Hey babes! I’m hosting a group trip to Bali July 25-31st! 🥰🥰 here’s the trip itinerary/registration link if interested: www.trovatrip.com/trip/asia/bali/indonesia-with-des-aideyman-jul-2023
PRICING: $1995 (first few spots) / $2295 (regular pricing after those spots fill up). This price includes every single thing listed in the itinerary (activities, transportation, food, etc.). You are responsible for your own flight!
hey sis i love you and wanted to share what's been helping me mentally and spiritually get through difficult times. you mentioned your faith and last year I was where you are (just lost) but found IUIC on YT and they literally saved me because I learned who I was as an Israelite. if you ever have time just check out their channel(they have many and 24/7 teaching vids) You are a child of God and a jewel. Wishing you the best! Love your vids so far(new sub)
I rarely comment on TH-cam videos but I had to when you kept saying you have a regular life so the vlogs gone be boring sometimes. Girl I’m a senior in college and trynna decide where to live when I graduate. Houston is one of the places that interests me so I’ve been watching a ton of Houston vlogs. Your videos are PERFECT. I’m gonna have a “regular 9-5” life as well so I’d rather watch this than girls turning up everyday and going out cause that’s not gonna be my reality. Your doing great loveeeee your videos please don’t stop. God is with you. Thank youuu for sharing your life with us beautiful 💕
This just made my entire morning 🥺❤️ wow, thank you for the kind words. This motivated me more than you even know! Side note, congrats on almost being done with college! I hope your career path is everything you want it to be and more 🥰
Transparency moment? I subscribed because you have a job! It’s soooo refreshing to see a YT girly with an actual career. You have more to talk about and offer besides being a content creator, clothes, and shit. Shout out to my working girlies!
Just found your channel as I was debating Houston as a new location for me within the next year or so… Girl. You are so refreshing to watch! It’s a relief to finally find a down to earth black girl on TH-cam that lives a regular life and is also a healthcare professional. I’m so over the constant display of luxury and unrealistic lifestyles. THANK YOU for everytime you share your story! xx
Girl I’m crying watching the emotional chit chat. Walking in faith instead of logic?! That was beautiful and honestly gave me so much clarity personally. Wow
Subscribed! I have been trying to find more middle-class content creators with a career. I am a starting my first clinical job as a NP so this video is very relatable. Excited to binge watch your channel when I get back from grocery shopping.
Just stumbled across your page….Instantly subscribed. You’re not boring, it’s refreshing to see a relatable day to day life. Also, congrats on becoming a physician assistant and your new job. Love seeing black women winning. 💗
I’m also transitioning to a new job and because it’s such a great opportunity the people around me don’t understand the sad feelings I’m having around it. You deserve to let yourself feel the feels and grieve the old life you lived and the person you were. Sending you love as you keep building this beautiful life 🫶🏾
I love you sis! And so incredibly proud. You deserve to cry whenever you body seeks relief after all you’ve endured and conquered through. Thank you for your vulnerability and showing up as your full self. ❤
Crying doesn't always indicate sadness. You're human and it is a way for the body/soul to release. No apologies needed. You've done a lot in a short period of time...and speaking of period, you did mention that too. The vulnerability is refreshing and trust me we all go through that. Love your videos. And I'm quite a few years older than you are. Keep going!
Your channel is sooo refreshing!!! I’ve watched some of your previous videos. I want to say I’m proud of you! Your life update has truly inspired me to get back to who I am! ❤
That’s impressive that you got 2 jobs in such a short period of time and a Physician Assistant job normally pays 6 figures so you go girl ! Good luck on your journey!
I’m a cancer too and I was very emotional around new years as well and you mentioning the full moon would explain why 😅 I’m also glad you spoke about imposter syndrome, I feel seen and I’m just grateful that you talked us through all your emotions out loud because it helped me gain insight as to why my anxiety is through the roof, I also started a new job as well so I can relate to you as well. Thank you for sharing this video🙏🏾
Omg I came to this video from your Amazon haul and when I saw that you’re a fellow PA (I’m a pediatric PA from NYC) I just had to subscribe! Congrats on your current and continuing success! You are literally a breath of fresh air in this YT space ❤❤ now lemme continue binging your videos!
I'm a new sub and I'm loving the normalcy you show us! Please keep it up. Not too many people are showing us the real! Good luck with both new jobs! Don't look back on life, look forward because you have something beautiful to look forward to in life. You'll do great in your new chapter of life!
I’m so happy I found you! There’s not that many black physician assistant TH-camrs on here ! Can you do more PA videos ? I recently just applied to PA school awaiting a response. You deff have a new subscriber ! ❤
Hey girl! Thanks so much for the support 😘 Also, Congrats in advance because I'm sure you will get in!! As far as PA videos, I will be incorporating some PA stuff in my vlogs from time to time but not too much more than that lol I'm happy to answer questions you may have though!
For those on a budget I got those Zara pants on sale in January for $12.99 and saw that if they were available in your size they went even lower to $9.99 from $45.90. I made a short and community post on the sale for my subscribers.
you go girl! you've worked hard to get where you are and you just made a big move so you might still be in shock with the new job and the new home. I'd cry everyday lmao you're trying to adjust.
