Ypur not selfish to keep ypur child. I was single all through my pregancy too. My daughter is 19 now. She is the best thing that ever happened to me. Shes my best friend. You got this beauitful.
Hey I’m going through the same. We were in an on and off situation-ship for 3 years. I was celibate the first two years of it. Now im 2 months pregnant. He says he doesn’t want me but he’ll be in the childs life.I’m heartbroken because I actually care about him so much. But yeah life happens i guess.. just need to stay strong for the baby
I definitely needed to see this video! I'm currently in the same situation and I can honestly say that it sucks when things don't go the way you expected them to. Having a great support system has really gotten me through it. When you meet your baby it'll all be worth it. Wishing you a healthy delivery and baby.
Im 8 months pregnant and in a relationship with a very toxic non supportive emotionally unavailable partner who wont leave me because he does want to be a dad but he also wont step up as a responsible adult man that I need as a pregnant woman and soon to be mama. I am desperately unhappy, none of my needs are being met and I want to leave but I cant. Not because of financial reasons. Its just that Im scared. Im scared I havent given him enough time to step up, scared I am exaggerating my dissapointments and hurt because of his behavior, scared I wont be loved by another man again or accepted with my baby, scared of being alone... I know I should have left this man a long time ago. Im filled with so much regret. Yet still I stay! Why oh why? How does one find the strength to make the incredibly hard decision to be a single mom and move on? How do I convince myself I will be okay and I will be loved again? How do I not fall into the pitfall of leaving him and then regretting it because I tend to always turn around and blame myself for everything as he too does?
Sweetheart I feel you pain😢. I’ve thought the same way especially dealing with a Narc for four years. I am now pregnant again and decided to keep this one after all of the abortions he forced me to get. I think this time around he’s wanting to stick around out of GUILT, but he still never changes and enjoy his toxic repetitive abusive manipulative cycles. He also has another women that doesn’t even know that I’m pregnant. Even though this isn’t an ideal pregnancy, it has given me a lot of courage to feel strong enough to walk away and have an intentional peaceful pregnancy. You got this girl, choose yourself and peace over toxicity!!! I hope you and baby are doing great now💓💓💓
Your are such a selfless and loving MOTHER!! I applaud you for taking responsibility and giving your baby a chance at an amazing life! I promise that you will be rewarded for your selfless decision and you will one day meet the most amazing partner that will be everything you deserve and want that will be an amazing role model for your child(if you don't already have that) You are going to be an amazing Mom regardless! We need more influencers like you so that we can stop the cycle of young, single women thinking that abortion is the only way!!
Thank you for being so open an vulnerable! I’m a therapist and see many women who go through the same I’m glad you are speaking on therapy and glad I watched! Wishing you and baby girl the best! 💕
So many women are in the same situation. I had gotten pregnant with my ex & of course relationships don’t always work out. So I was single during my pregnancy but having a baby is such a beautiful experience. You’ll never feel anything like it again. it’s like having a best friend. You’ll do great beautiful wishing you luck 🍀
Im currently going through the same thing. It's crazy how the man is all aboard for a child then changes his mind all of a sudden. I'm going through this pregnancy alone and I wouldn't wish this on anyone. But this is definitely making me stronger. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for your courage to share your story! I know it’s been tough & im sure filled with many tears but God reminds us that He puts our tears in a jar + weeping may endure for a night but joy will come. I pray you can cling to this when things get tough. I’m praying for a safe delivery, healthy baby and just overall peace and joy. I have no doubt that you will be an incredible mom! As you stated, God is intentional and makes no mistakes. Your story will be one that will help someone else! Continue being the amazing human being that you are! Congratulations on your baby girl! 💕💕🫶🏾
Thank you so much for sharing ❤ I’m in the same situation except my career is working in a Lab. I often wonder if it’s enough to keep me and my baby financially stable. Prayers up ! I pray that you and your baby girl are doing great and have a strong support system.
I applaud you for stepping up and handling business knowing you’re going to be a single momma. I found out a few weeks ago I’m pregnant now I’m two months along. Same day I told my (now ex) is the same day I saw messages of him cheating on me. I guess three years with someone doesn’t mean much… the timing is never perfect but I believe it’s a blessing in disguise. I’m going to love my child like no other.
how do you guys feel about being a statistic … that’s what my brother told me today .. I’m about to give birth in a month 1/2 and I’m single now .. not my choice .. was with that person for 7 years .. & now single ..
@@gracemedina1320 it’s a big life adjustment. Although it is a statistic, everyone’s life is different, not one is the same. You’re strong regardless of someone else’s opinion of you. It’s your life to live no one else’s. I’d want nothing more than to have a family that’s not broken, but I can only make decisions for myself and hope that I have my family’s support along the way. (It’s been rough)
Congratulations on a healthy baby girl! I'll give you the advice that was given to me 18yrs ago for the delivery room, push like you're taking a 💩. Sounds silly but it works, opens up the vag and makes delivery easier. Checking the cervix and coming in & out of the room is normal so don't be afraid 😉. Sucks about being single, I pray all goes well ❣️
Lauren!!! This is beautiful and you and baby girl will be alright! Cant wait to see more of your resilience on this journey! All things work for your good... motherhood is the blessing God had for you this year!
Ypur not selfish to keep ypur child. I was single all through my pregancy too. My daughter is 19 now. She is the best thing that ever happened to me. Shes my best friend. You got this beauitful.
Thank you! Definitely working overtime to give her the best life possible!
