I think that the girls should become independent and well educated that nobody can force them to marry the guy they don't want to live with. Girls also can marry their own choice boy or the girls who loves any boy I am sorry if u don't like my suggestion
Mam I think it's not mandatory to change surname.. it's about women's choices..her identity and her own life is first..so women can also continue their surnames their choices
Mam mere ghar pe toh atmosphere aisa h ki bhai ki hamesha chalti h mom dad bhai bhabi baat baat pe chilate rehte Dante rehte...I just feel my life as a burden aur engagement hui h woh atmosphere yaha se changed lagta h
Hi mera naam bhi monika hai...aapke videos muje bhot ache lagte hain...kaafi seekhne ko milta hai..ek request hai..aap please ek video working women's pr bhi banaye ki kaise hum ghr ka kaam aur office ka kaam b ache se sambhal paayein..it will be very helpful 😊
Namaste respected Monica ma'am 🙏🌹 betiyan hamesa closed their mom's sadike bad gharko happy 😊 n peaceful rakhai God bless all of our newlyweds betiyan 🌹🌹🙏a lots of love n respect to our Monica ma'am 🙏
Ma'am Mai aaj kal bahot chirchiri ho gai hu... Mujhe khud bhi nhi pta Mai kyo Etna chirdi rhti hu jb akele rhti hu study me busy to Koi problem nhi but jaise hi Koi unnecessary kuchh bolta h Mai bahot gussa krti hu.... Please ma'am ek video bnaiye es topic pe ki kaise mann sant rhe Aur chichere pan se kaise bache... Please ma'am its a request 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Maam m 22 yrs ki hu ar mera 2nd year chl rha h grad ka ...meri shaadi hony wli h kuch mahino m bahut tension hoti h ki aagey k kaam ar isi beech m apni pdhai kse manage krungi...help kren aap🙏🏻
Hi mam, I have got married last… but shadi ki 15 din bad hi mere pati ko mere past k bare m pta chala or meri shadi divorce tak agyi … me nhi chahti aisa ho na hi vo bhi chahte kahi na kahi… fir ghar ke bado ne bat ki or ab hum sath rahneg ek do din bad m apne sasural jaungi …. But I don’t know vo kaisa behave karenge vo thoda dominating and rude rahenge yeh m ache se janti unhe jabse mere past k bare m pta laga vo tabse mere past ek ek cheez nikl k dekh rahe h …. Jise dekh kar vo khud ko bhi preshan kar rahe h and mujhe dar h jab m vaha jaungi vo mujhse firse pichle ke bare m puchnge … or jab jab vo puchte h m bhot embarrass hoti hu ….. mujhe nhi pta ab m kaise es situation ko handle karu mere past ki vajha se apni merried life nhi khrab karna chati … jo 15 days shadi k bad k the I feel like ki I am the happiest person on the earth… but ab sabse saddest … I can’t explain m kaisa feel kar rahi hu dar bhi h or sab thik bhi karna chati hu … unme bhot gussa h mujhe leke … but m sab thik karna chahti hu
I guess being matured as a person is enough for maintaining relationships with everyone and also love and care is more important ... If you don't have love then it will affected lives and i thought living as a person is more important .... Are bhai khudkeliye jiyenge tabhi sabko sambhal sakenge n and changing everything and managing everything it's not only the responsibility of women.. It's the responsibility of husband and wife together for everything that they have to do for their family... What I am saying togetherness of couple is important.... Sorry if you have found something which is not your opinion.
Mne to shadi k baad bahu or beti me bhut fark dekha...apni beti k liye sab kuch thik chahe wo nanad married ho... responsible ni dar hota h ki koi bol na de tera ghar ni hai ye
Mam thank you for your valuable tips but mujhe ye sab phele sunna tha meine tho sab karab Kr diya idhar ke baat udhar kr de ab ky kru mei kaise sab thik kru mei 🙁
Apka sob video nice hay...aj pahli bar apka vidio dekh rehi hu....apka to maine fan ho gayi....apka bate vhi bohot achhi hay.... Ap mujhe help karoge...?? Mere 1 bohoot jada problm hay....may depression may hu.....ap kya mujhe help karoge..
