yes he is. he is a beautiful man with a beautiful soul. I pray he gets the healing he needs. it will be hard work and it will not be instant. pain and hurt like that often can take years to move forward from. however it is possible to learn how to manage that pain when it resurfaces and still live your best life in spite of your past. #MyHealingIsInProgress
what dues did she pay? everything she had is because of who her sister is, and I like Neffe but i think Iyanla was right she was on there for reality TV,
The relationship had a foundation built on dysfunction and need more so than love. I never dealt with their issues but been in serious relationships without the love piece.
If you watched Neffe back in the day...shes definitely grown and like most ppl, still have growing to do. I hope she continues. Shelby a good guy and always seemed like a good guy. Sometimes it's best for people to be apart. It's cool that she said her and him are still friends.
Interesting she is taking the guttersnip as personal, I believe it is Neffie who is and from this interview with Big Tigger she still has a issue with her CHARACTER being called out. Maybe if Neffateria would open her ears and let Neffie close her mouth, it would bring her one step closer to healing the herself. Look at what you lost in Fame, go back to the mirror and remove the cloud of make up. (Excuse me if I misspelled your true name)
Everybody deserves room to not only grow but to be honest with themselves. She is a real woman that has been scorned jus as many of us. I'm happy that she's identified alot about herself and has grown into a better person.
Well at least now that they are divorcing Shelby doesn't have to struggle to feed 8 and live in a hotel, he only has to take care of the 2 he has with Neffe and this may be the time when her sister steps in and helps her get back on track.
Healing comes when we are ready for it. The universe is always sending us assistance to evolve, yet it is ultimately up to us to do the work. The whispers will get louder until we decide to do something different. No one can encourage us, threaten or force us to do it.
Iyanla doesn't fix your life in 3 days. What she does is help you start your path to fixing your life. It's a journey, so she's gonna stumble and fall and hopefully get back up and keep moving. Nothing happens overnight.
It's sad to watch "Neffie" after seeing her on Iyanla. From this brief interview, it doesn't appear that she retained anything from Iyanla. Iyanla can only scratch the surface. You can bring a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
Iyanla has said this before, "Every one comes in your life through energetic invitations. They attracted each other because if the level of dysfunction they both have. When the energy changes you no longer have a connection. In essence this was not a REAL marriage. I do wish Neffe the best...maybe she was so numb and lost that this made a slight crack in her interior and she can slowly start to come put of it.
i also wanna know what "bookings" is she accepting?? being a drunk asshole shouldn't make u famous. Im kinda mad at Tiger for not asking her real questions. Iyanla was right she istryna get a reality off show.
Wow!! Neffie called Iyanla a life coach and that she was good with that..However Iyanla is much more than that, she is also a lawyer, and she not only studied law books she took other courses that lead up to Law School, just to name a few, Psychology, and Sociology..That is only part of the reason she was able to 👓 👀you Neffie..Oh! I almost forgot she also has her Hood degree ✌
all she knows is hustling. she is trying rebuild I suppose. She loves the spotlight ,and she knows reality is where the quick money is. I don't blame her for chasing it . but hopefully she will take the time to really work through some of those layers before she returns to it.
Well Neffe did say she did spend a lot of time on the street and it's clear her behavior was not that steller per her own acknowledgement and watching her on the show, sooooooooo based of the definition of guttersnipe..... ummmmmm #justsaying
Jeffie put a 100 people in the room and at least 99.9% of them would agree that you fit the bill of a guttersnipe. Stop the bs. Even your own sister called you out and said "neffie behaves that way because the streets raised her."
Like seriously, enough all this what I been through!!! Everyone has been through something,,, it's time to let it go!!! Own up to who you are!!! That's how you change!!!! That's why I don't care for Kesha Cole, nor Neffie they all about reality tv and acting ghetto!!!! For 10 years they been saying the same thing, we are about growth!!! You didn't grow yet!!! Whatever!! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
It was NOT okay for Iynala to have used that term, especially since she is supposed to be a "Therapist"....not okay at all. Regardless if she is saying it was in reference to "Neffie", and not Nefeteria, but it's not okay to call anyone this so for that Iyanla was wrong and needs to choose her words very carefully with people. I honestly thought Iyanla was incredibly nasty during the entire show working with Neffie, she was all over Shelby and in his drawers but she was very nasty and rude to Neffie. Her entire disposition toward Neffie was nasty and rude and I saw something in Iyanla that needs to be fixed so she need to go to T.D. Jakes or somebody and let them "fix her" nasty self! Praying for you Neffie, keep going girlfriend and stay working on yourself!