Currently going through the same thing except I have zero communication with mine…it’s hard but like you said god writes the story
god putting me through battles ..
@@gracemedina1320and he’s getting you thru them ❤
Hey I’m going through the same. We were in an on and off situation-ship for 3 years. I was celibate the first two years of it. Now im 2 months pregnant. He says he doesn’t want me but he’ll be in the childs life.I’m heartbroken because I actually care about him so much. But yeah life happens i guess.. just need to stay strong for the baby
I definitely needed to see this video! I'm currently in the same situation and I can honestly say that it sucks when things don't go the way you expected them to. Having a great support system has really gotten me through it. When you meet your baby it'll all be worth it. Wishing you a healthy delivery and baby.
Im 8 months pregnant and in a relationship with a very toxic non supportive emotionally unavailable partner who wont leave me because he does want to be a dad but he also wont step up as a responsible adult man that I need as a pregnant woman and soon to be mama. I am desperately unhappy, none of my needs are being met and I want to leave but I cant. Not because of financial reasons. Its just that Im scared. Im scared I havent given him enough time to step up, scared I am exaggerating my dissapointments and hurt because of his behavior, scared I wont be loved by another man again or accepted with my baby, scared of being alone... I know I should have left this man a long time ago. Im filled with so much regret. Yet still I stay! Why oh why? How does one find the strength to make the incredibly hard decision to be a single mom and move on? How do I convince myself I will be okay and I will be loved again? How do I not fall into the pitfall of leaving him and then regretting it because I tend to always turn around and blame myself for everything as he too does?
Sweetheart I feel you pain😢. I’ve thought the same way especially dealing with a Narc for four years. I am now pregnant again and decided to keep this one after all of the abortions he forced me to get. I think this time around he’s wanting to stick around out of GUILT, but he still never changes and enjoy his toxic repetitive abusive manipulative cycles. He also has another women that doesn’t even know that I’m pregnant. Even though this isn’t an ideal pregnancy, it has given me a lot of courage to feel strong enough to walk away and have an intentional peaceful pregnancy. You got this girl, choose yourself and peace over toxicity!!!
I hope you and baby are doing great now💓💓💓
Your are such a selfless and loving MOTHER!! I applaud you for taking responsibility and giving your baby a chance at an amazing life! I promise that you will be rewarded for your selfless decision and you will one day meet the most amazing partner that will be everything you deserve and want that will be an amazing role model for your child(if you don't already have that)
You are going to be an amazing Mom regardless! We need more influencers like you so that we can stop the cycle of young, single women thinking that abortion is the only way!!
Thank you for being so open an vulnerable! I’m a therapist and see many women who go through the same I’m glad you are speaking on therapy and glad I watched! Wishing you and baby girl the best! 💕
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So many women are in the same situation. I had gotten pregnant with my ex & of course relationships don’t always work out. So I was single during my pregnancy but having a baby is such a beautiful experience.
You’ll never feel anything like it again. it’s like having a best friend.
You’ll do great beautiful wishing you luck 🍀
Im currently going through the same thing. It's crazy how the man is all aboard for a child then changes his mind all of a sudden. I'm going through this pregnancy alone and I wouldn't wish this on anyone. But this is definitely making me stronger. Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for your courage to share your story! I know it’s been tough & im sure filled with many tears but God reminds us that He puts our tears in a jar + weeping may endure for a night but joy will come. I pray you can cling to this when things get tough. I’m praying for a safe delivery, healthy baby and just overall peace and joy. I have no doubt that you will be an incredible mom! As you stated, God is intentional and makes no mistakes. Your story will be one that will help someone else! Continue being the amazing human being that you are! Congratulations on your baby girl! 💕💕🫶🏾
These words mean so much! Thank you Whitney
Thank you so much for sharing ❤ I’m in the same situation except my career is working in a Lab. I often wonder if it’s enough to keep me and my baby financially stable. Prayers up ! I pray that you and your baby girl are doing great and have a strong support system.
I applaud you for stepping up and handling business knowing you’re going to be a single momma. I found out a few weeks ago I’m pregnant now I’m two months along. Same day I told my (now ex) is the same day I saw messages of him cheating on me. I guess three years with someone doesn’t mean much… the timing is never perfect but I believe it’s a blessing in disguise. I’m going to love my child like no other.
how do you guys feel about being a statistic … that’s what my brother told me today .. I’m about to give birth in a month 1/2 and I’m single now .. not my choice .. was with that person for 7 years .. & now single ..
@@gracemedina1320 it’s a big life adjustment. Although it is a statistic, everyone’s life is different, not one is the same. You’re strong regardless of someone else’s opinion of you. It’s your life to live no one else’s. I’d want nothing more than to have a family that’s not broken, but I can only make decisions for myself and hope that I have my family’s support along the way. (It’s been rough)
You will be an amazing mommy! Baby girl is blessed to have you ❤
I pray she likes me as much as I like her 😅
Congratulations on a healthy baby girl! I'll give you the advice that was given to me 18yrs ago for the delivery room, push like you're taking a 💩. Sounds silly but it works, opens up the vag and makes delivery easier. Checking the cervix and coming in & out of the room is normal so don't be afraid 😉. Sucks about being single, I pray all goes well ❣️
You are very much chosen and this is amazing news. So happy for you!
Lauren!!! This is beautiful and you and baby girl will be alright! Cant wait to see more of your resilience on this journey! All things work for your good... motherhood is the blessing God had for you this year!
Ur gods favorite 😍 no symptoms !!!
Thank you so much for sharing your story ❤
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You got this!
Thank you!