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The neighbors sound like the kind of sociopaths who would trespass on your property deliberately and then injure themselves, then they'd sue you in court for their own careless criminality and lie straight to the court that you invited them over
It gets annoying hearing "And I seriously don't know what to do" and "If I were in your shoes" a lot. We get it, we know both those statements are true, that's why we're here.
I can relate to OP in Story 2 my parents were heavy Christians and were super nice when around other people but when not near other people they’re awful I was constantly being called a loser and a mistake whenever I made a small mistake and once I moved out I called them out and flipped them off before I shut the door
Story 1: Stories like this are why i would never buy a house with a pool or get a pool installed. They attract the absolute worst people out there. Even with cameras, it didnt seem to deter them here. The husbands biggest mistake was showing the neighbours how to open it to 'retreive items'. You're just asking from them to tresspass at that point. At least they were start to rescind any 'permission' here, along with a registered letter and not outright accusing any neighbour of using the pool, but i think its pretty obvious on which neighbour it was. While you're at it, get a "no tresspassing, tresspassers will be prosecuted" sign too. Story 2: No way is the OP a jerk here. The parents are. The OP is 20, and adult, so if you want to go to that concert, that's up to you, not them. They are just intrusive jerks. If the OP is able, they should move out and limit contact with the parents. Story 3: Absolutely none of this is an over-reaction and i say the OP needs to 100% ban the in-laws here. They obvioulsy dont care about you, your rules or your household at all. They sound absolutely awful and i know i wouldnt want them or any of their antics around you or your family. Story 4: Some people either just don't get something, or they just don't want to listen. I think its both here, but definitely she didnt want to listen. This was a nationwide issue, not something just that store is experiencing. Just come back later.... taxi or not. Geez. Need to remember the 4 words of "Right To Refuse Service".... or even "All Sales Final". Story 5: No way is the OP a jerk here, and if this is how the parents reacted here, do you really want to move in with them, rent-free or not? I think no. I get the need for needing a more steady place to stay, but i dont think that this is the right course of action. It is an option to consider if things get bad in life, but i think not living there is a better idea.
@@QuickManEXE I don’t mind having a pool, but I make it very clear to anyone who wants to go into my yard that my pool is off limits unless I am present and give them permission. I would not even let them in my yard without permission, and be sure to wall/fence/gate it completely. **plays “Attack On Titan” season 2 opening theme**
Story three They can come visit but cannot stay at your house. They are endangering your children and they come first. So what if they get their feelings hurt. Better that than a hurt or dead child.
First story I would not have told any of the neighbors what and why we are installing cameras. I would have just waited till I see them or their kids pop up on camera trespassing and call the cops on them. And would do this each and ever time they trespassed.
They could also have tried being more clear when they told the neighbors how to get into their gate... It's pretty clear their was a communication error at that point which lead to this. It's a pretty dick move to try to get the legal system involved in secret when you can just be upfront that you didn't actually consent to the thing they are doing. If they do it after that, then hell ya, call the cops, but your the dick if you punish someone because of a miscommunication.
@@LegDayLas Idk using the neighbors garden and pool to throw a party just because youve been shown how to open the gate isnt what i call a misunderstanding
@@bizzard199 We were not there for the conversation and you are basing your entire perspective on the side of the story told by the person who feels they were wronged by another. You are correct that their is a massive jump between giving a gate code and giving permission to use her home for parties, which is all the more reason to doubt the original conversation was as cut and dry as she makes it out to be.
Well for the second story. I say make a new bank account they dont know about, that they cant get into. Youre 20 years old ma'am. Do you really think its necessary to have a joint account with them? The thing is, they can order a card, and literally take your money if youre not careful. Ive had that happen to myself. I enlisted in the US Army at 17 and was shipped off. I had to make a joint account. I made it through basic with around 3k in my account. Within 2 months it was all gone. I found out my mom had been using my money while i was away in the military. So yeah, id get a new bank account they dont know about. Especially if theyre going to act that way when you spend your own hard earned money. Thats a dangerous situation. Anything with money is.
