As man, who is ALWAYS strongly against women cheating ,, haki for the 1st time , i feel for the lady... that situation is VERY tricky and i can't blame that woman,, let the two(husband and wife)seat and solve it amicably. Let God intervene too 🙏🏽
But it should have been discussed before the cheating. She should have put forward her concerns before deciding to sleep with a lowly helper. There is no solution to this issue other than separation/divorce.
Woiiye mungu wetu walai mungu kamu kwa kweli uko hai, ponya na zaidia hii familia iwe sawa. Comrade hii ndio truthful family umekutana nayo iko na challenge ya kueleweka.
Am a victim of same situation i vowed still to be faithfull but the worst thing my ex felt insecure and was very disrespectful even after divorce i opted to be alone coz its hard to find someone who deserves a good woman
This is a very sensitive case. We can't judge the actions of this woman because she has a point. 2yrs sleeping with a man and no sxx. Let them go and talk privately as a couple.
Let me tell you its really hard i can testify this from my experience the worst thing it always happens to humble ones i lived with my ex for 3 yrs without conjugal rights i had vowed never to have an affair with anyone but the worst parts he felt insecure it really block my heart coz he was disrespectful ,i divorced but still i feel its better to be alone@FesterMacmbelefe
Honestly this lady is suffering and at the same time both of them Love each other.Very tricky situation which requires God's intervention.Naomba tusi judge huyu mwanamke.
The situation here is COMPLETELY COMPLEX SEX IN MARRIAGE HAS NO RELIGION SEX IS COMPULSORY IN MARRIAGE USE OF DILDOS ARE BETTER OPTIONS THAN PLUNGE INTO TEMPTATION MWANAMKE HANA HATIA
Sikia bwana hawez mkula na lady next service so angefany 😮.....angekuwa mke nfio ako na shida mwansume Angela kitaamboo so don't blame lady saaana.yet she's not grandma she's still naive😂😂
For give her please😢 she's a human being she has blood in her body 😢, mm nko gulf 4yrs sasa lakini n vile tu nko prison otherwise 2 months n mob nikiwa free country 😂 ,allow her to cheat peaceful broh, and may the Lord remember you and heal you by the blood of Jesus christ.
For the 1st time I agree with the lady. She was even feeling bad exposing the problem with her man. The man needs to accept his situation and forgive the lady. Life happens and she's genuinely interested in her marriage. Naomba huyo mwanaume awache kuwa selfish. She's too young to suffer for the rest of her life.😢
Kama dem ndo shimo ingekuwa imeziba,huyu jamaa angevumilia,..mm instead of kuhanya,ningesonga mbele..cz men nature yao nikama wadhani ma dem hawana feelings,.while wao hata 1 week hawawezi vumilia..
Ningumu kukaa na MTU under one roof na uko na feeling. But shida ni ATI mwanamke alijua Mahali shida ilitokea na hakuweza kuvumilia hata akasamehewa Leo na bado wako pamoja atarudia tuu. Miaka mi nne imagine ilikuwa inaisha , but it's up to them to solve.
Wueeeh!I don't condone cheating lakini kumbe mzae hujakuwa ukilala nje cos huwezi😂sio kwa ubaya lakini hata wewe bibi angekuwa same situation,tusidanganyane hungekaa tu hivyo bila sex. Hata mimi hapo fr siezi kaa ,ni sawa cheating ni mbaya lakini hapa hakuna choice aki. The problem ni anacheat na cousin,that one is bad but allow her to get some d!ck huko nje sasa ama muachane tu atafute mtu anaeza cater for her needs
It's fine it's a medical condition but one thing i wonder 🤔 what if you are the one with such condition and your partner does what you have done as solution,will it be fair to you? On such cases solutions made must never be crime neither sin . Sometimes before decision consider life after death coz sex can't take you to heaven and sacrifice of abstinence can. Let people advice you but own decisions should be based on your soul not flesh
The fact is bb hawezi vumilia for all that time bila kugongwa. The man naye huwezi vumilia kuishi ukijia unagongewa bb na tena ni your cousin ...so jameni ....