After mrg mummy k ghar Jane k lie permission mangna padta h... Aur kafi bar Jane bhi nahi dia jata...Jake kuchh din reh bhi ni pate... Meri mrg ko 3 saal ho gae par mummy k ghar Jane me sabko problem h..Plz make a video on this
मेम शादी के लिए कपल के बीच अधिकतम कितनी उम्र का अंतराल होना चाहिए? मेरी उम्र 32 वर्ष है & लड़की की उम्र 20 वर्ष है। लड़की पहले किसी और लड़के के साथ फिजिकल हो चुकी है। मेरी सगाई के लिए वहा बात चल रही है। क्या शादी के बाद दिक्कत होगी?
Meri shadi ko 6 month hue hai, or mere pati akele bete hai or mai akeli bahu hu apne sasural me. Mujhe ye lagta hai ki saas mere or pati k beech me jhagda lagwaya karti hai. Meri burai karti hai pati se. Pati ko show karti hai ki vo bechari or bahot acchi hai or mai buri hu. Mere liye roz ulta seedha bolti hai mujhe neecha dikhati hai. Jo mujhse bardasht nahi hota. Mere pati bhi meri respect nahi karte mujhe vo bhi neecha dikhate hai. Yaha tak ki doosri shadi karne tak ki baate hoti hai. Mere pariwaar se door karna chahti hai mujhe or pati ko to against kar diya hai mere gharwalo se vo baat nahi karte.
Mai bahot pareshaan hu, mai job karna chahti hu or doosre shahr me settle hona chahti hu, mai sasural me rah kar career growth nahi kar skti. Meri job chali gai hai. Or saas covid ki wajah se mujhe or mere pati ko bahar jane nahi dena chahti, vo daba kar bandh kar rakhna chahti hai. Roz roz ma bete mere peeche pad jate hai. Or agar mai javab de du to mai hi buri ban jati hu. Mere chehre ki hasi chali gai hai. Apni umer se jyada dikhne lagi hu, shuru k 3-4 mahine bahot stressful the.. or ab esa lag raha hai ki mujhe adat hoti ja rahi hai .. mai apne saath itna galat hote hue dekh rahi hu, jisse mai bahot pareshaan hu.
Mujhse buri tarah baat karti hai.. or sasur k samne or pati k samne palat jati hai. Doosro k samne bahot meethi ban jati hai or mere saath... Mai nahi rahna chahti hu saas k saath.
Mam mere ssural wale bhot jhuth bolte hai hr choti choti bat jhuth bolte h or jb mujhe pta chal jata hai plat jati h pati ko bolti hu mujhe hi gusa krte h please mai mujhe kya krna chahiy
Meri sadi ki 9sal hogy hai or mai apne hb ke sath rhti hu ssural me nhi rhti hu or aoha se hr choti choti bat jhuth bol jati h or agr mujhe pta chla to mai puchhungi to plat jati h mai agr phon na udhau bat na kru to hb ko bolti hai phon nhi udhati hai or hb bhi gusa krte h mujhe aap se slah chahiy ki mujhe kya krna chahiy
आप उन्हें बोलिए बेटा आप अभी बहुत छोटी हैं जब बड़ी हो जाएगी तो इसका जवाब आपको खुद मिल जाएगा। वैसे वो किसलिए पूछ रही है क्या घर का माहौल तनावपूर्ण है या उसकी किसी सहेली से ऐसी कोई बात हुई??
Simpi 😘😘 right Kya baat ki hi ye aaj ki sacchai hi.sewa Karo sasural ki kitchen ki Bai BN jao machine BN jao Paisa krne ki baccho ki.agar wife ek baby chahti hi to husband jitne baby chahta hi krta hi hamari koi marji nahi.dab ke raho carrier barbad mently torcher alag physical harassment alag saho aur JB waqt aata hi to apna hubby hi nahi stand leta hamare liye.aajkl koi accha nahi husband ke liye KR lo ya sasural walo ke liye.puri jindgi dedo lekin husband ye to nahi puchta aap life me Kya karnachahte ho.aaj kl ke husband Saadi ke 2month baad BTA dete hi ki tum Kya ho hamare liye.jab tk roti bnakr dogi tb tk rahogi saari denge jis din n dogi us din apni aukat dikha dete hi hum girl emotial fool BN jate hi kyunki husband jante hi ki girl ko fool bnana bahot aasan hi.
