It’s funny how you mention the outliers and exceptions because I have a friend who will always come at me with “that’s not true. I know someone who ….” And then proceeds to tell me about that one exception to the rule. Now I always preface everything I’m saying with “generally speaking, I am talking about the majority, NOT the exceptions because these are not the people I’m speaking of” 🤦🏻♀️
Stop throwing dust on people's eyes, men don't care if you are the most beautiful woman on earth or give them all the peace they want if they don't want to marry you it's a wrap, everything men do is transaction, it's simply because of what you can do for them finish, men marry on funny reason, maybe you can cook, give them children or how you clean his house, apart from that they don't care about anything, you can be the most interligent woman on earth if you don't have what they are looking for its a wrap 💯🙏🤨
Yes darling, thanks so much, I hate when people keep women stuck and also tell them all kinds of shit to do just because you want a man, what kind of nonsense is that, you don't have to do any as a woman for a man to marry you, women have already been trained on how to become a wife from our parents so we have nothing to prove to any man, it's nen who have do in and everything , prove him self beyond any reasonable doubt for a woman to accept to marry him, men don't care about all that she is saying, it's all about what you can do for them finish, God bless you dear👍💯👋👋👋
@@danilaroche1156and that’s a select few…far in between plus statistics say otherwise… men marry most times for a come UP! acting and pretending for years…I know cause I was married half my life! No RED FLAGS…loving marriage til I found out he had a 3month old baby n year 20!!?? I SAID FILE THE PAPERS I WILL SIGN AINT NO COMNG BACK! I’m 5feet size 7 shoe 135lbs attractive long waist length natural hair all my life! ran 16 marathons fit toned wit a 🍑 and youthful looking! educated with 2 grown sons and all of my values and morals DIDNT STOP HIM FROM CHEATING! SPEAKS VOLUMES…FACTS! aka a fitandfabulous BW….💯💃🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾😊
I am realizing that men are more transactional in their choice than I once thought. My take - most men have a vision of the woman they want, almost as if they were casting for a very particular role in a film and they will choose a person who fits that. If they desire an artsy academic, if you aren’t that, you won’t fit. If they want a n extroverted adventurer, and you aren’t that. You won’t fit. Very much like type casting.
@ no…. I mean you have to not have sex for as long as possible Ideally until after marriage And always keep him on his toes after He can never have you 100% that’s when they treat you like crap
That thing about his mom, doesn’t strike me as true, unless she had negative traits that’d make his mom concerned for him. She’d appreciate whoever made him happy. Unless mother and son have a codependent relationship
Men this…then that… men this and that💀💀I am tired of what men want. Stop conditioning women to be a certain way. Just be yourself, the right man will come at the divine timing
Thank you for sharing these gems of wisdom! I’ve been exclusive with my man for a year now, and realize that I let my standards drop overtime and have made things too easy for him. As a result… his effort and investment has dropped off overtime. Do you have a course that teaches how to re-reset my standards And value with him?
This lady is not doing anything, she is just here advertising her self for men to know she's the best they can ever have, if she is married , she is just telling her man she is lucky to have her finish, everything she is saying is all about her and what she has been doing to get her self men knowing very well it doesn't work that way, every you are saying is not making any sense, tell women they got it already from our childhood, parents and don't have to do anything or prove to any man, they have already been trained on how to become a good wife, they are beautiful and wonderfully made by God almighty and have nothing to prove for a man to marry them 🙏🙏🙏
I don’t care about many man and their preferences. My authenticity will never be for negotiation but feel free to morph into whatever version of yourself to get a man. You are loved 🥰
It’s funny how you mention the outliers and exceptions because I have a friend who will always come at me with “that’s not true. I know someone who ….” And then proceeds to tell me about that one exception to the rule. Now I always preface everything I’m saying with “generally speaking, I am talking about the majority, NOT the exceptions because these are not the people I’m speaking of” 🤦🏻♀️
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Thank you for sharing this 😇
You’re welcome ❤️
Chengi your teachings are so wise💝
Stop throwing dust on people's eyes, men don't care if you are the most beautiful woman on earth or give them all the peace they want if they don't want to marry you it's a wrap, everything men do is transaction, it's simply because of what you can do for them finish, men marry on funny reason, maybe you can cook, give them children or how you clean his house, apart from that they don't care about anything, you can be the most interligent woman on earth if you don't have what they are looking for its a wrap 💯🙏🤨
And that's a good thing so most women don't have to think there's something wrong with them and remain stuck. They can go to the next.
