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@bipi420 I'm 28 and the only close friends I had we all stopped talking. I was always the one trying to get everybody together and texting people first. I got sick of it😒
got me tearing up w the friend convo, i feel like covid and social media made it so much harder to make friends naturally, but it’s so comforting to see all the comments here feeling the same way. we will find our people soon 🥹🤍
i’ve always viewed you as so much more grown up and put together than me and to listen to you talk about not having friends and wanting to go out and doing things alone really puts me back to perspective that none of us know what anyone is going through 😭 reinforced why i love you and your vids so much
As someone in their 30s trust me the homies will come. I felt the same way about bridesmaids when I was your age & when I did get married I had the most special people with me.
That friend convo was spot on! BUT there are benefits of being alone…the main one I realized was NOT having to wait for ppl for plans to follow through. or the disappointment of ppl flaking on you.
Everything about the friend thing is so felt! I've never had cousins, siblings, or close friends that I've been super close to. I always thought it was just me, and maybe people just don't like me.. such a sad and sucky thing to experience. I've been watching you for over 3 months now and always look forward to your videos throughout the week. I am literally answering you or agreeing about stuff while I have my sesh with you. ❤ you girl!
I heavily relate to trying to find a friend group or even just a friend, but struggling to find that spark. In a way I guess I have grouped friendships as like relationship’s, but without the romantic aspect. I still want to go on friend dates, reciprocate love languages, & feel that tie like “These are my people.” Whenever I would make a new friend I always felt like I moved my world around for them & lost myself in the midst. It didn’t feel like we were meeting in the middle to build a friendship that both people benefited from. Of course, I had my faults in the situations, but that’s been a main feeling that’s lingered for me & made it hard to trust that people will stick around.
🥲 I pray I meet you one day, this video made me get out a loop of depression, (I haven’t been smoking) but I finally took a puff watching your video today and I love your energy lovely. Definitely subscribing!!!
one time i was at a party and the only food there was jollibee chicken and some pizza. towards the end i was pretty lit and hungry obviously. so i was eating cold pizza, but it was dry so i started dipping it in the jollibee gravy 😭😭 def got clowned on for that big back moment
hey girl… i feel you so much with the friendship conversation. i’m getting married next year and only have my sister and sister in law as bridesmaids. it’s been humbling and eye opening. as an adult it’s so hard to make friends.
im 25 and have the same "why dont i have my group yet" feeling. you were soo real for the finding a genuine friend feels like dating and it is hard. like you said maby its just we have to build a friendship other than feeling it instantly. we live and learn i guess. but same i was prepared to have 3-5 kids by 21 when i was 16 😂(if i ever get married you can be my honerary maid of honor lol) im sooo glad someone else thinks about the teens in the system i feel like most people never do and i to would loove to adopt teenagers to give them a better life ❤
Your genuinely so real and i relate to you so much. There's not a lot of influencers that are like that and i love that for you keep doing you tho girl stay pure your so kind💞💞
Jez, I feel so much like I can relate to you. I completely understand. I have no friends. Any friends I do have, have moved away or we are no longer friends due to good reason. If you ever need a friend girl, I’m here. Because everything you’re saying, I have always said to my boyfriend 1 billion times and I can relate so much, please know you’re not alone in how you’re feeling! Almost every single day at this point, I wish I could celebrate things with friends too! You’re gonna be great friends with some people and they’re gonna be so lucky. Much love girl 🫶🏽🩷✨
Love the way you express yourself, looks like you have a good head on your shoulders. Pure hearted in this world is hard to find so happy to see you happy.
