110% agree with you. college is not for everyone. feel free to take your breaks, as many as you need. we support your decision. remember this is YOUR channel, not anyone else’s, we come to watch you + your life. love you so much Lexi.
Aww Lexi, sorry you had a rough semester. However, its okay. I think you being away from home was probably a culture shock to you. You seem codependent on your parents which isn't bad because you have wonderful parents, but I think because you've always had them to guide you along the way, and now having to guide yourself without them was different for you. They are the center of your strength at this point in your life. It will get better with time, but I think if you really want your degree it might be better for you to commute. Live at home, commute to school 2 days a week. When I was in college there were people that took courses Tuesday and Thursday all day so they could commute and be off for 3 days. I did it my senior year but for different reasons. I wish you the best. College life to me is like the entry way needed to be a successful adult. Able to properly balance work and bills, etc. Not saying non college grads can't do the same thing. But college teaches you how to properly handle your business, it challenges you to stay on top of your stuff, I feel like it gives a certain amount of poise..its like the training wheels to the real world for young people. But If its not for you its not for you. And you're young. If you decided to go back later in life you can. Just leave on good standing and close out the semester the right way so when you're ready if you ever go back you won't have any issues.
what it seems like to me is you’re going to school for your parents/family because that’s what they feel is best for you and or bc it’s your sister and parent alumni but it’s ok to not waste money, most ppl who go & complete college don’t even use their degree. I’ve made more money w/o using my degrees, my advice is to do what makes you happy, ik it’s hard not wanting to do what your parents would prefer or think is best for you but make the smart decision sooner than later. dropping out from college doesn’t make you a failure, just continue to be great at what you’re doing and you’ll prosper regardless 🤍🤍
I definitely understand how you’re feeling! I’ve always been an A B student throughout school and then I got to college and I started failing classes. It wasn’t because it was hard it was because I just didn’t feel like doing my work. I went to a school 2 hours away from my family, I had no friends, and in the middle of covid we couldn’t do anything. I was in a 4 person/2 bedroom suite by myself which was great, but I couldn’t focus on my work which was weird because I’m in a dorm room by myself 24/7 the least I could do was do homework😂😂 I spent more time at home then being on campus and I decided to just go back home and finish college online and I’ve been so much more focused and happy. Do what’s best for yourself no matter what other people say. The decision may be hard and people may not agree with your decision but it’s your life and only you can live it so live it the way you see fit! ☺️ It takes a strong person to admit that they’re struggling and trust me you’re not the only one!! Keep your head up❤️
Mental health is soo important. Take your time. Whatever you choose to do, I wish you all the best in your endeavors. Thanks for sharing and remember you're not alone.
Idk who needs to hear this, but never give up on YOU ! Go back to school when u want, apply for the job you want , do whatever it is you dream of . Yeah people gonna let you down and try to discourage you, but keep pushing man 🙏🏽 There’s no failure in trying , you only fail when you don’t ! ❤️
Choosing not to do your homework or assignments leads to not passing the class what helped me out was doing my assignments as soon as they are given out avoids procrastination. I did my work during my classes so I wouldn’t have to do them later
College is not for everybody, Real Estate has me stressed out too. But Lexi, you have to remember college ain’t going no where, It’s always going to be here. Most importantly just remember to always follow your heart and keep Faith in God!
@@yobanamena3297 It’s not hard, I went with an Online School called The Ce Shop, Their courses are very descriptive. It is a lot of work, But as long as you don’t procrastinate and stay on top of your work you’ll do great. They give you 6 months to complete 3 courses.
John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." Have a blessed day, brothers and sisters in Christ! :)
College is not necessary for everything....just finish off the year that you paid for, and get that 1yr of college on your record..then pray on it, see where your lead to do after that
lexi! i think you should really pray on this one ! because our feelings will have us miss our blessings . jeremiah 20:11 For i know the plans i have for you declares the lord. plans to prosper you and not harm you . God already has a plan for you, all you have to do is submit your ways and he will establish your steps. Understand that stuff is going to get hard and stressful but there’s nothing God can’t handle. i hope and pray you make the best decision! not off your feelings but based off wisdom that will be beneficial to your future! i love you girl
I experienced the same thing in college. That freedom to make my own choices and being away from my family structure was so difficult. The first semester was rough. I made the decision to move back home (but continue on with school), and it helped me in a major way. I just needed to be back in a structured environment. Maybe moving back home will help you with the discipline aspect. Whatever you decide, just weigh the pros/cons and do what’s best for YOU. You’re the only one your decision has to make sense to.
I feel like we need to break the stigma on taking a gap year. I am currently taking one after the worst senior year ever. I had mental health problems, and life was crazy at that time during my senior year last year and I knew it wasn’t a good idea for me to go to college just to go because you ‘ should go right after you graduate ‘ because that’s not true at all. I don’t always love the fact that I’m currently not taking classes in college, in fact a lot of my time is spent thinking about college. But I can say my mental state is better , and I have a more clear idea of what I want to be and what I want to do. As well as what I don’t want to end up like or live a certain way. But the stigma of “ Ur wasting ur time “ or “ you’ll never want to go back bc you took a year off ‘ or “ you’re just lazy “ or “ you need to figure it out “ needs to stop. If anything I WANT to go back to class more than ever since , because I hate working an entry level job everyday . The job I have is fine for now , but I know I want to get out of working entry level jobs as fast as I possibly can. Everybody has their own paths , with their own time. Taking a gap year , I believe personally should be more encouraged and common. It hasn’t been the funnest time, but it teaches a lot of lessons and you find out a lot more about yourself.
THIS!!! I’m a senior in highschool and I can truly say it’s been the worst academic year of my LIFE! And everyone is coming at me because I’ve decided to take a semester off, and not jump straight into college but I know what’s best for me, and what’ll break me.
I wanted to take a gap year too. But having immigrant parents, it's impossible🙄. After senior year, I felt intense burnout, that entering college made it worse. I feel so unmotivated, atp idk what to do.
