Yeah, I’m almost 30 with no kids😂 I just didn’t wanna bring a child into this world without stability. I always abated the fact that I had to watch my parents struggle to figure it out with me. I much rather wait til I’m settle in my career and life!
You’re the smart, unselfish, responsible one. People just want to feel better about making a ton of bad life mistakes that they can’t take back, and not feel bad about it. So they resort to trying to gaslight the people who didn’t into feeling like something must be wrong with them or they missed out because they didn’t make the same mistakes, too. 🙄
Why do we call it mistakes? Everyone has a different path. My parents started young because they wanted to create the childhood for us that they didn't have. They struggled but we didn't feel it as kids because they kept priority in place. On the other hand I got my first into my early crossing over to mud thirties. ❤
The only thing I disagree with is that if a man is older and he doesn't have kids, something is wrong. I don't believe that. Realistic or not, there is more to be had in the story than a person having kids. Because having kids also doesn't mean something is RIGHT with you either.
Right. If women don’t have kids, they should date men who don’t have kids. The problem with women like the one in the video is their looking for their Black Burger Kangz and most of them have multiple kids with multiple women by 35. She needs to open up her dating options because their are Indian, Asian, and white men who hand never been married or have kids waiting for a wonderful life partner.
There is nothing wrong with them..I blew Tham as responsible with their peens. My friend J (may he rest in peace) was a wonderful man with no kids and a low body count. He died young 46 but happy, wealthy and wise.
And it's probably getting even more & more common as the younger generations are getting married & having kids & fewer of them later, if at all. So it's becoming more of a norm & there's absolutely nothing wrong with being single & childless anymore. Her dad obviously missed catching that modern boat himself. 😈
That's not the point. The point is, most men have had a kid by mid 30s. He'll, most people have. Her father was telling Bresha, just like men have been telling women, BE REALISTIC AND REASONABLE.
I love her interpretation of the reality check and coming from her own Daddy it shows that he cared so much about her to tell her this is real life. It wasnt to be offensive he wanted to let her know after a certain age certain windows close.She a real one for talking about this
Yes u are so right lol. It's something about that moment when u catch yourself and apologize, but mamma right there with u and says "U A'ight Chile" lol ❤😊
I'm in my late 30s without kids and I was reunited with a lady in her late 30s without kids 🤷🏾♂️. I understand where her Dad was coming from minus the moniker 🙃
I am in my mid 30s with no kids I just married a man with no children and we are blissfully in love with no drama. Keep your standards where you want and place them ❤
@@bodyofhopeIf they are so good, why couldn’t their marriages last? Let them work it out with the mothers of their kids and keep their families together.
@@dinkeeinvestmentsllc6428Zero pets ! & kids & im 30! But I’d rather a dog as a pet than one for a man! That’s the difference between men and women , you males think it’s a insult to be alone cause you’re scared to die alone 🤡🤡😭🤣🤣🤣! Meanwhile women would rather peace then to be with any man with bags of baggage just to say they are taken or married 💀💀🤣🤣!
Love it my dad is like that he was like if I don’t hurt your feelings the world will destroy you child he ain’t never lie I love this type of family dynamic brutal honesty it stops a lot of heart ache. Thanks daddy.
That's good that she and her dad had that type of relationship where he could be honest with her and speak to her and let her know from a male perspective... What she really should be expecting out of life and told her the truth that way she doesn't have a lot of delusion or false expectations of what a relationship is... He taught her the game...which I feel a lot of fathers should do for real..❤❤
NO. He expects her to get with a Homeboy with Kids from Multiple women scattered in different homes. A Baby Daddy, Not husband Material. Low Expectation for Black Women is very Common even from their Fathers if he's that Type that he's telling her to get with.
Women don’t deal with the consequences of dating a man with kids as much as a man deals with those consequences of dating a women with kids. A man is taking care of her and the kids. Women don’t usually take care of a man and his kids.
