the Drake Bell conversation is too nuanced for the internet, I fear. Because exactly, two things can be true at the same time without invalidating each other - he was abused, and he was an abuser.
I agree. I also have some questions about the validity. Her family and friends who took her to the shows and attended with her say it never happened and Drake and the girl were never alone.
@@lmnlstes Many people take plea deals to avoid trial. While I question whether he did any of the things she says he did (due to the words of her family and friends), I do think he has some shady things in his DMs. Going to trial would mean the state would be able to enter his private messages....and he clearly doesn't want people to see those for some reason. Cheating? Other weird convos? Not sure.
@@lmnlstes why are you, as a user of the word "mansplain", assuming someone's gender? they very well could also be a woman or otherwise nonbinary. weird ass behavior to get so up in arms about someone who was just trying to make conversation and was letting you know something in case you didn't which they couldn't know you did because they don't know you. and you don't know them. certainly not enough to confidently assert they're a man. not to mention loads of people claim to know how the justice system works without actually having any clue how the justice system works but i digress. the point they were TRYING to make is that someone pleading guilty =/= them actually being guilty... a lot of people plead guilty to crimes they were not guilty of bc that's part of the plea deal! they were just questioning the nuance of the situation and pointing out that while drake bell might not be guilty of what accuser said he did, or even what the state of california says he did, but that somewhere there very likely was misconduct or something that could be taken as such given drake bell plead guilty at all. they weren't being hostile to you at all. or trying to make you sound like an idiot that doesn't know how the justice system works. your assumption that that was their intention is more telling of your own insecurities than of them trying to """mansplain""" something to you. ...in case you were waiting for someone to womansplain it to you. 😔
@@lmnlstes everytime a dumbass online has to resort to replying to someone with "TRIGGERED???" they may as well wave a white flag, ask me to piss in a cup, drink it, and then admit they're my little piss baby because it's effectively the same as admitting that they're too fucking stupid to come up with a half decent reply and that, contrary to what say to themselves at night as they cry themselves to sleep, they did not pwn anyone and in fact, did NOT win the internet that day. but anyways im sooooo triggered you got me sooooo good you're soooo cool and smart and that hot girl you think wants to sleep with you is definitely into you, also
@@rat-calamityare you dumb woman can mansplan something to you look up words before going on a rant because it just makes you look stupid and uneducated
ive been around other survivors like this while surviving abuse it is so exhausting. they constantly make you feel like your story isnt important enough at all
Kind of like Johnny Silvestri when everything about Colleen came out. He seemed to insinuate his story was the biggest, the most shocking, like he was THE victim.
@@randirauhlinYESSSSS i find it so strange that she has basically branded herself a victim. Her fandom name is basically “survivors.” Her podcast name would literally be called “Survivor.”
I’ve had so many weird vibes about certain things when it comes to her but never felt free to share any of my opinions because she doesn’t seem very understanding or willing to accept constructive criticism at all.
@@DJthehuman every time someone would call her out she freaks out does a long stream and then says they are just attacking her because she’s a woman or a victim and calls everyone who has called her out a predator. For her predator just means “this person is not a good person or I don’t like them” not the typical kind of person we think of when we hear that word. I used to literally pay to be a member but just couldn’t handle some of her reactions
There's a small channel "Ophie Dokie" who did a deep-dive on alexa/eat p* a while back. It's really good, her work explained a lot of those... Weird vibes many of us noticed but couldn't quite place. It's not a h4te video or anything either, very respectful, Ophie herself was a big fan of Alexa irrc.
Me too!! I caught on too, she always makes everything about herself imo. I stayed subbed for a bit less than a year, and then she threw her hissy fit when ppl called her out, and ran away, that made me unsub.
Thank you Adam for speaking on Drake Bell. I don’t understand how it’s hard for people to understand that someone can be both a victim and perpetrator. Supporting Drake for the absolute trauma he went through doesn’t take away from supporting his victims and condemning his actions AT ALL.
it’s ironic how Alexa doesn’t understand that Victims can later be Perpetrators when in fact SHE IS ONE TOO… she was a victim in her childhood years but are now hurting victims alike
What's more ironic is that Alexa actually knows of it very well as she's covered it in many videos - she intentionally presents herself in whatever light will garner the most sympathy, even though viewers have access to see all the inaccuracies and contradictions
She also takes pictures with them and repost them on her story and doubles down and keeps them up after she's told what they are this happened to me and all I got was a okay sorry and the pictures stayed up
@@Cee.u.next.Tuesdaywhat a hypocrite, after she trashed CCR (who I can’t stand mind you) over having a predator on her podcast. She needs to keep the same energy across the board
@@beanmoo oh my god yeah… still don’t like CCR of course but i remember how hard alexis went on her for platforming abusers… like… the pot calling the kettle black…
alexa has made her victomhood her entire personality in a very "my trauma is worse than your trauma" kind of way. also newsflash alexa, theres no such thing as the "perfect victim". you can be the abused & the abuser. aknowledging one whilst ignoring the other is worse than staying silent.
Somebody can be both a victim and an abuser. Two things can be true at once. And I wanna say that I remember her expressing similar sentiments weeks before Quiet On Set came out. Like, where did that energy go, girl?? We can still sympathize for what Drake Bell went through while also recognizing that being a victim does not absolve him from any abuse and harm he’s caused to other people.
Alexa is really one to call someone a victim blamer when she recently testified against a survivor who was being sued for defamation by Nick Carter (this was a survivor of Nick Carter). Who's really the victim blamer, Alexa? As a former Eat Predators member, this isn't even half of what she's allegedly done. Thank you Adam for bringing this more to light.
@@shiashau there’s honestly a lot. She’s had falling outs with members for a long time. Most recently in the start of this year she made a fundraiser for a survivor who needed heart surgery. She then accused the survivor of lying about where they spent the money (they weren’t lying) and she doubled down so hard on the survivor lying that she testified against them when they were being sued by Nick Carter for defamation. The defemation in question was the survivor telling their story about alleged SA regarding Nick. She accused the survivor of lying in the first place, I assume because she was upset she found out members were taking trash about her. Alexa believed the survivor took the money and spent it on I guess vacationing or something with another survivor who Alexa caught talking crap about her. Alexa was mad in my opinion. I think the whole thing was vindictive because Alexa didn’t like being talked bad about. She also made a whole live stream doxxing the name of the survivor she caught talking about her. It’s a lot lol
Not her taking legal counsel from someone who represented Danny Masterson of all people! Girl, please find someone who doesn't get predators a lighter sentence! Thats wild.
this would already be a disgusting thing to do in general but the fact that her entire brand is standing up for victims of abuse and she made that choice is diabolical
@@ashlyngolden18 Not only this but at her protests she has specifically called out LAWYERS who represent predators and addressed them directly!!! she has honestly and truly lost the plot
I think she needs to see someone about her mental health. If she sees someone already she needs to find another therapist/psychologist because something isn’t well with her.
That’s the feeling I got tbh. She’s fighting for an important cause but the execution was super questionable. I had to unsubscribe. I hope she can get the help she needs
Why does everyone always immediately blame the therapist when someone isn’t doing well. If she is seeing one maybe she’s the one not doing the work - it’s not the therapists job to do the work for the person
@@cady__It’s not blaming the therapist to say someone needs a different therapist. It refers to the fact that whether or not therapy works is not about some sort of objective quality about the therapist and more about whether it’s a good match. The perfect therapist for one person could be completely unhelpful for another, and it can have nothing to do with if “the work” is being done by either party. It’s often just about if what the therapist offers is what that patient actually needs. If you don’t understand what I mean I could try to explain further.
alexa needs to get off social media and seek help, she's literally being delusional. edit: wait, the article on alexa isn't even coming out and she's lashing out like this? must be bad.
