POV: You crave academic validation (Songs to listen to while studying)

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  • @GayleRiazSeoseo
    @GayleRiazSeoseo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +524

    Their expectations are weighing me down but i don't want them to feel disappointed since studying is the only thing I'm good at:(

    • @shreyathapa559
      @shreyathapa559 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm in the same condition right now

    • @allok7995
      @allok7995 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@shreyathapa559 me too

    • @PiaZeñ-z1i
      @PiaZeñ-z1i 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dmn same

    • @SarangiNepali
      @SarangiNepali 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@shreyathapa559same here sisso

    • @shreyathapa559
      @shreyathapa559 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@SarangiNepali sad bro

  • @sarahhardman4340
    @sarahhardman4340 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +385

    I’m proud of you for waking up.
    I’m proud of you for brushing your hair.
    I’m proud of you for blinking.
    I’m proud of you for breathing.
    I’m proud of you for making your bed.
    I’m proud of you for eating.
    I’m proud of you for TRYING to eat.
    I’m proud of you for drinking water.
    I’m proud of you for being here.
    I’m proud of you for being you.
    I’m proud of you for smiling.
    I’m proud of you for continuing on even when things are difficult for you.
    I’m proud of you for standing up.
    I’m proud of you for blinking.
    I’m proud of you for getting out of bed after spending the whole day in bed.
    I’m proud of you for brushing your teeth.
    I’m proud of you for standing up.
    I’m proud of you for sitting down.
    I’m proud of you for defending yourself.
    I’m proud of you for believing in yourself.
    I’m proud of you for simply trying.
    I’m proud of you for being alive.
    IM PROUD OF YOU. ♥
    Go ahead and copy and past this and put it somewhere like a vent tiktok's or sad audio someone will need it!
    Credit: Ella Jones ♥

    • @Islxmicvibes
      @Islxmicvibes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Thank you so much this honestly really helped me mentally thank you likewise I am proud of you too whenever you feel sad feel free to open up you can tell us or better yet cry to Allah he is our creator and he will not put us in hardships we can't handle ❤

    • @minhobebegim
      @minhobebegim 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you siss!❤

    • @hana9131
      @hana9131 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ouh, thank you. I feel sad alone with a lot of work to do. This makes my day🥰

    • @hana9131
      @hana9131 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Islxmicvibesalright, thank you for this😊

    • @urfavproblem1
      @urfavproblem1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I needed this

  • @ShiisaamaGeek
    @ShiisaamaGeek 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +375

    Damn, as a straight A+ student who everyone thinks is a genius when I'm just a literal average person who overthinks every test and is afraid of failure, this compilation is for me😭 I swear being a top student is both rewarding and suffocating

    • @Thinkabout2mi
      @Thinkabout2mi 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      That’s better than being a smart kid who destroyed them self by being lazy I’m proud of you for being a hard working student you deserve all the best I wish I can be as hard working as you one day (I’m working on it)

    • @LadipmaRai-p4c
      @LadipmaRai-p4c 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My own expectations and standards (A+)are killing me 😭 but it feels so good destroying myself for study

    • @Kenisha_KaurRoy
      @Kenisha_KaurRoy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      SO REAL

    • @my.lovelyself
      @my.lovelyself 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It will be ok, please be strong!

    • @beerupadhya9857
      @beerupadhya9857 23 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Damn real bro😢

  • @zukiyama6941
    @zukiyama6941 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +173

    Academic validation is like a drug you can't stop, But realize the only one you're killing in the process is yourself. In the end having a well grounded knowledge and solid foundation of your worth is better. Then realized that if you want to work hard on something, do it not for the validation of others but it's because you deserve nothing less than the best. That is why you'll give yourself that.

    • @Matsuriin
      @Matsuriin  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Well said🫡

  • @Axxkis
    @Axxkis 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    no matter how hard i do, how much i score, what i achieve i never get appreciated for it, at this point im used to it

    • @IzzyG-o1v
      @IzzyG-o1v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      frfr

    • @my.lovelyself
      @my.lovelyself 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am really proud of you, for all the work you put in your grades and all the time you put into studying. Please be strong!

