This song is genuinely miserable in the most beautiful way possible. Its captures the turmoil of trying put your whole heart into something, knowing damn well your love wont be repaid....but doing it anyways. And that's what makes this song so painful: its painfully self aware. They know what to expect... or what not to. Its a song that helps understand the mindset of those who stay in toxic relationships or adult kids who dont cut off abusive family members. Of those who just want some validation, someone in their corner...
My dog passed away on Nov 17th, 2024 and this was the song that I was playing when we put him down… sucks, I miss him so much. He was a good boy and I made sure to tell him a million times. I miss you Chester, so much!! You were the bestest boy. 💔🐾🌈
I sang this song to my guinea pig as he passed away last night....I used to sing it to him sometimes long before that awful night..... He was 6 years old. I love you Kona, I will always love and remember you, my baby.....
What makes this song even more heartbreaking is the subtext. “Betting” on a hopeless case, a losing battle is wholly different from simply standing by it. You’re sacrificing your means of living for a person or a struggle that never stood a chance, but you still did it, so they wouldn’t be alone when (not if, but when) they fall. It’s the opposite of playing the lottery.
this is the perfect wording of the meaning of this song honestly, i tear up everytime i listen to it because of this. choosing to stay even though you know how it's going to end because it's doomed from the start
@silvia-with-an-i It makes me think of my late cats as they got old/sick. I knew they were hopeless and the end was inevitable but I still held onto hope and kept them comfortable and happy when there was nothing left to do. My Claudia lived to a good old age of 16, but Todd was only 8, he’d been sickly all his life and the vets never figured out what was wrong. I looked into their eyes when they were down, and I was there by their sides. My babies…💔
I know that this song is about relationships but it always help me with dealing with loss or failure from me or from people i like. "I know they're losing and i pay for my place by the ring where i'll be looking in their eyes when theyre down" transmits such a huge feeling of empathy and strentgh. To bet on winning dogs is easy, but not on the losing ones.
I interpret it as trying to help people who you know will never change like that line and the line "will you let me lose on losing dogs I know there losing and I'll pay with my place"
Both of yall have similar interpretation that I have and thankfully I’m not the only one, yeah I mainly saw it as someone who so desperate for love as she says “call me” and “say it to me” the words she says to them she wants reciprocated and when she doesn’t she doesn’t blame them she blames herself for expecting that, with the lines “I pad for my place” but still wanting them to be there for her when she’s down on her luck but the last part of the song she pleads for them to be there for her like she did for them. Thank yall for coming to my ted talk cause I’m literally crying as I type this cause of how powerful this song is.
Ikr??? There's something about the haunting melody, the overall heaviness, and the way the story cleverly unravels as the song goes on. Mitski is such a good storyteller that she can make you feel the pain in a song full force even if you can't relate to it one bit.
@@KimGhidorahThis is actually so true for some reason it really got to me when i first listened to it. I don’t often cry when listening to something for the first time but the last time i did was probably my first listen of 808s and heartbreak many years back.
For some reason at first I interpreted "beting on loosing dogs" as being with someone even at their worst "By the ring where I'll be looking in they're down I'll be there by their side" hits me so much. I wish my mom was by my side when I hoped for her support. She still does all her best to be a good mother for me, but it's like all *I* do is make her worry, angry and dissapointed. However she can't believe it at all every time I tell her that I only feel like a burden for her
You are not alone. Her lack of being able to parent presently is not a reflection of how worthy you are of that love. It is our divine birthright to feel loved and cared for simply for existing. Hang in there. I know how it feels. You are not alone. The only way out is through, friend. THROUGH we shall get! ❤
@@Gurramina Thank you so much!! I moved out than 1,5 year ago and feel a lot better. Now I live with my loving partner who can handle this issue of mine
My ex used to listen to Mitski a lot, she showed me this album, and we listened this together many many times. I never stopped listening to Mitski because of that, despite of all the memories it, she ended up just posting pictures of her new boyfriend with her in her bedroom, and i instantly knew what was going on, i didn't felt the need to break up formally. I sometimes think of her, and then i come here, i always wanted to know if she still loved me, and if what she did was only an attempt to make me feel jealous, but i never did, i just took it as a betrayal and that's about it. The only thing that makes me break a little, is to think that now she is doing the same stuff she did with me, but with someone she used to replace me, even tho she confessed to me that the other guys don't exactly are the same as me...
I always associate this song with 'lost childhood'. People who had to grow up too early, who had to see their loved ones in pain. People who pretended to be fine until the line between being fine and not being fine faded.. Oh this makes me cry like a baby..
Sometimes I listen to this song and it reminds me of my mom. She never listened to this song, but it reminds me of how she was. She died suddenly due to a pulmonary embolism eight months ago. There was nothing anyone could do to save her. I was about to turn eighteen at the time and I was going to plan a great party with my friends, and learn how to cook, and have a plan with college and learning how to do all these grown up things. But now I feel as if I have no motivation for these things, and I want my life to be just over already so I can see my mom again. I miss my mom. I love her. Update: It just turned a year now, and I still miss her and I love her. I don't think I'll ever not miss and love her, and that's ok.