For real even one month i can't, unless iam single or a widow,but sharing the bed with my husband every night without a touch, it's needs spiritual intervention. Let no one stone that woman. Congratulations to that understanding husband,may God strengthen your marriage despite that hard challenge.
I think for this one we should not blame the lady ,however it would have been ok if they had a mechanism in btwn since the guy knows he can't hit the underground pitch....the lady looks so loyal in her mindset....let them solve....
People say some Luo culture is backward but honestly the thinking is based on ignorance. In this kind of hard situation the parents would sit the family and advice his brother to start a relationship with wife so as to hide the shame of the son who's Gun has failed to fire shots and protect family image and guarantee continuity.
Thus is asensitive isue where by most pple here will blame the wife but in the real sence even some ethinic groups in our country still accept what the lady did...(Alifanya na one of the family members)hakuenda nje.soo they will sort out and stay tgther as usual
This lady should not be sorry at all. A woman abandons everything at her father's to come for a dick-if she cannot access it and is still active, there is no need to be sorry.
Somehow,i understand that lady and her bad choice.The biggest mistake was cheating with someone closely related to her husband,and someone below her in social status.Cheating is done upwards,and with someone maybe even not known to the other party
This can be resolved. At least the couple is very open and both are talking. They only need to relax their rigid mind frames. Erectile dysfunction has been be addressed for centuries. There's even the option of a kinsman redeemer. Meeting BMS has atleast arranged a candid couple discussion. The gentleman will prioritize the matter.
My dear sister you Can't stay 4 years waiting for someone apone na huwesi jua kama atapona ama story tu ya madaktali angekua ni yeye angeoa the following week After accident
Kama haufunction a woman has her right kufinywa inje...hauwezi condemn meat 🥩 in your home just bkoz umekatazwa na wengine wanaikula hawana shida nayo!!
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This lady is very humble..Na kusema ukweli,Kuna shida hapa..GOD Have Mercy 😢
yea,,,,i undersrand her too
Followup ya yule dame alitendwa na rafiki yake who is HIV+ve..whoelse wishes to hear the folloup..like like like
Unataka part 3???
the likes talk
As man, who is ALWAYS strongly against women cheating ,, haki for the 1st time , i feel for the lady... that situation is VERY tricky and i can't blame that woman,, let the two(husband and wife)seat and solve it amicably. Let God intervene too 🙏🏽
But it should have been discussed before the cheating. She should have put forward her concerns before deciding to sleep with a lowly helper. There is no solution to this issue other than separation/divorce.
The greatest lesson i've learnt in 2024......i'll not judge people harshly before listening to reason why!!
Lakini kusema tu ukweli angekua ni bibi si huyu mwanaume angekua alioa kitambo ..just forgive and continue with life
Wewe ingekuwa Ni wewe umeambukizwa
Would u HV came for followup
Angekua alimuacha kitambo😊😊😊
This woman is the hero of the year 2024,how many people can be that patient since 2022?????
I stayed for 10 yrs for nyang’au ilinisakiti. Imagine kuwa church na everything else praying for him ….wueeeeh. Wacha ninyamaze tu. Sina nguvu
Woiiye mungu wetu walai mungu kamu kwa kweli uko hai, ponya na zaidia hii familia iwe sawa.
Comrade hii ndio truthful family umekutana nayo iko na challenge ya kueleweka.
Lakini mimi nimekaa 3yrs hiyo ni mindset tu
Am a victim of same situation i vowed still to be faithfull but the worst thing my ex felt insecure and was very disrespectful even after divorce i opted to be alone coz its hard to find someone who deserves a good woman
This is a very sensitive case. We can't judge the actions of this woman because she has a point. 2yrs sleeping with a man and no sxx. Let them go and talk privately as a couple.
