Maria Luisa Clare is to be thanked. I got my self my dream house 🏠 just last weekend, My journey with her started after my best friend came back from New York and saw me suffering in dept then told me about her and how to change my life through trading with her. Maria L. Clare is the kind of person one needs in his or her life!
Tyson the man! I feel you. I hate going out in large groups. Large parties and events don’t sound fun to me at all. A one-on-one with a close friend at a cafe or a movie or hike is cool with me. And after that, give me 2 weeks of alone time to recuperate from that little social outing! Haha! 😂😂
Listen to your instincts. If one night, you're finding that you don't want to go out, don't go out! Some nights, I'll be invited to an outing but if I sit down and think, I realize that the idea of staying at home and eating a grilled cheese while watching a tv show makes me more happy than going to a party. And I can literally feel the difference in my body. I know you may be worried that you'll become a hermit but I really don't think that's a concern most people need to have unless they are severely depressed. Generally, your mind and body is actually pretty good at signaling for what it needs. When you need social interaction, your mind/body will make you feel lonely. And when you need to stay home, your body will make you tired/introverted etc. Learning to listen to my body has been so helpful because I'm able to tune into what I actually need and want in life
Great video, thank you for sharing your story. You almost put some tears in my eyes when you said you tried to make friends with people who are just bullies in your high school. I was exactly the same. Luckily we had gone through that stage and we know what we want in our lives.
I understand what you are saying. I love it when women say," Aren't gay men so sensitive!". I think "what planet are YOU living on?" Sometimes a conversation with someone is an exercise in futility.for me. Being in nature can be so healing for me. I like staying home also with my Blu Rays, books and CDs. There are actually good gays out there who are not superficial and cliquish but I am not sure where they are anymore. You seem like a decent guy and I hope you find what you need.
I suffer from Asperger's, a type of Autism. Every time I try to go and socialize, I end up either going back home or having an anxiety attack. It has kind of gotten worse since I came out, especially since I live in a small, semi-religious town in Arizona. Being bullied psychology as a child, it left an imprint in my head, mainly them saying, "You're fat. You're hideous. You are going to die alone." That's why I isolated myself for years, never going out, never getting help. But, after a major health scare I had, I am done letting my past win. I am seeing a therapist who is helping me instead of just listening to me. It's going to take a long time, but I am on my way to be a happy guy in this world. Good luck to you for the next year, and, hopefully, things will work out for both of us. Sorry, I just needed to vent, and this video brought up a lot of feelings.
@@MatthewNelson-i9y LOL I prefer looking at it nihilistically: NOTHING matters so ultimately your experience is just as valid as theirs. People may laugh at and bully you now and then, but they’ll be dirt in 100 years and eventually everyone will forget their names, so do what makes you happy instead and take risks knowing that the same fate will eventually meet you, ultimately no gods or people judging you in the end.
In the past, I wanted to fit in to the gay community, improved my appearance dramatically, and it still resonated flat with me. That said, it still comes back every so often. I'm in one of those stages right now where I want to get back to the gym, eat right, sleep, etc. Not sure why I worry about it so much. I like living alone, and all of my immediate friends are straight. I have gay friends that I see maybe once a year at a pool party and communicate every so often on social media. I've had two LTRs, the first lasting 5 years and the second 3. Friends and lover relationships are a lot of work, and I don't know if I want to pursue any of it anymore. It becomes a blur as to whether I'm a little lonely or just like being alone. I do wish that I had had a relationship that lasted a lifetime, including friends, but they always walk out. No particular drama or fight, they just leave. Anyway, I'm hoping , no, I'm going to make 2025 the best year. Hope you do the same.
2024 was one of the hardest years ever!!! I love the message you’re putting out. I totally hear u. Thank you cause I feel like such a loner at times but I know there are others that feel the same. Being alone and being lonely. Ur exactly right two different things. ❤
You asked for tips: stay in your hermit Phase as long as it feels good. Find ways that it feels good, watch your favorites movies, take care of yourself, literally have date nights with yourself and put the effort you pour into relationships into YOU. And when you feel excited to connect again see who comes up synchronisitically, like maybe someone talks to you in the gym or you feel the urge to compliment someone in the talk Park and just go with the flow and keep the focus on you. YOU are your most important person. Otherwise you have nothing to give anyways. Fill your own cup and enjoy. Much love❤
Hi Tyson. I really enjoy your videos. Thank you so much for sharing. Yeah, people can be too much sometimes, I totally agree. Don’t tolerate unkind people or disrespectful people. Your personality is kind and friendly and that’s the kind of people that hopefully end up in your orbit. If you need time away from people, do what makes you happy. You have to do what makes you comfortable. I do wish for you to find an awesome friend or two that are going to appreciate you and make you happy. Take care.