Yes darling, thanks so much, I hate when people keep women stuck and also tell them all kinds of shit to do just because you want a man, what kind of nonsense is that, you don't have to do any as a woman for a man to marry you, women have already been trained on how to become a wife from our parents so we have nothing to prove to any man, it's nen who have do in and everything , prove him self beyond any reasonable doubt for a woman to accept to marry him, men don't care about all that she is saying, it's all about what you can do for them finish, God bless you dear👍💯👋👋👋
Stating that it's transactional for men is incredibly cynical. I know a plethora of Godly men who treasured their wives. Married for love.
@@danilaroche1156and that’s a select few…far in between plus statistics say otherwise… men marry most times for a come UP! acting and pretending for years…I know cause I was married half my life! No RED FLAGS…loving marriage til I found out he had a 3month old baby n year 20!!?? I SAID FILE THE PAPERS I WILL SIGN AINT NO COMNG BACK! I’m 5feet size 7 shoe 135lbs attractive long waist length natural hair all my life! ran 16 marathons fit toned wit a 🍑 and youthful looking! educated with 2 grown sons and all of my values and morals DIDNT STOP HIM FROM CHEATING! SPEAKS VOLUMES…FACTS! aka a fitandfabulous BW….💯💃🏾🫶🏾🙏🏾😊
I am realizing that men are more transactional in their choice than I once thought. My take - most men have a vision of the woman they want, almost as if they were casting for a very particular role in a film and they will choose a person who fits that. If they desire an artsy academic, if you aren’t that, you won’t fit. If they want a n extroverted adventurer, and you aren’t that. You won’t fit. Very much like type casting.
They say though….
Before a man gets sex from a woman… He is emotional
After a man gets sex from a woman… he is logical
So basically, all throughout the marriage, he is going to be " logical " and that sounds like a huge problem .
@ no….
I mean you have to not have sex for as
long as possible
Ideally until after marriage
And always keep him on his toes after
He can never have you 100% that’s when they treat you like crap
@@Sunshineandrainbows234yup
That thing about his mom, doesn’t strike me as true, unless she had negative traits that’d make his mom concerned for him. She’d appreciate whoever made him happy. Unless mother and son have a codependent relationship
I’m new to your channel this video was very informative thank you 🙏🏽
Men this…then that… men this and that💀💀I am tired of what men want. Stop conditioning women to be a certain way.
Just be yourself, the right man will come at the divine timing
Don't watch her channel then. I've learned alot from Chengi. You sound naive, hon.
Please do who women should marry! 😂
Will do x
Please can you analyse the trophy wife situation that is currently viral on TH-cam 😮
Thank you for sharing these gems of wisdom! I’ve been exclusive with my man for a year now, and realize that I let my standards drop overtime and have made things too easy for him. As a result… his effort and investment has dropped off overtime. Do you have a course that teaches how to re-reset my standards And value with him?
Are you married?
This lady is not doing anything, she is just here advertising her self for men to know she's the best they can ever have, if she is married , she is just telling her man she is lucky to have her finish, everything she is saying is all about her and what she has been doing to get her self men knowing very well it doesn't work that way, every you are saying is not making any sense, tell women they got it already from our childhood, parents and don't have to do anything or prove to any man, they have already been trained on how to become a good wife, they are beautiful and wonderfully made by God almighty and have nothing to prove for a man to marry them 🙏🙏🙏
Chengi, l adore you. Most men prefer a woman not be so obviously made up. You'd benefit rocking a more natural look.
I’m sure she is going for the men that prefer a made up woman. She is leaving the men who prefer natural women for natural women.
I guarantee you men love women that look like her
Chengi, l adore you. Most men prefer a woman not be so obviously made up. You'd benefit rocking a more natural look.
I don’t care about many man and their preferences. My authenticity will never be for negotiation but feel free to morph into whatever version of yourself to get a man. You are loved 🥰