How I Became STOIC

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  • @AdamGarbunkle
    @AdamGarbunkle 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +347

    Okay guys we've got a BUNCH of new emotionally removed mindsets to take on

  • @soulofexistence
    @soulofexistence 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    The fact that he finally adressed the "okay guys" meme is so funny to me

  • @carlosvalencia2235
    @carlosvalencia2235 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +227

    we’ve got digital products, we’ve got physical products

    • @nbayern7000
      @nbayern7000 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      a buuunch

    • @robbiediaz9893
      @robbiediaz9893 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Ok then guyss

    • @DreamBig9912
      @DreamBig9912 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Shittttttt

    • @rockyblumble
      @rockyblumble 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Has me dead every time I see this

  • @2Gloomy_
    @2Gloomy_ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

    Kris smiling means 3 more months of winter

  • @mamaurax25
    @mamaurax25 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    The more stoic you become. The more attractive you become. Because there is a level of indifference that comes with stoicism. And indifference = Power in most situations.

  • @cormacking
    @cormacking 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

    Documentaries about what made men throughout the ages would be a good series. Maybe diving into circumstances and situations that create well rounded men.

    • @karnyt5843
      @karnyt5843 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Second this

  • @MarkAlCA
    @MarkAlCA 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    9:58-11:35 hits like a ton of bricks.
    I will make sure to think logically about a relationship with someone instead of being stuck in the imagination, Disney stuff.
    And if they don't have the time to hang out for a long period of time, I should respect that because they have goals and obligations to deal with.
    Thanks Kris!

  • @prince_ace
    @prince_ace 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    I've never seen Chris smile 😂...this video was surely in a good mood

    • @KaizenWithRen
      @KaizenWithRen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just got laid probably

  • @krishnakantpatil1660
    @krishnakantpatil1660 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Stoicism is not elimination of emotions, but domastication of emotions

    • @jordanmortensen
      @jordanmortensen 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You feel the emotions but you don’t respond to them outwardly

  • @gingerbreadzak
    @gingerbreadzak 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    00:55 🤣 Recognizing and laughing at personal quirks and idioms can bring humor and lightness to interactions.
    02:30 🧠 Recognizing the value of logical thinking over emotional reactions can lead to better decision-making and life outcomes.
    03:50 🔄 Understanding that most decisions, even seemingly personal ones, are often driven by self-interest rather than malicious intent, can reduce emotional reactions to situations.
    08:16 💭 Cultivating control over one's own thoughts and decisions, while accepting the randomness of external events, fosters emotional resilience and stability.
    11:49 🚫 Avoiding overthinking and relying on Occam's Razor can help to maintain logical perspectives and prevent emotional spiraling.
    15:04 🧘‍♂ Practicing self-awareness by observing one's reactions from a neutral standpoint can lead to more reasoned responses and personal growth.
    16:30 🔑 Recognize and control emotional reactions, especially when reality contradicts perception.
    17:23 💡 Make decisions based on logic rather than emotion to gain control over your life.
    21:19 🧠 Honesty and self-awareness in real-time help control emotional outbursts.
    24:33 🔄 Avoid making decisions when too emotionally high or low; aim for a stoic, level-headed approach.
    27:35 💼 Deploying the neocortex for logical thinking improves decision-making, leading to success in various aspects of life.

    • @balasaravanan500
      @balasaravanan500 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I was really searching the comment section for this. Thanks man, this was helpfull

  • @rockyblumble
    @rockyblumble 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I'm genuinely so happy every time I see a notification for a new 1stman vid. Can't explain why. Just feels like home

    • @smilegp
      @smilegp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He's one of the best shit that happening in the world right now

  • @imawarrior313
    @imawarrior313 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Never make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings.

  • @jonathanjoestar275
    @jonathanjoestar275 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This is an incredibly important video you've made, Kris.
    Learning to calibrate and understand when your emotions rise, to prevent making emotional decisions, can propel you massively.

  • @cameronplunkett4304
    @cameronplunkett4304 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Really appreciate your content, Kris. The only channel in the self improvement space I watch. I come back to your videos every few months and it always reminds me why I watch your content.

  • @PBarrettt
    @PBarrettt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Honestly your content has gotten so much better over time

  • @mamaurax25
    @mamaurax25 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Stoicism is a necessity as a man.

    • @Reinousmessandriahdristreniyos
      @Reinousmessandriahdristreniyos 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Exactly,I can't even fathom how emotional most men are and it always comes to bite them in the ass

  • @patuel1
    @patuel1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I think this is one of the best videos you've made, going deep on practical every day situations, keep it up Kris.