Similar situation for me, lost a mother figure at 17. It hurts less as time goes on, I had to learn to do many things I thought she’d be there to teach me. I wish I’d treasured the time more, however ik she would be proud of how independent I learned to be. She was very independent and kind and I try to do the same. Best thing we can do for them is keep going, and she can live on through us everyday in small things we do. Focus only on the memories that gave you strength and happy ones from her, don’t let what took her away turn those memories into sad ones
I'm so sorry for both of ur losses.. I'm a young girl who's 14 yr old and probably u are all adults but Idc comforting others is the important thing. Im very sorry Rest in peace to both of ur kind and wonderful mothers. My deep condolences.
I’m sorry for your loss… When all hope is gone reach to god (or whatever god you worship) all will be ok and you’ll get through this🫶🏾 remember if you ver need some to vent to I am here. I will listen and help your through this. Remember. Your. Worth.🫶🏾
Lyrics: My baby, my baby You're my baby, say it to me Baby, my baby Tell your baby that I'm your baby I bet on losing dogs I know they're losing and I'll pay for my place By the ring Where I'll be looking in their eyes when they're down I'll be there on their side I'm losing by their side Will you let me, baby, lose On losing dogs I know they're losing and I'll pay for my place By the ring Where I'll be looking in their eyes when they're down I wanna feel it I bet on losing dogs I always want you when I'm finally fine How you'd be over me looking in my eyes when I come Someone to watch me die Someone to watch me die I bet on losing dogs. (Don’t thank me:)
I recently lost my cat, he was the most important thing in this house for me when i was feeling down. He loved me, and i loved him back. Everyday i wake up now, i still am careful when getting out of bed not to disturb him, even if he's gone now. Everyday i still worry if i fed him, only for the memories to come flashing back. This song reminds me of him so much, how i grew up with him, how he was always there when the eventual hardships of growing up hit, and i'll miss him forever for that. Thank you, this is a great song to remind of those happy moments.
I feel this song tells about unrequited love. She wants to be with her lover "tell your baby, that im your baby". And feels like she's losing her crush.
"my baby my baby, your my baby say it to me." Hits hard. Whenever I hear this I imagine my mother singing this to me ,holding me close. She left me when I was 7 and never came back. She started another family and will occasionally call on birthdays. I act like I hate her and most of the time I do but some days I just miss her like h*ll. I just miss that motherly love.
I’m so sorry.I feel this so much. My parents got divorced when I was a baby and every now and then she would visit. And when I was 11 she completely abandoned me, and now has a new family. I haven’t seen her in over 6 years and have only talked to her a handful of times but it’s been well over a year since the last time we’ve talked. I don’t really miss her cause I’ve never been used to having her, but I grieve for the relationship I never got to have
this song always made me feel the same way i feel in every relapse i have. that feeling of trying for nothing and betting on myself to get out of this horrible situation and still not making it. yeah, i am the losing dog and the one who bets on him
hope you're doing good out there, im an addict too lol so i understand how it's so hard. But we got this, celebrate yourself even for a day without it. And remember that your old self doesn't align with what you want or are working on! you got this !!! :)
Growing up in a household with an angry man was hard. I stepped up and was the emotional pillar my mom needed. I was there to wipe her tears and comfort her when she cried about my physically abusive/mentally/emotionally abusive druggie father. I just wanted a normal childhood. I just wanted my fathers love. It hurts when I see all the people with loving fathers knowing I'll never have that. Knowing no one will be able to walk me down the isle, instead im absolutely terrified of men. All because of my father.
Ngl, your comment made me cry, I know exactly what that's like as I still go through that. I know what it's like wishing to have what others have. But I promise you, it's gonna be okay, you'll make it through this. You're gonna be okay
i know everyone has their own interpretatives and perspectives towards this song, but in my opinion the lyrics connects too me because i feel like it's about attaching yourself too false hope, temporary distant faded people, connections etc since at the end of the day the idea of letting go and losing all of it is just too much so you stay until you cant anymore, this song is so beauitfully written it gives off the concept of having attachment issues too me. "i bet on losing dogs" " i always want you when im finally fine" i love this song with my whole heart.
@@shiwangee my concept of that line is craving and needing someone or something you grew attached too but yk at the end of the day it's not healthy for you at all but you still long for whatever it may be because sometimes the idea of just letting go of everything is all too much, i feel like everything is too much i feel this line deeply, because so much people i lost in the past for whatever reason they js got distant or i cut contact for the best, up to today i still miss and think abt everything especially whenever a tiny little inconvience occur everything comes flowing back whenever im sad (sorry i said sm i just love talking abt deep shit like this but ofc everyone has their own povs this is js mines)
truth is, i don't really know how to let grief pass. how to accept it all. i do wish i was just strong, im wondering if im really ready to be in a healthy relationship. you deserve so much more, queen. so much more. i don't always want to depend on you whenever things get heavy for me. im losing myself too. i dont know what to do.
