Insights on Dating and Wedding
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ย. 2024
- It's a sensitive yet important question - is dating wrong? What is the perfect marriage?
Based on a beautiful experience during a programme in the Sai Kulwant hall and several discourse quotes from Sri Sathya Sai Baba, here are some insights.
Hey Aravind - you are helping not only Sai devotees but also all other spiritual seekers from different traditions including the wider Datta tradition. Thank you so much for you selfless service. May Swami always be in your heart and you in Him.
So happy to read that🙏🙏
Sairam brother..much needed topic. My husband is a Sai student and I am a Balvikas Alumni. We both met with families just 5 days before the wedding after all the cards were printed, arrangements were finished and invites were sent. This was just a year ago. So if Swami organizes a wedding between His children, He will do it the traditional way. In my father's dream later, Swami came to dias and took wedding photos with us and our parents :)
Indeed it’s very important lessons for modern generation, specially when they wanted to show how modern they are not knowing how important is a family bond. Thanks brother, I was happily married for 52 years and saw each other first in “Shuvo drishti”. We had faith in our parents and for me God. Jai Sairam. ❤️❤️❤️
Beautiful.
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Love you dearest brother
What's your wife's feeling on your 52 years together?
inspired ❤
Om Sri Sairam 🙏
Dear Aravind,
You should do this very satsang on every corner of the complete western world!
Nearly no one has a clou about holy rules for a wedding at all over here.
So,if I only respected you so much, I now bend my head to your greatness!
Thank you holy Valentine for sharing your wisdom
You are stronger then ever before to me.
Agreed nice n the truth tq n om sri sai ram swami s blessings ever tq
It is ONLY Swami's love and grace. Grateful for the opportunity to share.
Omg...only Swami can do this. I was so confused about marriage and I was asking Swami and praying to Swami to give me some guidance. And today I got notification for this video. Sai Ram.
Jai Sai Ram 🙏
This video is all I needed today.Swami is primary and everything else is secondary. Thank you brother Arvind.
Sai Ram 🕉🙏❤
SAI RAM Brother.
Two things.
I am hearing this discourse while I am on my way to Puttaparthi, its beautiful.
All youngster should hear this.
Clear message 🙏🙏
Sai ram Annayya,
such a wonderful Satsang and it is indeed extremely useful to everyone to lead a decent life and a life full of devotion to Swami. Forgetting Swami is like forgetting one’s own breath. Keeping Him in everything we do is one way we can practice in always remembering Him in today’s fast moving world.
Often I hear the modern slogan “I like her, she like me.. that is enough”…
My advise to them then would always be “if you are an orphan then it’s ok for you to think like that. If not, then what about your parents who have alway kept you in the centre of their thoughts all this years..? Disappointing them is like disappointing God.”
Thanks to you in million ways for creating an invisible but close connection to Swami through your beautiful Satsang, Annayya
Jai sai ram
Simirthi 🙏🏻
Dearest Brother , thank you so much for taking out most valuable of your time for making this video… I have been finding guidance from Swami… on this most important and critical topic…. trust me each and every thing that was ever there in my mind and soul got answered through You….. thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you so much brother….. amazing day, amazing in sights …stay super blessed as always :)🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
It feels so wonderful and humbling to read your comment. Sairam 🙏
This is a must watch video for all . Brother, through out your video ,was able to see Swamis presence and blessings.Thank you so much Swami for showering your endless love on us 🙏🙏🙏
Excellent! Much needed message for both parents and marriage aged children. In present scenario all are confused . This satsang undoubtedly helps those who WANT TO FOLLOW BHAGAWANS MESSAGE. God bless bro. Aravind. Jai Sairam 🙏
Hearing this cristalclear satsang makes me so calm because the Real,Noble,Divine values are still in the running !
Over here,relationship mostly needs many prayers and Swami's grace to stop the harm and lost chances it brings by
following the body-money-path.