  • @prashantthakuri6520
    @prashantthakuri6520 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Kris for Giving us A New Life , Thank you for the Male Advantage Brother ❤, and Stoicism is the Man biggest Part of Life

  • @joonhastandard
    @joonhastandard 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chris is so lively today. Feels like talking to an old friend.

  • @Tianmengliu
    @Tianmengliu 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Don’t agree with all his views but definitely respect what he’s saying here

  • @EverydayKnowledgee
    @EverydayKnowledgee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In my opinion beeing stoic and disciplined can change a life for long term. these 2 features are 90 % fixing everything

  • @djrocks5678
    @djrocks5678 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Those forearms in the thumbnail looking thiccc

  • @Fittnesj
    @Fittnesj 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is maybe one of you best videos

  • @theanomity3185
    @theanomity3185 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is an all time classic!!!

  • @simonejaffa8675
    @simonejaffa8675 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your best vid in a while. This topic is my Achilles heel. Thanks for this one.

  • @who_is_dis
    @who_is_dis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Nah an Idiom is like "Bite the bullet and do it" or " Under the weather " - you've essentially just been memed 😂

  • @adamfaliq8464
    @adamfaliq8464 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Okay guys we've got a bunch of stoic mindset here

  • @lucilius-annaeus
    @lucilius-annaeus 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I love this topic. But just to add to your points. Stoicism is often misinterpreted to being void of all emotion or ignoring emotions, this is false. Read books from the great stoic thinkers, especially meditations by Marcus Aurelius, don't just read the cool quotes online, read the whole book. He was extremely in tune with his emotions, in the book he describes anger, happiness, sadness, jealousy from various events throughout his life. Stoicism more than anything is self awareness, being able to address your emotions internally, whislt ensuring your actions are not driven by your emotions, but by your morals. There's a big difference. It annoys me when people think being stoic is about being an emotionless robot. It's not about being void of all emotion, It's about being aware of them and in control them.

  • @Kelvistrike
    @Kelvistrike 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Those forearms veins looking crazy

    • @secretook
      @secretook 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      ikr

    • @Kelvistrike
      @Kelvistrike 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@secretook glad I wasn’t the only one noticing 😭🙏🏾

  • @JamieWE
    @JamieWE 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Such a good mindset to cultivate. Enjoyed this one Kris!

  • @deciduousdiscipline9592
    @deciduousdiscipline9592 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So good. Thanks, Kris

  • @j-anonymous
    @j-anonymous 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi kris, it’s Jeremiah from your insta comments. Recently I’ve started doing 40 minutes of cardio daily, my mind has become more relaxed and focused. I think it’s something to do with increased oxygen intake. Could be an interesting video. Also face and body is getting leaner at a ridiculous rate.

  • @julius.2003
    @julius.2003 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Okay guys we’ve got a bunch of quality stoic content here.

  • @fitnessphilosoph
    @fitnessphilosoph 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Firealarm Story is Lit.

  • @swixdon
    @swixdon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Okay guys, we've got a BUNCH of veins in this left arm.

  • @yashvashisht1805
    @yashvashisht1805 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep making more videos . It wil very knowledgeable ❤

  • @ThatsCaptain
    @ThatsCaptain 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    1stMan: Okay guyyys…
    His Forearm Vein on the Thumbnail: 🥺

  • @cengizhanermet
    @cengizhanermet 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Another BANGER video

  • @99vhtech28
    @99vhtech28 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stoic is great what's 1st man keep it up

  • @kd3655
    @kd3655 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1stman solves 100s of 1000s of years of evolution of human emotions!

  • @michaelogbole7369
    @michaelogbole7369 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can you make a video on how to handle conflict? Especially with those close to you that try to test you always

  • @bakirnolastname3940
    @bakirnolastname3940 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Programers need to be stoic.I've been going to an IT oriented school for 6 years, and I hear this a lot, especially the women and the femboys : ohh i did everything right but it isn't working. If you made your logic right, it'll work

  • @KacperChalcarz
    @KacperChalcarz 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When it comes to that hate culture thing you mentioned, i have to say that it is literally the same in Poland, here if u succeed, people just can’t stop themselves from hatin on you and lookin for excuses why you made it. It’s just ridiculous.

  • @tylerdurden8640
    @tylerdurden8640 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Is there anything better today than be a proper stoic? Did you ever seen James Bond got angry or lose his coolness? No. So. Act when you can and the best you can, the rest is not in your concern. ⚔️

  • @jesusmedranoo
    @jesusmedranoo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We've got a bunch of life set up here!

