This is the best song on the EP IMO. I think this is where most relationships fail - one person feels alone and the only one trying while the other person doesn’t pay attention to you and the reoccurring problems. When your partner never listens to your needs or puts you first, why would someone continue to try to make the marriage work when it’s apparent the other person doesn’t care. I think a lot of women reach the point where it’s no longer fixable or savable, meanwhile the man acts confused like he didn’t know anything was wrong.
This right here. Speaking from experience, there is only so many times that you can try to talk to your partner about your feelings and be dismissed before you “blow up”. Then the other person is left wondering what caused the “blow up” but didn’t think anything of the steps that led to that.
@@gabbygarza11 SHE THINKS SHE IS GOD'S GIFT TO MEN... NO WONDER HER RX HUSBAND DIVORCED HER AND GOT OVER HALF OF WHAT SHE MAKES. AND HE'S ALSO IN THE MUSIC 🎶🎵 BUSINESS MADE SONGS FOR GARTH BROOKS AS WELL.. IF YOU ONLY KNEW WHAT SHE DID TO HIM YOU WOULDN'T BE COMMENTING ON ANY SONGS DHE SINGS
Just here to say I agree... Only difference is I'm a man who was done the same way. I was putting in the effort to make things better only to be told she didn't want to be part of this and wanted to do something for her.. Now I sit here with my 3 kids wishing things could have changed and I could make her see how much she meant... We all make mistakes. She made hers and I made mine. But just as it takes 2 to have a kid. It takes 2 to make a relationship work. Phones have gotten in the way of many good relationships. And until people decide to put it down and see what's good in front of them it will continue. Not trying to start an argument. Just stating my experience. God bless and I hope life gets better for you all.
After seeing the video for Chapter 6, then the whole film, and now this chapter, I can confidently say that while each of the songs stands on its own, they have to be heard in sequence to be truly appreciated.
After hearing the whole album over and over I always come back to this song and play it on repeat. It feels like a testament to the men who just don’t care enough to pay attention to the problems in a relationship. They wonder what goes wrong & overlook all the issues in the relationship. Short but sweet way of saying you were blind not surprised by the outcome of a toxic relationship when it ultimately ends because we were unhappy
all the chapters are amazing but this one in particular is so good. Lots of times in a relationship we see the signs but we choose to ignore them, pretending we don't see them.
I relate to this song so much in my last relationship. He acted like it was such a surprise when I finally ended it even though I was visibly miserable and kept telling him I was going to walk away!
“I know the truth is hard to hear, you got yours and I got mine” this is exactly how anybody feels because everybody has a different perspective of you. They have the perspective of you being good or bad no in between which sucks. That’s why we tell our story’s for people to hear our side.
The reference to your 2019 CMA performance of ‘homecoming queen’ that Garth Brooks later that night commemorated and being ‘performer of the year’ level. It takes a whole new perspective and rawness to that performance - so charged and beautiful. ❤
I can't stop listening to this song. Seriously one of the best songs in a long time! Think most people can relate to the lyrics and the video is perfect! And she has such a beautiful voice!
This is definitely my favorite song off the ep which sounds like something horrible to say. The line that gets me is ‘When did I start looking like the enemy’ because god I feel like we’ve all been in that relationship.
I'm here after watching her two amazing performances on SNL. I love this song, so I looked her up and found she has many great songs. She just gained a new fan.
Ouch 🤕 Hits home… That line about not wanting a family. A particular kinda pain there for sure… Expedited healing❤️🩹is my wish for you but some things do take time… 🙏🏻 Thank you for sharing your gifts, And your vulnerability… People out there hurting and needing to see/hear/know your courage/encouragement for their own healing… Ma Chérie♍️! 🔥☯️🔥
When you tell a man till you’re blue in the face what you need in your relationship and he only tries to fulfill that when you’re walking out the door. Just keep walking or you’ll wake up one day 10 yrs later and things are still the same and look at all the time wasted.