  • @frieswithcok.e14
    @frieswithcok.e14 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I'm not jealous of others result, because i knew i would have done better if i was a littel more consistent. this literally kills every other lazy ambitious student.

  • @Star_light.19
    @Star_light.19 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I only need the academic validation so that I’m better than my ex. It’s my only form of revenge I can get at this point. I will be better though.

    • @my.lovelyself
      @my.lovelyself 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You will be better. I believe in you!

    • @Star_light.19
      @Star_light.19 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@my.lovelyself 💜💜💜

    • @hana9131
      @hana9131 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You can✍️📈

  • @scara_meow
    @scara_meow 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I'm always proud of myself because I've been the one pushing myself in school to have better grades, to make connections, and to participate. I'm currently a junior in high school, sophomore slump got to me last year, and it was the worst year in my entire life, I'm still scared of it this year and I already planned next year, which is the year that I will push myself to the limit because if I don't then no one will push me to do it. At this point, it's because it became part of me and my personality, I cannot stand being someone I'm not like, I just know I can push myself a little more and more but I'm exhausted, I just want to sleep

  • @Nahnotmeh
    @Nahnotmeh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    BRO IT'S F*CKING 2AM AND FINALLY IM DONE WITH MY NOTES AND HOMEWORK!!

    • @Matsuriin
      @Matsuriin  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      You need rest bro😭

    • @myuniverse5289
      @myuniverse5289 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Proud of you bro🤝

    • @Nahnotmeh
      @Nahnotmeh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@myuniverse5289 thanks man

  • @Justinseagullllll
    @Justinseagullllll 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I will appear in NEET 2025 ....wish I get a high rank and score 😇 and ik it's hard but I will try my best !!😄

    • @mariamantasha8287
      @mariamantasha8287 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      same buddyy!! let's work hard we can do it

    • @GrannyTales1
      @GrannyTales1 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Me tooo🤧

  • @Terrysfairy
    @Terrysfairy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Here's my little vent. Im good at academic naturally, and people knows that I get good grades. I have other plans for my future. But they think my plans are to get good grades, go to a university and have a job then get married. But infact, I enjoy dancing a lot, and my good at it since I started learning since 6. I want to be an idol. It hurts to know that I may not be one.

    • @k-popstan2240
      @k-popstan2240 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      same, but the country i currently live in doesn't have any entertainments or acadamies, so i either have to wait till i''m an adult and i also want to make my parents proud by becoming a doctor, they didn't force me but still, you know I guess it will only a dream in my life

    • @00littlesweetangel
      @00littlesweetangel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hey, I’m so sorry you feel that way. Please follow your passion or what makes you happy ❤ Ignore the negative thoughts that others have. Don’t listen to them. Listen to yourself and what you feel like YOU want to do. 🫶🏻 Having good grades will just open more opportunities for you. I wish the best for you and hope you achieve your goal of dancing 💖

    • @my.lovelyself
      @my.lovelyself 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's going to be ok! Remember to listen to your heart...

  • @muffinheadOh
    @muffinheadOh 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    am I the only person who has bad grades and uses this playlist to try and motivate themselfs? also, keep it up A+ students! But don't forget to rest a bit...it's tiring..

    • @VesTia-gl3ot
      @VesTia-gl3ot 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You're not the only one cuz same, i love toxic motivation hahahaha

    • @AnanyaRastogi-p5u
      @AnanyaRastogi-p5u 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      dw we in the same boat :))

    • @janvitharol9680
      @janvitharol9680 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No cause same 😭😭

  • @Riya.o
    @Riya.o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    i want to feel validated for having academic achievements but the people who told me to strive for it usually dont praise me once ive accomplished what they want

    • @Amoebabiba
      @Amoebabiba 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      but after tasting those wins, it provides a new feeling to be addicted with, to hell with other people who can't see it 🥴the drive has to come from within

  • @JDgameTiMe11
    @JDgameTiMe11 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    I'm not being forced for good grades and I'm thankful for that but I hope those of you who feel like you need to do this to be noticed or "important "I hope you know your not alone and I will pray for you and I hope things will get better

