My dad was told he had 3 months to live and they could not remove the cancer all over his abdomen (stage 4). They also told him doing chemo is a waste of time. He lay around waiting to die but then realized how young we were and he decided to fight. He started chemo and everytime he thought he fought it, they realized their was another tumor and then he had leukemia and it kept showing up in different parts of his body, but never his lungs or brain. Finally one day the doc declared him cancer free, he lived the rest of his life cancer free and only 25 years after the doc told him he had 3 months to live, did he pass away from heart failure still cancer free. Your faith and positively is your first step to your healing, the love and support is your second and the doctors and treatment is the third. You can do this, you covered in prayer from all over the world❤❤❤❤.
Hello from the USA. My husband has stage 4 cancer. After a PET scan, it was revealed he had a cancerous lymph node in the same clavicle area as yours. After a cycle of 6 rounds of chemo (12 weeks), his new PET scan came back NED. There is no evidence of disease. I am sharing this with you to encourage you. We are praying for you.
Tiffany, I’m a mom and my heart hurts for you sweet girl. You can and will do it again. I’m just so sorry you have to. Thinking of you and all who love you. We will all be beside you along the way. ❤️
Dear Tiffany as a health care professional and long time follower of your situation ( plus being a stage 4 cancer cohort) please remember that stage 4 cancers are a chronic disease. No matter which organ the cancers originally started in they have spread by direct extension or by the lymphatic system or blood. Any new seedlings from this original colon tumor ( your type of tumor) are colon/rectal tumors in a new place in your body. Your physicians will choose a chemo/immunotherapy agent to specifically target your colo/rectal cancer type. We are in a new era of cancer treatment and sounds like your team is spot on to get your best treatment going. Please help it along by choosing best diet to knock cancer cells and boost the chemotherapy success. I and all stage 4 club are routing for you girl. Live your life every day! Love you!
Out of curiosity... are most secondary cancer diagnoses actually just the first cancer having spread a while later? Is that what is checked during biopsies or can they tell where the cancer has come from, from the scans?
@GizmoGremlinDog secondary cancers are metastasis From primary tumor and have same histology as that primary tumor. Tumor markers are part of the laboratory studies that are done and indicate thst secondary tumors are on the rise.
Tiffany, I say this as the mother of two grown daughters, mothers do not want to be "spared" whatever their child (regardless of age) is going through, no matter how difficult or scary. Please keep her informed; being uninformed is far scarier to a mother. Sending continued love and prayers. 🙏🙏💙💙
I just can agree 1000%!!!!! As a mother too! There has to be talked about the facts but also the fears. It's just a suggestion- but the worst people can do in siruation like this is hide behind a facade. And it's absolute right to be posituv, but this has to come from the subconscioussness. Otherwise its just keep yourself busy and try not the think about. A lot of people get the point of "be positiv" completely wrong
They have just had many happy things in the family...engagement & weddings. Tiffany is in shock right now, understandably. I am a mom as well and I would want to know but I understand Tiffany not telling her mother until she gets the results from the PET scan. She doesn't want her mom to go through all the emotions worrying about the unknown. I am sure Tiffany will tell her as soon as she gets the results. I think she is letting her mom be happy for as long as possible due to all the good events they have had recently. I am still hoping this isn't cancer. If it is Tiffany will have her mom, sister, Matt and us to help her.
Tiffany, dear, please talk to your support team about seeing a counsellor at the hospital. Im sure the oncology unit will have one available. Many suggested it back when you were approaching surgery. As you said, this is your life now so counselling is like maintenance for your mental health. Living scan to scan can be very debilitating and keep you on a never ending roller coaster. If the chemo isn’t too harsh, working a few hours here and there keeps you involved with people and is a chance to be distracted and occupied in another head space. Speaking all this from my own experience, staying busy and doing my “normal” is what saved me and kept me sane. You are stronger than you think and braver than you believe 💙💙💙💙
I can only say the same. In Germany we do have psychologists for cancer that are part of treatment and do help patients mentally. They are here for you . Please do get mental help
There is NOTHING wrong with crying with us. I prefer you having raw emotion to trying to ramble your way out of feeling or showing emotion. You’re going to do this and we will be here. The fact that they are acting fast is a blessing. Let’s ride this wave girl…
I cried at these videos. I didn't cry at my breast cancer x 2 but I am 74. It is so unfair for you. I want to yell. I am sad and mad. That is me. So very hard for all of you. Much love as you find your way through this once again.❤
@@annmarie9163 It’s very sad to hear that Tiffany is worried about people demanding things from her, she is a young woman that is going through the nightmare journey of cancer, it’s so important for Tiffany to focus on her health, physically, mentally and emotionally, she has an amazing family and friend network and she just needs to put herself first! Please do not pander to selfish people putting unkind and unrealistic demands on her time and energy. Wishing Tiffany all the best, take care of yourself 1st 2nd & 3rd 💕
As someone who started life from birth w a brain tumor to now being 61 with a different cancer ( I’ve battled on and off my whole life) I think this is a blessing. It’s early Tiffany and you’re young and strong. Just focus on today as tomorrow isn’t guaranteed for anyone. Yesterday is gone so leave it there. You will get through this. It’s ok to grieve to cry and get it out of your system. But focus on living your best life today. We love you from across the world in New Mexico. ❤ we’ve got this!! 💪🏼 🥊
Honey...all u can do is one day at a time. I am 75 and need to say that we all have a journey to fulfill. PLEASE don't give in to fear! That rabbit hole has no bottom. Love you and praying for you.
Hi That is great advice, take one day at a time, just go and get things done. I nearly died a year ago and now each time I wake up I know that I have another day to enjoy, never think of the future always love for the day. ❤. Xxx
Dear lady, eventhough your comment was meant to Tiffany, It made me feel so calm and peaceful, I think next time I feel scared again, I will think about what you said about fear❤
Your viewers have no rights to demand happy videos on an unrealistic schedule. This is your channel, journey, life etc. We are here for you, so sad this happening to you. Anybody would be shocked, upset, angry etc you don't need to pretend anything different . Just be yourself. Big hugs Tiffany. You've got this xx
you need to remember Mat loves you no matter what.. healthy or sick. dont feel like you are putting him through this. he chooses YOU no matter what. You have got this. try try try to stay positive. we are all rooting for you 💙💙💙
I've been a silent viewer for a long time and seen your journey. I have NEVER seen someone so stoical and strong you are an inspiration and I'm so so sorry you're going through all of this it's so unfair. We are with you & see you. You got this xx
No matter how many subscribers you have, no one has the right to demand test results or anything from you. You have every right as a human being to feel and express what you are going through good or bad, on camera and not. You got this Tiffany.
I hope that you read my comment as I am going through the same journey. Same cancer, chemo radiation/ chemo / same surgery two months before you had yours, I also have a stoma and then I had metastasis in my lungs; did two surgeries (one left side one right side) after that they found more nodules in my lungs so I did another chemo drug combination. I was told I would lose my hair, which I didn’t. Unfortunately I didn’t respond to this chemo so they decided to do radiation and treat the nodules locally. I had another scan last week and they found two more nodules that are suspicious again. So you are not alone and how you feel is totally normal. I know it’s easier said than done, but just keep fighting and enjoy every moment of your life. I do hope that this chemo works for you, so you don’t have to go through what I am going. Stay strong.
