Living In South Africa (Part 1) | Culture Shock | Nigerians Living In South Africa | Expat

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  • @AfricanHope
    @AfricanHope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    When you started explaining “shame” I thought to myself “aww shame” 😹😹😹 this is so interesting wow 😹😹😹😹
    I miss how laid back South Africans are.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You guys are teaching me how to chill... 😁

    • @AfricanHope
      @AfricanHope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@TolaLusi you must relax 😹😹😹 no need to rush. I definitely miss that. Americans are all on the move

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AfricanHope you have to share your experience too...😄

    • @AfricanHope
      @AfricanHope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TolaLusi I will ❤️

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@AfricanHope thanks for watching love...❤

  • @khathutshelomatlou9712
    @khathutshelomatlou9712 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    There's a lot of things we really take for granted as South Africans.

    • @awohmvane2707
      @awohmvane2707 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Say that again

    • @mocknkosi5534
      @mocknkosi5534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's what I thought as I watched.

    • @t.mblock8658
      @t.mblock8658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not necessarily because a lot of poor South Africans don't have access to these things. Especially free PROPER heathcare, education & water
      Some of us are lucky we live in industrialised places or towns/cities.

    • @angrysocialjusticewarrior
      @angrysocialjusticewarrior 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@t.mblock8658 They do have access to those things. Just as long as they have proper documentation (valid ID or birth certificate, proof of address or signed affidavit confirming you live in the area).
      There are free schools or sponsored schools that cater to poor children (and some even offer feeding schemes and clothing donations). Medical care is free or extremely cheap for basic checkups and procedures. Drinking water can be obtained at many places for free, even at a local garage (fuel station).
      If you are jobless you even get a free R350 from government. If you have kids, the government gives you a fixed amount for each individual child you have. If you are old, you get a fixed amount just for being elderly. If you are disabled, you also get an amount from government.
      If you want to study at a university and you are poor. You just apply for the government sponsor (NSFAS) and you get to study for free and even get your accommodation and food paid for.
      If you are employed but earn less than R8k-R7k, you don't owe government any income tax.
      South Africa is very survivable even if you literally have nothing. The only challenge is for poor people who are skilled enough to build their own owns in the form of shacks or brick houses, but struggle to obtain free land allocation to be allowed to build homes.

    • @sekgabimasobe9690
      @sekgabimasobe9690 ปีที่แล้ว

      You can say that again

  • @KFMelanie1989
    @KFMelanie1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +303

    I love how Nigerian youtubers are able to see the things that we as South Africans take forgranted. Like free education and health care. And also Road accident fund. Great video by the way, Sis

    • @Sky-dv8mj
      @Sky-dv8mj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      The problem with us we don't appreciate, that's it

    • @aminimhlelembana5393
      @aminimhlelembana5393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I also noticed that🥺

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Count your blessings dear... would you prefer not to have them at all?...

    • @KFMelanie1989
      @KFMelanie1989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@coolexio see what i mean? U just proved my point.

    • @exauceembuyi5473
      @exauceembuyi5473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@coolexio do you pay for anything in Johannesburg hospital?Helen Joseph hospital?Edenvale hospital????? Just to mention a few

  • @panduleniiiyambo7945
    @panduleniiiyambo7945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    We also drink our water straight from the tap in Namibia, even in villages. Most of the things you described here are actually similar to my country. In general, Southern Africans do things in similar ways.

    • @asandasukazi7198
      @asandasukazi7198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's right!

    • @GrumpyTinashe
      @GrumpyTinashe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      True. In general southern Africa is quite different from rest of black Africa

    • @lyzmuamoeko3989
      @lyzmuamoeko3989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      True

    • @tshegofatsomngomezulu9574
      @tshegofatsomngomezulu9574 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      But Namibia feels like home for me cause we all think alike and have lots of similarities.Much love

    • @panduleniiiyambo7945
      @panduleniiiyambo7945 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@tshegofatsomngomezulu9574 That's so good to know. I feel the same whenever I'm in SA too. Much love back

  • @sandisiwenkukwana6641
    @sandisiwenkukwana6641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    South African tap water is one of the safest in the world.

    • @hildaleeuw4467
      @hildaleeuw4467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Cleanest

    • @mthethwatm2
      @mthethwatm2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Hv u seen Witbank

    • @jasonMB999
      @jasonMB999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Based on what?

    • @Mustbemih
      @Mustbemih 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@anewx it is one of the cleanest to drink in the world. Google it

    • @emazhawu4370
      @emazhawu4370 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@anewx when one say 'one of' it doesn't mean its the only one. It maybe one of 3,5,10,20etc

  • @lyzmuamoeko3989
    @lyzmuamoeko3989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +146

    From now on I'm appreciating things we have in South Africa

    • @Officially_sabby
      @Officially_sabby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too

    • @thandomabizela860
      @thandomabizela860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Braaaa💔

    • @Sky-dv8mj
      @Sky-dv8mj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Please let's do guys

    • @nqubekotany134
      @nqubekotany134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yet we still complaining

    • @angrysocialjusticewarrior
      @angrysocialjusticewarrior 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nqubekotany134 Its always good to complain. No matter how good things are, if there is a possibility of things being better, then you should always make people aware of it.