मॅम माझ्या नवरा खूप रागवत राहतो काही पन बोलतात माझ्या मना लागेल काहीच नाही बहीनी ला खूप चागल बोलतात मी वाईट परिस्थिती त कोन चकामाला येत नाही मग माझी कीमत का कळत नाही माझी जाऊ नाते वाइक सगळे समध खराब करते
Dhanyawad Ma'am meri shaadi hone wali hain such mein ab aisa lagta hain ki intezar ab khatam hua.
बहुत बहुत शुभकामनाएं अर्चिता 🙏🏻🙂
Marrige Comes with Responsbilty .
New Ghar Pariwar ke Rahan Sahan khaan - Pawan ke Anusaar Adjudt karna padta hai. Nyss Video Monica ji 👏👏
I think that the girls should become independent and well educated that nobody can force them to marry the guy they don't want to live with. Girls also can marry their own choice boy or the girls who loves any boy I am sorry if u don't like my suggestion
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Mam
I think it's not mandatory to change surname.. it's about women's choices..her identity and her own life is first..so women can also continue their surnames their choices
🙏🏻🙂
Exactly🎉
Your voice is so soothing and comes with positive vibes ❤️❤️
Thanks Vijeta Sharma 🙏🏻🙂
Mam mere ghar pe toh atmosphere aisa h ki bhai ki hamesha chalti h mom dad bhai bhabi baat baat pe chilate rehte Dante rehte...I just feel my life as a burden aur engagement hui h woh atmosphere yaha se changed lagta h
Hi mera naam bhi monika hai...aapke videos muje bhot ache lagte hain...kaafi seekhne ko milta hai..ek request hai..aap please ek video working women's pr bhi banaye ki kaise hum ghr ka kaam aur office ka kaam b ache se sambhal paayein..it will be very helpful 😊
Thanks Monika Saini 🙏🏻🙂
hello mam Bilkul sacchi baate h yhi bsb feel hota hai , meri bhi abi 3 mnth phle hi mrgg huyi hai 😍 bhot changes aate h
Thanks harpreet Saini 🙏🏻🙂
@@MonicaGupta 🤗
Namaste respected Monica ma'am 🙏🌹 betiyan hamesa closed their mom's sadike bad gharko happy 😊 n peaceful rakhai God bless all of our newlyweds betiyan 🌹🌹🙏a lots of love n respect to our Monica ma'am 🙏
Thanks krishna Patnaik 🙏🏻🙂
बहुत अच्छी सीख दी है मैम जी 👏👏👏👏
ज्ञानवर्धक वीडियो 👌👌👌👌👍👍👍👍😍😊
Aap ne mere bahut help ke hai es video main 😊thank you
Haste hue jb ap bolti h tab bhut achhi lagti h.. nice video mam . love 💕 you..
Thanks gita katyal 🙏🏻🙂
Meri bi shadii hone vali .... motivation Mila Aapke video Dekh Kar❤️❤️❤️
बहुत सारी बधाई सीमा 💐
@@MonicaGupta Dhaynwad Respected Mam❤️
Hello ji 🙏 mam Mai apki sari video dekhti hu hame Sha bhut help hoti hai apki videos love from Dubai 😊🇦🇪
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Absolutely right Monica Gupta Mam
Ma'am make a video on same topic for Boys.🙏
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Thank you so much ma'am...you have a motherly nature... 🙏💫❤
🙏Jay mataji 🙏
Maa ki tarah achhi salah dete ho
Madam
Ma'am Mai aaj kal bahot chirchiri ho gai hu... Mujhe khud bhi nhi pta Mai kyo Etna chirdi rhti hu jb akele rhti hu study me busy to Koi problem nhi but jaise hi Koi unnecessary kuchh bolta h Mai bahot gussa krti hu.... Please ma'am ek video bnaiye es topic pe ki kaise mann sant rhe Aur chichere pan se kaise bache... Please ma'am its a request 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Maam m 22 yrs ki hu ar mera 2nd year chl rha h grad ka ...meri shaadi hony wli h kuch mahino m bahut tension hoti h ki aagey k kaam ar isi beech m apni pdhai kse manage krungi...help kren aap🙏🏻
आप खुल कर बात कीजिए अपने होने वाले पति से और बताएं कि आपको इसकी चिंता है...