As a cancer survivor & retired hospice nurse I can tell you everyone copes differently on the journey,you by your own admission can go into denial which is a great coping mechanism but the trouble is when something forces you to come out of that way of thinking you have to crash down to the reality of the situation. That is why you are feeling so shocked.I know that it’s scary when you are bombarded by the reality of everything suddenly falling into place but you never know that could just be an enlarged lymph node with NED no evidence of disease 🤞❤️
Tiffany your Mama would want to know about everything. AS A MAMA I KNOW SHE WOULD! Please tell her-a Mother’s prayer is crucial. Share with her so she can pray to God about everything 💙 for her daughter 🙏🏾
Cancer (or any life threatening illness) is so cruel and mentally draining. You are so very brave and bless you, we are all rooting for you, Matt and your loved ones. Bless you all. X
As a two time cancer survivor and two more lesions in two more different organs now I have to say this. Let the emotions you are feeling now have their time. Then, dont let yourself get too caught up because you need to keep living everyday as best as you can. So many people stop living and stay overwhelmed and miss out on their daily life. They forget to smile, smell the roses, enjoy a compliment. Either way the outcome will be the outcome. I now have to go through 3 month and 6 month scans but I feel this is my journey and its up to me live my life to the fullest as i see fit. You have every right to be shocked, scared, and MAD! Do not apologize for being human. You will find the strength to manage your journey just like you did before. You are soooo much stonger than you know and you have more strength in you to fight the fight. We got this too !!
Lisa, what a wonderful comment you wrote. It was filled with inspiration and great advise. Tiffany is very strong as you must also be and every word you wrote I know will help her. As you are in a somewhat similar situation you know exactly what she is going through and how to help her. Thank you. Sending you light, love and prayers for your journey. God bless you. Much love, Susan from 🇨🇭
Tiffany!!!!!!!!! Breathe!!!!!!!! You got this girl!!!! You are definately in shock. Let yourself do this one step at a time. Absorb the shock!!! Let that settle for a few days. Then tackle the next step. One small step at a time. You're still engaged to the man of your dreams. No one could love you more. You still have the most incredible Mother. Youre still sister and Auntie to the most amazing family. You have tremendous extended family and friends. And you still have us. Your Tiffany thinks family. We will all support you every step of the way on this journey. Sending Love and Prayers from Long Island, NY. You are strong, we've all watched you, thats how I know you can do this again!!! ❤
Breaks my heart to see you so brokenhearted sweet Tiffany, sending so much love and prayers, I really believe you will come out of this, keep fighting beautiful 🙏🏻
Tiffany... you are entitled to "wail and gnash your teeth" at your latest results. Being sad and shocked is NOT being weak!! Getting up and carrying on - even while crying - shows your strength and courage. I am sure that most of us did not join your online family expecting to see episodes of the Cardashians!! You keep it real and we are honoured to be allowed into your life. We don't give a hoot that your videos aren't scripted... We are all rooting for your and sending you our prayers, love and the tightest hugs possible.
Containers for different rice 37:21 , flour !!! Oh and remember I think you said you are going to get different chemo which will irradicate those nodes, we got this Tiff !!! Wait, what? What does ironing my sheets mean????? Crazy concept !!! You talk to us anytime 😊 💙
YT videos aren’t scripted, they aren’t meant to be. They are edited though, Cut and spliced and rejoined and cut again until they look right. Live streams aren’t though, it would be great if Tiffany and Matt would do a live stream to chat with everyone and allow a few questions (even if we have to submit them ahead of time)
Tiffany. Please speak to a nurse specialist as soon as possible, to get some professional support. I hate seeing you so distressed. Take each day at a time, try not to look too far ahead. None of us know what the future holds, life can change for any of us at any time. You got this sweetheart, you honestly have!! You don’t always need to be brave, you can fall apart, but don’t stay there too long. Also, please talk to your mum, I am a mum and I would want to know everything. ❤️
💙💙💙💙💙what an emotionally draining and exhausting disease.. anyone out there in a situation like Tiffany’s I have much empathy for all you have to go through… As you said Tiffany, it’s a roller coaster .. and I pray yr able to get off the ride… cancer sux.. I wish I was in yr car to give you a massive hug! Cry all you need to! You can do this Tiffany! You can do this! Always here for you Tiffany 💙💙💙💙💙WE GOT THIS🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🍀
This is confusing. At first you said you will have a petscan then start immedo You were indicating you were going to have the petscan then immediate Chemo and what kind. But now it seems you are saying So it’s not certain you will need chemo regardless of the scan? IF the pet scan shows the tumor you will immediately start chemo? And if the results of the petscan determine it is not cancerous you do nothing
You’re handling your cancer journey much more gracefully than I could ever imagine. I went through chemo and eight surgeries and I feel your sadness. Prayers 🙏🏼💙🙏🏼
Hello dear Tiffany. Sending you a big hug. You have a right to be scared and emotional. You are so strong and have a great support system! ❤ I’m a cancer survivor and lost my hair. It grows back 🙂 Now my husband has stage 4 cancer. 😔 It’s a bit of a rollercoaster, but I will say that the doctors are watching him like a hawk and they catch things early, treat, and then we move on. We got this. We’re all rooting for you from afar! 🩷
Matt is with you no matter what, his strength combined with your own will get through this latest scare. You do not need anyone’s permission around your vlogs, it is your timeline, no-one else’s. One day at a time, you will get through this.
Tiff, I have been praying fervently for you. I know you are going to be ok! You will get through this! You’re so much stronger than you know. Prayer warriors, rise up, we need to fight for tiff in prayer. Tiff say psalm 91 for protection over you. If you see this please remember god has got you! You, Matt, amma and the fam will be ok! Lots of love and hugs 💙
Do NOT Ever feel bad about how you feel, Never apologize. I have had Cancer twice and there is nothing scarier. You have the right to be sad and scared. Just make sure you keep the Faith too!! 😇
I am also dealing with cancer. If there is anything I dislike is hearing everyone else telling me how to handle this disease. You have to trust the Doctors. Praying for you. ❤
Whether you are laughing or tearful, angry or confused, whatever on whatever day you are one very strong lady Tiffany. May God bring healing, peace and support for you all. We are praying you through each moment 💙🙏⚓️✨ As a carer for my husband for 4 years now with stage 4 cancer, please know it helps us to be there to support and care for you
Tiffany, there is no words I can really say. But you have fought, you have come this far, you can do it again, your strength is incredible. You are a fighter, great days are coming again for you I just know it. Sending strength, prayers and love 💙
My mom had 27 lymph nodes including under the collar bone that were cancer. She was 86 and kept it at bay so I know you can. The one under her clavicle never really gave her any problems. Praying for you.
Your mum sounds like an amazing woman. They made them tough back then. My mum has just turned 90. She was diagnosed with colon cancer at 85. She had surgery, and all appeared well for almost five years, when it was diagnosed again earlier this year. She is much frailer now, so they are not going to do surgery. I hope our mums keeps fighting the good fight❤❤
My mom had a saying that I live by “All You Can Do; Is All You Can Do.” When I was diagnosed with breast cancer that’s what I told myself every day. I’m praying for you! We Got This!
Never hide your tears Tiffany : it's perfectly normal to be emotional and you're allowed to show that. This is part of the journey and it's incredibly important that people know how cancer impacts lives in all kinds of ways. You're not weak for crying and for showing vulnerability to the world : you're just being real and true.
Tiff I know its overwhelming but you are in such good care. I am a doctor in the US and things NEVER move this fast. It takes WEEKS to get a pet scan! And they don't catch things as early as we only get maintenance scans ever 6-12 months. You have excellent care and you've got this!
If I can ask you, where in the US are you a doctor? You said “in the US things NEVER move this fast” Of course they do! I’ve had cancer & I know first hand scans & tests can move very quickly. I believe it depends on where in the country you are living. Also a patient with stage 4 cancer that is progressing, especially a young patient, will take precedence. Not exactly sure what you are talking about.
@@JessicaRaisman NYS. I've had pt wait weeks for pet scans at our hospital. Or being denied pet scans as inpatients. We don't follow up every 3 months on anyone.
@@lorra4789 I am glad you have never had to wait. I do think it matters where you go. The hospital system I work for is not a well known cancer institute so that probably is a huge factor. Tiff is in good hands though with her care.
you are doing so well, handling this difficult situation, talk it out and cry it out whenever you need to, know you have so many people praying for you, but also believing in you, you've been through this before, you know what to expect. your've got this💙🙏
Bless you sweet Tiffany, as a fellow cancer survivor , I’ll say we got this, you will be ok and you havnt put Matt in this situation, he was out in your life for a reason he is your Angel in disguise and he is meant to be there .