  • @tumelomasenya6155
    @tumelomasenya6155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

    In South Africa, our water treatment plants are protected hence it is safe to drink water from the tap

    • @tumelomasenya6155
      @tumelomasenya6155 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@andisiwekweta4682 Why do you say so?

    • @oowboy_official7929
      @oowboy_official7929 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts

    • @whitneynovela406
      @whitneynovela406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hai guys not all hey. The quality has gone down now in some areas. I'm saying this as someone who lives in Durban. We buy filtered water at home. A lot of people I know do.
      Edit: I studied in Potchefstroom for a while. There everyone from student to resident bought water. The tap water tasted like cut grass😂😂😂

    • @nqubekotany134
      @nqubekotany134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@whitneynovela406 lyz

    • @Dupedupedean
      @Dupedupedean 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good for you Tumelo if you believe that hogwash! Treatment plants have been going down for years, and maintenance is lacking, and here you are spewing lies about our water. It used to be, but now its sh*t..

  • @hzlkelly
    @hzlkelly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +171

    When i came back to Zambia I drank straight from the tap and my granny was like "This isn't Botswana or South Africa, boil your water" 😂😂😂 I was so used.

    • @Officially_sabby
      @Officially_sabby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Sky-dv8mj
      @Sky-dv8mj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I always forget when I'm in Zim 😁

    • @naomimotlhasedi4086
      @naomimotlhasedi4086 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Beautiful skin.

    • @zetzeeful
      @zetzeeful 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @alexsimphiwedlamini1025
      @alexsimphiwedlamini1025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Here in Eswatini u have ppl who rather not drink bcs the water is treated they want their pure tap water

  • @mrsoshadabaadman
    @mrsoshadabaadman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    I'm starting to see a pattern, excellent content about South Africa is from excellent people. Educated and striving for a better life. Like every normal South African. I can see the negative comments come from negative people, with nothing to add to the greater African project. Thank you for your account again a reminder of what we have.

    • @ntando25Dconcepts
      @ntando25Dconcepts 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Some people have never traveled and got experience other people's cultures to make their point. They just hate.

    • @Sbudafada
      @Sbudafada 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think we are exposed to Nigerian Mafia more than tge law abiding Nigerians.

  • @afronexion
    @afronexion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I just want to appreciate this video, as a South African I truly appreciate it when people arrive in our country and truly enjoy the hospitality of our nation while honoring the love that our nation gives. I wish our nation can advance even further to be a blessing for the African continent.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @SkidCudi
      @SkidCudi 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Stop killing other Africans.

  • @mokgadisdiary8420
    @mokgadisdiary8420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    The free health care is also one reason I love my country,, imagine someone dying because they don't have money?

  • @gxmanqelexolani5484
    @gxmanqelexolani5484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Most taxi drivers in Durban understand English they just pretend like they don't just to ignore people

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe this too

  • @tumik_deep7501
    @tumik_deep7501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    The steering is on the right side.just point of correction

    • @Malisti04
      @Malisti04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Right in relation to the car but left in relation to the road. see

    • @midrennelubin9433
      @midrennelubin9433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Because you are Americanize, water supposed to go in a countainer, let it rest before you drink it, water has a soul it has to rest .

    • @modernfreeman4228
      @modernfreeman4228 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@midrennelubin9433 Nonsense

    • @nomveloncube6397
      @nomveloncube6397 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I also got shocked, her narration was vice-versa

    • @olusarr4776
      @olusarr4776 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Gambia here: I understand the driving experience. All former Brit colonies in Afrika (that includes our west coast countries Ghana, The Gambia, Nigeria, and Sierra Leone) used to drive on the left. All these "English-speaking" countries changed to the right after independence. Liberia, being so closely associated with the USA, always drove on the right, just like "French-speaking" countries.

  • @ngmn5402
    @ngmn5402 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I think 'shame' in this context means that person feels sorry for you. Not necessarily the real meaning of shame as disgrace.

    • @yoliswambebe619
      @yoliswambebe619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Actually empathize.

    • @liso_lethu
      @liso_lethu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes, like thats so unfortunate. Sorry

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏

    • @comfortmakwela
      @comfortmakwela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sometimes we use it when something is really cute, E.g. Aoh shame, your baby is so cute❤️

  • @jamesmokhali4403
    @jamesmokhali4403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    We seriously need to be freinds as Africans, we need to learn each others culture and get to visit each others countries. stop the war agains xenophobia and win Africa.

  • @mohaubangani1778
    @mohaubangani1778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    I’m South African living in Dubai I’ve been out the country for about 4 years, watching you made me feel like you teaching me about South Africa in a whole new light, your South Africa and I love it ❤️

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching...❤

    • @tandiwefatyi3461
      @tandiwefatyi3461 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same here bruv...I'm in dubai for 13yrs..and nam I feel like I'm learning about my country of birth hahahhaa...the things one learns to appreciate when not there right?!