Hi mam, I have got married last… but shadi ki 15 din bad hi mere pati ko mere past k bare m pta chala or meri shadi divorce tak agyi … me nhi chahti aisa ho na hi vo bhi chahte kahi na kahi… fir ghar ke bado ne bat ki or ab hum sath rahneg ek do din bad m apne sasural jaungi …. But I don’t know vo kaisa behave karenge vo thoda dominating and rude rahenge yeh m ache se janti unhe jabse mere past k bare m pta laga vo tabse mere past ek ek cheez nikl k dekh rahe h …. Jise dekh kar vo khud ko bhi preshan kar rahe h and mujhe dar h jab m vaha jaungi vo mujhse firse pichle ke bare m puchnge … or jab jab vo puchte h m bhot embarrass hoti hu ….. mujhe nhi pta ab m kaise es situation ko handle karu mere past ki vajha se apni merried life nhi khrab karna chati … jo 15 days shadi k bad k the I feel like ki I am the happiest person on the earth… but ab sabse saddest … I can’t explain m kaisa feel kar rahi hu dar bhi h or sab thik bhi karna chati hu … unme bhot gussa h mujhe leke … but m sab thik karna chahti hu
App k samjhane k tarika boht piyaara h aap k ❤️
Thanks Fareen Shah 🙏🏻🙂
Thankyou so very much mam gratitude🥰🙏💫✨⭐
Thanks🙏🏻🙂
Good content 👏👏
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I guess being matured as a person is enough for maintaining relationships with everyone and also love and care is more important ... If you don't have love then it will affected lives and i thought living as a person is more important .... Are bhai khudkeliye jiyenge tabhi sabko sambhal sakenge n and changing everything and managing everything it's not only the responsibility of women.. It's the responsibility of husband and wife together for everything that they have to do for their family... What I am saying togetherness of couple is important.... Sorry if you have found something which is not your opinion.
Very nice example Diya mam apni thanks 😊😘
Mne to shadi k baad bahu or beti me bhut fark dekha...apni beti k liye sab kuch thik chahe wo nanad married ho... responsible ni dar hota h ki koi bol na de tera ghar ni hai ye
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Thanks you ma'am 👍
Most welcome 😊
Aapki videos bahut help karti hai.
Mere to kismt hi khrp hai.meri dono ghr violence wala mile.avi kuch expect nhi krti. Jo hai isko hi accept krli.🙂
Meri Shadi hone wali hai next month. Thank you for this important video.
All the best... बहुत सारी बधाई 💐🍫🙂
How your experience
Mam thank you for your valuable tips but mujhe ye sab phele sunna tha meine tho sab karab Kr diya idhar ke baat udhar kr de ab ky kru mei kaise sab thik kru mei 🙁
Thankyou maa axi chijen batane ke liye aap ek perfect housewife aur maa jarur hongi
Aapko sunti hun to jaise lagta h mummy ko sun rahi hun
Tq Ma'am mere shadi hogaye fer v muje kuch samaj nahe aaratha my samje ab shadi ke life
Ma'am aapki jitni tarif Karu vo kam h
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Nice😇😀Monica ji
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Bahut aachi baat .mai aapka har vedieo dekhti hu .
Apka sob video nice hay...aj pahli bar apka vidio dekh rehi hu....apka to maine fan ho gayi....apka bate vhi bohot achhi hay....
Ap mujhe help karoge...??
Mere 1 bohoot jada problm hay....may depression may hu.....ap kya mujhe help karoge..
हैलो पूजा.. धन्यवाद... जी बताएं जरुर कोशिश करुंगी
Thankyou mem 👏
Most welcome 😊
Nice tips mam ,Tq....
Helpful video unt hee👍
Thanks Tanya 🙏🏻🙂
Good video mam
Thanks Veena Bharti 🙏🏻🙂
Thanks
Ma'am, how to overcome dard of one sided love par v ek video bana dengi kya....
Please.