I agree with this. I have my own angel. It’s easy to feel guilty (a year after we met I got the same not very common cancer that their first spouse died of), but it serves no purpose for either of you. It is your path together and love conquers all.
Tiffany, I'm 73 and have blood cancer, so I've been doing lots of research. You may already know this, but I have to share it anyway. I've seen in so many places that cancer feeds on SUGAR in all forms. So I'm trying to eliminate it totally from my diet, which has been hard because I love sweets. Anyway, something to consider. You are such a special person, and I know you've got this!
@@sallybp2484 have you got any advice for the sugar cravings and eliminating sugar from our diets. We have a long history of cancer in our families so I am trying to eliminate it too. Good luck with your journey Sally xx
There's no scientific evidence for this so don't worry about it. Don't change your life based on theories developed by people who don't understand physiology.
Sadly it's glucose that cancer feeds on, and carbohydrates get converted to glucose in our bodies, so eliminating sugar would not help anyway. You'd have to have a keto diet, which is not necessarily healthy, and there's also no definitive proof that this would help
There is absolutely no scientific evidence to support this. Our food converts to sugar for energy. Cancer in our bodies is NOT cancer that is in a petri dish. Please do not disseminate claims that are purely predicated on misinformation. Things like this hurt cancer patients, and pushes them into harmful and injurious diets. Eat anything and whatever you can get your hands on!
Tiffany-this isn’t the end. The people who live many years with stage four still occasionally require chemo and radiation and surgeries and numerous other therapies. I’m a breast cancer survivor and know several women who are stage 4. Most are doing well but they all require treatment of some kind. One of them recently had a liver resection which took care of her liver mets. She’s doing ok and is almost back to NED. So yes, it’s possible to live a long time at stage 4, but you’re going to need treatment. It doesn’t seem like you have extensive mets, and you’re asymptomatic. You’re ok.
Oh Tiffany. This just broke my heart. I just wanted to jump into the screen and give you the biggest hug. You’ve NOTHING to apologise for, you upload when you want. No pressure from anyone darling. You CAN do this again and you WILL. You really will. This is the initial shock. You’ve amazing people behind you and by your side. Remember what you always say, WE GOT THIS, YOU GOT THIS. Please take your time and post as and when you want to. You are in my prayers every day darling. God bless x
Ýes i was feeling the same 😢 just wanted to give her the biggest cuddle and let her now we are all here for our darling Tiffany ❤ i just love that she has got a wonderful loving fiance and her lovely Amma all her family and friends who adore her ❤ we got this our tiffanythinks family 💙 🫂💙🫂💙 xxxx
Me too…. My heart just shattered for Tiffany. It really is unfair. It was good to see Tiffany crying and venting though and getting her true feelings and thoughts out. My heart is with you, Tiffany💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 WE GOT THIS💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
It makes me so mad that some people demand videos from her. Even after her extremely major and life changing surgery, they were demanding videos. Let her post whenever she wishes or doesn’t wish to post. Please ❤
I deal with it as the exact same way. I will make myself busy I will clean, fold clothes, re-organise closets, bake, garden, paint, or many other busy activities that keep my mind going until I tire myself out breakdown and cry. Or I do it in the opposite order. It depends on the situation the day what's going on and how much stress there is. We all have our ways of coping. You're strong. You have a wonderful large circle of loving supportive family & friends. You're both probably feeling bad that this has rudely interrupted the high you have both been on since your engagement but, remember you love each other completely and totally these results won't change that and you've been through this before and you'll get through it again.
I understand what you are going through. I have multiple myeloma (cancer of bone and kidney) along with diffuse systemic scleroderma (autoimmune) either have no cure. I have recently been dealing w/ strokes. I just got discharged from ICU after 3 days to home!!! I am still me. But, I like you, just live in the moment as nothing is guaranteed for the future. Universal love coming to you. Tears are okay, Tiffany, don't hold it in, you have every right. I hope that things turn around for you and quickly.. Hang in there!!!!! Matt will be by your side to help support you during this time.
My mum has the same condition as you, she’s 85 with heart failure. She’s doing really well although she gets cold easily. She was diagnosed 6 years ago. I hope you’re ok
I am so sorry that you are going through this. It hurts me to know this world is beautiful but also full of suffering. I have a love/hate for it. You have nothing to apologize for. Nothing at all. I feel honored that you look to us for some solace and venting. Feeling scared has nothing to do with being weak. You are fighting even when scared. That shows such strength and love. You are an inspiration. Even when it's hard for you, even when it is exhausting, you are still a fighter. Love to you all!!🩵🩵🩵
Tiffany you can do it. You're just shocked right now. Once you vent, cry, tell your family im hoping you feel better. Remember what Matt said - The hardest news is hearing you have Cancer. Remember the reason for scans is be on top of it and treat it. You have a wonderful support team, you have faith in God. You got this 💙💙💙
Its ok to cry in front of the Tiffany thinks family...cause we are part of your family 🙏🏻 sending you lots lots of hug and pooooositive energy!!! We love you Tiff!!! We 've got this...Youuuu ve Got This 💙💙💙💙🫂🫂🫂💪🏻
I feel for you for sure. I am so sorry you are going through this. A few things stood out to me in this video. When my best friend had cancer, they told her a few things and she researched and found it true but one is emotions, let them out don't be strong and hide them or swallow them or block them out or keeping busy rather than speaking to a counsellor and letting it out is hanging on to it and swallowing it all. Our non-processed emotions hurt us, go into our bodies and cause further damage. journal, cry, talk talk talk, do what you need to get a much of your emotions out rather than playing strong. also, the people who have stage 4 and live a long long time, they change their lifestyle. you can't do the same things over and over and over again and expect different results. For instance the high carb and sugary things, they grow and feed cancer so please look into keto and alternative lifestyle so you can help yourself. juicing fruits is concentrated sugar to the body so you are speeding up feeding cancer. Juice greens, veg instead with a masticating juicer. I will continue to pray. sending you lots of love and hugs. I can't imagine your pain through all this horrible journey. my best friend went through it so I saw a snapshot so I have some small idea. xo
My sweet Tiffany, I have no words. I’m in shock along w you. One thing I know is how strong you are after all you’ve endured thus far. You CAN do it again bc you have so much to look forward to! A full beautiful life with You your darling, Matt. Not to mention Amma, Aston, Ella and your lovely sister. Just to name a few. So many people that love you Tiffany. Cry, scream, stamp your feet, whatever you want, just keep fighting bc I know you will win. God grace is by your side. All my love to you❤️
Hi Tiffany. My name is Stacey and I am from USA. I have been Stage 4 cancer for 10 years (originally diagnosed Stage 2b in 2006, remission for about 8 years, then my cancer came back in my bones Stage 4). I understand most things you talk about only too well. My health is a roller coaster. Scans are stable, tumor markers rising right now. It is difficult to tell those we love, less than good news. Take care and best wishes.
Tiffany, I'm sending positive thoughts and prayers, you're allowed to be emotional, you're allowed to want some normality, I understand that there's times you want it to not be the first thing people think about you, answering questions, listening to people talk about it, when you just want to be distracted. Tiffany this is *your* channel, people having opinions is going to happen, people being disrespectful and/vile is not acceptable. Run things your way. I think sometimes people forget you're a real person, and it's your real life. Sending you love 💖😘
Sweetie I’m so sorry. I have colon cancer but been NED for a year , I still live with the fear and I’m actually crying right now for you because you are so giving and you don’t deserve this. Keep the faith , do the Chemo and ask about removing it. It could always be just an inflamed lymph node . You got this!
Bless your heart! My heart aches for you! I have just recently finished chemo for a cancer that has come back 3 times so I totally understand how you feel. It is so hard to stay strong and positive when the unknown is lurking and could be serious. You are such a kind, sweet and thoughtful young lady who deserves to spend the rest of your life happily married to your darling. I pray for you to experience that. God Bless, Francy from South Carolina
Have a good cry get all those emotions out then wipe those tears and you start again because you have been through this before and come out the other side. Life is not fair but people do live with stage four cancer a friend of mine lived for 25 years after being diagnosed. There are advancements all the time and clinical trials of new treatments. Stay positive and just take a day at a time.