Alexa doesn't care about victims. She cares about validating her own experiences, no one else's can "top" what she went through. The fact that it is such a competition to her speaks all I need to know about her character. You can be a victim and a mean-girl. Two things can be true at the same time.
this. it bothers me that she always says "my stalker" when every survivor of stalking i know heavily warns to never speak about them in a way that attaches them to you and and if you have to speak about them to just call them "the stalker, the creep, the weirdo. the preparator" but its best to never acknowledge it publicly because it will provoke them and makes it harder to get protection/restraining orders. her using that language is a dangerous representation that can put people at risk in their personal lives but its so clear she uses my stalker rather than the stalker because she is a narcissistic btch that only cares about people in the sense of as long as it is about her still. every story from other victim's she covered on her shitty pod mever focused on survivors because they were always about her
As a former mod of Alexa's just seeing her face is triggering. She is horrible and damaging to survivors. She is a phony and everything she does is self serving she doesnt actually care about helping survivors
i been watching all the things that she been saying and the fights that she had sometimes and i continued watching her hoping that she was not wrong but after some time i started to get annoying with her and i unsubscribed from her channel...she is really falling.
What did Alexa do? I don’t know much about this so I have no idea what she did, but I have been getting a bad feeling about her the past few months when I see her posts.
So glad she’s being called out. She contributed to the hate drake bell’s victims received because she refused to address the issue, deleted her old video, and claimed one victim made a mean comment towards her so she will never give his victims a platform ever again. After that I unsubscribed and will never support her content ever again.
stopped watching her a while ago because she uses her status as victim to try and shield herself from any form of criticism. she's manipulative af, honestly aggressive (the way she speaks is reminiscent of a parent who refuses accountability and just gets angry at you) and reallllly lacks self awareness. someone should tell her being a victim doesn't exonerate you of being in the wrong or an incredibly unpleasant person. not that she'll listen.
Alexa's 180 on Drake Bell told me everything I needed to know about her, she doesn't care about victims, she just pretends to care whenever she can profit off of it.
Did anyone else clock how weird her reaction to not being invited for the quiet on set reunion was? Or how weirdly jealous she got of Jenette McCurdy's book success? Since then ive been watching more deep dives on her and the EP podcast and I feel like I was falling for a grift that exploits people's trauma
@@poker8100 Honestly I don't understand this take. She was a big part of Zoey 101 for the time she was on it and should have at least been given the invite? Also the actor who played Chase called her and apologized lol. Alexa is truly unhinged and has A SHIT ton wrong with her, but this is incredibly normal to have this reaction..however, I wouldn't want to be around a cast that watched me get treated like shit, so I think she has some major self esteem issues (literally the least of her issues, there are many)
@@judysm95 I mean would she have wanted to be there? I mean Dan Schneider was there for crying out loud. Besides she expressed her hatred for the show and her character time and again well before she started speaking out. Why would she want to relive any of that?
@@poker8100 Yea we don't disagree. Hence the second part of my comment. I think of it like you left a really toxic friend group and they all get together after 10 years to celebrate the "good old days" and you aren't invited. It stings to not even be thought of or to be intentionally excluded, maybe you'd hope that everyone has grown and put the past behind them so things can be reconciled...wishful thinking? Absofuckinglutely. Natural human response? Sure. What is healthy doesn't always equal what we feel. My advice (I guess?) for her would be recognizing what's healthy for her and prioritizing that over those feelings.
as a multi instance survivor of CSA and SA, i still stick with you Adam. You have always done an amazing job representing survivors with respect and compassion❤️ Proud viewer of your content since pre-dramagedon ❤
Listen, I definitely believe that Alexa is a real survivor, and I get where she's coming from. But take it from someone who is also a real survivor: it doesn't excuse everything. And it especially doesn't excuse refusing to believe the survivors of Drake Bell.
I used to support Alexa but I can't anymore after the Drake Bell shit and also the fact that she genuinely can't take any form of criticism whatsoever. She always just explodes on people who don't support her entirely.
The lack of self-awareness on Alexa’s part is staggering. I wanted to support her and respected her work calling out predators. But her recent behavior shows her hypocrisy, especially since not too long ago, she was calling out Christy Carlson Romano for doing things she’s also now doing. And bringing Andrew Brettler into this?! 🤦🏻♀️ And that’s not even going into her wild takes on the upcoming U.S. presidential election 🙄
@@lenagalaxies no, but honestly, I don’t know if the reality is any better. Out of some narrow minded form of moral superiority, she refused to vote for Kamala over a single issue (Palestine), and sees grifting Jill Stein as a viable alternative. Multiple marginalized people have told her and others protest voting for the same issue why this is a bad idea, but they don’t listen. So she’s hardly alone in this, but it’s the straw that broke the camel’s back for me…before all this stuff came out.
@cakt1991 when Alexa posted her support for Jill Stein, I remember her posting of a comment saying why voting 3rd party was not the best idea and her making fun of the commenter for even considering voting for Kamala. Her posting that grossed me out so much
I always got a weird vibe from her but never said anything because of all she's been through. Not surprised something is off, but she needs therapy instead of the public eye
Yeah agreed on weird vibes from her as well. She always acts like she’s been through worse than other people. I’m like trauma and abuse isn’t a competition. Some people have been through a lot worse and they don’t act like her at all.
She's such a hypocrite. The way she went after Carly Carson Romano for working with Corey Feldman then did the exact same thing with Drake Bell. Throw them all away. She's throwing away any reputation she had as an activist and I honestly don't care what documents she has. He confessed and pled guilty to having sexually explicit conversations with a minor. That a was plea deal. He likely did worse but he plead to a lesser charge. Of course he's lying his ass off now to trying cover everything he's done. The fact that she's buying it is disgusting.
He was severely assaulted for years as a kid. That kind of shit can fuck you up in ways some of which make you think it's ok or that what you are doing isn't bad because you aren't touching or having sex with kids. He was still wrong but let's not forget he was dan schneiders creep employees number one target for years.
it's frustrating to see harrasment being instigated towards Kat for doing her job. I have empathy for Alexa but I think she needs to take a break from the internet and do a bit of reflection
It’s particularly vile of Alexa to do this because Kat has been relentlessly harassed by misogynists and r*pe apologists her whole career. She got absolutely torn apart (in large part thanks to Jeff Wittek and the Vlog Squad) after exposing the r*pe allegations against Dom. As a supposed supporter of victims it’s disgusting for Alexa to direct harassment against Kat who has stood up for victims this whole fucking time
Seeing her advocacy for drake bell was disheartening and tasteless. When that docuseries about Nickelodeon came out, it’s like she blocked out his victims from her mind, put on blinders and went all in. What was done to him should not be discounted or discredited, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that he’s also a perpetrator.
Working with the lawyer of Colleen, Bryan singer AND Danny masterson while claiming to be against predators is insannneee talk about cognitive dissonance omg
feel like this has always been lurking under the surface but until this summer i believed her narrative that the people who attack her are all victim blaming misogynists
People can have compassion for what Drake Bell has been through and still hold him accountable for things he has done. One doesn’t cancel out the other.
I haven’t felt right about her since she tried canceling Joe Jonas because he allegedly “asked her for pics” when they were both teenagers, and tried to make him sound like a predator
She does kinda look like she smells. And I mean that in a conspiracy theorist doesn’t care about anything but her own agenda so everything falls by the wayside. Like shampoo
I had weird vibes, but took it her being an actress, everything was so overly dramatacized, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. After like the 3rd video of hers I watched I was like nope, she's a freak, this is so gross lmao. I'm almost always right about my first impressions, but I end up giving ppl so many chances "just in case" and end up disappointed every time.