Waah ni uzuni for real..kidogo i cant blame the lady..but stl she did wrong ... communication is key in marriage despite the situation at hand
Let me tell you its really hard i can testify this from my experience the worst thing it always happens to humble ones i lived with my ex for 3 yrs without conjugal rights i had vowed never to have an affair with anyone but the worst parts he felt insecure it really block my heart coz he was disrespectful ,i divorced but still i feel its better to be alone@FesterMacmbelefe
Steve be posting part one so that wee can recall easily
He did post
He does that always be keen
Hujaelewa, atuwekee link ya part one kwa comment section ndio iwe rahisi kukumbuka ilikuwa gani@@GivenVelemuseni
No situation is permanent that the lord cannot change.
I think you are not the same
@@jetitahkarimihow now?
Honestly this lady is suffering and at the same time both of them Love each other.Very tricky situation which requires God's intervention.Naomba tusi judge huyu mwanamke.
Mimi sitamjudge coz sio rahisi aki😊😊 but angetafuta mtu wa nje ya familia😢
It's hard decision to make but mzee kubali cuzoo to save marriage lady hawezi vumilia more that that unless umkatee kinembe 😅😂😂
😂😂😂wee hakuna kukata kinembee buana , wacha cuzo aendelee kugonga iyo kitu
Nwezi tuu 3 ni ngori kwa nguna😢😢
I sympathise with both of them, God will definitely guide you in making the right choice to handle the situation.....
The situation here is COMPLETELY COMPLEX
SEX IN MARRIAGE HAS NO RELIGION
SEX IS COMPULSORY IN MARRIAGE
USE OF DILDOS ARE BETTER OPTIONS THAN PLUNGE INTO TEMPTATION
MWANAMKE HANA HATIA
Hiyo mjulus haiamki hata kidogo aki?😢 that's so so bad to survive in this world
Bro hapa hakuna case vumilia & pay up bills ,stay with family yako.
But even if the man could not perform mbona aendee small brother wa bwana yake ..that's abomination to share kasusu with your blood brother.
Woii a utility tu akue kama team 💪 strong mzee arudi ssawa na mzee amsamehee tu
Waa ata wewe mwanaume ingekuwa ni bbi yako ako na hio shida ungevumilia kweli ama ungekuwa umeoa tayari 😢😢
This lady needs to be understood. The man needs to be flexible and resort to one valuable option
U r crazy 😂😂
And what of
Kama mwenye Ali lala nayo Angekuwa positive the whole family 😢ingeenda
Na mngefanya Nini??
Anyone can be there but for sure if was a man it's OK but wife is not ok
Malaya ni Malaya tu! Hata umpee Kila kitu Kwa nyumba,lazima kinembe kigongwe na mtu mwingine , very sad indeed 💔💔😡
This is a sensitive issue and medical for that matter, such kind of vitriol is uncalled for....
Sikia bwana hawez mkula na lady next service so angefany 😮.....angekuwa mke nfio ako na shida mwansume Angela kitaamboo so don't blame lady saaana.yet she's not grandma she's still naive😂😂
Listen first....
Don't be fast to judge
Listen before u answer this
Umeskiza kweli😢😢
Very tricky and sad at the same time,,jamaa akubali kugongewa tu, this lady is very young hawezi vumilia ata team strong nikujikaza😢😢
I can't blame the woman,though some just cheat for ignorance but her case and age hata Mimi ningefanya hivo
Fellow malaya
@myk6519 it's not umalaya the man lost his gun,what did you expect,or you didn't get the contest
@@dorothyrock4679 so the context is to cheat.
Enyewe malaya ni malaya
@@myk6519niue 😂😂 sis ndio tupo
For give her please😢 she's a human being she has blood in her body 😢, mm nko gulf 4yrs sasa lakini n vile tu nko prison otherwise 2 months n mob nikiwa free country 😂 ,allow her to cheat peaceful broh, and may the Lord remember you and heal you by the blood of Jesus christ.
Facto 💯
Hapa I cite with the lady amefumilia tu sana and she stand no blame.nimemufeel joo 😭
Mzee atakusamehea yes but wazazi wake watakua sawa wakisikia vile ulifanyia kijana Yao.