Best thing to do to keep yourself busy and the fact that you have kind of went through this before. Start meal prepping, making sheet dinners, crock pot dinners and anything that freezes nicely that you can just pop in the oven or microwave. Don’t forget start prepping for your juices but this time add in peanut butter for protein to help with your weight. Also, make sure to buy chemo items. We are coming up to winter so buy more journals, get some Christmas shopping done, plan things to keep your mind busy whether it be books, games on your phone, whatever you can possibly do to keep yourself busy and get a head of things. I find it easier to make frozen dinners and get a chemo bag packed with things I can do. Learn to crochet that’s what I did.
Tiffany, it's your journey and your life, it is a privilege and a gift that you share it with us. Continued prayers for you and Matt and all of your family. God is always with you dear.
While I have never watched any of your videos, you popped up on my feed today. Let me start by saying your beautiful soul truly shines thru ❤. Also, consider that you may be grieving. Grieving that you’re being pulled back into a battle you thought you had moved beyond. Remember your loved ones want to be there for you and will never see you as a burden. I am not sure of your beliefs, but I will be praying for you as you take on this next battle. You are a warrior and you will get thru this battle as well!
Everything was going so well for you and Matt and this is such a shock for you. I’m glad they are moving on treatment quickly. We got this!! You got This and we are all pulling for you. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Tiffany my heart is breaking for you😢 You are so young and you are constantly facing this awful battle. Cry as much as you need to, never be afraid to cry. You have every right to feel the way you do. Don't ever feel the need to apologise. You are a beauful girl inside and out and everyone is routing for you. Thank you for taking us with you on this awful journey and remember we are with you through the good times and the bad. Nobody deserves this awful disease 😢❤xx
I’ve watched your channel since before your cancer diagnosis one of the first videos I saw was you giving the news about the break up with your ex before Matt. I’ve seen every one of your videos and feel like I know you so well and I empathize with you and Matt and Emma so much, my heart hurts for you Tiffany you are such a genuine kind person who always tries to look on the bright side of things. I appreciate your strength encourage, and positive you’ve been able to remain. I can always see the fear and the doubt going through your mind during your talks of your health, like you’re having an internal struggle to stay positive and while I’m sure it’s been very good for your physical health to stay mentally strong positive. It’s also a double edge sword because sometimes is a root of all heartache. It’s so hard when we want to be positive and we know, that’s the only way we’re supposed to get through the hard things also a swift kick in the gut when our positive attitude and blocking out the what if stand with this beast of cancer I’m so sorry I’m rambling at the moment but all of this to say this video I’m watched today. This one right here is the realist, rust and most authentic that I think I’ve ever seen from you and I want to thank you for allowing your audience to see that from you although it’s always so refreshing to see your smile and your positive attitude and your zest for life during the struggle it felt like a weight or a sigh of relief to see you feel and let yourself be scared and vulnerable. Sometimes I imagine it’s just as hard to talk ourselves out of the what’s and the negative thinking as it is to just let it all out and feel it life isn’t fair. It’s just not what you’re going through isn’t fair or right and don’t we wish there was someone to answer for that dear Tiffany, Emma, your strength, your vulnerability, your courage, and even more so right now I admire your weakness and the giving of yourself to share that with us, darling we’ve got this
With stage 4 cancer there needs to be frequent scans and tests, it can be managed for a period of time but may need small proceedures or episodes of chemo as issues arise.
Exactly this. The women I know who are living many years with stage 4 require constant active or maintenance therapy of some kind. Without treatment the cancer will undoubtedly come back. With careful monitoring and appropriate treatments people can live a long time.
Tiffany you are AWESOME. Crying releases all the stress and tension so cry all you want. Don’t try and be strong for everyone around you, this is a time for you to received all the love and support of family friends and your online family. Let them hold you and support you with their/our love. You don’t need to be strong and hide your feelings. Let it out and lean on all of us. You’ve definitely got this and you can do it my darling. ❤️❤️❤️
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My dad was told he had 3 months to live and they could not remove the cancer all over his abdomen (stage 4). They also told him doing chemo is a waste of time. He lay around waiting to die but then realized how young we were and he decided to fight. He started chemo and everytime he thought he fought it, they realized their was another tumor and then he had leukemia and it kept showing up in different parts of his body, but never his lungs or brain. Finally one day the doc declared him cancer free, he lived the rest of his life cancer free and only 25 years after the doc told him he had 3 months to live, did he pass away from heart failure still cancer free. Your faith and positively is your first step to your healing, the love and support is your second and the doctors and treatment is the third. You can do this, you covered in prayer from all over the world❤❤❤❤.
Thank U for sharing this ❤.
Thanks for sharing this wonderful story. I hope Tiffany and others battling cancer sew it and are encouraged.
What an inspirational story x ❤
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Hello from the USA. My husband has stage 4 cancer. After a PET scan, it was revealed he had a cancerous lymph node in the same clavicle area as yours. After a cycle of 6 rounds of chemo (12 weeks), his new PET scan came back NED. There is no evidence of disease. I am sharing this with you to encourage you. We are praying for you.
Tiffany, I’m a mom and my heart hurts for you sweet girl. You can and will do it again. I’m just so sorry you have to.
Thinking of you and all who love you.
We will all be beside you along the way. ❤️
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This is FANTASTIC!!!!
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TIFFANY, CANCER IS SAID TO BE FROM PARASITES. PEOPLE HAVE HAD SUCCESS WITH ANTIPARASITIC TREATMENT. DO SOME RESEARCH PLEASE.
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@@Lu12340not true
Dear Tiffany as a health care professional and long time follower of your situation ( plus being a stage 4 cancer cohort) please remember that stage 4 cancers are a chronic disease. No matter which organ the cancers originally started in they have spread by direct extension or by the lymphatic system or blood. Any new seedlings from this original colon tumor ( your type of tumor) are colon/rectal tumors in a new place in your body. Your physicians will choose a chemo/immunotherapy agent to specifically target your colo/rectal cancer type. We are in a new era of cancer treatment and sounds like your team is spot on to get your best treatment going. Please help it along by choosing best diet to knock cancer cells and boost the chemotherapy success. I and all stage 4 club are routing for you girl. Live your life every day! Love you!
Out of curiosity... are most secondary cancer diagnoses actually just the first cancer having spread a while later? Is that what is checked during biopsies or can they tell where the cancer has come from, from the scans?
@@sharonscott7913 thanks for sharing Sharon.
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secondary cancers are metastasis
From primary tumor and have same histology as that primary tumor. Tumor markers are part of the laboratory studies that are done and indicate thst secondary tumors are on the rise.
Tiffany's previous lung nodule which was removed was an extension of her colon/ rectal primary tumor.
t@@GizmoGremlinDogthey can tell from biopsy if it has spread from the original cancer or if it is a new cancer.
Tiffany, I say this as the mother of two grown daughters, mothers do not want to be "spared" whatever their child (regardless of age) is going through, no matter how difficult or scary. Please keep her informed; being uninformed is far scarier to a mother. Sending continued love and prayers. 🙏🙏💙💙
My mom told me the same thing when I didn’t want to tell her about my cancer. She always wanted to know.
I just can agree 1000%!!!!! As a mother too! There has to be talked about the facts but also the fears. It's just a suggestion- but the worst people can do in siruation like this is hide behind a facade. And it's absolute right to be posituv, but this has to come from the subconscioussness. Otherwise its just keep yourself busy and try not the think about. A lot of people get the point of "be positiv" completely wrong
Totally agree!!! Much scarier NOT knowing the truth.
