@@juliandavidquinteroferrer1916 Is the really a factor when deciding who to choke? I only like to choke myself. Strangers choking me.....they just havent did it right yet. I feel like when I do it I might die. When strangers do it.......you can tell they've never killed anyone before.
I’m 100% with Michael. I’m so tired of men demanding me to be either sub or dom based off of the most inconsequential of nuances that fit their preconceived notions. The second I show some appreciation for assplay they turn into cringey wannabe dom daddies who want to wreck my asshole, and vice versa when I take initiative for anything they suddenly want me to brutalize them like I’m the Hulk. And I’m talking either Grindr hookups where nothing of the sort had been discussed prior to meeting (I often plainly state that I’m vanilla) or when meeting a guy at a party or bar and we haven’t even exchanged two words before they pigeonhole me. I’m rather broad and I work out, but I’m very sensitive, and men will zero in on either of these traits to get what they want. I’m also just really tired of everything having to be this dichotomy. Too often, this whole sub/dom thing becomes just another ugly offshoot of the “who’s the man in the relationship” trope, and people make it their whole damn personality. And finally, just on a very personal note; I detest the notion of power in sex. In this hierarchical patriarchal capitalist society, power is already the driving force behind our daily routines, our survival, our government, and so on and so forth. I don’t need this ugly and antiquated dynamic to follow me into the bedroom, thx.
Power play has nothing to do with notions of the outside world, its just fun ! You have to and should explain what u want prior to a hookup on grindr anyway because thats manners. Powerplay also is just about force of emotions some people are more inclined to be wired in a way where aggression turns them on both mentally n physically. I really don’t think its political in anyway even if these ideas are parallel to the world outside of the bedroom.
@@encoded29 I generally agree with you more than I do the OP but I think it can be political. Everything can. As long as participants are aware of how it can contribute to the "who's the man in the relationship?" trope and they do their best not to perpetuate the dynamic outside the bedroom, then it's no problem. But you're right about everything else. Ppl need to have clear communication with their potential hookup partner. Always.
I mean I think power play itself isnt a problem, any type of sex is fine and fun with proper communication, but it is concerning when these pseudo-violent and aggressive sexual scripts have become so typical, especially for sex between strangers w/ very little communication. ultimately sex is energetic and the adrenaline makes people act wild, but its still interesting to talk about power play’s relation to gay sex. I think Michael has a point when he says “I dont need people to work out their demons on my body.” Maybe I’m trying to be too psychoanalytical here, but to resort into these power play scripts so readily, esp on grindr or with a stranger at a bar, imo feels like a type of reconciliation with the everyday emasculation of the gay man. Being gay takes away the social power from men, so sex becomes a roleplay situation to feel powerful again. Submission is just subverting that same feeling of powerlessness, turning weakness into pleasure instead of shame. Sex is power, and hookups in particular become an outlet separate from the social sphere where people ultimately get to feel powerful, partly to deal with gayness making us feel like inadequate men. There’s nothing wrong with that, and it can be hot, assuming people can communicate and clarify what they want from sex and if they’ve ever really looked inward to consider why they want it.
I strongly agree with 80% of what you said, right up until 'Submission is just subverting that same feeling of powerlessness, turning weakness into pleasure instead of shame. Sex is power, and hookups in particular become an outlet separate from the social sphere..' I think that is just an unproven theory about BDSM. Another theory is that when you teach a person they are lesser, they will act like a lesser person, and absorb it into their subconsciosu identity, which comes out in sexuality. Another theory is that it's a form of self harm, as a toxic reaction to trauma and homophobic abuse.
I like aggressive, and I love assertive, but I'm not into mean, even for play. A lot of my childhood involved people degrading me, and all that shit does in the bedroom is send me into PTSD flashbacks, which will physiologically override any and all arousal. No judgement against the people who like it-I can understand why people find it appealing-but it's not for me.
Thankyou for sharing this. I also get PTSD flashbacks. When I started meeting men, I honestly was shocked how often guys will literally randomly assault you in sex, no warning, because 'other people love this'. Yikes. Lots of psychos out there. In my personal opinion, lots of people identifying as 'doms' are just psychos who dont understand how their actions affect other people, and dont understand that some people are traumatised.
SNUFFopERA : see u when u see me : Murderers : ibb.co/Zc2myVr +++ th-cam.com/video/XYvB0hRmY2U/w-d-xo.html from their Balconies drinking Champagne they will call it a Masterpeace. reclaim my reflection, reclaim my Giulio, reclaim the *Scapegoat* or be lost in fake is.Rael and love is not pretending.
instagram.com/p/CFlEMt8Kg2B/ +++ ibb.co/939WtSN the "Activist" and the "Governmente" ... theater at its finest : Eugenics : Venture : Note the large Glass of Red Wine : @staleypr instagram.com/tv/CFlEMt8Kg2B reclaim the *Scapegoat* or be lost in fake is.Rael and love is not pretending.