Keep your head up sometimes i feel down because i relocated to Texas solo but thriving and a lot of times there's no one to talk to. I've learned to accept the fact and be the best person I can be. As men we don't suppose to be vulnerable but I'm not afraid to express how i feel.
I loveeee your videos! It’s the transparency you display that is giving me strength in my personal journey to move to TX and accomplish my goals that I have slept on heavy! 😂 Happy New Year girl! You got this!!🎉😊
Heeeey! Welcome to Houston!!!!! So, glad to see another raw and real entrepreneur sis who also works a 9-5. Sooo refreshing! When you were describing the company you work for, I almost thought for a split sec you were speaking about the urgent care that I work for. Anyway, welcome and can’t wait to see/hear about all of your successes! God bless ✌🏾 🫶🏾
Awe, it’s okay to cry!! Crying is good for the soul.. I believe you are just grateful 😊. You got this and God us you!! Congratulations, you just got a new subscriber!!
Thank you so much for being vulnerable. I am in the same place, I start a new role soon and you described my emotions to the T. I just found your channel and I love your content.
Great, welcome to Texas! I’m thinking of moving to Houston, Im in the medical field too and Houston is the place to be for that. I’ll be bk to see your videos to see how it’s going. Good luck!
First time I have ever ran across any of your videos and watched it in its entirety. I will be tuning in for future videos! Congrats on your new job and everything God is doing in your life right now!
It’s ok to cry hun! Let it out and let go… we all get overwhelmed and just need to let it out. God covers you and He’s with you. Meditate and He will reveal some things to you. Be blessed! 🙏🏽
I just found your channel and enjoy the content... Especially how transparent, vulnerable and authentic you were sharing that things aren't always perfect and it's ok to cry. Welcome to Houston💕💕
Would love a video on your hair and beauty routines/appointments! I love your hair and how effortless it seems, im trying to find out whether weaves, tape-ins are best. 🤍🤍
Oooh such a good idea! I’ll definitely film a maintenance vlog soon! 🤍🤍 and as somebody who has had pretty much every type of extensions out, I would recommend sew ins from a protective and convenient standpoint the most! Tapes were my favorite but they aren’t a “protective” style, so be prepared to put heat on your hair constantly lol
Dessy I can totally relate to your emotions. After moving to a new state, finding a new church and just trying to adjust to the new was overwhelming for me. You like me are the happiest we have been in a long time. I have also been through the trenches because the last two years of my life has been just exhausting both mentally and emotionally. But I am good now. Stay strong you are fine!!
I’m a 1st time viewer & as soon as I saw you make weenies & eggs for breakfast, I subscribed. I think I’ve seen enough turkey bacon, salmon & asparagus for the rest of my TH-cam viewership! Love it! 🙌🏾
Watching this video, i have had 4 meltdowns today, also overwhelmed because I am moving... I am happy, but i am overwhelmed and scared and i am just finding myself crying... we got this!!!!
I don’t care what anyone says… I’m a registered nurse and flight attendant.. in the past have worked in the restaurant, grocery, and other retail industries as well as beauty.. NOTHING is more panic inducing than starting a new role in healthcare…. We literally are responsible for life.. and everyone is watching us in these crazy times!!! So I relate with every new assignment. And yes I still have days where the imposter syndrome takes over.. “who would let you be a nurse?” Lol then I have a bad ass shift and my purpose is reconfirmed!! Congratulations on your journey!!! NP school may be next for me but who knows. 💕💕 SN: it’s super dope and affirming that you implemented a 4/10’s work week! 👏🏾👏🏾
THIS!!! I’m so happy I’m not the only one, whew. Thanks for watching ❤️❤️ and good luck to you if you decide to pursue NP! I’m sure you’ll do amazing 😊
New sub! This is the first I’ve seen you and I personally love your regular life contact. In fact, it makes me think oh so my life is normal lol These full-time content creators vlogs are them at home, getting Amazon deliveries, going shopping at this designer store to the next while always at target or Trader Joe’s lol so believe me you’re vlogs is well welcomed and are just as entertaining as the one I mentioned
This was very relatable because people forget not everyday is glamorous and jammed pack with fun. I’m definitely you telling myself not to cry and it still happens 😂 I’m a Gemini though but I get the same way when I look back at my journey. You forced me to reflect with you and I got teary too 😅 congratulations on the new job! You got this and you’re not going to be the rookie for long, you’ll get into the swing real quick 👌🏾
Yes we do watch lbvs... One thing i want to add is don't let a mate come in and change your great path. Sometimes that happens and we are afraid to admit it. Keep up the great content you motivate me as well!!
