Some may say that Juniper is a day late for Asexuality Day, but as an asexual, let me quell those rumors: If you remain a virgin until you're thirty, you become a wizard. Because asexuals are prone to becoming wizards, they must undergo obligatory wizard training. This is just a part of the training. Because a wizard is never late.
As an ace myself, this really made me smile. It was so sweet and funny (even if a bit cringe), and honestly reminded me a lot of my own discovery journey. Figured it out after I got with my current partner as well, and they've been nothing short of loving and supportive. ^_^
@@turt1esharkasmr Nah friend, not cringey in a bad way (actually the talk wasn't bad), but in the funny sense of "oh hon you have no idea why this isn't working" and awkward for both. You did an awesome job with the script, it was really fun ^^
asexual is a very foreign concept to me, can't wrap my head around it. Here is a like and comment to help your channel grow and get you the recognition you deserve.
Maybe this doesnt help but...think about It With food (its not the BEST example as there are a lot of tipes of asexuality but maybe this helps) everyone loves one kind of food, you don't, It doesnt mean you MUST hate that food,just that you don't crave It like everyone else, maybe you can have that food to share ir With someone important,maybe you cant stand It, maybe you just don't really like It but are okay With It, And maybe you Only can have It after some time With someone loves It And Will help (i'm demisexual,for example i Only want that food after The person i'm going to "eat" With And i have a really close And stable relationship,i would never just eat for The sake.of It,nor With anyone i don't really love)...if you don't like that i explained It like this or something tell me And i Will delete this comment ;) i Hope this helps understand it ;)
As a professional asexual, there are different degrees of asexuality. The most extreme is not being able to feel any kind of attraction to another person, and a lesser degree may be being repulsed by having intimate relations because you find it simply disgusting or meaningless.
As someone who is ace, but still interested in having a lifelong partner, the best descriptor that I have seen is that you can see beauty as something akin to looking at a sunset or artwork. But most of the time most people aren't out to sleep with the sun even though it's beautiful right?
One day, the ladies I care for will learn that I'm just not attracted to any of them like that. I enjoy their company, but they just aren't my beloved!
@@randombrit13 I actually had to scroll down and check the date and my comment before making this comment. I only remembered that it happened in June.😊
This is why the word "nun" should be spelled n-o-n-e. It's like the memory foam in the listener's bed has amnesia. I guess her milkshake doesn't bring this boy to the playground. Good job Juniper! HEARD IT!!!😊♥️👍
Thanks for the upload sir juniper! That thumbnail pose seems vigorously uncomfortable, a harsh contrast to the contents within. You’re definitely better at “sexy speak” then the blooper implies you think you are, but should you desire further improvement I do happen to know the most important thing. Do not think about it, ever, on pain of death do not think about what you’re saying. Seriously take any piece of sexy speak or dirty talk out of context and the result is functionally guaranteed to be so cringe it causes me to temporarily become asexual, so don’t let your brain do that. That might be hard while following a script tho, I’ve only ever recorded improv.
Im not ace so this could look super jackass-ish but aren’t the idea of asexuality and the idea of being in a romantic relationship antithetical to each-other?
Not at all! Asexuality is a general or completely disinterest in sexual aspects of a relationship, not romantic. So even those completely opposed to sex can still experience romantic attraction, and enjoy the other intimacies found in a relationship. :) Of course, there are also some aces (such as grey-aces like myself) who experience little sexual attraction, but still occasionally enjoy sex, or enjoy taking part with a partner as a means of enjoying the intimacy of the action (or just enjoy making their partner feel good, even if they themselves are indifferent**). For some, this is perfectly acceptable in a relationship, as sex isn't a major factor for them. For others, sex is a big part of their wants/needs, and so they could not be happy in a relationship with an ace partner. Both are perfectly valid! **Please do not take this to mean it is ever okay to push a partner into having sex to make you feel good, or pushing yourself into doing it for their sake while you're uncomfortable. This example was purely in the "I don't get anything from sex, but it makes me happy to help you enjoy it", NOT a "I'm uncomfortable but pushing through") standpoint. Consent is sexy!
@@zeeba3999 ok that makes some sense, just a bit confusing to me cause I’ve always viewed sexuality as either romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or both - and through that lens I viewed asexuality as the absence of both attractions. Though your explanation makes sense, even if it feels a bit microlabel-y (I don’t mean any offense with that last part)
@@dappercoat249 No offense taken - I did go a bit deeper into labels than others might lol Though that's more to cover all bases - plenty of people live happily without labels ☺️ If you want a bit more - there actually are people who experience sexual attraction, but little/no romantic attraction as well. The term we use in that case is generally "aromantic" - and they also fall under the "ace umbrella", as it were. Some people are even both (asexual and aromantic).