16:39 that’s what I always say, the true friends in life will come along the way. It’s definitely something where you wonder why but ima just let life take its path and continue working on me. Also love the vibe of the video, gonna get a ice coffee, light one and chill at a park tmrw morning
The friend situation is so relatable. I've always been one to talk to people all throughout school and stuff but I've never gotten to find my people that are like my ride or dies. As you age it def gets more and more difficult just with everyone going into adulthood and having their own stuff going on. Wishing I'll find a best friend or a friend group with to go out and do spontaneous fun stuff with, or even doing what you did in this video. Just some other people to enjoy life with. Edit: Just watched the whole vid and pretty much everything you touched on even the wedding stuff is all the same stuff ive worried about to. Don't worry girl, we got this. It's not our time yet queen.
i definitely feel that friend part, my friend group pretty is small rn and took me a while to find people that truly care about me and stuff so had to cut out alot of people that i found out werent good for me or even cared about me, it takes alot for me to rly get comfortable enough with people to begin with and feel that connection, the vibes have to be felt, i feel like the older we get (in my 20s) the harder it is to rly make new friends lol at least to me it is, ur vids are always chill hanging out vibes :D
i thought i was the only one that likes to randomly go to the store. i remember we use to go in walmart & goof around, take pic & never by nun🤣 imma start doin that again🤍
thanks so much for sharing, really hit hard for me. made me feel like i’m not alone with these feelings about friends, finding your people, enjoying things on your own. thank you 💕
i love your videos omg, i’ve been following on tt for awhile & now finding you on here! :) i understand not having any real current friends that you just have that amazing bond with. you seem so fun & i can relate to you a lot! i’d love to go to the park, grab some food with ya & have a nice ole sesh or even late night store runs!!🤣✨keep up with the content🫶🏼🫶🏼
Everything you said about not being on the timeline you thought you’d be by this age and the not knowing who you’d even have as your bridesmaids is something I think about ALL THE TIME. It helped so much knowing it’s not just a me thing and that’s it’s normal to not have that “huge” friend group
I allllllways take myself out for a lifted picnic!!! 💝 snacks, fav bev, some word searches, a nice J… amazing. Also! Take yourself to the places you’ve been wanting to go! I’ve found that I’ve met the type of friends I’d like to have, just by simply putting myself in places I want to be ☺️ Go alone!
Love the video. We really was just chilling in the park. Thank you for being you. It's nice to know there's beautiful souls in this world. Imma 26yr man, and it is hard to make friends still, but i get it when you actually have a good heart. You have to watch the company you keep. It's gonna take longer for ppl like us to make friends. Because we're in it for the love, not doing it to benefit materially. Anyway, i hope i worded that right. ✌&❤ i love yall. Have a groovy ass weekend and don't forget to thank God always.
Im glad I’m not the only one who’s thought abt the brides maid thing. Me too sis. Recently I’ve made a few friends so it’s getting better but I’ve definitely thought the same thing several times. Ella enchanted is so good. Instantly smiled when u mentioned it
i love watching your videos you’re such a natural, you’re gorgeous and you have a great personality and i feel like i’m your friend when i watch your videos you’re really pretty too
Aww hearing you talk about wanting to be a maid of honor & what an honor it would be for you, girl…anybody would be honored to have you as a friend & maid of honor, the way you just genuinely care so much like that’s so beautiful & so rare to find. that’s the type of friend I really desire to be & to hopefully have someday but same here, it’s been so hard developing life long friendships since graduating & moving away from home.
i agree with everything u said, we’re best friends and remember that you’re not alone. i love that u posted on my birthday!!( i know that u post on every friday tho) you’re so pretty and i love parks as well
I have a broom just like those! I found it in the bushes the night before Halloween, rescued it and have moved all across the country with it. I named it Broom and it stays upside down by my door to ward off negative energies.
22:29 omg same , I loved Ella enchanted. I wish I lived in Cali, everything you talk about and like doing I like as well! lol I think we would have that friend click 🫶🏻
WE ARE ALL INTO WHATEVER U POST- FOOD CONTENT, GARDENING CONTENT AND ALSO DEFINITELY THE CRAFTY ARTISTRY CONTENT TOOOO..!! ALWAYS WAITING FOR FRIDAY FOR YA❤
Girlie the friendship part👏🏼 my good friend relations literally just needed for the best but I was always waiting on others to do things and missed out, SAME to trying to be social alone lol
there has always been this life line that has been instilled in us since we were little of marriage and kids by this age and all that, but it never pans out that way and if it does, alot regret it so young. im engaged now at 35, and honestly could not imagine that at 24! you are perfect where you are at! everyones life is their own unique adventure.