Same - as soon as I feel fine I rememember this song and feel bad again. Grief is a process - some days I feel fine and some days it feels fresh. 9 months later and I’m crying here and there, including rn. I was the losing dog and I still miss this person as soon as I start to feel fine. You are allowed to feel the grief as it comes - take a breath and let it go after a few minutes of feeling it. You are strong and over time we just come to terms with it, doesn’t mean we’ll ever be 100% okay with it ❤️🩹
To know that there’s someone out there who will stay through the rough with you, letting you know that it’s okay to lose, that they are not going anywhere. They are happy that atleast you tried. I think I am that person for myself. It’s feels like a self-love song.
'Unironically'. Who's assuming you're being ironical? Or it's just a fancy way to sound cool that zoomers use nowadays? You can also say 'seriously '. Like in a sentence 'Seriously, this comment section is full of pretentious, easily impressed teenage girls'.
goodbye my 2O22-2O24 baby, thankyou for everything, thankyou for covering my ears because you know I am afraid of fireworks, thankyou for lifting me up when the ground is wet, thankyou for bringing me to different places whenever I'm sad, thankyou for working hard just so I could but whatever I want, thankyou for trying to be the best for me, removing all your addictions for me, thankyou for cooking me breakfast because you know how much I hated waking up early in the morning, thankyou for everything, may you find the love that you deserve, may you find the love that you had begged me to give you, I'm sorry my baby
This song hits diffrent when you have a very dysfunctional family growing up... I never been the favorite of my mom... Pls mom love me, call me baby, call me sing for me... Pls look a me look at me and tell me that you love me... 0:09 this is comforting yet haunting
@@Infinitesarmy2.0 its just a joke o "hide the pain" i guess? Im not sure how to explain it, its like someone laughing even though theyre basically dying on the inside, at least thats how i see it :shrug
GUYS IM GONNA SING THIS AT MY SCHOOL WISH ME LUCK🙏🙏🙏 edit: Guys, I did it a long time ago, I forgot to edit this comment and it went pretty well. thank you a lot for the ppl that wished me good luck😭💗
held my bearded dragon in my arms as she let her last breath out today. I'll always be there to hold the hand of those i care about as they pass if I can help it, in hopes that i wont have to die alone either. They deserve the comfort of being held, knowing they are safe and remembered.
mitski means a lot to me, due to the fact that she helped me cry it out by listening to her music. i don't know if i was saved or became worst. i didn't feel safe in my house, my wrists are in the risk of having a chance of being harmed, everything's been shitty but when I found mitski, i felt like her music embraced me warmly i felt so scared and trapped in my home since my mom isnt the gentle type in punishments, it's those memories that doesn't stay temporarily when thinking about it but if I find a way out of here, i'll try to life my way and make sure im not active alot in public since there's no doubt that my family is going to reach out thank you so much, mitski i'll cherish the times you helped me during the darkest times
Hai M0TH, I just read your message. I wanted to say that you’re not alone, that you are worth it and that life can get better even when it doesn’t feel like it. God loves you and he will never betray you. I hope you’re getting better and is getting that help. Take care of yourself. 🫶🏽
The “my baby my baby, your my baby say it to me” always makes me cry because when I feel like cutting my boyfriend will always hold me tight and say that line to me with that goofy big smile of his. 🥹❤️ thank you Mistki!
i see a lot of different interpretations in here, so im going to add mine. "i bet on losing dogs, i know theyre losing and ill pay for my place by the ring" and "im losing by their side" to me means that she is putting her bet, her trust, into a person (the dog) all the while knowing this person will let her down, and lose. and this means she will lose as well, as she has been hurt. "i always want you when im finally fine" means that she always is drawn back in as soon as she starts to come out on top.
except the dog is the one losing and the money being bet on it is perpetuating its fight in the ring to constantly lose. seems like an underdog fetishization. this song seems mad narcissistic to me idk. like yeah you paid for your place, but you chose to pay for your place, feeling victim of your own choices while the Dog is dealing with the consequences of the emotional masochism that they return to. If they frame betting or putting money into the dog as putting trust, than each time they lose money on a bet they’re losing trust. and when they’re fine, able to trust again, they return to throw their money and lose their trust once more. what’s the dog losing here tho.idk. seems pretty fucked and abusive, but mfs wanna come and say its a toxic relationship, when the toxic relationship is onesidedly a result of the one betting, the one choosing to go to dog fights (where all dogs are ultimately losing), the one self victimizinf themself, and feeding themself the gratifying narrative of some nurturing savior fantasy trope, when they’re the very source perpetuating the dog to its doom.
@@Zero-fh2wb sounds like you interpreted it completely differently from most of us. I see it more as she is in love with the loosing dog. but she knows itll only drag her down more, but since she is so in love with it she cant let go, and lets herself get ruined with it. so not abusive on either side, and theres not really a villain of the song. maybe a bit of codependency at most.