No. You are a adult. If you live at home save up and move out. If they open your mail tell them that it is not okay and your room is your room. Stand your ground and hold your boundries. If you are walking on eggshells your parents could be abusive.
Easy to say children should obey their parents glossing over the part of the Bible that says that parents should not exasperated their children and that when disciplining their children it should be kept in mind that children are image bearers of God 🙄
Last story: Twenty-three years old and he lets his mother and father control his phone and bank accounts but craves independence? OP needs to get a new phone line contract, one his parents aren't on and can't access, and on the same day OP should open a new account with a different bank that his parents don't bank with, then withdraw all his money from his old bank account and inquire about closing the old bank account (assuming they don't need his parent's permission to close the account), after that deposit all the money into the new account, and go into work to have them change his bank account details for his pay. Next, when OP's lease comes up, he could move into a new place and never let his parents know where he lives. Then he'd actually be independent, and his parents wouldn't be able to hold anything over his head.
Story 2: op not the jerk. I am Christian and I hate when people say that they don’t want to be Christian because of people they know claiming to be Christian when their actions say otherwise. I also have heard so many messed up things in my life, but not as messed up as using the Bible to manipulate others; that in my opinion is one of the worse things someone could do.
First Story: OP is in the right not to let them use their pool. They did not have permission to use it, only to go into the yard for lost balls. But since they abused that privilege, then they don’t deserve to set foot on OP’s property. Knowing those neighbors, they would sue OP the second one of them got hurt or worst in or near that pool.
@@LegDayLas Those neighbors were under the ASSUMPTION they could use the pool. Yeah no, that's trespassing. And no, OP is not held liable for any injuries those trespassors incur, since they were not invited to begin with.
9:40. I hate how religious parents use that argument to excuse being dictators. Honor your parents? Sure it also says don't antagonize your children and bring them to wrath. Never hear such parents ever consider that one though.
Concert story, guess what, you're 20, an adult. They can stuff it. They have no authority since you turned 18. Even if it's some cultural thing, or if it's just being extreme religious zealots, they're out of line.
comment on religious one .... if it encourages sin u should avoid it also you shouldnt leave your parents house till marriage that for both genders techinally so until marriage ure still considered a child and must listen to your parents the exception on that is if they trying to get u to sin (society these days think its differnt but bible also says ppl will think what is good is evil and evil is good)
With the second story i think alot of Cristians are way too harsh about their religion, the are convinced if you dont listen to what they sya your a bad person. I have been bullied by Christians in the past for not believing
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The neighbors sound like the kind of sociopaths who would trespass on your property deliberately and then injure themselves, then they'd sue you in court for their own careless criminality and lie straight to the court that you invited them over
The parents seem to forget the part in the bible where it says 'do not push your kids to wrath'.
People like that only quote bible lines that benefit them and no one else.
@@QuickManEXEmaybe I misunderstood but thats called being civil and a good part in society and raising kids right
@@QuickManEXEnvm I watched the whole video and I think you were talking about the video 💀
They also use the Lord's name in vain.
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It gets annoying hearing "And I seriously don't know what to do" and "If I were in your shoes" a lot. We get it, we know both those statements are true, that's why we're here.
I can relate to OP in Story 2 my parents were heavy Christians and were super nice when around other people but when not near other people they’re awful I was constantly being called a loser and a mistake whenever I made a small mistake and once I moved out I called them out and flipped them off before I shut the door
Story 2. You are an ADULT! Your parents need to UNDERSTAND that you're an ADULT.
OP should start wearing his cross upside down. 😈
Or start wearing a pentagram! LOL! 😂
Story 1: Stories like this are why i would never buy a house with a pool or get a pool installed. They attract the absolute worst people out there. Even with cameras, it didnt seem to deter them here. The husbands biggest mistake was showing the neighbours how to open it to 'retreive items'. You're just asking from them to tresspass at that point. At least they were start to rescind any 'permission' here, along with a registered letter and not outright accusing any neighbour of using the pool, but i think its pretty obvious on which neighbour it was. While you're at it, get a "no tresspassing, tresspassers will be prosecuted" sign too.