That’s true, I knew this guy for less than 2 hours and he sent me pictures of his kids, even though he was married 😐 and just had a 10 month old and 2 other women with his kids. WTH 🤦🏽♀️ unbelievable! His wife was dating somebody and he was definitely looking to find a step mom. 8m young single and free and he wanted to change that over some poetry he gave me 10 years ago. Young men I will try, they don’t have kids or pressure me to have a baby. They are not as tainted as older men.
@@llman03Lies! Unless that woman is doing absolutely NOTHING, she’s helping financially and then some! MOST women HAVE to work in this economy so if she’s not helping with the kids financially, she’s helping with homework, washing clothes, cooking meals, school events, ect. Y’all really be out here diminishing the contributions of step moms!
No he did not. 35+ people tend to have kids unless: 1) they simply don't want any; or, 2) something is wrong (ie. they can't have children - be it medical, trans, or STDs). He told her not one lie.
Right just because you don’t want them doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you… Yes people 35 plus normally have kids because society told them that was normal. People really can’t have an identity or opinion outside of so called norms. You and her dad are sad best of luck in life. 🙄
@tnewman6967 Your triggered fragility is sad. It's considered the "norm" for a reason. If, for whatever reason, you don't fall within the norm, that's cool. That's your right. No need to attack normal people for living normal lives. Do you but check your emotions. There's no reason to be angered to the point of name-calling just because norms don't apply to you. Live YOUR life and let people live theirs without the judgment you so openly give but are triggered when perceived as given back to you. Be humble.
@@nanonano.beepbeep Ok whatever you say sis just have higher self esteem it’s sad if you think you can’t have Standards. I really feel for anyone who’s parent tells them to Lower their standards… Sad … Just don’t be so pressed and just love yourself.
@tnewman6967 Whose pressed? Her father didn't say a damn thing about lowering her standards. He said, Be realistic. She could pass over a great man with kids for an HIV-infested narcissist with none. No kids doesn't mean greater quality. It just means no kids. Healthy 35+ tend to have kids. I, personally, wouldn't date a 35+ man without any. Are my standards low because they don't align with yours? We don't all want or value the same things. So, mind your own business and do what works for you. Let people live according to their own values, not yours. Who are you?
Right! Men can talk bad about single mothers. But it’s delusional to want a man with no kids. So she can’t be like ewwww single dads😂😂😂😂 and then for people to think something is wrong with you if you “Don’t” have kids. Wtf?! You can’t win. Folk be gaslighting the h3ll out of BW.
I know this is comedy and I laughed. Now that we got that out of the way 😅 I think a person who goes against the grain and does not have kids is quite admirable. I don't see them as having something wrong with them. I see them as responsible people who have self-discipline, self-control and take the act of procreating super seriously. 🤷🏾♀️ I also like that they aren't slave to their biology or biological clocks, and do not follow the rest of the world like senseless sheep. Live your life intentionally. Love it!
I will tell you. I met my hubs when i was 32 and he 33. We both had/have no kids. He tried to put a lil 5-8 yr old on me when he didn’t know me😂😂😂 I asked him how many kids he wasn’t claiming. Since I was in my 30s and him to we both thought something was wrong with each other too. The thing is we all crazy. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 But here we are 10 yrs later still no kids and having a pretty good time. No complaints. It can happen girl!
Dad knew exactly what he was talking about!! If any woman has a good relationship with her father, listen to him!!! He’s a man, and he knows about what being a man is like!!!
I tell people this all the time the older you get it is more than likely the people your age range and in your dating pool will be more likely to have kids, be divorced etc etc. the natural cycle. I’m 31 and don’t have kids and everyone is so shocked by it. I understand.
To listen to the entire episode: pod.link/1313077481/episode/f39e2e3ef9bac73bfadefde1076489a8
Where’s the full video?
When’s the video dropping
Listen? Where's the visual❓😅
Thanks for the link. I want to interview her too!