OMG!!! I’m going through this right now honestly it’s been a blessing and it sucks being social isolated you reflect on your life and what you wanna do and who you want to be in your life. 2024 was a lesson year for me and I’m grateful for this lesson because it was the next step to growing up as I’m leaving my 20’s and entering my 30’s. 2025 is the year where I focus on myself I’ll be there for my friends but mainly I gotta focus on ME.
I wish I was one of your friends tbh. I enjoy introverts, such smart and interesting people. I find myself not wanting to make new friends since people have been disappointing to me. I’ve tried being the friend that I wish I had like respecting boundaries and being supportive. I noticed that ive been wasting my time trying to be there for others that aren’t there for me in return. This year especially as I’m getting back on track, I find myself wanting to be alone more and more. I do get really sad when the loneliness inevitably creeps in but sometimes id rather welcome the sadness than being around people that are jerks to me for no apparent reason.
I needed this video conversation so so much I’ve been in this same space lately, so this video gave me some peacefulness knowing I’m not alone, I’ve deleted some social media apps and blocked and deleted so called friends “ I feel so much lighter and more happy and free. Xoxo
100% agree about not having a friend group. I enjoy having small pockets of friends. Unfortunately becoming friends in the gay community is hard because everyone leads with sex. Most of my gay friends I hooked up with initially and then we became friends. And if you think gay life is tough in Arizona, try it in LA and NYC. It's on another level.
i seen u comment on the guy who made that video lol it was from ur main youtube account. good to see you open up like this cause lets me know im not alone. love that we get to see u grow into a better person each video.
I totally feel you. I have social anxiety and trauma from bullying and other awful experiences. You don't need to fit in that community, everyone of us even if gay, bisexual or whatever is different and that's okay! I mean how are we supposed to be friends with people that don't share the same values of us and the only thing in common is being gay. I think it's not enough at all! The people that judge you are not your friends in my opinion. A few advises I can give you are: be more in contact with nature, name your emotions and meditate everyday. Other ideas, if you wanna socialize are to join a sport that can let you express yourself and be authentic. I think hitting at the gym is great but I think sports are therapeutic for building up connections (it has not to be a popular sport in the US). Be you, I think you're just disappointed by people. I am too for everything I've been experienced
Be yourself and if others try to judge you from your outside. Don't worry as long as you do not let them inside. Whats in your heart is more important than what's between your legs.
This video Tyler, really resonates with me, like many of your videos and what you say is so important especially about respecting yourself/having boundaries and loving yourself as well as so-called friends' behaviours! You are an inspiration and I am grateful for your content on YT - Thank you Tyler, you are a real gem. I am so happy when your new videos pop up. Also, all those people who criticise you are really very jealous and resentful of you as you are shining your light!
Ive been watching you sine 2018 and I'm proud of how far you've come. I love that you've taught me little things here and there about myself while you discover things about yourself. I moved out from my parents the beginning of this year with my boyfriend and the little advice you share about self love and self worth have really stuck with me, its given me the self validation I needed and was searching for. I know that sometimes these videos could see pointless or like they're not getting the attention that they deserve but I promise you that these videos you post/make help many like myself find themselves when they don't have anyone to look up to or necessary talk to someone about embarrassing thoughts one might have. Thank you for always keeping it real and for always doing what you love no matter what people say about it. your drive to do whatever you want without caring what others think is so inspiring. Thank you Tyson
So relate to what you said. Gay community has been this way for years and it's worse in 2024 as the world has changed a lot. Hang in there. I agree spending time alone is better than compromising your values. Struggling with this myself or I would give yiu some leads. If I figure something out I will post back. Stay strong and things work out for a reason. Best advice is hold on to that. All the best.
Hey, Tyson, bro: two things. 1. Has it ever occurred to you that you might be perceiving people as looking down on you when it's mainly in your mind? That they actuality don't think less of you. 2. Sounds like you need a good genuine friend. It's not necessarily a "gay" thing. Men struggle to find true and meaningful friendships. Good luck & God bless. Hugs!
