"Their Relationship Was NARCISSISTIC!" | Tom Bower Reveals David And Victoria Beckham 'Toxicity'

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  • Biographer Tom Bower joins Kinsey Schofield to analyse the marriages of David & Victoria Beckham, and Prince Harry & Meghan Markle.
    Tom Bower looks at the Beckhams' power dynamics and the manipulation of the media to ‘maintain a pristine image’, along with David's fame and Victoria's insecurities.
    The pair highlight the importance of managing public image and relationships in the public eye, with a focus on the strategies employed by each couple to maintain their image and avoid harming others.
    Remember to subscribe to Kinsey Schofield Unfiltered: / @kinseyschofieldunfilt...
    #kinseyschofield #harryandmeghan #princeharry #meghanmarkle #davidbeckham #victoriabeckham

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  • @KinseySchofieldUnfiltered
    @KinseySchofieldUnfiltered  หลายเดือนก่อน +21

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  • @HillCountryBluebonnet88
    @HillCountryBluebonnet88 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    Anyone who has a successful marriage understands that it requires a lot of work on both sides. Happily ever after is just a fairytale. Reality is putting in the time and effort to keep the relationship alive and healthy.

    • @maidmarion2976
      @maidmarion2976 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      True but most people don’t trade on how happy they are. What’s different here is the hypocrisy. They have made a business out of sheer lies

    • @Rumkitty2000
      @Rumkitty2000 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Jimmy Buffett had a song called "Happily Ever Aftter..Every Now and Then."
      He reflects on life and how it's full of upstanding downs, and how you have to learn to manage the rough spots, all the ups and downs, and appreciate or just make the most of the good times. If you can do this, then you'll truly be happy. Life is like that, and (I imagine since I've never been married) so is marriage.

  • @user-lj9zu2px2w
    @user-lj9zu2px2w หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    Bower is right though, celebrity is fake and contrived. We live in a sad world.

    • @veronicanicholls7132
      @veronicanicholls7132 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love David and Victoria they are self made!

    • @marybuday1896
      @marybuday1896 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So agree😢

  • @fifisuki1876
    @fifisuki1876 หลายเดือนก่อน +181

    For me, there is no comparison - David Beckham is self made. His wife is making her way...
    Harry and Meghan? Relying upon Titles! Talent?

    • @alexisagginie4574
      @alexisagginie4574 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely CRAP. HERE IS A BLIND HATER!

    • @user-hq6iw1yv4f
      @user-hq6iw1yv4f หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He's a self made BALL KICKER.
      YOU'ŔE. WIERD

    • @NursePamS
      @NursePamS หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Victoria has done more than just "making her way. " She was part of a very successful group. But, you're right H & M have nothing.

    • @alexisagginie4574
      @alexisagginie4574 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@NursePamS What???? You must be blind, deaf and dumb!
      TITLES matter to the Royal Family NOT to Harry or Meghan!

    • @9395gb
      @9395gb 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Harry has a college degree, was a soldier and went to war. Megan has a college degree from a top 10 school, interned for an embassy and was an actress.
      David is a soccer player. Victoria is a member of a girl group. David and Victoria are not accomplished. They are just rich.

  • @Oughut88
    @Oughut88 หลายเดือนก่อน +59

    Kinsey, your opening question asking if Bower if he was ‘nervous’ writing a book about the Beckhams was extremely strange. Why on EARTH would Tom Bower be nervous writing a book about an ex footballer and ex girl band member? Considering the other people Tom Bower has written books about, I doubt that he could care less what the Beckhams think. And why would anyone be ‘afraid’ of Victoria Beckham?

    • @rosarioguerrero458
      @rosarioguerrero458 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Right, I thought so too

    • @annaphillips7120
      @annaphillips7120 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Nasty hypocrites, greedy for class and respectability

    • @northernlady212
      @northernlady212 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@rosarioguerrero458they could sue him . 🤔

  • @TraceyBurton-gs6jm
    @TraceyBurton-gs6jm หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    After watching the Netflix series, you have to admire Victoria on the number of times, she had to pack up the family and move them from location to location as he moved clubs.

    • @sarahjaynescott545
      @sarahjaynescott545 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      easy to do when you have loads of money though

    • @JamieFab
      @JamieFab 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      So do lots of families - armed services for example

    • @9395gb
      @9395gb 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Lol. They had movers, nannies and servants doing that. Not hard.
      This isn't some military wife following her Soldier husband.

    • @9395gb
      @9395gb 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@JamieFabexactly.