I can go for either or, tbh. Depends on chemistry. And mood. But I’d be lying if didn’t say that I love an aggressive top who throws you around like a rag doll.
I recently moved back to a town I lived in years ago. I visited a friend I haven't seen in some time. Hung, muscular, top Daddy-esque. We are really good friends, so I made sure to check up on him since I'm back in town. We used to go fishing and I've even babysat his kids. I'm not looking for sexual relationships atm, but I'm also upset with myself for NOT letting him slam me up against his headboard, thereby splitting me open???
“CHOKE ME, BRO”
with that face, i might !
@@juliandavidquinteroferrer1916 right? 😅😍
@@juliandavidquinteroferrer1916
Is the really a factor when deciding who to choke?
I only like to choke myself.
Strangers choking me.....they just havent did it right yet.
I feel like when I do it I might die.
When strangers do it.......you can tell they've never killed anyone before.
@@InnerRise true
YES!! LOL
R E S P E C T M Y A N U S
Please
Amen to that!!
Or disrespect it, whichever gets the job done
Aretha’s unreleased single
@@azamshah6976 hahahah yesssss
Somebody give this guy an award for original writing and acting!!!
Ya and Paul
Fo real
I think he’ll cross over into television too, he’s amazing.
Who's the florist??? Cuz I wanna be pollinated
Hello 911, there's an Underrated comment up in here.
oh, that's barry
Love to be pollinated!
florists... don't pollinate. they sow seed, tho.
@@TreavorUnion well my fields are ready to be PLOWED ✨
Talk to the hand 🖐 “no, he sucks” lol
omgggggg i can't
I dont wanna have diner and drinks with a florist and then go to bed with the executionar.😂😂😂😂
SLAUGHTERED ME
"Respectfully climax together"
💀💀💀
I wish my casual conversations with my friends were like this😹😹😹
Chang Wang why aren't they...
Hand: 'No he SUCKS!' That killed me hahaha.
Love they are all still six feet apart and I almost didn't notice.
This is now gonna be the new norm
I like that Michael is very straight forward and says what he wants, sets his boundaries, and doesn’t seem to hide himself from his friends
"I'm a dom top"
That's a surprise
I'm dead 😂😂😂😂😂
DYING and the arm sweep 😂
That’s Kornbread!😂❤️
"Why can't I be choked for once?" What a hand 😂😂😂
Oof why does the moaning keep going after the screen goes black? Funny shit.
Did you watch to the read at the end? Michael is a shady Bitch
@@aaliyahmuhammad9073 This is nothing new. 🥰
That doesn’t happen to you be when you are exercising your demons... I am only moaning when the screen goes black bb.
Michael talking to hand, “Looks like it’s just the two of us again.” True for so many of us during this pandemic.
🌈✋️
i love and hate the fact that i’m always michael in most my interactions in life 😅
The hand responding back killed me ☠️☠️☠️
I’m 100% with Michael. I’m so tired of men demanding me to be either sub or dom based off of the most inconsequential of nuances that fit their preconceived notions.
The second I show some appreciation for assplay they turn into cringey wannabe dom daddies who want to wreck my asshole, and vice versa when I take initiative for anything they suddenly want me to brutalize them like I’m the Hulk. And I’m talking either Grindr hookups where nothing of the sort had been discussed prior to meeting (I often plainly state that I’m vanilla) or when meeting a guy at a party or bar and we haven’t even exchanged two words before they pigeonhole me.
I’m rather broad and I work out, but I’m very sensitive, and men will zero in on either of these traits to get what they want. I’m also just really tired of everything having to be this dichotomy. Too often, this whole sub/dom thing becomes just another ugly offshoot of the “who’s the man in the relationship” trope, and people make it their whole damn personality.
And finally, just on a very personal note; I detest the notion of power in sex. In this hierarchical patriarchal capitalist society, power is already the driving force behind our daily routines, our survival, our government, and so on and so forth. I don’t need this ugly and antiquated dynamic to follow me into the bedroom, thx.
Power play has nothing to do with notions of the outside world, its just fun ! You have to and should explain what u want prior to a hookup on grindr anyway because thats manners. Powerplay also is just about force of emotions some people are more inclined to be wired in a way where aggression turns them on both mentally n physically. I really don’t think its political in anyway even if these ideas are parallel to the world outside of the bedroom.
