FIRST LIVESTREAM TOGETHER: Relatable Reese and Natalie Webster Talk Scientology and Cults
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I presumed Reese had a therapist helping her leave her abusive relationship. She followed what my friend’s therapist told her to do to a T. Appease, appease, appease; get children and/or animals they may abuse away, then just get out of dodge. Perfectly done. 👏👏👏
Yes! I think they’ve actually added “appease” to the fight/flight/freeze reaction.
Absolutely!
@@SJ-iq1pp yes, Flight/Fight/Freeze/Fawn.
She has an amazing therapist
Absolutely! I’m in dog rescue and I went to pick up an owner surrender from a woman who was being relocated across the country by a woman’s shelter. She went from VA to CA and was unable to take her dog. I think about her often but, I thank her for not abandoning him with her abuser.
This is why I started watching SPTV. For the fun, supportive, flawed people building each other up. I miss this vibe across the channels. Hoping we can get it back soon. Well done ladies.
Perfectly said! Natalie and Reece are amazing support for each other. Both of you are in new uncharted waters and we’re here to support you. ❤
I just finished watching Natalie & Reese together for the first time - I love you both and this was probably the best 2 hours of TH-cam I’ve ever experienced!! I’ve been subscribed to both channels for over 6 months and you’re both wonderful. So happy you did this livestream together ❤️❤️❤️.
I agree. I was on the fence about Reese but this cleared up a lot for me. Love them both.
@@sherryogier5449 I’ve loved watching Relatable Reese diligently for the past 6 months… I’ve also been a fan of Cults & Crims from the beginning. I’m a huge fan of Reese and she is wonderfully “relatable” and truly cares about everyone in her chats. I hope to meet her & Tommy in person someday 😁.
Absolutely disliked Jeff right off the batt. Could not STAND him. Yes, you were BULLIED, sweetie! This is called by therapists a "Cult of One", baby girl. You WERE in yet-another cult! That Creep! 👺 I am so thrilled you are away from him!
I thought this too. The mental fortitude to be forced out of SCN when you're a born in and then having to deal with an oppressive, controlling husband all while caring for a young child is crazy. Reese has done amazing.
I'm happy she has Tommy.
I loved when Natalie told Reese about feeling better listening/watching Reese’s videos and the dumpster fires she was going through. 😂
Yes, me too!! 😂👍💐
My mom has been gone for 34 years and I still have regular conversations with her. A person is never gone as long as there is someone who remembers them ❤️
I have helped a women escape an abusive person with her three small children . My husband fully supported me. 10 years later I still talk to her and encouragement about her life. She knows I will be there 100% for her. I am much older than her like a mom to her.
Tommy reminds me of my uncle who passed away in prison after 27 yrs. He was my hero and he loved me in his own special way. One of the greatest man I ever knew. I’ve shared this with Tommy before and how much I admire him. What a man!
Reese, you were in survival mode and you did what you had to do. Nothing wrong with that. So proud of you!!
The fact that Aaron and Reese were "public", helped them. It was bad but could have been worse. Reese had a voice. A voice.
OMG ladies, the chat we've all wished for. My dad died recently and listening to both your experiences was comforting and gave me permission to have a much needed cry in the safe space you create here. Xx thank you xX
💐💐💐💐💐
When I left my first husband. My Mom had sent an anniversary card with $40 in it. I pocketed the money, and used it to buy somethings for my new apartment. Then I just showed him the card. HaahahahHaaaa
40s was the best decade! 50s hit differently due to body changes. But 40s was VERY FREEING! You really come into your own.
Replay crew UK. I'm in the lost a husband club too. 2012 brain tumour, i was 34 wed been married for 10yrs. For a long time i couldn't believe that the world just went on turning after this vitally important person had.fallen off the planet. 12 years on i love and miss him, but am remarried and happy.
It takes a looong time. Keeping busy does help, inbetween the crying..... 😢❤ Sending love and healing to you both. ❤
I am a lurker for both of you but I want to say: "I want Anthony Hopkins to play Fred" is just *chef's kiss" perfect.
