I think when people were saying at least you have a home,it was not to invalidate your feelings but rather to make you see and focus on what you have rather than what you lost. Your feelings are valid always. Just also look at the other very big side, having a supportive mom and community is soo significant that most take it for granted .it isn’t even about the home. I lost my mom 2020 and someone said at least you have two amazing mother in laws who love you so much. At first felt I’m being invalidated but once I focused on what I had..an amazing community of not just my MILs but friends and sisters…it got me through the dark time. My community carried me through, when I got my first child, when I couldn’t cope …they showed up. I’m grateful for you for the community of people you have around you, focus on that and it will carry you through.
One thing about aus'Mandy, your children can never be in therapy because of you. When I say I'm a mother 1st, women will judge, but YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION. I hate the word sacrifice. To me, it means permanent loss of whatever you have to give up. This is a season, I love what you're documenting for these girls. Abundance to you and yours❤❤❤❤❤
Mandy , I don’t know your plans!! But I have been thinking about your move and I thought maybe Wawa has indirectly assisted you into your ultimate plan .. From your mother’s house you will be going to your house that you have in your vision board..
Tell me why I had tears in my eyes when you guys were hugging each other.... I pray that God blesses you abundantly for all the sacrifices you are making for your kids, I love you Amanda
It even shows just how much she still needs and loves her mum despite everything else. Hang in there Mandy. Sorry to jump onto your comment it said everything I wanted to say
Even in the most uncomfortable of season's mommy, count your blessings. Like you, i had to move back home this year. Backstory, got divorced by my husband of 6 years 2023 august, i have a 6 year old autistic son who has autism and i am currently unemployed. My mom agreed that i should move home, when the time came, i moved 1st and my belongings came 3 days after. When the truck was on its way, she told me my son and i couldnt live there anymore after she discussed it with my brother,mind you she lives alone and there are 2 houses in the yard, 1 is empty. I was gutted but im holding in there hustling for shelter daily. I dont think our relationship will ever be the same❤️
Mandy it was a good move dear change is good sometimes thou its hard ,,,,you did that ritual for ancestors,,and so many things happened after that ,yibo abathi go back home they can see ngaphambili la singaboni khona ,and dnt forget God ,,uyasihola ,asivikele , just go with the flow dear kuningi okuhle okuzayo ,, anyway love your family,umama wenu uhamba phambili kumnandi ukumbona God bless all of you🥰🙏💕💕💕💕💕
Wawa is so happy and she look so beautiful wow the glow in her skin says it all THANK YOU FOR THE VLOG MOMMY LOVE YOU SO MUCH WISH YOU ALL THE BEST IN YOUR NEW JOURNEY MAY GOD BLESS YOU SENDING LOTS OF KISSES AND WARM HUGS
One thing about your vlogs they will wet🥹 my eyes, the way I am so hug hungry 😢 I can't even remember the last hug I got...😭 But I'm so happy to see the eldest so happy 💐❣️
I am glad you went back home and are back with your child. Siblings should not be separated as their bond is very important and will be able to tackle the world with each other when you're no longer able to for them. It is also important to maintain a bond with your child so that one day they will take care of you. So no matter how tough it gets maintain those relationships. Those absentee fathers don't know what they're missing.
You are an inspiration to many. Yes, it's not how you imagined your journey, although we are here cheering you for making a boss move. You considered the future and knew you would struggle. Proud of you mommy!
