27yo Law School Graduate HUMBLES room full of THICK and Beautiful Black Women!

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  • @pamwoods9367
    @pamwoods9367 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4808

    As a woman, we always say that we want a man that communicates and when presented with one, he’s called a debater 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @lovinghoneybee41
      @lovinghoneybee41 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      Wys!!!💯

    • @mikewats30
      @mikewats30 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      💯

    • @adriennewilliams5408
      @adriennewilliams5408 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

      On top of them not wanting to listen in the first place. Well said Sis! ❤

    • @kevinsono
      @kevinsono 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +150

      Those girls probably don't like theirs views to be challenged

    • @ApolloTheGod318
      @ApolloTheGod318 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Or tryna be your father.

  • @Financeischess
    @Financeischess 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1389

    I am a woman and a law student. I am actually intrigued in how attentive he was and his ability to communicate effectively. The fact that these women focused on superficial things such as his clothing and shoes showed me the reason why some women are single and can’t find a good man. I couldn’t believe that so many women thought like this. I am a southern woman from Alabama, the clothes don’t make the man.

    • @stevenstval9948
      @stevenstval9948 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Amen

    • @brandont103
      @brandont103 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

      Software Engineer here. When I was dating, I’d wear flashy shit. It’d attract all the wrong kind of ladies :(. They’d never ask what I did for a living or anything. They’d be more concerned with what I wore. A chain? A bracelet? Watch? Shoes? All of it. If I didn’t look like a gangster/rapper, they didn’t care.
      Then I switched it up after I got a Mech E. and Software E. degree. I dressed how my colleagues did. In construction lookin ass clothes while in Mech E. Plain Tshirt and Jeans in Software E.
      Not a single black lady would give me the time of day. One even told me “you thought you had a chance with me? Lookin all broke? Step off”. Even the very intelligent black ladies were like that. They love the block boys.
      I never forgot that. I love black ladies. But after that, I straight up gave up.
      I made $300K per year and have 2 degrees. They never found that out because they didn’t care enough to. Eventually found a mixed lady in the same field that didn’t care for all that stuff.
      Take the bus and train on a date, instead of the car when dating. You’ll find out real quick who is interested in the materialistic things vs. who’s interested in character.
      The young man in the video is a damn fine young man and will go far.

    • @Talia_IceCreamPaints
      @Talia_IceCreamPaints 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      ⁠@@brandont103so sorry you had to go through this.
      I think these women were correct in valuing his appearance, but to pop their balloon and dismiss him entirely because of that…Seesh. Makes me feel so bad. Many of us, women and men alike can stand to benefit from dating by waiting.

    • @shatee713
      @shatee713 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Say that

    • @robertmonroejr1315
      @robertmonroejr1315 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      In the 80’s I had a friend who worked on Wall Street as a stockbroker. He found that, when he told a woman what he did for a living they became very interested in him. But, he wasn’t interested In gold diggers. So, he started dressing in jeans & t-shirts or button-down shirts and telling women that he was a sanitation worker. That weeded out the gold diggers real quick. If a woman heard what he supposedly did for a living and was still interested in him he’d ask her out on a date. During the date he would tell her the truth and why he lied. All of them understood because they knew what trifling women were like.

  • @sagacious8670
    @sagacious8670 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3773

    This brother just dodged nine bullets, he the new 50 Cent 😂😂😂😂

  • @StopSnatchin
    @StopSnatchin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +448

    These women are in their thirties and still believe depending on your zodiac sign will determine if they will match well with you😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @azizmullah9621
      @azizmullah9621 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Crazy

    • @theartist25614
      @theartist25614 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I was looking for this comment😃😃. I taken aback. As in zodiac sign!!! Are they even serious!!

    • @hmpro5423
      @hmpro5423 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Goes to show age really is nothing but a number.

    • @AdrianMasiubi
      @AdrianMasiubi หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Zodiacs are things I used as kids

    • @ChanaTheWarrior
      @ChanaTheWarrior หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You hit it on the nail, in their 30’s and worried about zodiac signs. They will be single for a long time unless they humble themselves amd mature more.

  • @msztax
    @msztax 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1496

    His mother should be smiling proud. Fine young man.

    • @saintnick4035
      @saintnick4035 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      💯

    • @chineduagho5530
      @chineduagho5530 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Hello

    • @alexanderthegreatoz5945
      @alexanderthegreatoz5945 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He should go ahead look for a White or Latina woman for a wife.

    • @shirleybrown9711
      @shirleybrown9711 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      💯🎯

    • @alphabarre9096
      @alphabarre9096 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      His mother huh? Not his parents 😂 this ish reminds me when ESPN used to focus on mothers draft picks during NFL or NBA draft, while their dads is right there 😂 but I should not be surprised it's the American way.

  • @TarotBae555
    @TarotBae555 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3400

    This man wasn’t even arguing with them 😕🫤 he was challenging them with conversation and confidence but his tone was perrrrrfect!!!

    • @brianfreckles8542
      @brianfreckles8542 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +209

      He intimidated them. Modern women fear men like this

    • @TarotBae555
      @TarotBae555 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@brianfreckles8542 facts!!! They love weak yes men

    • @staywell7217
      @staywell7217 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +138

      His tone and body language were authentic and not intimidating at all. This was not the panel of women for him.

    • @leeleebaby6380
      @leeleebaby6380 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Right!

    • @robertbradford9041
      @robertbradford9041 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      Outstanding 💯
      This is the first time I seen someone made them notice "They judge the book 📖 before reading 📚. Excellent conversation ...

  • @stryder2009
    @stryder2009 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +841

    It’s not that they don’t like to debate, they don’t like to be held accountable.

    • @johnpettiford6547
      @johnpettiford6547 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Underrated comment right here

    • @YuseffJr
      @YuseffJr 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Some don't actually want to be challenged or "led" to think differently. It's I'm right, and you're right if I let you be.

    • @bigbawsdogg
      @bigbawsdogg 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💯

    • @Breautiful90
      @Breautiful90 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Do y'all really feel that way about us?

    • @stryder2009
      @stryder2009 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@YuseffJr Exactly!

  • @trinibessnation7000
    @trinibessnation7000 หลายเดือนก่อน +184

    I now understand why so many women ends up with the wrong guy. It is because they keep looking at the wrong things and keep listening to other women who mislead them.

    • @abenaitweosbert
      @abenaitweosbert หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly 💯

    • @tkeith26
      @tkeith26 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like men end up with the right woman and choose according to the inside. Ya right

    • @TheBigbark0341
      @TheBigbark0341 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@tkeith26not any longer, were catching planes to get the hell away from AW

    • @tkeith26
      @tkeith26 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@TheBigbark0341 The fact you think all women care about that. The men who do that, do it. There are still plenty of men who don’t. 🤷‍♀️ My whole point was that both men and women (some) select from the outside not the inside. I don’t get your comment being a response for that.

