Amazing how every single bar lady story is the same. it starts off wonderful, then a mountain of problems and drama. and of course, a guy ignored every single red flag and makes every single mistake possible
Because they all have the same background story: ex, or existing Thai partner, children and the demanding mothers are always part of the equation. The man will never be more important than his money.
@@uffetrader8134 yes i know, i never selected one from those palces for something serious, and i never had a problem. but many guys dont listen to your advice
I first visited Thailand 2000 when social media was in its very early stages in the west so literally non existent in Thailand. I have fond memories of those days fast forward 25 years social media has taken over creating a whole new game. I’m glad I have awesome memories of the old days very happy times 👍 And concerning the story being scammed & being played seems to be routine. Have to be 100% careful who you fall in love or who you involve yourself. Massive lesson learned.
These girls don't even have to be patient. They don't actually care. These girls aren't looking for a "happy and peaceful" village life with a farang. Due to having been able to know certain people, I personally know the story of many of these girls, and I can safely say that I have never ever seen so evil people like them. I mean pure evil. Literally none of them think about these gullible farangs as the love of their lives. None. As harsh as it sounds. The farang should understand this.
So many guys out there getting put through the ringer cause of naivety. You aint gonna meet a good girl at a thai bar. Ffs gentleman. They are working girls. Treat them as such and act accordingly ffs
Starts his email with complaining that Thais have found technology and want to live like the rest of the world🤣🤣 How dare they🤣🤣 Then a long winded story that can be summed up as this dude played himself. Another dude thinking he can buy love in Thailand, never works out!
Well done 👍 I’m so glad you called him out on that as a woman I was getting angry listening to that about being obedient and what does she need a opinion for ? She’s not a dog !
Also, I have to agree with you that our friend Gary might just have some outdated ideas about relationship roles. To say she should just be happy with a meal and a random gift and not having to work as a bar girl. Well, for one thing, many of these women probably enjoy the work in that it gives them power over much richer men. What a rush, yes? Then Gary likes the scenery, the exotic location, delicious foods, feeling important, etc, but feels the Thai token wife should just be happy with a meal and shut up. Quite a one-sided view that borders on exploiting disadvantaged women. Well, not to be too hard on Gary, but the silent, submissive wife went out more than 60 years ago!
i think the guy was sensible. yes his language is a bit old fashioned, but she came and went as she pleased. she said her husband ran away - that´s a lie. the husband and she conspired to milk him - that is very unpleasant. western media has also given the impression that life in the west is easy to thais ~- this creates difficulties all round
How is possible that lots and lots of men actually believe that some young woman from rural areas got involved with mafia and are loaned relatively crazy money for gambling,when gambling is prohibited in t he first place... Feeling sorry for their own foolishness. Unbelievable....
Farang should be banned from having relationships with the Isaan bar girl. Just too risky so write off the entire demographic and choose literally anyone else.
True. I have had the luck of knowing people who run some bars and getting to know many of these girls. What I have learnt was shocking. As harsh as it sounds, none of these girls want to settle down with a farang to live happily in their village. They only want "temporary solutions". These girls actually enjoy their lives as it is and can't stop drinking or taking substances. The vast majority of these girls have children, ex or existing Thai partners and not saying their mothers who never work but demand these girls keep funding them. The whole set up is nauseating and it's hard to see that these people have no other purpose in life but to fleece people. Harsh reality.
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Almost all of these girls have kids. Whichever can be taken to the room, has children, ex or existing Thai partner and demanding mothers who all want nothing but money. (of course there may be a small number of exceptions) The girls eventually get used to it and this lifestyle becomes normal and they won't wanna change it unless they find a farang who funds them properly and unconditionally. These girls laugh at all those "love-seeking" farangs. They don't wanna settle down in an Isan village where half of the village are drunk all the time and the life in general is boring.