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They have just had many happy things in the family...engagement & weddings. Tiffany is in shock right now, understandably. I am a mom as well and I would want to know but I understand Tiffany not telling her mother until she gets the results from the PET scan. She doesn't want her mom to go through all the emotions worrying about the unknown. I am sure Tiffany will tell her as soon as she gets the results. I think she is letting her mom be happy for as long as possible due to all the good events they have had recently. I am still hoping this isn't cancer. If it is Tiffany will have her mom, sister, Matt and us to help her.
Tiffany, stage 4 lung cancer patient here, kept alive for almost 10 yrs by immunotherapy. I am waiting on CT results now. You are in my thoughts ❤
I truly hope the results are one of those "oh what a relief" ones ❤
My sincere hugs and thoughts to you ❤
You are in my thoughts. You got this.
You are in my thoughts ❤
do u have pain in ribs?
Tiffany, dear, please talk to your support team about seeing a counsellor at the hospital. Im sure the oncology unit will have one available. Many suggested it back when you were approaching surgery. As you said, this is your life now so counselling is like maintenance for your mental health. Living scan to scan can be very debilitating and keep you on a never ending roller coaster. If the chemo isn’t too harsh, working a few hours here and there keeps you involved with people and is a chance to be distracted and occupied in another head space. Speaking all this from my own experience, staying busy and doing my “normal” is what saved me and kept me sane. You are stronger than you think and braver than you believe 💙💙💙💙
I can only say the same. In Germany we do have psychologists for cancer that are part of treatment and do help patients mentally. They are here for you . Please do get mental help
There is NOTHING wrong with crying with us. I prefer you having raw emotion to trying to ramble your way out of feeling or showing emotion. You’re going to do this and we will be here. The fact that they are acting fast is a blessing. Let’s ride this wave girl…
Tiffany, God hears all our ongoing prayers for you. I’m so Happy you have this strong support from your loving Tiffany Family.❤
I cried at these videos. I didn't cry at my breast cancer x 2 but I am 74. It is so unfair for you. I want to yell. I am sad and mad. That is me. So very hard for all of you. Much love as you find your way through this once again.❤
Why would you suggest putting off chemotherapy until the new year?
Perfect words for Sweet Tiffany 💙🩵thank you !!!
Yes tiff will be ur rock and cry with us we don’t want to worry ur mom be strong for her . We Love u u got this 💙
Tiffany please don’t apologise, your health and emotional wellbeing is the most important thing. I
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It’s very sad to hear that Tiffany is worried about people demanding things from her, she is a young woman that is going through the nightmare journey of cancer, it’s so important for Tiffany to focus on her health, physically, mentally and emotionally, she has an amazing family and friend network and she just needs to put herself first! Please do not pander to selfish people putting unkind and unrealistic demands on her time and energy.
Wishing Tiffany all the best, take care of yourself 1st 2nd & 3rd 💕
As someone who started life from birth w a brain tumor to now being 61 with a different cancer ( I’ve battled on and off my whole life) I think this is a blessing. It’s early Tiffany and you’re young and strong. Just focus on today as tomorrow isn’t guaranteed for anyone. Yesterday is gone so leave it there. You will get through this. It’s ok to grieve to cry and get it out of your system. But focus on living your best life today. We love you from across the world in New Mexico. ❤ we’ve got this!! 💪🏼 🥊
Honey...all u can do is one day at a time. I am 75 and need to say that we all have a journey to fulfill. PLEASE don't give in to fear! That rabbit hole has no bottom. Love you and praying for you.
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I love what you said about the fear and the rabbit hole. So true that it is.
Great advice.
Absolutely ONE DAY AT A TIME. Don't look ahead at the what if's.
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That is great advice, take one day at a time, just go and get things done. I nearly died a year ago and now each time I wake up I know that I have another day to enjoy, never think of the future always love for the day. ❤. Xxx
Dear lady, eventhough your comment was meant to Tiffany, It made me feel so calm and peaceful, I think next time I feel scared again, I will think about what you said about fear❤
Your viewers have no rights to demand happy videos on an unrealistic schedule. This is your channel, journey, life etc. We are here for you, so sad this happening to you. Anybody would be shocked, upset, angry etc you don't need to pretend anything different . Just be yourself. Big hugs Tiffany. You've got this xx
I agree we just love u for u and u will get throhgh this x
Exactly 💯
Let’s all pray for Tiffany and this beautiful family . We got this! 🙏🏼🩷
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Prayers for you and your sweet family❤
@@lisasaracino9469 indeed
Please please, get married, don't put it off because you've got this news please . Love and hugs for you and Matt xxxx
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I agree. You need to do this. It will make a big difference.
I agree. Definitely plan your wedding. Get married and enjoy every single day❤
Not only that but she is committing fornication under the laws of God. Get married.
Love to see the wedding plan video ❤❤❤❤
I have stage 4 breast cancer. The last almost 3 years now has been full of ups and downs. We have been through worse and we will get through this. ❤
I’m stage 3b
Prayers and love to all of you.
Sending all the best to you.❤
Sending all the best to you ❤
I wish you the best. I was diagnosed with breast cancer 2 years ago.
You WILL be one of those people to tell others, 10 years from now everything is going to ok… you will get your life back❤❤❤
you need to remember Mat loves you no matter what.. healthy or sick. dont feel like you are putting him through this. he chooses YOU no matter what. You have got this. try try try to stay positive. we are all rooting for you 💙💙💙
I've been a silent viewer for a long time and seen your journey. I have NEVER seen someone so stoical and strong you are an inspiration and I'm so so sorry you're going through all of this it's so unfair. We are with you & see you. You got this xx
Yes Tiffany we are with you 💙
We got this. God has this ❤.
@@ginger94 I wonder when we going to hear from her again
You’ve got this
Tiffany don’t you know how strong you are! You’re a fighter and you will fight this again xx
No matter how many subscribers you have, no one has the right to demand test results or anything from you. You have every right as a human being to feel and express what you are going through good or bad, on camera and not. You got this Tiffany.
I hope that you read my comment as I am going through the same journey. Same cancer, chemo radiation/ chemo / same surgery two months before you had yours, I also have a stoma and then I had metastasis in my lungs; did two surgeries (one left side one right side) after that they found more nodules in my lungs so I did another chemo drug combination. I was told I would lose my hair, which I didn’t. Unfortunately I didn’t respond to this chemo so they decided to do radiation and treat the nodules locally. I had another scan last week and they found two more nodules that are suspicious again. So you are not alone and how you feel is totally normal. I know it’s easier said than done, but just keep fighting and enjoy every moment of your life. I do hope that this chemo works for you, so you don’t have to go through what I am going. Stay strong.
The Tiffany Thinks Family is enveloping you in positivity, love and hugs. You got this too… small blessings everyday 🩵
Praying for you as well! Sending you light and love
Praying for you also and for Tiff and Matt
Do u have any pain in chest area?
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As a cancer survivor & retired hospice nurse I can tell you everyone copes differently on the journey,you by your own admission can go into denial which is a great coping mechanism but the trouble is when something forces you to come out of that way of thinking you have to crash down to the reality of the situation. That is why you are feeling so shocked.I know that it’s scary when you are bombarded by the reality of everything suddenly falling into place but you never know that could just be an enlarged lymph node with NED no evidence of disease 🤞❤️
Please cry or whatever you need to do. We do not mind. We are here for you. Hugs and healing energy.
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Tiffany never apologies for talking to us about your concerns and treatment …. We are all here for you girl …. YOU GOT THIS
I can only imagine how overwhelming this is, but you are strong and you will get through it. Sending all my love. 💙💙💙
The opportunity for chemo means there is hope! You got this Tiffany!💙
Never felt so genuinely sad and cried along with someone I’ve never met before 😢 I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Will be praying for you 🤲🏼
Tiffany your Mama would want to know about everything. AS A MAMA I KNOW SHE WOULD! Please tell her-a Mother’s prayer is crucial. Share with her so she can pray to God about everything 💙 for her daughter 🙏🏾
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Your hopes have been dashed, Tiffany, you are allowed to be in shock and emotional, you are in my prayers 🙏 x
My heart goes out to you Tiffany, I. Keeping you in my prayers xxx
Cancer (or any life threatening illness) is so cruel and mentally draining. You are so very brave and bless you, we are all rooting for you, Matt and your loved ones. Bless you all. X
Your You Tube family are here with you Tiff.... WE'VE GOT THIS 💙💙💙💙💙
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We got this!!!!!