    • @Betzonme
      @Betzonme วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      They watch too much of the internet and get their opinions based on that also VH1 shit like that and they fantasize about shit that's not real they watch Power, The Best Man , and Family Reunion shit that's not even real they also go off the stigma of other women which isn't healthy and that's why they are so lost they let people mislead them I saw it happen a lot like a female can like a male her friend will say or mom will say something about that man to try and turn her away from them happens all the time lmao they are like you can find better blah blah blah and that is what I mean it's not healthy if that's someone they want to be with they rub off on them 20:30 is excalty wtf I mean I just watched it that's some bullshit and that's the bullshit I'm talking about the girl told her to pop the ballon that's some bullshit

  • @eddykingz
    @eddykingz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +698

    The only guy to get all his balloons popped and still walk out as king 👑

    • @maryjackson1361
      @maryjackson1361 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Love this statement

    • @jarodorla6949
      @jarodorla6949 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Absolutely

    • @tanyagilbert5112
      @tanyagilbert5112 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He stepped in as a king. They talking about how he dressed. Like they are dress nice

    • @AskTheAdjutant
      @AskTheAdjutant หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🎯

    • @frenkylukie6422
      @frenkylukie6422 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yuppp 👊🏾

  • @Tjj325
    @Tjj325 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2265

    “Women keep women single” now that’s a bar!!!

    • @benjaminomin2305
      @benjaminomin2305 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      This got me WOWED

    • @The-Famous-Davis
      @The-Famous-Davis 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

      Correction: Single Women Keep Women single. Married women will not give a single woman negative information.

    • @preshboy
      @preshboy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      @@The-Famous-Davis it depends on the husband

    • @extremegenius
      @extremegenius 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Fellas he was quoting Kevin Samuels

    • @The-Famous-Davis
      @The-Famous-Davis 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@preshboy Agreed. If it’s a flowing relationship then she’ll give that single woman tangible advice.

  • @keyapitts
    @keyapitts 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +954

    As a 52-year-old happily married woman for 24 years...I am embarrassed by the mindset of these young women...come on sistas ..grow up.

    • @shunchrisb0102
      @shunchrisb0102 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +54

      Exactly why they’re standing in the line up!!!

    • @sharezparker3745
      @sharezparker3745 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      That's why we are going to white women now

    • @booneboone9705
      @booneboone9705 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Your sons will end up dating non black women (not your fault) but this is exactly what we're dealing with.

    • @CherisseRaghoo
      @CherisseRaghoo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sharezparker3745white women are petty and superficial too. just find mature women with sense.

    • @DEGENEBABA
      @DEGENEBABA 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They will not grow up in time for the right guy. but they will, after having kids with the wrong guy. It's how most ladies are, they can't choose what's good for them, always want what's good for the other girls and ending up with the wrong guy. Then they blame it on the guys.

  • @jayflaggs
    @jayflaggs หลายเดือนก่อน +127

    Smh the whole internet can see why these women will stay unmarried but they can't see it themselves. This man dodged bullets!

    • @vlockjr441
      @vlockjr441 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Can't tell them nothing man. If it was Brad though................

    • @babert7022
      @babert7022 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Call him 50cent

    • @AngelSoft15
      @AngelSoft15 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Some women just don’t want to get married.

  • @nationd198
    @nationd198 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1260

    Going on a show to find love and popping your balloon before you get a chance to even speak to a person is crazyyyyyy

    • @KellyLaird-qk9ku
      @KellyLaird-qk9ku 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very crazy bimbos all over dats faxx

    • @joshuaify_
      @joshuaify_ 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Absolutely very crazy. I can't understand why, like why...

    • @jeffersronrosado2305
      @jeffersronrosado2305 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Absolutely insane

    • @HammondB34Me
      @HammondB34Me 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      Group think. Echo chamber. Peer pressure.

    • @michaelonyeka4456
      @michaelonyeka4456 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

      Going on a show to find love is already crazy enough..shows you are already a big problem

  • @TavaresJones-k7h
    @TavaresJones-k7h 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +620

    He is definitely a lawyer 😮‍💨 his questions were solid

    • @kendrickthomas7881
      @kendrickthomas7881 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Most definitely

    • @kjjohnson418
      @kjjohnson418 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      He never said he was a lawyer. He said he graduated from law school and was hired by a law firm. He never said he passed or even took the bar exam. But I'm ALL for him. I think he is a fine young man and has an incredible future ahead of him!

    • @TavaresJones-k7h
      @TavaresJones-k7h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kjjohnson418 he might not have the Esquire being his name we don’t know that. I’m just saying you can tell he was being truthful.

    • @Aiden-cl7cz
      @Aiden-cl7cz 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      He isn't a law student. He's too street for that

  • @dwunahenton7218
    @dwunahenton7218 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +688

    He wasn't arguing nor flirting. He pays attention.

    • @sheldonreyes4418
      @sheldonreyes4418 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Yes but u can flirt and argue if your skilled enough all three can be done smoothly

    • @jusmonrivers8197
      @jusmonrivers8197 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      It pays to pay attention

    • @vr000701
      @vr000701 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I love how he asked feelers questions. The one from Cleveland was stuttering so bad it was funny

    • @Leyenda393
      @Leyenda393 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I just caught that part lol she said he was flirting. How sway?

    • @neekyboo77
      @neekyboo77 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Nor did he attack the women, asking about their past or how many baby daddies they have.

  • @lukasandrewluka6685
    @lukasandrewluka6685 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    He is a lawyer what do you expect. What a Smart brother.

  • @leroy7481
    @leroy7481 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4426

    With the lawyer -- looks are deceiving. He dressed that way to see the superficialness within them. And they all failed. Next.

    • @reeshedagilbert5937
      @reeshedagilbert5937 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +229

      checkmate!!!!

    • @CorGP
      @CorGP 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +121

      It’s not that deep. Lawyers are regular people outside of work. I went to school with a lot of guys who have STEM degrees that dress like the regular guy from the hood.

    • @shirah528
      @shirah528 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who give af about him being a lawyer!? Y'all acting like he's a billionaire.. d riding so hard. More than likely he has a shit ton of STUDENT LOAN DEBT.

    • @dangelofromcomo2456
      @dangelofromcomo2456 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +149

      He tricked them all ! Way to go young man !💪🏾

    • @suavio111
      @suavio111 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +128

      THAT PART! He is a Lawyer, he knows what he was doing....weeding at the ratchets....happy for that man and hope he didn't end up low key with ANY of them, they all judged the WRONG things about him, they should've known he was testing them but flys don't know that they doing they just go from shit to shit; they all got a pookie and Ray Ray somewhere smh

  • @devonavant3497
    @devonavant3497 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +903

    Lol. Funny how they rejected him for his age and “maturity” but judged him based on his outfit lol

    • @maniacslap1623
      @maniacslap1623 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Come on now bruh u KNO it ain’t have shyt to do with his age or maturity lol

    • @qbanz00
      @qbanz00 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      And look at some of theirs… ol girl shirt say “MY EX IS MY BIGGEST FAN” 😂

    • @nates205
      @nates205 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      And based on horoscope bs

    • @Tigolito
      @Tigolito 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      They regected him for been young but he has more wisdom than all them put together. They are just a bunch of GOLD DIGGERS and they want a DADDY not a Husband.