😂
Parents who talk to their adult children like adults and not like children always make me feel better. 💕
'It's okaaay.'🤣
I like that too❤
Your daddy calling you b!tch? That's weird af. Is he gay? Even if he's not, it's weird.
That's how my dad raised me. We always had adult conversations. And will simplify stuff I didn't understand when I was younger.
Yes it tickles my taint
This interview showed me I already knew Bresha was hilarious but she got that hilarity from her daddy 😂😂
She's adorable! I freaking love her vibe!
Her Rhianna impression had me weak during this interview😂
Aai..that's it😂
I love how she can SWITCH IT up, professional, street, serious , and comedic.. she’s GREAT at ‘‘em all!
Yeah, I’m almost 30 with no kids😂 I just didn’t wanna bring a child into this world without stability. I always abated the fact that I had to watch my parents struggle to figure it out with me. I much rather wait til I’m settle in my career and life!
You’re the smart, unselfish, responsible one. People just want to feel better about making a ton of bad life mistakes that they can’t take back, and not feel bad about it. So they resort to trying to gaslight the people who didn’t into feeling like something must be wrong with them or they missed out because they didn’t make the same mistakes, too. 🙄
Why do we call it mistakes? Everyone has a different path. My parents started young because they wanted to create the childhood for us that they didn't have. They struggled but we didn't feel it as kids because they kept priority in place. On the other hand I got my first into my early crossing over to mud thirties. ❤
You ABSOLUTELY did the right thing. It was the same with my mother. More people should think like this and the world wouldn't have as many issues.
30 is young, they really brainwashed us to believe having kids in your 30’s and 40’s is too late
@@Drea007-YTyou said it!!!!!
Every Daughter’s Relationship With Their Dad Is Different 🙏🏿❤️Love Ya Daddy
Aww that's true. I miss my dad😢
Not all
@@Minnie_ShizzleMiss mine too. ❤
I love her hair. It fits and frames her face perfectly. ❤
Seriously
I said the same thing like that's her signature look.
I was feeling that too.
Im early 30s but not gonna lie the ones without kids are out there they just rare to find.
Have you found him yet😂😂😂frfr im 45 and I have a few homies that don't have kids😂😂😂
Late 30s and the ones that don’t have any, aren’t healed & still have some soul searching.
@@InitndReally😂😂😂😂😂
@@Initndthat's not true at all. It's ppl with kids that need to heal and do soul searchingnal as well. This isn't a one size fits all generalization
I don’t have any kids but I’m glad her dad brought her back to reality.
The only thing I disagree with is that if a man is older and he doesn't have kids, something is wrong. I don't believe that. Realistic or not, there is more to be had in the story than a person having kids. Because having kids also doesn't mean something is RIGHT with you either.
This toxic mindset is what’s messing people up today.
My brother has 6 kids by 3 women...3 broken basically. He is mentally unstable.
The degenerate and/or mentally ill are parents too.
@@queenprincess4life It's very ghetto and that is why our "culture" will be the downfall of our people
Thank you. A man being a baby daddy is in NoWay a trophy over a man who practices restraint until marriage.
Tbh I know of a lot more unstable people who have kids.😅
I’m mid 30’s and I’ve met quite a few men who don’t have children in my age range, and single: so don’t give up on that
Right. If women don’t have kids, they should date men who don’t have kids. The problem with women like the one in the video is their looking for their Black Burger Kangz and most of them have multiple kids with multiple women by 35. She needs to open up her dating options because their are Indian, Asian, and white men who hand never been married or have kids waiting for a wonderful life partner.
@@queenprincess4life 😂 not burger kangs!!!
There is nothing wrong with them..I blew Tham as responsible with their peens. My friend J (may he rest in peace) was a wonderful man with no kids and a low body count. He died young 46 but happy, wealthy and wise.
And it's probably getting even more & more common as the younger generations are getting married & having kids & fewer of them later, if at all. So it's becoming more of a norm & there's absolutely nothing wrong with being single & childless anymore. Her dad obviously missed catching that modern boat himself. 😈
That's not the point. The point is, most men have had a kid by mid 30s. He'll, most people have. Her father was telling Bresha, just like men have been telling women, BE REALISTIC AND REASONABLE.