42:11 I was the exact opposite. Because of Jeff’s abuses toward you, I was so happy and hopeful that Tommy was breaking up the marriage! 😂 Jeff triggered me big time. So I was absolutely wanting the two of you together. 💞 @RelatableReese
A thousand percent the same , here! 😎 I hoped I wasn't alone in that. 😏 God had them up his sleeve!!!! 🤗 ( Happy Independence Day weekend!!! 🇺🇲❤️)
Same!! Tommy was always careful not to say disrespectful things about Jeff…but over time he gently pointed out the many ways Jeff was failing to treat Reese as a valued partner. I love how Tommy always lifts Reese up and helps her see her true worth ❤️❤️
I went through a confused time with Natalie too, wondering how you could be so cheerful all the time with crisis you were dealing with. I felt so bad again but just got the realization that i dont EVER 😊know what someone is going through and they dont know what im going through. Im 74 years old 😊and still struggling e
I love that the SPTV news gave Natalie a respite ❤️
My two favorite SPTV ladies! What an absolutely amazing conversation. I can't wait for the future streams. ❤
"The world breaks everyone and afterward many are strong at the broken places." Ernest Hemingway ❤ Love to you both.❤
Awwww... listening to you both reminds me of the quote "we are all just walking each other home".
1:04:02 Natalie, I was with my mom when she passed and when she left I stayed with body for 1/2 a day (or maybe it just felt like half a day)…anyway, I remember feeling so grateful for her body. The one she left behind that birthed me, fed me, hugged me, brushed my hair and put it in a high ponytail (sometimes braided sometimes not), looked & smiled at me, her hands that prepared food, bathed and dressed me. It was overwhelming gratitude for the service her body gave me as her child. Thanks for reminding me about the most important thing I ever did…being with her when she left this earth. 🤍
I turned 50 yesterday…… I am had MORE realizations mostly personally between age 45 and today …. Than the vast majorly of my life. I wish I knew 23 years ago … even half of what I know now!
Same!
Happy Birthday! It's a good age - especially for us genX 50somethings! I saw this meme that said genX'ers were 30 yr olds when they we 12 (latchkey, unsupervised, etc) and now that they're 50, they're still 30😅
Have a good birthday 🎂
@@victoriacsd I love that!! 👍💐
@@goosebump801 ❤️ And we know it's true! 😉
@@victoriacsd Well, obviously! 🤷♀️😂😂👍💐
Great episode.
I, like it sounds Natalie did, had a roller coaster ride watching Reese. I have LOVED her shows since she moved out and also her explaining why R couldn’t say everything she wanted to say. You two are delightful together. Looking forward to more episodes with you two together.
I think we need a weekly Nat and Reece podcast of life, love, and culty drama.
Natalie, when my dad was dying, I felt the exact same as you with having to be going all the time. Crying away from our loved ones to save them… I’m just sorry you went through this.
My children witnessed the abuse with my ex. He hit me twice with my daughter in my lap. I can tell you, even at 3 she is in therapy for the trauma she witnessed. This really explains what was going on with Reese and I have compassion for her. Still like her and will always support! ❤❤❤
I love you both so much that I’m coming out of lurker mode to let you both know that you inspire me. I deal with chronic illness and many other things so seeing you both deal with such hard and tragic situations helps me to keep on going and try to keep find joy in the little things.
Hi Natalie, I’m commenting to your question about women getting more assertive as they age. I’m 69 I agree. The other day i called my daughter venting about something that happened to me. I said I’m sorry I’m such a b:::::. She (who has a fairly powerful job as well as credentials to match) said: Mom,No, I often channel your assertiveness.
I went to my five year cancer checkup today, and Im well! But
learned that I haven’t got time for BS in my life. So, yeah, Don’t apologize for saying what you think.