    • @DoreneHollins
      @DoreneHollins 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      you right, I know older men don't communicate as well as this young man. Definitely was not debating. Impressive

  • @kennyr1502
    @kennyr1502 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6200

    Imagine missing out on your future husband all because of his outfit 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @bigdunks4eva
      @bigdunks4eva 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +580

      They end up single moms, emphasizing swag and outfits

    • @kennyr1502
      @kennyr1502 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

      @@bigdunks4eva facts!!

    • @suave_d
      @suave_d 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

      ​@@bigdunks4eva exactly.
      Thoroughly effed up priorities.

    • @uncannytheos2454
      @uncannytheos2454 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don't have to imagine it. All black women do it all the time

    • @feliciastreeter3529
      @feliciastreeter3529 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Agreed

  • @tameraslaughter6686
    @tameraslaughter6686 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    The narrator said "Women keep Women single". Priceless ❤❤❤

  • @kingswag28
    @kingswag28 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1502

    The girl who popped her balloon and then asked for it back then popped it again just made herself look like a clown.

    • @Neo-African
      @Neo-African 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

      The 5th girl then started unintegrously trying to cock-block him....

    • @Chanchiti
      @Chanchiti 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

      Bro she did that after he told the one girl you can get my hairstyle right

    • @Letthat
      @Letthat 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      ⁠hope she dont think she gone find love being so fickle😂

    • @sheilajohnson3768
      @sheilajohnson3768 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      NO SHE DIDN'T HE WAS A FLIRT

    • @carries2389
      @carries2389 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Absolutely he's a great guy, she's so dumb. Fr

  • @candaceellison7147
    @candaceellison7147 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +423

    To eliminate a man solely because he’s not dressed the way you expected is crazy

    • @tubelocal9514
      @tubelocal9514 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That's what they say, but it's clear that he's not their type. People don't understand attraction, especially women. They're just not attracted to him.

    • @bmentlow
      @bmentlow 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tubelocal9514Had he show up @ 6’5” body full of muscles, wearing European designer clothes, not one of’em would’ve popped their balloons. And the irony is that NONE OF THEM wore any stunning outfits 😂
      Too many women are just too damn superficial. And their mindsets are screwed up.

    • @bmentlow
      @bmentlow 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The lady with the cape on had the nerve to criticize what he wore?? 😂
      Her fit was trash! That hat, the color of it, and the cape. She looked like she just got dropped off from the early 1990’s. 😂

    • @gigiarmany4332
      @gigiarmany4332 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@tubelocal9514exactly..talking about outfit is a socially acceptable way of rejecting people & not on account of their looks, demaenour ,race, height etc..etc ..which would be unacceptable

    • @8kigana
      @8kigana 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      something tells me if he dressed like for court work they'd still turn him down for something else.

  • @floydsiler8227
    @floydsiler8227 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +427

    He's literally EVERYTHING these women want in a man, and they can't get past his shoes. The brother is well spoken, educated, so many things in the work, and they all canceled themselves.

    • @1stone379
      @1stone379 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Let's be real. I think they KNOW he's better than them on all levels and they self sabatoged by dismissing him for dumb reasons to save face and avoid being rejected..

    • @FreshDrip-l8v
      @FreshDrip-l8v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      They are for the streets

    • @jimmieanderson3574
      @jimmieanderson3574 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I guess they do not understand how changes of clothes and shoes work.

    • @Freakazoid12345
      @Freakazoid12345 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Literally?
      Not figuratively?
      He dresses and talks like a kid and I just started the video and he's not even what the first woman says she wants in a man.

    • @octaviawalker823
      @octaviawalker823 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So many black beautiful women are the most ignorant (some). Then they wonder why this same brother slid towards a white girl or a Hispanic, or Latino. Hecks, you didn't want him. Gone now in your ball of confusion.

  • @Deejayonthego
    @Deejayonthego หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    He's very observant, and that's a positive trait in a man. He mentioned that he cares to have a conversation 1st with anyone that he would consider. I think that he was too deep for all of them. He made them all of them think/have to use their brain and duh, they felt challenged. It's their loss, if you ask me. He was comfortable in his own skin, so he left smiling and feelng no loss. Bravo!!

  • @Cwood216
    @Cwood216 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +442

    They all low-key regret popping they balloon 😂😂😂

    • @wandawilliams8514
      @wandawilliams8514 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      😅😅😅😅😅😅,They All Mad

    • @daneegurl0330
      @daneegurl0330 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yeah they did . I definitely like to talk with folks more than judging the fit . I’ve met some amazing people off of just conversation and not off looks

    • @wandilesibusisodlamini5532
      @wandilesibusisodlamini5532 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Mos'Def😂

    • @destinymattison3554
      @destinymattison3554 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They definitely do!

    • @CandaceRuffin-fo2tk
      @CandaceRuffin-fo2tk หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      NO they HIGH-KEY regret that shit lmfao

  • @theshyna94
    @theshyna94 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1045

    I’m a grown woman and that’s one of the craziest things I’ve ever heard. He wasn’t a debater. He was stimulating, conversationally. He did dodge bullets, for sure.

    • @brainiacbold169
      @brainiacbold169 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      if he did date them they would be just as petty and later confused about why they single. If men did this our male friends would clown us after the show

    • @db-hj9cu
      @db-hj9cu 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      She just said that but she actually got jealous cause he told ol girl to get his hair right after the show

    • @andreacorhetta1927
      @andreacorhetta1927 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      That’s the same woman that said she needed a leader but now he talking about he’s a debater. I guess she thinks leaders just go for anything smh lol

    • @lisakaye3919
      @lisakaye3919 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men overlook good women too!! Notice the title of the video “thick women” why is that important rather they are thick or not?!
      I wl tell u why bc men overlook good women ALL THE TIME!! Bc she’s nt thick or body shape nt perfect!! They stay having double standards on gawd!! They irritating asl

    • @lisakaye3919
      @lisakaye3919 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Men get to judge us all the time smh n nobody says anything. In fact men be having outrageous standards!! But god forbid if a woman has dislikes or certain things she looks for then she’s shamed!! So plz stop with these shenanigans

  • @johnjunior7231
    @johnjunior7231 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +422

    He totally outclassed them all

  • @DeAngeloShaw
    @DeAngeloShaw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    Bro this show makes me WANT to STAY single..😭😂

  • @billyford7853
    @billyford7853 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2128

    The guy is a law school grad. He's trained to be inquisitive and how to rebutt any questions. It's called cross examination.

    • @viperboyjam1971
      @viperboyjam1971 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +133

      Literally, he's practice the art of conversation,debate, etc.. he listens, fully present and knows definitions. In turn he can be great at game.

    • @kennyr1502
      @kennyr1502 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

      Yeah these women want a smart and intelligent man until one actually shows up and actually challenges them. Then they get offended and say this like "I feel like your debatable"

    • @sickofguysnamedtodd2293
      @sickofguysnamedtodd2293 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +130

      @@kennyr1502they want him smart enough to earn money to provide them with a comfortable lifestyle, but not smarter than them.