    • @Marvels7
      @Marvels7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And in Dubai we buy water to drink haibo bafethu

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@Marvels7 yea... because of the sea water...😊

    • @Marvels7
      @Marvels7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TolaLusi yeah I guess. Great video btw.

  • @briannebutaro6391
    @briannebutaro6391 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    SA🇿🇦 approves 👏👏👏

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awwn... thanks...
      Please subscribe and stick around for more content like this...😊

  • @Renette1987
    @Renette1987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    All these things mentioned about SA are true about Namibia, my country 🇳🇦❤

    • @christanghilalulwa2184
      @christanghilalulwa2184 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Because we have the same system with South Africa.

    • @TumiMatheba
      @TumiMatheba 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol that's why I never feel like I'm outside SA whenever I'm in Nambia or Botswana.

    • @liemisompota3669
      @liemisompota3669 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lesotho as well

    • @hunadimakgatho3403
      @hunadimakgatho3403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I actually believe this because namibia and sa are so similar. Kenya too

  • @mdlulizamo7243
    @mdlulizamo7243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    Feel free my sister and enjoy south Africa I wish I can tour Nigeria as well

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      😊😊😊

    • @asanda138
      @asanda138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's my wish as well🙏🙏

    • @abimbolaorebiyi3582
      @abimbolaorebiyi3582 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We can build relationsips

  • @ifunanyaokonkwo4403
    @ifunanyaokonkwo4403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I am a Nigerian and l must commend you for this video. It saddens me when l hear about Xenophobia in SA because it's a beautiful country. I have very nice SA friends not all of them are Xenophobic. I pray we love each other
    New subbie

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much for sticking around sis...❤

    • @Sky-dv8mj
      @Sky-dv8mj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too, let's hope for the best love you from Eastern Cape

    • @afronexion
      @afronexion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's why it is my wish to see to it that our nation advances further than where it is so that we can be a blessing to our continent

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🙏🙏🙏

    • @hotchick8320
      @hotchick8320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Xenophobia is paid by the first world, For distraction. Look at people who do it it’s useless people who are not working and uneducated. Normal South Africans hate Xenophobia.They don’t want Africa to Unite.

  • @bettysiachibuye9920
    @bettysiachibuye9920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I think in Southern African Countries, we all drink tap water, even here in Zambia same

    • @African1313
      @African1313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True, when I was in Mozambique I was drinking directly from the tap as well and I'm from South Africa

  • @gororo14
    @gororo14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    This is how Africa should be, we should be able to live anywhere in the motherland,

  • @kuhle8012
    @kuhle8012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    "shame on who??" lol that finished me

  • @muzikayisethunzi1983
    @muzikayisethunzi1983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    The ' shame thing' killed me, was laughing at your Nigerian expression..... 🤣🤣🤣

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

    • @nomxhosapekani7966
      @nomxhosapekani7966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@TolaLusi Coastal areas are more relaxed than Joburg. My funny Nigerian expressions " When they say leg, but they mean Feet🤣🤣🤣, also how they will call "walking -Tracking" But mostly how y'all always use big English words in a conversation- for example y'all don't slay much, like you would say "When I entered" and will just say get in🤣🤣🤣 but the the Joy of English as soon as it lives Queen Elizabeth, anyone can change it 🤣🤣🤣
      But your best Taxi rides are in Cape Town, where people remove their teeth because they think is fashion, and the government hospitals do it for free🤣🤣🤣

    • @hotchick8320
      @hotchick8320 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right!? I love their expressions 😂😂😂

  • @pontsotsoeunyane9395
    @pontsotsoeunyane9395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    I find this interesting, I come from Lesotho 🇱🇸 and our culture is pretty much similar to South Africa 🇿🇦. Now I live in Nigeria 🇳🇬 and I can relate. You guys are hundred countries in one 🥰

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂 it's true!

    • @mosalethoba5267
      @mosalethoba5267 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wena o etsang Nigeria eish ka mokgo le leng hloho dibonolo batho beso 🤣🤣. Hase mo re bapalla teng mono Reya mafatsheng a kantle ho continent kapo re fella dinaheng tsa bohaisane

    • @legacycontinuesteacherdavi2046
      @legacycontinuesteacherdavi2046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What city in Nigeria do you live in?

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love in Ibadan 😊

    • @eldadbarber3318
      @eldadbarber3318 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TolaLusi what on earth are you doing in Ibadan?

  • @thulimahlaba7230
    @thulimahlaba7230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    The use of "shame " 😂😂someone can walk up to you and say " you're beautiful shame" meaning you're really really beautiful

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😂😂😂
      I've heard someone say this to a little girl...😂

    • @Yomiyankee
      @Yomiyankee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      What? is that Ebonics, or Mzansinics. All I care about is, that's not standard English. In Nigeria, we have people that we call "Benja-Benja, or Icheoku". These were colonial characters who speak self styled English to the amusement of the real educated. Maybe it's similar. The fact that it's commonly spoken doesn't legitimize its' correctness.

    • @tshepimok
      @tshepimok 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Yomiyankee Even educated people from all races might I ask use the "shame"/"shem" word everywhere.
      Black, Coloured, Indian or White... Any race.