Hi Natalie, I watch you frequently but I rarely post because I watch on my tv. I want to tell you how sorry I am about Tony. I lost my husband 3 years ago and I know how hard it is. I have a very special poem that gives me great comfort. I would love to share it with you if I could have your email. I am also in Minnesota, East Bethel, North of the metro. I really enjoyed your show with Reese. Two of the loveliest ladies I know of! You are in my thoughts and my heart Natalie.
What a precious conversation between two incredibly strong and caring women. Thank you both for sharing your hearts with us.
"Not everybody's gonna' like Tommy." How could anyone not like Tommy?!? He's amazing! You're fantastically matched, and I'm so happy for you both!
Are they dating.
@@mermaiddiyartist8119 Yes, they are dating, if you want to call it that. It is more serious than dating. He has been helping her move and living with her but will divide his time between Arizona and Tennessee where Reese is now. But he loves Tennessee so I foresee him spending a lot of time there.
@@mermaiddiyartist8119yes
@@mermaiddiyartist8119 Yes.
I was fascinated by Tommy the first time I saw him on with Aaron. I’ve grown to respect him. So glad he found Reese, and, Reese found him. They are both better together. I wish them peace and happiness ❤
1:28 the recognized state of conflictual ideas that Reese is talking about is called cognitive dissonance. When you start to wake up from situations where there's been gaslighting you have this experience.
You two are the channels that I watch everyday. Watching you guys together is wonderful. I love you both and wish you both healing, strength and love everyday.
It warms my heart to see you two together. I hope you stay close as you are a great support system for each other. Sending you both much love and joy as you continue on your life journey ❤️🌺🫂
Smooth exit Reese. props to you. admire your strength.
Replay crew here. What a great collab! I enjoy each of your channels and was so glad you decided to do this together. Years ago, I was in a relationship with a narcissist and once I decided the relationship was over, it took time to plan and execute my exit. I'd had 2 years of being lonely, treated badly, not heard and/or not understood, then months more of processing and working through my regrets before I publicly pulled the plug. I moved on right away and some people judged me for that, but I likened it to somebody saying to a starving person at a buffet to wait a while before they eat. Nope, I was out and not going to let that man starve me any more.
Two awesome women talking about real, hard, important things. Love it!
What a great interview Natalie! Reese you are so much smarter than you give yourself credit!! I love this interview❤
You two getting together to discuss grief and loss is a huge niche that you could help ex Scientologists move thru grief in the non-cultiverse.
I’m a never in and I just lost my husband on the 8th of June. This live has helped me so much. Grief is such a crazy thing. I think some days are going to be good and it turns out to be a cry all day. These two beautiful souls has brought sunshine to my evening.
It is so refreshing watching a channel with some interesting content and flow. Great interview Natalie.
I’m late! Had to watch catch up twice.. sorry I missed the live. You are both so real and funny. Willing to talk the hard talk, not afraid to cry in front of us. It’s uplifting and inspiring to see you both. I’ve been watching Reese since the beginning, and she has no idea how much she’s been helping me through my own messes caused by others, and I’ve watched you too Natalie for some time! You both have so much energy and it was wonderful seeing you together! Much love from the Brit lady in northern Portugal! 🩵🩵🩵
What an amazing live! The dynamic duo!!!! Two amazing women! Thanks for the smiles and the tears!
You two have great chemistry & individual charisma. I’m a subscriber of both your channels; thank you for sharing your stories.❤
I adored this beautiful conversation between two amazing women! Love you both so much.💖💖💖
I can relate to both of you. I know the loss you have endured. Losing the love of your life is the hardest thing you will ever do, it's something that shapes you. Time is bookmarked. Every event is marked as before or after that loss.
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All of the comments that Reese makes, absolutely relate to Natalie, in a different way......She's just lost her partner, so WOW!! What a new start , what a leap (unsolicited + unwanted as it was!)