    • @kennyr1502
      @kennyr1502 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      @@sickofguysnamedtodd2293 I agree

    • @markmathews2677
      @markmathews2677 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      He intimidated all of them

  • @nasonthegreat1667
    @nasonthegreat1667 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +923

    Yea homie gon be a problem when he in his 30’s & 40’s. Salute to that young King 🤲🏽

    • @king1dmt
      @king1dmt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Hell yea he is

    • @avesehilliard6504
      @avesehilliard6504 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Yes Sir we need more young men like him

    • @BLAUQUE
      @BLAUQUE 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Yeah he walked all they assess down…and I promise after two dates he would have had all them locked in!!!

    • @Djk1atl
      @Djk1atl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Man by the look at all them girls they just one night stands wouldn't date nor marry non of em , u know a wife when u see one and non of these are then

    • @thebesttheworst2277
      @thebesttheworst2277 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      True, he could be a problem now for them if he'd just nipped out the back and jumped in some Tom Ford, they'd have been falling over themselves to bag the future lawyer husband.
      Their shortsightedness and lack of critical or long term thinking will haunt them all their remaining days, whether they spend them alone or not.

  • @tshaolin971
    @tshaolin971 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +603

    He called them out on their bs and they don't like being held accountable.

    • @Lifeisbetter007
      @Lifeisbetter007 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      it ain't gotta be bs just cause they don't like him or want him

    • @tshaolin971
      @tshaolin971 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @@Lifeisbetter007 This isn't what I said, he showed how incoherent they are and are making their choice on it. They were annoyed by his accurate remarks which shows they are not willing to improve their character so of course they won't like him which tells they don't know how to recognize a good man especially because they listen to so much bs on social media.

    • @aashleyainlong4191
      @aashleyainlong4191 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@@tshaolin971respect incompatible natures and understand a black man completing a law degree is very uncommon but these girls are very common. They follow popular culture they are not unique. He needs someone like himself. These women are not wrong just not right for him and they are not right for him. Its s blessing to not be mispartnered. Its nothing these women need to chsnge they need to find compatible partners that their.mutual.needs are being met. I think this would be more successful if the women were one and one with the guy not in a collective. Social pressure for women to agree with other women or men to agree with other men is antithetical to what is ultimately a one on one partnership. So these competitions really do not bring out realistic personal interactions.

    • @OjukwuIsaac
      @OjukwuIsaac 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      You right when you say the women need to find men more like them; men with nice shoes lol.​@aashleyainlong4191

    • @tshaolin971
      @tshaolin971 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@OjukwuIsaac Yeah clearly theses women confuse a masculine man with "toxic masculinity" they are looking for a feminine male.

  • @brownhornet3461
    @brownhornet3461 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    He's having a conversation in depth with each individual because there wouldn't be a show if he didn't 😂.

  • @Qedoshim
    @Qedoshim 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +617

    The realest thing I heard from this video is “Women keep women single.” 😂😂😂

    • @pedroballinger2540
      @pedroballinger2540 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Yes I agree, women sometimes get into a collective agreement base on the expectation of their peers.

    • @RamonSlater-lu5ig
      @RamonSlater-lu5ig 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Jealousy and envy if I don't want him nither do you want n or need him , picking for me was a person

    • @jfarrfarrisfirst3094
      @jfarrfarrisfirst3094 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts!!!!!

    • @1_Diablo_ff
      @1_Diablo_ff 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@RamonSlater-lu5igvbb but bvdbvvdbfv bvd bvvbv

    • @MichaelLawal-e6v
      @MichaelLawal-e6v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For real

  • @the_shadow_realm5110
    @the_shadow_realm5110 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +463

    These women didn’t have a single independent thought.

    • @mrflynn01
      @mrflynn01 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Group thought at its finest.

    • @pkp6791
      @pkp6791 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s what most guys can deal with. May not be want they want though.

    • @1stone379
      @1stone379 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Damn. Over shoes? If he was white, they would NOT be too concerned with that. In fact, they'd think it's a fashion statement

    • @pameladangerfield
      @pameladangerfield 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      📌💯👆🏾

    • @Deejayonthego
      @Deejayonthego หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree!!!

  • @Phlacophonzo38
    @Phlacophonzo38 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +259

    This dude is a lawyer…very precise with his questioning. Mandatory

    • @crimeunlimited
      @crimeunlimited 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He is but also i noticed he talks a lot but seems to overlook or miss certain details.

  • @BlaqueTyrone
    @BlaqueTyrone 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Law School definitely taught him how to make observations and ask good questions.

  • @doriansaunderschristfirst
    @doriansaunderschristfirst 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +541

    He was the smartest person in the room and the first lady couldn't handle it.

    • @azariahzahar8929
      @azariahzahar8929 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ya, she wants a man who will submit to HER and do things HER way.

    • @TryMott-
      @TryMott- 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Big FACTS ‼️

    • @sleepwalkernation
      @sleepwalkernation 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      At all

    • @blognationent1956
      @blognationent1956 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      super facts

    • @sandbarsoundbar
      @sandbarsoundbar 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yes 😂 she called it aggression

  • @CookEDoeFace
    @CookEDoeFace 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1163

    He's "attorneying" the crap out of these women and they don't even know it!😂

    • @saintnick4035
      @saintnick4035 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      💯Having worked around litigators for decades, I agree. 😉

    • @alexanderthegreatoz5945
      @alexanderthegreatoz5945 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      Yup, he is reverse interrogation on them😂

    • @sylviaterry9998
      @sylviaterry9998 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Absolutely

    • @en.4392
      @en.4392 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      😂😂😂😂 wrote that, just 12 days later 😅

    • @p.o.p2077
      @p.o.p2077 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right😂😂​@@alexanderthegreatoz5945

  • @Yay-hovah
    @Yay-hovah 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +258

    These women are the walking definition of judging a book by its cover.

    • @PrettyLibraa
      @PrettyLibraa 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      💯 they didn’t even let him speak soon as the women saw his outfit the balloons started popping . After he started introducing himself their expressions changed and felt stupid af .

    • @kmrk4055
      @kmrk4055 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly, whilst telling themselves and the world they don't do that. Their electricity bills must be zero with that much gaslighting.

    • @Fleshlight_Reviewer
      @Fleshlight_Reviewer 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🦍🦍🦍🦍

    • @playboyv12
      @playboyv12 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@kmrk4055😂😂

    • @1stone379
      @1stone379 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      God forbid you judge them

  • @AskTheAdjutant
    @AskTheAdjutant หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Trust me. As a mature man that has experienced many situations in life, he dodged several bullets! Wishing this brother much success! Western women are for the most part a lost cause. 💪🏾🇺🇸

  • @DreDay_BIH
    @DreDay_BIH 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +500

    He's NOT Flirting‼‼ He's "VETTING" each one of the women to find out what each one is looking for⁉️‼️

    • @jusmonrivers8197
      @jusmonrivers8197 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I agree 1000000000000%

    • @lagoings56
      @lagoings56 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      They're not picking that up

    • @PlaTaNo621
      @PlaTaNo621 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      She literally was saying that only because he said she's not his type. She got super defensive and trying to disqualify him further to feel better

    • @elevatedgame3016
      @elevatedgame3016 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@lagoings56 Women Wil never understand too focused on hearing themselves talk.

    • @d.waynedavis1493
      @d.waynedavis1493 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      1000% percent

  • @brendaarmstrong7944
    @brendaarmstrong7944 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +224

    He challenged their mindsets and they really couldn't deal with that. So I truly believe he dodged several bullets.