  • @BberryHill1223
    @BberryHill1223 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    The main difference between the Beckhams and the Sussexes is talent.

    • @kehindeemiabata4032
      @kehindeemiabata4032 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Victoria has no talent.

    • @moonlitpearl700
      @moonlitpearl700 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Also the Beckham’s work

    • @madeyed2702
      @madeyed2702 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@kehindeemiabata4032maybe not super talented, but she works hard to get where she is right now!

    • @jaimekennedy5750
      @jaimekennedy5750 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      And an excellent work ethic!

    • @maidmarion2976
      @maidmarion2976 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Probably just more underhand

  • @angielofty397
    @angielofty397 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    Sounds like a marriage to me 💖

    • @BlazeCasey
      @BlazeCasey หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Exactly right, and some of will stay and look the other way, and some won't. I can't deal with a liar or cheater myself!

  • @lenageidenstam5462
    @lenageidenstam5462 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I have seen interviews with the Director and others who made the documentary, they said both were humble and funny., nothing like Harry and Meghan. If they have find a way of living it is fine, you don’t have to be with each other 24/7. Because of that marrige last.

  • @jennihudson9484
    @jennihudson9484 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Tom Bower said the Beckhams they have not harmed anyone, they are not bad people, they avoid taxes well Mr Bower who in their right mind wouldn’t avoid paying tax, most big corporations pay teams of lawyers to find loopholes to avoid pay taxes so why are the Beckhams any different.

    • @jgreen5820
      @jgreen5820 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Indeed and he has not illegally avoided taxes, he has done what every person with a lot of money does, use legal methods to avoid paying more tax than necessary, which I bet Bower does too.

    • @samjohns3227
      @samjohns3227 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bower was just stating a fact, don't you like the truth?

    • @veronicanicholls7132
      @veronicanicholls7132 หลายเดือนก่อน

      How much tax does Mr vaccine Gates pay? He has doubled his fortunesince he created his foundation, why, because he hardly pays and tax. The rich have teams of lawyers to help them avoid tax. It is said Epstein was an expert is shadow banking and is just one of the reasons he had so many rich and power friends, apart from his other horrible interests.

    • @jane_7193
      @jane_7193 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am not the least interested in this couple. I am curious about this trend, how unspoken values are said aloud.

  • @janicehudson9783
    @janicehudson9783 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    As a big fan of David for decades I've had my eyes opened about his behaviour. Can't help but still like him though 😂

    • @veronicanicholls7132
      @veronicanicholls7132 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      What he does in his private life is his own business.
      No one, absolutely no one , has a clean sheet.
      Jesus Christ was perfect and the nailed him to a cross.
      Go figure that one out!

  • @user-dw9yo7hj5s
    @user-dw9yo7hj5s หลายเดือนก่อน +137

    I love the Beckhams they don't go out airing their dirty laundry in public or throwing their family under the bus.❤

    • @user-hq6iw1yv4f
      @user-hq6iw1yv4f หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Are you a wierd hero worshiper.?
      Why do you care?
      Get you own LIFE.
      EDITH!

    • @melgrant7404
      @melgrant7404 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      David threw Vic under the bus when he cheated.

    • @maidmarion2976
      @maidmarion2976 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      You obviously don’t remember the affair, they spoke about that everywhere including thr radio

    • @northernlady212
      @northernlady212 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@melgrant7404 I don't know any details, but, the difference would be -
      If she had done - they would be telling a truth
      Also, probably already known about due to all the cameras out there
      And, I think, that is something big and terrible

  • @millionaire2631
    @millionaire2631 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    She’s not jealous! She’s always posting sexy vids of David
    And she was pregnant when he was asked to do the Pepsi ad.. and who wouldn’t feel insecure.. she used to get bullied for her looks..

    • @samjohns3227
      @samjohns3227 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The vids of david are just part of their PR strategy, don't you understand????

    • @millionaire2631
      @millionaire2631 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@samjohns3227 And??

  • @aussienic8428
    @aussienic8428 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I was in England when the Rebecca Loos scandal came out. She was absolutely into David, and I do believe they had an affair.
    The Beckhams are a brand, and there's too much to lose. They will never seperate.

  • @JT-oo7sd
    @JT-oo7sd หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I don't think it's an attack on the Beckhams, just a book about their lives together. In fact, he's complimentary about them in this interview. They obviously crave the media attention and do it very successfully.

  • @hanamason5379
    @hanamason5379 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    David and Victoria are a very private couple who don’t air their dirty laundry in public. I respect that. Leave them alone

    • @willainerosenau6782
      @willainerosenau6782 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @hanamason3579.. except they just did.