Hi 🙋🏻♀️ I am new to your channel. I love how genuine and relatable you are, congratulations on your achievements. I wish you the best of luck on your new journey. I am also thinking about relocating from Orlando FL to Tennessee. Fingers crossed 🤞🤞 I’ll like it there as I will be visiting in a few weeks to check it out. Thanks for sharing your journey, stay blessed. 🙏🏼
Its ok to cry. sometimes we got to let out emotions. I'm so happy I found your channel. I also just moved to Houston after a divorce. I Look forward to watching the rest of your vids
Hello 👋🏾 your video “I moved to Houston” came across my feed so I started watching. I’m from Texas,currently live in Georgia and entertaining moving back to Texas. My niece moved to Houston last year and she’s trying to get me and her mom back, she’s a content business coach and branding photographer. I’m a Group Practice Manager and a lot older than you. I want you to know you make me proud, just listening to you talk about being a PA-C. Seeing a young brown girl in this role is everything. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Remember burn out is real, take care of you and get in the habit of indulging in self-care. Baby girl it’s ok to cry! You have a whole squad cheering you on, let’s go!🙏🏾💕
I just discovered your channel! Your seem to be truly sincere and genuine. I love to see TH-camrs/influencers with a life other than shopping and partying! Thank you!! #cancer
Girl I haven’t but I keep hearing great things!! Before this job I was in the hospital (hospital scrubs only), so I never had to buy scrubs. I think I’m gonna grab some Figs bottoms for sure
@@TheDessyRayWay girl this vlog is so good. you’re doing a great job and you’re so inspiring, the portion of the video where you were vulnerable with us really reasonated with me.
@@ashley_audacious I appreciate you for watching and also receiving that chit chat so well. It makes me feel more comfortable to continue to open up with y’all 💕
One of my new fav TH-camrs 🥰 i was watching one of your vlogs with my sister on my living room tv yesterday & she loves you too. She told me to send her your info ‘ I’m relocating back to htx in a month. & gonna get consistent on my vlogging 😊 waiting for my approval email for my new job! Keep up the great work doll! And btw you’re sooo beautiful and such an amazing inspiration for young black women.
This just made my night 🥹❤️ tell sis I said I love her more! Thanks for watching and good luck with your relocation. I’m sure everything will work out 🥰
@@TheDessyRayWay yess ! Thank you doll ❣️ now we talk about you like you are a known house name 😂 & yes I accept your positive blessing! Keep up the awesome work & engagement with your subbies! We love you!
Hey babe! So happy I came across your videos. Finally someone who is relatable and living the best of both worlds in cooperate and entrepreneurship. Your videos are bomb and you have motivated me to get back in my content. Our stories are so similar and I’m sure you’ve heard that multiple of times. But I appreciate you and keep going 🤍 . And don’t be afraid to cry, crying is healing and good for your soul!
Subscribed this morning, you’re a breath of fresh air… real, simple and straight to the point. It’s rare to come across someone who isn’t doing stuff for the sole purpose of creating content.. you’re just being you and I love it. Also, Starbucks does have Nespresso pods. I use their blonde roast espresso pods for all my diy Starbucks drinks and it hits every time. They sell them at Target and Bed, Bath & Beyond ❤
Hi babe, I'm new to your channel and must say I'm enjoying the content. It is perfectly ok to cry and release stress. Just know you got this. Dessy your content is top tier.
I couldn’t understand why I was drawn to your channel and spirit . But then I realized that we’re both cancers and along a very similar journey. I uprooted my entire life to move across the country for a career opportunity that didn’t work. I’ve gone through every emotion you can imagine. I’ve been feverishly applying to jobs and have had two interviews for a position that will take me back home and that I’m manifesting. I say all that to say that I see me in you and it brings me peace and comfort knowing I’m not on this journey alone
Aww you’re never alone 🥰 it’s all about just finding you tribe! I’m so happy you found a bit of peace from watching my video. God bless you and I pray everything works out
Girl, all I could say while watching this was, “what a Cancer!” 😅😂 why is it that we cry when everything is going so well in life. Blessings upon blessings and here we are. I’ve had these moments too & after a while after talking to God, I’m up & going for what’s mine.
LOL WHEN THE HINGE NOTIFICATION POPPED UP 😂 Thank you for talking about feeling like you don't belong in professional spaces when YOU MOST DEFINITELY DO. Those kinds of thought can really take a toll on your mental health. I really enjoy this style of vlogs and hope you continue them - it's nice to know that other baddies also live a simple life haha
I do not normally comment on videos, but I think your videos are fascinating. I have been pursuing to be a board certified behavior analysis, and also work three jobs. One of which at a rehabilitation hospital that is on call.
1:26:58 soooo we’re gona do this every vlog sis? 🤣🤣😂😂 I have never watched a hour + TH-cam video ever! Before subscribing to ur channel! I work from home and I love watching ur vids as I work makes the day fly by! I love that ur a working baddie! I’m a corporate baddie myself! Ur an inspiration. Ps these types of vlogs are not boring! They are real and hella relatable ❤
Praise Him, speak about it. Your favored and God is doing big things in your life so it’s ok. You Have allot that your doing and allot going on so getting overwhelmed and crying here and there is understandable. Just keep God first and let Him lead and guide you and you will be just fine and he will give peace to the weary and being overwhelmed.
Hey babes! I’m hosting a group trip to Bali July 25-31st! 🥰🥰 here’s the trip itinerary/registration link if interested:
www.trovatrip.com/trip/asia/bali/indonesia-with-des-aideyman-jul-2023
PRICING: $1995 (first few spots) / $2295 (regular pricing after those spots fill up). This price includes every single thing listed in the itinerary (activities, transportation, food, etc.). You are responsible for your own flight!
good luck with a group trip!!