    • @plaisirnitunga606
      @plaisirnitunga606 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nothing much amazing as he's graduated in Law department. He could have learnt alots about people's social attitude before😊

  • @manifestingbecomesreality-2098
    @manifestingbecomesreality-2098 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +233

    I'm impressed with this brother. Young, gifted, and black.

  • @Tameeekababy
    @Tameeekababy 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    This was very well broken down. That young man is a star and any woman is going to be blessed to have as her king! It hurts my heart some women just can't see past their own front nose. But he was exceptional, made me smile- black excellence! ❤

  • @lemarkusbailey6938
    @lemarkusbailey6938 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2182

    They are talking about shoes and clothes. These women are COOKED

    • @ricoalfayeed4967
      @ricoalfayeed4967 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +154

      Cooked ain't the word. WASHED😂

    • @begaqincer
      @begaqincer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +81

      no one gave him a chance ? and these woman talk about passport or where's the good men !!!

    • @BOSSMAYNE10
      @BOSSMAYNE10 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Hahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 FACTS BIG FACTS FAAACTS

    • @Yonnireed0101
      @Yonnireed0101 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

      Man the white women gonna say bring that wind breaker here

    • @Shineynsparkles
      @Shineynsparkles 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      BM shouldn’t dress like bums ! Have some damn class! Dress pants and button down and a Piaget watch …can turn heads …if you won’t except women in shower caps and bummy clothes why should women accept you in a jogger set ??

  • @barrysanders1013
    @barrysanders1013 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +414

    They all did him a favor. There was no wife in that room

    • @Westside19th
      @Westside19th 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Not even gurlfriend material

    • @LordRa777
      @LordRa777 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I agree 150%!!

    • @LydiaPernier
      @LydiaPernier 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I agree

    • @oyas_oracle
      @oyas_oracle 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      True

    • @cb30337
      @cb30337 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bingo

  • @ijamorris
    @ijamorris 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +176

    So she criticizes him for having an intimate, in depth conversation with each woman. Showing them genuine interest and respect on a dating show? Imagine that? 🤔

    • @kjjohnson418
      @kjjohnson418 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      EXACTLY!!

    • @williamsumeh6906
      @williamsumeh6906 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Ain't that a joke? Ladies be whilin'

    • @carlhall8528
      @carlhall8528 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      How u pop yo balloon and jealous at the same time……IS BEYOOOOOND ME!

    • @MikeAnthonyJr1
      @MikeAnthonyJr1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Big green flag…jealous a$$

    • @shadowboi1482
      @shadowboi1482 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Women are truly incapable of seeing reality as is….. they confused

  • @JoelCrump-uc9by
    @JoelCrump-uc9by 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    All those women believe they came out on top going on a singles dating show and going back home single 😂

  • @jerryphoto1
    @jerryphoto1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +264

    He walked in with a smile and walked out with a bigger one that says everything

    • @darkNovaskar
      @darkNovaskar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      He going to get a white woman 😘

  • @TdubEdub
    @TdubEdub 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +995

    These Black women out here are finished with a mindset like this.

    • @awakenone6716
      @awakenone6716 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Yup what a day 🤦‍♂️🤣

    • @Shakemoose
      @Shakemoose 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I disagree. Long as you dudes continue to give them your attention and sexual attention and resources however this may look like these wmn will forever remain unchanged. Heres another truth innumerable dudes are unwilling to change themselves cause “well ima man, im grinding, i leveled up” nonsense so therefore “i can screw who i want regardless”nonsense as it relates to the no qualified or non-deserving wmn.

    • @uncannytheos2454
      @uncannytheos2454 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      I agree

    • @dee8397
      @dee8397 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      All facts

    • @brokemillionaire6874
      @brokemillionaire6874 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      They Get it From they Momma

  • @outkast40
    @outkast40 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +217

    Notice how women are easily influenced by the group and not personal feelings .

    • @dalebruno5201
      @dalebruno5201 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Only if one that said I love everything about you they all would of said I’ll take a new ballon

    • @siphookobama8344
      @siphookobama8344 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​​@@dalebruno5201because they are toxic and confused women including the one that said she was toxic and got healed she's still toxic as hell
      His intelligent enough to know these are the women should stay away from

  • @prettyladykiera
    @prettyladykiera หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    These women are crazy and I see why they single, this is a very well raised young man. He down to earth and wanted to point that he’s paying attention to you and trying to see where your head is. He has a good head on his shoulders and they claim he likes to argue but he is a lawyer. He is his brand and wears it proudly. That could be something he wears on a date depending on where yall are going

  • @dreamsmith2400
    @dreamsmith2400 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

    If I was a younger woman, I would have definitely dated him. He’s educated, with common sense, chilled, confident, handsome, and financially stable. These young people don’t have a clue.

    • @christophergarwood2320
      @christophergarwood2320 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hello you! You would have pop the ballon too. You are saying this too because you have come to learn of him.😊

  • @VOLRAK1
    @VOLRAK1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +486

    This dude lowkey played em all. Turned up like that, and they all immediately failed the materialistic test.

    • @1Rasta_man
      @1Rasta_man 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Very very WISE observation

    • @TheCastedone
      @TheCastedone 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Facts

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It has nothing to do with materialism. For certain occasions you dress up in life. He was told to dress up for TV and didn’t.

  • @Awakened_Spirit001
    @Awakened_Spirit001 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +284

    Those women are insane. This man was intelligent, handsome, down to earth, don’t mind getting his hands dirty, ambitious, motivated, can hold a real conversation, observant, and comfortable being his true authentic self. Those women need real psychological help because the world has them confused about what’s genuine and real. Those worldly standards will forever keep them single.

    • @franciscobonne5380
      @franciscobonne5380 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      U mean miserable 😂

    • @arokcluxpaintservices
      @arokcluxpaintservices 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Am with you on this bro 💯

    • @eazystreet1343
      @eazystreet1343 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      They all 90 miles past crazy

    • @etelehs
      @etelehs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      You said it all he seemed to be an amazing guy.

    • @urbanswagaddict
      @urbanswagaddict 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I hate to break your perfect 100 likes, but here's 101 💯

  • @Jahlives700
    @Jahlives700 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    "I am the table!!????" Girl Good night 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂and how is he going to know if he's interested without having a conversation?? 🥴

    • @katemiller7874
      @katemiller7874 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s means she’s stable like the table.

    • @nonnieroy8879
      @nonnieroy8879 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Seen better legs on a coffee table 😂😂😂😂

    • @tianicolejohnson3166
      @tianicolejohnson3166 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      😂😂😂😂😂 HILARIOUS!!!

  • @nchambli
    @nchambli 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +128

    This is how I knew who my husband was, he didn't have a nice car or dressed nice but he was the prince! Best husband and father ever

    • @electricwarbaby1
      @electricwarbaby1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That is why you are married and they are single.

  • @willardth
    @willardth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +749

    The law degree coming in key. He broke them all down easily. He's the dude they will beg for in 5 years.

    • @Iloveswedes
      @Iloveswedes 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      Less than 5. Some are approaching the wall.