It's true am one of the people that got hope and courage and picked my self up because of you manda God bless you my favorite am putting my country namibia 🇳🇦 on the map to be specific my home town omuthiya us from the village we are up dated with your Chanel
😀 😀 You like making us cry don't you Mandy😭😭oh did Alwande not make me cry when she showed how happy she was to see you and Milani.. Omw Mandy.. Listen, you're winning as a single Mama, we see you❤️❤️
Sana watching this vlog Nkosiyam ❤ The way you looked at Alwande while you guys sat in bed and catching up, that warmed heart and made miss my late son a lot. You are doing a great job girl❤❤
You might feel down and out mama but you know what ur the most blessed girl I know ur family system and you also have a home to go home to some of us whn the life gets tougher there is nothing we can do we 🏊♀️
Your feelings are definitely validated, I was literally sobbing watching your previous vlog. You and the kids are in my prayers 🙏. One thing you must always remember Manda, is that you are the best mom to your kids,they are blessed to have you as their mom. ❤
Missed Wawa so much. She's such h a beautiful young lady. May this season of your life treat you with kindness Mandy. You and the babies will be just fine ❤️❤️
The is nothing beautiful to be around the people that love care and will always celebrate you its a blessing to see families together and a blessing from God
Hey Amanda, love love your chanel❤... thank you for this beautiful vlog❤ I noticed that on your most recent vlog, someone from the States said they're watching your Chanel, so this is a suggestion - maybe on the parts where you speak isiZulu ufake subtitles❤ Continue with this amazing work. I love you so much ❤
I was just happy to see you have uploaded, I wasn’t ready for the tears in the beginning… I got so emotional. You know what, all this is God’s plan, allow him to order your steps🙏🏽
Am sorry you going through this, Sending love and hugs ❤ Your feelings are valid, you the only one who knows how you feel God guide your path and therapy will help you get through this From the comments section I noted so many ladies are going through this, wishing everybody healing and new beginnings 💕💕 Love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Wawa is so beautiful ❤. This is me watching ads for this channel as someone who is used to skipping ❤. I love you Mandy, one day you will look back and be happy that you chose your babies. Love your vulnerability, that shows our human side. Be strong and be courageous, hugs sis
Watching you move and all gives me courage. I'm in a strange place after being in a dark place for so long I've been having this edge to Volg but ke never get to doing it because naturally I start things and not finish and I don't want that to be the case when I decide to start. Will keep you in my prayers and all the best in the next steps of your life ❤ PS don't know why I shared this, but it is what it is, lol
8 minutes into the vlog and I been crying since the benninging 😢 First it was those hugs Wawa was delivering upon seeing y'all... now it's you doing her hair... it's giving "mama is home, I'll take care of you" ugh, I'm crying again writing this... coz I see love more than anything ❤❤
Mommy. I have watched the previous vlog and I must say I am in a better place knowing that we are a community of moms who are just figuring this parenting thing out. I myself had to pack my bags and my kids from Jhb to Plk and being close to family because emotionally I was not coping being away from home and sometimes not even having money to even come home while in Jhb with two kids. ❤❤❤We love and we are draw so much inspiration from you. Stay blessed and keep going.
Not me watching a whole 3min ad...this is my end of being a silent follower and guys please subscribe and don't skip the ads for our good sis Mandy
I agree with you❤
I don't skip ads for Mandy❤
Thank you for this comment because I am within ads and all❤
💯
mine is 25 min😅
I think when people were saying at least you have a home,it was not to invalidate your feelings but rather to make you see and focus on what you have rather than what you lost. Your feelings are valid always. Just also look at the other very big side, having a supportive mom and community is soo significant that most take it for granted .it isn’t even about the home. I lost my mom 2020 and someone said at least you have two amazing mother in laws who love you so much. At first felt I’m being invalidated but once I focused on what I had..an amazing community of not just my MILs but friends and sisters…it got me through the dark time. My community carried me through, when I got my first child, when I couldn’t cope …they showed up. I’m grateful for you for the community of people you have around you, focus on that and it will carry you through.
One thing about aus'Mandy, your children can never be in therapy because of you. When I say I'm a mother 1st, women will judge, but YOU ARE AN INSPIRATION.
I hate the word sacrifice. To me, it means permanent loss of whatever you have to give up. This is a season, I love what you're documenting for these girls. Abundance to you and yours❤❤❤❤❤
Wawa's hair and skin are doing the most ❤
Mandy , I don’t know your plans!! But I have been thinking about your move and I thought maybe Wawa has indirectly assisted you into your ultimate plan .. From your mother’s house you will be going to your house that you have in your vision board..
Phakathi inside. Let's get mama to a 100k by the end of the year❤
Ukhulumile sis wam .
And let's not forget to watch those ad's , that dream house needs to be bought as soon as mid next year please !