Hey I'm a new subscriber where can I get the information on the wig and gel.
hey sis i love you and wanted to share what's been helping me mentally and spiritually get through difficult times. you mentioned your faith and last year I was where you are (just lost) but found IUIC on YT and they literally saved me because I learned who I was as an Israelite. if you ever have time just check out their channel(they have many and 24/7 teaching vids) You are a child of God and a jewel. Wishing you the best! Love your vids so far(new sub)
I rarely comment on TH-cam videos but I had to when you kept saying you have a regular life so the vlogs gone be boring sometimes. Girl I’m a senior in college and trynna decide where to live when I graduate. Houston is one of the places that interests me so I’ve been watching a ton of Houston vlogs. Your videos are PERFECT. I’m gonna have a “regular 9-5” life as well so I’d rather watch this than girls turning up everyday and going out cause that’s not gonna be my reality. Your doing great loveeeee your videos please don’t stop. God is with you. Thank youuu for sharing your life with us beautiful 💕
This just made my entire morning 🥺❤️ wow, thank you for the kind words. This motivated me more than you even know! Side note, congrats on almost being done with college! I hope your career path is everything you want it to be and more 🥰
Yes! We ALL have regular lives so yasssss relatable content! Lol 🫶🏾
Okay so it’s not just me then! 🤣🤣🤣 I’m like PA… oh she has a job! I subscribed before I even started the video. 😂😂
Totally agree.
Very well said and i totally agree..
Transparency moment? I subscribed because you have a job! It’s soooo refreshing to see a YT girly with an actual career. You have more to talk about and offer besides being a content creator, clothes, and shit. Shout out to my working girlies!
Shoutout to the working girlies!! 🥰🤞🏾 happy to have you here babe!
Yes!!!!
Same💗
same!! love the chill everyday life vlogs 🤭🥰
Yes! You are amazing to watch. Love your content. ❤
Just found your channel as I was debating Houston as a new location for me within the next year or so…
Girl. You are so refreshing to watch! It’s a relief to finally find a down to earth black girl on TH-cam that lives a regular life and is also a healthcare professional. I’m so over the constant display of luxury and unrealistic lifestyles. THANK YOU for everytime you share your story! xx
Thank you for watching 🥰🥰 if you do decide on Houston, I think you will love it here!!
i pray you hit 100k this year, your content is so authentic, i feel so connected to your aura already..💖
You’re so sweet!! 🥹💕 I pray I do too. Let’s speak that into existence 🥰
Girl I’m crying watching the emotional chit chat. Walking in faith instead of logic?! That was beautiful and honestly gave me so much clarity personally. Wow
Awww babe 🥹🫶🏾 I’m happy you resonated with this
Subscribed! I have been trying to find more middle-class content creators with a career. I am a starting my first clinical job as a NP so this video is very relatable. Excited to binge watch your channel when I get back from grocery shopping.
Welcome to the gang 🥰 so happy to have you here! Good luck at your first NP job 💕
Just stumbled across your page….Instantly subscribed. You’re not boring, it’s refreshing to see a relatable day to day life. Also, congrats on becoming a physician assistant and your new job. Love seeing black women winning. 💗
Thank you for those words 🥰 I appreciate you for watching!
@@TheDessyRayWay you’re very welcome. thanks for having me. 🌸💗
Well it’s about time I start seeing some bomb recommendations on YT! Love the content!!! New subbie*
*actual tears* I’m so happy you found your way over here sis! 🥰🥰
I’m also transitioning to a new job and because it’s such a great opportunity the people around me don’t understand the sad feelings I’m having around it. You deserve to let yourself feel the feels and grieve the old life you lived and the person you were. Sending you love as you keep building this beautiful life 🫶🏾
Right back at you babe 🥰 Happy New Year!
@@TheDessyRayWay Happy New Year!! 🎉
YAAAAZZZZ!!! YOU ARE A BORN LEADER!!! KEEP RISING TO THE TOP!!!
I love you sis! And so incredibly proud. You deserve to cry whenever you body seeks relief after all you’ve endured and conquered through. Thank you for your vulnerability and showing up as your full self. ❤
I love you so much more sis 🥹❤️❤️ thank you!!
Crying doesn't always indicate sadness. You're human and it is a way for the body/soul to release. No apologies needed. You've done a lot in a short period of time...and speaking of period, you did mention that too. The vulnerability is refreshing and trust me we all go through that. Love your videos. And I'm quite a few years older than you are. Keep going!
Thanks for the kind words and support! I appreciate you 😘
Been binge watching! I love your sincerity and vulnerability towards your career path and life. Your videos are very refreshing!
Thank you so much girl! 🥰🥰 I appreciate you watching
Yayyyyyyyy to the normal ppl like some of us! This is what I will watch!
Haha I love it 🥰 thanks for watching!
These movies you keep dropping! I absolutely love ittttttt! Your content is so fire.
LOL! Literal movies 😂 thanks so much for watching love! 💕
Your channel is sooo refreshing!!! I’ve watched some of your previous videos. I want to say I’m proud of you! Your life update has truly inspired me to get back to who I am! ❤
Awww thank you love! 🥰 I love that for you! 2023 were really becoming our best selves o can feel it!