After mrg mummy k ghar Jane k lie permission mangna padta h... Aur kafi bar Jane bhi nahi dia jata...Jake kuchh din reh bhi ni pate... Meri mrg ko 3 saal ho gae par mummy k ghar Jane me sabko problem h..Plz make a video on this
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mam mera wife bahuti negetive sochti h or bato bato me gusha vi hoti h ...mughe prathomik star pe kea karna chahea?
Very nice video mam🤗🤗
Hello mam
Mam maine ik line padhi h jisme likha tha 90% log bate likhte h jo vo kah nahi pate yeh problem mere sath bhi h isko kaise thik karu
Bahot achha mam
Very nice video mam
मेम शादी के लिए कपल के बीच अधिकतम कितनी उम्र का अंतराल होना चाहिए? मेरी उम्र 32 वर्ष है & लड़की की उम्र 20 वर्ष है। लड़की पहले किसी और लड़के के साथ फिजिकल हो चुकी है। मेरी सगाई के लिए वहा बात चल रही है। क्या शादी के बाद दिक्कत होगी?
After listening to this i dont want to get married
अरे ये क्या बात हुई?
@@MonicaGupta is it important to get married because my parents are forcing me n i love my freedom that i have now n im afraid to🙂
Madam ye bate sunne me achi lgti jb sasural pati nhi janbar mile to kya kre
Meri shadi ko 6 month hue hai, or mere pati akele bete hai or mai akeli bahu hu apne sasural me. Mujhe ye lagta hai ki saas mere or pati k beech me jhagda lagwaya karti hai. Meri burai karti hai pati se. Pati ko show karti hai ki vo bechari or bahot acchi hai or mai buri hu. Mere liye roz ulta seedha bolti hai mujhe neecha dikhati hai. Jo mujhse bardasht nahi hota. Mere pati bhi meri respect nahi karte mujhe vo bhi neecha dikhate hai. Yaha tak ki doosri shadi karne tak ki baate hoti hai. Mere pariwaar se door karna chahti hai mujhe or pati ko to against kar diya hai mere gharwalo se vo baat nahi karte.
Mai bahot pareshaan hu, mai job karna chahti hu or doosre shahr me settle hona chahti hu, mai sasural me rah kar career growth nahi kar skti. Meri job chali gai hai. Or saas covid ki wajah se mujhe or mere pati ko bahar jane nahi dena chahti, vo daba kar bandh kar rakhna chahti hai. Roz roz ma bete mere peeche pad jate hai. Or agar mai javab de du to mai hi buri ban jati hu. Mere chehre ki hasi chali gai hai. Apni umer se jyada dikhne lagi hu, shuru k 3-4 mahine bahot stressful the.. or ab esa lag raha hai ki mujhe adat hoti ja rahi hai .. mai apne saath itna galat hote hue dekh rahi hu, jisse mai bahot pareshaan hu.
Mujhse buri tarah baat karti hai.. or sasur k samne or pati k samne palat jati hai. Doosro k samne bahot meethi ban jati hai or mere saath... Mai nahi rahna chahti hu saas k saath.
Please Ma'am advise here
Vry nice video mam
Thanks KIRTI RANI 🙏🏻🙂
Thanks mam
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Mam mere ssural wale bhot jhuth bolte hai hr choti choti bat jhuth bolte h or jb mujhe pta chal jata hai plat jati h pati ko bolti hu mujhe hi gusa krte h please mai mujhe kya krna chahiy
Yeh Sabi jagha Ka hall hai.
Ap unse baat Karna band Kar do BSS .
Iss baar ja solution hai
क्या झूठ?
Meri sadi ki 9sal hogy hai or mai apne hb ke sath rhti hu ssural me nhi rhti hu or aoha se hr choti choti bat jhuth bol jati h or agr mujhe pta chla to mai puchhungi to plat jati h mai agr phon na udhau bat na kru to hb ko bolti hai phon nhi udhati hai or hb bhi gusa krte h mujhe aap se slah chahiy ki mujhe kya krna chahiy
Mujhe maigren hai mai thora sa tenson leti hu to tbiyt khrab hojati h please mam kuchh btadiy
Ladko ko bhi kafi broblam hoti hogi shaddi ke bad???