I attended her live (the now private video) about Drake Bell. When she made a complete 180 on him and disregarded what he did she lost all my respect. Supporting him completely ruined her "eat predators" message. All her behavior after that has only solidified my distrust of her. Disgusting.
@@cyberboy5redyup that’s why Ariana’s music career was so successful after victorious ended instead of Victoria’s. Ari let herself be controlled by Dan while Vic refused, pretty much why her music career flopped.
Yesss I have been waiting for more people to call out Alexa. I was a supporter last year until I started getting super bad vibes from her when she started attacking random people and doxxing them and shit. Eat Predators is NOT a safe space for survivors in multiple ways. PLEASE keep covering this Adam!!! Spill all the tea she will come after you but you are so much tougher than her you will absolutely own her.
I used to like Alexa but ever since a stream she had w another commentary channel (I literally forgot her name) they were talking about PDF files and clowns?? And other kinda off the wall stuff (kinda qanon-y) and making connections where there were none. I really feel like she’s been on the verge of psychosis for a while.
They were talking about backstreet boys and other boybands and the pedos that managed them. You going to discourge all that because they made connections with clowns is stupid
Alexa goes FERAL whenever anyone does not agree with her. I'm so sorry for what she had to go through, but you can't just attack people for not agreeing with EVERYTHING you say.
Not only was the switch up with Drake Bell distasteful, but I won’t forget what she did to Matthew Underwood. Making videos leaking private emails, and having her fans harass him only for him to have to come out about his abuse. She takes rumors and runs with them without any actual investigating just to make click bait titles for $$. I believe she had the right intentions going into this but she has sadly lost her damn mind
She fell into a journalistic role without actually being a journalist herself AND on a topic that she is way too personally invested in. Yeah, it was inevitable that once she started getting to stuff that wasn't her own experience she was going to start messing up. Unfortunately, instead of taking a step back and possibly hiring actual investigative journalists, she just doubled down.
I’m honestly curious if she ever did anything mean to Jamie Lynn spears and that’s why she got bullied by her… like we don’t really know Jamie or her just the stories and probably not the full truth. Because kids and teens in general are mean to each other and they both bully each other most of the time. But yeah she’s repeating what other people have done to her back.
@@baileyrobbins50 personally i’m never mean to someone if they’re not mean to me. and it would take me a lot to be as mean as Jamie was to Alexa. i definitely see where your coming from though 100%
I’ve had a weird feeling about her for so long now and I felt bad about it because everywhere I’ve looked everyone loved her but I kept getting these bad bad vibes but I’m so glad that I was right and more people see through her bullshit and victim mentality thank you for speaking about this!
SAME! her live streams feel more like she's trying to host a show instead of actually acting mature and talk about important subjects. Like she's so over the top they're almost react streams.
I used to support Eat Predators. I support the premise but NOT Alexa. Alexa has shown she herself part of the problem!!! Even her delving into politics lately has just made me realize I did the right thing by Unsubscribing six months ago.
i'm so glad you actually have this to defend yourself. it's so disturbing how she threatened you to make you feel scared. when i saw that i couldn't believe it
Dude. I watched a video of Alexa when the Colleen stuff happened and she DRAGGED Andrew Brettlor so this is actually hysterical that she hired him. She even said he had alleged allegations on HIMSELF 🤦🏻♀️🙈😂 Oh the irony.
I used to be on Alexa’s side, until she started to turn her victimhood into a brand for herself. She seems very hell bent on becoming well known and famous instead of making meaningful change. I found it odd how quickly she became a Britney worshipper once Britney apologised. Like not just ‘oh that was good of her thank you’ but instead immediately becoming a die hard stan. Idk there’s just something really off about her. I don’t doubt that she is very traumatised and has experienced awful things, but I think she’s been convinced that reopening these wounds so publicly time and time again is good for her but really at this point she needs to seek healing and move forward.
I didn’t think the Britney switch up was sus because… it’s Britney Spears. One of the greatest female pop artists ever. Her privating the Drake Bell video is what did it for me. She only cares about herself, not about victims.
Ophie Dokie’s videos really changed my mind about Alexa. That and the fact that Lio Convoy was being called out for similar behavior involving silencing and disrespecting victims while building a platform upon being anti-predator. I feel like internet fame brings out the worst in so many would-be victim advocates. It’s scary to think that these kinds of people are looked to as thought leaders by young impressionable victims.
i have literally always had an issue with the way she uses issues to attack people who don’t like her and i feel vindicated!!! i’ve been saying this for over a year and it’s unfortunate that she’s taken this route when she could’ve continued to be an influential advocate for victims
The fact that she's quick to call victims as 'victim blamers' when they disagree with her is really, really telling. The fact that she replied to me telling me that this is who she is...Jeez...
So did she just throw victims under the bus for a friendship with a predator .. I feel bad for child Drake not adult Drake because he would be the type of person to hurt his younger self
okay does anyone else think she talks in circles and says the same thing in different words for 20-30 minutes with a word salad consisting of “gaslighting” “trauma” “manipulation” etc
People like Alexa are victims who tell their story, get attention for it, then get addicted to that attention and end up chronic victims. They think that since they can say they were once a victim of someone and people flocked to support them that every other time they scream being a victim of someone those people will flock to her again and again. Alexa you're not a victim of anyone else other than that one instance. Time to put your big girl panties on and act like a survivor not a chronic victim.
Not only that but how dare she sit there screaming victimhood yet is sitting here attacking other victims. Like girl you went from a victim to the perpetrator.
@@BeforeOurCrime Oh but its a huge step to even admit it and you really should be proud of yourself for doing so and taking these steps to correct yourself
@@sabueso344 Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ It took me way too long to take off the veil of denial, and realize "I'm more than what happened to me, I need to recognize I'm hurting people and stop with the mentality that if they're not with me? They're against me" It's a hard journey, but, it'll be worth it for sure 🩷
@@sabueso344 Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ It's something I'm working on with my trauma counsellor. I also struggle with the black and white, all or nothing thinking due to both going through trauma and being autistic (That's a trait a lot of autistic people experience, and I've been diagnosed for almost 20 years and I'm just learning all of this about myself) I'm very proud of myself for taking this step. And I appreciate the kind words ❤️
I’ve had off vibes about Alexa for a hot minute, and I couldn’t explain why. I fully admit that the work that she and other victims did in exposing Dan Schneider as the monster he is is absolutely invaluable, and I will forever be grateful for her for doing thst. But after watching the excelent deep-dive series done by Ophie Dokie on her channel, where she talked about, among other things, Alexa’s hand in helping to rehabilitate the image of our Mexican king Drake Bell in the wake of Quiet On Set being released, among other things, I have such bad, icky vibes from her. She is the textbook example of how somebody can both be a victim of ab•se and also police other people’s trauma and experiences stemming from their own ab•se. Her being a victim and a survivor does not negate the fact that she gives off bitchy, mean girl energy, I’m sorry
No one has to "support" Drake Bell. He is a predator. Acknowledging and knowing what happened to him was wrong and terrible doesn't have to equate to "supporting" a creep.
In regards to how Alexa could have gotten these documents, she may have FOIA’d Drake Bell. FOIA refers to the Freedom Of Information Act and it allows citizens to request the department of justice to give them access to any specific legal documents that are not exempt by law from being accessed. Most court files would be included in this I believe. But there might be other ways to get those types of documents I don’t know.