    • @TheSaba2115
      @TheSaba2115 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I agree. No one has the right to dissect someone’s private and personal life to this degree. Who the hell are you to poke your nose into such painful details of their relationship and existence?

    • @hanamason5379
      @hanamason5379 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@willainerosenau6782 Disagree, they let a film crew in for a glimpse into their lives. It was sweet not scandalous. Tom Bower made money by printing rumours, that David has denied, spread by a woman who was rejected by him. Tom Bower should leave his stories for the gossip magazines where they belong

    • @susanbignell7402
      @susanbignell7402 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      But they do ! Like other celebrities they control their image but in their case its FALSE..It's called lying to the public for their own ego aggrandizement , setting themselves above others..appearing to be something they are not . Why do we have to put up with these people thrusting their egos on everyone for their own profit and narcissistic desires ?

    • @hanamason5379
      @hanamason5379 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@susanbignell7402 People don’t have to put up with them thrusting their egos down everyone’s throat. Shut it down. Don’t watch, if you don’t like it, but jez allow the rest of the public to watch a bit of light entertainment. I don’t think you are giving us enough credit to be able to discern what is fact and what is entertainment. Narcissistic they maybe but I find them entertaining nevertheless.

  • @NNSSS11
    @NNSSS11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    David and Victoria both have talent, so they have something that people admire. There's no talent from Harry or Meghan; they are just fame-hungry.

  • @gquinn4159
    @gquinn4159 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    I respect Tom Bower's he's a very intelligent man. But I just feel this is an attack on The Beckham's, especially Victoria. I'm not what you would call a devoted fan of the Beckham's and I didn't see his Netflix documentary, but this seems like a an attack on her character for being a younger woman experiencing some real human emotions like jealously, insecurity and betrayal.
    Kinsey you think she comes across as very intimating! Why?
    There are so many famous people that have worked with her over the years. They all say she is a very polite, friendly and respectful to her staff. She's not everyone's cup of tea, but she ain't no JLO or Meghan!

    • @gardenroom65
      @gardenroom65 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      It’s always the woman’s fault

    • @mztwixed
      @mztwixed หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wake up. UN is evil. SHE'S AN AMBASSADOR. Get a f clue.

  • @This-isGirl
    @This-isGirl หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Oh my! Looks like the coveted Sir title may be slightly farther out of reach 🤭 If titles are going out I feel Mr and Mrs Middleton deserve it more. They've been so helpful with the Wales.

  • @Wildflowers516
    @Wildflowers516 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    Harry n Meghan could never because neither is likable !! Whereas Victoria and David are likable! I don’t agree with Tom about his take on Victoria honestly!!

    • @LaPetiteBoulin
      @LaPetiteBoulin หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I don't find him reliable. Often, his stories are ones we can't check to see is true. There is never any evidence. He always seems to have an agenda behind his books other than telling the truth.
      He claims no men were chasing Victoria and has to try to hard to look sexy. How stupid is that? She is beautiful. Don't tell me no other men want to date her.
      I won't be buying his book.

    • @k8-jb8tg
      @k8-jb8tg หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@LaPetiteBoulin couldn't agree more. Tom Bower just felt like he was bitter about the Beckhams

    • @k8-jb8tg
      @k8-jb8tg หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I don't agree either and M&H will never have the likeability factor that V&D have, because they have proven to be nasty, disrespectful, uncaring, narcissistic people who are so blind to the damage they have done. Yes V&D have had their ups and downs, but they sorted them out and came back together. I don't believe Tom Bower when he makes out there is no love there. I think they really do love each other and they have a very happy, contented family, otherwise it would show through the kids that they aren't happy and they so obviously are.
      I do believe he's got some inside info, but he is just putting his spin on things.

  • @catherinebeckmann3811
    @catherinebeckmann3811 หลายเดือนก่อน +108

    If H&M had remained a part of their families and had not maligned them they could have been as successful as the Beckham’s.

    • @kathysmith2049
      @kathysmith2049 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      You’re right and the Beckhams are worth about 800 million not counting his Soccer Franchise and all their properties.

    • @marianac715
      @marianac715 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Perhaps but remember that They are both self made which is not true of the Sussex.

    • @CaptainFutura
      @CaptainFutura หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      No chance. There is some talent present in the Beckhams.

    • @rhonda6791
      @rhonda6791 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They’re lazy, without any talent and not intelligent at all.