Sairam brother Aravind.🙏
Wonderful Sathsang!!!Great to hear.
Learnt so.much from this episode.
Very lively presentation.
In my humble opinion, Swami prompted another insightful thought for the Group photo session.
After all, the Drama called life happens as per the law of Karma.He is the Karmaphala pradata. When the Drama ends..then there exists no wife...no husband. When one realises this truth, then one 'detaches' himself or herself from the role and attaches to the God as He showed in this Group photo session.
Also, Swami had shown that though Wife and husband together share and enjoy the aspects of Dharma Ardha and Kaama, when it comes to God's Grace and Moksham(4th purushardham) it all depends on their respective Sadhanas and nothingelse. 😊🙏
Sai Ram brother! You have addressed a pertinent and sensitive topic at an opportune time. Agree with your perspective on this issue - I am sure Swami’s blessings are with you ( and us ) on this introspective journey. Purity of thoughts has to vigilantly followed throughout life, for otherwise we are prone to go astray. But with Swami as the soulmate nothing else matters. May He inspire and instill that faith in our minds and the minds of the present day youth
Sairam Arvind This is the correct way to convey this important message with Swami's Golden Words to Sai devotees who are in the whole world. True Sai devotees should be the examples for others. VELIYE PAYIRAI MEYA KOODADHU.
I have been an astrologer for many years as my work.
My opinion about astrology was(and still is)that astrology can help to understand the behaviour or character from oneself or the other.
Although!,one should never say:"I can't help,my planets are responsible for this or that..."
With Swami one can always reach the best side of every planets influence!
Always!
Perfectly said
so true...and a beautiful insight shared by dear brother..sai sankalpa 🙏,
madam i would like to get in touch with you sairam ,how can i
Namashivaya! Aravind sir your satsangs helped me in progress of my spiritual path.🙏🏻🙏🏻
Sathyam Sathyam Sathyam....very well said... This video is a must watch for all Children of Sai who are in a marriageable age ... You spoke very well brother.... Love is based on character.
I love a girl and she loves me too but the problem is she's vet doctor & I am an engineering graduate and a stock market trader by profession...She got an rishta of a boy who's a government officer...I am totally confused why her parents will Marry her to me because they are getting someone better than me...She sometimes also thinks that kahin financial issues na aayen in between us in future....I love her truly and cry day & night for her..She also feels the same...We both are confused....May baba bless both of us and our families so that we can be together in future because I don't want to loose her..I think my life will end if she marries someone else..Baba bless me more we both have a profession issue although she has not told her in her home about me....We had decided that she'll tell in few days after birthday...but in between that rishta came...and the parents have agreed her just to meet that government officer...but she's meeting for her parents happiness but she said she'll say no...Baba & all frns bless us...Baba do his Leela make me more financially blessed so that she and her parents feel that stock market trading is also a Good profession and May baba bless me more financially so that I can convince her parents that she'll be happy wid me....I don't want to loose her frns wid tears in eyes ♥️
Very relevant topic Aravind. So well presented. May Swamis blessings always be upon you. My wedding too went thro certain travails being inter caste. My parents followed Swami in a limited way. Ulimately both sides met and the wedding culminated on 23rd Nov. ! At that point I didnt realise the significance of the date. By Swamis Grace all went well and all ups and downs of life has been managed with Swamis Grace.
Thank you for the wishes and for sharing your experience. Sairam 🙏
All is truly truth very nice innocent sharing beautiful if one can recall on his or her own marriage they would have known exactly i really agree good topics and very interesting n well done 👍 good on the topics of marriage u r so well deserve of a real swami devotee well respected and appreciated tq very much n u r very much known to swami we thank you 🙏 for this opportunity n article om Sai ram tq om love ❤️
28:00 ‘Constantly think of Swami by my side, as if I was sitting with Swami by my side’ very important statement. Thank you for this!