The games never seem to stop. The technology or otherwise, it's not difficult to find a person willing to get scammed. You lost a lot of money and honestly that's humiliating. All the ingredients of a scam. Money is the motive for everyone & do accept the fact that morality & physical relationships aren't viewed the same here. You were naive on more than one occasion, but that's an ex post, you would never know at the time of occurrence. Happy that you have found your wife after this
Wow, just wow; the flat out ignorance of mate gary of Thai ways. Why does so many blokes look in these places? These ladies are hospitality professionals they make their living by making you feel important. [This whole setup looks to me like the Patronage ~ Client system from ancient times: but, flipped inside out. these girls are the lesser riches-wise (in theory) so should have patrons (oh, they do the bar/mamasan) so the lads are the clients (another role reversal) making all blokes clients of the clients and this makes them go down on the social scale, which is the opposite of what they seek; leading them to feel lower than when they started.]
i get your point, but look ancient chinese/japanese dramas, and medieval paintings. women were very feminine and a part of that is this sort of naivety. i look thru these lens as well. i dont want a lady who barges in like rambo and solves all the world's problems. that is very unappealing
This guy became dizzy with snatch and lost his brains. She played him like a fiddle.
He won't be the first and last 😂
Typical farang “han$um man” who has little experience with woemyn … 😂
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Amazing how every single bar lady story is the same. it starts off wonderful, then a mountain of problems and drama. and of course, a guy ignored every single red flag and makes every single mistake possible
Because they all have the same background story: ex, or existing Thai partner, children and the demanding mothers are always part of the equation. The man will never be more important than his money.
Absolutely spot on.
Just do NOT choose a woman from; The bar, massage or freellancers. Than your odds rise a bit!
@@uffetrader8134 yes i know, i never selected one from those palces for something serious, and i never had a problem. but many guys dont listen to your advice
I first visited Thailand 2000 when social media was in its very early stages in the west so literally non existent in Thailand.
I have fond memories of those days fast forward 25 years social media has taken over creating a whole new game.
I’m glad I have awesome memories of the old days very happy times 👍
And concerning the story being scammed & being played seems to be routine. Have to be 100% careful who you fall in love or who you involve yourself.
Massive lesson learned.
They were both as bad as each other. She was just more patient and willing to play the game for longer than he was.
These girls don't even have to be patient. They don't actually care. These girls aren't looking for a "happy and peaceful" village life with a farang.
Due to having been able to know certain people, I personally know the story of many of these girls, and I can safely say that I have never ever seen so evil people like them. I mean pure evil. Literally none of them think about these gullible farangs as the love of their lives. None. As harsh as it sounds. The farang should understand this.
So many weak men in Thailand. Been there many times, NEVER fell for any bullshit.
So many guys out there getting put through the ringer cause of naivety. You aint gonna meet a good girl at a thai bar. Ffs gentleman. They are working girls. Treat them as such and act accordingly ffs
Starts his email with complaining that Thais have found technology and want to live like the rest of the world🤣🤣 How dare they🤣🤣 Then a long winded story that can be summed up as this dude played himself. Another dude thinking he can buy love in Thailand, never works out!
Well done 👍 I’m so glad you called him out on that as a woman I was getting angry listening to that about being obedient and what does she need a opinion for ? She’s not a dog !
Also, I have to agree with you that our friend Gary might just have some outdated ideas about relationship roles. To say she should just be happy with a meal and a random gift and not having to work as a bar girl. Well, for one thing, many of these women probably enjoy the work in that it gives them power over much richer men. What a rush, yes? Then Gary likes the scenery, the exotic location, delicious foods, feeling important, etc, but feels the Thai token wife should just be happy with a meal and shut up. Quite a one-sided view that borders on exploiting disadvantaged women. Well, not to be too hard on Gary, but the silent, submissive wife went out more than 60 years ago!