I understand exactly how you feel about college except I started having these feelings and outlook my 12th grade year of high school , which is why I gave myself 8 months free of doing what I wanted in life before deciding to go back to school January 2022
College is not for everyone Lexi but if you love creating content and doing things with social media then i say you find a college of the arts or even do things like trainings that can help you improve and develop your social media knowledge. It's okay to not always be okay and it's okay to be lost at times. Just make sure after that moment of being down you're back up ready to make for your time lost. God bless😌
Lexi!! College away from home, is culture shock for MANY. Don't get down on yourself..More importantly, don't give up , please. Perhaps move back with your parents & try taking 1-2 classes at at time for now, instead of a full load?!! I left school after a year and regretted it many years later. At 35 Yrs old, I finally realized I needed to go back to school to get my degree. Oh how I wished I had knocked it out when i was 19-20. It isn't just school, its your future and the things you learn in college will help you in becoming an entrepreneur. Right now, if you are not focused enough to keep your grades up , a temporary break may be needed because you don't want to throw money out the window. Hang in there, you are awesome. Life is full of peaks and valleys, you are experiencing a bit of a valley.... it is temporary.
As long as you get your degree, it’s not a race. C’s get degrees in college. I’ve been there and now at work I still feel it. Take it one day at a time. Also take less classes if needed.
Hey lexi! College doesnt define your intelligence or you. We all learn and conduct ourselves so differently and some things that people excel in others dont. You can be just as successful without it and thats the amazing part of life. Go at your own pace if you want to finish school only take on as much as you can handle. It took me 5 years. Praying for you!! You got this girl💗
As a fellow college student in my sophomore year I can completely understand where you coming from I managed to keep a bf, have a job after school, do extra circulars, have a social life and keep A’s and B’s all through high school but college I can barely keep up with the work, it’s sooooo different. Last fall semester for me and this semester I did the same thing as you, I didn’t do my work for weeks and had to email all my professors and spent the month of November making up all my work while keeping up. I’m doing the same thing this semester and need to get to that “I need to get this s*** done” point. It wasn’t till college where I realized I have anxiety and that was thru having multiple panic attacks. Your mental health is essential don’t let anybody tell you different and your not alone in this feeling! Trust me all college students know.
Awee lex I definitely can tell that something has changed. I remember you would get up everyday and do devotions. You seemed so much happier then. It makes me sad seeing you down. Sending lots of love and care
Girl when I tell you this first semester of college has been something I was not ready for either 😭 especially when it comes to academics along with learning new things and trying to stay afloat. I’m just glad we’re learning this now instead of later. Hope you have a great rest of your semester! 💕
I’m only half way through this video and I just want to say, if you really feel like College isn’t for you? Let it go. It’s not everyone’s path. It’s not the routine that everyone should go through. School generally makes people unhappy right but there are some of us that passionately dislike the whole setting cause we see ourselves some where else. And guess what? That’s okay. Put a stop to what’s stopping you. Get into entrepreneurship sis. Excel in that environment. Give it your all. Take a leap of faith and do what genuinely makes you happy. College isn’t everyone’s route of life and that’s just how it is🥺💕. When you said “your brain hurts from even thinking about it” , that’s when I knew this is really stressing you out😢. When you’re ready, take the leap of faith. Doesn’t even have to be a break from the second semester. It can always be closing the college chapter as a whole to start something that fuels your fire. I hope you get the courage to do what sets you free and brings you absolute joy some day😌💕. Love and Light Lex😌💕
Sis, college will never be easy, nor was it promised to be easy. If you want to take a break, you do just that. You're no less of a person. Focus on your health. All aspects of your health. Get yourself together at YOUR pace. You're human like the rest of us!
We love you Lexi! Anytime you need a break we will be here waiting for you whenever you get back. So proud of you Lexi and I know your family is so proud. My mom loves for me to watch your channel because she thinks you’re a great role model for young girls and that you always keep it real with us. I agree with my mom. Anytime you need a break I promise I’ll wait here for you how ever long it takes you to come back.
ily and glad ur back ❤️💕. I feel you not wanting to return next semester. I’m a freshman in college too and when I said high school did not prepare me for college. It’s like a slap in the face.
Awww it's sad seeing the drastic difference in her vibe and energy from moving into the dorm and decorating it to now and these are the only two videos off hers that I have watched so I hope she figures out what she wants and go for it cuz seeing her happy is better than seeing her down and out and unmotivated to do TH-cam
Same I’m currently in my first year of college and it is so stressful and that is something that a lot of people do not talk about and even though it’s just “school” to our parents but, it's more than that!!! It adds stress, anxiety and depressing on top of Being homesick then dealing with all of that on top of keeping a good GPA while trying to be social and make friends while still being responsible is so damn hard💆🏽♀️ but keep your head up Lexi whatever you decide we are here for you❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m only half way through the video.. GIRL! I’m 22yrs old, right after Highschool I went STRAIGHT to college. After that first semester I knew it was NOT for me. I spent two years at my university stressed out and depressed. I had to put my Mental health first. School can wait 🤍.. It isn’t going anywhere. Go back when you’re ready!
Love the college vlogs Lexi🥰♥️. You look so beautiful😍😍and I feel you with the whole being stressful with college thing I’m suppose to be starting college myself soon and having mixed emotions about it. Hope everything goes well for you💕
Honestly I feel you on this college life it’s really not it , ima freshman in college also and it’s kicking me in my ass we have different majors im a nursing major but I understand your struggle my advice is just follow your heart if you believe you need to take this break take it . If you believe that you should try and be strong through this whole college process do it . Also if there’s a community college Around try taking a class there community colleges are sometimes better than a regular college . I did dual enrollment in a community college and it helped a lot and I wasn’t as stressed as I am now in an actual university
I went straight to college right after graduation and I knew during that first semester it was too much for me so I ended the first semester barely passing and didn’t go back. Now I am 26 living in my own house with my fiancé and 3 year old son. I am in my second year at community college & I am so glad that I waited until I was 100% ready. School will alwayyyyssss be there but it isn’t worth damaging your mental health forcing yourself to do something that isn’t working for you. Do what is best for you right now!!
This video is a literal blessing, I thought that I was feeling like this all by myself. Thank you for sharing bc this college shit ain’t no joke. I be real live feeling depressed in college 😩
I went through the same thing that you’re going through now went to a university for 4 weeks and decided that it was not for me. My mental health was the WORST those 4 weeks and I ended up moving home and going to the community college and I did so much better I am currently in my 2nd year at community college and it’s definitely better than it was but I don’t have the passion for school, I think it would be 100% better if we could just go to school for our majors instead of general studies and the extra stress! Good luck and do what’s best for YOU! 💜
Glad you're here Lexi it's all going to be okay breath deep breaths, it helps if you get your homework done right then an there instead of waiting, clean up each day lil here and there and hopefully it stays somewhat clean so you have to just deep clean once and it won't be so bad... You got this Lexi don't give up.... Strength is an incredible beautiful thing especially when you're going through ruff times... You got this... The struggle is real... Love you and I sure hope you don't give up on your dreams... Or goals... You can and will go far... Hugs and prayers...