I had goosebumps in the end when you described Swami sitting next to you and you behaving and talking on behalf of this reality. And proposing to us to do so when we date a person. Such an intense feeling came through. So so so beautiful!!! Thank you so much - Om Sri Sairam ♥️🙏♥️
It is all His immense love and blessings. Sairam 🙏
@@saistudent yes such immense love - indescribably beautiful and deeply touching He is. To get lost in His Love is most desirable ♥️♥️♥️Sairam♥️♥️♥️
dear sai brother it's a golden opportunity watching your speeches thank you very much aum loving sairam
Beautiful message brother Aravind!! 🙏🏻 Truly the Vedic system of marriage had the foundation of core value systems… duty, responsibility, respect and love.. The so called modern marriages mock the ancient system without understanding the underlying cultural reasons for a strong bond. Nowadays it’s more of a marriage of convenience and need with selfish motives… With Sai’s blessings anything is possible!! Sakala graha bala neene Sarasijaksha!! Jai Sai Ram 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Aum Sri Sai Ram ❤️...
I too come across your position... With some of our youth ( sssss)... I hope... This video 😊🙏👍 may guide them proper way... Sri Swami will guide them... In proper direction...
Thanks for making this video... Sri SWAMI'S GRACE, LOVE ❤️ and BLESSINGS OF will shower 🚿🤚✋ on entire team involved in making this video...
Jai Sai Ram ❤️👍😊...
Dear Swami,
may humanity come to the understanding that
impermanent beauty,the pleasures of the flesh or money,
can not lead to permanent happiness.
Only You can!
Jai Sairam.Thanks for yet another inspiring talk ,which is so relevant to all of us. As a mother of two unmarried girls this was such an enlightening discourse.Gratitude dear brother.Pranams and Sairam.🙏
Baba please send a good husband for my dear daughter
Jai Sairam... Thanks for sharing such a wonderful yet sensitive topic... When Swami is centre of our lives everything is beautiful... 🙏🙏🙏
Yes indeed
Sai blessings brother...hats off to you...I don't think anyone else could have put forward this any better than you...so beautifully explained.....and thanks to you, even though many of us wasn't there to witness this in SWAMI'S presence...by you sharing with us, we have all becomes part of it ... and this session is an eye opener for those who take it in seriously...May the blessings of our beloved BHAGWAN be with you forever 🙏
Sairam brother, such beautifully you have explained such a vital matter as per Swami's wishes and teachings Sairam❤🙏🙏
Aum Sai Ram Brother.. Great topic and amazing discussion. Yes marriage is commitment for good and bad times.. No matter how bad it might seem, it best to complete one's karma /test.
I went through every possible suffering any marriage could offer... I survived because my complete faith and surrender to Swami. I believed if one lives righteously.. Work is worship, duty is God...
Very well explained , Arvind , food for thought indeed, Sai Ram 🙏💐
Sairam brother Aravind ji...Thank you very much for message..Appreciate your time and effort in bringing all the pieces together. This message would be a guideline to all the youngsters looking to get married which would be either love or arranged marriage without any confusions and understand the purpose of marriage. Praying to Swami to be always with everyone of us and help us, guide us and save us.
BRILLIANT JOB OF COMMUNICATING A VERY IMPORTANT LIFE ISSUE
You have a wonderful gift for telling stories and sharing experiences of swami. Thank you for shedding light on such an essential topic.
And I find all my fulfillment in sharing His stories. 🙏 Keep me in your prayers. Sairam
Very well conceived & presented. It is of course need of the hour, we have been witnessing loads of divorces as well as pride of staying in living in kinds. Parents now days are of afraid of guidance against such acts cause they are also rightly worried of their old age situations & support. Thank you dear Arvind for a wonderful meaning full synopsis. Marriage institutions roles and responsibilities actually are to be discussed & be made available for people across to know of why how etc. Thank you.