    • @Ann-wl8up
      @Ann-wl8up หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      The porky-pie wife could never have succeeded in the BRF. Not with those particular narc functionalities and limitations. And, then there's Sparry. Now without limits, he can indulge his own narc tendencies inspired often by the claw. They say he was born angry.

  • @madeyed2702
    @madeyed2702 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Every famous couple or individual have their own dirty laundry, hence it’s mind boggling when people adore these celebrities like god. Despite that, I give the Beckham credit for working hard for what they achieved so far, unlike H&M who gain notoriety by relying on their royal title and by selling out their families!! Despicable!

  • @ScarlettRose7221
    @ScarlettRose7221 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Never understood the adoration for either one. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @katrinestorebo
    @katrinestorebo หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I would like to see a behind-the-scenes documentary of Tom Bower investigating his topics.

  • @Fruity-Cookie
    @Fruity-Cookie หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I think the major difference between the Harkles and the Beckhams is that David Beckham has charisma and charm, and it’s hard to dislike the guy, even knowing that he hasn’t always been on his best behavior. But at the end of the day, I think he at least comes across as personable and authentic. It’s a talent and charisma that Harry and Meghan totally lack.

    • @veronicanicholls7132
      @veronicanicholls7132 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And the Beckham's did not lock their kids away from the real world.
      And in any photo we only see the back of their poor little heads

  • @heidirippl2815
    @heidirippl2815 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    The Beckham's have actual TALENT, and have Worked. Where's as The Monte💩 show Dual have neither, expect everything given to them because of the TITLES.

  • @Ann-wl8up
    @Ann-wl8up หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Well done!! You had great questions - AS ALWAYS!! Thank you!! Huge Fan HERE!!!

  • @Beruthiel45
    @Beruthiel45 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Tom Bower is very misogynistic in regard to Victoria. He says nothing good about her but fawns over her husbands good looks and talent.
    She 's no fool either, to have managed to keep things together through all their ups and downs and having that many kids too.
    He's trying to make a comparison between the Beckham's and the Sussex twosome, so Victoria has to be the narcissistic one.
    He forgets that Harry is what we used to call a chinless wonder with very little going for him other than birthright, and his wife is a hardscrabble social climber who nabbed a prince.
    Victoria is not a double of Harry's wife. Tom's gender bias is blatantly obvious.
    Until I watched an interview with Beckham recently all I knew of him were his looks and reputation.
    After hearing and watching him I was pretty much gobsmacked and found that the man does not match the appearance.
    He's talented at his game but he certainly knows his looks are his asset and no doubt he knows he can have fun with just about any woman he fancies.
    I know who I'd choose as the narcissistic partner in the relationship and it isn't the lady.
    I'm also extremely tired of authors or others who we are told know all about public figures, pontificating on such person's private lives and making money and building their own "brand" off those public figures.
    Whether I like or despise said public figures is irrelevant.
    The self described "experts" are really just a new form of parasite living off the efforts of others, not gurus whose every word we should swallow unchallenged.
    I'm tempted to strongly suggest that these know it all experts should go and get real jobs where they actually have to sweat for their money like the rest of us lowly peons. 🙄
    .

    • @RationalNon-conformist
      @RationalNon-conformist หลายเดือนก่อน

      They are likely both narcissistic.

    • @veronicanicholls7132
      @veronicanicholls7132 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      What has Victoria done to deserve this! She is very stylish and talented.
      A great mother and loyal wife. Leave her alone!

  • @janhorton5197
    @janhorton5197 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Tom, I have just finished your book. My God what a horrible pair. Brilliantly written, thank you.

  • @alessandro7-u4z
    @alessandro7-u4z หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Kinsey Schofield U are brilliant, love listening to your shows . keep up the fantastic work . bravo. But please sometimes ask some juicy questions.

  • @cjcap9918
    @cjcap9918 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    I’m not sure why the diss was there for Victoria. I think she is attractive.

  • @svetlanastevanovic444
    @svetlanastevanovic444 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    What is the deal with swastika in the frame in the background?? I have seen once before, but later it was removed and now it re-emerges...

    • @lgsalem
      @lgsalem หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thought the same. Similar to the hand of god painting as a spoof?

    • @myzenlifeinnature
      @myzenlifeinnature หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Originally Sanskrit symbol, stolen by the terrible regime

    • @RosemaryOltarzewski
      @RosemaryOltarzewski หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He's an idiot to leave that up on his wall in this interview. 😮

  • @geraldinekelly8447
    @geraldinekelly8447 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Tom Bower sounds like a bitter man towards Victoria Beckham.