Navigating romantic relationships can be difficult if you're ace, but it's definitely possible to be in one. Some people do and some people don't. There are so many different ways we can exist in this world.
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Some may say that Juniper is a day late for Asexuality Day, but as an asexual, let me quell those rumors:
If you remain a virgin until you're thirty, you become a wizard. Because asexuals are prone to becoming wizards, they must undergo obligatory wizard training. This is just a part of the training.
Because a wizard is never late.
Duuude, giving away all the secrets!
💖💖💖💖💖
He arrives precisely when he means to. The wisest of wizards, Gandalf the Grey, turned Gandalf the white.
DUDE! Don't tell everyone. The Uprising will never be a secret if you give away our secrets. Crap. Nevermind😅
Also: candle-lit snuggle session with a series marathon and snacks? GOD TIER RELATIONSHIP! 😍
Yes!!
As an ace myself, this really made me smile. It was so sweet and funny (even if a bit cringe), and honestly reminded me a lot of my own discovery journey. Figured it out after I got with my current partner as well, and they've been nothing short of loving and supportive. ^_^
I'm asexual myself, so it was really hard for me to write the "sexy talk" 🤣 I'm not surprised it was a bit cringey. I tried my best!
@@turt1esharkasmr Nah friend, not cringey in a bad way (actually the talk wasn't bad), but in the funny sense of "oh hon you have no idea why this isn't working" and awkward for both.
You did an awesome job with the script, it was really fun ^^
It's definitely the good kind of cringe!
Awkward and adorable. Yay for a couple who respect each other and are willing to communicate and listen.
💖 Communication is key!
Asexual myself! Thanks for the audio!
Me too! 😊 Thanks for listening!
You did a good job. I appreciate how the script handled what could have been a very tricky subject very reasonably
I appreciate that!
I'm glad to hear you had fun recording, haha. 😅 Thanks for filling my script! I think you...
aced it!
...I'll see myself out.
🤣🤣🤣♠️
Thank you!
The girlfriend is an angel for being so understanding and accepting of listener's sexuality.
Listener is very lucky!
Everyone deserves to be accepted for who they are!
I want to cry. Happy cry.
You deserve the support. 💜
"I'm cool with you being a cannibal but can you ethically and consensually source your flesh?"
Fair.
asexual is a very foreign concept to me, can't wrap my head around it. Here is a like and comment to help your channel grow and get you the recognition you deserve.
Maybe this doesnt help but...think about It With food (its not the BEST example as there are a lot of tipes of asexuality but maybe this helps) everyone loves one kind of food, you don't, It doesnt mean you MUST hate that food,just that you don't crave It like everyone else, maybe you can have that food to share ir With someone important,maybe you cant stand It, maybe you just don't really like It but are okay With It, And maybe you Only can have It after some time With someone loves It And Will help (i'm demisexual,for example i Only want that food after The person i'm going to "eat" With And i have a really close And stable relationship,i would never just eat for The sake.of It,nor With anyone i don't really love)...if you don't like that i explained It like this or something tell me And i Will delete this comment ;) i Hope this helps understand it ;)
As a professional asexual, there are different degrees of asexuality. The most extreme is not being able to feel any kind of attraction to another person, and a lesser degree may be being repulsed by having intimate relations because you find it simply disgusting or meaningless.
As someone who is ace, but still interested in having a lifelong partner, the best descriptor that I have seen is that you can see beauty as something akin to looking at a sunset or artwork. But most of the time most people aren't out to sleep with the sun even though it's beautiful right?
Nice explanations!
@@tobiasyuki1698 Thanks, that does help me understand.
This is like a POV of Panini trying to woo Chowder while he screams, "I'M NOT YOUR BOYFRIEND!?! From the show Chowder.
One day, the ladies I care for will learn that I'm just not attracted to any of them like that. I enjoy their company, but they just aren't my beloved!
Anakin Skywalker: the best friend a girl could ask for.
It's good that you do videos covering topics like this!
I like to 😊
Just discovered this, thanks for the wonderful work and have a lovely day/night!
Thanks, you too!
This was well done. I really enjoyed this
Glad you enjoyed it!