    • @TonyaGross-t1t
      @TonyaGross-t1t 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yup! After they get 2 or 3 deadbeat baby daddies

    • @bigmanmarine4028
      @bigmanmarine4028 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      🎯

    • @stinedange9152
      @stinedange9152 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Whoever this guy is that made the commentary video missed the point… how is he “winning” if he went home by himself. Everyone here lost cuz they’re all guarded and distrusting of the opposite sex 😒

    • @willardth
      @willardth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @CherryPickedByTheWordOfGod the law degree, helped in how he spoke to them and I believe he has a good head on his shoulders and will be very successful in 5 years.

  • @chefcoreycooks
    @chefcoreycooks 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +528

    A room full of forever singles

    • @erictubbs6854
      @erictubbs6854 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Yep, sad part is they don't see it because they're still young at the moment but when gravity and time take over that wall will get closer and closer trust me lol

    • @DeshonDon83
      @DeshonDon83 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Faaaaaacts

    • @elegal184
      @elegal184 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      @@erictubbs6854All of them are in the danger zone. That little one, with the blond streaks, is just a complete follower. She’s the type that will tell you to stay single, while she sneaks around and have her fun on the side.

    • @erictubbs6854
      @erictubbs6854 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@elegal184 Toxicity at its worse!!!

    • @pmdpraise6491
      @pmdpraise6491 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I'm getting some tricky vibs from this particular show. It's not unusual for them to pop their balloon because of his attire. It's part of every show.
      However, I was wondering why he didn't see the need to dress to impress. After all, that's what they told the women to do.
      Instead, from my perspective, I think he decided to flunt his credentials to impress them or to see if they would change their mind because of his financial status or possibilities.
      These women had the right to choose no matter what their reasons were. Also, they had the option to give him another chance, but they didn't.
      I wonder, if he had the chance to choose, would he? (I don't think so) it seems that his goal was to spotlight a gold digger.
      The woman in the red popped her balloon last. She didn't seem to trust him, especially when he asked the other lady if she had a BBL. She said it was because he was a by "Gemini".

  • @charlesarmah290
    @charlesarmah290 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    1. The man is a gentleman for starters.
    2. He is a conversationist who knows how to keep the conversation very interesting.
    3. He made them all spill out what was in their minds and hearts.
    4. He was not intimidated in the least.
    5. Whoever takes him will be the winner in life. (Imagine this principled guy schooling and training your kids🤗👌)

  • @rawleashley8805
    @rawleashley8805 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +162

    He is a keeper. He pays attention to details, very intelligent, smart, patient. A young King.

  • @gilbertbrown385
    @gilbertbrown385 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +866

    He definitely dodged a bullet with them chics, none of them deserved him.

    • @gsht5839
      @gsht5839 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      All lames. And think they it 👎🏾

    • @shuntavaisjohnson345
      @shuntavaisjohnson345 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      True

    • @PTLV-xv3xs
      @PTLV-xv3xs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      He definitely has a great mind and a will to work and the clothes is a sign that he does spend money on frivolous things.

    • @blackbeauty5811
      @blackbeauty5811 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Agree 💯

    • @cooka.s2817
      @cooka.s2817 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      He truly need to come her to Sao Paulo Brazil. I've been here 15yrs now. I realize 80% of western females are too mentally satanic for good men.

  • @neospeaks2600
    @neospeaks2600 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +155

    This biggest thing this session exposed was, out the gate, the book was judged by its cover; and although they loved the story in the book, they were too prideful at that point to hold themselves accountable. So they had to continue to convince themselves that they made the right decision by drilling worthless explanations.

    • @Tahtiluv
      @Tahtiluv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Like seriously! I would have gotten my balloon back in a heartbeat!! I actually like his outfit too

    • @MrHarlemknight73
      @MrHarlemknight73 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That is EXACTLY what happened

    • @MrColdwilliam
      @MrColdwilliam 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      A wmn's life is a life devoid of shame, accountability, and accepting consequences. Straight up: ask a wmn when the last time she faced consequences was she will describe it as an abuse (meaning she doesn't believe she did wrong to experience it) OR she will talk about "my consequence was wasting my time with a good for nothing dude and let me tell you all the ways he trash".
      Without shame, accountability, and consequences you can't grow because you can't learn and this is why so many 37 year old wmn act like 19 yr old wmn.

    • @nouveaurichewigs7514
      @nouveaurichewigs7514 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Those women were superficial!
      The one who got another balloon was open but yes, he does maybe go back and forth alil, but he is trying to get to know these people in a short time...
      He is an attorney...

    • @destinymattison3554
      @destinymattison3554 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Wow!! So well said!! Great observation!!❤❤

  • @msnaenae0887
    @msnaenae0887 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Women like them make it hard for women like me that wants true genuine love

  • @patriciaperry-higgins6269
    @patriciaperry-higgins6269 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +257

    I’m a woman of 59 years, it’s shocking to witness the mentality of these young women in their 30’s. I’m so grateful my mother taught us how to be women regardless to being married or single. Finances are important but you’re a help mate meaning as a woman you’re in marriage to help your husband. These young women seem to be looking for a father to totally take care of them.

    • @ba8501
      @ba8501 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They all have this sugar baby wanting a sugar daddy mentality. They all want to be Kardashians lol

    • @cckid78
      @cckid78 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      That's the trend nowadays......

    • @lakishacollins878
      @lakishacollins878 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Sad to say but you being 59 you were raised in the best era. Nowadays you get this!!!!!! So toodles to you for being raised by the best!!!! Sad to see these girls like this and their mentality.

    • @fellowdanbarber3323
      @fellowdanbarber3323 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well, statistically, 75% of them grew up without fathers so is it THAT shocking?

    • @henryakinyele9426
      @henryakinyele9426 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The comment I was looking for... The more reason they could stay single for a longer period if they don't change their mentality.

  • @justinmontgomery6444
    @justinmontgomery6444 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

    I love how 90% of the women are just in black outfits yet criticizing this man fit like they really did something 😂😂😂

    • @jusmonrivers8197
      @jusmonrivers8197 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      And that was his own brand too

    • @revastridiron1976
      @revastridiron1976 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Especially the one with the kitten heels

  • @ChampagneSin
    @ChampagneSin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Ngl, this is why black women are the most single women in this world, this man was it dawg, y’all go take Ls for the rest of your lives. He won 🏆

  • @eddiesimon6779
    @eddiesimon6779 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +387

    When picking someone’s brain is considered arguing or debating. That’s crazy

    • @UNCONQUERED386
      @UNCONQUERED386 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly. Lil bro smooth, and well spoken.

    • @pannellclara
      @pannellclara 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      when a person is like that all the time it would be annoying!! i would prefer a more down to earth kind of guy

    • @Tierahadaplan
      @Tierahadaplan 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      They all know damn well that they clock ticking and instead being honest and saying sir I’m looking for husband not a boy toy. I want to start having children by next week. 😂

    • @MikeDavis_MD
      @MikeDavis_MD 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts

    • @seedofabraham0149
      @seedofabraham0149 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@pannellclaraWhat makes you think he will be like that all the time? So asking direct questions in order to examine these black females delusion equates to being argumentative? Unbelievable. Becky will never have any issues with his questions because she grew up within a patriarchy compared to the failed black matriarchal household that frown upon even questioning these black Kingless "Kweens"..