Brother Aravind , Hats off to you for this presentation , a painstaking effort on a delicate and trending subject , Iam sure it was our Lord who has Prodded you to choose this topic . It’s indeed a video our young adults should watch . May our Belly bed Bhagawan be with you always and teach us lessons thru your videos
Thank you brother for choosing this topic 🙏🙏🙏Om Sri Sai Ram🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I really believe very nice sharing beautiful God comes as a truth in all yes swami is my best in all i do can it be marriage or anything swami helps us all n always if we seek swami in all lovely n true tq so much for sharing a beautiful Sai ram to u love n blessings from swami always to u omsrisairam om shanti 3 om tc n tq
Sai Ram dear Aravind,
Thank you for this beautiful satsang. You have done so much research and picked the best examples to illustrate the important occasion in one’s life time. All young adults should watch this.
Beautifully explained the subject and this is guidelines for all
26:25 - Good character, tolerant, love and service 🕉 Sai Ram🙏
Oh my god!!! Swami is always on time they say...he is neither early nor late...I was so disturbed and had lot of questions...I opened my TH-cam and this is the first vdo I saw....He is great 🙏
Sairam!
🙏Om SairamThank you so much for this most enlightening message.Need of the hour.Sairam🙏
Hello Brother, Just fortunate to Hear this message, last two days have been discussing this with my wife, close friend and Brother, Ultimate Goal of Wedding is to attain Sita Rama intimacy. As you said this will lead to In. To my see
Perfect 🙏
You spoke from your Heart .. You don’t have to apologize for ANYTHING! Keep up the GREAT WORK
Dear Aravind Brother, Thank you for this absolutely wonderful Satsang . Thoroughly enjoyed! Jai Sairam🙏
Sairam 🙏
Sairam brother Aravind very useful satsang for each and every one. Thank you brother.
Glad it helped. All His inspiration
Wonderful satsang as always! Jay Sai Ram!
Very good narration, jai sai raam.. Thank u very very much sir🙏🏼🙏🏼
Sairam Brother, every word you said is no doubt in tune with Bhagavaan's teachings and hence true. But yes, in the present world, marriages are failing. If a marriage fails due to unavoidable circumstances, I urge men and women to at least not hold any resentments and fight ugly legal battles. Focus your energies on God instead and marry Him. He will more than fulfill the void of a partner. SaiRam.
God is the One and only! So true.
I wish I realised that earlier in time.
True sai ram to all w swami s blessings always tq om sri sai ram om ever tq
Always a perfect solution to focus on God.
Nicely mentioned Brother. You given an insight which we are completely forgotten nowadays. And, the great thing is your humble credit to swami. It simply means swami blessings is with you.
Aravind Sairam, it is not in human capacity to find the character or personality at a short meeting. We need to awaken our intiitive power that comes from Swami, guiding us to make right choices. The choice that helps us overcome karma and move closer towards Swami, not loose our path.
Unfortunately nowadays personality disorder cases are so many. I have heard cases and come across cases where one narcissistic parent prevents a child from getting married, for they are emotionally dependent on them. In a worst case, a mother got her daughter married, but poisoned her daughter's mind and held her back from living with her husband, because of her narcissistic nature. With more personality disorder cases and more of knowledge and understanding happening about this, the institution called marriage is shaking from roots.
Every satsang of yours is entertaining as well as enlightening.
Oh! Those are really sad cases. Saira,
And also mind blouwing is the video-making!
You're lucky to have Swami's presence Physically and we're little jealous of you now .