@@ahoee except a dog has little autonomy and is forced to fight in the conditions and way its been brought up, and she exploits that for her own masochistic gratification, and turning back to it whenever she is fine, meaning her wellbeing is gauranteed regardless but the dog's isnt, and she can frame herself under the delusion she's some saving grace, whilst simultaneously being the very cog that propels the dog to continue fighting thru her money being placed on him
This is my first time listening to Mitski outside of TikTok (not that I don’t like her music but she isn’t my usual type of artist ), but now that I’m actually listening to her stuff I get why people like her music. It reaches this part of me that I often ignore but is always there yk. Ig what I’m trying to say is I FEEL this song in my core.
I lost my dog a few months ago, but it still feels like it happened yesterday. I looked up this song cause I remembered it from TH-cam shorts I have heard. I never knew the lyrics until now and I started crying. Its an amazing song, I just can't handle the amount of sadness I feel from it. My dog had been by my side for my entire life ( other than these past few months), and I never thought he would go. Rest In Peace to all the other people or animals that have passed, and I hope everyone is doing okay!
The beginning "my baby, my baby" reminds me of my baby kitty named Savannah... She was put down yesterday because her kidneys were failing... She didn't even make it to the age of 2... I miss you and love you so much, Savannah. You were my baby
One of the kids in my classes committed suicide 2 days ago. I didn’t really know him well, but my friend loved him (platonically). When my mom called he to tell me he had killed himself, I was broken. I didn’t even know him and I feel to the floor sobbing. This song helped me cry every ounce of water I had. Thank you Mitski
this makes me cry because both of my cats died from a drunk driver.. when i listen to this song i remember all the good times ive spent with them.. they were only 1.. it hurts that the ones i truly loved died in my arms.. they both were severely injured and flies were everywhere.. no one did anything about it.. i sit in the road and watch my cats meowing slowly fading away.. this ruined my childhood.. i now have three cats and im happy with them.. i wanna protect them from this happening again...
IM DROWNING IN MY TEARS AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
such a fucking good song I had to share it with my boyfriend because I met him at a time when he was really in a tough spot in life and I could not stop bawling the guitar, the vocals, the lyrics *chef's kiss* ugh I haven't cried to a good song in a MINUTE
I know this is about relationships and all, but I've lost my dog (he's not dead just lost; well I pray to god that he's fine and either got saved by someone or manages to survive); and just the "my baby my baby" makes me cry so much I miss him so much please come back to me my baby 😥🤍🤍🤍
“I always want you when I’m finally fine” WE MAKING IT OUT OF THE MENTAL ASYLUM WITH THIS LINEEEEE🔥🔥🔥🔥🗣🗣🗣🗣‼️‼️‼️‼️💯💯💯💯
REAL
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WE MAKIN IT OUTTA THE PSYCH WARD 🗣🗣🗣❗️❗️❗️
REAL REAL🔥🔥
This made me chuckle😭
"i always want you when im finally fine" crying.
like, i fell apart when i heard that. that is simply making me cry a lot. i can't stay with a straight face when i hear that.
picture of Akutagawa spoted
What does it mean?
@@Maiisadumbjester Picture of akutagawa AND Dazai spotted
reasons for my unexpected mental breakdown spotted (BOTH OF YOU)
“i’ll be there on their side, i’m losing by their side” BAWLING CRYING SOBBING THROWING UP
Sameeee
Omg me when i am crying subbing is giving dog eat dog world in a different one lol im not a dude though
REAL
LITERALLY
Real :(
This song is genuinely miserable in the most beautiful way possible. Its captures the turmoil of trying put your whole heart into something, knowing damn well your love wont be repaid....but doing it anyways. And that's what makes this song so painful: its painfully self aware. They know what to expect... or what not to.
Its a song that helps understand the mindset of those who stay in toxic relationships or adult kids who dont cut off abusive family members. Of those who just want some validation, someone in their corner...
Indeed some people all they want is some validation and someone on their side. Even something as simple as this can seem far fetch for some people.
this is so fucking beautiful
😢😢
i think this is genuinely one of the most devastating songs ever written
lol
wait till u hear class of 2013 and other mitski songs
Lol really did you hear baby shark lol
Listen to Bloodhail by Have a Nice Life, its a worthwile listen if youre trying to discover more sad music.
literally every time I hear it I get depressed
“I got the dog in me, and it is losing.”
Salamipapa reference 😭🙏
i got that dawg in me
Real
@@sjbwbieind I WAS THINKING THIS
ima put something else in u
“Tell your baby that I’m your baby” is the line that hunts me every time I listen to this song
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it hits hard when you have mommy issues
@@ventiirszit hits hard for me in a different way the person I loved left me for her guy bsf..
@@zunairahreehamI hope you’re okay 💜❤️
Ikr I repeated that so many times as my bunny past away
My dog passed away on Nov 17th, 2024 and this was the song that I was playing when we put him down… sucks, I miss him so much. He was a good boy and I made sure to tell him a million times.
I miss you Chester, so much!! You were the bestest boy. 💔🐾🌈
I’m sorry you had to go through that, but I’m sure Chester is in a better place waiting for you!
@ thank you so much. That was nice to read and it’s comforting to know other people think the same thing. I hope you have a great day!
