the guy she showed in the beginning of the video, I found nothing wrong, how can people judge others by just their appearance, thats totally wrong and it's the misuse of our brain
I'm sure we all judge people to some extent by their appearance. Though I don't use that as an indicator of their personality.
Looks doesn't have anything to do with people's personalities. You can't justify treating someone badly just cause they don't look good.
yes, but they said they just tend to think of peoples' personalities on the basis of their looks. this person never really specified if they actually treat those people how they think of them, just thoughts.
A month ago I had this certain book all around my newsfeed but I didn't pay much attention to it for a whole year due to it's wackadoo title and uninteresting "cover" until I finally ran out of books to read which forced me to give it a chance. Then BOOM! I completely fell inlove with the book! Couldn't believe how much I hated myself for not giving it a chance sooner, and then decided to never judge a book by it's cover ever again! It was honestly a beautiful feeling but not that most of you will care.
Something about you is really inspiring, but I don’t really know what
Anybody that doesn't know the difference between "adage" and "metaphor" would probably also be daft enough to judge people based on their appearance. No surprises here.
You seem upset
I was against judging people by how they look, but my life experience proves me wrong over and over again
Ngl you're giving off "I'm into astrology" vibes
Yep, usually there’s a pattern that emerges once you’ve interacted with people for a certain amount of years lol.
its genuinely not possible to do that ...social psychology talks a lot about how impressions are everything and they exist bc theyre such a helpful tool for our minds and theyre not a bad thing!!! even if they are bad lol
i'm like genuinely curious how some youtubers use their phones as mics for their videos. do they record the audio separately and link it up later? is it a special app that they use? and the audio is so clear too. amazing
i tried it multiple times now so definitely record the audio separately then link it up later
You clap so you can sync the audio with the video, that's what those movie clap things are for.
@@ramennnoodle you just blew my mind and i thank you for that
@selenite. You line up the visual clap with the audio clap and the rest of the footage is synced, pretty simple stuff
what’s the app called
That's a lot coming from a person who looks like dipper from gravity falls with premature growth.
I've been watching so many of these "thought dump" "video essay" videos, and this was the one that prompted me to record my own. Just finished recording it (will probably never post it, but it was fun). thanks for inspiring Aisha
pls post the video im really interested ngl
"Dont judge a book by it's cover" ...as a cover illustrator that makes me sad ;-;;
Negativity is rampant …… sarcasm is the norm……. and society is all about making comments to provoke a reaction for the moment. Life lessons and observations from a self absorbed narcissist who has no life lessons to give.
"The society"
"Don't judge a book by it's cover" So... Why do they put covers on books in first place? 😂😂😂
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Because we subconciously judge everything. So why not exploit it.
There's a difference between "book" an inanimate thing used to provide us knowledge or entertainment and people who are not inanimate and aren't there to provide us entertainment. And then there's personification which makes an inanimate object relate to human lessons not to be taken literally. I hope you're educated enough to not judge a book by it's cover (aka human) because that's shitty
Everyone judges people man but we don't TREAT them differently! You aren't a bad person all bc of that bc i mean i judge people but i still treat everyone with respect yk???
I already know the type of audio quality im getting into
damn this was perfect to watch when im upposed to be working and regularly zoning out then back in finding that we're on an entirely new subject i think i may gotta subscribe
this video broke my brain and I LOVED IT 😩
ok Steven universe canvas in the background
I can't lie, I do that too just by looking at them I feel like I can tell a few things about them already so I technically due judge people by their looks😅 and yet I'm right most of the time
ofc u judge ppl by looks u have the privilege by being attractive
they aren't attractive at all 💀
She isn't lmao
@@uaerndjd4244 because it is a natural trait of humans. You need to accept that lmao. You juys are crybabies
@@ian3087 why uaerndjd's comment hurt u sm, u have a crush on the girl or something? 💀
@@uaerndjd4244 nah she’s pretty cute.
I mean we are both 19, and we would rather watch anime and use snapchat filters alone in our room, rather than try to be funny to school friends and fake people so we dont get annoyed by dumb group pressure. Dont deny it Aisha :)
this might be the best video ive seen on the internet, the un-format of this format is so cool. subscribed.
Sometimes you gotta judge a book by its cover to keep safe. If I try to make a friend or buy from someone and they look off, you gotta judge em. Not judging a book by its cover is valid, but judging one is just as valid tbh.
Good for her . She's hilarious . She's not staying herself . She's yearning for superiority.
Yesterday I realized "2 birds 1 stone" predicted the 11/9 terrorist attack, that's totally unrelated to the video I just wanted to say this because it's a metaphor
I feel like we're on facetime and I'm the friend who just likes to listen to their friend talk about the most random things
7:08 the pompeii eruption. i loved learning about how people got stuck in time in hardened ash, or simply evaporated from the heat, as well as all the excavation process. pompeii by bastille was the first song i ever learned by heart
The world tragedy I was fascinated by was the Japanese earthquake of 2011.
judging tf out of you for having that stuff on your wall lol
ya promised neverland is sick af!! she's cool!!
how is it ok to assume a person is a p3do? ( i know u took a guy who was actually one, but that's still not ok to make such assumptions about people only based on their looks)
she's just thinking out loud.
Better safe than sorry, assume everyone is a pedo
@@DragonRider-cx7br lol
@@DragonRider-cx7br bro 😭
@@DragonRider-cx7br assuming based on looks is still an unhealthy thing to do
This is so disorganized yet organized at the same time
"Here's my impression of what i think the college board reaction was when they received malala's college essay"
*Exploding burger ad plays*
Huge homeschooled as a kid energy in this one