So true! I finally got the strength to leave though, after a decade of my life wasted away. I am happily married now though, to a man that adores me and never would put me through any of the stuff I went through with my ex. Things can and do get better, you just have to have the courage to get out, and know you deserve better! P.S.....I love the whole EP Kelsea! You are awesome!
This chapter is by far my favorite🖤🔥 Idk how to phrase this but, something about the shifting in bed and the timing of the music really set the tone for me, beautiful work
Does anybody know what’s being said at the end of the song? The “it’s not news to you babe….” I can’t make it out but it almost sounds like Margo Robbie I don’t know!
I vote blind, based on being married 14 years. We guys can be blind until it hits the fan. Well, it cuts both ways. Can still be healed if we wake up - looking forward to many more years with my wife
I honestly feel like her ex-husband is a narcissist and she just became tired of it, realizing he’s not going to change. It’s all about him and what he wants. And she couldn’t live standing in the back anymore. Crazy thing, when you live with a narcissist, you have to become a narcissist to survive and get your needs met. When really, you were just trying to fight for your wants and needs.
love this song so much. this EP is so beautiful. you’re truly one of the only country artists i listen to and i love everything you put out. keep at it girlfriend 🫶🏻
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This is the best song on the EP IMO. I think this is where most relationships fail - one person feels alone and the only one trying while the other person doesn’t pay attention to you and the reoccurring problems. When your partner never listens to your needs or puts you first, why would someone continue to try to make the marriage work when it’s apparent the other person doesn’t care. I think a lot of women reach the point where it’s no longer fixable or savable, meanwhile the man acts confused like he didn’t know anything was wrong.
This right here. Speaking from experience, there is only so many times that you can try to talk to your partner about your feelings and be dismissed before you “blow up”. Then the other person is left wondering what caused the “blow up” but didn’t think anything of the steps that led to that.
You literally nailed it
You described this perfectly 💗💗
@@gabbygarza11 SHE THINKS SHE IS GOD'S GIFT TO MEN...
NO WONDER HER RX HUSBAND DIVORCED HER AND GOT OVER HALF OF WHAT SHE MAKES.
AND HE'S ALSO IN THE MUSIC 🎶🎵 BUSINESS MADE SONGS FOR GARTH BROOKS AS WELL..
IF YOU ONLY KNEW WHAT SHE DID TO HIM YOU WOULDN'T BE COMMENTING ON ANY SONGS DHE SINGS
Just here to say I agree... Only difference is I'm a man who was done the same way. I was putting in the effort to make things better only to be told she didn't want to be part of this and wanted to do something for her.. Now I sit here with my 3 kids wishing things could have changed and I could make her see how much she meant... We all make mistakes. She made hers and I made mine. But just as it takes 2 to have a kid. It takes 2 to make a relationship work. Phones have gotten in the way of many good relationships. And until people decide to put it down and see what's good in front of them it will continue. Not trying to start an argument. Just stating my experience. God bless and I hope life gets better for you all.
‘Is there nothing ever wrong, cause you were always right?’ that line hits deep.
❤
🎯
What hits deep is how she cheated on him
That's narcissists for ya though hun 💞
😪❤️🩹
“We had to get drunk to really talk. I told you what i needed, didn’t have to read my mind”
This whole EP is just incredible and heartbreaking.
Wow. Hard to believe she’s so young; these problems are so old ; and she captures them beautifully, poignantly and tragically.
After seeing the video for Chapter 6, then the whole film, and now this chapter, I can confidently say that while each of the songs stands on its own, they have to be heard in sequence to be truly appreciated.
After hearing the whole album over and over I always come back to this song and play it on repeat. It feels like a testament to the men who just don’t care enough to pay attention to the problems in a relationship. They wonder what goes wrong & overlook all the issues in the relationship. Short but sweet way of saying you were blind not surprised by the outcome of a toxic relationship when it ultimately ends because we were unhappy
I completely agree with you
This is hands down my favorite track. The line “We had to get drunk to ever Really talk” 🤯
The part where you’re crying and talking to him literally does something to my soul and makes me tear up every time, beyond relatable 😔
She should release the voice recording of him reacting to her telling him she cheated on him
all the chapters are amazing but this one in particular is so good. Lots of times in a relationship we see the signs but we choose to ignore them, pretending we don't see them.