Hi there. Thank you for posting this and sharing your thoughts and feelings. I completely relate and I am older, in my fifties, and still experience the same disappointment in the gay community and just have a small collection of friends that I never meet with together. They’re all different and do not mix well. I spend a lot of time alone and enjoy my private time. I would like a fuller life, but would it be better??? I don’t know. You are such a ray of sunshine and I really appreciate your insights so even if you are having trouble connecting with others, you are not the problem. People are really missing out by passing you by or judging you or being catty and mean. You’re such a great guy, I hope that you can hear that from your audience that watches and values your videos. Take good care!
As much as I’ve become used to and feel comfortable with living alone in the U.K. 23 years with family living in Rural Ireland, during Covid, I realised that this has been by design long before Covid, especially around Christmas time - social isolation has been forced onto a lot of people even more so in the last 10 years before Covid and they talk about this in Japanese culture, but here in the west and among gay people, I suspect that it’s because of technology that is driving this - I came across this video for an AI robot boyfriend the other day and my instant reaction was “no thanks” - it’s like typing in a search for gay porn and being bombarded with straight porn search results - I hate using self-service checkouts in supermarkets and I’ll always go to a real person if I possibly can, as it’s so important to not lose that all-important human connection, as AI and other tech advances are replacing many supermarket jobs nowdays
I think it's ok to isolate sometimes, but I also think it's ok to understand that sometimes it's ok to be around others. And similar to criticisms, judgements can also be constructive as well. Sure it depends on how you take it, but it's not always bad.
Wish we could get to know each other Tyson your exactly like me and I think we’d get along great. Ik it’s hard to sift through the freaks on here I do. I’ve been dealt sh*tty hands by the universe. But idk thought I’d still shoot my shot. You’re a great man Tyson and u deserve someone who treats u normally and respectfully.
Glad I’m not alone in how I’ve been feeling about one’s life. It seems impossible to find normal ppl let alone someone that’s your type. Then go through all the time of getting to know them truly to see if they are good enough to live with and date seriously. Ya lots of fun.
I go to work and come home and basically stay in my room until I have to work again. I've been hurt, used, and at times abused by people. Yes, I'm lonely, but unfortunately I'm trying to salvage what little self worth I have left. Sorry if I overshared in any way.
Greetings from San Juan, Puerto Rico. Blessings… Your Inner Light Irritates their inner Demons within them. This is called Envy. Keep being Kind, Wonderful and Handsome. You are Awesome.
Hang in there. You are a good looking man, and will have no time in finding that special someone. Just keep all your doors open a crack so when the person enters your life, they will be able to come in and join you. Hell is if was 30 years younger, I would join you! Life is a road with a great number of major pot holes. Get thru the bumps and it is really worth the journey. I have had 4 great loves in my life, so just keep on plodding thru.
Your Vibe attracts your Tribe. You are living your life very publicly by making these TH-cam videos and your “spicy” content. Of course some people will judge you, kind of goes with the territory. You have shared your “experiences” very publicly and being an introvert myself that is something that I don’t really do. Sharing your private moments with other guys in a platform like this is like kissing & telling. Not everyone is into that. Haters are gonna Hate, but posts like this one here can be perceived as attention seeking, maybe that’s not really your intent. Possibly Re-evaluate why you feel the need to live your life so openly if you aren’t willing to get some feedback, positive or otherwise. 😎
Friends are tough to find. Especially good one’s. And me as a gay person I totally agree the gay sex thing is just out of control in your face. It’s completely out of control and they love to bully for sure
Recently...Don't know why...am social isolating myself😮...even holidays, first time wish Christmas was over before its started😂 just thinking about socializing in gatherings! But do like Christmas lights😂
Im single., retired and work part time....I LOVE my time w/myself....its perfectly fine..I do have work friends and a number of friends online where i can chat about all kinds of subjects..and NOT about gay stuff.......I do like quiet surroundings and dont like being distracted by constant shallow bs. I also like not having to answer to anyone as to my schedule or what time to eat and do i have to make my bed or not. Id rather be single than w/someone who Im not totally in love with and he the same w/me.. I do socialize some here and there. Going out also can be expensive. I just have to say I love the mainly quiet surroundings that allow me to seek out all kinds of knowledge online and keep my mind busy with substantial things.....being alone does not mean you are lonely.