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That’s impressive that you got 2 jobs in such a short period of time and a Physician Assistant job normally pays 6 figures so you go girl ! Good luck on your journey!
Lol we’ll keep in mind 1 is only as needed so maybe only like 2 shifts a month haha. But nonetheless, thank you! 🥰
Your hair looked great through out the video.
Thanks for posting and good luck at your new job! 🫶🏾
Thank you so much for watching 🥰 I appreciate you!
New subbie here! I fell in love with your authenticity. Showing your everyday lifestyle is so soothing and refreshing to watch! 🤍
Ahhh welcome to the gang 🥰 and thank you! I appreciate that 🤍
I’m a cancer too and I was very emotional around new years as well and you mentioning the full moon would explain why 😅 I’m also glad you spoke about imposter syndrome, I feel seen and I’m just grateful that you talked us through all your emotions out loud because it helped me gain insight as to why my anxiety is through the roof, I also started a new job as well so I can relate to you as well. Thank you for sharing this video🙏🏾
Aww us empaths have to stick together!! 😅 lol im so happy my video helped. Thanks for watching love ❤️
Congratulations on everything, babe! You deserve! And happy new year ❤
Thank you so much baby! Same to you. I hope it’s your best year yet 🥰
Welcome to Texas! This was great. It was just like having you at the house hanging out. Blessings
Aww I love that! Thanks for the welcome and also for watching :)
Omg I came to this video from your Amazon haul and when I saw that you’re a fellow PA (I’m a pediatric PA from NYC) I just had to subscribe! Congrats on your current and continuing success! You are literally a breath of fresh air in this YT space ❤❤ now lemme continue binging your videos!
Ahhh PA gang! 🥰🥰 thanks so much for watching and leaving such kind words
New subbie! I'm also a PA who recently moved to Texas. It's so nice finding a TH-camr who I can relate to
Omg congrats!! 🥰❤️
I'm a new sub and I'm loving the normalcy you show us! Please keep it up. Not too many people are showing us the real! Good luck with both new jobs! Don't look back on life, look forward because you have something beautiful to look forward to in life. You'll do great in your new chapter of life!
Aww thank you so much for the kind words. They mean more than you know! 🥰 welcome to the gang btw!
i love watchin you channel! Like how real you are and your not afraid to show your emotion
Thank you so much 🥺🤍
I’m so happy I found you! There’s not that many black physician assistant TH-camrs on here ! Can you do more PA videos ? I recently just applied to PA school awaiting a response. You deff have a new subscriber ! ❤
Hey girl! Thanks so much for the support 😘
Also, Congrats in advance because I'm sure you will get in!!
As far as PA videos, I will be incorporating some PA stuff in my vlogs from time to time but not too much more than that lol I'm happy to answer questions you may have though!
For those on a budget I got those Zara pants on sale in January for $12.99 and saw that if they were available in your size they went even lower to $9.99 from $45.90. I made a short and community post on the sale for my subscribers.
you go girl! you've worked hard to get where you are and you just made a big move so you might still be in shock with the new job and the new home. I'd cry everyday lmao you're trying to adjust.
When you put into perspective like that I feel less silly 😂 thank you! 🫶🏾
Keep your head up sometimes i feel down because i relocated to Texas solo but thriving and a lot of times there's no one to talk to. I've learned to accept the fact and be the best person I can be. As men we don't suppose to be vulnerable but I'm not afraid to express how i feel.
Literally in love with your channel!
Please don’t make me emotional 🥹🤍 I appreciate that!
I love the transparency! Congrats on your new jobs!
Thank you so much 🥰
I loveeee your videos! It’s the transparency you display that is giving me strength in my personal journey to move to TX and accomplish my goals that I have slept on heavy! 😂
Happy New Year girl! You got this!!🎉😊
Thank you love 💕 Happy New Year! 🥰
Heeeey! Welcome to Houston!!!!! So, glad to see another raw and real entrepreneur sis who also works a 9-5. Sooo refreshing!
When you were describing the company you work for, I almost thought for a split sec you were speaking about the urgent care that I work for. Anyway, welcome and can’t wait to see/hear about all of your successes! God bless ✌🏾 🫶🏾
Thanks so much for watching love!! 💕💕
Awe, it’s okay to cry!! Crying is good for the soul.. I believe you are just grateful 😊. You got this and God us you!! Congratulations, you just got a new subscriber!!
So true! Thank you so much and welcome to the family 🥰
Thank you so much for being vulnerable. I am in the same place, I start a new role soon and you described my emotions to the T. I just found your channel and I love your content.
You got this babe!! ❤️❤️ thank you
Great, welcome to Texas! I’m thinking of moving to Houston, Im in the medical field too and Houston is the place to be for that. I’ll be bk to see your videos to see how it’s going. Good luck!
Thank you!! 🥰
First time I have ever ran across any of your videos and watched it in its entirety. I will be tuning in for future videos! Congrats on your new job and everything God is doing in your life right now!
Welcome to the gang 🥰 I appreciate that love!