Story 2: No way is the OP a jerk here. The parents are. The OP is 20, and adult, so if you want to go to that concert, that's up to you, not them. They are just intrusive jerks. If the OP is able, they should move out and limit contact with the parents.
Story 3: Absolutely none of this is an over-reaction and i say the OP needs to 100% ban the in-laws here. They obvioulsy dont care about you, your rules or your household at all. They sound absolutely awful and i know i wouldnt want them or any of their antics around you or your family.
Story 4: Some people either just don't get something, or they just don't want to listen. I think its both here, but definitely she didnt want to listen. This was a nationwide issue, not something just that store is experiencing. Just come back later.... taxi or not. Geez. Need to remember the 4 words of "Right To Refuse Service".... or even "All Sales Final".
Story 5: No way is the OP a jerk here, and if this is how the parents reacted here, do you really want to move in with them, rent-free or not? I think no. I get the need for needing a more steady place to stay, but i dont think that this is the right course of action. It is an option to consider if things get bad in life, but i think not living there is a better idea.
@@QuickManEXE I don’t mind having a pool, but I make it very clear to anyone who wants to go into my yard that my pool is off limits unless I am present and give them permission. I would not even let them in my yard without permission, and be sure to wall/fence/gate it completely. **plays “Attack On Titan” season 2 opening theme**
Concert tickets. If you are old enough to work and save for them go. Period. Time to find your own place OP.
VIP Ticket story: OP is 20 and an adult. Parents have no say how you use your money at that age.
Story three They can come visit but cannot stay at your house. They are endangering your children and they come first. So what if they get their feelings hurt. Better that than a hurt or dead child.
They're also the kind of people that will report OP and family to CPS out of spite.
The neighbors: Oh there away let’s use there pool WITHOUT there permission!
Very well dealt with. Message transmitted in a non accusatory way
First story I would not have told any of the neighbors what and why we are installing cameras. I would have just waited till I see them or their kids pop up on camera trespassing and call the cops on them. And would do this each and ever time they trespassed.
They could also have tried being more clear when they told the neighbors how to get into their gate... It's pretty clear their was a communication error at that point which lead to this. It's a pretty dick move to try to get the legal system involved in secret when you can just be upfront that you didn't actually consent to the thing they are doing. If they do it after that, then hell ya, call the cops, but your the dick if you punish someone because of a miscommunication.
@@LegDayLas Idk using the neighbors garden and pool to throw a party just because youve been shown how to open the gate isnt what i call a misunderstanding
@@bizzard199 We were not there for the conversation and you are basing your entire perspective on the side of the story told by the person who feels they were wronged by another. You are correct that their is a massive jump between giving a gate code and giving permission to use her home for parties, which is all the more reason to doubt the original conversation was as cut and dry as she makes it out to be.
Those neighbors are one of the reasons why society is going downhill
Well for the second story. I say make a new bank account they dont know about, that they cant get into. Youre 20 years old ma'am. Do you really think its necessary to have a joint account with them? The thing is, they can order a card, and literally take your money if youre not careful. Ive had that happen to myself. I enlisted in the US Army at 17 and was shipped off. I had to make a joint account. I made it through basic with around 3k in my account. Within 2 months it was all gone. I found out my mom had been using my money while i was away in the military. So yeah, id get a new bank account they dont know about. Especially if theyre going to act that way when you spend your own hard earned money. Thats a dangerous situation. Anything with money is.
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No. You are a adult. If you live at home save up and move out. If they open your mail tell them that it is not okay and your room is your room. Stand your ground and hold your boundries. If you are walking on eggshells your parents could be abusive.