Agreed
period
Preach! Well put
@@encoded29 I generally agree with you more than I do the OP but I think it can be political. Everything can.
As long as participants are aware of how it can contribute to the "who's the man in the relationship?" trope and they do their best not to perpetuate the dynamic outside the bedroom, then it's no problem.
But you're right about everything else. Ppl need to have clear communication with their potential hookup partner. Always.
Okay this was absolute gold
I mean I think power play itself isnt a problem, any type of sex is fine and fun with proper communication, but it is concerning when these pseudo-violent and aggressive sexual scripts have become so typical, especially for sex between strangers w/ very little communication. ultimately sex is energetic and the adrenaline makes people act wild, but its still interesting to talk about power play’s relation to gay sex.
I think Michael has a point when he says “I dont need people to work out their demons on my body.” Maybe I’m trying to be too psychoanalytical here, but to resort into these power play scripts so readily, esp on grindr or with a stranger at a bar, imo feels like a type of reconciliation with the everyday emasculation of the gay man. Being gay takes away the social power from men, so sex becomes a roleplay situation to feel powerful again. Submission is just subverting that same feeling of powerlessness, turning weakness into pleasure instead of shame.
Sex is power, and hookups in particular become an outlet separate from the social sphere where people ultimately get to feel powerful, partly to deal with gayness making us feel like inadequate men. There’s nothing wrong with that, and it can be hot, assuming people can communicate and clarify what they want from sex and if they’ve ever really looked inward to consider why they want it.
somebody should really write a research paper on this
I strongly agree with 80% of what you said, right up until 'Submission is just subverting that same feeling of powerlessness, turning weakness into pleasure instead of shame.
Sex is power, and hookups in particular become an outlet separate from the social sphere..'
I think that is just an unproven theory about BDSM. Another theory is that when you teach a person they are lesser, they will act like a lesser person, and absorb it into their subconsciosu identity, which comes out in sexuality. Another theory is that it's a form of self harm, as a toxic reaction to trauma and homophobic abuse.
The sound effects 😭😭😭😭
Omg the horse noise had me dead.
YOU BROUGHT THE BLACK GUY BACK!!! THANK YOU!!!!! AND he gets laid in the end! 😆
*ahem* his name is KORNBREAD
kornbread in every sketch tbh
Hand: "I wanna be the one choked for once"
Dead. I'm dead.
Michael sliding in with the shade at last moment lol
Omg it's Kornbread!
Just what I needed after watching those messy debates!
The fool criticized the other racist fool for always wearing a mask and now he's gone and caught the virus.
I can't even 🤦🏾♂️
Yay Kornbread!!!!!
that ending scene XD had me dead
Rewatching 1y later and realising it's Kornbread 'The Snack' Jeté after S14 came out
I want Michael Henry’s hand to be a recurring character now! Imagine the stories it has to tell - the sad, boring, stories!
I wanna see more of those two. I hope you include them in more.
I only use a Nintendo Power Glove because in my household we are Christians and, also, neck beards. Thank you very much. 🙃
Wtf
@@julianestebanperezsotelo298 *The Power Glove* - everything else is _child’s play._
What are "neck beards"
Hey Queen! Girl, you have done it again! Constantly raising the bar for all of us...
I love a florist who gives to the depraved ...L.O.L
“I like all that freaky shit but I want to do it as EQuaLs” 😂😂😂
Kornbread! 💕
Here after 1 year to scream KORNBREAD!
MS. KORNBREAD??? OH MY GOD HAHAHAHA
I always have to watch these videos like 5 times because I'm laughing too lough to hear the next 5 things that were said.
I like aggressive, and I love assertive, but I'm not into mean, even for play.
A lot of my childhood involved people degrading me, and all that shit does in the bedroom is send me into PTSD flashbacks, which will physiologically override any and all arousal.
No judgement against the people who like it-I can understand why people find it appealing-but it's not for me.
Thankyou for sharing this. I also get PTSD flashbacks. When I started meeting men, I honestly was shocked how often guys will literally randomly assault you in sex, no warning, because 'other people love this'. Yikes. Lots of psychos out there. In my personal opinion, lots of people identifying as 'doms' are just psychos who dont understand how their actions affect other people, and dont understand that some people are traumatised.
Michael’s clips is everything that is missing on this new SNL new cast. I LOVE MICHAEL 🥰😘😍
I'll come back.. Once the comments are SIZZLING ENOUGH 😂😂😂
As a switch, I resonate with Kornbread. Though it’s extra exhilarating when I’m with a dom bottom.
BRB
This comment section haven't been out the oven long enough
What does that mean...?
@@cfor8129 The comment section is not ready to indulge in yet. Vans is waiting for more juicy comments to be said before they partake.