  • @sues-d1838
    @sues-d1838 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Wondering what the story is for the swastika photo behind Tom?

    • @cjcap9918
      @cjcap9918 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don’t see it.

    • @Ann-wl8up
      @Ann-wl8up หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I mentioned about that one time when he did an interview on the Megyn Kelly Show a few months back about sparry 5 and the liar wife. I suggested he move it out of camera view - guess he didn't see that!! Later I looked into that and saw info on How the Symbolism of the Swastika Was Ruined by the Nazis in an Britannia online article - The earliest known use of the swastika symbol-an equilateral cross with arms bent to the right at 90° angles-was discovered carved on a 15,000-year-old ivory figurine of a bird made from mammoth tusk. The ancient engraving is hypothesized to have been used for fertility and health purposes ... From its earliest conception, the symbol is believed to have been positive and encouraging of life. Then in 1930's through today, the symbolism of the swastika was ruined by the Nazis.

    • @AK20741
      @AK20741 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@Ann-wl8up Thankyou, I wish more people realised how this significant spiritual icon has been bastardised for evil. Apparently, important to Indian religions such as Hinduism, Buddhism and Jainism. Unforgiveable.🤬

    • @Ann-wl8up
      @Ann-wl8up หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@AK20741 Agree. I have a curious mind and like to investigate things. I remember hearing about the swastika perversion years back. Being able to research online - well, this is the best aspect of the Internet.

    • @sues-d1838
      @sues-d1838 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Ann-wl8up wow! Great research. Thank you…

  • @Joshualuv13
    @Joshualuv13 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Gee.While no dout, they have been through trails and tribulations. They seemed like they had settled and arrived at a peaceful and settled , harmonious family life and as a couple in their Netflix series.

    • @RationalNon-conformist
      @RationalNon-conformist หลายเดือนก่อน

      Things aren’t always as they seem.

    • @veronicanicholls7132
      @veronicanicholls7132 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No one is perfect, their marriage has survived and that is hard in the world they live in. Leave her alone!

  • @downieduck2414
    @downieduck2414 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    how can harry and meghan figure it out --- beckham & victoria were world famous

  • @lorir5728
    @lorir5728 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I always thought that they had this wonderful relationship. Ya never know what goes on behind closed doors.

  • @maidmarion2976
    @maidmarion2976 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Very few will want to know the truth of this, they can’t see through the hypocrisy

  • @nicolehickey155
    @nicolehickey155 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Great interview, Kinsey.❤❤❤

  • @Rebecca-zl9vt
    @Rebecca-zl9vt หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Has anyone noticed the artwork in the lower right of Tom Bowers background…..

    • @myzenlifeinnature
      @myzenlifeinnature หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That symbol was stolen by the Nzis. Was originally Sanskrit symbol, with good intentions

    • @myzenlifeinnature
      @myzenlifeinnature หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Was stolen symbol. Originally a Sanskrit symbol, completely different meaning

    • @RosemaryOltarzewski
      @RosemaryOltarzewski หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Can't believe he would show that😮 idiot

  • @VivPhotography
    @VivPhotography หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Both Push and Becks have talent...that's also one massive difference.

  • @user-xf8uk7gr9m
    @user-xf8uk7gr9m หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Where are their children Allegedly I can't believe that the are still giving Harry & Megan any air time Please stop Allegedly

  • @simoneburchell7362
    @simoneburchell7362 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Interesting swastika appearing on a painting in the bottom right hand of the bower frame

  • @aquamarine_nz2296
    @aquamarine_nz2296 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Gosh it sounds all very one-sided. Probably very unfair and he's clearly favouring David. I never thought him that good looking.

  • @eternalblossom9287
    @eternalblossom9287 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ITS ALL ABOUT SELF SERVING GREED LIES AND DECEPTIONS

  • @Co-Co-Jo
    @Co-Co-Jo หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Please, please, can you all take a step back from Harry's behaviour. I'm a survivor of a convert narcissistic marriage. I have many infinite struggles because we have kids, and also, how is it I wasn't enough. I live with ADHD. Many will relate, even if they won't say, and the same people will 100% agree she has him and the whole royal family (his family) totally isolated from each other. WTF? I'm with you and all other influencers and commentators when it comes to HER. If you think Meghan has left a few victims in her wake, Prince Harry is her ultimate victim. I was so happy when they got together. I watched Suits and didn't even know she was mixed race until she married PH. Only when she appeared with ONE person from her family, it was obvious trouble was to come.
    Prince Harry is deeply sucked into her power. He has no option but to concede, or he'll have to leave his kids in USA.
    Harry is living the only possible life he can. What Meghan wants Meghan gets. Yet, Harry has shown in his eyes he feels the disbelief from with some of her behaviours. He also mirrors her behaviour to survive until he can escape and be her platform - what she wants him to mirror. He will be back. He will need time and support to heal from her impact. Mark my words.