@ You too, man
Mine passed away 21th on Nov too by a car accident 😭😭😭🤧🤧
Oh sorry about that😢
*"tell your baby that IM your baby."*
As an older sister i relate. ☹️
Too 😓
fr fr but im the middle
@@aleesyat091 sorry for u sweetie
@@Marsellamaya same
as the youngest sibling whose older siblings are the favorites i relate
This song is BANNED from the function, i am in tears sobbing on the ground
real
i be losing it
REAL IM CRYING MY EYES OUT
Womp womp
@Darkblack706 Go do something else with your life
i played this song with my cat when she was passing away in my arms the parts “my baby my baby” hit to hard. fly high🕊️
same with my dog😔
I’m so sorry I feel so bad I can tell she’s in heaven watching over u❤️
R.I.P❤
I sang this song to my guinea pig as he passed away last night....I used to sing it to him sometimes long before that awful night..... He was 6 years old.
I love you Kona, I will always love and remember you, my baby.....
Ohh so sorry.. 😢, d.e.p 🕊️
MY POOR BABY I WANNA HUG TO WHOEVER NEEDS IT😭😭😭😭😭🫂🫂🫂
💔💔💔💔
Me please hug me...
I need...
@AFilipinoGal whats ur social
Hug me...please...i'm begging...
“I wanna feel it” starts crying uncontrollably
real.
Real
real.
Real.
What makes this song even more heartbreaking is the subtext. “Betting” on a hopeless case, a losing battle is wholly different from simply standing by it. You’re sacrificing your means of living for a person or a struggle that never stood a chance, but you still did it, so they wouldn’t be alone when (not if, but when) they fall. It’s the opposite of playing the lottery.
So incredibly hopeless.
this is the perfect wording of the meaning of this song honestly, i tear up everytime i listen to it because of this. choosing to stay even though you know how it's going to end because it's doomed from the start
and still refusing to leave their side. breaks my heart
@silvia-with-an-i
It makes me think of my late cats as they got old/sick. I knew they were hopeless and the end was inevitable but I still held onto hope and kept them comfortable and happy when there was nothing left to do. My Claudia lived to a good old age of 16, but Todd was only 8, he’d been sickly all his life and the vets never figured out what was wrong. I looked into their eyes when they were down, and I was there by their sides. My babies…💔
cough cough its giving mouthwashing cough
I'm writing through a translator, the lines of this song bring me to tears. I will just give my heart to the writer of the text and the performer!!
Whoo Woo translator!
So glad people from different backgrounds are listening to this song
I’m gonna cry this song is so sad
I know that this song is about relationships but it always help me with dealing with loss or failure from me or from people i like. "I know they're losing and i pay for my place by the ring where i'll be looking in their eyes when theyre down" transmits such a huge feeling of empathy and strentgh. To bet on winning dogs is easy, but not on the losing ones.
I interpret it as trying to help people who you know will never change like that line and the line "will you let me lose on losing dogs I know there losing and I'll pay with my place"
Both of yall have similar interpretation that I have and thankfully I’m not the only one, yeah I mainly saw it as someone who so desperate for love as she says “call me” and “say it to me” the words she says to them she wants reciprocated and when she doesn’t she doesn’t blame them she blames herself for expecting that, with the lines “I pad for my place” but still wanting them to be there for her when she’s down on her luck but the last part of the song she pleads for them to be there for her like she did for them. Thank yall for coming to my ted talk cause I’m literally crying as I type this cause of how powerful this song is.
I didn't think I'd find someone who lives the same life I do. Can't save em all but i can goddamn try 😭
Romantic is far from the only relationship type out there. I think your interpretation is also correct.
@@vocexseta agreed, I believe in both romantic and platonic love so that’s where I’m coming from in this song.
this song makes me bawl my eyes out even though I don't even correlate with the song
Me too 😭
Ikr??? There's something about the haunting melody, the overall heaviness, and the way the story cleverly unravels as the song goes on. Mitski is such a good storyteller that she can make you feel the pain in a song full force even if you can't relate to it one bit.
@@KimGhidorahThis is actually so true for some reason it really got to me when i first listened to it. I don’t often cry when listening to something for the first time but the last time i did was probably my first listen of 808s and heartbreak many years back.
So real
real
For some reason at first I interpreted "beting on loosing dogs" as being with someone even at their worst
"By the ring where I'll be looking in they're down
I'll be there by their side" hits me so much. I wish my mom was by my side when I hoped for her support. She still does all her best to be a good mother for me, but it's like all *I* do is make her worry, angry and dissapointed. However she can't believe it at all every time I tell her that I only feel like a burden for her
You are not alone. Her lack of being able to parent presently is not a reflection of how worthy you are of that love. It is our divine birthright to feel loved and cared for simply for existing. Hang in there. I know how it feels. You are not alone. The only way out is through, friend. THROUGH we shall get! ❤
@@Gurramina Thank you so much!! I moved out than 1,5 year ago and feel a lot better. Now I live with my loving partner who can handle this issue of mine
This is exactly how I interpreted it haha
I promise that she loves you dearly. Everyone has a time when they fell like that but I promise you aren’t a burden
i’m litterally screen recording this song to make an edit abt the first part (it’s an ellie and dina edit if ur wondering)
The way she sings this song is just simply so sweet, shes such a great singer and my comfort artist
"tell your 'baby' that I'm your baby" WE MAKING IT OUT OF A TOXIC RELATIONSHIP WITH THIS ONE
You forgot the emojis 😔
@@La_Fin_Est_Proche Guess who actually escaped a toxic relationship
You?@@R1NK0M0RI0
@@R1NK0M0RI0 YAYYY
@@R1NK0M0RI0 ayyyy congratulations, that's amazing!!!