Oh wow this is A LOT….as an original fan of eat predators literally in the discord before it was shut down and this is fucking insane. It’s been a struggle to support her after she removed the drake bell video but then addressed it. Personally I feel she should’ve just left it up and still addressed the nuance to the situation of drake bell. Two things can be true at once, drake bell was preyed upon but he also is a predator. It seems to be there was more that went down behind the scenes on quiet on set than we know clearly. I feel Alexa and Drake are friends now and have trauma bonded over the events of Nickelodeon, maybe she feels obligated to protected him now idk. This whole thing is extremely disappointing.
She’s probably involved romantically or wants to be with him. Like let’s be real here. Which is probably eating away at her conscience and that’s why she’s going insane.
@@Catglittercrafts she’s married lmao and has two children they literally just went on a husband and wife vacation. I follow her on socials she seems happily married and posts her family often.
When quiet on set first came out I started following Alexa and thought what she was doing was good and brave. What started to change my mind on her was after episode 5 came out and after praising the Quiet on Set crew suddenly she started criticizing them and speaking out against them heavily after a few other people expressed dislike for them. Then some video essays by a small channel called Ophie Dokie popped up on my feed and she made several good arguments about Alexa being a hypocrite and showed inconsistencies in her videos and after that I was done.
Im not religious, but im praying to whatever is out there for Alexis. She seems to really be going through it. She's been going downhill for a while, and having a child also can make it more difficult to focus on getting back on track for some people.
Trauma and abuse are a continuous generational cycle, and it is 100% possible to be a victim AND a perpetrator at the same time. I really appreciate you outlining that it isn't black and white or one or the other.
I dont like her. I tried to follow her after quite on set and her podcast gave me very bad vibes lol. All the points shed make would circle back to her, even if it was a situation that had nothing to do with her own stories. Mind you her story was mostly about bullying and being verbally abused, not sexually abused on set. I unfollowed her the same day i followed her 😭
same. Like don’t get me wrong I’m sure her experience on z101 was traumatic but capitalizing on others’ childhood trauma always rubbed me the wrong way. Especially now with the allegation that the “organization’s” money is now presumably keeping this attorney on retainer? edit: ALLEGEDLY
about the drake bell take- we don’t have to “support” drake bell, he took advantage of children and should be condemned for that. HOWEVER, we can still ACKNOWLEDGE his story and hold his perpetrator accountable. Just because something awful has happened to you, doesn’t mean your past gets wiped away nor does it make it less bad.
the Drake Bell conversation is too nuanced for the internet, I fear. Because exactly, two things can be true at the same time without invalidating each other - he was abused, and he was an abuser.
I agree. I also have some questions about the validity. Her family and friends who took her to the shows and attended with her say it never happened and Drake and the girl were never alone.
@@lmnlstes Many people take plea deals to avoid trial. While I question whether he did any of the things she says he did (due to the words of her family and friends), I do think he has some shady things in his DMs. Going to trial would mean the state would be able to enter his private messages....and he clearly doesn't want people to see those for some reason. Cheating? Other weird convos? Not sure.
@@lmnlstes why are you, as a user of the word "mansplain", assuming someone's gender?
they very well could also be a woman or otherwise nonbinary. weird ass behavior to get so up in arms about someone who was just trying to make conversation and was letting you know something in case you didn't which they couldn't know you did because they don't know you. and you don't know them. certainly not enough to confidently assert they're a man.
not to mention loads of people claim to know how the justice system works without actually having any clue how the justice system works but i digress.
the point they were TRYING to make is that someone pleading guilty =/= them actually being guilty... a lot of people plead guilty to crimes they were not guilty of bc that's part of the plea deal! they were just questioning the nuance of the situation and pointing out that while drake bell might not be guilty of what accuser said he did, or even what the state of california says he did, but that somewhere there very likely was misconduct or something that could be taken as such given drake bell plead guilty at all.
they weren't being hostile to you at all. or trying to make you sound like an idiot that doesn't know how the justice system works. your assumption that that was their intention is more telling of your own insecurities than of them trying to """mansplain""" something to you. ...in case you were waiting for someone to womansplain it to you. 😔
@@lmnlstes everytime a dumbass online has to resort to replying to someone with "TRIGGERED???" they may as well wave a white flag, ask me to piss in a cup, drink it, and then admit they're my little piss baby because it's effectively the same as admitting that they're too fucking stupid to come up with a half decent reply and that, contrary to what say to themselves at night as they cry themselves to sleep, they did not pwn anyone and in fact, did NOT win the internet that day.
but anyways im sooooo triggered you got me sooooo good you're soooo cool and smart and that hot girl you think wants to sleep with you is definitely into you, also
@@rat-calamityare you dumb woman can mansplan something to you look up words before going on a rant because it just makes you look stupid and uneducated
Called her out over a year ago or so for doxxing victims in her community, she blocked me so I blocked her from my wallet, she's despicable
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How did she doxx?!
She was?
and who did we hear this from? johnny
@@jyslog who is Johnny?
idk why people keep coming for Adam as if he's not gonna clock their tea everytime 😭
He is a truth teller and it's a big no no around these parts
still makes me laugh this phrase used to be very ironic / a gross misuse of AAVE but then became used widely LMFAO
I’ve become such an Adam fan they could never make me hate him. !!
He is a JOURNALIST
This feels like a misuse of aave somehow
She makes me feel like I’m not a “good enough victim”. Like whatever I went through doesn’t matter because she’s THE victim
That’s her vibe for sure
Yes!! And she’s “the head victim”. Like she gets to pick and chose who real victims are/ which predators get a pass. Very odd
ive been around other survivors like this while surviving abuse it is so exhausting. they constantly make you feel like your story isnt important enough at all
Kind of like Johnny Silvestri when everything about Colleen came out. He seemed to insinuate his story was the biggest, the most shocking, like he was THE victim.
@@randirauhlinYESSSSS i find it so strange that she has basically branded herself a victim. Her fandom name is basically “survivors.” Her podcast name would literally be called “Survivor.”
After how she handled the drake bell situation 3 months ago I noticed how much of a victim complex she has.
Me too
that's when I stopped watching her
@@aparkinglottsame here
What happened to her.. Jamie Lynn spears bullied her and Brittney Spears yelled at her?
Hmm... I've noticed how much of an attention-grabber she seems to be. Maybe it crosses over with the victim complex thing.
dude SHOUT OUT Becky she has been so vocal as of late and im LIVING for her takes every time
*shouts to becky* 🔊🔉🔈🔊🔉🔈🔊🔉🔈
I love Becky❤
❤❤
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I’ve had so many weird vibes about certain things when it comes to her but never felt free to share any of my opinions because she doesn’t seem very understanding or willing to accept constructive criticism at all.
yesss my thoughts exactly!
@@DJthehuman every time someone would call her out she freaks out does a long stream and then says they are just attacking her because she’s a woman or a victim and calls everyone who has called her out a predator. For her predator just means “this person is not a good person or I don’t like them” not the typical kind of person we think of when we hear that word. I used to literally pay to be a member but just couldn’t handle some of her reactions
There's a small channel "Ophie Dokie" who did a deep-dive on alexa/eat p* a while back. It's really good, her work explained a lot of those... Weird vibes many of us noticed but couldn't quite place. It's not a h4te video or anything either, very respectful, Ophie herself was a big fan of Alexa irrc.
Me too!! I caught on too, she always makes everything about herself imo. I stayed subbed for a bit less than a year, and then she threw her hissy fit when ppl called her out, and ran away, that made me unsub.