    • @carolphillips4624
      @carolphillips4624 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You have a live with a narcissist to understand what Harry has to endure but some of it is also his anger as well

  • @Crinkle.Stilt.Skin.
    @Crinkle.Stilt.Skin. หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I adore Tom Bower! Well done Kinsey!

  • @bevreader1005
    @bevreader1005 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Why doesn't Victoria EVER smile. She always looks so mad?

    • @francescostello1377
      @francescostello1377 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who cares, it's glossy magazine gossip,

    • @dymphnacarroll3627
      @dymphnacarroll3627 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I believe she not like her teeth

    • @karenmariecraig5619
      @karenmariecraig5619 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I think she’s hungry.

    • @decodolly1535
      @decodolly1535 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@dymphnacarroll3627 I imagine she could afford to get them altered if she dislikes them that much.

    • @lilyrose9888
      @lilyrose9888 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂​@@karenmariecraig5619

  • @noellarash367
    @noellarash367 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How cares? Why write a book on the Beckham’s? This gossip is not necessary. Unbelievable!!

  • @rosaanaraymond521
    @rosaanaraymond521 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Is that a swaztika in the background !?!?!?! 😮H&M would have a field day with this.

  • @veronicanicholls7132
    @veronicanicholls7132 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I love Victoria! ❤💌💌💌Leave them both alone. Victoria is a very successful woman in her own right.
    Go the Beckhams❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @DeborahHeidt
    @DeborahHeidt หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Victoria should put salt peter in his orange juice!

  • @francine6485
    @francine6485 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    He makes my skin crawl...the tattoos gross.

  • @victoriagadd6831
    @victoriagadd6831 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That was brilliant

  • @jgreen5820
    @jgreen5820 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Most people in long term relationships have ups and downs, thank goodness most of those people don't get dissected like this in public for trying to keep such marriage issues private and to work through them. Most of us put on an outward show while we try to work through things. If David avoided some taxes, he didn't break the law, he did what most rich people do, they find ways to minimise their tax liability as no doubt Mr Bower's accountant does.

  • @minooverdi5459
    @minooverdi5459 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    Victoria's business finally turned the corner this year and David has been paid back all the support he gave.

    • @stewartgreig3272
      @stewartgreig3272 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Is this true. The last I read was that Becks had been propping up her fashion business since the start, some 70+ millions.

    • @minooverdi5459
      @minooverdi5459 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@stewartgreig3272 the rag trade takes a lot to embed in. Its true she has finally been able to pay him back. She said had she known how much and how long it would take she would not have done it.

    • @samjohns3227
      @samjohns3227 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Believe that and you believe anything...she hasn't paid him back all the money he invested, no way!!!

    • @paulfrench3356
      @paulfrench3356 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@samjohns3227Exactly, minooverdi has made that story up and has zero proof ... Clearly a sticky Vicky fan.

  • @meilingflesa8140
    @meilingflesa8140 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    David and Victoria are very respectful to the BRF and their own families of origin which is why H and M will never reach their level of likeability

  • @5877user
    @5877user หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    H$M probably wish they were as successful as the Beckams.

  • @justsayin8893
    @justsayin8893 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sounds like the RF, public image vs private reality.

  • @dnahubs
    @dnahubs หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    I'm thinking Mr. Bower saw how hugely popular the Beckhams' Netflix documentary was and thought "Oh if I write a book on them I can capitalize on their popularity and make tons of money."

    • @charleskriswell7938
      @charleskriswell7938 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He started writing it the year before the documentary came out.

    • @sharondavidson6440
      @sharondavidson6440 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Utter rubbish, the Beckams make their money by fooling people like yourself.

    • @noellarash367
      @noellarash367 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly… he should be ashamed of himself

    • @samjohns3227
      @samjohns3227 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You obviously understand nothing about the time it takes to research and write a book. He started writing it well before the documentary and researched it far earlier than that.

  • @Layla-yr5ef
    @Layla-yr5ef หลายเดือนก่อน

    Fascinating. I am buying Mr Bower’s book. Can’t wait to read this.

    • @user-gr8ii8jr9o
      @user-gr8ii8jr9o 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The man is a fossil he probably has dementia and you would believe what he writes.