  • @africanandproud6792
    @africanandproud6792 3 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Coastal people like Durban are chilled. Come up to Joburg and you will struggle to keep up. I am jogging as I type this messsge 🤣🤣🤣

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You know...I keep hearing that... 😊

    • @wawi4364
      @wawi4364 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @phumlanimncwango7686
      @phumlanimncwango7686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol that’s typical of The biggest city in most countries I think

    • @dimphoshata
      @dimphoshata 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂🤣

    • @kgabomolele3346
      @kgabomolele3346 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @KHOTSO KHANYAPA exactly, I even remember my friends and I being annoyed at how relaxed Durban service is 😭😭. Joburgers don't play

  • @whiteheaven2457
    @whiteheaven2457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I love both countries Nigeria and South Africa, my two most favourite countries in Africa because of their influence with both being the two greatest nations in Africa. I love Nigerians and their rich culture and I love SA for it's diversity, modernity and how developed it is. I do wish that Nigeria was more developed because the country has so much potential to be a mega superpower. There are a lot of good things about South Africa that South Africans might take for granted.

    • @siyashilla6885
      @siyashilla6885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      We inherited that from the white people. I think that's the advantage of having white people in large numbers

    • @soccerchannel9930
      @soccerchannel9930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@siyashilla6885 no whites robbed us our fortune, just imagine if SA was owning All commodities especially the minerals SA could have been rich, but now the minority is only favoured

    • @kingmoney9386
      @kingmoney9386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@soccerchannel9930 The reality is that the only people who would have access to mineral resources would be the elite ANC leaders, look at how corrupt they are.

    • @baphithi
      @baphithi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@siyashilla6885 it’s built with money from minerals found on our land.

    • @terrencekalonga696
      @terrencekalonga696 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      South Africa’s achievements is credited to its southern African countries that really fought so hard to see our brothers and sisters in South Africa liberated.Southern African countries are so close to each other and the bond is real no wonder our linguistic is not that different.

  • @yoliswambebe619
    @yoliswambebe619 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I can assure you that there's a huge percentage of South Africans who's not comfortable in witnessing PDA, the thing is SA is a democratic country so its citizens are protected by the constitution (Bill of Rights).

  • @politicsclips
    @politicsclips 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Shame in a form of compassion

  • @lekholokoelekotsoanamoloi9593
    @lekholokoelekotsoanamoloi9593 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I think all African states should fix this water and electricity issue . In other African states they overload passengers. Roads and public transportation are a very important issue if we want to move forward .

    • @jessicamofokeng9466
      @jessicamofokeng9466 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Even in South Africa they overload passengers a 15 seater takes 20 people. It is an African thing

  • @mcebci
    @mcebci 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is the first time I'm hearing an AFRICAN sister/brother appreciating our country. The most Ive met have been very critical and negative and I think that's what creat a negative attitude them. Thank you for appreciating and your content is very educational.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @nickmolea6111
      @nickmolea6111 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We need to love each other and appreciate each other as Africans. Thank you for appreciating our country!

  • @rapulamodise983
    @rapulamodise983 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Go on my sister explore South Africa and show the world positive things about my country.
    We have different names for things you know like ;
    Can of soft drinks =grovie
    Van (vehicle )=bakkie
    R50=pinkys
    R100=clipa
    Transport =transie
    we have very cool and funny names for alot of things. Keep exploring and enjoy.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awwn thanks....😊

  • @hildaleeuw4467
    @hildaleeuw4467 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    The steering wheel is on the right we drive on the left side of the road. Meaning the passenger seat is on the left

  • @TitaT
    @TitaT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This was weird, I am Zambian and expecting to be surprised but turns out most of the things she said are true for Zambia aswell. we use “shem” and “must” too.

    • @hzlkelly
      @hzlkelly 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey girl 😁

    • @jaydee6178
      @jaydee6178 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Interesting

    • @baphithi
      @baphithi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Y’all watch too much SA tv shows 😁

    • @hotchick8320
      @hotchick8320 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Botswana too, we says Shem or shems. When we say ao shems we show compassion

  • @joshmonto163
    @joshmonto163 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have just found my new favorite channel. The way you were shocked by public show of affection, it killed me. You are so on point with everything. You know, "The danger of a single story"

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks brother 🙏

  • @nolwazimkhize8233
    @nolwazimkhize8233 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I think the walking slow thing is a "KZN thing" I stay in Guateng, whenever I go to KZN I get frustrated bcs of how slowly people walk. We are always in a hurry in Guateng

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree... Joburg reminds me of Lagos!...😊

    • @zusathedemigod2575
      @zusathedemigod2575 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I always look crazy when i walk in KZN.
      I tell them i picked this pace up in Joburg. Most never understand tho

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂

    • @comfortmakwela
      @comfortmakwela 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Probably because it's a tourist destination. Most ppl are there to relax and enjoy their vacations

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@comfortmakwela that's another angle...😊

  • @juliaedi111
    @juliaedi111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I grew up drinking tap water in Nigeria. Things got bad when the citizens in charge of these basic amenities became corrupt and cared more about monetary gains than doing their job for the welfare of their fellow citizens.