The lady is right sijui huyu zuzu ya mwanaume inasema nini 😢nkt
acha ujinga kichwa kubwa mzee wewe
Sorry for both,,cant blame either of them
Wololo...tricky sana,hapa scores ni 1-0 in favour of the wife🙆
For the 1st time I agree with the lady. She was even feeling bad exposing the problem with her man. The man needs to accept his situation and forgive the lady. Life happens and she's genuinely interested in her marriage. Naomba huyo mwanaume awache kuwa selfish. She's too young to suffer for the rest of her life.😢
Wadau jwa'nga muhimu sana
honestly we cannot judge her,watu huku wanahanya bila sababu yooooh,we samehea bibi life iendeleee ❤❤
Hili limeniguza sanaa, this is very sensitive if not well handled can affect self-esteem from both sides.
Try prayers Bro. It wil be well with you.
Stevo finya 812 hiyo stima iache kulia😊
I feel for this girl now
I'm talking with same problem now 1 year bro samehea wife tu ,God ako nd he ll heal us .
🫂🫂🫂🫂🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@evakioko7492 Thank you for the 🫂🫂🥰
@@jairuskipchumba8019 praying for devine healing 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Sorry to both hubby n wife. That situation is really realy discomforting.
It's very hard.
Nimengongewa na si mayai😮😮😮
This man is not serious with life coz how can you forgive a cheating woman
Kama dem ndo shimo ingekuwa imeziba,huyu jamaa angevumilia,..mm instead of kuhanya,ningesonga mbele..cz men nature yao nikama wadhani ma dem hawana feelings,.while wao hata 1 week hawawezi vumilia..
pole baba msamehe mama arudi mlee familia
The lady is genuine please forgive her
Pole , hauyuko peke yako ..tuko wengi
Broo kumbe haifanyi kaz mruhus mwanamke aende kwao kuliko kuongea ubwakin kam huu et tunaishi tuy vizut kweli
Ningumu kukaa na MTU under one roof na uko na feeling. But shida ni ATI mwanamke alijua Mahali shida ilitokea na hakuweza kuvumilia hata akasamehewa Leo na bado wako pamoja atarudia tuu. Miaka mi nne imagine ilikuwa inaisha , but it's up to them to solve.
Wee ungekaa for 5 yrs as young as this lady is? Honestly it's hard
Mboro ni muhimu kwa ndoa.....
Sema mboro ndio Ndoa
Period
Heh nimekubaliana na bibilia " Mwanamke ni kiumbe dhaifu ?"
Kwani hauwezi vumiliya sazile bwana yako mgonjwa really
It's a hard decision.
This lady's case is justifiable. She's very explicit in her explanation.. l pray that the husband heals .
Ata mimi siezi kaa miaka 5 nikikungoja upone nakuhanya proper so kuvumilia is ano
Mambo yamekua mazito 😢😢
If she can’t wait they need to separate.. hii ni separation roho safi with shaking hands
Kundinywa ndio Kila kitu dada weeeeh
Wueeeh!I don't condone cheating lakini kumbe mzae hujakuwa ukilala nje cos huwezi😂sio kwa ubaya lakini hata wewe bibi angekuwa same situation,tusidanganyane hungekaa tu hivyo bila sex. Hata mimi hapo fr siezi kaa ,ni sawa cheating ni mbaya lakini hapa hakuna choice aki. The problem ni anacheat na cousin,that one is bad but allow her to get some d!ck huko nje sasa ama muachane tu atafute mtu anaeza cater for her needs
This is understandable,
It's fine it's a medical condition but one thing i wonder 🤔 what if you are the one with such condition and your partner does what you have done as solution,will it be fair to you?
On such cases solutions made must never be crime neither sin .
Sometimes before decision consider life after death coz sex can't take you to heaven and sacrifice of abstinence can.
Let people advice you but own decisions should be based on your soul not flesh
The fact is bb hawezi vumilia for all that time bila kugongwa.
The man naye huwezi vumilia kuishi ukijia unagongewa bb na tena ni your cousin ...so jameni ....
For real even one month i can't, unless iam single or a widow,but sharing the bed with my husband every night without a touch, it's needs spiritual intervention.