Honestly Lexi I thank u so much for showing us ur real life because now I feel a lot better about myself because my 1 semester of college the same thing happened and I was so depressed and felt like a failure and i decided to take a semester off and it helped so much because now i feel like im ready to go for next semester
I have to say college is really an adjustment. For me it was academically also. You go through all types of emotions in college, but the end reward is so worth it I promise. I do stand on the fact that college IS NOT for everyone and that is ok. I know people who sat out and came back, while I know people who sat out and made the decision to not come back. Do what’s best for you love 💕
I felt everything was taking a toll on you balancing a career and college I understand sis it’s okay do what you feel is right I’m glad you keep us updated we got your back through anything love you sis
I’m glad that I can relate to you about collage, I haven’t gone yet since I’m still in high school. I want to go but I know that I wouldn’t like it, I feel like it’s a priority when family expects you to go. Like you said it’s not for everybody and I agree! I don’t want to force myself. I want to be an influencer and my own entrepreneur but i can’t wait to long 💕
Lexi, It's perfectly fine to take a break and think about who you want to be and what you want to achieve. Just try your best to make a decision you don't regret in the long term. We love you and will be here whatever decision you make. I legit found your channel last night but I love you already and I believe you'll succeed in whatever you choose
College was harder than high school but I wouldn't trade my experience for the world. Just make the decision YOU want to make it is YOUR life and you have to live with your decision. Prayer really helps listen to the small voice.🙏♥️
I know college can be stressful, if you feel like you need to take a break, I say go for it, or if your on full time with your classes, you could switch over to part time so you can have more time to yourself.
I can definitely relate to this I dropped out my second semester freshman year it was way to much for me , i was so close to losing scholarships I decided to just take a break. 6 months later I re enrolled and fast forward I’m a senior in college experiencing the same thing again its definitely a up and down journey. My advice know yourself and listen to your mental state bc that can definitely make or break you. Keep pushing girly 💜
I can absolutely relate, college is so hard especially the first year, because there's just a lot of transitions happening and everyting's happening so fast. It can really take a tol on your mental health, but as long as you have your family's supportive you can definitely get through. Hope things get better for you and you make a decision that is best for you and your mental health. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I'm the parent of a second year college student. When I was in college myself, a hundred years ago, we didn't have many options.
Hey Lexi, I totally understand where you’re coming from, I’m a junior now and i promise it gets better. I was in the same boat I had to have a come to Jesus meeting with myself and ask myself is this something I genuinely want to do. I was miserable my first year of college I had horrible roommates and I was 3 and a half hours away from home and didn’t have any friends at all. I felt lonely and under pressure all the time but I promise if I got through it you can tooo!!!! Praying for peace and clarity on whatever it is❤️❤️
Breathe. You're going to be just fine. Now, you may not need college, but if you quit, years from now you most likely will regret it. This is just another step into adulthood.
hey lexi idk if you’re gonna see this but, i’m sure you see the comments of people telling you not to drop out for a gap semester. but don’t listen to them. i attended Alabama State and i needed a gap semester. i’m currently about to take another cap semester because i just can’t handle it atm. i want to focus on other things and school is just in the way atm. i hate being stressed all the time. i hate feeling like i’m not good enough for school. i hate the feeling all around. so i completely understand where you’re coming from! so what’s best for you. don’t listen to these people in the comments telling you to stay. go with that gut feeling. college is not for everybody.
I do college but I stay with my parents because the extra support is needed quite often. It’s not talked about much when people mention the plus side of living in dorms. Being in dorms can actually have a negative effect on someone’s schooling (not everyone but a lot of people) and it’s okay to do online or attend somewhere closer that allows you to be with family and not just friends. Go with what makes you happy and maybe think about options that allow you to be flexible. I have four friends who started with dorms and felt exactly like you, they returned home and got everything back on track with grades and stuff.
I totally understand what you went through... I'm in my 3rd year of college and I still go through the exact same thing... I think Covid also played a role... Take care, and continue to do your best❤️❤️
Hey Lexi mental health is real take ur time and focus on u TH-cam will be here and waiting as a mother of three daughters in college it can be overwhelming at times I tell them to come home and take some time then go back I pray for you and I know u got this god is gonna work it out for u stay prayed up I’m here for u 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽 ps don’t give up
I agree and I am a mom of 2 awesome young men and as parents I myself and their Dad have always told them finish high school for sure no questions asked and when you graduate IF you want to go to college you can they decided not too but they had to do something so they work for the post office and bought our first house and I couldn’t be prouder so yes School is not for everybody, Talk to your parents and make a decision and be happy with the decision you make and pray about it God will give you all the answers you need ❤️☺️Good Luck Lexi I know whatever decision you make will be awesome ❤️
Girl I get you💀 college is so stressful, I'm in my 2nd yr and my mental health is in the mud, I'm sorta loosing myself but some days are better, you've got this Lexi, do what's good for you. Love the vlog btw 😘💕
I’m late but glad your back lexi , I’m happy that you are here again and doing much better and I am influenced by your productivity. & I pray that you can continue to do well and grow. And I’m glad that you’re deciding to not stress over everything and I’m glad that you’ve learned a lot from college so far. We all go through life lessons & I enjoyed this video. 💕
I am my 3rd year on university in south africa. I know how u feel, however I can say that if you believe you can you will. Work hard, balance is key and watch everything fall in place. A time table with time slots helped me alot in my 1st year.
Even if you don’t want to live on campus - make sure you continue going. Cause that “break” will cause you to never return! Might as well have a degree under you belt if every thing else fails!
Being a college student and trying to produce content for social media is hard as hell coming from someone who also goes to school and tries to post on social media. I love how you mentioned college is not for everyone because realistically college is not for everyone and that's something everyone should know and not judge others for their choices. I'm so sorry your mental health was going down hill, I know it's hard and it sucks. Regardless of your decision, you have so much love and support
Lexi ,you are absolutely doing the best you can.I believe you'd adjust pretty well and everything will fall into place. You are strong and determined.. College isn't going to get any easier but don't let it knock you to your feet. I love you Lexi💖💘
You should do what you think you need for yourself but personally I think that you are doing great and it’s hard going through such a big change (hs and college) I think that you should give another semester a try and maybe do a lighter class load. Do what you think you need for yourself but I think you should give another semester a try. You got this girl 🤍
I know your young but please don't give up even though college isn't for everyone but TH-cam will always be around why just stay this and that girl its help on campus for mental health you have great family to support you if you stop college then back to the parents for what to be able to be free and don't all your struggles to stress you just focus on school your friends will be round are your friends even motivating you to get it together.