SAME, the way she went about things always made me uncomfortable but it felt like it wasn't allowed to criticise her
Thank you Adam for speaking on Drake Bell. I don’t understand how it’s hard for people to understand that someone can be both a victim and perpetrator. Supporting Drake for the absolute trauma he went through doesn’t take away from supporting his victims and condemning his actions AT ALL.
Also the story gets complicated as the people who were involved with Drakes situation’s legal situation changed their stories
The girl lied abt her age move on
it’s ironic how Alexa doesn’t understand that Victims can later be Perpetrators when in fact SHE IS ONE TOO… she was a victim in her childhood years but are now hurting victims alike
What's more ironic is that Alexa actually knows of it very well as she's covered it in many videos - she intentionally presents herself in whatever light will garner the most sympathy, even though viewers have access to see all the inaccuracies and contradictions
She was a victim that turned into the monster@@bydivadream
Hurting victims? What did she do?
@@champagnexoxo1198 how much do you know about Alexa currently?
eat the predators creator hires council that defends predatory creators 😭😭😭 the irony is painful
She also takes pictures with them and repost them on her story and doubles down and keeps them up after she's told what they are this happened to me and all I got was a okay sorry and the pictures stayed up
@@Cee.u.next.Tuesdaywhat a hypocrite, after she trashed CCR (who I can’t stand mind you) over having a predator on her podcast. She needs to keep the same energy across the board
The fact that she calls out people for doing this too 😂
Literally tho 😭☠️
@@beanmoo oh my god yeah… still don’t like CCR of course but i remember how hard alexis went on her for platforming abusers… like… the pot calling the kettle black…
obsessed w the fact that the lore background keeps expanding
Lol same!!! 😍
Omg mariah carey from BTS 😍
When did the big stuffed animal get back there???
@@J_ads2000don’t forget Chappell Roan from BTS 😍
@@KingOfGaymesshe’s my favorite idol
alexa has made her victomhood her entire personality in a very "my trauma is worse than your trauma" kind of way.
also newsflash alexa, theres no such thing as the "perfect victim". you can be the abused & the abuser. aknowledging one whilst ignoring the other is worse than staying silent.
Thank you for articulating what I couldn't
Adam is such a MACHINE even Ethan Klein was like "wtf how does he make videos this fast"
Cause he's a King
HONETSLY he is the only content creator who matches my speed of watching videos and thats insane
he covers several topics in streams at once then cuts them down and schedules them
@@aerialdive Except this one was made off stream 🦧🦧
@@aerialdivewhere does he do his streams?
Somebody can be both a victim and an abuser. Two things can be true at once. And I wanna say that I remember her expressing similar sentiments weeks before Quiet On Set came out. Like, where did that energy go, girl??
We can still sympathize for what Drake Bell went through while also recognizing that being a victim does not absolve him from any abuse and harm he’s caused to other people.
Well said. 100% agree.
Literally!! Like where is the critical thinking with her
Alexa is really one to call someone a victim blamer when she recently testified against a survivor who was being sued for defamation by Nick Carter (this was a survivor of Nick Carter). Who's really the victim blamer, Alexa? As a former Eat Predators member, this isn't even half of what she's allegedly done. Thank you Adam for bringing this more to light.
Oh, jesus.. that's so gross. I'm glad I canceled my membership, this info extra confirms I made the proper choice
what's the tldr on alexa? i don't know anything about her so I'm confused
@@shiashau there’s honestly a lot. She’s had falling outs with members for a long time. Most recently in the start of this year she made a fundraiser for a survivor who needed heart surgery. She then accused the survivor of lying about where they spent the money (they weren’t lying) and she doubled down so hard on the survivor lying that she testified against them when they were being sued by Nick Carter for defamation. The defemation in question was the survivor telling their story about alleged SA regarding Nick. She accused the survivor of lying in the first place, I assume because she was upset she found out members were taking trash about her. Alexa believed the survivor took the money and spent it on I guess vacationing or something with another survivor who Alexa caught talking crap about her. Alexa was mad in my opinion. I think the whole thing was vindictive because Alexa didn’t like being talked bad about. She also made a whole live stream doxxing the name of the survivor she caught talking about her. It’s a lot lol
@@shiashaushe's a fraud
@@LaurenKristineomg i hope adam picks this up as a topic.... im shockeeeeeddd
Adam is single handedly carrying TH-cam on his back rn
Him and D’Angelo Wallace
@@Catglittercraftstru real and based
The truth!
@@Catglittercraftsliterally the only two youtubers I watch consistently anymore 😭
I truly do not have time to be chronically online with all these new videos
Not her taking legal counsel from someone who represented Danny Masterson of all people! Girl, please find someone who doesn't get predators a lighter sentence! Thats wild.
😮😮😮😮😮😮
this would already be a disgusting thing to do in general but the fact that her entire brand is standing up for victims of abuse and she made that choice is diabolical
@@ashlyngolden18 Not only this but at her protests she has specifically called out LAWYERS who represent predators and addressed them directly!!! she has honestly and truly lost the plot
And freaking Prince Andrew! 🤮🤮
It is so unbelievably bizarre for her to (allegedly) hire Mr. Andrew the predator lawyer?? Ironic much?
I think she needs to see someone about her mental health. If she sees someone already she needs to find another therapist/psychologist because something isn’t well with her.
That’s the feeling I got tbh. She’s fighting for an important cause but the execution was super questionable. I had to unsubscribe. I hope she can get the help she needs
Yeah I agree 💯
Why does everyone always immediately blame the therapist when someone isn’t doing well. If she is seeing one maybe she’s the one not doing the work - it’s not the therapists job to do the work for the person
@@cady__It’s not blaming the therapist to say someone needs a different therapist. It refers to the fact that whether or not therapy works is not about some sort of objective quality about the therapist and more about whether it’s a good match. The perfect therapist for one person could be completely unhelpful for another, and it can have nothing to do with if “the work” is being done by either party. It’s often just about if what the therapist offers is what that patient actually needs. If you don’t understand what I mean I could try to explain further.
Right and everyone dogpiling on her it’s a low blow to me.
alexa needs to get off social media and seek help, she's literally being delusional.
edit: wait, the article on alexa isn't even coming out and she's lashing out like this? must be bad.
As of an hour ago on instagram story she has apparently deleted 'X' and the response video she posted will be her last apparently
@@claudiawhite7641 ah, the cody ko gambit. i hope she takes the time to work through whatever it is she has to work through
@@claudiawhite7641she should be investigated
Alexa doesn't care about victims. She cares about validating her own experiences, no one else's can "top" what she went through. The fact that it is such a competition to her speaks all I need to know about her character. You can be a victim and a mean-girl. Two things can be true at the same time.
this. it bothers me that she always says "my stalker" when every survivor of stalking i know heavily warns to never speak about them in a way that attaches them to you and and if you have to speak about them to just call them "the stalker, the creep, the weirdo. the preparator" but its best to never acknowledge it publicly because it will provoke them and makes it harder to get protection/restraining orders. her using that language is a dangerous representation that can put people at risk in their personal lives
but its so clear she uses my stalker rather than the stalker because she is a narcissistic btch that only cares about people in the sense of as long as it is about her still. every story from other victim's she covered on her shitty pod mever focused on survivors because they were always about her
“Adam MCKINNER” -Alexa Nikolas
LMAOOO
As a former mod of Alexa's just seeing her face is triggering. She is horrible and damaging to survivors. She is a phony and everything she does is self serving she doesnt actually care about helping survivors
No she wants you money lol
I've been waiting for this video (as a former member of eat predators)
I said that too 😂
SAME
i been watching all the things that she been saying and the fights that she had sometimes and i continued watching her hoping that she was not wrong but after some time i started to get annoying with her and i unsubscribed from her channel...she is really falling.