As a two time cancer survivor and two more lesions in two more different organs now I have to say this. Let the emotions you are feeling now have their time. Then, dont let yourself get too caught up because you need to keep living everyday as best as you can. So many people stop living and stay overwhelmed and miss out on their daily life. They forget to smile, smell the roses, enjoy a compliment. Either way the outcome will be the outcome. I now have to go through 3 month and 6 month scans but I feel this is my journey and its up to me live my life to the fullest as i see fit. You have every right to be shocked, scared, and MAD! Do not apologize for being human. You will find the strength to manage your journey just like you did before. You are soooo much stonger than you know and you have more strength in you to fight the fight. We got this too !!
Lisa, what a wonderful comment you wrote. It was filled with inspiration and great advise. Tiffany is very strong as you must also be and every word you wrote I know will help her. As you are in a somewhat similar situation you know exactly what she is going through and how to help her. Thank you. Sending you light, love and prayers for your journey. God bless you. Much love, Susan from 🇨🇭
Sending best wishes to you ❤
Hi Lisa. Very kind and wise words for Tiffany. ❤
Tiffany!!!!!!!!! Breathe!!!!!!!! You got this girl!!!! You are definately in shock. Let yourself do this one step at a time. Absorb the shock!!! Let that settle for a few days. Then tackle the next step. One small step at a time. You're still engaged to the man of your dreams. No one could love you more. You still have the most
incredible Mother. Youre still sister and Auntie to the most amazing family. You have tremendous extended family and friends. And you still have us. Your Tiffany thinks family. We will all support you every step of the way on this journey. Sending Love and Prayers from Long Island, NY. You are strong, we've all watched you, thats how I know you can do this again!!! ❤
I love this response.
Breaks my heart to see you so brokenhearted sweet Tiffany, sending so much love and prayers, I really believe you will come out of this, keep fighting beautiful 🙏🏻
This is one of your best videos. You showed your true feelings. Now it's time to fight. You can do this. Love and prayers 💙
You need to get married!! Don’t let sickness get in your way! Remember,” in sickness or in health! Your fiancé loves you!❤❤
Don’t ever apologize for talking and venting. We are here for you and your talking helps people.
Tiffany... you are entitled to "wail and gnash your teeth" at your latest results. Being sad and shocked is NOT being weak!! Getting up and carrying on - even while crying - shows your strength and courage. I am sure that most of us did not join your online family expecting to see episodes of the Cardashians!! You keep it real and we are honoured to be allowed into your life. We don't give a hoot that your videos aren't scripted... We are all rooting for your and sending you our prayers, love and the tightest hugs possible.
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Containers for different rice 37:21 , flour !!!
Oh and remember I think you said you are going to get different chemo which will irradicate those nodes, we got this Tiff !!!
Wait, what? What does ironing my sheets mean????? Crazy concept !!!
You talk to us anytime 😊 💙
YT videos aren’t scripted, they aren’t meant to be. They are edited though, Cut and spliced and rejoined and cut again until they look right. Live streams aren’t though, it would be great if Tiffany and Matt would do a live stream to chat with everyone and allow a few questions (even if we have to submit them ahead of time)
Tiffany. Please speak to a nurse specialist as soon as possible, to get some professional support. I hate seeing you so distressed. Take each day at a time, try not to look too far ahead. None of us know what the future holds, life can change for any of us at any time. You got this sweetheart, you honestly have!! You don’t always need to be brave, you can fall apart, but don’t stay there too long. Also, please talk to your mum, I am a mum and I would want to know everything. ❤️
💙💙💙💙💙what an emotionally draining and exhausting disease.. anyone out there in a situation like Tiffany’s I have much empathy for all you have to go through… As you said Tiffany, it’s a roller coaster .. and I pray yr able to get off the ride… cancer sux.. I wish I was in yr car to give you a massive hug! Cry all you need to! You can do this Tiffany! You can do this! Always here for you Tiffany 💙💙💙💙💙WE GOT THIS🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🍀
This is confusing. At first you said you will have a petscan then start immedo
You were indicating you were going to have the petscan then immediate Chemo and what kind.
But now it seems you are saying
So it’s not certain you will need chemo regardless of the scan?
IF the pet scan shows the tumor you will immediately start chemo?
And if the results of the petscan determine it is not cancerous you do nothing
The oncologists know the best way to deal with it.
Enough not to need to do a biopsy, I'd imagine.
sweetheart, you have an army of us behind you supporting you. Sending you all the love in the world
You’re handling your cancer journey much more gracefully than I could ever imagine. I went through chemo and eight surgeries and I feel your sadness. Prayers 🙏🏼💙🙏🏼
You’ve been through soo much,so sorry,stay strong.Sending love.
We’re here for you whenever you need to lean on us. 🦋
Hello dear Tiffany. Sending you a big hug. You have a right to be scared and emotional. You are so strong and have a great support system! ❤ I’m a cancer survivor and lost my hair. It grows back 🙂 Now my husband has stage 4 cancer. 😔 It’s a bit of a rollercoaster, but I will say that the doctors are watching him like a hawk and they catch things early, treat, and then we move on. We got this. We’re all rooting for you from afar! 🩷
Matt is with you no matter what, his strength combined with your own will get through this latest scare. You do not need anyone’s permission around your vlogs, it is your timeline, no-one else’s. One day at a time, you will get through this.
Exactly, Tiffany owes her subscribers nothing. We appreciate what she does share, when and how often.
Oh Honey…I am a cancer survivor. There will be more good and blessed times to come. You are so loved!♥️
Tiff, I have been praying fervently for you. I know you are going to be ok! You will get through this! You’re so much stronger than you know. Prayer warriors, rise up, we need to fight for tiff in prayer. Tiff say psalm 91 for protection over you. If you see this please remember god has got you! You, Matt, amma and the fam will be ok! Lots of love and hugs 💙
Do NOT Ever feel bad about how you feel, Never apologize. I have had Cancer twice and there is nothing scarier. You have the right to be sad and scared. Just make sure you keep the Faith too!! 😇
Sending best wishes ❤
I am also dealing with cancer. If there is anything I dislike is hearing everyone else telling me how to handle this disease. You have to trust the Doctors. Praying for you. ❤
Praying for a full recovery for you🥰🥰🙏🏼🙏🏼🥰🥰
Many blessings 🙏💞 sweetheart!!! My brother got cancer from 911. He's cancer free with a beautiful family. ❤
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Whomever the friend is you called to talk with is a FABULOUS FRIEND! She is such a blessing for you Tiffany!
Whether you are laughing or tearful, angry or confused, whatever on whatever day you are one very strong lady Tiffany. May God bring healing, peace and support for you all. We are praying you through each moment 💙🙏⚓️✨
As a carer for my husband for 4 years now with stage 4 cancer, please know it helps us to be there to support and care for you
Sending prayers ❤
@@christettec3045 thank you
Tiffany, there is no words I can really say. But you have fought, you have come this far, you can do it again, your strength is incredible. You are a fighter, great days are coming again for you I just know it. Sending strength, prayers and love 💙
You've gott. This. I understand. Take as much time. That you need. I will. Always be. Here.
My mom had 27 lymph nodes including under the collar bone that were cancer. She was 86 and kept it at bay so I know you can. The one under her clavicle never really gave her any problems. Praying for you.
Your mum sounds like an amazing woman. They made them tough back then. My mum has just turned 90. She was diagnosed with colon cancer at 85. She had surgery, and all appeared well for almost five years, when it was diagnosed again earlier this year. She is much frailer now, so they are not going to do surgery. I hope our mums keeps fighting the good fight❤❤
My sweet Tiffany. My heart is hurting for you. Surround yourself with even more love and support than ever before. You are so so loved.