    • @shamisomakuvaro9393
      @shamisomakuvaro9393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same as in Zimbabwe it used to be tap water,but not anymore...

    • @mrsoshadabaadman
      @mrsoshadabaadman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      This has to stop across the continent. We can't let corruption ruin our continent any longer.

    • @florencedike1601
      @florencedike1601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm Nigerian and still drink tap water

    • @josephc.a3942
      @josephc.a3942 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True.

  • @ZuluLessonswithThando
    @ZuluLessonswithThando 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    What a great video! The way we use 'shame' and 'shem' lol. It is so funny because I've had to explain it to friends so many times.
    Don't mention the taxis. The sound system on those Durban taxis can blow your eardrum! They play the newest and hippest music and kids choose the taxis with the best sound system when they are going to and from school.
    Yeah, the water thing, it is one of my issues with some parts of the country and the rest of the continent. People MUST have access to clean drinking water. And those disposable water bottles are harming the earth.
    Sis!!! Sis! Sis! I'm going to struggle when I visit Nigeria because my husband and I are always ....
    Thank you for such an amazing video! I was laughing so so much!

  • @nicheinhabitantsinhabitant2516
    @nicheinhabitantsinhabitant2516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Interesting on 'shame' l never realized that it could be offending.Me too l really appreciate their health care coming from Zim, l really appreciate the government hospitals

    • @pm1647
      @pm1647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Look I am South African and the phrase is actually ambiguous it is used in a condescending and non-condensing way lol it annoys me too South Africans are very slick they will insult and smile in your face we are pass aggressive 😂😂 polite rude.

  • @phomolondlovu2597
    @phomolondlovu2597 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I really appreciated health care in SA when I worked in Uganda. Public health care was really a painful experience for me as also worked at the biggest public hospital there. I love the representation of SA from your perspective, very honest and true.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks dear...❤

  • @Sindisile
    @Sindisile 3 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Health care isn't the best though, but I guess in SA we tend to take things for granted, even the water thing like it's for granted, not grateful south africans

    • @snowblak_tsl
      @snowblak_tsl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Health care is brilliant in SA, we are just understaffed which makes our health care workers demotivated

    • @mominights1895
      @mominights1895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You don't make sense,say that for yourself

    • @blackstuma
      @blackstuma 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If someone that has a choice to go to private hospital for cancer treatment and he choose government hospital for treatment to me that tells me our healthcare is the best.

    • @VhoJudith
      @VhoJudith 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Health care is very good in SA it’s just that they are understaffed and there’s a lot of people waiting to be served.

    • @thegoat8447
      @thegoat8447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@VhoJudith It depends where you are, most township and rural are actually shxt

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It's very interesting how we are from the same continent but still experience these overwhelming cultural shocks. We live we learn, that's the best part of it.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes we do. Thanks for watching sis...❤

    • @linkymamoepa2978
      @linkymamoepa2978 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good video
      .I am South African.We have social grants, monthly payment for old people over the age of 60yrs about R198 00 per person,child grant from birth unto 18yrs only proof that you are single parent and earn under R3000 a month for R900 per child, disability grant for R2000 per month per person and now COVID 19 grant for unemployed people from the age of 18yrs to 35yrs for R350 per month..Good country looking after her people .Education is also free from age 6yrs unto University.Public Schools education is free and compulsory,parents can be arrested if the child doesn't go to school up to the age of 19yrs or Grade 9, tertiary and University is also free using Government Bursary called NAFSAS.

  • @evangelisttwinky981
    @evangelisttwinky981 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    SA are free people and talk freely. They say things without meaning bad or insulting. We are free Spirits...

  • @londz1987
    @londz1987 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Durban is VERY chilled. JHB is different.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I agree... I think JHB is the Lagos of South Africa... it's a different vibe over there... thanks for watching ❤

    • @Salad_Channel
      @Salad_Channel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yep true, Johannesburg is very fast paced.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Too fast...😨

  • @Metafri
    @Metafri 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great content. Amazing to hear a perspective of positivity about this great country. Hope you are still enjoying being here, at home.

  • @Seshane1
    @Seshane1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We use the word ‘shame’ to mean so many different things, but none of them actually means “shame” in the proper sense of the word 😂😂
    My Nigerian husband’s brother who lives in SA also complained about the way we use ‘must’ as well. It’s always funny to hear which South Africanisms are strange for people coming to the country from outside.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😊😊😊

  • @mck5549
    @mck5549 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am South African and I agree with you. It's good to hear about us from a different perspective. and as for taxi drivers - they are the same all over the world!

  • @LethoHali
    @LethoHali 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The way I laughed!!! Hahaaha thanks for sharing! First time here. Really enjoyed this. And learnt a lot about Nigeria too!

  • @Token4NaijaTV
    @Token4NaijaTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    That hard life though is what makes us Nigerians like we are built in another dimension that’s why it’s so easy to adapt to a lot

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We truly adapt fast no matter where we fun ourselves...

  • @snemthembu6968
    @snemthembu6968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I say shame a lot. It's really not an insult. It's definitely an expression. We can even say 'I really had a very nice time with you yesterday shame'. 😂😂 And the must part, yes we use that a lot.