Alwande's skin and hair ?😍
Tell me why I had tears in my eyes when you guys were hugging each other.... I pray that God blesses you abundantly for all the sacrifices you are making for your kids, I love you Amanda
I stumbled upon your channel...i cannot stop watching your videos....to new beginnings...love from Kenya
Fellow Kenyan here
Wow that hug from Alwande had me chopping onions 😢
It even shows just how much she still needs and loves her mum despite everything else. Hang in there Mandy. Sorry to jump onto your comment it said everything I wanted to say
I know going back must have been difficult but seeing y’all together man, heart warming 🥹😍♥️
We here🎉❤
Wawa looks so beautiful tlhe😊🤭
Even in the most uncomfortable of season's mommy, count your blessings. Like you, i had to move back home this year. Backstory, got divorced by my husband of 6 years 2023 august, i have a 6 year old autistic son who has autism and i am currently unemployed. My mom agreed that i should move home, when the time came, i moved 1st and my belongings came 3 days after. When the truck was on its way, she told me my son and i couldnt live there anymore after she discussed it with my brother,mind you she lives alone and there are 2 houses in the yard, 1 is empty. I was gutted but im holding in there hustling for shelter daily. I dont think our relationship will ever be the same❤️
Am so sorry but God is in control trust him he said during our trials and tributes let us trust him
I am so sorry. I hope everything goes well for you
😢😢 ohh my goodness💔
Mandy it was a good move dear change is good sometimes thou its hard ,,,,you did that ritual for ancestors,,and so many things happened after that ,yibo abathi go back home they can see ngaphambili la singaboni khona ,and dnt forget God ,,uyasihola ,asivikele , just go with the flow dear kuningi okuhle okuzayo ,, anyway love your family,umama wenu uhamba phambili kumnandi ukumbona God bless all of you🥰🙏💕💕💕💕💕
Wawa's skin 🥰🥰😍. To more beautiful KZN vlogs. I personally can't wait
Alwande"s skin 😍😍😍😍😍
Wawa is so happy and she look so beautiful wow the glow in her skin says it all THANK YOU FOR THE VLOG MOMMY LOVE YOU SO MUCH WISH YOU ALL THE BEST IN YOUR NEW JOURNEY MAY GOD BLESS YOU SENDING LOTS OF KISSES AND WARM HUGS
Wawa looks so good and happy to see you guys. I hope this new journey heals all of you.
You are a great mom Mandy never forget that.❤❤
One thing about your vlogs they will wet🥹 my eyes, the way I am so hug hungry 😢 I can't even remember the last hug I got...😭 But I'm so happy to see the eldest so happy 💐❣️
Am sad, you got this mandy don't be to hard on yourself, ❤❤❤
So happy to see you with both of your girls, I got so emotional ❤Wishing you a beautiful new journey ahead 💕 You got this mommy.
Am I not chopping onions when Alwande gave you that hug🥺😭 nam I just wish things could be okay between me and my mom ❤❤❤❤ I love you sis
I love that you speak and trust in God.He will never let you down ,he is a good listener
You deserve the best Mum award 🎉and Alwande's skin is skinning 😍
A mother’s love ❤ I have so much respect for you Mandy
We are happy if you arrived safely at home ❤❤❤ ND stay blessed ❤❤❤ Botswana 🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼🇧🇼
All those hugs 🫂 going on there 🥹y’all trying to make me cry 😍
I am glad you went back home and are back with your child. Siblings should not be separated as their bond is very important and will be able to tackle the world with each other when you're no longer able to for them. It is also important to maintain a bond with your child so that one day they will take care of you. So no matter how tough it gets maintain those relationships. Those absentee fathers don't know what they're missing.
Yhoooo I cried when I saw how happy Alwande was to see you guys tle.
She is happy to be home mamma and you will bounce back love
We with you
Wawa's skin🔥🔥,she looks amazing
Noma looks just like your mum🥰🥰🥰🥰
God will be there for you at all times do not worry ngizokuthandazela ngizokubeka emkhulekweni ngasosonke isikhathi
You are an inspiration to many. Yes, it's not how you imagined your journey, although we are here cheering you for making a boss move. You considered the future and knew you would struggle. Proud of you mommy!