  • @devonwhyte3825
    @devonwhyte3825 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +172

    They intimidated at bro's intellegence.

    • @ConorPorter
      @ConorPorter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Intelligence.

  • @ravonanderson3488
    @ravonanderson3488 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +974

    He dodged all the bullets like the matrix. Big ups to him.

    • @begaqincer
      @begaqincer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Even after he said a lawyer.Business man.Mechanic...No on was willing for a date ? its not marriage .

    • @mrmaze2463
      @mrmaze2463 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      lol dodge what bullets? These weak women will say pump and dumps

    • @jayjthedj
      @jayjthedj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      18:22 the insecurity, and she felt as if he is flirting.. the fact that he van have an in depth conversation.. ..man give me the latinas the brazilians the germans and the Japanese

    • @kesteryoutube9624
      @kesteryoutube9624 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Their bullet dodged him

    • @ronpatton9424
      @ronpatton9424 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      His years of law study served him well.

  • @ChanaTheWarrior
    @ChanaTheWarrior หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m so glad that he didn’t end up with any of these women. They were all very shallow, totally shallow. He has so much going for him. Koodoos to him. He did well.

  • @PriscillaCastillo-om2vj
    @PriscillaCastillo-om2vj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +236

    Loved every minute of this one. "I need a leader" vs "I am a leader". "Dress to impress" vs "This is my couture line". "My ex is my biggest fan" vs "Are you toxic?". That was supreme.!

    • @jamesthomas4787
      @jamesthomas4787 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Sniper 😂

    • @donaldpowell6725
      @donaldpowell6725 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      She coming to find someone to be interested in her with shirt like that own, but want to judge base on what he has own. Smdh. These women are hopeless.

  • @nubastyle
    @nubastyle 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +545

    He dressed like this PURPOSEFULLY. They didnt realize what was happening till he opened his mouth. A couple of them got combative because of the embarrassment of he made them feel, strategically.
    He made them realize how superficial they were. Granted it was good that that some of them acknowledge the positive traits he displayed be even still, they were still worried about his outfit.
    They clearly haven't been around wealthy people that deliberately dress down.

    • @stephenudegbunam8292
      @stephenudegbunam8292 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      If I was as wealthy as I want to be, I will definitely be dressing down, intentionally. No stress

    • @Mr.International82
      @Mr.International82 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was saying the same thing! The man dressed like this on purpose just to see what these women would be on and sure as shit he was right! These women are their own worst enemy😂🤡

    • @Creoles.nature
      @Creoles.nature 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I mean his outfit concerns me too because he look like a playboy......I spoke before I seen it was not the big boy in red n skinny J 😂 ....the real guy looks chill n CUTE

    • @jaybethetruth
      @jaybethetruth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @lovely_star1917
      @lovely_star1917 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Thankyouuuu & alot of people will do this to see your true colors

  • @julioperez7581
    @julioperez7581 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    His vibe and aura is crazy not gonna lie I need to work myself on my aura now man made me re think my whole game 🤣💯

  • @_CPerk
    @_CPerk 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +268

    Young boy is a sniper. The immediate pivots caught the ladies off guard and helped him level the playing field.

  • @willieyoung6023
    @willieyoung6023 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +280

    My guy is going to go far. No fear. No ego. Just going thru life grabbing for that silver lining.

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      He giving tutorials 🏁

    • @willieyoung6023
      @willieyoung6023 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@seensay2132 i dont think that confidence can be taught but would be an interesting class.

    • @shyne1308
      @shyne1308 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You need a ego

  • @dangelasoul
    @dangelasoul 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    The level of emotional intelligence this young man has is astounding!!! They have no idea who they really are and what they need in a relationship😮

    • @HowardRoy-p9e
      @HowardRoy-p9e 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol

    • @fjjdkdkdk
      @fjjdkdkdk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Its not emotional intelligence, its critical thinking.

  • @mayadabest
    @mayadabest 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    He's a very smart young man and he pays attention. I like him. Some young lady is going to snatched him up.

  • @kevinmarshall9258
    @kevinmarshall9258 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +596

    then they wonder why the blk community is lost

    • @JeffBezzo-x6t
      @JeffBezzo-x6t 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Because of men leaving the house for decades now.

    • @neteruhathor
      @neteruhathor 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why do these dink dink's have to represent all of us? 😆

    • @damienkirksey7026
      @damienkirksey7026 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      ​@user-yu5ft6td8l Correction: The government replaced the men within the black community

    • @GrantAMoody
      @GrantAMoody 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      A troll is amongst us.

    • @120484dc
      @120484dc 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      LMAO

  • @radamus4919
    @radamus4919 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +151

    The ‘are you toxic?’question was perfect! The lady doesn’t know what healing process looks like. She still holding on her ex while wants to date another guy! Good for him to notice that. God bless him

    • @8kigana
      @8kigana 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      she's got feelings for her number one fan.

    • @radamus4919
      @radamus4919 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@8kigana indeed and playing like she is healed 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @vill1an573
      @vill1an573 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      right? immediately when I saw her shirt, I thought there's no way shes serious. LMAO

  • @algordon5965
    @algordon5965 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +400

    Women are shallow on this show

    • @truthlamon
      @truthlamon 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Lol forreal though 😂🤦🏾‍♂️

    • @meels2339
      @meels2339 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      It’s not just on this show lol

    • @seensay2132
      @seensay2132 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@meels2339 that’s the scary part

    • @jg8807
      @jg8807 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@meels2339🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @KWAK.The.Artist
      @KWAK.The.Artist 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I Would Display Truth...

  • @stunnahaze
    @stunnahaze หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Shawty 29 acting like she 39. Talking bout he might not be ready. Woman you’re 2 years older than him.

  • @redman6790
    @redman6790 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    "I am the table" = literally nothing, emptiness, conceitedness, shallow.

    • @ceceliajohnson485
      @ceceliajohnson485 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And inarticulate. That question requires introspection and self awareness. This phrase is a trend to ensure that no explanation be given….no explain! What do you bring to the table?!?

    • @Scoot4548
      @Scoot4548 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂 exactly what I was thinking. Soooooo u bring nothing ok lol

    • @mohammadmursalin6817
      @mohammadmursalin6817 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Flies love to lick the table.

    • @Fredericko-k7p
      @Fredericko-k7p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It's like saying ,"I am the relationship" pure self-centeredness.

    • @prometheusali5056
      @prometheusali5056 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And the most unattractive

  • @Adri.emz1
    @Adri.emz1 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +255

    Women are turning down an educated goal directed dude like him because of his shoes and clothing??? Are we fxcking serious?
    Bro they ain’t for u you deserve better on God !!!!

    • @TheLeosluv2
      @TheLeosluv2 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s why so many black men date and marry white women, cause they are not as judgmental as some black women.

    • @nicolehill4812
      @nicolehill4812 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Their companionship will be with a dog.

    • @dwise2165
      @dwise2165 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think it’s more age, presentation, and communication style as some of the women mentioned. Of course we should get to know people better, but first impressions can turn people off. You can be educated, goal directed, and a narcissist. Maybe that’s enough for some people but not everybody.

