JAZAK ALLAH , I'm Regular Listener . Aap k zariye meri life main bahout positive changes aai hain . Salman sb haqeqat main hamare mashrey k anmool Heray hain , Allah pak aap ko salamat rakhey .
I completely understand the point of why conditioning a child to do good based on rewards is not the right way, but how else to then get them to do the right thing by themselves?
This is a philosophy speech. but Human nature is exactly what Allah mentioned that we always do good deeds for the rewards which 100% according to nature.
sir kindly y btaen jb teenage boys y girls parents ko ghusse s aankhen dikha kr jwab dene lagen , parents y situation kase handle karen plz reply, ya is p vudeo den plz, thanks
We would recommend you to watch Sir Salman's talk 'Teenage Matters', which will InShaAllah be useful for you. Teenage Matters | Salman Asif Siddiqui: th-cam.com/play/PLGs5x7CLyjIOBPhdfYhdQFeaOXPyX15aj.html
Plz tell me only for homeschooling time or study time coz nowadays all classes online so we don't know either class is going on or they chat or you tube so if CCTV camera install in home so plz reply with yes or no
CCTV is not the solution, you have to work on their addiction of screen. I recommend a video by Salman Asif link below, th-cam.com/video/UUpWEEWScyA/w-d-xo.html
یہ تو ایک زاویہ نظر ہے جو آپ نے بیان کیا... لیکن قرآن نیک اعمال کے نتیجے میں جنت کی بشارت دیتا ہے اور برے اعمال کا نتیجہ اللہ تعالیٰ کی ناراضگی اور جہنم ہو.... کیا یہ تقوی کے نقطہ نظر سے اختلاف نہین کہ ہم تربیت کے لیےء اس احساس سے غافل ہو جایین کہ ہم اپنے تمام تر اعمال اور خیالات کے لیےء اللہ تعالیٰ کی نظر میں ہین.... آپ کی گفتگو نے کنفیوز کر دیا ہے
@@drsamjam254 جی میں بھی سلمان صاحب سے اس معاملے میں ایک حد متفق ہوں... کہ بچوں بلکہ بڑوں مین بھی ہر نیکی کے پیچھے کوئ لالچ یا کسی انعام کی خواہش کا ہونا لازمی نہین.... لیکن کسی بڑے مقصد کو حاصل کرنے کے پیچھے اس کے نتیجے کے طور پر ملنے والی ستایش، انعام، اجر یقیناً محنت اور لگن کے جذبے کو مہمیز بھی دیتا ہے
Also what about when the mother of Hazrat Ganj e Shakkar RA put shakkar under his salah mat to make him habitual and it gave him attraction towards Salah, in the future what we saw he bacame a great saint.
Apparently sounds a nice talk but against the quraan and human nature. Allah s.w.t has given incentive and mentioned reward again and again. Allah's all promises are conditional, read Quran again however excessive worldly incentives can be avoided.
Your lecture is incomplete. Reasons You told your audience what not to do. But what should be done instead? You didn't tell. Result , your audience get confused. So, if you don't have solutions, don't make the video. We all know our problems, you don't have to tell us what we already know. If you really want to help. Make lectures on solutions. Please
Then why did Allah himself promise heaven and all the facilities in afterlife to Muslims? Why Allah making us to expect a reward from him? Doesn't it make Muslims selfish and greedy about Allah's promises? The concept of reward comes from 7th century religion. Every time I come here to watch something logically reasonable but nonsense is all I can see in your talks. Confused people with confused dogmas!
Relating ur talk to Quran and sunnah is very very appreciated
JAZAK ALLAH , I'm Regular Listener .
Aap k zariye meri life main bahout positive changes aai hain .
Salman sb haqeqat main hamare mashrey k anmool Heray hain , Allah pak aap ko salamat rakhey .
Jazakallahu khairan kasiran kasirah sir for kind information alhumdulillah 🙌🙌🙌👍👍👍
Jazakallahu khair for Unfolding the knowledge. Specially, Conditioning, rewards, Unexpected Gifts for children. Etc
جزاک اللہ خیر
Masha Allah...
Beautifully explained
Allah hamain samajhnay ki taufeeq day Aameen
MashaAllah zbrdast
Jazak Allah aapki speeches bahut acchi hai your speeches are so good😊😍 your speeches is diamond for me👍 Allah aapka channel aage jai🤗😇
Sub'hanAllab. JazakAllahuKhairan
idk but from the past few videos, im feeling that you re sick.
May Allah bless u with good health and peace of mind.
SubhanAllah
Masha Allah
So nice and relevant for today
Great sir ❤️
Very true
👏👏👏👍
Ur talking is too much beneficial
👍👍👍👍👍👍👍
Less get this channel to 1 million subscribers 1,000,000
Good
ASALAM O ALEIKUM
Sir how to motivate a 10yr old without reward system?