She's sooo funny AND a good actress.
I love her interpretation of the reality check and coming from her own Daddy it shows that he cared so much about her to tell her this is real life. It wasnt to be offensive he wanted to let her know after a certain age certain windows close.She a real one for talking about this
She's such a good actress, too many people just don't know! I have Loved her since "Love that girl".....she was half the show.... hilarious!!!! 😂
She’s hilarious
The way I cusss so bad on the phone with my Mom 😂😂😂 and say sorry every 10 curse words….she just lets me 😂
If this isn't my son. I mean, let off a stream, then say, "my bad, I'm sorry for cussing Ma." I'm like, "🙄 go'head" 😂😂😂
@@nanonano.beepbeep 🤣🤣
Yes u are so right lol.
It's something about that moment when u catch yourself and apologize, but mamma right there with u and says
"U A'ight Chile" lol
❤😊
😂😂😂 same with my mom. I’m loving the way our relationship is coming along.
@@Mrș_Caș3y my momma is 70…she doesn’t have anymore fight in her 🤣🤣
My dad is so funny as well
I told him I was pregnant again,I was 43.The man said ‘I didn’t know old ppl could get pregnant’ 😮😮😂❤
Daddy's have a way of checking us😂😂
If my dad ever called me that I would flatline. 😮
She has a cute voice.
I'm in my late 30s without kids and I was reunited with a lady in her late 30s without kids 🤷🏾♂️. I understand where her Dad was coming from minus the moniker 🙃
I missed that boat and the next one can keep on floating as well. I dont want it.
Yep
Exactly being single is way better than being in a divorce line.
I always like her she's so real and funny we need to see more of her.😊
She's hilarious and bluntly honest ❤️ her 😁
I love her makeup it's so natural 🩵💚
I’m in my mid 30s with no kids and would never date a man with kids ever again. I don’t give a damn how old I am or how common it is 😂😂😂😂
Divorced men with kids at this age are the most responsible together men out there 👏
How many dogs do you have?
I am in my mid 30s with no kids I just married a man with no children and we are blissfully in love with no drama. Keep your standards where you want and place them ❤
@@bodyofhopeIf they are so good, why couldn’t their marriages last? Let them work it out with the mothers of their kids and keep their families together.
@@dinkeeinvestmentsllc6428Zero pets ! & kids & im 30! But I’d rather a dog as a pet than one for a man! That’s the difference between men and women , you males think it’s a insult to be alone cause you’re scared to die alone 🤡🤡😭🤣🤣🤣! Meanwhile women would rather peace then to be with any man with bags of baggage just to say they are taken or married 💀💀🤣🤣!
When my hubby gets on my last nerve I call him Harpo and he will call me Celie 😂
You could tell she had a real father I bet that's a great feeling❤❤
One with Low expectations for her when it comes to Guys.
I need this whole interview 😊
Wow! 😲 I have to admit that's keeping it 💯 during this conversation.
That's what I say about men who say they didn't want to be with a woman with kids. Yet at same time they have 3+ kids. Really dude!
Im in my late 30's, no kids. Never dated a guy with kids and there's a plethora of guys my age with no kids. They just arent blk. 😂😂😂😂
🫢😅
Why do you think so many black men have kids and other races do not?
Love it my dad is like that he was like if I don’t hurt your feelings the world will destroy you child he ain’t never lie I love this type of family dynamic brutal honesty it stops a lot of heart ache. Thanks daddy.
Key and Peele sketch: I said 🤬
Hilarious
whispering Bihhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhtch😂
Fine already--I'm so sick of every clip hounding me to watch the full episode. The shorts have been *chef's kiss*. I'm gonna watch now
Toure came along ways!!! Shouts out to u my brother keep up the great works you & Bresh
I swear i was in love with this woman 😂😂😂😂
😂😂 I love her Dad!! Thus is facts 💯
Thank you for bringing this woman to my attention, I'm officially hooked on her!