It’s ok to cry hun! Let it out and let go… we all get overwhelmed and just need to let it out. God covers you and He’s with you. Meditate and He will reveal some things to you. Be blessed! 🙏🏽
I just found your channel and enjoy the content... Especially how transparent, vulnerable and authentic you were sharing that things aren't always perfect and it's ok to cry. Welcome to Houston💕💕
thanks so much love. I appreciate you! 🥰
Would love a video on your hair and beauty routines/appointments! I love your hair and how effortless it seems, im trying to find out whether weaves, tape-ins are best. 🤍🤍
Oooh such a good idea! I’ll definitely film a maintenance vlog soon! 🤍🤍 and as somebody who has had pretty much every type of extensions out, I would recommend sew ins from a protective and convenient standpoint the most! Tapes were my favorite but they aren’t a “protective” style, so be prepared to put heat on your hair constantly lol
@@TheDessyRayWay thank you!!
Dessy I can totally relate to your emotions. After moving to a new state, finding a new church and just trying to adjust to the new was overwhelming for me. You like me are the happiest we have been in a long time. I have also been through the trenches because the last two years of my life has been just exhausting both mentally and emotionally. But I am good now. Stay strong you are fine!!
Thank you for those kind words. I pray everything on your end continues to get better and better 💕💕
I’m a 1st time viewer & as soon as I saw you make weenies & eggs for breakfast, I subscribed. I think I’ve seen enough turkey bacon, salmon & asparagus for the rest of my TH-cam viewership! Love it! 🙌🏾
LMAO! “Weenies & eggs” has me hollering 🤣🤣🤣 thanks for watching love!
I’m new to your channel and I love your videos congratulations 🍾 on all the new things in your life god bless you ❤
Ahhh welcome!! 🥰 and thank you so much! Happy New Year 🎊
Watching this video, i have had 4 meltdowns today, also overwhelmed because I am moving... I am happy, but i am overwhelmed and scared and i am just finding myself crying... we got this!!!!
Whew I remember those feelings!! I promise it will all come to an end once the move is over love. You’ll have time to really relax your mind!
Oh shit you’re talking about reasonably priced pants? I just fell in love 😍😍😍
Yessss omg they are some of my favorites! 🥰
I don’t care what anyone says… I’m a registered nurse and flight attendant.. in the past have worked in the restaurant, grocery, and other retail industries as well as beauty.. NOTHING is more panic inducing than starting a new role in healthcare…. We literally are responsible for life.. and everyone is watching us in these crazy times!!! So I relate with every new assignment. And yes I still have days where the imposter syndrome takes over.. “who would let you be a nurse?” Lol then I have a bad ass shift and my purpose is reconfirmed!! Congratulations on your journey!!! NP school may be next for me but who knows. 💕💕
SN: it’s super dope and affirming that you implemented a 4/10’s work week! 👏🏾👏🏾
THIS!!! I’m so happy I’m not the only one, whew. Thanks for watching ❤️❤️ and good luck to you if you decide to pursue NP! I’m sure you’ll do amazing 😊
Your video is great! I too have a channel and have a 9-5 and it is hard to do a weekly vlog. For the most part I vlog the same way weekends and trips.
Haha yes it’s a lot easier that way. Good luck to you and everything you have going on 🥰
@@TheDessyRayWay Thank you. To you as well ❤️
Same here and I bring work home most of the times.
@@louisianamrs yeah it took me a while to cut that out. My time is my time….lol
Great vlog! New subbie! I love weekly/talky vlogs
Welcome!! 🥰 ok great because I love to talk 🤣
Yes a content creator with a regular job as well! So refreshing. I'm subbing
Welcome to the fam 🥰
New sub! This is the first I’ve seen you and I personally love your regular life contact. In fact, it makes me think oh so my life is normal lol These full-time content creators vlogs are them at home, getting Amazon deliveries, going shopping at this designer store to the next while always at target or Trader Joe’s lol so believe me you’re vlogs is well welcomed and are just as entertaining as the one I mentioned
Hey love! Welcome 🥰🥰 I enjoy all different types of vlogs so I just wanted to make sure y’all would enjoy this type too! Happy to know you do 😊
Please do weekly vlogs!!! Ur so classy and just seeing what u do is entertaining believe me!!! Ur a huge inspiration and absolutely gorgeous❤️
🥹❤️ that means so much to hear! I will definitely continue. Thank you
I’m moving to Houston soon too! I love your vlogs, very realistic and relatable. You’re so gorgeous btw! 💖 you resemble SZA so much 😍
Omg congrats on your move! 🥰🥰 and thank you so much love. She’s stunning!
Two times for the corporate baddies! You do it so well for us. And babe, the date look? Superb. I hope the date went well. ❤
Thank you sis 🥰😘
This was very relatable because people forget not everyday is glamorous and jammed pack with fun. I’m definitely you telling myself not to cry and it still happens 😂 I’m a Gemini though but I get the same way when I look back at my journey. You forced me to reflect with you and I got teary too 😅 congratulations on the new job! You got this and you’re not going to be the rookie for long, you’ll get into the swing real quick 👌🏾
Girl exactly!!! And lmaoooo ok great thank you for making me feel a little less psycho 😂😂 I appreciate you and happy new year baby! 💕
I see you like buying in bulk and I do too. ❤ Don't be afraid to do what you love like blog in the store. Love your content. ❤
Lol yes it’s the best and so cost efficient! And yea I’m trying but I just get nervous lol. Thanks for watching love 💕
Yes we do watch lbvs... One thing i want to add is don't let a mate come in and change your great path. Sometimes that happens and we are afraid to admit it. Keep up the great content you motivate me as well!!