Oh Natalie 😪😪😪❤️❤️
Scary for Reese too
THIS is what the sptv community is about. Supporting and standing by each other. Holding each other up when they are feeling down and lost. Laughing with them when the world is hilarious. But most of all accepting and loving the person they are and NOT what they do. Actions can be fixed but a true friend will always stand by you
Never in here. But raised strict southern Baptist. When i pasted 50 i quit caring what anyone thinks of me unless I respect them too. I REALLY quit caring about any societial norms of what is expected of me. Only matters how we treat eachother.
I think Natalie and Reese are truly Kindred Spirits!! They "get" each other!!
❤️I loved talking to her.
I need a T-shirt that says “Reese is a hot mess, Natalie said!” 😂😂😂❤❤
One other thing. The two of you have such great chemistry that I think you should have a weekly show together discussing women's issues. Any thoughts? ❤
This is my favorite colab so far of any I’ve watched.
That was EXACTLY what happened for me. I got confused and didn't understand...and I fell away because I was working full time and couldn't handle getting through 2-3 hour livestreams. I never DREAMED that horrible reality of Jeff. I'm so back and feeling ashamed. I unsubbed and resubbed to you. I'm sorry 😢, so sorry.
Absolutely loved it, thank you for taking the time to share with us.... so sweet, caring, real and human.... Hugs from Prague
Hot Mess Girl Summer! 😂😂😂😂
Natalie & Reese together...hearts & souls confiding & chatting. I didn't want it to end...absolutely amazing! Thank you!
Replay: ladies everything you both have gone through, going through and fighting for has gifted you w skills to help us that are waking behind you cope, navigate and overcome the stressors, challenges and obstacles in life. What a treasure you both are and the gems you are becoming. Love and appreciate you both. Hugs
This is as good as I was hoping it would be. Thank you ladies!
A teacher of mine said when he turned 40, a switch in his brain flipped. His go-to attitude after that was, "No, now I'M going to to tell YOU how it's going to be!" I've adopted that as a reminder.
Reece you did what u needed to, and you rocked it dont feel bad you did precisely the right thing you are super smart girl x
Team replay. Absolutely loved you two getting together.
I am so sorry for what you went through Reese ❤ I followed you on your channel and was noticing something was off, as a viewer, it was uncomfortable but of course, having no context, had no idea this was all going on underneath. I wish you well and lots of love moving forward ❤❤❤❤ All the best to you and Tommy 🤗🤗
Beautiful stream with you two! Thank you for sharing with us.
Just enjoyed taking the time to watch this, all of the insights on grief really resonate with me. I feel like more of my team have passed than remain, but all that love doesn’t just vanish. Their energy is still here in a beautiful way!
Loved this ladies!
She wasn't 'sneaky', she was a woman in an abusive relationship, who had been trapped in it for years, and was smart about escaping, because only she knew the best way to protect herself in that situation.
Nothing wrong with being sneaky 😏 just use it for good lol 😂 ❤
I loved this live with you two beautiful ladies.
I love this, you seem great for each other. It was double crying time for me with you both together. Tony is still here. Tommy gets what is going on, and it's good for you both, Reese, he sees and appreciates you. I think we all need each other equally in different ways but all important.
This live was amazing. Thank you both! It was so honest, funny, emotional and healing 🩷🙏🏽
Loved this! ❤️ You both are wonderful people!
Finally caught you on replay tonight. Love you both. ❤❤. Y’all are amaaazjng!
Omg i tell my husband all about both your u tubes as well !!!
Who’d believe!
Better than streaming TV!
Omg you guys need to do videos together regularly. I subscribe to you both!!! I think you are very therapeutic for each other. This was one of the BEST videos i have seen in a LONG TIME. I love you BOTH! 🥰
So glad you enjoyed it. I’m sure we will do multiple videos together.🌸
@@NatalieWebsterExSeaOrg
I posted this in comments but wasn’t sure if you read it. We need a t shirt that says “Reese is a hot mess! Natalie said!” That is the funniest sh-t I heard all day!🤣🤪 what a great video.