My mom had a saying that I live by “All You Can Do; Is All You Can Do.” When I was diagnosed with breast cancer that’s what I told myself every day. I’m praying for you! We Got This!
If any one deserves to beat this it is you, I think your one hell of a person, and you and your family are lovely
Never hide your tears Tiffany : it's perfectly normal to be emotional and you're allowed to show that. This is part of the journey and it's incredibly important that people know how cancer impacts lives in all kinds of ways. You're not weak for crying and for showing vulnerability to the world : you're just being real and true.
Baby girl I am so sorry. I will shower you in prayers every day. You can do this I promise. We all love you so much.
Rough waters my dear friend. You are the very best Captain for this ship. ❤️
Love and positive energy coming to you from the U.S.
Tiff I know its overwhelming but you are in such good care. I am a doctor in the US and things NEVER move this fast. It takes WEEKS to get a pet scan! And they don't catch things as early as we only get maintenance scans ever 6-12 months. You have excellent care and you've got this!
Thank you, doctor, for the professional communication .
Maybe it’s a bad time to say that DR…but in Us i never have to wait for nothing as far as MRI or Pet scan or any tests! Check Canada !
If I can ask you, where in the US are you a doctor? You said “in the US things NEVER move this fast” Of course they do! I’ve had cancer & I know first hand scans & tests can move very quickly. I believe it depends on where in the country you are living. Also a patient with stage 4 cancer that is progressing, especially a young patient, will take precedence. Not exactly sure what you are talking about.
@@JessicaRaisman NYS. I've had pt wait weeks for pet scans at our hospital. Or being denied pet scans as inpatients. We don't follow up every 3 months on anyone.
@@lorra4789 I am glad you have never had to wait. I do think it matters where you go. The hospital system I work for is not a well known cancer institute so that probably is a huge factor. Tiff is in good hands though with her care.
you are doing so well, handling this difficult situation, talk it out and cry it out whenever you need to, know you have so many people praying for you, but also believing in you, you've been through this before, you know what to expect. your've got this💙🙏
Bless you sweet Tiffany, as a fellow cancer survivor , I’ll say we got this, you will be ok and you havnt put Matt in this situation, he was out in your life for a reason he is your Angel in disguise and he is meant to be there .
I agree with this. I have my own angel. It’s easy to feel guilty (a year after we met I got the same not very common cancer that their first spouse died of), but it serves no purpose for either of you. It is your path together and love conquers all.
Tiffany, I'm 73 and have blood cancer, so I've been doing lots of research. You may already know this, but I have to share it anyway. I've seen in so many places that cancer feeds on SUGAR in all forms. So I'm trying to eliminate it totally from my diet, which has been hard because I love sweets. Anyway, something to consider. You are such a special person, and I know you've got this!
@@sallybp2484 have you got any advice for the sugar cravings and eliminating sugar from our diets. We have a long history of cancer in our families so I am trying to eliminate it too.
Good luck with your journey Sally xx
There's no scientific evidence for this so don't worry about it. Don't change your life based on theories developed by people who don't understand physiology.
@@ew7512 There is most definitely scientific papers supporting this. What journals have you been using?
Sadly it's glucose that cancer feeds on, and carbohydrates get converted to glucose in our bodies, so eliminating sugar would not help anyway. You'd have to have a keto diet, which is not necessarily healthy, and there's also no definitive proof that this would help
There is absolutely no scientific evidence to support this. Our food converts to sugar for energy. Cancer in our bodies is NOT cancer that is in a petri dish. Please do not disseminate claims that are purely predicated on misinformation. Things like this hurt cancer patients, and pushes them into harmful and injurious diets. Eat anything and whatever you can get your hands on!
Tiffany-this isn’t the end. The people who live many years with stage four still occasionally require chemo and radiation and surgeries and numerous other therapies. I’m a breast cancer survivor and know several women who are stage 4. Most are doing well but they all require treatment of some kind. One of them recently had a liver resection which took care of her liver mets. She’s doing ok and is almost back to NED. So yes, it’s possible to live a long time at stage 4, but you’re going to need treatment. It doesn’t seem like you have extensive mets, and you’re asymptomatic. You’re ok.
Praying for you Tiffany, God's got this 🙏🙏💙💙
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Absolutely right!🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼❤️
Oh Tiffany. This just broke my heart. I just wanted to jump into the screen and give you the biggest hug. You’ve NOTHING to apologise for, you upload when you want. No pressure from anyone darling. You CAN do this again and you WILL. You really will. This is the initial shock. You’ve amazing people behind you and by your side. Remember what you always say, WE GOT THIS, YOU GOT THIS. Please take your time and post as and when you want to. You are in my prayers every day darling. God bless x
Ýes i was feeling the same 😢 just wanted to give her the biggest cuddle and let her now we are all here for our darling Tiffany ❤ i just love that she has got a wonderful loving fiance and her lovely Amma all her family and friends who adore her ❤ we got this our tiffanythinks family 💙 🫂💙🫂💙 xxxx
Me too… I wanted to hug her and hold her.. my heart breaks for her. She is the most humble person and she doesn’t deserve this 😑
Me too…. My heart just shattered for Tiffany. It really is unfair. It was good to see Tiffany crying and venting though and getting her true feelings and thoughts out. My heart is with you, Tiffany💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙 WE GOT THIS💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
It makes me so mad that some people demand videos from her. Even after her extremely major and life changing surgery, they were demanding videos. Let her post whenever she wishes or doesn’t wish to post. Please ❤
I deal with it as the exact same way. I will make myself busy I will clean, fold clothes, re-organise closets, bake, garden, paint, or many other busy activities that keep my mind going until I tire myself out breakdown and cry. Or I do it in the opposite order. It depends on the situation the day what's going on and how much stress there is. We all have our ways of coping. You're strong. You have a wonderful large circle of loving supportive family & friends.
You're both probably feeling bad that this has rudely interrupted the high you have both been on since your engagement but, remember you love each other completely and totally these results won't change that and you've been through this before and you'll get through it again.
I understand what you are going through. I have multiple myeloma (cancer of bone and kidney) along with diffuse systemic scleroderma (autoimmune) either have no cure. I have recently been dealing w/ strokes. I just got discharged from ICU after 3 days to home!!! I am still me. But, I like you, just live in the moment as nothing is guaranteed for the future. Universal love coming to you. Tears are okay, Tiffany, don't hold it in, you have every right. I hope that things turn around for you and quickly.. Hang in there!!!!! Matt will be by your side to help support you during this time.
My mum has the same condition as you, she’s 85 with heart failure. She’s doing really well although she gets cold easily. She was diagnosed 6 years ago. I hope you’re ok
Hugs to you too! May all be well with you!
Sending you best wishes ❤
I am so sorry that you are going through this. It hurts me to know this world is beautiful but also full of suffering. I have a love/hate for it. You have nothing to apologize for. Nothing at all. I feel honored that you look to us for some solace and venting. Feeling scared has nothing to do with being weak. You are fighting even when scared. That shows such strength and love. You are an inspiration. Even when it's hard for you, even when it is exhausting, you are still a fighter. Love to you all!!🩵🩵🩵
Lovely words ❤
Tiffany you can do it. You're just shocked right now. Once you vent, cry, tell your family im hoping you feel better. Remember what Matt said - The hardest news is hearing you have Cancer. Remember the reason for scans is be on top of it and treat it. You have a wonderful support team, you have faith in God. You got this 💙💙💙
Its ok to cry in front of the Tiffany thinks family...cause we are part of your family 🙏🏻 sending you lots lots of hug and pooooositive energy!!! We love you Tiff!!! We 've got this...Youuuu ve Got This 💙💙💙💙🫂🫂🫂💪🏻
I feel for you for sure. I am so sorry you are going through this. A few things stood out to me in this video. When my best friend had cancer, they told her a few things and she researched and found it true but one is emotions, let them out don't be strong and hide them or swallow them or block them out or keeping busy rather than speaking to a counsellor and letting it out is hanging on to it and swallowing it all. Our non-processed emotions hurt us, go into our bodies and cause further damage. journal, cry, talk talk talk, do what you need to get a much of your emotions out rather than playing strong. also, the people who have stage 4 and live a long long time, they change their lifestyle. you can't do the same things over and over and over again and expect different results. For instance the high carb and sugary things, they grow and feed cancer so please look into keto and alternative lifestyle so you can help yourself. juicing fruits is concentrated sugar to the body so you are speeding up feeding cancer. Juice greens, veg instead with a masticating juicer. I will continue to pray. sending you lots of love and hugs. I can't imagine your pain through all this horrible journey. my best friend went through it so I saw a snapshot so I have some small idea. xo
Don't feel like you have to keep it all in Tiff we've been here for you through it all.