SNUFFopERA : see u when u see me : Murderers :
ibb.co/Zc2myVr +++ th-cam.com/video/XYvB0hRmY2U/w-d-xo.html
from their Balconies drinking Champagne they will call it a Masterpeace.
reclaim my reflection, reclaim my Giulio, reclaim the *Scapegoat* or be lost in fake is.Rael and love is not pretending.
instagram.com/p/CFlEMt8Kg2B/ +++ ibb.co/939WtSN
the "Activist" and the "Governmente" ... theater at its finest : Eugenics : Venture : Note the large Glass of Red Wine : @staleypr instagram.com/tv/CFlEMt8Kg2B
reclaim the *Scapegoat* or be lost in fake is.Rael and love is not pretending.
@@theonlyonewithgum1452 PREACH KWEEN
Michael looking like a snacccccccc
KORNBREAD!!
the DOM Bottm guys is HILARIOUS. Love his piece
Dominating a power bottom is SO much fun, for the both of us! 🤪🤙🏼🔥🙌🏼
This guy gets it!
Wait, isn't a power bottom a genre of dom bottom? Because if so, aren't they the ones who do the dominating?
(I'm genuinely asking)
I really like these two guys in your skits, I think they're both really funny!
Lmao I died when Michaels neck cracked and his hand betrayed him 😂
Omfg lmao, the "YEAH!" right before the talk about choking...Ooooooh Lordy.
LMAO, I should start talking with my hand too 🤣🤣🤣
Never go to bed if yur hand and u are arguing ... thats what I always say ...
good point
I love it “if I’m on top I like to own that ass” facts. 😂😂😂😂😭😭😂😂😂
"Im an animal!" Well me too. 😂
Good lord! Thank you for this! Perfect timing. I needed this, after that shit show of a first debate tonight! Egads! You NEVER disappoint! ❤️
@Jason Goldsberry I hear that Jason! BTW cute beard! 🤎
That hand has some stories to tell. Must be interviewed lol
Is that Kornbread ?
I can go for either or, tbh.
Depends on chemistry. And mood.
But I’d be lying if didn’t say that I love an aggressive top who throws you around like a rag doll.
Right.... sometimes you just meet someone and immediately think “idk why but I’d like for this person to slam me against a wall”
@bertas ulozevičius The patriarchy would be the absolute furthest thing from my mind if I were w/an aggressive top! Hahaha.
Miles Nerenberg LOL.. Bro get help! Lol
lol don't hate me bc i speak the truth!!! 😅😅
I recently moved back to a town I lived in years ago. I visited a friend I haven't seen in some time. Hung, muscular, top Daddy-esque. We are really good friends, so I made sure to check up on him since I'm back in town. We used to go fishing and I've even babysat his kids. I'm not looking for sexual relationships atm, but I'm also upset with myself for NOT letting him slam me up against his headboard, thereby splitting me open???
The tone of this conversation pairs well with that one IASIP scene...
Now wait a minute not...7th and highland Barry who specializes in white orchids...
Kornbread!!!!
"Choke me, bro"
🤣🤣🤣
I have to say I usually feel like the extra clip at the end throws off the pacing, but this ending had me laughing out loud at work. 🤣🤣
Michael, would you consider making a video about people who are sides? I Mean, those who don't like top or bottom
th-cam.com/video/lKtopKoLLSI/w-d-xo.html
Kornbread!!! Such an icon
Last line = best line
Putting the word 'bro' after 'choke me' does it for me
The sound effects are ON in this episode!
😂😂😂😂🤣🤣..Love the sketch. Also, great shirt, Michael, & gorgeous calves🕺
3:08 The splashing sound haha
So relatable.. Love you Michael!!
I wish they would have mentioned Barry the Florist enjoys rosebuds...
Dang that burn at the end got me dying
The sound effects are top notch
This is so funny but good conversation!
Love it! So deep!
Best! You are the best!
Miss kornbread will rule the world
That patio furniture is gorge!
"No he sucks!" 😂
0:33 is me when i open the box of pizza
CHOKE ME, BRO
There you go Michael... thats great comdey at the same time intructive too
the ending was legit the most romantic thing ive seen in awhile
LOL
Many lessons were learned that day...
That splash at the end 😂😂
Those guys at the end , come on studs tear this up
Indeed i think Michael speaks for the silent majority of guys out there that have an uncomfy time talking power play on grindr
Girl we love being a switch
the hand lol
CHOKE ME BRO
That killed me 🤣😂
Simply genius
Finally been waiting forever. We love you
lorde have mercy.
This is Genius!
"ALWAYS!!" 🤣😂🤣
Oh... So I'm a switch. Neat.