    • @BlkBornSeed
      @BlkBornSeed 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      @@dwise2165that would work but they popped balloons before he talked to any of them. So the original comment stands

    • @uncleben4560
      @uncleben4560 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      so much black women are dissapointing

  • @derricksmith809
    @derricksmith809 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +146

    Homeboy applying pressure 😂 he's not wrong

  • @rbd104
    @rbd104 21 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My dad used to tell me to appreciate the woman who likes in your humble car and clothing. She’s most likely a keeper because she likes you for you and your potential and not what you have.

  • @nicole__corin
    @nicole__corin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +175

    Babyyyy I’m 34 and praying to God for a man as attentive as him! His communication is on 100 and the way he calmly spoke even after those females tried to make it about age and his outfit was great.

    • @resultsAGENT
      @resultsAGENT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Be good

    • @bryanbender7300
      @bryanbender7300 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We got our passport and left the country, Have A Nice Day

    • @parisprince3344
      @parisprince3344 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yessssssssss I'm screaming from the roof top❤😂

    • @emansionsam
      @emansionsam 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I like your goals

    • @lattymistic696
      @lattymistic696 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gemini we are big communicator’s , woman always say they want a good man but they only want a good looking man that’s dress nice ..

  • @mahoneytomagao1006
    @mahoneytomagao1006 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +271

    This guy single-handedly added VALUE to this shit show...

    • @oryxentertainment6272
      @oryxentertainment6272 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Watching this for the first time and am happy it was is episode i watch... damn, dude switched it I was so happy for the chick with the balloon but when she pop again i was like fuck her lost

    • @oryxentertainment6272
      @oryxentertainment6272 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      100%

    • @skeetajohnson
      @skeetajohnson 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Bruh, I almost spit out my drink, and im not even drinking.

    • @redman6790
      @redman6790 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂😂

  • @Willahbean
    @Willahbean 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +334

    47 year old mom here with a 25 year old son and he did a great job speaking with the ladies. Tall, handsome, articulate, educated. Those ladies are being hella superficial!! Their loss.

    • @reginewatson9227
      @reginewatson9227 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      💛💛💛

    • @kelseychiyangi5454
      @kelseychiyangi5454 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ❤They lost 1 momma

    • @AveFrontline
      @AveFrontline 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Unfortunately that’s everyone in our generation lol bad chick summer and WAP is their anthem

    • @mygodisawesome6121
      @mygodisawesome6121 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      That’s not fair because men are visual. They always judge women by their appearance 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @kellepatrayce
      @kellepatrayce 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@mygodisawesome6121 thank you! Character, personality, morals, education, articulate beings are the main focus, however, visuals are an added substance to assist with keeping the relationship sexy and playful...therefore, being presentable, with decent attire (nothing fancy or expensive- just presentable), good hygiene and properly groomed is the cherry on the cake 🥰 if a women showed up like that...the men would have popped they balloon too 🤓

  • @kandeegirl7291
    @kandeegirl7291 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +176

    She called it debating, I call it conversation. He kept his tone even, he never raised his voice. You can tell that he wouldn’t be scared of the hard conversations that arise in a relationship. He’s intuitive, thought provoking, he’s confident. I think those things alone are what makes him most attractive. If a connection wasn’t made there, I’m sure one was made soon after.

    • @JasmineBlack-Daniels
      @JasmineBlack-Daniels 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      The audacity for making the statement that people are poor communicator. However when you are challenged at your views or called out for hypocrisy he is somehow combative.

    • @ABMvP93
      @ABMvP93 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      No, you cannot reject me in public and have me in private, it won't work.
      No connection hereafter, no way!

    • @kandeegirl7291
      @kandeegirl7291 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@ABMvP93 I meant with someone else. Pretty sure he caught someone's attention.

    • @johnykilroy5521
      @johnykilroy5521 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      ​@@kandeegirl7291she doesn't want to debate translates to she doesn't want to be wrong. She didn't want to be proven wrong

    • @ABMvP93
      @ABMvP93 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@kandeegirl7291 alright, I got you. Well said.

  • @josephblackwell2820
    @josephblackwell2820 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +120

    Prime example of "Never judge a book by it's cover".

  • @RarFnd
    @RarFnd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How can a 29-year-old say that a 27-year-old is too young...Scratching my head on that...This young man is repping his style and brand, but almost everyone on this panel is on the outfit rubbish...Women, snag you a good man and take time to build something worthwhile together...

  • @j3brother
    @j3brother 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    She doesn't want to debate, which means she does not want to be proven wrong. RUN!

  • @bjay1684
    @bjay1684 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

    This young man is a perfect example of don't judge a book by it's cover.

  • @KDS__tv
    @KDS__tv 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +628

    Coming on a dating show with a shirt saying “my ex is my biggest fan” sis clearly broke

    • @CoreySmith-gq3po
      @CoreySmith-gq3po 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Exactly 💯 💯 💯 💯

    • @marcopolo7768
      @marcopolo7768 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

      In every aspect of her life

    • @ericlloyd8059
      @ericlloyd8059 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      And broken

    • @officialrogueent6836
      @officialrogueent6836 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Facts!!

    • @lovettemorgan1539
      @lovettemorgan1539 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She is dumb as a door bell.😅😅😅

  • @johnblaze21519
    @johnblaze21519 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These shows definitely explain why a lot of black women are single and never will marry

  • @jaerroyal
    @jaerroyal 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +201

    Every woman popped their balloon off "i don't like your outfit" 😂 its crazy

    • @ametricehart3865
      @ametricehart3865 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Superficial and shallow. They will probably miss out on a millionaire because of the way he's dressed.

    • @massagemaven777
      @massagemaven777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Now a days material items have taken over.. they say dress to impress her they clothes so damn tight that’s not impressing that’s inticing.. they are lost 😂

    • @UnseenWhispers420
      @UnseenWhispers420 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Birds of a feather flock together

    • @chillvill5017
      @chillvill5017 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Shoulds you how simple minded they are. Social media has messed them up.

    • @bruceleeroy8302
      @bruceleeroy8302 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly! that's so dumb. You can easily change an outfit. Men come with different fits depending on the situation

  • @Cherry-cg3tq
    @Cherry-cg3tq 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +241

    Yo I felt it when he said "why you single at 31" that's a big boy question unna!! Rasclaaaart

    • @user-kd8yx9kq8l
      @user-kd8yx9kq8l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Fi real

    • @bre6467
      @bre6467 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      rassclartttt!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @AG-hl1ni
      @AG-hl1ni 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      lololol

    • @allcianwhite675
      @allcianwhite675 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @sweetiebird06
      @sweetiebird06 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I’m so glad he asked that question because it was meant for all of them!! And the chick that said she lost weight was on a previous episode!!

  • @JasminasReadingNook
    @JasminasReadingNook 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    Debate? That man was not debating, not once. He is extremely observant, intellectual, and he is a man, a leader, and all around masculine, and this is what a man should be.

  • @InfiniteCustomWoodshop
    @InfiniteCustomWoodshop หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    These women are basing their future relationship prospects on whether “the fit” is right or not, instead of values and getting to know the person - Homeboy is lucky they popped their balloons