You are the chillest chick, I’m not much of a talker but I like to listen and give my opinion here and there but it is nice to have that one good friend who you can be yourself and say whatever is on your mind
I love you and your content ❤! you're so fun and relatable I wish I had a friend like you. 😭 its so hard to make meaningful friendships but this video gives me hope and makes me even more grateful for what I have 🥰 . we are truly not alone ✨
I’m 22 now, and I def have had the same realization that I thought I would be doing hecka fun activities with some close friends, extravagant or small, and just have a blast with them already at this age. It’s definitely harder making friends the older we get, but I know it’s never too late to make them so I’m not discouraged. I def also have to work on my social skills LOL but also gotta try to appreciate being alone like u do :)
finding your people is hard but part of the journey ! i can say i’ve found my people, but i still struggle with what you talked about as well. I can do well in places alone, but i’m still awkward asf 😂. but i feel you. it’s a little tough getting through life without ppl to lean on.
I wish I was in Cali, we’d be friends! It’s so hard to make new friends as adults, luckily you have all your YT fam that looks forward to spending time w you at every upload and stream. Side bar: I wish the grocery stores in my area still stayed open till 12 😫 perfect for midnight munchies Your spill about the system and foster care kids is spot on. I’m a former caseworker for the state and lemme tell you, everything from the kids stories to the support from the state to the funding from govt….it’s all so sad and f’d up! I had to quit for my mental health. social workers def deserve to be treated better and paid wayyyyyy more
HAPPYY FRIIIEEDDAAYYY!! 💚 ((: i hope you guys had a great week! make sure to join the twitch stream tonight! we’re doing a giveaway for hitting 200 subscribers🥳🥳 LOVE YOU!!
Bro have you ever been so greened out you don’t know you are, and you keep getting greened out 😮
Love your videos lollllll you remind me of an old friend she’s an Aquarius. Are you an Aquarius lol 😂
I wanna join you you are such a vibe! ☺️
You are me jezzz😂💓
This girl is seriously living it up
the friends thing is so real . havent been able to make friends since i was like 15
So true im 24 and its so hard😢
@bipi420 I'm 28 and the only close friends I had we all stopped talking. I was always the one trying to get everybody together and texting people first. I got sick of it😒
@@TreyGoose that sucks alot im sorry you went through that . same happened to me
Get a Dog if u want a real friend, nuff said, goodbye✌
im 21 and sameeee. lets just be friends 😿
as an adult the biggest think i realized is that you have to unlearn & relearn things that you were taught as a kid
got me tearing up w the friend convo, i feel like covid and social media made it so much harder to make friends naturally, but it’s so comforting to see all the comments here feeling the same way. we will find our people soon 🥹🤍
The friend conversation is so real omg 😭
"healthy healthy.....but we getting the fried one though" brhhhhhh lmfaoooooo
i’ve always viewed you as so much more grown up and put together than me and to listen to you talk about not having friends and wanting to go out and doing things alone really puts me back to perspective that none of us know what anyone is going through 😭 reinforced why i love you and your vids so much
As someone in their 30s trust me the homies will come. I felt the same way about bridesmaids when I was your age & when I did get married I had the most special people with me.
That friend convo was spot on! BUT there are benefits of being alone…the main one I realized was NOT having to wait for ppl for plans to follow through. or the disappointment of ppl flaking on you.
waiting for ppl for plans is so real i def needa get more comfortable w jus doing stuff by myself and when i want to in that moment
I normally don’t stay & watch ppl talk for THIS long but girl this was so nice . This video is hitting every right spot frl love uuu
Favorite TH-camr rn. The friend thing is so very real and valid. I would totally be your friend.
The friends conversation you brought up is so relatable. I'm 26 and have also thought about the bridesmaid and marriage thing and I 100% relate.
“ always have balance” is now my favorite quote
Everything about the friend thing is so felt! I've never had cousins, siblings, or close friends that I've been super close to. I always thought it was just me, and maybe people just don't like me.. such a sad and sucky thing to experience. I've been watching you for over 3 months now and always look forward to your videos throughout the week. I am literally answering you or agreeing about stuff while I have my sesh with you. ❤ you girl!