Thank you so much! 🙏🏾
@@TheDessyRayWay no problem
Hi 🙋🏻♀️ I am new to your channel. I love how genuine and relatable you are, congratulations on your achievements. I wish you the best of luck on your new journey. I am also thinking about relocating from Orlando FL to Tennessee. Fingers crossed 🤞🤞 I’ll like it there as I will be visiting in a few weeks to check it out. Thanks for sharing your journey, stay blessed. 🙏🏼
Aww hey love!! Thanks for taking the time to watch 🥰 I appreciate you
Good luck with the move!
I just found your channel and I’ve been binge watching your videos this week! I love it!! Your content is amazing and very inspiring ❤
Aww 🥰 Thank you so much!!
Yes for sponsorships already!! We love to see it. Uploading AND TWO jobs?! Let me stop my excuses lol
Lol!! Stopppp. I know how it gets trust me!
NEW subbie !! i'm loving the content so refreshing
Welcome!! Thank you for watching 🥰
Its ok to cry. sometimes we got to let out emotions. I'm so happy I found your channel. I also just moved to Houston after a divorce. I Look forward to watching the rest of your vids
Thank you for the kind words! I hope all is well with you, and welcome to Houston 🥰🥰
New Subbie! Thank you for representing the 9-5 working ladies that also have a business and try to figure life out! It is appreciated ❤
Somebody has to do it! Haha thanks for watching love 😘💕
Hello 👋🏾 your video “I moved to Houston” came across my feed so I started watching. I’m from Texas,currently live in Georgia and entertaining moving back to Texas. My niece moved to Houston last year and she’s trying to get me and her mom back, she’s a content business coach and branding photographer. I’m a Group Practice Manager and a lot older than you. I want you to know you make me proud, just listening to you talk about being a PA-C. Seeing a young brown girl in this role is everything. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾Remember burn out is real, take care of you and get in the habit of indulging in self-care. Baby girl it’s ok to cry! You have a whole squad cheering you on, let’s go!🙏🏾💕
Awww thank you so much for those kind and motivating words 🥹❤️ I appreciate it more than you even know. PS - you should move back to Texas 🤭
I just discovered your channel! Your seem to be truly sincere and genuine. I love to see TH-camrs/influencers with a life other than shopping and partying! Thank you!! #cancer
Aww I appreciate that 🥰 thanks for watching!!
Have you tried WearFigs scrubs? I’m a nurse practitioner and their scrubs are very flattering
Girl I haven’t but I keep hearing great things!! Before this job I was in the hospital (hospital scrubs only), so I never had to buy scrubs. I think I’m gonna grab some Figs bottoms for sure
@@TheDessyRayWay girl this vlog is so good. you’re doing a great job and you’re so inspiring, the portion of the video where you were vulnerable with us really reasonated with me.
@@ashley_audacious I appreciate you for watching and also receiving that chit chat so well. It makes me feel more comfortable to continue to open up with y’all 💕
One of my new fav TH-camrs 🥰 i was watching one of your vlogs with my sister on my living room tv yesterday & she loves you too. She told me to send her your info ‘ I’m relocating back to htx in a month. & gonna get consistent on my vlogging 😊 waiting for my approval email for my new job! Keep up the great work doll! And btw you’re sooo beautiful and such an amazing inspiration for young black women.
This just made my night 🥹❤️ tell sis I said I love her more! Thanks for watching and good luck with your relocation. I’m sure everything will work out 🥰
@@TheDessyRayWay yess ! Thank you doll ❣️ now we talk about you like you are a known house name 😂 & yes I accept your positive blessing! Keep up the awesome work & engagement with your subbies! We love you!
Hey babe! So happy I came across your videos. Finally someone who is relatable and living the best of both worlds in cooperate and entrepreneurship. Your videos are bomb and you have motivated me to get back in my content. Our stories are so similar and I’m sure you’ve heard that multiple of times. But I appreciate you and keep going 🤍 . And don’t be afraid to cry, crying is healing and good for your soul!
I’ve been dyinggg to find a new girlie to watch on YT, I def love your vibe 💕 You have a new subbie 🎉
I’m so happy to have you here! 🥰🥰
Beautiful, smart, success and doing the most! That deserves a new subscriber 😊
Thanks for subbing!🤍
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She is such a great addition to Houston! You gotta love her! We are excited to have her 😂🙌🏾🙌🏾
Thank you 🤣 that means a lot!!
14:02 Hi! New here! I love LOVE the realistic lifestyle! May I ask what brand of hair you use? It’s gawjus! 😍
Hi babe! Thanks so much for watching. This hair is by the brand Dhairboutique on Instagram. All other details in the description box 🤍
@@TheDessyRayWay thank you!
YOU GOT THIS GIRL!!!!!!
Thank you love 🥰
Subscribed this morning, you’re a breath of fresh air… real, simple and straight to the point. It’s rare to come across someone who isn’t doing stuff for the sole purpose of creating content.. you’re just being you and I love it.