The "I WANNA FEEL IT!" It feels like a knive in your heart...
Mitski writes her song as if she's making a painting and It's a very fucking beautifully sad fucking painting 😭
Why did u say fučking twice in a sentence were not in fučking helluva boss 💀
@@Shotgun_kin_fr imao fr
@@Shotgun_kin_fr fr
chill vivziepop
REAL!!
My ex used to listen to Mitski a lot, she showed me this album, and we listened this together many many times. I never stopped listening to Mitski because of that, despite of all the memories it, she ended up just posting pictures of her new boyfriend with her in her bedroom, and i instantly knew what was going on, i didn't felt the need to break up formally. I sometimes think of her, and then i come here, i always wanted to know if she still loved me, and if what she did was only an attempt to make me feel jealous, but i never did, i just took it as a betrayal and that's about it. The only thing that makes me break a little, is to think that now she is doing the same stuff she did with me, but with someone she used to replace me, even tho she confessed to me that the other guys don't exactly are the same as me...
its okay bro. your not alone in this world. youve got help with other people. friends. family or the internet. your not alone.
listen to lookalike live action (Conan Grey), i think you'd like to hear it
I’m so sorry about that
I always associate this song with 'lost childhood'. People who had to grow up too early, who had to see their loved ones in pain. People who pretended to be fine until the line between being fine and not being fine faded..
Oh this makes me cry like a baby..
I’m wondering why I’m not lying about this but I never get to see my dad my moms poor but I say I’m fine to my friends
To see my loved ones in pain..? lol I would be happy I have abusive parents
I know too much...
I'm screenshotting this comment because you said it so perfectly
you know too much... get out of my walls.
Mitski's songs are the type of sad when there's rlly no hope anymore
fr
This song stabs me in the heart every time.
Dada..I always imagine being hugged by my daddy who didn’t come around a little later after my birthday..I miss him.😊
@@Docinka.lovkesmyur making me cry :(
Should i call the hospital? /j
this song is the only thing that comforted me when i was dealing with sh. thank you, mitski.
Childhood trauma is killing me deep inside
Are you okay?
@Itzz_iconic-_- is okay i hope you get better :) have a lovely day/night!!! ♡♡
@@IDGAF_77-7 ❤️❤️
Same
Rio De Janeiro
Sometimes I listen to this song and it reminds me of my mom.
She never listened to this song, but it reminds me of how she was.
She died suddenly due to a pulmonary embolism eight months ago. There was nothing anyone could do to save her.
I was about to turn eighteen at the time and I was going to plan a great party with my friends, and learn how to cook, and have a plan with college and learning how to do all these grown up things.
But now I feel as if I have no motivation for these things, and I want my life to be just over already so I can see my mom again.
I miss my mom. I love her.
Update: It just turned a year now, and I still miss her and I love her. I don't think I'll ever not miss and love her, and that's ok.
Similar situation for me, lost a mother figure at 17. It hurts less as time goes on, I had to learn to do many things I thought she’d be there to teach me. I wish I’d treasured the time more, however ik she would be proud of how independent I learned to be. She was very independent and kind and I try to do the same. Best thing we can do for them is keep going, and she can live on through us everyday in small things we do. Focus only on the memories that gave you strength and happy ones from her, don’t let what took her away turn those memories into sad ones
I'm so sorry for both of ur losses.. I'm a young girl who's 14 yr old and probably u are all adults but Idc comforting others is the important thing. Im very sorry Rest in peace to both of ur kind and wonderful mothers. My deep condolences.
My deep condoleances
Don't end your life, there's so much for you.
She would want you to have a fulfilling life, you should.
I’m sorry for your loss… When all hope is gone reach to god (or whatever god you worship) all will be ok and you’ll get through this🫶🏾 remember if you ver need some to vent to I am here. I will listen and help your through this. Remember. Your. Worth.🫶🏾
"my baby my baby my baby" makes me bawl everytime
Im crying rn
Lyrics:
My baby, my baby
You're my baby, say it to me
Baby, my baby
Tell your baby that I'm your baby
I bet on losing dogs
I know they're losing and I'll pay for my place
By the ring
Where I'll be looking in their eyes when they're down
I'll be there on their side
I'm losing by their side
Will you let me, baby, lose
On losing dogs
I know they're losing and I'll pay for my place
By the ring
Where I'll be looking in their eyes when they're down
I wanna feel it
I bet on losing dogs
I always want you when I'm finally fine
How you'd be over me looking in my eyes when I come
Someone to watch me die
Someone to watch me die
I bet on losing dogs.