One of my favorite TH-camrs rn 🫡💚
I heavily relate to trying to find a friend group or even just a friend, but struggling to find that spark. In a way I guess I have grouped friendships as like relationship’s, but without the romantic aspect. I still want to go on friend dates, reciprocate love languages, & feel that tie like “These are my people.” Whenever I would make a new friend I always felt like I moved my world around for them & lost myself in the midst. It didn’t feel like we were meeting in the middle to build a friendship that both people benefited from. Of course, I had my faults in the situations, but that’s been a main feeling that’s lingered for me & made it hard to trust that people will stick around.
felt this, and you put it all into words perfectly
🥲 I pray I meet you one day, this video made me get out a loop of depression, (I haven’t been smoking) but I finally took a puff watching your video today and I love your energy lovely. Definitely subscribing!!!
one time i was at a party and the only food there was jollibee chicken and some pizza. towards the end i was pretty lit and hungry obviously. so i was eating cold pizza, but it was dry so i started dipping it in the jollibee gravy 😭😭 def got clowned on for that big back moment
Oohhh my God 😂😂
hey girl… i feel you so much with the friendship conversation. i’m getting married next year and only have my sister and sister in law as bridesmaids. it’s been humbling and eye opening. as an adult it’s so hard to make friends.
im 25 and have the same "why dont i have my group yet" feeling. you were soo real for the finding a genuine friend feels like dating and it is hard. like you said maby its just we have to build a friendship other than feeling it instantly. we live and learn i guess. but same i was prepared to have 3-5 kids by 21 when i was 16 😂(if i ever get married you can be my honerary maid of honor lol) im sooo glad someone else thinks about the teens in the system i feel like most people never do and i to would loove to adopt teenagers to give them a better life ❤
Right
the whole friendship part really speaks to me i love how u said exactly what i thought i love that ❤
Your genuinely so real and i relate to you so much. There's not a lot of influencers that are like that and i love that for you keep doing you tho girl stay pure your so kind💞💞
Jez, I feel so much like I can relate to you. I completely understand. I have no friends. Any friends I do have, have moved away or we are no longer friends due to good reason. If you ever need a friend girl, I’m here. Because everything you’re saying, I have always said to my boyfriend 1 billion times and I can relate so much, please know you’re not alone in how you’re feeling! Almost every single day at this point, I wish I could celebrate things with friends too! You’re gonna be great friends with some people and they’re gonna be so lucky. Much love girl 🫶🏽🩷✨
Love the way you express yourself, looks like you have a good head on your shoulders. Pure hearted in this world is hard to find so happy to see you happy.
16:39 that’s what I always say, the true friends in life will come along the way. It’s definitely something where you wonder why but ima just let life take its path and continue working on me. Also love the vibe of the video, gonna get a ice coffee, light one and chill at a park tmrw morning
The friend situation is so relatable. I've always been one to talk to people all throughout school and stuff but I've never gotten to find my people that are like my ride or dies. As you age it def gets more and more difficult just with everyone going into adulthood and having their own stuff going on. Wishing I'll find a best friend or a friend group with to go out and do spontaneous fun stuff with, or even doing what you did in this video. Just some other people to enjoy life with.
Edit: Just watched the whole vid and pretty much everything you touched on even the wedding stuff is all the same stuff ive worried about to. Don't worry girl, we got this. It's not our time yet queen.
i definitely feel that friend part, my friend group pretty is small rn and took me a while to find people that truly care about me and stuff so had to cut out alot of people that i found out werent good for me or even cared about me, it takes alot for me to rly get comfortable enough with people to begin with and feel that connection, the vibes have to be felt, i feel like the older we get (in my 20s) the harder it is to rly make new friends lol at least to me it is, ur vids are always chill hanging out vibes :D
i thought i was the only one that likes to randomly go to the store. i remember we use to go in walmart & goof around, take pic & never by nun🤣 imma start doin that again🤍
i love the food content especially when im eating too its like were friends chilling
i love watching while gardening you should do a bloopers reels of the outtakes ❤
Something about the way you speak is soo comforting!!