What did Alexa do? I don’t know much about this so I have no idea what she did, but I have been getting a bad feeling about her the past few months when I see her posts.
So glad she’s being called out. She contributed to the hate drake bell’s victims received because she refused to address the issue, deleted her old video, and claimed one victim made a mean comment towards her so she will never give his victims a platform ever again. After that I unsubscribed and will never support her content ever again.
stopped watching her a while ago because she uses her status as victim to try and shield herself from any form of criticism. she's manipulative af, honestly aggressive (the way she speaks is reminiscent of a parent who refuses accountability and just gets angry at you) and reallllly lacks self awareness. someone should tell her being a victim doesn't exonerate you of being in the wrong or an incredibly unpleasant person. not that she'll listen.
Alexa's 180 on Drake Bell told me everything I needed to know about her, she doesn't care about victims, she just pretends to care whenever she can profit off of it.
Did anyone else clock how weird her reaction to not being invited for the quiet on set reunion was? Or how weirdly jealous she got of Jenette McCurdy's book success? Since then ive been watching more deep dives on her and the EP podcast and I feel like I was falling for a grift that exploits people's trauma
Or even back in 2018 how she cried simply because no one invited her to the original Zoey 101 reunion
@@poker8100it's all for attention she's a nut
@@poker8100 Honestly I don't understand this take. She was a big part of Zoey 101 for the time she was on it and should have at least been given the invite? Also the actor who played Chase called her and apologized lol. Alexa is truly unhinged and has A SHIT ton wrong with her, but this is incredibly normal to have this reaction..however, I wouldn't want to be around a cast that watched me get treated like shit, so I think she has some major self esteem issues (literally the least of her issues, there are many)
@@judysm95 I mean would she have wanted to be there? I mean Dan Schneider was there for crying out loud. Besides she expressed her hatred for the show and her character time and again well before she started speaking out. Why would she want to relive any of that?
@@poker8100 Yea we don't disagree. Hence the second part of my comment. I think of it like you left a really toxic friend group and they all get together after 10 years to celebrate the "good old days" and you aren't invited. It stings to not even be thought of or to be intentionally excluded, maybe you'd hope that everyone has grown and put the past behind them so things can be reconciled...wishful thinking? Absofuckinglutely. Natural human response? Sure.
What is healthy doesn't always equal what we feel. My advice (I guess?) for her would be recognizing what's healthy for her and prioritizing that over those feelings.
as a multi instance survivor of CSA and SA, i still stick with you Adam. You have always done an amazing job representing survivors with respect and compassion❤️ Proud viewer of your content since pre-dramagedon ❤
adam catching strays this week
real. someone free mother mucker 😭
He be catching them and punting them back tho
Listen, I definitely believe that Alexa is a real survivor, and I get where she's coming from. But take it from someone who is also a real survivor: it doesn't excuse everything. And it especially doesn't excuse refusing to believe the survivors of Drake Bell.
That part
She never said she doesnt believe his victims. Two things can be true at once. Drake Bell was a victim as a Child and he became a perpurtater
7:01 … So she hired a well-known defense attorney for famous predators to defend her company that’s meant to take down famous predators?
Child acting rotted her brain cuz thats some sitcome villian shit
Yup…
I used to support Alexa but I can't anymore after the Drake Bell shit and also the fact that she genuinely can't take any form of criticism whatsoever. She always just explodes on people who don't support her entirely.
She fell out of a 🥥 🌴 and hit her damn head 😂😂
👁️ 👄 👁️ you . . Exist in the timeframe of 😂😂😂😂😂😂 you exist in the timeframe of everything that came before you 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😊
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The lack of self-awareness on Alexa’s part is staggering. I wanted to support her and respected her work calling out predators. But her recent behavior shows her hypocrisy, especially since not too long ago, she was calling out Christy Carlson Romano for doing things she’s also now doing. And bringing Andrew Brettler into this?! 🤦🏻♀️ And that’s not even going into her wild takes on the upcoming U.S. presidential election 🙄
Wait, she's a TRUMP supporter?! 😭
@@lenagalaxies no, but honestly, I don’t know if the reality is any better. Out of some narrow minded form of moral superiority, she refused to vote for Kamala over a single issue (Palestine), and sees grifting Jill Stein as a viable alternative. Multiple marginalized people have told her and others protest voting for the same issue why this is a bad idea, but they don’t listen. So she’s hardly alone in this, but it’s the straw that broke the camel’s back for me…before all this stuff came out.
"Over a single issue", um, don't diminish genocide maybe. @@cakt1991
@cakt1991 when Alexa posted her support for Jill Stein, I remember her posting of a comment saying why voting 3rd party was not the best idea and her making fun of the commenter for even considering voting for Kamala. Her posting that grossed me out so much
@@maripoopsicle yikes!
I always got a weird vibe from her but never said anything because of all she's been through. Not surprised something is off, but she needs therapy instead of the public eye
Agreed
*Allegedly* all that she’s been through. She has a habit of lying and exaggerating and recycling other people’s trauma as her own.
Yeah agreed on weird vibes from her as well. She always acts like she’s been through worse than other people. I’m like trauma and abuse isn’t a competition. Some people have been through a lot worse and they don’t act like her at all.
Too bad her own narcissim wins out overall
Me too!!!
shes genuinely hurting victims
She's such a hypocrite. The way she went after Carly Carson Romano for working with Corey Feldman then did the exact same thing with Drake Bell. Throw them all away. She's throwing away any reputation she had as an activist and I honestly don't care what documents she has. He confessed and pled guilty to having sexually explicit conversations with a minor. That a was plea deal. He likely did worse but he plead to a lesser charge. Of course he's lying his ass off now to trying cover everything he's done. The fact that she's buying it is disgusting.
He was severely assaulted for years as a kid. That kind of shit can fuck you up in ways some of which make you think it's ok or that what you are doing isn't bad because you aren't touching or having sex with kids. He was still wrong but let's not forget he was dan schneiders creep employees number one target for years.
GIRL SHE WENT FROM SAVIOR TO SHITSHOW REAL QUICK I CANT WAIT FOR THIS
Alas, she did. She's really not ok.
Yeah that drake video really fucked everything up😂
This is not a good thing… your happy a survivor speaking up is mentally ill and causing more harm to the community yall are the problem
As someone who’s kept an eye on her for over a year and spoken to some of the people she’s fucked over, I was WAITING for this moment.
@@spiritualpercentagepleaseee share
it's frustrating to see harrasment being instigated towards Kat for doing her job. I have empathy for Alexa but I think she needs to take a break from the internet and do a bit of reflection
It’s particularly vile of Alexa to do this because Kat has been relentlessly harassed by misogynists and r*pe apologists her whole career. She got absolutely torn apart (in large part thanks to Jeff Wittek and the Vlog Squad) after exposing the r*pe allegations against Dom. As a supposed supporter of victims it’s disgusting for Alexa to direct harassment against Kat who has stood up for victims this whole fucking time
Seeing her advocacy for drake bell was disheartening and tasteless. When that docuseries about Nickelodeon came out, it’s like she blocked out his victims from her mind, put on blinders and went all in. What was done to him should not be discounted or discredited, but that doesn’t take away from the fact that he’s also a perpetrator.
Which victims?
All of drake bell’s victims. I wasn’t singling just one of them out
i always got big main character energy from her.. she isn’t the only victim in the world. plus the defence of drake bell cannot be excused
Working with the lawyer of Colleen, Bryan singer AND Danny masterson while claiming to be against predators is insannneee talk about cognitive dissonance omg
Also its so sad to see Alexa react like this. I thought she was cool, but i guess not.