Great analysis of whole scenario and beautiful take away points from the video 👏
Thank you so much. 🙏 It is His grace alone
All Swami's grace. Sairam 🙏
I love a girl and she loves me too but the problem is she's vet doctor & I am an engineering graduate and a stock market trader by profession...She got an rishta of a boy who's a government officer...I am totally confused why her parents will Marry her to me because they are getting someone better than me...She sometimes also thinks that kahin financial issues na aayen in between us in future....I love her truly and cry day & night for her..She also feels the same...We both are confused....May baba bless both of us and our families so that we can be together in future because I don't want to loose her..I think my life will end if she marries someone else..Baba bless me more we both have a profession issue although she has not told her in her home about me....We had decided that she'll tell in few days after birthday...but in between that rishta came...and the parents have agreed her just to meet that government officer...but she's meeting for her parents happiness but she said she'll say no...Baba & all frns bless us...Baba do his Leela make me more financially blessed so that she and her parents feel that stock market trading is also a Good profession and May baba bless me more financially so that I can convince her parents that she'll be happy wid me....I don't want to loose her frns wid tears in eyes ♥️
I love a girl and she loves me too but the problem is she's vet doctor & I am an engineering graduate and a stock market trader by profession...She got an rishta of a boy who's a government officer...I am totally confused why her parents will Marry her to me because they are getting someone better than me...She sometimes also thinks that kahin financial issues na aayen in between us in future....I love her truly and cry day & night for her..She also feels the same...We both are confused....May baba bless both of us and our families so that we can be together in future because I don't want to loose her..I think my life will end if she marries someone else..Baba bless me more we both have a profession issue although she has not told her in her home about me....We had decided that she'll tell in few days after birthday...but in between that rishta came...and the parents have agreed her just to meet that government officer...but she's meeting for her parents happiness but she said she'll say no...Baba & all frns bless us...Baba do his Leela make me more financially blessed so that she and her parents feel that stock market trading is also a Good profession and May baba bless me more financially so that I can convince her parents that she'll be happy wid me....I don't want to loose her frns wid tears in eyes ♥️
Wow .. amazing that the Girl, Boy and parents all unknowingly came to you and you of course gave them the best advise .. and what a lovely ending ..God Bless you Aravind 🙏🏻
Our great fortune to be born in Bharat where such ideals are displayed in their character and lives ,God himself sets examples for us 😊😊🙏
I wish these insights are included as is in the Syllabus for all final year BalVikas children and school balvikas and also the human values syllabus before 12th std itself these days. Prayers for all the youth that we aren't away from Swami's standards. Come what may. Hearty hearty sairam for collation of so much of information given by Swami. Sairam....
It is all His blessings. Sairam 🙏
Beautifully explained. Ultimately if the union is leading to Swami then that's all it matters. Glad that I found this video. Thanks for sharing ur experience and giving the right advice. Sai Ram
Sai Ram, lovely 🥰 divine explanation about marriage. It is good to hear by every single young adult.
Sai Ram 🙏
And if the marriage comes with fights,
let them uncover
the messages in it for me...
May painful not be the reason to give up
but make me see and fight my own 'weaknesses' or 'illusions'...
As a great opportunity to grow into
the one He wants me to be...💗😕🙃😊
Sairam. bro.Arvind As usual very well thought of and presented.
Thank you m Sairam 🙏
Loved loved loved it❤️❤️❤️
Especially where you say God should be in the middle of a marriage
Sairam dear brother - you know what others need to hear 💗
The atma-sphere of this sublime story makes my indexfinge wanting to touch my Thumb all the way.
😊🙏
Got many answers from this satsang 🙏 at the right time. Thanks brother 🙏🙏🙏
Aravind bro's Valentine's day release 😉.
Sairam bro. Great insights.
Thank you. 😇
Excellent topic chosen
33:22 second.....perfect message ...I just broke down
Sai Ram brother 🙏🙏 could continuously feel the divine presence of Swami 🙏💐✨😇,, gleaming through you , while you were sharing & conveying his noble message to all of us..!! Thanks to Swami and you for sharing with all of us this divine bliss ✨
Jai Sai Ram 🙏🙏💐✨😇
Thank you so much Sir for guiding us in such a sensitive topic
Sai Ram 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Wonderful ....👌👌👌👌👌👌
Om Sri Sai Ram🌹🙏
Happy Valentine's Day Swami ♥️
Dear brother Arvind, thank you for the wonderful video, is there a way for potential brides and grooms from Sai family to meet each other or their parents to meet each other?