(Don’t thank me:)
Thanks
I appreciate it lol
i miss my pet bc of this song🥲
@@ramenn0dlesaww
Thankss
sobbing, screaming, throwing up.
I recently lost my cat, he was the most important thing in this house for me when i was feeling down. He loved me, and i loved him back. Everyday i wake up now, i still am careful when getting out of bed not to disturb him, even if he's gone now. Everyday i still worry if i fed him, only for the memories to come flashing back. This song reminds me of him so much, how i grew up with him, how he was always there when the eventual hardships of growing up hit, and i'll miss him forever for that. Thank you, this is a great song to remind of those happy moments.
I’m so sorry. He will forever be watching over you
I'm so sorry, my cat di3d recently too, I didn't even had time to see him, touch him or even saying goodbye, I feel you, for me my cat was my son.
Hey I’m going through the same thing my dog died yesterday and he was my little sunshine without him I feel lost and I just feel empty 😢
Since I lost my cat earlier this year this song has been on my daily playlist. Bring me so much comfort in my sadness
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I feel this song tells about unrequited love. She wants to be with her lover "tell your baby, that im your baby". And feels like she's losing her crush.
"my baby my baby, your my baby say it to me." Hits hard. Whenever I hear this I imagine my mother singing this to me ,holding me close. She left me when I was 7 and never came back. She started another family and will occasionally call on birthdays. I act like I hate her and most of the time I do but some days I just miss her like h*ll. I just miss that motherly love.
i am so sorry. you will get the love that belongs to you whether it be through your mom, or some other way.
@@iiyusraii Thanks so much. That means alot to me. I wish you the best of luck out there and I hope I do too.
Aww :) sometimes I cry to songs like this cuz I am usually alone and slowly losing connection with some people, I wish you good day ❤️
Im so sorry. I'm sending you hugs!
I’m so sorry.I feel this so much. My parents got divorced when I was a baby and every now and then she would visit. And when I was 11 she completely abandoned me, and now has a new family. I haven’t seen her in over 6 years and have only talked to her a handful of times but it’s been well over a year since the last time we’ve talked. I don’t really miss her cause I’ve never been used to having her, but I grieve for the relationship I never got to have
I always want you when I'm finally fine, hits harder when you're bipolar, finally closing a depressive episode and liking them again.
Never lied
How long does this episode go on for like max?
@shiwangee It can go anywhere from days (with rapid-cycling, like me), to weeks or even months :(
I ALWAYS WANT YOU WHEN IM FINALLY FINE
I REALLY FEEL THAT 😭
realest lyric
@IrisPlayz519SOMEONE TO WATCH ME DIE
@IrisPlayz519SOMEONE TO WATCH ME DIE
This line broke me ngl
"i always want you when i'm finally fine" hits. i always want that same person's comfort whether i'm bawling or perfectly fine.
“Tell your baby, that I’m your baby” BURST OUT MY TEARS BRO
REAL
RS
"I always want you when im finally fine"..... One of the most relatable lines i have ever heard
Ion get it
Probs cus I've only ever been fine once and didn't want anyone then
this song always made me feel the same way i feel in every relapse i have. that feeling of trying for nothing and betting on myself to get out of this horrible situation and still not making it. yeah, i am the losing dog and the one who bets on him
That's so real what
omg fr, especially the "i always want you when i'm finally fine" line never fails to kill me :,,)
hope you're doing good out there, im an addict too lol so i understand how it's so hard. But we got this, celebrate yourself even for a day without it. And remember that your old self doesn't align with what you want or are working on! you got this !!! :)
wow same
real
This always never ceased to make me cry...
This song feels like saying I’m sorry
It’s the sorry that they never gave me
hope you’re doing better without them @@froggy4443 ‘cause why are we all vomiting and sobbing
@@froggy4443 oh.
@@froggy4443cried my eyes out from this comment
@@froggy4443 i hope the all sides of your pillow are warm
I CAN'T BELIEVE IT, MITSKI.. ARE YOU OKAY?
1:28 " Will you let me, baby, lose" hits different
fr.
finally, i can hear this without just crying.
The lyrics of this song touch my inner child...
whats a inner child? r u pregnant?
@@iloveraine Oh my, this is just an expression 😭😭
@@iloveraine lmao what 😭
@@aenas6208 oh ok i thought u were either pregnant or touching kids lol
Mine too, deeper than my uncle ever could 😔
Growing up in a household with an angry man was hard. I stepped up and was the emotional pillar my mom needed. I was there to wipe her tears and comfort her when she cried about my physically abusive/mentally/emotionally abusive druggie father. I just wanted a normal childhood. I just wanted my fathers love. It hurts when I see all the people with loving fathers knowing I'll never have that. Knowing no one will be able to walk me down the isle, instead im absolutely terrified of men. All because of my father.