I relate to this song so much in my last relationship. He acted like it was such a surprise when I finally ended it even though I was visibly miserable and kept telling him I was going to walk away!
This rhythm and beat remind me of late 90s r&b and I’m here for it
“I know the truth is hard to hear, you got yours and I got mine” this is exactly how anybody feels because everybody has a different perspective of you. They have the perspective of you being good or bad no in between which sucks. That’s why we tell our story’s for people to hear our side.
She did a country version of Lemonade but I’m here for it
Hahahaha honestly though
The reference to your 2019 CMA performance of ‘homecoming queen’ that Garth Brooks later that night commemorated and being ‘performer of the year’ level. It takes a whole new perspective and rawness to that performance - so charged and beautiful. ❤
I usually don’t listen to country, but this song has some “pop” elements in it. It’s absolutely amazing!❤
Definitely not country
Most of country music these days have pop elements to them, dude.
This is pop. Nothing country about this. Good song, but yeah definitely not country.
I can't stop listening to this song. Seriously one of the best songs in a long time! Think most people can relate to the lyrics and the video is perfect! And she has such a beautiful voice!
This whole ep is a literal masterpiece. ♥️
This is definitely my favorite song off the ep which sounds like something horrible to say. The line that gets me is ‘When did I start looking like the enemy’ because god I feel like we’ve all been in that relationship.
🙌🏻
Amazing song, very meaningful and catchy as well. I just love this project and tracks.
I'm here after watching her two amazing performances on SNL. I love this song, so I looked her up and found she has many great songs. She just gained a new fan.
she did a amazing job on SNL
I don't typically listen to this genre but this song is beautiful and on replay
I absolutely love love this song. Who ever wrote it is amazing !! ❤
My favorite songwriter & singer ever u make the best songs
KELSEAAAA IS SERVING 2023 🩷🩷🩷
The production is crazy holy moly
❤💔OMG. Whole EP is incredible. So raw. And beautiful
Ouch 🤕
Hits home…
That line about not wanting a family.
A particular kinda pain there for sure…
Expedited healing❤️🩹is my wish for you but some things do take time…
🙏🏻
Thank you for sharing your gifts,
And your vulnerability…
People out there hurting and needing to see/hear/know your courage/encouragement for their own healing…
Ma Chérie♍️!
🔥☯️🔥
That line got me too
I met a few narcissistic personalities too, not only blind ones.
🌹Beautiful lyrics, great voice-tell's it like it is.
Great voice I love this song. It reminds me of “A pair of Hearts”
Hi I am your biggest fan and I love blindsided you are so amazing and I love your music 🎶 ❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊
Wow Kels, just wow!
Loved the album you are top, with a sweet voice 👏👏🌹
When you tell a man till you’re blue in the face what you need in your relationship and he only tries to fulfill that when you’re walking out the door. Just keep walking or you’ll wake up one day
10 yrs later and things are still the same and look at all the time wasted.
Damn that hurt. So true though
This is true, 11 years later.
So true! I finally got the strength to leave though, after a decade of my life wasted away. I am happily married now though, to a man that adores me and never would put me through any of the stuff I went through with my ex. Things can and do get better, you just have to have the courage to get out, and know you deserve better! P.S.....I love the whole EP Kelsea! You are awesome!
I never realized this was such a common occurrence till I ended up in the comments of this video.
Yes, why do men wanna fulfill what u need when you break up with them and walk out
She’s headed to stardom! Great song
What a beautiful song this is I love the lyrics
Beyond blown away by the whole EP but Blindsided is my fav. I don’t know you personally but I’m so proud of you girl 🫶🏼
Love this song such a beautiful voice ❤️ lot's of bass really good combo 😍
This chapter is by far my favorite🖤🔥 Idk how to phrase this but, something about the shifting in bed and the timing of the music really set the tone for me, beautiful work
Nice song, great talent coming up.
He was obviously blind if he didn’t keep you happy! Your absolutely Gorgeous, happy Valentine’s Day Kelsea!!