Love the video Lexi as always🥺♥️ Your vee hive will always be here for you 💯it may seem hard now but it surely will get better soon, if you need to take a gap year or some time off that’s okay I personally just want you to be okay 🥺I love seeing bubbly clumsy lexi who is always so loud😅that’s why this video made me a bit sad, seeing how mentally exhausted you are🥺…love you girl… there is no time frame on success, with your talents you ain’t gotta worry.. you will definitely be successful just take your time even away from college am sure you will turn out just fine 💕 Love you always❤️❤️
I totally understand the way you are feeling! that happened to me my senior year of college. Some professors were understanding some not so much. But balancing your stress, anxiety and procrastination all together can be tough. I also took a semester break and came back and finished last year! It helped so much!
So, school, and in general stress is a part of life. I would say before giving up on school eliminate the things less important to your success. Like for example you don’t need to be on campus. It sounds to me like that is a big contributor to your stress. The living situation needs to be adjusted. Like you said you don’t have the appliances, basic bathroom access…the lack of these basic things impact your emotional health. If your environment is not right you won’t be right. Sounds to me like you need more support and help around. If I were in your shoes I would move back home before giving up on school. See if the environment changes and the support of your family reduces some of the unnecessary stress you have taken on. Just as you may think the issue is that your were not prepared for college, it could very well be that you were not ready to be away from the support of home! You don’t have to live on campus to enjoy college life. I had a blast in college, earned new freedoms and world understanding without ever living on campus. You were VERY prepared for college, you said it. You said you graduated high school with all A’s…statistically, research says you are the very person prepared for college. Work on your environment Lexi…this includes friends, all this impacts your success.
Whatever decision you make is what is best for you and what is set for you girl. I just graduated 'high school' and I'm in my first year of university studying medicine (you don't need a bachelors to do medicine in the Caribbean because we have an A-level equivalents which meets the requirements) and its tough but I know most things aren't easy when we first start out. Its like learning to walk or ride a bike. You're gonna fall a couple times but eventually you'll master it and the same concept applies for school. Yeah we might fail, heck I failed one of my exams but what's important is perseverance especially if its something you really want. If not then you could still choose to persevere or just drop that ish and save yourself the time, extra money and stress.
Lexi so proud of you being strong, yes mental health can be challenging stay encourage you are a strong Beautiful young lady take your time in your decision making however;Life itself is challenging..praying for you.Remember college is a big step "You can do it"🙏❤ take it one day@at time. Get you a plan together & most of keep prayer going in your life...Stay strong💖🥰👐🙏
Those *"F's"* you talked about, reminds me of maths class in high school. ahhhh... yes Lord, good times. Goood times. All the best girl. Back to the video 💙
Thanks for sharing your life with us! Glad to know you’re okay. College life is challenging and anyone who’s ever been to college knows how life changing it can be. I admire your drive but I do know that sometimes you just need to take a break! Your true supporters will always be there to support you through good or bad times.💖Tbh, maybe you should consider moving back home with your your family and just travel to campus to take your courses. But of course the decision has to be made by you and between your parents. Keep up the good work and keep Vibin💯
Literally I feel like I am listening to my experience, like I am having a very hard time to adapt to collage, and since I am still online I slept throughout classes and than the midterms were in campus and I went without studying. It is just a hard time
I went to college straight out of high school and I struggled so bad mentally and physically . I wasn’t ready but I went because I had so many expectations of me being that I did so well in high school. My best decision was taking a year break after that first semester and started going to a school closer to home. Deciding to not return and taking a break was the best thing I did I didn’t care about opinions and did it!
I am so glad that I am not the only one that is thinking like this right now. Every thing you are saying is how I am feeling. But whatever you decide you know we will support no matter what.
You got this sit back on just get your mental health together within the 6 weeks and find out the school year strong that semester break will make you never want to go back
One of the biggest mistakes I’ve ever made was deciding to take a gap year after my first year of college because that gap year became two years and I never went back. Going to college right after high school was too much for me. Later I decided to attend a technical college and I obtained a medical license but later found out most hospitals do not even accept the type of license that I have. Now I work at Walmart as an HR Manager while running a small business. It would have been in my second year of residency if I would have stayed. This is just my experience but please make your mental health your first priority. 🥰
take your time girl, just remember to take care of you and take breaks when needed, we all love you and support any decision you make, loved the vlog as per usual❤
I wouldn't suggest virtual learning from home. Even at the age of 30, I even struggle to stay on task and get stuff turned in via Dropbox. Maybe it's because I have three children and work a job, but online school is totally rough. I'd say if you can remain strong and stick with in person college, do it and just continue trying your best. You're so smart, Lexi. Hang in there! 💞
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110% agree with you. college is not for everyone. feel free to take your breaks, as many as you need. we support your decision. remember this is YOUR channel, not anyone else’s, we come to watch you + your life. love you so much Lexi.
Thank you so much for the support. Love you too! 💕
110% agree with you college is not for everyone feel to as you need support anyone else we watch you your life love you so much
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Lexi just pray about everything and let the Lord direct you in the direction he want you to go.
Dont give up.
Amen ❤️
Aww Lexi, sorry you had a rough semester. However, its okay. I think you being away from home was probably a culture shock to you. You seem codependent on your parents which isn't bad because you have wonderful parents, but I think because you've always had them to guide you along the way, and now having to guide yourself without them was different for you. They are the center of your strength at this point in your life. It will get better with time, but I think if you really want your degree it might be better for you to commute. Live at home, commute to school 2 days a week. When I was in college there were people that took courses Tuesday and Thursday all day so they could commute and be off for 3 days. I did it my senior year but for different reasons. I wish you the best.