Thank you so much for this talk Arvind.. very useful and important ..iam truly grateful 🙏 to you for bringing this topic which has been immensely useful to our present situation in our family..Jai Sai Ram
Sai Ram . Very enjoyable satsang 👍
Thank you so much brother for sharing this wonderfull words about marrage from swami sairam🙏
Thanks for sharing these prime important aspects of marriage institution...loads of efforts should be done to save it's sacredness... Such messages coming from your level can give a better impact.
I also request you to share Swami's massages on 'family institution' and meaning of being 'parent'...🙏🙏🙏
Sairam everyone said mine is also love marriage butour horoscope is like cat on the wall they said , her horoscope had kalasarpa dosha , kalthra dosha , puthra dosha but now we have a daughter and living happily. That's what swami is always with us and our family is totally surrendered
Thank you for sharing. Sairam 🙏
СПАСИБО ТЕБЕ 🙏ГОСПОДЬ🕉 САИ 🕉РАМА🕉❤🙏🌹🌺🌹🌺🌹🌺🌹🌺🌹🌺🌹🌺🌹🌺🌹🌺🌹🌺🌹🌺
Thanku brother aravind beautiful satsang 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Beautiful Satsang 🙏
How valuable, thank you brother Aravind 🙏🏼 Jai Sairam!
Jaisairam brother Aravind 🙏 amazing discussion n session at the right time[ valentine's day 💓]😂👌 love you Swami for having trsinef you stidents to hrlp humanity lead an ideal ;Ife. 💓💓💓🙏My swami. Love my swami. Thanq Swami. Thanq brother 🙏
Excellent speech sairam
Such great insights taught by Swami got out so well. !!!
Sairam Aravind beautiful experiences Thank you for sharing 🙏💐❤️
Thank you so much for this video. Literally swami gave me a guidence through this video. Sai Ram.
A small Valentine's note:
I did fall in love with You,Swami,
now longing to fall into Your Love
and stay...💌
Swami never let me date so never been on one thanks for msg.. the goals character service etc is good service taking person closer to sai the relationship should and if relation doesnt take u to god its not satsang friends too
We also witnessed the Seetha Rama kallyanam through you. Thank you.sai ram.
Todays we live in this modern world surrounded by cheating , divorces and no values .. people have backups for relationships.. give priority to alimony even before wedding .. when we follow baba rules we remain pure and innocent . One needs to still fight the world to be innocent. It's hard.. oh baba please protect us all ,give us strength and show us the right partners 🙏❤
Love your videos but the background music detracts from your message. Unfortunately youtube is advising all youtubers to include background music. It frequently detracts from the message. But thanks for topic. Good one. Sairam.
Thank you...🙏
So many dating sites nowadays. Your satsang should be the intro of all of them...
😇 As I said, I just shared what I gathered and understood from Him..
You reposted this at an apt time of my life 😊
Brother Aravind, thank you for this talk :)
Beyond words. Swami'S Blessings 🙏
Our Humble Pranams 👏
At The Lotus Feet of Our
Most Belowed Bhagwan Baba 👏
Pranams,Sairam. Nothing comes wrong from yor side. It's totally Swami using you and we can see Swami's acts more and more through you and get blissed. And background music was very melodious and meaningful to the context. Sairam, my humble pranams.
Thank you. Am grateful to Swami and please keep me in your prayers.
Sairam Divine Brother 🧡🙏🧡
Beautiful episode brother Arvind.
Brother Aravind, what is special about you is you speak about practical matters that affect all of us. Nothing you say is in the least bit offensive. Please continue your efforts to bring us closer to Swami. Jai Sai Ram.