Lots of love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Amanda,God will surely bless you more. You helped a lot of us heal from a lot and we are forever grateful to you❤❤❤❤❤
It's true am one of the people that got hope and courage and picked my self up because of you manda God bless you my favorite am putting my country namibia 🇳🇦 on the map to be specific my home town omuthiya us from the village we are up dated with your Chanel
😀 😀 You like making us cry don't you Mandy😭😭oh did Alwande not make me cry when she showed how happy she was to see you and Milani.. Omw Mandy.. Listen, you're winning as a single Mama, we see you❤️❤️
Sana watching this vlog Nkosiyam ❤ The way you looked at Alwande while you guys sat in bed and catching up, that warmed heart and made miss my late son a lot. You are doing a great job girl❤❤
The best mum ❤❤❤❤ one day you will get your flowers from the girls cause they will see that you are great mum❤
Thank you love 🥹🥹
Amanda,you will be fine, everything will work out for you and your babies❤❤❤. God always has YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.
Home sweet home so happy for u n ur babies God is always good put ur trust in him❤❤❤
To us who click " Like"👍 before watching 🍾🥂. 😊
To us
You might feel down and out mama but you know what ur the most blessed girl I know ur family system and you also have a home to go home to some of us whn the life gets tougher there is nothing we can do we 🏊♀️
Wawa laze lakuthanda iTheku girl waze wamuhle izinwele 😊
Ngaze ngajabulo mangikubona uNokwe so genuine person I love her
The warm embrace when Wawa came back from school, my little heart 😍😍😍
Alwande gives such wholesome hugs bakithi, I can feel it from across the screen.
Hi Mandi so happy for you I love you I met Noma in Polokwane just yesterday on Saturday I wish you all the best God is good 😍❤😘
Yes Mommy welcome
And we're forever watching Ads ❤
I love how Wawa' s face lights up when she sees you guys. Love you mommy and the kids, kuzoba right 🤞
OMG the way i missed this,found myself watching the old segments.Good to see you mommy.
Happy to see Wawa so happy and here's your💋💋❤️❤️❤️
Your feelings are definitely validated, I was literally sobbing watching your previous vlog. You and the kids are in my prayers 🙏.
One thing you must always remember Manda, is that you are the best mom to your kids,they are blessed to have you as their mom. ❤
Oh my gosh those hugs I felt them❤❤❤love love over flows Kwa Ndlangisa despite all you're going through ❤I love love that for you
Oh man so good to see Wawa 🥹❤️❤️ you’ve got this momma ❤️
May the Lord continue blessing you though it all cc
Alwande is such a beauty ❤ thanks for the vlog❤🎉
U really have a beautiful family..
Yall's skin !??? 😭😭🔥🔥🔥 Gorgeous. Please plug with your skincare routine ma❤
I don't normal comment bt mi heart melted when i see Mils with her sister nd when she hugs you oh mi God 😢😢❤
Not me crying.Mandy you give me hope❤❤
I cried so much. ❤️🫂
Missed Wawa so much. She's such h a beautiful young lady. May this season of your life treat you with kindness Mandy. You and the babies will be just fine ❤️❤️
Nokwe ung'qokela kahle sis; you look amazing all the time 🔥💯😍
Oh,Mandy. Keep up the spirit, mama. It will all be well in time.