  • @sueoreiro703
    @sueoreiro703 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It sure makes the point that our perhaps sometimes boring , mundane lives have a whole lot less unnecessary work, stress, drama, manipulation, distrust, dishonesty, phoniness, backstabbing etc than those we imagine have the perfect lives. ,

  • @SLS03
    @SLS03 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I love the Beckhams it is so wonderful to see a family succeed in a world full of treachery. ❤❤❤

    • @janhorton5197
      @janhorton5197 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Read the book.

  • @user-lz4il6ee8m
    @user-lz4il6ee8m หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    David Beckham and his wife are simply lovely people, grounded and authentic.

    • @TVStuff10
      @TVStuff10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Not! Exactly what Bower's book disproves😂

    • @dionisiacano565
      @dionisiacano565 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@TVStuff10 and how do we know it's a fact? By his own perspective and various sources 😂

    • @TVStuff10
      @TVStuff10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dionisiacano565 His observations or info from sources, obviously.

    • @dionisiacano565
      @dionisiacano565 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TVStuff10 so in other words not facts just second hand sources haha

    • @TVStuff10
      @TVStuff10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@dionisiacano565 Must be facts then because Tom Bower does good research.

  • @fiorenzaattanasio4796
    @fiorenzaattanasio4796 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you Tom❤

  • @carolynkernan939
    @carolynkernan939 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Don't take them down marriage is hard

    • @RationalNon-conformist
      @RationalNon-conformist หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Marriage should not be hard when two people are healthy, psychically and mentally. I don’t find marriage hard at all, and it’s been 15 years. Now, if people are narcissists or narcissistic, marriage will be hard. Also, if you eat poorly and feel miserable, marriage will be hard. If you are broke, marriage will be harder.

  • @judithhorvath887
    @judithhorvath887 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The upper echelon often had various extramarital relationships. They would come to an arrangement to allow them to maintain the facade of a 'happy family'. The Beckhams have a marriage arrangement which works for them. Their brand has made them wealthy. Each allows the other a certain amount of freedom, as long as discretion is used. I don't have any issue with that. I know of couples who still loved one another, yet at times had brief affairs. Each accepted this as a way of life. They knew they would never get divorced, because they loved each other very much.

  • @josephinecrawford9171
    @josephinecrawford9171 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you. Great interview…
    I’ve read the book ….
    It’s an eye opener….
    Money sex and power sums up many many celebrities.

  • @DF-dd5nf
    @DF-dd5nf หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This guy, Tom, is so smart. ❤❤❤ I have respect for him and also for Kinsey. If he didn't write his book, the public wouldn't know that they are actually living separately. They should be cancelled for fooling the public.

    • @samjohns3227
      @samjohns3227 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There have been rumours for ages that it's a marriage in name only in order to continue to rake in millions for brand beckham, I'm glad Tom's highlighted this. The beckhams treat the public like village idiots, gas lighting and manipulating. Personally, I think the beckhams are so overrated.

  • @laleezy77
    @laleezy77 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    2:48 why would she say she's just living her best life & we should respect the adultry???? Girl please why is she interviewing cause she doesnt seem qualified ....doesshe feel the same about laAnne Rimes???

  • @user-xf8uk7gr9m
    @user-xf8uk7gr9m หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I can't believe the media is still giving H&M any air time please STOP give them privacy Allegedly

  • @veronicagrijalva-palmisano7465
    @veronicagrijalva-palmisano7465 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They haven't harmed anybody? What about the lies they've fed their children and tge Lie those children live - each day???

  • @Pazymaspaz
    @Pazymaspaz หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    And it's your business? So nasty.

  • @pce12345
    @pce12345 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hahaha love Tom Bower

  • @KLeonardM
    @KLeonardM หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Old bat has nothing better to do? Leave this couple alone and let them sort their own marriage out...wtf....TRASH

  • @manichairdo9265
    @manichairdo9265 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I doubt the Beckams will watch this crap. Maybe the other needy couple will.
    I just read the comments for info about the video. There's got to be a better way for the guy to earn a buck. 😂

  • @jodyt8548
    @jodyt8548 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Is that a swastika in that picture on the right bottom of the screen?

  • @wendysargent3855
    @wendysargent3855 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The price of power and fame and 💰💰💰

  • @user-zb5vz7hq6r
    @user-zb5vz7hq6r หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I got my copy. Love these two!

  • @krikvalk1776
    @krikvalk1776 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What could possibly be intimidating about the Peckhams???