College life to me is like the entry way needed to be a successful adult. Able to properly balance work and bills, etc. Not saying non college grads can't do the same thing. But college teaches you how to properly handle your business, it challenges you to stay on top of your stuff, I feel like it gives a certain amount of poise..its like the training wheels to the real world for young people. But If its not for you its not for you. And you're young. If you decided to go back later in life you can. Just leave on good standing and close out the semester the right way so when you're ready if you ever go back you won't have any issues.
what it seems like to me is you’re going to school for your parents/family because that’s what they feel is best for you and or bc it’s your sister and parent alumni but it’s ok to not waste money, most ppl who go & complete college don’t even use their degree. I’ve made more money w/o using my degrees, my advice is to do what makes you happy, ik it’s hard not wanting to do what your parents would prefer or think is best for you but make the smart decision sooner than later. dropping out from college doesn’t make you a failure, just continue to be great at what you’re doing and you’ll prosper regardless 🤍🤍
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I definitely understand how you’re feeling! I’ve always been an A B student throughout school and then I got to college and I started failing classes. It wasn’t because it was hard it was because I just didn’t feel like doing my work. I went to a school 2 hours away from my family, I had no friends, and in the middle of covid we couldn’t do anything. I was in a 4 person/2 bedroom suite by myself which was great, but I couldn’t focus on my work which was weird because I’m in a dorm room by myself 24/7 the least I could do was do homework😂😂 I spent more time at home then being on campus and I decided to just go back home and finish college online and I’ve been so much more focused and happy.
Do what’s best for yourself no matter what other people say. The decision may be hard and people may not agree with your decision but it’s your life and only you can live it so live it the way you see fit! ☺️ It takes a strong person to admit that they’re struggling and trust me you’re not the only one!! Keep your head up❤️
thank you so much! 🥰
As my Mother you to say you be allright Lex Holidays is near be happy enjoy life✌✌✌✌✌🙋
Latrisha you made the right decision. I hope lexivee03 do the same.
Mental health is soo important. Take your time. Whatever you choose to do, I wish you all the best in your endeavors. Thanks for sharing and remember you're not alone.
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@@princessjones4953 girl read the room 😭
so glad ur back, I’m glad ur taking care of college more than youtube, thanks for posting on this very rough day so far.
Idk who needs to hear this, but never give up on YOU ! Go back to school when u want, apply for the job you want , do whatever it is you dream of . Yeah people gonna let you down and try to discourage you, but keep pushing man 🙏🏽 There’s no failure in trying , you only fail when you don’t ! ❤️
Choosing not to do your homework or assignments leads to not passing the class what helped me out was doing my assignments as soon as they are given out avoids procrastination. I did my work during my classes so I wouldn’t have to do them later
Gotta be like Suffer now and thank ya self later
love how honest u r abt college life, some youtubers fr be acting like it’s really easy
It's not easy at all it's really a business I 💯 Percent agree with you 🤗
College is not for everybody, Real Estate has me stressed out too. But Lexi, you have to remember college ain’t going no where, It’s always going to be here. Most importantly just remember to always follow your heart and keep Faith in God!
How’s real estate? Is the classes hard? I’ve been trying to get into real estate for a min, any suggestions?
@@yobanamena3297 It’s not hard, I went with an Online School called The Ce Shop, Their courses are very descriptive. It is a lot of work, But as long as you don’t procrastinate and stay on top of your work you’ll do great. They give you 6 months to complete 3 courses.
John 3:16 "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." Have a blessed day, brothers and sisters in Christ! :)
AMEN, AMEN, AND AMEN 🙏🏾
College is not necessary for everything....just finish off the year that you paid for, and get that 1yr of college on your record..then pray on it, see where your lead to do after that
lexi! i think you should really pray on this one ! because our feelings will have us miss our blessings . jeremiah 20:11 For i know the plans i have for you declares the lord. plans to prosper you and not harm you . God already has a plan for you, all you have to do is submit your ways and he will establish your steps. Understand that stuff is going to get hard and stressful but there’s nothing God can’t handle. i hope and pray you make the best decision! not off your feelings but based off wisdom that will be beneficial to your future! i love you girl
Yes, I am definitely giving it to the Lord. Praying hard about it.
I experienced the same thing in college. That freedom to make my own choices and being away from my family structure was so difficult. The first semester was rough. I made the decision to move back home (but continue on with school), and it helped me in a major way. I just needed to be back in a structured environment. Maybe moving back home will help you with the discipline aspect. Whatever you decide, just weigh the pros/cons and do what’s best for YOU. You’re the only one your decision has to make sense to.
Lexi please do not EVER apologize for putting your future first.We all love you and are here for you❤
I feel like we need to break the stigma on taking a gap year. I am currently taking one after the worst senior year ever. I had mental health problems, and life was crazy at that time during my senior year last year and I knew it wasn’t a good idea for me to go to college just to go because you ‘ should go right after you graduate ‘ because that’s not true at all.
I don’t always love the fact that I’m currently not taking classes in college, in fact a lot of my time is spent thinking about college. But I can say my mental state is better , and I have a more clear idea of what I want to be and what I want to do. As well as what I don’t want to end up like or live a certain way. But the stigma of “ Ur wasting ur time “ or “ you’ll never want to go back bc you took a year off ‘ or “ you’re just lazy “ or “ you need to figure it out “ needs to stop.
If anything I WANT to go back to class more than ever since , because I hate working an entry level job everyday . The job I have is fine for now , but I know I want to get out of working entry level jobs as fast as I possibly can.
Everybody has their own paths , with their own time. Taking a gap year , I believe personally should be more encouraged and common. It hasn’t been the funnest time, but it teaches a lot of lessons and you find out a lot more about yourself.
THIS!!! I’m a senior in highschool and I can truly say it’s been the worst academic year of my LIFE! And everyone is coming at me because I’ve decided to take a semester off, and not jump straight into college but I know what’s best for me, and what’ll break me.
My girl lexi looks home sick, hope everything's good...
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I wanted to take a gap year too. But having immigrant parents, it's impossible🙄. After senior year, I felt intense burnout, that entering college made it worse. I feel so unmotivated, atp idk what to do.
I understand exactly how you feel about college except I started having these feelings and outlook my 12th grade year of high school , which is why I gave myself 8 months free of doing what I wanted in life before deciding to go back to school January 2022
College is not for everyone Lexi but if you love creating content and doing things with social media then i say you find a college of the arts or even do things like trainings that can help you improve and develop your social media knowledge. It's okay to not always be okay and it's okay to be lost at times. Just make sure after that moment of being down you're back up ready to make for your time lost. God bless😌
Lexi!! College away from home, is culture shock for MANY. Don't get down on yourself..More importantly, don't give up , please. Perhaps move back with your parents & try taking 1-2 classes at at time for now, instead of a full load?!! I left school after a year and regretted it many years later. At 35 Yrs old, I finally realized I needed to go back to school to get my degree. Oh how I wished I had knocked it out when i was 19-20. It isn't just school, its your future and the things you learn in college will help you in becoming an entrepreneur. Right now, if you are not focused enough to keep your grades up , a temporary break may be needed because you don't want to throw money out the window. Hang in there, you are awesome. Life is full of peaks and valleys, you are experiencing a bit of a valley.... it is temporary.