I'm disappointed too, she's making it about herself when she could turn things around for the better.
feel like this has always been lurking under the surface but until this summer i believed her narrative that the people who attack her are all victim blaming misogynists
@@LiseAsmrCake I feel like she's always been that way
@@Cee.u.next.Tuesday I'll believe it.
Completely unrelated but I’m just happy I saw Blackfire as your pfp 🤓😍😅
0:14 adam needs to go back to Dollywood and get another one of those shirts
He needs all the dollywood shirts
adam you’re literally so fair and unproblematic why is everyone coming for u !! is mercury is the microwave or something
mercury in the microwave KILLED ME LMAO
Unproblematic? He smears people for a living.
@@ericah2 Another variation I've seen is "Mercury is in Gatorade" 😂😂😂
People can have compassion for what Drake Bell has been through and still hold him accountable for things he has done. One doesn’t cancel out the other.
It’s really start unwarranted beef with Adam week huh
I haven’t felt right about her since she tried canceling Joe Jonas because he allegedly “asked her for pics” when they were both teenagers, and tried to make him sound like a predator
According to her IMDB, they were good friends with each other.
Was that when he was getting a divorced ? And she brought it up or before that?
@@baileyrobbins50 yup, she brought it up like 2 days after his divorce got announced!
I love being autistic because I am quite literally NEVER wrong about the vibes I get from people. I could smell she was nefarious from day 1.
She does kinda look like she smells. And I mean that in a conspiracy theorist doesn’t care about anything but her own agenda so everything falls by the wayside. Like shampoo
same girl
I had weird vibes, but took it her being an actress, everything was so overly dramatacized, so I gave her the benefit of the doubt. After like the 3rd video of hers I watched I was like nope, she's a freak, this is so gross lmao. I'm almost always right about my first impressions, but I end up giving ppl so many chances "just in case" and end up disappointed every time.
Yeah the name of her show always struck me as odd. Eat predators? Huh?
I didn't get that kind of autism, sadly. I got the "Take everything everyone says at face value" kind.
I attended her live (the now private video) about Drake Bell. When she made a complete 180 on him and disregarded what he did she lost all my respect. Supporting him completely ruined her "eat predators" message. All her behavior after that has only solidified my distrust of her. Disgusting.
Yeah I watched her less after she start going to the defense of Drake Bell and that guy she was a co star with on Zoey 101.
Wasn’t Alexa shitting on Victoria Justice too? cause of what Victoria did to her when Victoria was 12 years old??
YEP
Victoria herself is a victim, too. Like she got blacklisted from the movie industry because of her not taking Dan Schneider’s crap
@@megamovieman101Wait, really? She was?
@@megamovieman101 OMG???
@@cyberboy5redyup that’s why Ariana’s music career was so successful after victorious ended instead of Victoria’s. Ari let herself be controlled by Dan while Vic refused, pretty much why her music career flopped.
Yesss I have been waiting for more people to call out Alexa. I was a supporter last year until I started getting super bad vibes from her when she started attacking random people and doxxing them and shit. Eat Predators is NOT a safe space for survivors in multiple ways. PLEASE keep covering this Adam!!! Spill all the tea she will come after you but you are so much tougher than her you will absolutely own her.
The weaponized therapy speak with “victim blaming” is what gets me…
Ophie Dokie has been on top of Alexa and Eat Predators for a while now!! Her channel is criminally underrated.
YES I love Ophie!!!
I used to like Alexa but ever since a stream she had w another commentary channel (I literally forgot her name) they were talking about PDF files and clowns?? And other kinda off the wall stuff (kinda qanon-y) and making connections where there were none. I really feel like she’s been on the verge of psychosis for a while.
it was BJ
They were talking about backstreet boys and other boybands and the pedos that managed them. You going to discourge all that because they made connections with clowns is stupid
@@chrisblessing45I don’t like BJ very much, even if she’s helping out DogPack404
@@Dave102693 I like BJ .... she cares about people like me and I am thankful for it
@@chrisblessing45well I’m very glad for you but I personally can’t stand her period.
Alexa goes FERAL whenever anyone does not agree with her. I'm so sorry for what she had to go through, but you can't just attack people for not agreeing with EVERYTHING you say.
Not only was the switch up with Drake Bell distasteful, but I won’t forget what she did to Matthew Underwood. Making videos leaking private emails, and having her fans harass him only for him to have to come out about his abuse. She takes rumors and runs with them without any actual investigating just to make click bait titles for $$. I believe she had the right intentions going into this but she has sadly lost her damn mind
Yup
She fell into a journalistic role without actually being a journalist herself AND on a topic that she is way too personally invested in. Yeah, it was inevitable that once she started getting to stuff that wasn't her own experience she was going to start messing up. Unfortunately, instead of taking a step back and possibly hiring actual investigative journalists, she just doubled down.
Rude that you dropped this right before I need to sleep 😂
her mean girl energy is giving Jamie Lynn Spears. would’ve thought she would’ve learned something from what she went through
Lmaooo fr
exactly
I’m honestly curious if she ever did anything mean to Jamie Lynn spears and that’s why she got bullied by her… like we don’t really know Jamie or her just the stories and probably not the full truth. Because kids and teens in general are mean to each other and they both bully each other most of the time.
But yeah she’s repeating what other people have done to her back.
@@baileyrobbins50 personally i’m never mean to someone if they’re not mean to me. and it would take me a lot to be as mean as Jamie was to Alexa. i definitely see where your coming from though 100%
Maybe JLS just didn’t want to be around her because she’s obnoxious
I’ve had a weird feeling about her for so long now and I felt bad about it because everywhere I’ve looked everyone loved her but I kept getting these bad bad vibes but I’m so glad that I was right and more people see through her bullshit and victim mentality thank you for speaking about this!
SAME! her live streams feel more like she's trying to host a show instead of actually acting mature and talk about important subjects. Like she's so over the top they're almost react streams.
@@NeonWave91 YES! to me it’s always felt like she had to be the victim even if the situation wasn’t about her
I used to support Eat Predators.
I support the premise but NOT Alexa.
Alexa has shown she herself part of the problem!!!
Even her delving into politics lately has just made me realize I did the right thing by Unsubscribing six months ago.
officially a fallen H3 fan converting to Adam
i'm so glad you actually have this to defend yourself. it's so disturbing how she threatened you to make you feel scared. when i saw that i couldn't believe it
Dude. I watched a video of Alexa when the Colleen stuff happened and she DRAGGED Andrew Brettlor so this is actually hysterical that she hired him. She even said he had alleged allegations on HIMSELF 🤦🏻♀️🙈😂 Oh the irony.
I used to be on Alexa’s side, until she started to turn her victimhood into a brand for herself. She seems very hell bent on becoming well known and famous instead of making meaningful change.
I found it odd how quickly she became a Britney worshipper once Britney apologised. Like not just ‘oh that was good of her thank you’ but instead immediately becoming a die hard stan.
Idk there’s just something really off about her. I don’t doubt that she is very traumatised and has experienced awful things, but I think she’s been convinced that reopening these wounds so publicly time and time again is good for her but really at this point she needs to seek healing and move forward.
I didn’t think the Britney switch up was sus because… it’s Britney Spears. One of the greatest female pop artists ever. Her privating the Drake Bell video is what did it for me. She only cares about herself, not about victims.