60 years ago, true... unfortunately...
i think the guy was sensible. yes his language is a bit old fashioned, but she came and went as she pleased. she said her husband ran away - that´s a lie. the husband and she conspired to milk him - that is very unpleasant. western media has also given the impression that life in the west is easy to thais ~- this creates difficulties all round
How is possible that lots and lots of men actually believe that some young woman from rural areas got involved with mafia and are loaned relatively crazy money for gambling,when gambling is prohibited in t he first place...
Feeling sorry for their own foolishness.
Unbelievable....
So forgiving. Over and over, forgive and forget...and teaching her that you are okay with this behavior. No problem. Until...😮
Farang should be banned from having relationships with the Isaan bar girl. Just too risky so write off the entire demographic and choose literally anyone else.
Time to buy flowers and go Thai villages!
True. I have had the luck of knowing people who run some bars and getting to know many of these girls. What I have learnt was shocking. As harsh as it sounds, none of these girls want to settle down with a farang to live happily in their village. They only want "temporary solutions". These girls actually enjoy their lives as it is and can't stop drinking or taking substances. The vast majority of these girls have children, ex or existing Thai partners and not saying their mothers who never work but demand these girls keep funding them. The whole set up is nauseating and it's hard to see that these people have no other purpose in life but to fleece people. Harsh reality.
Two black hearts meet and it doesn't end well. I suspect Thai women might find a lot more black hearts in the younger guys than they are used to.
This is happening when guys contract yellow fever. It’s not healable,not at all :)
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I love that road.
The guy in the story seemed a bit evil himself.
Garys story , with some variations would be going on every day of the week in Thailand ...
Too bad she didn’t get more of this guys money. Poor bar girl gotta put up with this fool.
You and I think alike! 🥰
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I think you summed it up perfectly, my face reactions were saying exactly the same, looking for a slave 😢
forget and forgive - never hand over cash
GFE is based on Cash
......pay for play...........not Motorbike Car Land House Papa Mama ..........
Baby hungry
I wonder if she had the baby. Some poor bastard will have to man up and take care of this child.
they do this, use kids to get their goals
Almost all of these girls have kids. Whichever can be taken to the room, has children, ex or existing Thai partner and demanding mothers who all want nothing but money. (of course there may be a small number of exceptions) The girls eventually get used to it and this lifestyle becomes normal and they won't wanna change it unless they find a farang who funds them properly and unconditionally. These girls laugh at all those "love-seeking" farangs. They don't wanna settle down in an Isan village where half of the village are drunk all the time and the life in general is boring.
Sadly they won't with the inevitable bad result for the child.
The games never seem to stop. The technology or otherwise, it's not difficult to find a person willing to get scammed. You lost a lot of money and honestly that's humiliating. All the ingredients of a scam. Money is the motive for everyone & do accept the fact that morality & physical relationships aren't viewed the same here. You were naive on more than one occasion, but that's an ex post, you would never know at the time of occurrence. Happy that you have found your wife after this
Bangkok was not better 20/25 years ago. Now it is much better than in the beginning of 2000th.
She ruined your emotions.
Wow, just wow; the flat out ignorance of mate gary of Thai ways. Why does so many blokes look in these places?
These ladies are hospitality professionals they make their living by making you feel important.
[This whole setup looks to me like the Patronage ~ Client system from ancient times: but, flipped inside out. these girls are the lesser riches-wise (in theory) so should have patrons (oh, they do the bar/mamasan) so the lads are the clients (another role reversal) making all blokes clients of the clients and this makes them go down on the social scale, which is the opposite of what they seek; leading them to feel lower than when they started.]
Yes, sm has messed up scene
Yep got the same vib.
She was so naive sounds predatory as hell
i get your point, but look ancient chinese/japanese dramas, and medieval paintings. women were very feminine and a part of that is this sort of naivety. i look thru these lens as well. i dont want a lady who barges in like rambo and solves all the world's problems. that is very unappealing
Yikes
Lol
Don't be a Woke person on you tube 😂 she scammed him cause he was dumb
These are fake stories. Just regurgitating known tropes.
Fake or not, it's also the reality. I don't think you have the slightest clue about these girls and their way of life.