Also, Starbucks does have Nespresso pods. I use their blonde roast espresso pods for all my diy Starbucks drinks and it hits every time. They sell them at Target and Bed, Bath & Beyond ❤
Thanks for making my day 🥲💕💕
You’re so kind! Also, thank you so much for that info! I had no idea lol
Hi babe, I'm new to your channel and must say I'm enjoying the content. It is perfectly ok to cry and release stress. Just know you got this. Dessy your content is top tier.
I appreciate you so much girl thanks 😘😘
I couldn’t understand why I was drawn to your channel and spirit . But then I realized that we’re both cancers and along a very similar journey. I uprooted my entire life to move across the country for a career opportunity that didn’t work. I’ve gone through every emotion you can imagine. I’ve been feverishly applying to jobs and have had two interviews for a position that will take me back home and that I’m manifesting.
I say all that to say that I see me in you and it brings me peace and comfort knowing I’m not on this journey alone
Aww you’re never alone 🥰 it’s all about just finding you tribe! I’m so happy you found a bit of peace from watching my video. God bless you and I pray everything works out
I frikken love your videos. I just found you and already watched all 20 💀 I’m in Houston too love my city.
Haha thanks for watching!!
Girl, all I could say while watching this was, “what a Cancer!” 😅😂 why is it that we cry when everything is going so well in life. Blessings upon blessings and here we are. I’ve had these moments too & after a while after talking to God, I’m up & going for what’s mine.
LMAOOO!! Such a freaking Cancer!! 😩🤣🤣 I love us though. Some of the rawest, and most genuine souls out here!
@@TheDessyRayWay 💯💯
LOL WHEN THE HINGE NOTIFICATION POPPED UP 😂 Thank you for talking about feeling like you don't belong in professional spaces when YOU MOST DEFINITELY DO. Those kinds of thought can really take a toll on your mental health. I really enjoy this style of vlogs and hope you continue them - it's nice to know that other baddies also live a simple life haha
It did not need to pop up like that 🤣🤣🤣 thanks for watching. I definitely will! ❤️
I saw your title and I'm not a PA but the one I work under is amazing so lol I started watching and had to become a subbie
Awww haha welcome to the family sis 🥰
Got yourself a new subscriber!❤️
Ahhhh welcome!! 🥰🥰
I do not normally comment on videos, but I think your videos are fascinating. I have been pursuing to be a board certified behavior analysis, and also work three jobs. One of which at a rehabilitation hospital that is on call.
Thank you so much 🥰🥰
Your welcome! 🥰🥰 you are not alone when feeling overwhelmed with work. God bless!
The best places for work clothes for me are Zara and HM. Express is hit-and-miss too often. The fabric is not the best. You are gorgeous 🫶
Yes, I agree!! Thank you love 😊❤️
I couldn't believe I watch your entire vlog of over an hour because I don't...but I was pleasantly surprised.
Haha! I’m happy you stuck around 🥰 thanks for watching!
You’re gorgeous! I’m here for it! New Subscriber ❤
Thank you beautiful ❤️❤️
1:26:58 soooo we’re gona do this every vlog sis? 🤣🤣😂😂 I have never watched a hour + TH-cam video ever! Before subscribing to ur channel! I work from home and I love watching ur vids as I work makes the day fly by! I love that ur a working baddie! I’m a corporate baddie myself! Ur an inspiration. Ps these types of vlogs are not boring! They are real and hella relatable ❤
🤣🤣🤣 nah foreeeeal lmao I'm on my own nerves with that omg.
Thank you so much for watching!! I appreciate you and the feedback more than you know 😘
Hi, do u mind sharing the hair details? Are those clip ins? So pretty
This video was bundles from DHairBoutique baby! I think Cambodian slight wave or something like that
who do you get your lashes done with??😍😍
@madamwinks on instagram!! She’s amazing 😊 let her know Dessy sent you!
Hey girl! New subscriber and I love it here. 🥰
Hey babe! 🥰 I'm happy to have you here
new to your channel and so happy to be here
I’m so happy to have you 🥹❤️ stay a while sis!
only watching beacuase you are a working girl and down to earth and not these other you tubers who seem not to a realistic view on life. go gal
Nice vlog. New here and subbed. Your content are 🔥😍👏🏼👏🏼
Thank you babe 🥰
New Subscriber, love content and watching Vlogs is my tv 😂❤
Haha thanks for watching 🥰🥰
New subbie ! Love the content already
Welcome babe!! 🥰 thank you 💕
New subbie ! Love to your channel all caught up
Welcome sis! 💕💕 another vid just went live 🤭👀
Great! Watching now!!!! Where do you get your music?
@@ebonysoblessed SoundCloud 😊
Praise Him, speak about it. Your favored and God is doing big things in your life so it’s ok. You Have allot that your doing and allot going on so getting overwhelmed and crying here and there is understandable. Just keep God first and let Him lead and guide you and you will be just fine and he will give peace to the weary and being overwhelmed.
Yes ma’am 🙏🏾❤️❤️
@58:50 I’m a cancer rising, i feel you sista 😂
Emotional as ever 🤣
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Question can you hear the traffic?
Very mildly! I’m used to living in the city though so it doesn’t bother me one bit lol