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Shelby is going to be a great husband to a deserving woman once he finishes "his work"
yes he is. he is a beautiful man with a beautiful soul. I pray he gets the healing he needs. it will be hard work and it will not be instant. pain and hurt like that often can take years to move forward from. however it is possible to learn how to manage that pain when it resurfaces and still live your best life in spite of your past. #MyHealingIsInProgress
GemmytheG He rejected it. On IG live he want Neffe he don't want to recover from pain without her. Wasted opportunity.
Can you please clarify that? Are you saying Shelby recently went on IG live and declared that he doesn't want to live with out Neffe? Thanks.
I totally agree, Shelby will be just fine!!!
I think Neffe wants to be back on reality tv. Next stop Marriage Bootcamp 😂😂lol
Why don't Tigger age? I just came to ask that
Ciara Sims ikr!!!
what dues did she pay? everything she had is because of who her sister is, and I like Neffe but i think Iyanla was right she was on there for reality TV,
EXACTLY !!! Her title will forever be Keyshia Cole sister lol
Not surprised they are divorcing. Seems like they both had major baggage and 2 people carrying baggage that heavy can't fix each other.
The relationship had a foundation built on dysfunction and need more so than love. I never dealt with their issues but been in serious relationships without the love piece.
If you watched Neffe back in the day...shes definitely grown and like most ppl, still have growing to do. I hope she continues. Shelby a good guy and always seemed like a good guy. Sometimes it's best for people to be apart. It's cool that she said her and him are still friends.
I'm loving her growth,everybody has a story.
Toy Smith what growth
Toy Smith i
love her go nef!!
Neffie you is so right! sometimes we living in a lie
Denise Walker she lying a lie
Somebody gone scoop Shelby up quick as hell
She cleaned it up on the end with her response to the guttersnipe comment.
People love a lie and hate the truth. This is a prime example.
Interesting she is taking the guttersnip as personal, I believe it is Neffie who is and from this interview with Big Tigger she still has a issue with her CHARACTER being called out. Maybe if Neffateria would open her ears and let Neffie close her mouth, it would bring her one step closer to healing the herself. Look at what you lost in Fame, go back to the mirror and remove the cloud of make up. (Excuse me if I misspelled your true name)
Good For her !
Sad she is still not healed and is not willing to face her true reality.
Everything is all about her , and that's why she Divorced
Everybody deserves room to not only grow but to be honest with themselves. She is a real woman that has been scorned jus as many of us. I'm happy that she's identified alot about herself and has grown into a better person.
PretttyProudJamerican Word▫️✔️
this is NOT a real woman.. jumping from bed to bed to cover up pain??? NOPE...that is a sperm bank.
Well at least now that they are divorcing Shelby doesn't have to struggle to feed 8 and live in a hotel, he only has to take care of the 2 he has with Neffe and this may be the time when her sister steps in and helps her get back on track.
God bless him,keep your head up Shelby...😚
Healing comes when we are ready for it. The universe is always sending us assistance to evolve, yet it is ultimately up to us to do the work. The whispers will get louder until we decide to do something different. No one can encourage us, threaten or force us to do it.
Iyanla doesn't fix your life in 3 days. What she does is help you start your path to fixing your life. It's a journey, so she's gonna stumble and fall and hopefully get back up and keep moving. Nothing happens overnight.
It's sad to watch "Neffie" after seeing her on Iyanla. From this brief interview, it doesn't appear that she retained anything from Iyanla. Iyanla can only scratch the surface. You can bring a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
For some strange reason I like her tho
Iyanla has said this before, "Every one comes in your life through energetic invitations. They attracted each other because if the level of dysfunction they both have. When the energy changes you no longer have a connection. In essence this was not a REAL marriage. I do wish Neffe the best...maybe she was so numb and lost that this made a slight crack in her interior and she can slowly start to come put of it.
she still lost. Iyanla could not save her.
Rachel lewis lol
DON'T SAVE HER! SHE DON'T WANNA BE SAVED! - J. Cole
Rachel lewis Iyanla offered her the tools but she wasnt all the way in...
i also wanna know what "bookings" is she accepting?? being a drunk asshole shouldn't make u famous. Im kinda mad at Tiger for not asking her real questions. Iyanla was right she istryna get a reality off show.