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As long as you get your degree, it’s not a race. C’s get degrees in college. I’ve been there and now at work I still feel it. Take it one day at a time. Also take less classes if needed.
Hey lexi! College doesnt define your intelligence or you. We all learn and conduct ourselves so differently and some things that people excel in others dont. You can be just as successful without it and thats the amazing part of life. Go at your own pace if you want to finish school only take on as much as you can handle. It took me 5 years. Praying for you!! You got this girl💗
As a fellow college student in my sophomore year I can completely understand where you coming from I managed to keep a bf, have a job after school, do extra circulars, have a social life and keep A’s and B’s all through high school but college I can barely keep up with the work, it’s sooooo different. Last fall semester for me and this semester I did the same thing as you, I didn’t do my work for weeks and had to email all my professors and spent the month of November making up all my work while keeping up. I’m doing the same thing this semester and need to get to that “I need to get this s*** done” point. It wasn’t till college where I realized I have anxiety and that was thru having multiple panic attacks. Your mental health is essential don’t let anybody tell you different and your not alone in this feeling! Trust me all college students know.
Awee lex I definitely can tell that something has changed. I remember you would get up everyday and do devotions. You seemed so much happier then. It makes me sad seeing you down. Sending lots of love and care
Girl when I tell you this first semester of college has been something I was not ready for either 😭 especially when it comes to academics along with learning new things and trying to stay afloat. I’m just glad we’re learning this now instead of later. Hope you have a great rest of your semester! 💕
I’m only half way through this video and I just want to say, if you really feel like College isn’t for you? Let it go. It’s not everyone’s path. It’s not the routine that everyone should go through. School generally makes people unhappy right but there are some of us that passionately dislike the whole setting cause we see ourselves some where else. And guess what? That’s okay. Put a stop to what’s stopping you. Get into entrepreneurship sis. Excel in that environment. Give it your all. Take a leap of faith and do what genuinely makes you happy. College isn’t everyone’s route of life and that’s just how it is🥺💕. When you said “your brain hurts from even thinking about it” , that’s when I knew this is really stressing you out😢. When you’re ready, take the leap of faith. Doesn’t even have to be a break from the second semester. It can always be closing the college chapter as a whole to start something that fuels your fire. I hope you get the courage to do what sets you free and brings you absolute joy some day😌💕. Love and Light Lex😌💕
Sis, college will never be easy, nor was it promised to be easy. If you want to take a break, you do just that. You're no less of a person. Focus on your health. All aspects of your health. Get yourself together at YOUR pace. You're human like the rest of us!
FINALLY BACK!!! i missed u💚
We love you Lexi! Anytime you need a break we will be here waiting for you whenever you get back. So proud of you Lexi and I know your family is so proud. My mom loves for me to watch your channel because she thinks you’re a great role model for young girls and that you always keep it real with us. I agree with my mom. Anytime you need a break I promise I’ll wait here for you how ever long it takes you to come back.
ily and glad ur back ❤️💕.
I feel you not wanting to return next semester. I’m a freshman in college too and when I said high school did not prepare me for college. It’s like a slap in the face.
Awww it's sad seeing the drastic difference in her vibe and energy from moving into the dorm and decorating it to now and these are the only two videos off hers that I have watched so I hope she figures out what she wants and go for it cuz seeing her happy is better than seeing her down and out and unmotivated to do TH-cam
Same I’m currently in my first year of college and it is so stressful and that is something that a lot of people do not talk about and even though it’s just “school” to our parents but, it's more than that!!! It adds stress, anxiety and depressing on top of Being homesick then dealing with all of that on top of keeping a good GPA while trying to be social and make friends while still being responsible is so damn hard💆🏽♀️ but keep your head up Lexi whatever you decide we are here for you❤️❤️❤️❤️
I’m only half way through the video.. GIRL! I’m 22yrs old, right after Highschool I went STRAIGHT to college. After that first semester I knew it was NOT for me. I spent two years at my university stressed out and depressed. I had to put my Mental health first. School can wait 🤍.. It isn’t going anywhere. Go back when you’re ready!
Love the college vlogs Lexi🥰♥️. You look so beautiful😍😍and I feel you with the whole being stressful with college thing I’m suppose to be starting college myself soon and having mixed emotions about it. Hope everything goes well for you💕
Thank you so much. Good luck!
@@lexivee03 thank you and np❤️💯
Honestly I feel you on this college life it’s really not it , ima freshman in college also and it’s kicking me in my ass we have different majors im a nursing major but I understand your struggle my advice is just follow your heart if you believe you need to take this break take it . If you believe that you should try and be strong through this whole college process do it . Also if there’s a community college Around try taking a class there community colleges are sometimes better than a regular college . I did dual enrollment in a community college and it helped a lot and I wasn’t as stressed as I am now in an actual university
I went straight to college right after graduation and I knew during that first semester it was too much for me so I ended the first semester barely passing and didn’t go back. Now I am 26 living in my own house with my fiancé and 3 year old son. I am in my second year at community college & I am so glad that I waited until I was 100% ready. School will alwayyyyssss be there but it isn’t worth damaging your mental health forcing yourself to do something that isn’t working for you. Do what is best for you right now!!
This video is a literal blessing, I thought that I was feeling like this all by myself. Thank you for sharing bc this college shit ain’t no joke. I be real live feeling depressed in college 😩
I went through the same thing that you’re going through now went to a university for 4 weeks and decided that it was not for me. My mental health was the WORST those 4 weeks and I ended up moving home and going to the community college and I did so much better I am currently in my 2nd year at community college and it’s definitely better than it was but I don’t have the passion for school, I think it would be 100% better if we could just go to school for our majors instead of general studies and the extra stress! Good luck and do what’s best for YOU! 💜
I was soo tired of rewatching old videos but finally the wait is over..patience pays indeed...we love you lexi hope you good😄😄😄
Glad you're here Lexi it's all going to be okay breath deep breaths, it helps if you get your homework done right then an there instead of waiting, clean up each day lil here and there and hopefully it stays somewhat clean so you have to just deep clean once and it won't be so bad... You got this Lexi don't give up.... Strength is an incredible beautiful thing especially when you're going through ruff times... You got this... The struggle is real... Love you and I sure hope you don't give up on your dreams... Or goals... You can and will go far... Hugs and prayers...