  • @therealmag
    @therealmag 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Okay guys we've got a BUNCH of Veins on the video to build inspiration from

  • @zackbowly
    @zackbowly 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    prime example of the iconic subtle brag 1:34

  • @alexandervashchuk7795
    @alexandervashchuk7795 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    8:25 genius

  • @jeffyoutube68
    @jeffyoutube68 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kris...are you going to make more workout videos?

  • @Erik-leChef
    @Erik-leChef 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Swear box early here

  • @therealmattchong
    @therealmattchong 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My mate bought bitcoin for a joke over a decade ago.
    He's definitely laughing now haha
    Great video Kris

  • @DevelopmentDive
    @DevelopmentDive 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Big One ❤

  • @marcelchalobah7946
    @marcelchalobah7946 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Do a live Q and A
    Meet and greet this year

  • @MrJesan74
    @MrJesan74 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Video suggestion: Having your shit together as a mam. E.g. being organised, on time, being ahead, knowing your bank details stuff like that please

  • @survivedmatze0327
    @survivedmatze0327 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Chris,
    I already contacted the Support for your Supplement, but got no response. It says worldwide shipping, but I can't select Germany. Am I to stupid or do you guys do not ship currently to Germany?? Thanks a lot

    • @projectsuperhuman
      @projectsuperhuman 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You’re not allowed to ship certain supplements to Germany because of their laws I believe.

    • @jimboy101
      @jimboy101 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      so is there no way to get it here?@@projectsuperhuman

  • @jimboy101
    @jimboy101 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey 1stman, why is the mens lifestyle supplement not available in germany? is there any way to order it for me?

  • @MatteoHarb
    @MatteoHarb 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amazing

  • @cherubeast
    @cherubeast 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1. Almost nothing is personal. People are driven by their self-interest. Don't take things personally.
    2. Occam's Razor. When faced with 2 things, the simpler one is probably the thing that happened.
    3. Stop in the moment, analyze yourself and reaction from an external viewpoint, as if you're watching yourself from a neutral standpoint. Stop and think logically

  • @KoenvanderZee
    @KoenvanderZee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What is the name of the book about the limbic brain, neo-cortex and reptillian brain you talked about in your video?

  • @DilanLiverpoolfc27PS
    @DilanLiverpoolfc27PS 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Has the natural diuretic been discontinued? Can’t seem to buy it from the website

  • @Low_pH
    @Low_pH 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im BUZZING

  • @jimboy101
    @jimboy101 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey guys, the supplement is not available where I live and I wanted to ask yall if there is an alternative that is out there that I could order?

  • @step1610
    @step1610 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    18:30 hahaha thats so relatable

  • @orenthabigg5973
    @orenthabigg5973 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    i dont usually leave comments but i watched the majority of your videos. and i think this one provides the most value. practical tips and thinking methods we can start applying today. i can really see this changing lives. as i see around me hoardes of bitch made men

  • @myvideosareforyou
    @myvideosareforyou 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Are you meant to cycle the lifestyle supplement? If so for how long?

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I regret that sometime Kelsey popped out most complicated stalker women ever - Willy 0

  • @diesertesch
    @diesertesch 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where I can buy the posters in the back?

  • @appiusclaudias3500
    @appiusclaudias3500 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How do we get our hair back 1stman, I lost mine too, can you help me

    • @ronaldgmaster5782
      @ronaldgmaster5782 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He got scalp micropigmentation.

    • @appiusclaudias3500
      @appiusclaudias3500 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ronaldgmaster5782 is that like a pen or something?

  • @TheCreatorMindSkool
    @TheCreatorMindSkool 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Okay guys we've got a bunch of indiums here creating a bunch of culture

  • @smilegp
    @smilegp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We Got A Bunch A Mindset

  • @Vlad_Ethereum
    @Vlad_Ethereum 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yall see the vein on his arm?

  • @Muhluri
    @Muhluri 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OK guys we've got a banger video!

  • @sliv9342
    @sliv9342 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If you wanna grab our mens lifestyle supplement or male advantage e-book

  • @jomsburner
    @jomsburner 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I live a simple life. When I hear ‘ok then guys’, i put on the video and listen.

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That'd be a William George Olsen this baby swap - Willy 0

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Taking the train is just normal people stuff I don't wanna blow money and I'm drinking - Willy 0

  • @SandeepSabarish
    @SandeepSabarish 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Kris I'm 19 if I'm waiting till 30 to date how do I find a wife quality virgin woman, at max I will be able to find a woman who's 5 years younger than me. Is it possible to get a 19 year old wife when I'm 30+ after achieving straight 7

    • @ronaldgmaster5782
      @ronaldgmaster5782 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nope. Sorry but don’t wait until 30 to date. That’s really unnatural.