This video will help you in this matter,
th-cam.com/video/9NHErLn7fqs/w-d-xo.html
Plz add English subtitles to your Worthy videos.
full lecture link?
I completely understand the point of why conditioning a child to do good based on rewards is not the right way, but how else to then get them to do the right thing by themselves?
Incentive should be to please Allah.
@@rabeabaig6224in the context of an adult I completely agree. How would you get a 4 year old to do this though?
I really appreciate but plz I hv a question that why Allah says us in quran jo achay kaam karay ga usko jannat milay gi
This is a philosophy speech. but Human nature is exactly what Allah mentioned that we always do good deeds for the rewards which 100% according to nature.
Beshak,aadat "ibadat" ni hoti.ratta hoa recorded script ban jatahy...
Nice
sir kindly y btaen jb teenage boys y girls parents ko ghusse s aankhen dikha kr jwab dene lagen , parents y situation kase handle karen plz reply, ya is p vudeo den plz, thanks
We would recommend you to watch Sir Salman's talk 'Teenage Matters', which will InShaAllah be useful for you.
Teenage Matters | Salman Asif Siddiqui:
th-cam.com/play/PLGs5x7CLyjIOBPhdfYhdQFeaOXPyX15aj.html
@@ERDCPK thanks for reply, l have already seen teenage matters videos , very helpful but jo khas points k specific video deden plz
Reward is good thing as Allah blessed Hazrat Maryam non seasonal fruits that she get moreinvolved in ibadah
Salute U sir plz plz sir tell me is CCTV camera is ok in home schooling for monitoring
No
Plz tell me only for homeschooling time or study time coz nowadays all classes online so we don't know either class is going on or they chat or you tube so if CCTV camera install in home so plz reply with yes or no
CCTV is not the solution, you have to work on their addiction of screen. I recommend a video by Salman Asif link below,
th-cam.com/video/UUpWEEWScyA/w-d-xo.html
nice
Kis trha k log hyn Jo dislike krty hyn😡
Aaseb zada ho sakte hai.
Curriculum import ker rahyhen waqai😀👍
bachon ko achay Kam ki ahmiat kasy samjahi jai... is materialistic daur main.... words alone are not enough
Who are dislikers ☠️🤬
jo parents jasoosi krte hain un k liye dil main nafrat paida hoti hai
یہ تو ایک زاویہ نظر ہے جو آپ نے بیان کیا... لیکن قرآن نیک اعمال کے نتیجے میں جنت کی بشارت دیتا ہے اور برے اعمال کا نتیجہ اللہ تعالیٰ کی ناراضگی اور جہنم ہو....
کیا یہ تقوی کے نقطہ نظر سے اختلاف نہین کہ ہم تربیت کے لیےء اس احساس سے غافل ہو جایین کہ ہم اپنے تمام تر اعمال اور خیالات کے لیےء اللہ تعالیٰ کی نظر میں ہین....
آپ کی گفتگو نے کنفیوز کر دیا ہے
Basically Sir wanted to explain mindful Ness
Materialism k is dour main butchey bhi materialistic hota jaa raha hai Sir
@@drsamjam254
جی میں بھی سلمان صاحب سے اس معاملے میں ایک حد متفق ہوں... کہ بچوں بلکہ بڑوں مین بھی ہر نیکی کے پیچھے کوئ لالچ یا کسی انعام کی خواہش کا ہونا لازمی نہین.... لیکن کسی بڑے مقصد کو حاصل کرنے کے پیچھے اس کے نتیجے کے طور پر ملنے والی ستایش، انعام، اجر یقیناً محنت اور لگن کے جذبے کو مہمیز بھی دیتا ہے
Also what about when the mother of Hazrat Ganj e Shakkar RA put shakkar under his salah mat to make him habitual and it gave him attraction towards Salah, in the future what we saw he bacame a great saint.
Apparently sounds a nice talk but against the quraan and human nature. Allah s.w.t has given incentive and mentioned reward again and again. Allah's all promises are conditional, read Quran again however excessive worldly incentives can be avoided.
Your lecture is incomplete.
Reasons
You told your audience what not to do.
But what should be done instead? You didn't tell.
Result , your audience get confused.
So, if you don't have solutions, don't make the video.
We all know our problems, you don't have to tell us what we already know.
If you really want to help. Make lectures on solutions. Please
Then why did Allah himself promise heaven and all the facilities in afterlife to Muslims? Why Allah making us to expect a reward from him? Doesn't it make Muslims selfish and greedy about Allah's promises? The concept of reward comes from 7th century religion.
Every time I come here to watch something logically reasonable but nonsense is all I can see in your talks.
Confused people with confused dogmas!