I get the importance of sticking together as gay men, but I feel like the only thing we really have in common is our sexual orientation and oppression, which in my opinion is not really a good basis for a strong friendship. IMO what matters most is having shared values with the people you try to befriend. I couldn’t imagine ever being friends with a conservative religious person for instance, and even some gay men are like that, LOL.
Boy, asking for the moon! I think you should have high standards and be protective of your emotional self, but Tyson, you have to be realistic. We're all flawed and damaged goods somewhere in our experience, and you need tolerance for that. Perhaps you isolate and become introverted because your expectations of others needs a reality check. Be happy beautiful!
I feel you Tyson. I've felt lonely when I used to go to the clubs all the time and hang out with self-centered drama gays who made fun of others. I wanted to fit in so bad, I would spend money on new clothes, cologne, getting my hair cut, and beard shaped up every 2 weeks. It wasn't worth the effort. I started to hang out at home more because it was just giving me anxiety and couldn't deal with them anymore. I moved to Florida. There's a lot to do here but it's been hard finding friends here because it's such vacation destination. The guys on the apps just want to sleep with you and that's it. I told myself in 2020 it was my year to socialize and break out of my shell, and we all know how that year ended up. This year had a few good moments but nothing really lasted. Please don't set the expectation too high for 2025. Just make an effort for one on one friendships and forget about the groups of bitchy pretty gays who all sleep with each other. I think I'm just gonna try and make some str8 friends, the gays seem like a waste of time and effort. I rather go to the beach, camping, or travel then be at a gay event.
I think part of the issue is that you’re not Lindsey Lohan, you’re also Regina but you dislike seeing other people play the role cause it causes some unwanted introspection
Oooooof I just reached the “tired of trying” with the socialization, I tried to become friends with people at work and I even asked a guy if he wanted to hang out and he hit me with the “I’ll let you know” so the “loneliness epidemic” is real but online friends really do fill that void especially when you start planning trips with people.
Been isolating since my partner of 10 years passed 2 years ago . Work and errands are pretty much the only time I leave the house
I'm 47yrs old. $73,000 biweekly and I'm retired, this video have inspired me greatly in many ways as a recovered addict!!!!❤️
I'm highly inspired.
Please spill some sugar about the bi-weekly stuff you mentioned.
Maria Luisa Clare is to be thanked. I got my self my dream house 🏠 just last weekend, My journey with her started after my best friend came back from New York and saw me suffering in dept then told me about her and how to change my life through trading with her. Maria L. Clare is the kind of person one needs in his or her life!
Absolutely! I've heard stories of people who started with little to no knowledge but made it out victoriously thanks to Maria Luisa Clare.
Wow 😱 I know her too
Miss Maria Luisa Clare is a remarkable individual whom has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life.
I started with a miserly $1500. The results have been mind blowing I must say TBH!
It’s really eye opening and healing to spend time with yourself. You’ll come out of it. But don’t shame yourself for isolating.
This Videos was so fcking real, Tyson. Do whatever makes you feel good. You got this.
Dude- this is a sign of growth and healing. Keep looking inward. You are enough. You are good. Validation and fulfillment comes from within.
Tyson the man! I feel you. I hate going out in large groups. Large parties and events don’t sound fun to me at all. A one-on-one with a close friend at a cafe or a movie or hike is cool with me. And after that, give me 2 weeks of alone time to recuperate from that little social outing! Haha! 😂😂
Nb.
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Listen to your instincts. If one night, you're finding that you don't want to go out, don't go out!
Some nights, I'll be invited to an outing but if I sit down and think, I realize that the idea of staying at home and eating a grilled cheese while watching a tv show makes me more happy than going to a party. And I can literally feel the difference in my body.
I know you may be worried that you'll become a hermit but I really don't think that's a concern most people need to have unless they are severely depressed.
Generally, your mind and body is actually pretty good at signaling for what it needs. When you need social interaction, your mind/body will make you feel lonely. And when you need to stay home, your body will make you tired/introverted etc.
Learning to listen to my body has been so helpful because I'm able to tune into what I actually need and want in life
You are such a blessing to us introverts who are
good people who aren't that social to see we aren't alone and are important and God is using you bud
Thank you for making this video. You are preaching to the choir.
Sometimes, it can be a good thing to withdraw from the social whirl and rethink our priorities. 😊 Be well Ty.