    • @mapaseka1633
      @mapaseka1633 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I use it a lot shame😂😂😂😂If I had a good time I would usually say"I had a great time yesterday shame".

  • @thapelomaakwe6770
    @thapelomaakwe6770 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hehehe yah having worked in Naija for a year, I learnt to appreciate a lot of small things we have in SA. And yes "must" got me into trouble a few times with my Nigerian boss. I have to say, Nigerians are friendly people. They took good care of us.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😊😊😊

  • @julianokane3191
    @julianokane3191 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    First time I heard that tap water is not drinkable was in Japan in 2005. I was so shocked. In Botswana we drink water straight from the tap. It's very safe.

  • @tosinojo7310
    @tosinojo7310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I had a different experience growing p in Nigeria...I grew up in Abuja...drank Tap water without ever falling sick and life was very slow-paced. It's even slower in some other parts of the country usually in the North and places like UYO etc

    • @Brightbam
      @Brightbam 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're absolutely right.

  • @priscillasekon7379
    @priscillasekon7379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It’s so similar to living in Australia 🇦🇺 drinking water from the tap 🚰. In my country they boiled water also. I should share my experience living here in Australia 🇦🇺. They do the same thing here, “shame on you”, 😂 it’s just an expression. Same system over here in Australia 🇦🇺 Similar. Lovely video ❤️😊

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Awwn Thanks for watching ❤
      Please share your experiences I'll love to watch it...😊

    • @Yomiyankee
      @Yomiyankee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The expression, "shame on you" meaning what? Could you help me out?

  • @goldeneagleskyking6424
    @goldeneagleskyking6424 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Now u know why SAcans don't migrate to African countries, when coming to tap water.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😁😁😁....

    • @JanJan-pq4im
      @JanJan-pq4im 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow! You don't emigrate to other countries because of tap water? How stagnating a life!

    • @JanJan-pq4im
      @JanJan-pq4im 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@goldeneagleskyking6424
      If you say so.

    • @chika7086
      @chika7086 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@goldeneagleskyking6424 yeah and blame other people for your failures right lool

  • @edwinndaba126
    @edwinndaba126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    In Cape Town and Joburg, there's usually no music in the taxi or it plays very lightly

  • @a_potat
    @a_potat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Shame and must!!!! Literally! Been here for like two years and it still fascinates me.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😊

    • @theglen85
      @theglen85 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't really hear the "must" often... Or maybe depends on the area...

  • @PodcastCentral333
    @PodcastCentral333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Nigerians are welcome in South Africa great people

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awwn thanks ...❤

    • @briannebutaro6391
      @briannebutaro6391 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I approve ☑

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Brian 😊

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sibabalwesisowilson2164 I agree!

    • @molokomoloko5099
      @molokomoloko5099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Beautiful people

  • @albertmdabuka4480
    @albertmdabuka4480 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Welcome girl. This what the whole of Southern Africa is like. From Angola Zambia Malawi Moza Zim. Bots Namibia Lesotho and Swathini are like. No need to hurry at all

  • @Faith_gora
    @Faith_gora 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    New subscriber here! I feel like youtube recommended this video to me because I was in SA for the first time last week amd I had searched for some SA videos. Came on honey moon with my husband after so much convincing and I must tell you from the airport I was wowed. I’m not even suprised that health care is free cause that country is so organized and has a working system from all I see. I can only imagine the rude shock for you when you heard must and shame🤣
    Shame wouldn’t have suprised me though, I’ve always understood the context but that must ehn, KAII

  • @Blackberries729
    @Blackberries729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I was also shocked when i went to Ghana and we were told to never ever drink water from the tap,buying bottled and sachets water did not sit well with me. Also bathing/showering with cold water was quite an experience for me.

    • @vinoliaseshoka7907
      @vinoliaseshoka7907 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I would get sick bathing with cold water Yoh

    • @Officially_sabby
      @Officially_sabby 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      We should start appreciating what we have here

  • @mrsl2175
    @mrsl2175 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved this ❤️❤️❤️ and laughed so much when you mentioned the public displays of affection and the loud music from the taxi drivers 😅...I just subscribed

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much 💓

  • @n.gmdiniso2829
    @n.gmdiniso2829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I just loved your expressions especially on public affection 😂😂

  • @sitakelemswati
    @sitakelemswati 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Nigerians are nice people yesterday I was going to work and I decided to buy fat cakes at this other tea shop and when I was waiting on the queue, two Nigerian guys were in front of me and one offered to pay for my fat cakes and I refused but the guy insisted and then when I agreed he didn't even ask for my number. I guess I'm used to people doing things while expecting something in return

    • @khae74
      @khae74 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      See him again

    • @sitakelemswati
      @sitakelemswati 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@khae74 his a stranger that I only saw once

    • @mimigracious6886
      @mimigracious6886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Our boys can be very decent. Sometimes it's just about passing it on.