  • @veronicanicholls7132
    @veronicanicholls7132 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    They are a talented couple! Leave them alone.
    I hope someone starts digging into the private life of Kinsey and Tom for money, see how the like it.

  • @onotad
    @onotad หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Aw I just love Tom Bower, I wish he would write another book about the Suxxexxes. He has ample material.

  • @SandraVLewis1
    @SandraVLewis1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Kinsey, have you asked Tom about the swastika photo ?

  • @karenlacy8950
    @karenlacy8950 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Interesting. Thank you.

  • @user-wv7us1oq9c
    @user-wv7us1oq9c หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have lost all respect for the Beckhams. What a life of lies. What an example they are to their kids

  • @LumpOfClay1
    @LumpOfClay1 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Funny how people are discrediting Tom's account of the Beckhams but believe hi book on Mr & Mrs Ragland.

  • @RosemaryOltarzewski
    @RosemaryOltarzewski หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love Kinsey❤. Mmm odd choice of artwork on Tom's wall.😮

  • @BlazeCasey
    @BlazeCasey หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    And it looks like their
    oldest son has recently married a young woman, who is much like Mommy. Imo. Should be interesting.
    Tom Bowers books are brilliant!!

  • @mary-elizabethcoetzee685
    @mary-elizabethcoetzee685 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Still love Becks, hes just so cute and tells a good story, would make a great actor.

    • @ccurrie9672
      @ccurrie9672 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Clearly you have not seen him in the King Arthur film with Charlie Hunan...........Becks cannot act but he is easy on the eye.

    • @mary-elizabethcoetzee685
      @mary-elizabethcoetzee685 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ccurrie9672 well he narrates well and tells stories of his kids ect well, with a sense of humour.

  • @veronicanicholls7132
    @veronicanicholls7132 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Give me the Beckhams over the Harkles any day.

  • @christinet5419
    @christinet5419 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I would also "conceal" fractures in my marriage if I were them. It's the perfect case of not washing your dirty linen in public. Dignified. I think it was ugly of Tom to write about it. I never knew he was so nasty - "that was the purpose of the book". That seems to be his modus operandi. I'm glad I don't know him, and I feel sorry for his wife. Someone should write a book about HIM. I can't listen any more...

    • @samjohns3227
      @samjohns3227 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think it ugly of the Beckhams to lie so much about their marriage and gas light the public, and their constant greed in chasing millions.

  • @chicwithacrown1
    @chicwithacrown1 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "LIVING HER BEST LIFE AND ALL WE CAN DO IS RESPECT IT?" You know how idiotic and disrespectful that sounds? You better pray your spouse never goes out and lives their best life.....I'm sure you would find that indiscretion hard to respect. Do better K!

  • @Oughut88
    @Oughut88 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I have never been able to understand the fascination with either the Beckhams or Harry and his unsuitable wife. An ex footballer, and ex girl band member, an ex Prince and an ex cable tv actress. Not an intellect between them. So David Beckham is pro Royalty and stood in a line for hours to pay his respects to the late Queen. So what? So did thousands of others. They didn’t receive praise for standing in line. No matter Beckham does, he will never become knighted. He might get a gong but not the one he wants. Hell will freeze over before Beckham and wife are made Sir and Lady.

  • @lucianesommer5145
    @lucianesommer5145 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    why Tom Bower has a nazi symbol on his wall?

    • @geraldinekelly8447
      @geraldinekelly8447 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Just seen that, that's weird 😳

    • @lucianesommer5145
      @lucianesommer5145 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@geraldinekelly8447 absolutely unexpected

  • @ter17nicfab99
    @ter17nicfab99 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I don't personally know these people so unfair to comment....other than I've never ever warmed to either Megain or Victoria. Just not my type of people...neither appear genuine

  • @susandunne1482
    @susandunne1482 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I think this man is just trying to jump on the fact that David and Victoria are so popular . How does he know what goes in their marriage. I am not sure i believe alot of what he is saying

  • @JenniferWoolley
    @JenniferWoolley หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Respect it 🤣🤣

  • @pixiesnow4614
    @pixiesnow4614 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    "Intimidating couple." How are they intimidating, lol?? Both have average intelligence, boring personalities, no charisma, and are terrible parents. Intimidation is usually caused by admiration and respect for someone which is definitely not the case with the Beckhams.

  • @beetlebug1089
    @beetlebug1089 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting pic in the bottom right corner of Tom Bowers wall.

  • @wendysargent3855
    @wendysargent3855 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    All marriages are hard work