The is nothing beautiful to be around the people that love care and will always celebrate you its a blessing to see families together and a blessing from God
A blessing indeed!♥️
That hugs and smile on ur daughters is so priceless... Beautiful mommy
Hey Amanda, love love your chanel❤... thank you for this beautiful vlog❤
I noticed that on your most recent vlog, someone from the States said they're watching your Chanel, so this is a suggestion - maybe on the parts where you speak isiZulu ufake subtitles❤
Continue with this amazing work. I love you so much ❤
Oh Mandy the love you have for your babies🥹love to see you embrace this change. May God be with you through it all❤
Oh ntombi am so proud being a mom of 3 girls i know jus how much assistance u need home is good any given season
Angi Thandi indaba but I had to search this milanis birthday vlog to get to see her Dad,I'm catching up ddnt know he's co-parenting wow
I was just happy to see you have uploaded, I wasn’t ready for the tears in the beginning… I got so emotional. You know what, all this is God’s plan, allow him to order your steps🙏🏽
Am sorry you going through this, Sending love and hugs ❤
Your feelings are valid, you the only one who knows how you feel
God guide your path and therapy will help you get through this
From the comments section I noted so many ladies are going through this, wishing everybody healing and new beginnings 💕💕
Love from Kenya 🇰🇪
Alwande's skin is skinning ❤❤ As for you Mandy you are the best mother❤🙏
I love this family so much 100k let’s go ❤❤❤
Both your babies have your beautiful eyes❤
Yay Nokwe🌸 with her contagious smile ❤️
Side note your body!!!! 🧑🍳😘
I can wake to this everyday sea breeze ❤❤❤❤
Why am I bawling 2 minutes in 😢😢😢 ooh man ❤
Wawa is very cute, iyamthanda iTheku ke sana! Umpuluswa maan!
Mandy, have you shared this potato bake recipe somewhere? Please share, I would love to try it out.
Yeses Wawa is extremely beautiful arhg man😢❤her hair?? Chile stop cappin!! ❤️💐💐🤗
Akasumuhle Lwaa❤
6:34 ooh how I wish I can do my daughter's hair nami nkosyam cz wow R200 hairstyle only last a week 😢
Sweet to you and daughters to gather miss her she is so adorable family vibe ❤️ 💕 💖
😂😂😂 Potato Bake❤❤ Your feelings are Valid Amanda!
😂😂😂😂 saw notification on fb the way I was rushing out of fb inene😂😂😂😂😂😂I'm now here
Your body transformation is happening right before our eyes ntombi and I'm here for it. Thank you for the vlog. Let's watch now ❤
Wawa is so beautiful ❤. This is me watching ads for this channel as someone who is used to skipping ❤. I love you Mandy, one day you will look back and be happy that you chose your babies. Love your vulnerability, that shows our human side. Be strong and be courageous, hugs sis
Alwande’s skin is EATING😍 Gorgeous gorgeous babies you have 😍😍😍
That hug from alwande❤🥹
Watching you move and all gives me courage. I'm in a strange place after being in a dark place for so long I've been having this edge to Volg but ke never get to doing it because naturally I start things and not finish and I don't want that to be the case when I decide to start. Will keep you in my prayers and all the best in the next steps of your life ❤ PS don't know why I shared this, but it is what it is, lol
Happy family🤗,Alwande's Skin🔥.
My galll! Routing for you all the way my fellow mom!
8 minutes into the vlog and I been crying since the benninging 😢
First it was those hugs Wawa was delivering upon seeing y'all... now it's you doing her hair... it's giving "mama is home, I'll take care of you" ugh, I'm crying again writing this... coz I see love more than anything ❤❤
Mommy. I have watched the previous vlog and I must say I am in a better place knowing that we are a community of moms who are just figuring this parenting thing out. I myself had to pack my bags and my kids from Jhb to Plk and being close to family because emotionally I was not coping being away from home and sometimes not even having money to even come home while in Jhb with two kids. ❤❤❤We love and we are draw so much inspiration from you. Stay blessed and keep going.
This was such wholesome vlog ,when Milani saw Alwande it was so beautiful see, the hug between you and Alwande you can tell the love ❤
💕💕 I can’t wait to see more of Durban through you 😊. Possible lunch date when I’m back home?
Waze wamuhle uWawa, that lush hair😍🥹 my fave girl is a stunner😍😍❤
So much love in your family. The long hugs❤❤❤❤❤
You’re the best mom Mandy❤❤
Haybo akasaglowi uWawa , Durban loves her sana 😍. Also how she was happy to see you guys ?? My heart melted ❤
You are brave for going back home Mandy, I tried in 2022 and my mom and I only lasted 3 weeks under 1 roof 😂I said never again!😅