I get I understand your mental health comes first always. Hope your being safe love a girl
Honestly Lexi I thank u so much for showing us ur real life because now I feel a lot better about myself because my 1 semester of college the same thing happened and I was so depressed and felt like a failure and i decided to take a semester off and it helped so much because now i feel like im ready to go for next semester
I have to say college is really an adjustment. For me it was academically also. You go through all types of emotions in college, but the end reward is so worth it I promise. I do stand on the fact that college IS NOT for everyone and that is ok. I know people who sat out and came back, while I know people who sat out and made the decision to not come back. Do what’s best for you love 💕
I felt everything was taking a toll on you balancing a career and college I understand sis it’s okay do what you feel is right I’m glad you keep us updated we got your back through anything love you sis
Came here as soon as I saw the notification....love you Lexi❤ now let's see what this video is about
"Where are my eyebrows? Oh there they go" lmfaooo🤣🤣🤣😭
I’m glad that I can relate to you about collage, I haven’t gone yet since I’m still in high school. I want to go but I know that I wouldn’t like it, I feel like it’s a priority when family expects you to go. Like you said it’s not for everybody and I agree! I don’t want to force myself. I want to be an influencer and my own entrepreneur but i can’t wait to long 💕
Lexi, It's perfectly fine to take a break and think about who you want to be and what you want to achieve. Just try your best to make a decision you don't regret in the long term. We love you and will be here whatever decision you make. I legit found your channel last night but I love you already and I believe you'll succeed in whatever you choose
College was harder than high school but I wouldn't trade my experience for the world. Just make the decision YOU want to make it is YOUR life and you have to live with your decision. Prayer really helps listen to the small voice.🙏♥️
I could tell you weren’t into school when you first moved in. College isn’t for everyone. You do not need to stay. & you have a great career already!
I know college can be stressful, if you feel like you need to take a break, I say go for it, or if your on full time with your classes, you could switch over to part time so you can have more time to yourself.
This kinda makes me wanna cry, ive been watching her since day 1 and i can see the pain
I can definitely relate to this I dropped out my second semester freshman year it was way to much for me , i was so close to losing scholarships I decided to just take a break. 6 months later I re enrolled and fast forward I’m a senior in college experiencing the same thing again its definitely a up and down journey. My advice know yourself and listen to your mental state bc that can definitely make or break you. Keep pushing girly 💜
I can absolutely relate, college is so hard especially the first year, because there's just a lot of transitions happening and everyting's happening so fast. It can really take a tol on your mental health, but as long as you have your family's supportive you can definitely get through. Hope things get better for you and you make a decision that is best for you and your mental health. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I'm the parent of a second year college student. When I was in college myself, a hundred years ago, we didn't have many options.
Hey Lexi, I totally understand where you’re coming from, I’m a junior now and i promise it gets better. I was in the same boat I had to have a come to Jesus meeting with myself and ask myself is this something I genuinely want to do. I was miserable my first year of college I had horrible roommates and I was 3 and a half hours away from home and didn’t have any friends at all. I felt lonely and under pressure all the time but I promise if I got through it you can tooo!!!! Praying for peace and clarity on whatever it is❤️❤️
Breathe. You're going to be just fine. Now, you may not need college, but if you quit, years from now you most likely will regret it. This is just another step into adulthood.
Finally your back we missed u
hey lexi idk if you’re gonna see this but, i’m sure you see the comments of people telling you not to drop out for a gap semester. but don’t listen to them. i attended Alabama State and i needed a gap semester. i’m currently about to take another cap semester because i just can’t handle it atm. i want to focus on other things and school is just in the way atm. i hate being stressed all the time. i hate feeling like i’m not good enough for school. i hate the feeling all around. so i completely understand where you’re coming from! so what’s best for you. don’t listen to these people in the comments telling you to stay. go with that gut feeling. college is not for everybody.
I do college but I stay with my parents because the extra support is needed quite often. It’s not talked about much when people mention the plus side of living in dorms. Being in dorms can actually have a negative effect on someone’s schooling (not everyone but a lot of people) and it’s okay to do online or attend somewhere closer that allows you to be with family and not just friends. Go with what makes you happy and maybe think about options that allow you to be flexible. I have four friends who started with dorms and felt exactly like you, they returned home and got everything back on track with grades and stuff.
I totally understand what you went through... I'm in my 3rd year of college and I still go through the exact same thing... I think Covid also played a role... Take care, and continue to do your best❤️❤️
Hey Lexi mental health is real take ur time and focus on u TH-cam will be here and waiting as a mother of three daughters in college it can be overwhelming at times I tell them to come home and take some time then go back I pray for you and I know u got this god is gonna work it out for u stay prayed up I’m here for u 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️🙌🏽🙌🏽 ps don’t give up
Everything will be ok WE ALL ARE GOING THROUGH IT🧘🏾♂️🧘🏾♂️🧘🏾♂️
Hii lexi ,hope you doin great ,and soo glad that you back with a another video ,stay sfe ,blessed and may God bless each and every of us.❤🕯
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I agree and I am a mom of 2 awesome young men and as parents I myself and their Dad have always told them finish high school for sure no questions asked and when you graduate IF you want to go to college you can they decided not too but they had to do something so they work for the post office and bought our first house and I couldn’t be prouder so yes School is not for everybody, Talk to your parents and make a decision and be happy with the decision you make and pray about it God will give you all the answers you need ❤️☺️Good Luck Lexi I know whatever decision you make will be awesome ❤️
Girl I get you💀 college is so stressful, I'm in my 2nd yr and my mental health is in the mud, I'm sorta loosing myself but some days are better, you've got this Lexi, do what's good for you. Love the vlog btw 😘💕
I’m 🙏🏽🙏🏽for both of u ladies it’s gonna get better just breathe and take ur time
@@caritadaniels7881 Amen, thanks a lot
I’m late but glad your back lexi , I’m happy that you are here again and doing much better and I am influenced by your productivity. & I pray that you can continue to do well and grow. And I’m glad that you’re deciding to not stress over everything and I’m glad that you’ve learned a lot from college so far. We all go through life lessons & I enjoyed this video. 💕
I am my 3rd year on university in south africa. I know how u feel, however I can say that if you believe you can you will. Work hard, balance is key and watch everything fall in place. A time table with time slots helped me alot in my 1st year.
Don’t give up. Keep going.
Even if you don’t want to live on campus - make sure you continue going. Cause that “break” will cause you to never return! Might as well have a degree under you belt if every thing else fails!