Easy to say children should obey their parents glossing over the part of the Bible that says that parents should not exasperated their children and that when disciplining their children it should be kept in mind that children are image bearers of God 🙄
People like that only quote bible lines when it benefits them and no one else.
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So the parents want to know of every decision? Malicious compliance moment right there
Last story: Twenty-three years old and he lets his mother and father control his phone and bank accounts but craves independence? OP needs to get a new phone line contract, one his parents aren't on and can't access, and on the same day OP should open a new account with a different bank that his parents don't bank with, then withdraw all his money from his old bank account and inquire about closing the old bank account (assuming they don't need his parent's permission to close the account), after that deposit all the money into the new account, and go into work to have them change his bank account details for his pay. Next, when OP's lease comes up, he could move into a new place and never let his parents know where he lives. Then he'd actually be independent, and his parents wouldn't be able to hold anything over his head.
Story 2: op not the jerk. I am Christian and I hate when people say that they don’t want to be Christian because of people they know claiming to be Christian when their actions say otherwise. I also have heard so many messed up things in my life, but not as messed up as using the Bible to manipulate others; that in my opinion is one of the worse things someone could do.
That's the very definition of using the Lord's name in vain.
@@JamesDavy2009I agree 👍
First Story: OP is in the right not to let them use their pool. They did not have permission to use it, only to go into the yard for lost balls. But since they abused that privilege, then they don’t deserve to set foot on OP’s property. Knowing those neighbors, they would sue OP the second one of them got hurt or worst in or near that pool.
Miscomunications happen, and it's pretty clear the OP didn't originally make her intentions clear. All she really needed to do was talk to them.
@@LegDayLas Those neighbors were under the ASSUMPTION they could use the pool. Yeah no, that's trespassing. And no, OP is not held liable for any injuries those trespassors incur, since they were not invited to begin with.
@@Animeaddiction When did I say they are?
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9:40. I hate how religious parents use that argument to excuse being dictators. Honor your parents? Sure it also says don't antagonize your children and bring them to wrath. Never hear such parents ever consider that one though.
On the bible also said that parents need to respect their children
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What I want to know is what kind of concert is this that your parents would get this upset about?
Probably literally anything other then Christian-themed music.
@@QuickManEXE To caricature their types, they only approve of the kind of Christian music that have gone myrrh.
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Story #2 why do your parents have access to your bank acct
Someone threw a bike in my pool
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Concert story, guess what, you're 20, an adult. They can stuff it. They have no authority since you turned 18. Even if it's some cultural thing, or if it's just being extreme religious zealots, they're out of line.
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In story 2 isn't she an actual Adult at 20 years old I was treated like an adult before I was that age.
In most western countries, the age of majority is 18.
It sounds like ops parents didn’t let him go to collage
BTW, "collage" rhymes with "massage" and is a form of art.
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comment on religious one .... if it encourages sin u should avoid it also you shouldnt leave your parents house till marriage that for both genders techinally so until marriage ure still considered a child and must listen to your parents the exception on that is if they trying to get u to sin (society these days think its differnt but bible also says ppl will think what is good is evil and evil is good)
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Uh well there over 18 they have no say what they do the second OP needs do do what she wants not her parents it's just a control move
God says you can follow me or be with the world
What game are they playing in the background?
Wipeout, according to a later comment.
What game is this?
wipeout looks like
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With the second story i think alot of Cristians are way too harsh about their religion, the are convinced if you dont listen to what they sya your a bad person. I have been bullied by Christians in the past for not believing
They take the Lord's name in vain too many times to count and commit several deadly sins. It's like they have forgotten what Jesus Christ taught.
I don’t think all Christians are bad, some are nice. But there are some terrible people in the world who use their religion to hurt people.
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Dang bro I really liked some of your vids but now got to unsubscribe
hearing "I seriously don't know what to do" in almost EVERY story is a bit much and is getting really old. I'm out, was fun while it lasted.
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@@hirak4087 your not the first to comment
@@Blackveil123 proof ?
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