  • @jordanewen6529
    @jordanewen6529 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ok guys we’ve got a bunch of stoicism here

  • @giusemineo
    @giusemineo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    11:14 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @truebezzy12
    @truebezzy12 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    15:26 lmao I’ve seen this

  • @andrewkerr5296
    @andrewkerr5296 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tall Poppy syndrome exists in Australia too

  • @ekactive1
    @ekactive1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    1. If you and Alex Dallison are making hundreds of thousands a month each, why are you asking people to commit money prior to you actually having even bought one property? Why would you not buy a house first, develop it etc and then advertise the finished product? If you really make that much you'd have a deposit saved within one month. Or is the real truth that you don't make anywhere near that amount of money so you couldn't afford to do that?
    2. If you're making hundreds of thousands a month as you claim, why does the information about 1stman Ltd on Companies House UK contradict this?
    3. If Alex Dallison is so successful, why does he only have two listed companies on Companies House UK, both of which were only created in the last month? He has no listed companies on Companies House that are listed as making a profit.

    • @TV-oc4ml
      @TV-oc4ml 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly, keeping digging man! Expose this grifter

  • @leodekleijn7712
    @leodekleijn7712 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes very good, people end up in jail for nothing because of listening to emotions.

  • @Apj-tq9um
    @Apj-tq9um 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don’t stop the male supplement pls

  • @Daighton242
    @Daighton242 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Big g

  • @ariahemin1000
    @ariahemin1000 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ok guys we've some meme here.
    I think meme is the word he looking for.

    • @Aurora-bv1ys
      @Aurora-bv1ys 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Meme, The DNA of the Soul

  • @NM-hq1io
    @NM-hq1io 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    OK GUYS

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    However, I am tesla and people will be punished like I need the protections for niko himself from now on which my journals do just as much as Nikos I can assure you that - Willy 0

  • @jesusmedranoo
    @jesusmedranoo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Guy looks massive

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm serious you get that smart my kids still smart enough to figure out I'd leave his girlfriends alone and they would and they trained him to hate me still sees me still doesn't trust them lives with them - Willy 0

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Well actually immunity doesn't mean you bred it right right you build the immunity and die you still died without kids - Willy 0

  • @maggus6413
    @maggus6413 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Okay then guys

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You like the emphasises recent journal that turned Africa into a jungle - Willy 0

  • @plotrecapped6819
    @plotrecapped6819 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thay veiny hand haha

  • @tucctucc6214
    @tucctucc6214 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    We’ve got a BUNCH of idioms

  • @Izan-o8f
    @Izan-o8f 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does anybody else see those monster veins?

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    But yeah my journal turned the African desert into a jungle just they have no respect for journals you'd have to learn to stalk an individuals typing except 100% of it before talking to me about critical information theft I got all the small children protected from it so far with everyone else the information war has broken out into smaller larger wars a couple times now - Willy 0

  • @poiuy2010
    @poiuy2010 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wheat waffles keeps talking about age pill and how 20 year old girls don't like 30 year olds successful dudes, can you rebutt this Chris

    • @rockyblumble
      @rockyblumble 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He doesn't need to. Wheat doesn't have the life experience to back his theory up, Kris does.

    • @Low_pH
      @Low_pH 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      WW is a kid

    • @pey10bogvkuehl29
      @pey10bogvkuehl29 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Don’t listen to Wheat Waffles man. Pay attention to the things he says and realize for yourself how wrong they are.

    • @JaydonFitness
      @JaydonFitness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      He does this to keep you in a shitty mindset so that you can go back to him and find out how to better yourself and then check if you are ready yet by submitting a request and paying to get his opinion on your looks and assets, its all his business. I personally stay away from people like him and Hamza and for about 2 years since then, I have felt better mentally. Kris is pretty decent but at-least he is like if you don’t better yourself you will regret it if not then 🤷‍♂️. AVOID THE BLACK PILL. Just be stoic and train.

    • @pey10bogvkuehl29
      @pey10bogvkuehl29 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@JaydonFitness I’m thankful Hamza directed me here years ago, because Kris is the only guy to wholeheartedly trust. Hamza and Jack, all of them are cringe and have lost the plot. I’m seeing now, Hamza uploads far too often. It’s just sad to see someone you used to look up to fall in with the group he advocated staying away from.

  • @stonksag3999
    @stonksag3999 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    📈💪🏼

  • @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz
    @nummingsworthforbiddenda-mh6tz 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Actually truth be told the train doesn't stop the new protection I get but that's okay people want the desert turned into a jungle - Willy 0