IM NOT CRYING YOU ARE
💖
Ooof!! This'll be kinda hard for me to be a listener whose never "in the mood" but of course I'll be there. CAN'T WAIT!😊♥️👍
Even if it doesn't apply, at least you can enjoy the cringe comedy 😅
@@JuniperJusticeASMR Kinda like your audio from June 24 of last year. The one in wich I said "Good job Juniper. HEARD IT!!!😊♥️👍" (🤣🤣🤣).
@@chrisleyhe9039 do you have these memorised down to the upload date? Because that’s terrifying even to me.
@@randombrit13 I actually had to scroll down and check the date and my comment before making this comment. I only remembered that it happened in June.😊
As an introvert i kinda understand it but i could never imagine myself not in tge mood. Though that can come in handy in some situations
as cute as it was cringy. 😅 loved it.
Thanks 😅
This sounds perfect if by perfect you mean awkward.
Extremely awkward! 👍
Am I...acespec???? Oh what-
😅
Sorry hun. Nice try though. Hopefully she'll still accept me. Can't Wait!!!
One thing I can promise is that my characters will always be accepting. 😊
@@JuniperJusticeASMR That's comforting TY
This is why the word "nun" should be spelled n-o-n-e. It's like the memory foam in the listener's bed has amnesia. I guess her milkshake doesn't bring this boy to the playground. Good job Juniper! HEARD IT!!!😊♥️👍
It probably spoiled forcing you to forget
@@ethandkp1750 Something like that.😆
😅
Good day everyone? 🍪
🍰
oh yeah march again, means a new pride month. always forget thats a thing.
Not quite! Pride is June, but today is International Asexuality Day so I thought I'd post something silly to celebrate.
@@JuniperJusticeASMR huh would thought Thatd be in pride month. Oh well.
Oh yeah it’s also not even March, March ended
How many levels of sleep deprivation was I on when I wrote this?
Thanks for the upload sir juniper! That thumbnail pose seems vigorously uncomfortable, a harsh contrast to the contents within.
You’re definitely better at “sexy speak” then the blooper implies you think you are, but should you desire further improvement I do happen to know the most important thing. Do not think about it, ever, on pain of death do not think about what you’re saying. Seriously take any piece of sexy speak or dirty talk out of context and the result is functionally guaranteed to be so cringe it causes me to temporarily become asexual, so don’t let your brain do that.
That might be hard while following a script tho, I’ve only ever recorded improv.
Dirty talk definitely does not come naturally to me 😅😅😅
@@JuniperJusticeASMR I’m convinced anyone who claims otherwise is lying.
Im not ace so this could look super jackass-ish but aren’t the idea of asexuality and the idea of being in a romantic relationship antithetical to each-other?
Not at all! Asexuality is a general or completely disinterest in sexual aspects of a relationship, not romantic. So even those completely opposed to sex can still experience romantic attraction, and enjoy the other intimacies found in a relationship. :)
Of course, there are also some aces (such as grey-aces like myself) who experience little sexual attraction, but still occasionally enjoy sex, or enjoy taking part with a partner as a means of enjoying the intimacy of the action (or just enjoy making their partner feel good, even if they themselves are indifferent**).
For some, this is perfectly acceptable in a relationship, as sex isn't a major factor for them. For others, sex is a big part of their wants/needs, and so they could not be happy in a relationship with an ace partner. Both are perfectly valid!
**Please do not take this to mean it is ever okay to push a partner into having sex to make you feel good, or pushing yourself into doing it for their sake while you're uncomfortable. This example was purely in the "I don't get anything from sex, but it makes me happy to help you enjoy it", NOT a "I'm uncomfortable but pushing through") standpoint. Consent is sexy!
@@zeeba3999 ok that makes some sense, just a bit confusing to me cause I’ve always viewed sexuality as either romantic attraction, sexual attraction, or both - and through that lens I viewed asexuality as the absence of both attractions. Though your explanation makes sense, even if it feels a bit microlabel-y (I don’t mean any offense with that last part)
@@dappercoat249 No offense taken - I did go a bit deeper into labels than others might lol Though that's more to cover all bases - plenty of people live happily without labels ☺️
If you want a bit more - there actually are people who experience sexual attraction, but little/no romantic attraction as well. The term we use in that case is generally "aromantic" - and they also fall under the "ace umbrella", as it were. Some people are even both (asexual and aromantic).
@@zeeba3999 I’ll look into it - thanks mate!
Navigating romantic relationships can be difficult if you're ace, but it's definitely possible to be in one. Some people do and some people don't. There are so many different ways we can exist in this world.