Let no one stone that woman.
Congratulations to that understanding husband,may God strengthen your marriage despite that hard challenge.
In SICKNESS and in HEALTH, people, don't justify ADULTERY, one can survive without sex.
I think for this one we should not blame the lady ,however it would have been ok if they had a mechanism in btwn since the guy knows he can't hit the underground pitch....the lady looks so loyal in her mindset....let them solve....
Then dem ako right banaa kuma inawacha na bwana machine haifanye unatarajia nini .boychild forgive yourwife and live happily
People say some Luo culture is backward but honestly the thinking is based on ignorance. In this kind of hard situation the parents would sit the family and advice his brother to start a relationship with wife so as to hide the shame of the son who's Gun has failed to fire shots and protect family image and guarantee continuity.
Is it a must for the brother to takeover?she can also choose another person for herself.
Balaa 😢
For better for worse, Sasa nasema nini
Thus is asensitive isue where by most pple here will blame the wife but in the real sence even some ethinic groups in our country still accept what the lady did...(Alifanya na one of the family members)hakuenda nje.soo they will sort out and stay tgther as usual
Option ni aache wife akije saudia Arabia 😂😂😂, hatajui hizo years zikiisha
It's sad😢
Naingoja hiyo follow up I watched it felt pitty we men I don't know,tutaoa akina nani
Tendo la ndoa hakuna, bibi avumilue 4 yrs on top of the 2 and with Steve debating to ask. Is this a joke??? 🤣🤣🤣
This lady should not be sorry at all. A woman abandons everything at her father's to come for a dick-if she cannot access it and is still active, there is no need to be sorry.
Somehow,i understand that lady and her bad choice.The biggest mistake was cheating with someone closely related to her husband,and someone below her in social status.Cheating is done upwards,and with someone maybe even not known to the other party
Hapo nayo tunaeza elewa 😢😢iza joh madam
I really feel pain for this lady maan.
Mimi nishai kaa 5 years bila kungogwa
Until big man aingilie ndo mnajua apology,, oohh shetani
Uyu anazunguka sana hàongee kitu yamaaana imefanya bibi amcheat
If it was the wife having the problem would the man Really WAIT 4 YEARS? NEVER!!!!
😂😂😂😂pole kuma ni lazima bana 2yrs bila kukagwa kuma
For this matter I shall remain neutral as a man
Sometimes i don't want blame this girls but they need family therapy
This can be resolved. At least the couple is very open and both are talking. They only need to relax their rigid mind frames. Erectile dysfunction has been be addressed for centuries. There's even the option of a kinsman redeemer. Meeting BMS has atleast arranged a candid couple discussion. The gentleman will prioritize the matter.
Huyu Mama anasema ukweli. Mpe option please anataka hiyo kitu. It's serious
My dear sister you Can't stay 4 years waiting for someone apone na huwesi jua kama atapona ama story tu ya madaktali angekua ni yeye angeoa the following week After accident
Mambo ni mengi masandio machache
This is a very awkward conversation that should never have come up in the public domain...
Siwezi laumu huyu mwanamke ata kidogo aki
Aii mi nayo siwezi ishi bila kuguzwa ,io ndoa ikae kabisa
This lady is not wrong hata kama ni yeye ako na shida jamaa hangevumilia
Poor Woman!
Kama haufunction a woman has her right kufinywa inje...hauwezi condemn meat 🥩 in your home just bkoz umekatazwa na wengine wanaikula hawana shida nayo!!
MI HUDHANI HIZI ZINAKUWANGA STORI ZA JABA BANA WAAAH , WANASEMA MUNGU HAKOSEI WACHA MIMI NIACHIE HAPO BUT HII NAYO DEADLY
Msamehe mkeo na umtosheleze vile atakwambia
Kenya wanawake bila mkia ni ngumu
Hata kama nikujisaidia nje unalala nacousinaje?wewe mwanamke umetuangusha,hio nikujidharau mwenyewe.
Jiweke na fasi yake bwana unafikiria ni rahisi??? Umekataa option zote mumepowa.