  • @Akshiii_Kpop
    @Akshiii_Kpop 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I used to be a straight A student but after the pandemic things changed completely. But now, I'm pretty sure I can ACE the upcoming exam now!
    I'm ready to study and tolerate all the pressure happily :)
    All the best for whatever you are doing!
    Stay happy and focused🔥
    Wish me luck🍀

    • @enjoyyourlifehappily
      @enjoyyourlifehappily หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      same frfr

    • @Akshiii_Kpop
      @Akshiii_Kpop หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@enjoyyourlifehappily 🥺Anyways, have a good day!

  • @leblancwilliana7513
    @leblancwilliana7513 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm not even an A+ student but everything stresses me out

  • @keniacruz3618
    @keniacruz3618 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    My dad wants me to be a engineer/doctor but I wanna be a artist/fashion designer or streamer and I keep stressing and my dad keeps saying that if I get straight A’s he will allow me to be a artist/designer or streamer and I keep replaying this playlist cause it helps me calm down and study

    • @toslimaakhter5256
      @toslimaakhter5256 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bro , you don't need your dad's approval. Be free

    • @my.lovelyself
      @my.lovelyself 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don't give up on your dream and keep getting straight A's! I believe in you!

  • @Crimsion_Rabbit
    @Crimsion_Rabbit หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Gifted Burnout hits around Tenth grade.
    I'm in ninth.

  • @MelodyJr-k7i
    @MelodyJr-k7i 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's very unfair that they gave me the second place because of 0.5 marks. And they're now disappointed because I got the second place 🙃 After that, i just study most of my time because i don't want to disappoint them again. It's hard for me because i not good at any sports. So i study to makes them proud😢. I don't want to live like this.

  • @karendelapena9458
    @karendelapena9458 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    back to this playlist cause I'm back to school

  • @scarascutetoes
    @scarascutetoes 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    no one pressures me to have good grades but I still need them

  • @Itz..Yar1
    @Itz..Yar1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    is it just me or do i feel like positive motivation doesnt work for me and i have to use toxic motivation?

    • @ShanieeJoycie
      @ShanieeJoycie 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same😂

    • @Nahnotmeh
      @Nahnotmeh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Ur not alone buddy :)

  • @BrettHand
    @BrettHand 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Tbh I think I’m pretty lucky because no one’s pressuring me to get good grades, I just get the urges to do so

  • @Paradoxiin
    @Paradoxiin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I expect too much of myself- getting straight A's isnt easy, and i pull way too many all nighters for it... 😭
    (and yes it's 3 am and i'm about to finish 😮‍💨)

    • @VerenaKamari
      @VerenaKamari 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Don't forget to take care of yourself in the process ✨ You're doing amazing

  • @synthiarahman6672
    @synthiarahman6672 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So everyone who's on a journey to be an high achiever , I know it's not easy. You'll break , you'll doubt yourself but remember what if you make it ? I just cried few minutes ago thinking but i again studied cuz what if I can make it ? Don't give up remember one day all these hardwork will pay off. If you can't study 8 hours study 3 hours but don't give up level up 1 by 1 trust me you'll be able to do it .

  • @allok7995
    @allok7995 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Thank you. This video really helped me for studying.

    • @Matsuriin
      @Matsuriin  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm glad that it helped you, fighting!🤍

  • @Carmenmetaa
    @Carmenmetaa 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    im a top student and I didn’t think my parents cared about how I did so most of the pressure was internal but that all changed when I got an 85% on a maths test and they got so mad and grounded me so I js need to do better

  • @sunsetz_not_here
    @sunsetz_not_here 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    the situation i am in is kinda hard. my friends don't pay attention in class, but i do. and they might think that bc i am not talking to them in class, they will think i am ignoring them. but i am not? i am just trying to get good grades and impress my parents. i am trying to get into hamilton and major in history. but without support, the whole thing is a shame. my brain knows that is not true, but my guts do. has anyone had this problem?