i love anne hathaway toooo, literally one of my favorite actresses
This is by far my favourite video of yours! I love your transparency:)
thanks so much for sharing, really hit hard for me. made me feel like i’m not alone with these feelings about friends, finding your people, enjoying things on your own. thank you 💕
i love watching your videos every week ❤ you really help some of us going thru things, including me. :)
Girl ur videos are so therapeutic for me
im obsessed with ella enchanted
This was the realest sesh talk
6:50 "remind me to tell you when i get to the park" is so real. stay amazing !!!!💗
I looove this park sesh type video💓💓
I love the long videos !!! Literally the only TH-camr I watch n wait for u to post next
Wish I lived in Cali ❤ we could do the most random stuff while gardening
Your vods make me happy gang fr
I love how this is in the park it feels like catching up with an old friend
omg this is the earliest i’ve ever beennnnn i love it here HAPPY HALLOWEEN 🎃
big back meal: two, two topping pizzas, stuffed pepperoni cheese bread, chicken bacon ranch sammy, and a diet coke, all in one sitting 😅
Ur better than me with the DIET coke. Full coke all the way baby
@@marinaluna2799 0 calories lmao even it's 2 L
This video was so relaxing, I even went to a park myself brought fast food and watched this, best part of my day
i love your videos omg, i’ve been following on tt for awhile & now finding you on here! :) i understand not having any real current friends that you just have that amazing bond with. you seem so fun & i can relate to you a lot! i’d love to go to the park, grab some food with ya & have a nice ole sesh or even late night store runs!!🤣✨keep up with the content🫶🏼🫶🏼
Everything you said about not being on the timeline you thought you’d be by this age and the not knowing who you’d even have as your bridesmaids is something I think about ALL THE TIME. It helped so much knowing it’s not just a me thing and that’s it’s normal to not have that “huge” friend group
currently gardening with my first ever pipe! love your videos 🙂↕️🙏
I allllllways take myself out for a lifted picnic!!! 💝 snacks, fav bev, some word searches, a nice J… amazing. Also!
Take yourself to the places you’ve been wanting to go! I’ve found that I’ve met the type of friends I’d like to have, just by simply putting myself in places I want to be ☺️ Go alone!
Love the video. We really was just chilling in the park. Thank you for being you. It's nice to know there's beautiful souls in this world. Imma 26yr man, and it is hard to make friends still, but i get it when you actually have a good heart. You have to watch the company you keep. It's gonna take longer for ppl like us to make friends. Because we're in it for the love, not doing it to benefit materially. Anyway, i hope i worded that right. ✌&❤ i love yall. Have a groovy ass weekend and don't forget to thank God always.
Just in time!! Was looking for a new vid on this channel from watching almost all the podcast episodes 🤣🥰 love you Jez!!! 🫶🏼
Yessss I am the one you’ve been searching for 😫 tea run at midnight bestie, let’s go! (totally relatable convo today!!!! Ty!)
i laughed so much and related so much to this video. love your yap seshes 😂❤️❤️
Im glad I’m not the only one who’s thought abt the brides maid thing. Me too sis. Recently I’ve made a few friends so it’s getting better but I’ve definitely thought the same thing several times.
Ella enchanted is so good. Instantly smiled when u mentioned it
❌Milkshake❌ ✅Dipping Sauce✅
i love watching your videos
you’re such a natural, you’re gorgeous and you have a great personality
and i feel like i’m your friend when i watch your videos
you’re really pretty too
Ella enchanted was one of my favs growing up too🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻
i love the halloween decor!!! i hope you find what you need and want in life aswell!
Aww hearing you talk about wanting to be a maid of honor & what an honor it would be for you, girl…anybody would be honored to have you as a friend & maid of honor, the way you just genuinely care so much like that’s so beautiful & so rare to find. that’s the type of friend I really desire to be & to hopefully have someday but same here, it’s been so hard developing life long friendships since graduating & moving away from home.