Or maybe she’s the spoiled brat … how can you know for a fact it’s his fault only ..??
Love this song I definitely needed this song right now.
Absolute favorite track!
Love this song and love the whole EP!
you asked and i said yeah sure okay babes ily ily ily
Yup Kelsea ballerina 🎉
I LOVE your music 🥹!!!!!! I listen to it with my mom ALL THE TIME!
🎉@@JasonAnderson-fc4uy
I love this song! It’s beautiful like your other songs! Powerful messages in all your songs! It will get better, I promise!❤❤❤
Que música maravilhosa. Kelsea é incrível!!
I'm obsessed with this EP omg
Please tell me I’m not the only looking for that 2019 big show where she sang about how it’s okay to cry (dying inside).
CMA homecoming queen
@@carriexoo Thank you so much!!! ❤
I will enjoy my night tonight
Please come tour in Albuquerque, NM my daughter's and I love you!
Awesome song!!!
They act like they’re so blindsided and unaware. But they’ve been ignoring the work for so long. Just focused on self.
That was powerful. I would have been cuddling you the whole time.
This is the best work you’ve ever done.
Favorite song from the EP!
love this album!
You came up on my pandora that's why I just now came to you
Wow amazing so much truth to this
Where’s the country?
In this song I like only guitar (and the beat) 😎
All such great songs ❤️
I LOVE this song. The words and meaning is so strong
Heartbreaking :(
The most hurt is she cheated on him.. happy that this toxic relationship break off.. good luck to them, hopefully they find other better half ❤
She never cheated. Those were rumours created by tabloids known for fake PR stories
does anyone know what is said in the talking part?
"it's not new to you, babe, you've been in this relationship, it's not new to you!"
Anyone knows the name of the actor alongside Kelsea?
It’s me 🙋🏻♂️😂❤
Love it❤
I was on Chapter 1, and then I ended up on Chapter 5. Now I can't find the book, and I know I missed some stuff.
🥰🥰love it🥰🥰
❤❤❤
Does anybody know what’s being said at the end of the song? The “it’s not news to you babe….” I can’t make it out but it almost sounds like Margo Robbie I don’t know!
I think she says "it's not fucking news to you babe - you've been in this relationship, it's not news to you."
Got ur music videos and lawn jer ray too
Sweet dreams doll 💙
does anyone know what Kels says when she closes her eyes (2:19 mark)?
Sounds like “it’s not fucking news to you babe, you’ve been in this relationship, it’s not news to you”
I was wondering the same thing!
@@rachelmarchetta5570 I just assumed it’s her vocally acting out a scene from this relationship
What does she say on the voicemail part?
Who is the man
I'm Hooked 😊🎧
Wow 😯
❤️
Please have someone work on the closed captions.
Just wow
I vote blind, based on being married 14 years. We guys can be blind until it hits the fan. Well, it cuts both ways. Can still be healed if we wake up - looking forward to many more years with my wife
This seems like Kelsea’s reply to Morgan Evans’ song Over For You.
I thought the same thing.
I think the whole EP is but especially the “Mountain View”
Shes acting her age for sure.
What song does this song remind me of? Someone help
Wow
I honestly feel like her ex-husband is a narcissist and she just became tired of it, realizing he’s not going to change. It’s all about him and what he wants. And she couldn’t live standing in the back anymore. Crazy thing, when you live with a narcissist, you have to become a narcissist to survive and get your needs met. When really, you were just trying to fight for your wants and needs.
What? lol you literally created all that in your head. None of us know the truth. Geez
I love you
💕💕
♥️⭐💯
love this song so much. this EP is so beautiful. you’re truly one of the only country artists i listen to and i love everything you put out. keep at it girlfriend 🫶🏻
would you translate in your own language 🙂
😎👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😊🤗💖
💗👍
But I'll never come get me or tell me we're to go
About You 🙏✍️
Swear to god - my ex & Kelsea’s ex would be best friends because they have a lot in common according to this song
🌻🎈
Say my names vibe
Definitely mine