Raise your hand if you're lonely! We're (not) loud! We're (not) proud! We probably should be in therapy! 🥳
Great video, thank you for sharing your story. You almost put some tears in my eyes when you said you tried to make friends with people who are just bullies in your high school. I was exactly the same. Luckily we had gone through that stage and we know what we want in our lives.
I see a similar reflection of myself through you Tyson throughout your videos especially this one
I wish you a happier New Year!
I understand what you are saying. I love it when women say," Aren't gay men so sensitive!". I think "what planet are YOU living on?" Sometimes a conversation with someone is an exercise in futility.for me. Being in nature can be so healing for me. I like staying home also with my Blu Rays, books and CDs. There are actually good gays out there who are not superficial and cliquish but I am not sure where they are anymore. You seem like a decent guy and I hope you find what you need.
I suffer from Asperger's, a type of Autism. Every time I try to go and socialize, I end up either going back home or having an anxiety attack. It has kind of gotten worse since I came out, especially since I live in a small, semi-religious town in Arizona. Being bullied psychology as a child, it left an imprint in my head, mainly them saying, "You're fat. You're hideous. You are going to die alone." That's why I isolated myself for years, never going out, never getting help. But, after a major health scare I had, I am done letting my past win. I am seeing a therapist who is helping me instead of just listening to me. It's going to take a long time, but I am on my way to be a happy guy in this world. Good luck to you for the next year, and, hopefully, things will work out for both of us.
Sorry, I just needed to vent, and this video brought up a lot of feelings.
Remember that you are special and you matter forget the haters!!
@@MatthewNelson-i9y LOL I prefer looking at it nihilistically: NOTHING matters so ultimately your experience is just as valid as theirs. People may laugh at and bully you now and then, but they’ll be dirt in 100 years and eventually everyone will forget their names, so do what makes you happy instead and take risks knowing that the same fate will eventually meet you, ultimately no gods or people judging you in the end.
What an insightful guy you sound like! Please keep on working to be your best, happy self. The Heavens have your back!
In the past, I wanted to fit in to the gay community, improved my appearance dramatically, and it still resonated flat with me. That said, it still comes back every so often. I'm in one of those stages right now where I want to get back to the gym, eat right, sleep, etc. Not sure why I worry about it so much. I like living alone, and all of my immediate friends are straight. I have gay friends that I see maybe once a year at a pool party and communicate every so often on social media. I've had two LTRs, the first lasting 5 years and the second 3. Friends and lover relationships are a lot of work, and I don't know if I want to pursue any of it anymore. It becomes a blur as to whether I'm a little lonely or just like being alone. I do wish that I had had a relationship that lasted a lifetime, including friends, but they always walk out. No particular drama or fight, they just leave. Anyway, I'm hoping , no, I'm going to make 2025 the best year. Hope you do the same.
You aren't alone Tyson....you have your cat and your Mum's dog..... ❤❤❤
Thank you for articulating how I’ve been feeling for the last 3 years. Hang in there! And likewise, I’d rather be alone than mocked!
2024 was one of the hardest years ever!!! I love the message you’re putting out. I totally hear u. Thank you cause I feel like such a loner at times but I know there are others that feel the same. Being alone and being lonely. Ur exactly right two different things. ❤
You asked for tips: stay in your hermit Phase as long as it feels good. Find ways that it feels good, watch your favorites movies, take care of yourself, literally have date nights with yourself and put the effort you pour into relationships into YOU. And when you feel excited to connect again see who comes up synchronisitically, like maybe someone talks to you in the gym or you feel the urge to compliment someone in the talk Park and just go with the flow and keep the focus on you. YOU are your most important person. Otherwise you have nothing to give anyways. Fill your own cup and enjoy. Much love❤
Hi Tyson. I really enjoy your videos. Thank you so much for sharing.
Yeah, people can be too much sometimes, I totally agree.
Don’t tolerate unkind people or disrespectful people. Your personality is kind and friendly and that’s the kind of people that hopefully end up in your orbit.
If you need time away from people, do what makes you happy. You have to do what makes you comfortable.
I do wish for you to find an awesome friend or two that are going to appreciate you and make you happy.
Take care.
