How I'm Changing My Life - a method to deal with resistance

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ม.ค. 2025

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  • @kevinh8740
    @kevinh8740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMG how are we not at 10k subscribers yet? You are such a brilliant, creative, passionate, beautiful, and authentic soul! Every single one of your vids are amazing productions and so educational and helpful to many of us. You are laying out your heart, mind, and soul to the world which is so rare. You keep being you Elif! Change is most definitely difficult as you so eloquently stated "Pain of loss > Joy of gain." It seems to be in our nature to resist change but as humans we adapt when we have to. My personal experience with change has been overwhelmingly positive looking back. Sending positive vibes your way and hoping for an amazing and blessed experience with the "change" that you are encountering at present. BTW you have such a wonderful sense of humor also! 😁

    • @ElifB1
      @ElifB1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kevin thank you so much for your kind compliments. Thank you for always being so nice and supportive. My eyes are filled with tears 🥺 I'm glad your change has been positive for you. 😊 thanks for the nice wishes. Sending love. 💕

  • @TheDrunkenBard
    @TheDrunkenBard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As before and once again, we thank you for your work,
    We enjoyed this one a "ten," very useful to this jerk.
    Helping he with patterns, hitherto can't rearrange,
    Now can forget the past, accepting of the change.
    Speaking from this self, to express its way of dealing,
    With impermanence itself, Being, ostensibly unappealing.
    The trick for me is free, comes from understanding thus-
    Life a weaving of smoke; grasping hands miraging dust.
    Therefore your instruction, per the resistance offered it,
    Is irrefutable reflection; but whom seeketh Wisdom's wit?
    Only those that findeth, ceaseless practicing 'n' training,
    A burden best to shoulder, lest vice cripples all remaining.
    Asking us to let her know, "what now dost thou thinketh?"
    I for one can answer though, may bring him to an impasse.
    For as Aldous Huxley stated: despite intelligence and word,
    Alas, even intuition's gated; to another, to convey 'tis absurd.
    Try communicating anything, leaves everyone unheard,
    With nothing there to bring, and no way in which to say.
    Feelings they must stay locked-up, yet never in dismay-
    Inside is security, unattached, forever holding sway.
    Thank you, Elif B.

    • @ElifB1
      @ElifB1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This part resonated with me so much:
      "With impermanence itself, Being, ostensibly unappealing.
      The trick for me is free, comes from understanding thus-
      Life a weaving of smoke; grasping hands miraging dust."
      Such a beautiful expression. I didn't fully understand the last parts but I will keep coming back to this, lol. Thank you, drunken, for the poetic response. I love poems, riddles and getting lost in words.
      Sending love.

    • @TheDrunkenBard
      @TheDrunkenBard 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ElifB1 Rubaiyat verse 16: "The Worldly Hope men set their Hearts upon Turns Ashes -or it prospers;
      and anon, Like Snow upon the Desert’s dusty Face, Lighting a little hour or two- is gone. 🌏🧭 -Omar Khayyam

  • @ElifB1
    @ElifB1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How do you deal with change? Hope you enjoyed the video. Let me know what you think of it. :) (plz hit like if you enjoyed, it helps with algorithm I think, thanks.)

  • @Traynze
    @Traynze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Change is difficult for sure. Your methods are very sounds in my opinion. Planning for change makes it easier for me. I also plan for things to not go as planned about 15% of the time. It's more manageable for me that way. 😆

    • @ElifB1
      @ElifB1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hey, thanks. :) 15% is a nice low percentage. Congrats on that, lol.

    • @Traynze
      @Traynze 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's only that low because of my planning for as many variables as possible. I run 50-100 simulations in my head. That's not an exaggeration. Lol

    • @ElifB1
      @ElifB1  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol. 😄