I always feel like we are just besties hanging out and catching up during every video 😆 love you!
i agree with everything u said, we’re best friends and remember that you’re not alone. i love that u posted on my birthday!!( i know that u post on every friday tho) you’re so pretty and i love parks as well
I have a broom just like those! I found it in the bushes the night before Halloween, rescued it and have moved all across the country with it. I named it Broom and it stays upside down by my door to ward off negative energies.
i love your mindset!😍
22:29 omg same , I loved Ella enchanted. I wish I lived in Cali, everything you talk about and like doing I like as well! lol I think we would have that friend click 🫶🏻
Im here for all the content frr but this good content got me so happy😊 tyy
WE ARE ALL INTO WHATEVER U POST- FOOD CONTENT, GARDENING CONTENT AND ALSO DEFINITELY THE CRAFTY ARTISTRY CONTENT TOOOO..!! ALWAYS WAITING FOR FRIDAY FOR YA❤
love the vibes. just moved into my new place and can’t wait to decorate
that’s so exciting!! congrats on your new place🍾
@@Jezabzllzalso when my partner and i get married you’re invited ofc :)
Girlie the friendship part👏🏼 my good friend relations literally just needed for the best but I was always waiting on others to do things and missed out, SAME to trying to be social alone lol
love your energy 🥰
“Turn down my music at a stop light” girl same I be getting embarrassed for no reason 🤣
there has always been this life line that has been instilled in us since we were little of marriage and kids by this age and all that, but it never pans out that way and if it does, alot regret it so young. im engaged now at 35, and honestly could not imagine that at 24! you are perfect where you are at! everyones life is their own unique adventure.
Crazy fun how cozy your introduction is
PERFECT TIMINGGGG
I love the food content please keep doing it it’s entertaining fr fr😂
i love the yap sessions
LOVVVEEE this video, more videos like this please
this is my fav video of hers so far. i felt like we were seshing together very comforting
this is one of the realest videos you ever made Jez!!
really connected with you...we are so similar omg. Love you
Your videos are always amazing, you have such a gorgeous energy.
You are the chillest chick, I’m not much of a talker but I like to listen and give my opinion here and there but it is nice to have that one good friend who you can be yourself and say whatever is on your mind
Girl, I love your energy 💞
Most def favorite TH-camr atm ur js sooo reallll🙂↕️ and u should do a hair routine video because your hair looks so good!!!
awesome video as always, looking forward to the next one! 😄
I love you and your content ❤! you're so fun and relatable I wish I had a friend like you. 😭 its so hard to make meaningful friendships but this video gives me hope and makes me even more grateful for what I have 🥰 . we are truly not alone ✨
currently rolling up while watching 🤍
love gardening watching ur vids, diva
i cant lie when u said “i basically purchased the milkshake as a dipping sauce” i busted out laughing omg, thats so real tho i love it too
watching this on a sunday 💔
I love your vibee and I love chickfli also lol😭
the friends thing is SO real
I'm hoping to do this when I get home from vacation I LOVE fall just as much as this !!!
Yesss I love Ella enchanted
I’m 22 now, and I def have had the same realization that I thought I would be doing hecka fun activities with some close friends, extravagant or small, and just have a blast with them already at this age. It’s definitely harder making friends the older we get, but I know it’s never too late to make them so I’m not discouraged. I def also have to work on my social skills LOL but also gotta try to appreciate being alone like u do :)
i love u and ur energy
finding your people is hard but part of the journey ! i can say i’ve found my people, but i still struggle with what you talked about as well. I can do well in places alone, but i’m still awkward asf 😂. but i feel you. it’s a little tough getting through life without ppl to lean on.
of course i choose to watch this on a Sunday.. a blessing and a curse that they aren’t open 😂
felttttt the friend group part
I wish I was in Cali, we’d be friends! It’s so hard to make new friends as adults, luckily you have all your YT fam that looks forward to spending time w you at every upload and stream. Side bar: I wish the grocery stores in my area still stayed open till 12 😫 perfect for midnight munchies
Your spill about the system and foster care kids is spot on. I’m a former caseworker for the state and lemme tell you, everything from the kids stories to the support from the state to the funding from govt….it’s all so sad and f’d up! I had to quit for my mental health. social workers def deserve to be treated better and paid wayyyyyy more