    • @my.lovelyself
      @my.lovelyself 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can tell your friends that you are in fact not ignoring them and just trying to pay attention in class. Please dont let ANYONE distract you. I believe in you!

    • @vidhi29sewpal47
      @vidhi29sewpal47 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yeah just tell them that you have pressure on yourself to do well and you believe actually listening at school might help you. If they are good friends they should understand and maybe try to talk and hang out with them more after school

  • @sya-u8l
    @sya-u8l หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i lost my motivation after not being able to get in science stream course even though i studied hard for that stream and now i feels like i got the motivation again after listening to this song

  • @asfaanisha9956
    @asfaanisha9956 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I genuinely love this playlist. Thanks for providing us with such great mixture of music

  • @PhoebeAndNox
    @PhoebeAndNox 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    No one's really pressuring me to do really good in school,they just want me to do good enough to pass but honestly how can I just settle for just 'good enough'?All my siblings are getting high honors, getting the best grades in their class,getting achievements, and then compared to them I'm just normal?I can't be just normal,I have to be as academically excellent as them,if I don't try to be good at academics the people will keep comparing me to my older siblings.

    • @my.lovelyself
      @my.lovelyself 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is going to be ok! I know its hard to go through that but please try not to compare yourself with anyone but you!

  • @Ruth-bx5kh
    @Ruth-bx5kh 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Starting with Oh no! Is iconic!!!

  • @EdgeDancer-yt4rl
    @EdgeDancer-yt4rl 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    “ ..say I read for fun, but haven’t read in months...” hits so hard, that Is definitely me 😭

  • @shushu1666
    @shushu1666 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    being a senior with high expectations but cant even be smart enough...

  • @Kpop00056adiction
    @Kpop00056adiction 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    a very good playlist

  • @NadinZariouh
    @NadinZariouh หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i have always been considered genius but now i'm not bad but never the best at anything and i can't with that feeling and to top everything up the ones beig bettert than me are who I thought were my best and only friends and i still don't wish anyting but the best to them

  • @HarryPotterEdits31-r4y
    @HarryPotterEdits31-r4y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you! This video really helped me for studying! 🙂

  • @idk-li4mc
    @idk-li4mc 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Coming frm india .....the system here is so harsh .........we have 2 extra languages and boards etc............i am soooo stressed..........but i want to be a surgeon when i grow up.... so always tryin hard and not giving up

    • @my.lovelyself
      @my.lovelyself 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Don't give up! I believe in you!

  • @Sophiatennisss
    @Sophiatennisss 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    totally don’t wanna die

  • @Aceoftheblackspades
    @Aceoftheblackspades 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    And if you get second, you're a failure. You have to fight to keep everything, every day. No one ever sees anything but our academic façade. Its like we aren't even people anymore. We don't have personalities anymore. We're just machines. We can't be anything else or anything more.

    • @HarryPotterEdits31-r4y
      @HarryPotterEdits31-r4y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm pansexual too!

    • @Aceoftheblackspades
      @Aceoftheblackspades 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Greatest response to a vent ever 100/10 👍

    • @HarryPotterEdits31-r4y
      @HarryPotterEdits31-r4y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Aceoftheblackspades lol sorry! Hope you're ok! :-) 🤣

    • @Aceoftheblackspades
      @Aceoftheblackspades 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your reply literally made my day. Thank you. 😂 But yeah, Im pan ace, and my partner is omni. Very happy with her, but we do get some hate since we're in an AFABxAFAB relationship, but we are both silly gender gremlins.