Reese you’re a hot mess! Natalie said. 😂😂😂😂🎉🎉🎉 that’s the funniest sh-t I heard all day!❤❤
Who could not absolutely love Tommy to the moon and back ? I promise you will get there Natalie. We all have thus far. 😁
Great conversation! I watch both of you regularly and was looking forward to this stream
I just lost my husband on the 8th of June. He had MS since 2004. I’m so lost with him gone and I don’t hear him breathing. I was constantly taking care of him and now I’m lost.
@@Wohol1 😢
My condolences for your loss. I'm so sorry.
I genuinely ♥️ you both so much! I really enjoyed hearing from you both in your own beautiful ways. I’m so glad I did the replay❣️🤗🤗
May we all learn how to be a decent human from Tony and Fred. The love goes with you….wherever you go.
Lets not forget our Tommy . Such a solid dude. I so appreciate him being there for Reese.
Love you, girls, so much ❤ Please do more shows together! 🎉
On the replay here. My observation of most of the women ex SCO-- y'all are tough tough women. You don't anger & boil over, reactively...you tolerate a lot of guff, or grief. But amazingly you respond to hostility by saying calming "fine, you want to DO THIS, lets go" "come on, give me your best shot". Like, you ladies don't wimper and turn away. You stand your ground!
After working nightshift I came home to watch this and ended up watching the whole interview I was just so engrossed in this I didn't fall asleep. Natalie and Reese need to have a regular slot together it was soooo good ❤
As women who grew up in a cult and naive we need to be careful because we think we know people and sociopaths can easily manipulate us when we think we are safe. Really need to try be more independent and learn from the past and be careful. It's alot to handle. Sorry Reese. Glad you made it out with Hux.
There's salways the dog vs cow drama now😂😂😂
I've come to realize that we are all hot messes, and being authentic and open helps others know they are ok, they are not alone. This was a bit of a roller coaster but I'm glad I was able to watch.
Love you two ladies together! I hope to see you guys doing more shows together! 💗
My favourite ladies together ❤❤❤ This chat is everything. I love you both. Let's make this a recurring thing ❤
Omg i learned so much and finally got everything i had same questions as Natalie and know all makes sense!!she is a clever lady im impressed how she pulled this whole divorce!!
Me too
Wow, Reese you really had to keep the narrative going in order to stay safe and escape from your ex.
You're so strong and I'm proud to know you❤ so proud of you and happy for you.
Loved this conversation so much. I laughed, I cried. I love both of you ❤❤
Replay: holy moly 2 of my favorites together!!! What an amazingly beautiful conversation. You are both such strong yet vulnerable woman. I too lost a husband of 7 yrs when we were 34. I’m now 53. And even moments after he passed I new I would have gone through that 100 times to have that time with my soulmate. So much love to you both. I’m a never in but all in at stopping the cult as My Tony would say. 🥰
Replay crew!!!! ❤
‘Hot mess in a dress meets dumpster fire’ should be merch…😂
It was great to see you two together. You are both so funny and have so much in common that I knew you would have great discussions. ❤
Catching this on the replay. Reese, I was in a relationship very much like yours and Jeff’s. I can recognize tap dancing when I see it. I was SO worried for you because I’m well aware of the horrible things that can happen. I was so relieved when I heard Tommy was in KC with you. So happy for your freedom. ❤
This was a lovely team up, Natalie & Reese!
Wishing the best for you both! 💕
I look forward to a repeat team up in the future -- hopefully sooner, than later.
This stream is changing my life. PLEASE let me reach out to you as a friend. I need friendship from both of you. Im so alone and struggling.
Thanks Natalie and Reese…This live was amazing. You both are strong and inspirational 😘😘😘😘😘😘👊
Replay Crew❤What an amazing interview! Sharing your strength helps us to be strong! Inspirational 😇❤️
I've never been a Scientologist I want to say that my 40s and 50s were both great. For me, the 50s were the best. ,
Great interview! Thank you ladies ❤
That was so good. .i would watch you again. .you work well together 😊
Thank God, Reese got out when she did. If she was still there, she'd probably get whacked again by Dan with some piece of office equipment.