BRESHA!!!💜💜💜🔥🔥🔥
That's good that she and her dad had that type of relationship where he could be honest with her and speak to her and let her know from a male perspective... What she really should be expecting out of life and told her the truth that way she doesn't have a lot of delusion or false expectations of what a relationship is... He taught her the game...which I feel a lot of fathers should do for real..❤❤
NO. He expects her to get with a Homeboy with Kids from Multiple women scattered in different homes. A Baby Daddy, Not husband Material. Low Expectation for Black Women is very Common even from their Fathers if he's that Type that he's telling her to get with.
She's hilarious. Love her
Oooh the way this hit my 30 yr old, childless spirit 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
He can have kids, they just need to be around my age😅
Lol I know that’s right! 🤛🏾😄
So, you just want a Dad. Incest issues!
😂❤😂
Yessssssssss...Heeeeee heehee 😂
Thank you for this clip!
Awesome interview
Awwww my father was the same way with me🤣🤣🤣 rip to both of our fathers ❤️
My dad call me that to😂😂😂
Damn I’m 38 with no kids and work hard for everything I have damn pops 😂😂😂😂 nothing wrong with me
I love ❤ listening ! Too her! She's funny, and real!!!!
😊pp😊😊
She is adorable to funny unfiltered love her
DaD Knows Best !!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 That's Beautiful to HaVe a Relationship Like that With Your DaD !!!!
I love Bresha❤
I'm glad it worked out and that you're still happy!😊❤
I love her!
😂😂😂😂😂LOVE HER
Ladies, follow the men's example. Do not date men with kids! They are looking for a mom!
Unless she is dating younger men it is not exactly realistic…
@@JamieBleufacts and I’m a man with no kids. I can say it is not realistic.
Women don’t deal with the consequences of dating a man with kids as much as a man deals with those consequences of dating a women with kids. A man is taking care of her and the kids. Women don’t usually take care of a man and his kids.
That’s true, I knew this guy for less than 2 hours and he sent me pictures of his kids, even though he was married 😐 and just had a 10 month old and 2 other women with his kids. WTH 🤦🏽♀️ unbelievable! His wife was dating somebody and he was definitely looking to find a step mom. 8m young single and free and he wanted to change that over some poetry he gave me 10 years ago. Young men I will try, they don’t have kids or pressure me to have a baby. They are not as tainted as older men.
@@llman03Lies! Unless that woman is doing absolutely NOTHING, she’s helping financially and then some! MOST women HAVE to work in this economy so if she’s not helping with the kids financially, she’s helping with homework, washing clothes, cooking meals, school events, ect. Y’all really be out here diminishing the contributions of step moms!
Love her.. dad gave bad advice tho…
No he did not. 35+ people tend to have kids unless: 1) they simply don't want any; or, 2) something is wrong (ie. they can't have children - be it medical, trans, or STDs). He told her not one lie.
Right just because you don’t want them doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you… Yes people 35 plus normally have kids because society told them that was normal. People really can’t have an identity or opinion outside of so called norms. You and her dad are sad best of luck in life. 🙄
@tnewman6967 Your triggered fragility is sad. It's considered the "norm" for a reason. If, for whatever reason, you don't fall within the norm, that's cool. That's your right. No need to attack normal people for living normal lives. Do you but check your emotions. There's no reason to be angered to the point of name-calling just because norms don't apply to you. Live YOUR life and let people live theirs without the judgment you so openly give but are triggered when perceived as given back to you. Be humble.
@@nanonano.beepbeep Ok whatever you say sis just have higher self esteem it’s sad if you think you can’t have Standards. I really feel for anyone who’s parent tells them to Lower their standards… Sad … Just don’t be so pressed and just love yourself.