OMG!!! I’m going through this right now honestly it’s been a blessing and it sucks being social isolated you reflect on your life and what you wanna do and who you want to be in your life. 2024 was a lesson year for me and I’m grateful for this lesson because it was the next step to growing up as I’m leaving my 20’s and entering my 30’s. 2025 is the year where I focus on myself I’ll be there for my friends but mainly I gotta focus on ME.
I wish I was one of your friends tbh. I enjoy introverts, such smart and interesting people. I find myself not wanting to make new friends since people have been disappointing to me. I’ve tried being the friend that I wish I had like respecting boundaries and being supportive. I noticed that ive been wasting my time trying to be there for others that aren’t there for me in return. This year especially as I’m getting back on track, I find myself wanting to be alone more and more. I do get really sad when the loneliness inevitably creeps in but sometimes id rather welcome the sadness than being around people that are jerks to me for no apparent reason.
I needed this video conversation so so much
I’ve been in this same space lately, so this video gave me some peacefulness knowing I’m not alone, I’ve deleted some social media apps and blocked and deleted so called friends “
I feel so much lighter and more happy and free.
Xoxo
100% agree about not having a friend group. I enjoy having small pockets of friends. Unfortunately becoming friends in the gay community is hard because everyone leads with sex. Most of my gay friends I hooked up with initially and then we became friends. And if you think gay life is tough in Arizona, try it in LA and NYC. It's on another level.
i seen u comment on the guy who made that video lol it was from ur main youtube account. good to see you open up like this cause lets me know im not alone. love that we get to see u grow into a better person each video.
I totally feel you. I have social anxiety and trauma from bullying and other awful experiences. You don't need to fit in that community, everyone of us even if gay, bisexual or whatever is different and that's okay! I mean how are we supposed to be friends with people that don't share the same values of us and the only thing in common is being gay. I think it's not enough at all! The people that judge you are not your friends in my opinion. A few advises I can give you are: be more in contact with nature, name your emotions and meditate everyday. Other ideas, if you wanna socialize are to join a sport that can let you express yourself and be authentic. I think hitting at the gym is great but I think sports are therapeutic for building up connections (it has not to be a popular sport in the US). Be you, I think you're just disappointed by people. I am too for everything I've been experienced
Be yourself and if others try to judge you from your outside. Don't worry as long as you do not let them inside. Whats in your heart is more important than what's between your legs.
This video Tyler, really resonates with me, like many of your videos and what you say is so important especially about respecting yourself/having boundaries and loving yourself as well as so-called friends' behaviours! You are an inspiration and I am grateful for your content on YT - Thank you Tyler, you are a real gem. I am so happy when your new videos pop up. Also, all those people who criticise you are really very jealous and resentful of you as you are shining your light!
You seem to be really out going for an introvert . You're so cute
Ive been watching you sine 2018 and I'm proud of how far you've come. I love that you've taught me little things here and there about myself while you discover things about yourself. I moved out from my parents the beginning of this year with my boyfriend and the little advice you share about self love and self worth have really stuck with me, its given me the self validation I needed and was searching for. I know that sometimes these videos could see pointless or like they're not getting the attention that they deserve but I promise you that these videos you post/make help many like myself find themselves when they don't have anyone to look up to or necessary talk to someone about embarrassing thoughts one might have. Thank you for always keeping it real and for always doing what you love no matter what people say about it. your drive to do whatever you want without caring what others think is so inspiring. Thank you Tyson
Oh how cute. 🌲 This guy !
It's like a desert squirrel waking up from a nap.🐧
So relate to what you said. Gay community has been this way for years and it's worse in 2024 as the world has changed a lot. Hang in there. I agree spending time alone is better than compromising your values. Struggling with this myself or I would give yiu some leads. If I figure something out I will post back. Stay strong and things work out for a reason. Best advice is hold on to that. All the best.
You’re not alone bro I’m the same way
Hey, Tyson, bro: two things.
1. Has it ever occurred to you that you might be perceiving people as looking down on you when it's mainly in your mind? That they actuality don't think less of you.
2. Sounds like you need a good genuine friend. It's not necessarily a "gay" thing. Men struggle to find true and meaningful friendships.
Good luck & God bless. Hugs!
Classic himbo not getting enough attention energy ✨
Maybe try crying to your onlyfans community about how you expect respect but want to give none
Amen king the “gay community” is not my cup of tea and I am of the persuasion
Ikr I always isolate tbh🫂
Hi there. Thank you for posting this and sharing your thoughts and feelings. I completely relate and I am older, in my fifties, and still experience the same disappointment in the gay community and just have a small collection of friends that I never meet with together. They’re all different and do not mix well. I spend a lot of time alone and enjoy my private time. I would like a fuller life, but would it be better??? I don’t know.