  • @sibusisongobese1611
    @sibusisongobese1611 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One taxi rule everyone must not forget in South Africa. If you tell a taxi driver to drive faster cos u late. That's like telling him to show you how slow a taxi can move on the road. They drive really slowly. If you complain, they tell you, you shouldn't have slept to catch a taxi early....

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂
      This is so true... it actually happened to me. 😂

  • @itumelengmonethi7682
    @itumelengmonethi7682 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    You are so beautiful, glad you enjoy South Africa

  • @pertuniamashoto8155
    @pertuniamashoto8155 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We love you sister, You are truly stating facts and we do love South Africa and we want the best for SA. Thank you sweety❤❤❤❤❤

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @mrsoshadabaadman
    @mrsoshadabaadman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The best tap water in South Africa is from Pietermaritzburg.

  • @gasenosiwemokomele7069
    @gasenosiwemokomele7069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Am Namibian our water is safe to drink. I will definitely not drink tap water from certain countries. We do have bottled water in the shops. Or purification systems,but our water is chlorinated. This means that locals can drink water from the tap without issue,its clear with no odor or funny taste. One way to tell if water is contaminated is to look for turbidity, or cloudiness. While cloudy water isn't necessarily dangerous to your health, it could signal the presence of unsafe pathogens or chemicals.
    Our water is safe to drink,to cook and bath with.

  • @dimpho3959
    @dimpho3959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    😂 You make South Africa seem like such a nice place

    • @molokomoloko5099
      @molokomoloko5099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Makes me feel so bad for not appreciating my country more

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't feel bad...

    • @lilianhaggland2031
      @lilianhaggland2031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I love South Africa and all my people, the whole rainbow nation.

    • @dimpho3959
      @dimpho3959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@molokomoloko5099 I think it's because we know SA can do much better than what it currently is.

    • @mrsoshadabaadman
      @mrsoshadabaadman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@dimpho3959 We will I promise. When we can have more inter country relations, we will be able to fix even our neighboring countries. It will take a long time. We got this.

  • @cocoa_pandle
    @cocoa_pandle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What a refreshing video🤍 We love to know your experiences and the differences. Lol I kind of had a problem with the slowness as well, and I’m South African😂😂😭

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching sis...❤

  • @asanda138
    @asanda138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow Big ups Sis. Loved your video very informative and positive. How I wish we could learn more about each other and from each other as African and stop fueling strife and divisiveness.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤❤❤

  • @xoliswasolombela7631
    @xoliswasolombela7631 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tola, I've downloaded your channel. It's very much interesting.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks 😂

  • @thandomatola4951
    @thandomatola4951 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Nice one sis T the issue noisy music in taxis is a Durban thing trust me. Where I come from drivers hardly play music especially with elders in. In Jhb the noise come from passengers speaking different languages loudly. PDA you find in cities. People in cities are mostly visitors from various areas and they feel free in the city to do anything, even with dressing. Some cant dress anyhow where they come from. So city life is completely different

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I need to experience the rural setting. There seems to be so many misconceptions about South Africans based on what we see in the city. Thanks for clearing this up...❤❤❤

  • @MsMousy82
    @MsMousy82 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video! 💌
    I have 2 things to say, I was born and raised in Johannesburg and I am accustomed to the lifestyle here and the general speed of Jhb, however, I spent almost 3 years in Durban.
    It's true, Durban people have a very laid back approach to everything, it used to really frustrate me to be fair.
    The other thing is that only Dbn taxi's and buses do everything times 10! Volume in the taxi is always on 100 and buses load people up like sardines...

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😄😄😄

  • @goldenstar9379
    @goldenstar9379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My dear , oooh I have enjoyed this your talk show . Am South African from Cape Town . Am happy that you enjoy the benefits of the country.But please go to Cape Town and live there.My sister has told me that Nigerians live a good live .
    Thanks Sis , and congratulations.

  • @sekgabimasobe9690
    @sekgabimasobe9690 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hahahhaahha love the public affection good one ❤❤❤❤

  • @leratomogane4404
    @leratomogane4404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    "shame on who" killed me🤣🤣 in SA "shame" can mean a lot of things that have nothing to do with disgrace, mostly used to express empathy or understanding.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂😂
      So I've heard...😊

    • @nickmolea6111
      @nickmolea6111 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same here

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤎🤎🤎

  • @sabrinamobley1978
    @sabrinamobley1978 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Health care is free? My goodness! That's an amazing selling point on the country.

  • @petranakale3160
    @petranakale3160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am Namibian. I remember going to Nigeria in 2016. People warn us not to drink water from the tap. Was very weird for us cause we drink it straight from the tap here. We had to buy water for that week.

    • @naame-owoyeya-malapi2454
      @naame-owoyeya-malapi2454 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I had the same experience in uganda....we take things for granded hey....Namibia ❤

  • @pleasant1425
    @pleasant1425 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Lovely video, the plastic and shame was really funny 😁 and so true. I think as a South African if I went to Nigeria I would also struggle a bit. 😊❤️
    I also like how you appreciated the health care but as South Africans we really don’t. 😊

  • @NormaJileka
    @NormaJileka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Watch SA Idols and you will see that the best singer will get a huuuge "wooooooooooooooo SHAME"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.. Thank you for this.. We don't even appreciate free education, heath etc as south africans and its a shame

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂😂 Somi does that a lot!