Ophie Dokie’s videos really changed my mind about Alexa. That and the fact that Lio Convoy was being called out for similar behavior involving silencing and disrespecting victims while building a platform upon being anti-predator. I feel like internet fame brings out the worst in so many would-be victim advocates. It’s scary to think that these kinds of people are looked to as thought leaders by young impressionable victims.
IVE BEEN WAITING FOR YOU TO TALK ABOUT THIS!!
i have literally always had an issue with the way she uses issues to attack people who don’t like her and i feel vindicated!!! i’ve been saying this for over a year and it’s unfortunate that she’s taken this route when she could’ve continued to be an influential advocate for victims
What is with these former child stars, like jeezus. They all act holier than thou, until their skeletons come out of the closet.
That's crazy that every time someone calls her out she calls them a victim blamer. How immature.
Truthfully, all she is a coward hiding behind the word victim.
"Survivor". She loves calling herself a "survivor".
The fact that she's quick to call victims as 'victim blamers' when they disagree with her is really, really telling. The fact that she replied to me telling me that this is who she is...Jeez...
She is also doing the same things she called CCR out for too, so there is that.
So did she just throw victims under the bus for a friendship with a predator ..
I feel bad for child Drake not adult Drake because he would be the type of person to hurt his younger self
I’ve been WAITING for this. Something always felt off about her and i didn’t know why lol
okay does anyone else think she talks in circles and says the same thing in different words for 20-30 minutes with a word salad consisting of “gaslighting” “trauma” “manipulation” etc
She does
The fact that Alexa didn't post on IG about going to Drake Bell's concert I guess shows she didn't want people to know
People like Alexa are victims who tell their story, get attention for it, then get addicted to that attention and end up chronic victims. They think that since they can say they were once a victim of someone and people flocked to support them that every other time they scream being a victim of someone those people will flock to her again and again. Alexa you're not a victim of anyone else other than that one instance. Time to put your big girl panties on and act like a survivor not a chronic victim.
Not only that but how dare she sit there screaming victimhood yet is sitting here attacking other victims. Like girl you went from a victim to the perpetrator.
Yup. And I'm one of those people. I'm seeing a LOT of myself in her and it's something she needs to work on, as do I
@@BeforeOurCrime Oh but its a huge step to even admit it and you really should be proud of yourself for doing so and taking these steps to correct yourself
@@sabueso344 Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ It took me way too long to take off the veil of denial, and realize "I'm more than what happened to me, I need to recognize I'm hurting people and stop with the mentality that if they're not with me? They're against me"
It's a hard journey, but, it'll be worth it for sure 🩷
@@sabueso344 Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️ It's something I'm working on with my trauma counsellor. I also struggle with the black and white, all or nothing thinking due to both going through trauma and being autistic (That's a trait a lot of autistic people experience, and I've been diagnosed for almost 20 years and I'm just learning all of this about myself)
I'm very proud of myself for taking this step. And I appreciate the kind words ❤️
I’ve had off vibes about Alexa for a hot minute, and I couldn’t explain why. I fully admit that the work that she and other victims did in exposing Dan Schneider as the monster he is is absolutely invaluable, and I will forever be grateful for her for doing thst. But after watching the excelent deep-dive series done by Ophie Dokie on her channel, where she talked about, among other things, Alexa’s hand in helping to rehabilitate the image of our Mexican king Drake Bell in the wake of Quiet On Set being released, among other things, I have such bad, icky vibes from her. She is the textbook example of how somebody can both be a victim of ab•se and also police other people’s trauma and experiences stemming from their own ab•se. Her being a victim and a survivor does not negate the fact that she gives off bitchy, mean girl energy, I’m sorry
As soon as I saw the title and who it was on.....I know I had to watch this before slumber
No one has to "support" Drake Bell. He is a predator. Acknowledging and knowing what happened to him was wrong and terrible doesn't have to equate to "supporting" a creep.
Using Andrew Bretler against Adam feels SO calculated. That cannot possibly be a coincidence. Girl wanted to trigger him
In regards to how Alexa could have gotten these documents, she may have FOIA’d Drake Bell. FOIA refers to the Freedom Of Information Act and it allows citizens to request the department of justice to give them access to any specific legal documents that are not exempt by law from being accessed. Most court files would be included in this I believe. But there might be other ways to get those types of documents I don’t know.
I am so glad someone finally pointed out this behavior from her. I wondered for a while if I was wrong for feeling this way.
Alexa: I’m *the* ✨victim ✨
Oh wow this is A LOT….as an original fan of eat predators literally in the discord before it was shut down and this is fucking insane. It’s been a struggle to support her after she removed the drake bell video but then addressed it. Personally I feel she should’ve just left it up and still addressed the nuance to the situation of drake bell. Two things can be true at once, drake bell was preyed upon but he also is a predator. It seems to be there was more that went down behind the scenes on quiet on set than we know clearly. I feel Alexa and Drake are friends now and have trauma bonded over the events of Nickelodeon, maybe she feels obligated to protected him now idk. This whole thing is extremely disappointing.
That makes her a hypocrite
She’s probably involved romantically or wants to be with him. Like let’s be real here. Which is probably eating away at her conscience and that’s why she’s going insane.
@@Catglittercrafts she’s married lmao and has two children they literally just went on a husband and wife vacation. I follow her on socials she seems happily married and posts her family often.
When quiet on set first came out I started following Alexa and thought what she was doing was good and brave. What started to change my mind on her was after episode 5 came out and after praising the Quiet on Set crew suddenly she started criticizing them and speaking out against them heavily after a few other people expressed dislike for them. Then some video essays by a small channel called Ophie Dokie popped up on my feed and she made several good arguments about Alexa being a hypocrite and showed inconsistencies in her videos and after that I was done.
I don't think Alexa realizing that she's had become the bully throughout these years lol...
Im not religious, but im praying to whatever is out there for Alexis. She seems to really be going through it. She's been going downhill for a while, and having a child also can make it more difficult to focus on getting back on track for some people.
Ive been saying she is hungry for attention with how often she makes herself a victim in all situations.
whenever I get bored is just when I check my youtube home page and you've just uploaded, thank u king ADAM 💜
Alexa is the type of person that just burns bridges & attacks everyone like girl take a step back it’s such HS mean girl vibes
She gets offended too easily and I lost respect for her awhile ago... not everyone who disagrees with you is "attacking you" or "victim blaming you."
I've been feeling real depressed lately and your videos are helping me through it love your videos adam!
Me too =/
Eat Predators? More like Dine with Predators.
The guidelines on her TH-cam comment section says “Be civil and respectful. No self promotion or spam”.
Trauma and abuse are a continuous generational cycle, and it is 100% possible to be a victim AND a perpetrator at the same time. I really appreciate you outlining that it isn't black and white or one or the other.
I dont like her. I tried to follow her after quite on set and her podcast gave me very bad vibes lol. All the points shed make would circle back to her, even if it was a situation that had nothing to do with her own stories. Mind you her story was mostly about bullying and being verbally abused, not sexually abused on set. I unfollowed her the same day i followed her 😭
same. Like don’t get me wrong I’m sure her experience on z101 was traumatic but capitalizing on others’ childhood trauma always rubbed me the wrong way. Especially now with the allegation that the “organization’s” money is now presumably keeping this attorney on retainer?
edit: ALLEGEDLY
Anyone remember when Lindsey Shaw and her used to be friends and called her crazy and her mom?
about the drake bell take- we don’t have to “support” drake bell, he took advantage of children and should be condemned for that. HOWEVER, we can still ACKNOWLEDGE his story and hold his perpetrator accountable. Just because something awful has happened to you, doesn’t mean your past gets wiped away nor does it make it less bad.
Of course her brand is "eat predators," they say you are what you eat 🧐