Only God can save, Iyanla is not a life fixer, she's just a counselor who has a reality show. Lol
how did she pay her dues. she rode keisha cole back
"Indeed" hahahaha
She ain't learn nothing 🤦♂️
Loveeeeee Neffe
Wow!! Neffie called Iyanla a life coach and that she was good with that..However Iyanla is much more than that, she is also a lawyer, and she not only studied law books she took other courses that lead up to Law School, just to name a few, Psychology, and Sociology..That is only part of the reason she was able to 👓 👀you Neffie..Oh! I almost forgot she also has her Hood degree ✌
does she still live in the hotel
Rachel lewis good question
shelby can call me !! a real woman !!
TheHolley77
can he heal first?
Ms Indy He decided not to heal first. He want Neffe and said he wish he checked Iyanla for Neffe. All for a show to get a show. Sad
Ms Indy right lol 😂
The beat in the background tho🤔🤷🏽♀️ so familiar
Tennille Alexander Lost One/ Jay
FreshyungBenz tf? that's P.I.M.P by 50
all she knows is hustling. she is trying rebuild I suppose. She loves the spotlight ,and she knows reality is where the quick money is. I don't blame her for chasing it . but hopefully she will take the time to really work through some of those layers before she returns to it.
Love seeing her growth
Through all the bull, she still has a better attitude then her sister Keyshia
The sad thing is her daughter is going to pick up where she left off @...SMDH
nefi went on Iyanla to be in the spot light again..got put in the spot and it backfired..why are u on interviews if u wanted to fix your life
kaytii kaboom - EXACTLY.
Well Neffe did say she did spend a lot of time on the street and it's clear her behavior was not that steller per her own acknowledgement and watching her on the show, sooooooooo based of the definition of guttersnipe..... ummmmmm #justsaying
I don't care what nobody says, I love Neffe and her spirit! #REAL
She is a "Guttersnipe"!
Jeffie put a 100 people in the room and at least 99.9% of them would agree that you fit the bill of a guttersnipe. Stop the bs. Even your own sister called you out and said "neffie behaves that way because the streets raised her."
Like seriously, enough all this what I been through!!! Everyone has been through something,,, it's time to let it go!!! Own up to who you are!!! That's how you change!!!! That's why I don't care for Kesha Cole, nor Neffie they all about reality tv and acting ghetto!!!! For 10 years they been saying the same thing, we are about growth!!! You didn't grow yet!!! Whatever!! 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Neffie is a guttersnipe
Shelby got all kinds of deserving women in his face right now. She gone regret and miss this great man she once had. lol poor little tink tink..
You lost a good man dear he seems to love you dearly. Why do you have to act like that? I dont know.
Indeed😉
It takes years to actually heal not three days. This is not the way to heal wholly.
Lost Lost Lost I pray for. Effie character to lay to rest and the true essence Neferterria
He deserves better. She was drowning him to his grave.
book her for whaaaaaat?
It was NOT okay for Iynala to have used that term, especially since she is supposed to be a "Therapist"....not okay at all. Regardless if she is saying it was in reference to "Neffie", and not Nefeteria, but it's not okay to call anyone this so for that Iyanla was wrong and needs to choose her words very carefully with people. I honestly thought Iyanla was incredibly nasty during the entire show working with Neffie, she was all over Shelby and in his drawers but she was very nasty and rude to Neffie. Her entire disposition toward Neffie was nasty and rude and I saw something in Iyanla that needs to be fixed so she need to go to T.D. Jakes or somebody and let them "fix her" nasty self! Praying for you Neffie, keep going girlfriend and stay working on yourself!
INDEED 😁😁😁
What's wrong with her is so deep that it can't be fixed within her lifetime.
Wow, Iyana couldn't fix it I guess!!
By definition she is a guttersnipe; she told that story herself. She truly is a poor unfortunate soul. I feel sorry for her. smh
Who markets themselves like this.....
Do her and Keyshia talk?
WELL SAID NEFFIE!!!!! TAKES ONE TO KNOW ONE
Why does everyone not see that Shelby is a predator?
Melinated Medicine Woman Please do tell 🤗
Stopppppp!
she need to seek help from a higher power.
she is a mess smdh