My sweet Tiffany, I have no words. I’m in shock along w you. One thing I know is how strong you are after all you’ve endured thus far. You CAN do it again bc you have so much to look forward to! A full beautiful life with You your darling, Matt. Not to mention Amma, Aston, Ella and your lovely sister. Just to name a few. So many people that love you Tiffany. Cry, scream, stamp your feet, whatever you want, just keep fighting bc I know you will win. God grace is by your side. All my love to you❤️
Dear Tiffany, I am wrapping you in prayers. 💙
They told my father in law he would need two stomas and outlook was awful and he’s still with us thriving 😅you got this tiff ❤❤❤ we are all with you
You can cry on our shoulder anytime Tiffany💙
Hi Tiffany. My name is Stacey and I am from USA. I have been Stage 4 cancer for 10 years (originally diagnosed Stage 2b in 2006, remission for about 8 years, then my cancer came back in my bones Stage 4). I understand most things you talk about only too well. My health is a roller coaster. Scans are stable, tumor markers rising right now. It is difficult to tell those we love, less than good news. Take care and best wishes.
Tiffany, I'm sending positive thoughts and prayers, you're allowed to be emotional, you're allowed to want some normality, I understand that there's times you want it to not be the first thing people think about you, answering questions, listening to people talk about it, when you just want to be distracted. Tiffany this is *your* channel, people having opinions is going to happen, people being disrespectful and/vile is not acceptable. Run things your way. I think sometimes people forget you're a real person, and it's your real life. Sending you love 💖😘
Sweetie I’m so sorry. I have colon cancer but been NED for a year , I still live with the fear and I’m actually crying right now for you because you are so giving and you don’t deserve this. Keep the faith , do the Chemo and ask about removing it. It could always be just an inflamed lymph node . You got this!
Sending best wishes ❤
You dont have to stay positive all the time, Tiffany. I suggest some counselling. It could really help you cope with the ups and downs xx
Bless your heart! My heart aches for you! I have just recently finished chemo for a cancer that has come back 3 times so I totally understand how you feel. It is so hard to stay strong and positive when the unknown is lurking and could be serious. You are such a kind, sweet and thoughtful young lady who deserves to spend the rest of your life happily married to your darling. I pray for you to experience that. God Bless, Francy from South Carolina
Sorry to hear of your cancer fight. Sending prayers, love and strength from the UK ❤
@@oilfreeara277 Thank you so very much! I appreciate your prayers more than I can say. May God Bless you always!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Have a good cry get all those emotions out then wipe those tears and you start again because you have been through this before and come out the other side. Life is not fair but people do live with stage four cancer a friend of mine lived for 25 years after being diagnosed. There are advancements all the time and clinical trials of new treatments. Stay positive and just take a day at a time.
Best thing to do to keep yourself busy and the fact that you have kind of went through this before. Start meal prepping, making sheet dinners, crock pot dinners and anything that freezes nicely that you can just pop in the oven or microwave. Don’t forget start prepping for your juices but this time add in peanut butter for protein to help with your weight. Also, make sure to buy chemo items. We are coming up to winter so buy more journals, get some Christmas shopping done, plan things to keep your mind busy whether it be books, games on your phone, whatever you can possibly do to keep yourself busy and get a head of things. I find it easier to make frozen dinners and get a chemo bag packed with things I can do. Learn to crochet that’s what I did.
This is very helpful advice.
Tiffany, it's your journey and your life, it is a privilege and a gift that you share it with us. Continued prayers for you and Matt and all of your family. God is always with you dear.
While I have never watched any of your videos, you popped up on my feed today. Let me start by saying your beautiful soul truly shines thru ❤. Also, consider that you may be grieving. Grieving that you’re being pulled back into a battle you thought you had moved beyond. Remember your loved ones want to be there for you and will never see you as a burden. I am not sure of your beliefs, but I will be praying for you as you take on this next battle. You are a warrior and you will get thru this battle as well!
Everything was going so well for you and Matt and this is such a shock for you. I’m glad they are moving on treatment quickly. We got this!! You got This and we are all pulling for you. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Tiffany my heart is breaking for you😢 You are so young and you are constantly facing this awful battle. Cry as much as you need to, never be afraid to cry. You have every right to feel the way you do. Don't ever feel the need to apologise. You are a beauful girl inside and out and everyone is routing for you. Thank you for taking us with you on this awful journey and remember we are with you through the good times and the bad. Nobody deserves this awful disease 😢❤xx
I can imagine after all you have been through it was a shock. Thinking of you and have you in my prayers 🙏🏻❤️
Oh Tiffany
My heart goes out to you
It isn’t fair
Sending you loving hugs xx
You have MANY people praying for you. Don’t ever forget that. Please stay strong 🫶
Tiffany im there for you. Im sending the biggest hugs 🫂
I’ve watched your channel since before your cancer diagnosis one of the first videos I saw was you giving the news about the break up with your ex before Matt. I’ve seen every one of your videos and feel like I know you so well and I empathize with you and Matt and Emma so much, my heart hurts for you Tiffany you are such a genuine kind person who always tries to look on the bright side of things. I appreciate your strength encourage, and positive you’ve been able to remain. I can always see the fear and the doubt going through your mind during your talks of your health, like you’re having an internal struggle to stay positive and while I’m sure it’s been very good for your physical health to stay mentally strong positive. It’s also a double edge sword because sometimes is a root of all heartache. It’s so hard when we want to be positive and we know, that’s the only way we’re supposed to get through the hard things also a swift kick in the gut when our positive attitude and blocking out the what if stand with this beast of cancer I’m so sorry I’m rambling at the moment but all of this to say this video I’m watched today. This one right here is the realist, rust and most authentic that I think I’ve ever seen from you and I want to thank you for allowing your audience to see that from you although it’s always so refreshing to see your smile and your positive attitude and your zest for life during the struggle it felt like a weight or a sigh of relief to see you feel and let yourself be scared and vulnerable. Sometimes I imagine it’s just as hard to talk ourselves out of the what’s and the negative thinking as it is to just let it all out and feel it life isn’t fair. It’s just not what you’re going through isn’t fair or right and don’t we wish there was someone to answer for that dear Tiffany, Emma, your strength, your vulnerability, your courage, and even more so right now I admire your weakness and the giving of yourself to share that with us, darling we’ve got this
You are a beautiful soul and never apologize for anything. You sharing your results is a privilege and not a right to anyone ! We got this💙💙💙
Never apologise for feeling sad, no one could be eternally positive when faced with this. Sending you all good wishes lovely lady. 💙💙💙💙
With stage 4 cancer there needs to be frequent scans and tests, it can be managed for a period of time but may need small proceedures or episodes of chemo as issues arise.
Exactly this. The women I know who are living many years with stage 4 require constant active or maintenance therapy of some kind. Without treatment the cancer will undoubtedly come back. With careful monitoring and appropriate treatments people can live a long time.
Tiffany you are AWESOME. Crying releases all the stress and tension so cry all you want. Don’t try and be strong for everyone around you, this is a time for you to received all the love and support of family friends and your online family. Let them hold you and support you with their/our love. You don’t need to be strong and hide your feelings. Let it out and lean on all of us. You’ve definitely got this and you can do it my darling. ❤️❤️❤️