  • @otichiamaka1458
    @otichiamaka1458 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always love watching your videos because whenever I do I always learn one or two things and at the same time, I laugh. The way you describe things can be so hilarious. Well done!

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @RastaAfricanGentleman
    @RastaAfricanGentleman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am from Durban and I truly can relate with most things said here especially the music. I Durban the faster the taxi or minibus, the louder the music gets. They use this method to block out any commuter complaints and also try to distract commuters from noticing how fast the driver is going. Its truly an experience LOL

  • @choco-qk2wo
    @choco-qk2wo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You are actually effortlessly funny, I love this😂❤️❤️

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😊 Thanks

  • @siphokazizuma7861
    @siphokazizuma7861 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I thoroughly enjoyed this video 😂❤️ As an individual I could relate to almost everything that was mentioned 😅and yes people from Durban really are laid back 🙂

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm glad you enjoyed it... check out part 2....😊
      th-cam.com/video/6-Sx-oX_eJ0/w-d-xo.html

  • @dorahmohlago4638
    @dorahmohlago4638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I stumbled on this video I am glad we are having our brothers and sisters that are enjoying South African.I am South Africa by birth but my entire life I have surrounded by Africans from outside South Africa mostly west Africas .i am happy to see positive posts like this about South Africa.All the "free things" come from tax that all citizens are paying, if all other african leaders can understand this concept. A place like Nigeria will be like heaven with population size they have. But nice video overall.

  • @AfricanHope
    @AfricanHope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    OMG! I forget that in Nigeria you drive on the other side 😹🤞 this is so interesting for me. Being a South African in another country.
    Wow I’ve never heard of not drinking tap water. It’s interesting! I’m so used to drinking tap water

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was a HUGE adjustment for me...😊
      Tap water is life!...

    • @africanandproud6792
      @africanandproud6792 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought all former British colonies drive on the left. Hmmmm.. My bad

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought we all drove in the right in Africa...

    • @BlackDoveNYC
      @BlackDoveNYC 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      In the U.S. they drive on the right. Canada too. For some reason I thought this was true of New Zealand but I can’t remember.

  • @tshegomasemola4726
    @tshegomasemola4726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was a bit worried when I saw the title. Not all Nigerians feel the way you feel about SA. I'm pleasantly surprised about the positive reviews on SA.

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😊😊😊

  • @Cookingwithpatricia
    @Cookingwithpatricia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You forgot to mention we are always in time for our appointments, we don't use African time😂😂 lovely video thank you👏👏

  • @makhosanamashiane
    @makhosanamashiane 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Enjoyed watching this so funny and relaxed! ❤️

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤❤❤

  • @keystonekakoma4889
    @keystonekakoma4889 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I'm from Zambia 🇿🇲 I have a friend down there n because of what people say about the crime rate, I always decline the invitation. I feel a bit comfortable to visit after watching this video

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm glad to hear this...❤

    • @nassautaifa423
      @nassautaifa423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You "must" come through 😁 It's actually not bad at all.

    • @felicia4398
      @felicia4398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s really not as terrible as they make it out to be. There are crime hotspots and there are very safe neighborhoods. One just needs to be vigilant in CBD areas and take general safety measures for your home. Do come my brother, you’re going to love it.😊

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

  • @marvinluyandasonakile9522
    @marvinluyandasonakile9522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is an eye opener. I love that you are not only sharing your experience but that you are teaching. Keep up the great work. I am a fan. 💕❤️

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Awwn....❤❤❤

  • @TinoSparks
    @TinoSparks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    great video. i recently made a cultural shock video as well from a Zimbabwean point of view. i like how thefe is so much diversity in Africa. I would like to meet up with different cultures and experience it all

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I will check it out! Thanks for watching!...❤

  • @Malisti04
    @Malisti04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    the public display of affection is relatively new to us too, especialy the Blacks. must it must because of the rise of soapies like "Bold n Beautiful " and "Days of Our Lives"

    • @seimela
      @seimela 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      WT@FF

    • @ministerejen
      @ministerejen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I used to wonder why africans can express love in public.

    • @ministerejen
      @ministerejen 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can't*

    • @JanJan-pq4im
      @JanJan-pq4im 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Malisti04
      The American soap operas?

  • @mokgadisdiary8420
    @mokgadisdiary8420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    So in Naija when I use "must" in a sentence it means I'm fighting? Yhoo I won't survive 😂😂😂 also, I use shame a lot, like.. A helluva lot

  • @NavigatewithIzziA
    @NavigatewithIzziA 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Pls keep giving us contents like this. I love it 😍😍❤️

    • @TolaLusi
      @TolaLusi  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Noted sis. Thanks...❤

  • @lunariousmoon
    @lunariousmoon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There's this Taxi driver that does runs in my street, the way his Volume is so high the bass actually vibrates the area

  • @funsidewithravenfury2852
    @funsidewithravenfury2852 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I laughed so hard on the "shame" one. We're so used to it we don't notice it's something strange to foreigners