@tnewman6967 Whose pressed? Her father didn't say a damn thing about lowering her standards. He said, Be realistic. She could pass over a great man with kids for an HIV-infested narcissist with none. No kids doesn't mean greater quality. It just means no kids. Healthy 35+ tend to have kids. I, personally, wouldn't date a 35+ man without any. Are my standards low because they don't align with yours? We don't all want or value the same things. So, mind your own business and do what works for you. Let people live according to their own values, not yours. Who are you?
This lady is so damn hilarious 😂😂😂😂
This girl just be glowing 🤩 got dam she is beautiful 😍.
Bresha!!😂
Her dad is real😂😂😂😂
Bresha is so cool and real with it ❤
My thoughts: Thanks, but No thanks, dad. If I’m the total package, I want the total package. Smooches.
Right! Men can talk bad about single mothers. But it’s delusional to want a man with no kids. So she can’t be like ewwww single dads😂😂😂😂 and then for people to think something is wrong with you if you “Don’t” have kids. Wtf?! You can’t win. Folk be gaslighting the h3ll out of BW.
I mean.....she got married. 🤷🏾♀️
If you're in your mid 30's and haven't been married you're not the total package.
@LakersDynasty42 Marriage isn't a goal for everyone. Total package or not.
@@Sharday253 Wasn't talking to you. Carry on.
I know this is comedy and I laughed. Now that we got that out of the way 😅 I think a person who goes against the grain and does not have kids is quite admirable. I don't see them as having something wrong with them. I see them as responsible people who have self-discipline, self-control and take the act of procreating super seriously. 🤷🏾♀️ I also like that they aren't slave to their biology or biological clocks, and do not follow the rest of the world like senseless sheep. Live your life intentionally. Love it!
THIS!!! 🎯
😂😂😂 She is so funny 😆
Man.... IDK who this chick is but she is hilarious! I gotta listen to the whole Interview! I watched about 3 shorts & they have all been hilarious!
She’s giving me that timeless late 60s funk queen beauty. She’s gorgeous.
Lol my father was the same way. He said whatever!
I love her❤😂😂😂
This interview is still funny!
She looks 23❤❤❤
She's so pretty! Just gorgeous.
😂😂😂😂 Straight up!
That DAMN BRESHA!!!!!😂😂😂
I missed the boat too sis 😅
Kevin Durant 36 no kids, Klay Thompson 34 no kids
Don’t forget Michael B Jordan, late thirties no kids as well.
That's me and grandma all day ❤
She is awesome🎉😂😂
I will tell you. I met my hubs when i was 32 and he 33. We both had/have no kids. He tried to put a lil 5-8 yr old on me when he didn’t know me😂😂😂 I asked him how many kids he wasn’t claiming. Since I was in my 30s and him to we both thought something was wrong with each other too. The thing is we all crazy. 🤣🤣🤣🤣 But here we are 10 yrs later still no kids and having a pretty good time. No complaints. It can happen girl!
Lol see everyone’s situation is different. Do what works for you and ❤
I didn’t know she was such a vibe! I first saw her on fall from grace
She too f cute dang!!!
I LOVE HER!🤣
Dads are very essential 😅
Dad is a real one. Keeping it 💯.
I love her!!!❤
Dad knew exactly what he was talking about!! If any woman has a good relationship with her father, listen to him!!! He’s a man, and he knows about what being a man is like!!!
She’s fucking funny 😂
Ya gotta love her😅
Where is the full interview she is too funny
She's funny as shit😂😂😂😂
Love her hilarious
I love her😂
I love Bresha
😅😅😅😅 dang dad you didn't have to humble me through her
I LOVE HER
Now that she an her husband are expecting I love this for her
I tell people this all the time the older you get it is more than likely the people your age range and in your dating pool will be more likely to have kids, be divorced etc etc. the natural cycle. I’m 31 and don’t have kids and everyone is so shocked by it. I understand.
However dont feel like you have to settle for someone who have kids.
A lot of women need to hear her story.
My fav Taurus female out there lol. Looooove her!