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Didi meri beti 9 sal ki hai aaj usne mujhse questions kiya ki mmi shadi kyu krte hain kyu shadi karni padti h 🤔🤫🧐m usko kya answer doon 🙏
आप उन्हें बोलिए बेटा आप अभी बहुत छोटी हैं जब बड़ी हो जाएगी तो इसका जवाब आपको खुद मिल जाएगा।
वैसे वो किसलिए पूछ रही है क्या घर का माहौल तनावपूर्ण है या उसकी किसी सहेली से ऐसी कोई बात हुई??
@@MonicaGuptathankyou so much mam🙏🎉❤️😊
very nice mem me aapse Gujarati me bat Karu to aapko acha lega
Mam Sadi ke baad bahut hi chhng ho jata hai
Shaddi kyu kare ? Kya jarurat hai iski jab dono ko esa jeena nahi hai...boht hi ajeeb rishta judd jata hai
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Yes is pr video laiye mam
Sachi shadi to force hi hota hai isliye ab girls ko independent ho jana chahiye 🙄🙄🙄
Pha apni phchan to ldki ki khtm hojati h bs use jimmedariyo ka bojh dediya jata h
Mam kya kare jab girls changes ko force manne lag jaye
क्या हुआ?खुल कर बताएं?
My future mil told her younger son to give 20lakhs property to the elder one and said after that only you can marry
Is it important to change surname
ये तो परिवार परिवार पर निर्भर करता है
Is sub par upay batao mam
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❤️❤️❤️❤️
😊
Meri Bhi abhi abhi shadi hui h 4 june ko
😊👍💐💐
Thanks mam🙏
Sesural m bhi ladki khus rhigi jo sesural balo ki julami krte rhigi, bche pda krte rhegi, pti s pit to rhigi
Simpi 😘😘 right Kya baat ki hi ye aaj ki sacchai hi.sewa Karo sasural ki kitchen ki Bai BN jao machine BN jao Paisa krne ki baccho ki.agar wife ek baby chahti hi to husband jitne baby chahta hi krta hi hamari koi marji nahi.dab ke raho carrier barbad mently torcher alag physical harassment alag saho aur JB waqt aata hi to apna hubby hi nahi stand leta hamare liye.aajkl koi accha nahi husband ke liye KR lo ya sasural walo ke liye.puri jindgi dedo lekin husband ye to nahi puchta aap life me Kya karnachahte ho.aaj kl ke husband Saadi ke 2month baad BTA dete hi ki tum Kya ho hamare liye.jab tk roti bnakr dogi tb tk rahogi saari denge jis din n dogi us din apni aukat dikha dete hi hum girl emotial fool BN jate hi kyunki husband jante hi ki girl ko fool bnana bahot aasan hi.
We are 21st century girls . Hum apni life apne tarike se ji skte hai koi hume force nhi kar skta ab purana jamana chala gya
Hello dii
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मॅम माझ्या नवरा खूप रागवत राहतो काही पन बोलतात माझ्या मना लागेल काहीच नाही बहीनी ला खूप चागल बोलतात मी वाईट परिस्थिती त कोन चकामाला येत नाही मग माझी कीमत का कळत नाही माझी जाऊ नाते वाइक सगळे समध खराब करते
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जी
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shadi k bad bhut badlaav ate hain
Too much ads 🙄 , It is irritating 😑
Mam ladki mein kuch change aata
Par ladke ka sara jindagi badal jati hai
Hello mam
Main to dab ke nahi rahungi. Jo jna hai to jna hai
Eeekkk baaaat. Boluuu jiiitnaaa bhi. Krloooo acheee seeee. Baaad me. Jutttee hiiiii paadte hai. Bhot patentilly krlooo tab. Bhiiiiiiiiiii. Maturity dikhalo. Fir bhi Bolte hai kyaaa sikhaya tujhe or nokriii ladkiaaa ajkl shadi ke bad bhiiiii ✅ii krte hai. Or freedom se rehte hai. Aab har ladki. Self independent hai
Mere bhaiya ka shadhi lag raha he mam
क्या?
Bhinde the seen please
Thanks
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Very nice video mam
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🤗🤗
Thankyou