You are such a ray of sunshine and I really appreciate your insights so even if you are having trouble connecting with others, you are not the problem. People are really missing out by passing you by or judging you or being catty and mean. You’re such a great guy, I hope that you can hear that from your audience that watches and values your videos. Take good care!
I’m 64 years old everything you’re saying I get, welcome to the club you’re not alone
As much as I’ve become used to and feel comfortable with living alone in the U.K. 23 years with family living in Rural Ireland, during Covid, I realised that this has been by design long before Covid, especially around Christmas time - social isolation has been forced onto a lot of people even more so in the last 10 years before Covid and they talk about this in Japanese culture, but here in the west and among gay people, I suspect that it’s because of technology that is driving this - I came across this video for an AI robot boyfriend the other day and my instant reaction was “no thanks” - it’s like typing in a search for gay porn and being bombarded with straight porn search results - I hate using self-service checkouts in supermarkets and I’ll always go to a real person if I possibly can, as it’s so important to not lose that all-important human connection, as AI and other tech advances are replacing many supermarket jobs nowdays
I think it's ok to isolate sometimes, but I also think it's ok to understand that sometimes it's ok to be around others.
And similar to criticisms, judgements can also be constructive as well. Sure it depends on how you take it, but it's not always bad.
Wish we could get to know each other Tyson your exactly like me and I think we’d get along great.
Ik it’s hard to sift through the freaks on here I do. I’ve been dealt sh*tty hands by the universe. But idk thought I’d still shoot my shot. You’re a great man Tyson and u deserve someone who treats u normally and respectfully.
We are all in a work in progress. Definitely better to be by yourself than with people who are not nice or not for you.
As a 64 year old who spends a lot of time alone, congrats for realizing tnis stuff at such a young point. Mean Girls? That's so fetch! Lacey Chabert😛
Glad I’m not alone in how I’ve been feeling about one’s life.
It seems impossible to find normal ppl let alone someone that’s your type. Then go through all the time of getting to know them truly to see if they are good enough to live with and date seriously.
Ya lots of fun.
I go to work and come home and basically stay in my room until I have to work again. I've been hurt, used, and at times abused by people. Yes, I'm lonely, but unfortunately I'm trying to salvage what little self worth I have left. Sorry if I overshared in any way.
I just imagine your friends being fake. Like you clearly.
Your feelings are shared. ❤
Greetings from San Juan, Puerto Rico. Blessings… Your Inner Light Irritates their inner Demons within them. This is called Envy. Keep being Kind, Wonderful and Handsome. You are Awesome.
Hang in there. You are a good looking man, and will have no time in finding that special someone. Just keep all your doors open a crack so when the person enters your life, they will be able to come in and join you. Hell is if was 30 years younger, I would join you!
Life is a road with a great number of major pot holes. Get thru the bumps and it is really worth the journey. I have had 4 great loves in my life, so just keep on plodding thru.
Let’s be friends!?🥺 you truly seem so genuine
Me and my boyfriend dropped all are gay friends 10 years ago. Best decision ever, no more drama.
Your Vibe attracts your Tribe. You are living your life very publicly by making these TH-cam videos and your “spicy” content. Of course some people will judge you, kind of goes with the territory. You have shared your “experiences” very publicly and being an introvert myself that is something that I don’t really do. Sharing your private moments with other guys in a platform like this is like kissing & telling. Not everyone is into that. Haters are gonna Hate, but posts like this one here can be perceived as attention seeking, maybe that’s not really your intent. Possibly Re-evaluate why you feel the need to live your life so openly if you aren’t willing to get some feedback, positive or otherwise. 😎
Keep being picky with the company you keep. You know your own worth.👍
I know EXACTLY what you're going through
Be your independent self. Don't concern yourself with trying to fit in.
People will almost always disappoint you. It is a fact of life, like Trump.
Friends are tough to find. Especially good one’s. And me as a gay person I totally agree the gay sex thing is just out of control in your face. It’s completely out of control and they love to bully for sure
Hang in there‼️🙂
Recently...Don't know why...am social isolating myself😮...even holidays, first time wish Christmas was over before its started😂 just thinking about socializing in gatherings! But do like Christmas lights😂
I think you have so many great points.. better than you realize, bud. ~Dominic Dionisi
Ppl are truly shit u try so hard and u just get used over n over no one wants to put in energy to ppl they just expect u too.