Being a college student and trying to produce content for social media is hard as hell coming from someone who also goes to school and tries to post on social media. I love how you mentioned college is not for everyone because realistically college is not for everyone and that's something everyone should know and not judge others for their choices. I'm so sorry your mental health was going down hill, I know it's hard and it sucks. Regardless of your decision, you have so much love and support
Yessss I missed you Lexi 🥰 I was just on ur live last night I hope your doing okay I’m praying for you 💘🥺🥺
aw lexi its okay. my sister went through the same thing and shes happier now because she gave herself a break. dont feel pressure to post.
Lexi ,you are absolutely doing the best you can.I believe you'd adjust pretty well and everything will fall into place. You are strong and determined.. College isn't going to get any easier but don't let it knock you to your feet. I love you Lexi💖💘
You should do what you think you need for yourself but personally I think that you are doing great and it’s hard going through such a big change (hs and college) I think that you should give another semester a try and maybe do a lighter class load. Do what you think you need for yourself but I think you should give another semester a try. You got this girl 🤍
I know your young but please don't give up even though college isn't for everyone but TH-cam will always be around why just stay this and that girl its help on campus for mental health you have great family to support you if you stop college then back to the parents for what to be able to be free and don't all your struggles to stress you just focus on school your friends will be round are your friends even motivating you to get it together.
Love the video Lexi as always🥺♥️
Your vee hive will always be here for you 💯it may seem hard now but it surely will get better soon, if you need to take a gap year or some time off that’s okay I personally just want you to be okay 🥺I love seeing bubbly clumsy lexi who is always so loud😅that’s why this video made me a bit sad, seeing how mentally exhausted you are🥺…love you girl… there is no time frame on success, with your talents you ain’t gotta worry.. you will definitely be successful just take your time even away from college am sure you will turn out just fine 💕
Love you always❤️❤️
I totally understand the way you are feeling! that happened to me my senior year of college. Some professors were understanding some not so much. But balancing your stress, anxiety and procrastination all together can be tough. I also took a semester break and came back and finished last year! It helped so much!
So, school, and in general stress is a part of life. I would say before giving up on school eliminate the things less important to your success. Like for example you don’t need to be on campus. It sounds to me like that is a big contributor to your stress. The living situation needs to be adjusted. Like you said you don’t have the appliances, basic bathroom access…the lack of these basic things impact your emotional health. If your environment is not right you won’t be right. Sounds to me like you need more support and help around. If I were in your shoes I would move back home before giving up on school. See if the environment changes and the support of your family reduces some of the unnecessary stress you have taken on. Just as you may think the issue is that your were not prepared for college, it could very well be that you were not ready to be away from the support of home! You don’t have to live on campus to enjoy college life. I had a blast in college, earned new freedoms and world understanding without ever living on campus. You were VERY prepared for college, you said it. You said you graduated high school with all A’s…statistically, research says you are the very person prepared for college. Work on your environment Lexi…this includes friends, all this impacts your success.
Awesome advice!!
U should drop out it's a scam I'm still in school but I'm not gonna graduate I'm gonna fail school on purpose bc I'm gonna become a rapper
Whatever decision you make is what is best for you and what is set for you girl. I just graduated 'high school' and I'm in my first year of university studying medicine (you don't need a bachelors to do medicine in the Caribbean because we have an A-level equivalents which meets the requirements) and its tough but I know most things aren't easy when we first start out. Its like learning to walk or ride a bike. You're gonna fall a couple times but eventually you'll master it and the same concept applies for school. Yeah we might fail, heck I failed one of my exams but what's important is perseverance especially if its something you really want. If not then you could still choose to persevere or just drop that ish and save yourself the time, extra money and stress.
Lexi so proud of you being strong, yes mental health can be challenging stay encourage you are a strong Beautiful young lady take your time in your decision making however;Life itself is challenging..praying for you.Remember college is a big step "You can do it"🙏❤ take it one day@at time. Get you a plan together & most of keep prayer going in your life...Stay strong💖🥰👐🙏
please do not feel bad for not posting we love you lexi and we want you to be the best verision of yourself so calm down dont stress 😊
SHES BACKKKKKK💕💕 just yesterday I was saying “ Lexi hasn’t posted in so long” and now she’s here😩😩😩
Those *"F's"* you talked about, reminds me of maths class in high school.
ahhhh... yes Lord, good times. Goood times.
All the best girl. Back to the video 💙
came in clutch got to do chores now I got something to keep me entertained😭💀
Thanks for sharing your life with us! Glad to know you’re okay. College life is challenging and anyone who’s ever been to college knows how life changing it can be. I admire your drive but I do know that sometimes you just need to take a break! Your true supporters will always be there to support you through good or bad times.💖Tbh, maybe you should consider moving back home with your your family and just travel to campus to take your courses. But of course the decision has to be made by you and between your parents. Keep up the good work and keep Vibin💯
Literally I feel like I am listening to my experience, like I am having a very hard time to adapt to collage, and since I am still online I slept throughout classes and than the midterms were in campus and I went without studying. It is just a hard time
I went to college straight out of high school and I struggled so bad mentally and physically . I wasn’t ready but I went because I had so many expectations of me being that I did so well in high school. My best decision was taking a year break after that first semester and started going to a school closer to home. Deciding to not return and taking a break was the best thing I did I didn’t care about opinions and did it!
I am so glad that I am not the only one that is thinking like this right now. Every thing you are saying is how I am feeling. But whatever you decide you know we will support no matter what.
You got this sit back on just get your mental health together within the 6 weeks and find out the school year strong that semester break will make you never want to go back
One of the biggest mistakes I’ve ever made was deciding to take a gap year after my first year of college because that gap year became two years and I never went back. Going to college right after high school was too much for me. Later I decided to attend a technical college and I obtained a medical license but later found out most hospitals do not even accept the type of license that I have. Now I work at Walmart as an HR Manager while running a small business. It would have been in my second year of residency if I would have stayed. This is just my experience but please make your mental health your first priority. 🥰
Miss seeing ur blogs, hope all is well queen and stay blessed and humbled
I Was so happy for the vlog ! Let’s see what’s going to happen
take your time girl, just remember to take care of you and take breaks when needed, we all love you and support any decision you make, loved the vlog as per usual❤
I’m in a Community college right now and I relate to you
Every time that lexi post a new video she makes me happy❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
i love how you clean your college room
So proud of how far you’ve become❤️
I wouldn't suggest virtual learning from home. Even at the age of 30, I even struggle to stay on task and get stuff turned in via Dropbox. Maybe it's because I have three children and work a job, but online school is totally rough. I'd say if you can remain strong and stick with in person college, do it and just continue trying your best. You're so smart, Lexi. Hang in there! 💞