    • @HarryPotterEdits31-r4y
      @HarryPotterEdits31-r4y 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Aceoftheblackspades Nice! I'm Pan and Gender Fluid! :-) 🤣

  • @HidayahSt4rz
    @HidayahSt4rz หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Damn it 2 more weeks till my math and science exams and shit i suck at it

  • @Polnareffcrusader
    @Polnareffcrusader หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    me fr cause i got a high mock grade for my gces and everyone is saying omg your so lucky.. but i can do better. i was one mark away form a higher grade and 10 marks away from a grade 9 like cmon ik i did good to some but to myself i did crap

  • @Saturntoro
    @Saturntoro หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Kindergarten, elementary, and middle school straight A’s and academic achiever throughout all grade levels. This year high school will be harder and i hope i dont lose my 10th Honors certificate streak, but my mother doesnt force me or pressure me with works even if i fail so i know she can support me throughout this school year❤❤🎉

  • @MelodyJr-k7i
    @MelodyJr-k7i 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Parents: 100%, be a doctor.
    The Parents from TikTok: Proud of you.
    Me: Hate my life, hate myself, hate my score, hate everything.
    My other side: It's ok. You're already enough.

  • @Aanchal-s3p
    @Aanchal-s3p 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    life seems hard lately, it feels hard to focus and when i think i hv done well i do bad and when not turns out i did well, its so weird, i cant risk not studying either

  • @leeeeeeeeee667
    @leeeeeeeeee667 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I FEEL DISSAPOINTED TO MY SELF THIS SEM BECAUSE MY SCORES IS TOO LOW EVEN THO IM STUDYING WELL

    • @my.lovelyself
      @my.lovelyself 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is going to be ok! I am genuinely proud of you for studying!

  • @Yrlv_INFJ
    @Yrlv_INFJ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Actually I would care less if I got lower than the others, at least I passed so it's not a big deal to me, the thing is that my parents expect the impossible from me, like come on... I'm trying and yet you don't care, at least you can try and motivate me or support me. It's just that they take everything so seriously and they never try to ask about my health instead of scores and tests.

  • @Kpop00056adiction
    @Kpop00056adiction 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    what app do you use to edit???/?????

    • @Matsuriin
      @Matsuriin  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Capcut!:)

  • @butsomeliz
    @butsomeliz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    8:46

  • @Emi_M3lani3Martin3zFan
    @Emi_M3lani3Martin3zFan 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    No one is actually forcing me but I force myself to get good grades cuz I want to go to a good sch

  • @AshiahEliseo
    @AshiahEliseo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    hi guys! I just need some advice on how to come back again. I want to give back everything I wasted, but my IQ is gone. I'm breaking down more. I want to try again, but my laziness is coming first. I don't know if I'm going crazy. I'm just imagining it but I can't do it I want to do it but I don't know what's stopping me I cry every time I listen to the academic validations there's something I'm missing so much since I've lost my appetite for learning I've been too influenced by gadgets but I can't do it, I just want to learn and get back my hard work, I've failed because I expected before, but that position was burdened by others, I stocked too much in my past and I don't know what to do, I want to kill myself only myself I love it I love it I'm hurt I want to cry and cry I sometimes hit my head with my hand maybe that's why I'm going crazy I don't know what to do

    • @theshi-tsuclub6965
      @theshi-tsuclub6965 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just start step by step. Today was my first week with no procrastination, and my first week of school (I felt the same ever since my friends betrayed me and I went down a rabbit hole of (several) mental health issues which I hid from everyone as I always do (ofc not diagnosed cuz to be dignosed u have to admit it to a mental health professional first but I diagnosed myself using the DSM so trust me bro/girl) , plus extreme phone addiction) and rn I’m terrified imma lose that streak so rn imma get off my phone and do all my shit and I want u to do the same try ur best too, ok? Stay in touch lil bro.

  • @Emi_M3lani3Martin3zFan
    @Emi_M3lani3Martin3zFan 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Chat is this a subliminal

  • @hasimashane8703
    @hasimashane8703 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    .

  • @Kanupriya876
    @Kanupriya876 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have been a lil sick lately but i have my mid terms in 8 days i am studying rn even though i am sick i want to get a 95+ no matter what and i will i don't know how but i willl please lord please i wish i get a 97 or 98🩷

  • @vlogbyakari2331
    @vlogbyakari2331 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I failed my final exam that year, most of my friends are passed.i thought I'm only very noob whatever i will do my best in 2025 exam,i will pass with many colors (I do,i wish,i can)🤞🤞🌟🫂🙆

    • @mewneiii
      @mewneiii 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can do it dude🫶🏻