Its great
You look always beautiful sweetie and just u know be yourself and I'm always here for you and it will be better ❤️❤️
Im single., retired and work part time....I LOVE my time w/myself....its perfectly fine..I do have work friends and a number of friends online where i can chat about all kinds of subjects..and NOT about gay stuff.......I do like quiet surroundings and dont like being distracted by constant shallow bs. I also like not having to answer to anyone as to my schedule or what time to eat and do i have to make my bed or not. Id rather be single than w/someone who Im not totally in love with and he the same w/me.. I do socialize some here and there. Going out also can be expensive. I just have to say I love the mainly quiet surroundings that allow me to seek out all kinds of knowledge online and keep my mind busy with substantial things.....being alone does not mean you are lonely.
10:31 🤣🤣🤣
I get the importance of sticking together as gay men, but I feel like the only thing we really have in common is our sexual orientation and oppression, which in my opinion is not really a good basis for a strong friendship. IMO what matters most is having shared values with the people you try to befriend. I couldn’t imagine ever being friends with a conservative religious person for instance, and even some gay men are like that, LOL.
I love that 😂
I always wanted to go to a gay themed party, but dress covered up
Like those gay cruise themed parties
I think it would be a blast 😂😂😂
So they watch your vids and get offended you talk about them but don’t show concern or support when you express vulnerability?
We love you
Boy, asking for the moon! I think you should have high standards and be protective of your emotional self, but Tyson, you have to be realistic. We're all flawed and damaged goods somewhere in our experience, and you need tolerance for that. Perhaps you isolate and become introverted because your expectations of others needs a reality check. Be happy beautiful!
Feel it..
damn you're breathtakingly gorgeous
Exactly what I was thinking.
get you a 6pack and a taco 🌮 gift set 😋 for yourself
Who are you hanging out with? You seem smart, so go find those few. You have no time for shame or low self esteem!
I feel you Tyson. I've felt lonely when I used to go to the clubs all the time and hang out with self-centered drama gays who made fun of others. I wanted to fit in so bad, I would spend money on new clothes, cologne, getting my hair cut,
and beard shaped up every 2 weeks. It wasn't worth the effort. I started to hang out at home more because it was just giving me anxiety and couldn't deal with them anymore. I moved to Florida. There's a lot to do here but it's been hard finding friends here because it's such vacation destination. The guys on the apps just want to sleep with you and that's it. I told myself in 2020 it was my year to socialize and break out of my shell, and we all know how that year ended up. This year had a few good moments but nothing really lasted. Please don't set the expectation too high for 2025. Just make an effort for one on one friendships and forget about the groups of bitchy pretty gays who all sleep with each other. I think I'm just gonna try and make some str8 friends, the gays seem like a waste of time and effort. I rather go to the beach, camping, or travel then be at a gay event.
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I’m in Tucson let’s hang out sometime
I think part of the issue is that you’re not Lindsey Lohan, you’re also Regina but you dislike seeing other people play the role cause it causes some unwanted introspection
What’s your sign handsome?
Very handsome man
You are a very good looking guy I would be very social if I had your looks!
i thought you where a welder maybe yo can do statues or some type of art
These people who judge you aren't your friends. Trust me. I speak from experience. You will find your peps. ❤
Ex-wife
Dood we are so much alike😢 I’ve been very disappointed with the Gay community for the past 10 years.
Dood? Do you mean dude?
Oooooof I just reached the “tired of trying” with the socialization, I tried to become friends with people at work and I even asked a guy if he wanted to hang out and he hit me with the “I’ll let you know” so the “loneliness epidemic” is real but online friends really do fill that void especially when you start planning trips with people.
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I want to be with you 💗
you sound like you get offended by everything. and 9.40 min youre a hypocrite lol
You are so Cute. Do you have a Boyfriend? ♥️
is that your fisting arm in the background on the shelf.🤔😂
Hi🌹
Tyson, I am still here 4 u, HMU 💜🌹💯💜🌈🌲☃️🐕
Ppl are truly shit u try so hard and u just get used over n over no one wants to put in energy to ppl they just expect u too.
Its great