I feel u 💙
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Im soo sorry, hope your life will be better
I know how it feels it feels like everything is crumbling around you but I'm just a kid but I know how it is
Ngl, your comment made me cry, I know exactly what that's like as I still go through that. I know what it's like wishing to have what others have. But I promise you, it's gonna be okay, you'll make it through this. You're gonna be okay
I wish she never died
Girl what😭😭😭
im so sorry
She is not talking about mitski@pearlscent
@@marthadiazshe is not talking about mitski, and about someone else that was important to her
Same 🥲
bu ses canimi yakiyor
Benimde..
"I'm not a violent dog, I don't know why I bite."
I love that film
😐🙁☹️😢😭😭 WAAA
@@chanellethomas6886 whats it called?
What’s the movie the quote is from?
What's the movie?
My niece died two and a half months ago and my sister plays this song every night. It’s really hard seeing her so heartbroken and lifeless.
I'm so sorry for your loss,May She Fly High❤🕊
Oh, my heart😢💔
i know everyone has their own interpretatives and perspectives towards this song, but in my opinion the lyrics connects too me because i feel like it's about attaching yourself too false hope, temporary distant faded people, connections etc since at the end of the day the idea of letting go and losing all of it is just too much so you stay until you cant anymore, this song is so beauitfully written it gives off the concept of having attachment issues too me. "i bet on losing dogs" " i always want you when im finally fine" i love this song with my whole heart.
What does this line " I always want you when I'm finally fine " mean??
@@shiwangee my concept of that line is craving and needing someone or something you grew attached too but yk at the end of the day it's not healthy for you at all but you still long for whatever it may be because sometimes the idea of just letting go of everything is all too much, i feel like everything is too much i feel this line deeply, because so much people i lost in the past for whatever reason they js got distant or i cut contact for the best, up to today i still miss and think abt everything especially whenever a tiny little inconvience occur everything comes flowing back whenever im sad (sorry i said sm i just love talking abt deep shit like this but ofc everyone has their own povs this is js mines)
This song makes me sad and cry but it also is the most comforting thing ever to me
0:48 my fav part
...
@@Shellyz8 ?
@@Shellyz8😔?
truth is, i don't really know how to let grief pass. how to accept it all. i do wish i was just strong, im wondering if im really ready to be in a healthy relationship. you deserve so much more, queen. so much more. i don't always want to depend on you whenever things get heavy for me.
im losing myself too. i dont know what to do.
Same - as soon as I feel fine I rememember this song and feel bad again. Grief is a process - some days I feel fine and some days it feels fresh. 9 months later and I’m crying here and there, including rn. I was the losing dog and I still miss this person as soon as I start to feel fine. You are allowed to feel the grief as it comes - take a breath and let it go after a few minutes of feeling it. You are strong and over time we just come to terms with it, doesn’t mean we’ll ever be 100% okay with it ❤️🩹
To know that there’s someone out there who will stay through the rough with you, letting you know that it’s okay to lose, that they are not going anywhere. They are happy that atleast you tried. I think I am that person for myself. It’s feels like a self-love song.
I love this song with all my heart❤.
"tell your baby im your baby" literally defines a person with jealousy issues
What did she mean in this part?
i know the "did you get that" at the end was probably supposed to be cut out but it really was the cherry on top, it just sounds so lonely
This is easily and unironically my favorite part at 0:59. I could listen to it on a loop everyday!
ITS MY FAV TOO!! i was just looping it when i saw this comment !! theres js something so beautiful about it
such a beautiful instrumental it makes my heart ACHE when i listen to it.
'Unironically'. Who's assuming you're being ironical? Or it's just a fancy way to sound cool that zoomers use nowadays? You can also say 'seriously '. Like in a sentence 'Seriously, this comment section is full of pretentious, easily impressed teenage girls'.
@@dmitriy21rrrr arent you just a bundle of joy
goodbye my 2O22-2O24 baby, thankyou for everything, thankyou for covering my ears because you know I am afraid of fireworks, thankyou for lifting me up when the ground is wet, thankyou for bringing me to different places whenever I'm sad, thankyou for working hard just so I could but whatever I want, thankyou for trying to be the best for me, removing all your addictions for me, thankyou for cooking me breakfast because you know how much I hated waking up early in the morning, thankyou for everything, may you find the love that you deserve, may you find the love that you had begged me to give you, I'm sorry my baby
This song hits diffrent when you have a very dysfunctional family growing up... I never been the favorite of my mom... Pls mom love me, call me baby, call me sing for me... Pls look a me look at me and tell me that you love me... 0:09 this is comforting yet haunting
real, that line comes on and its alr over 😹😹😹
@@santosamaawhy’s are ur laughing?
@@Infinitesarmy2.0 its just a joke o "hide the pain" i guess? Im not sure how to explain it, its like someone laughing even though theyre basically dying on the inside, at least thats how i see it :shrug
@@Infinitesarmy2.0sometimes people jus don’t feel the sadness from neglect anymore. They protect themselves with laughter.
@@LunarEclipseIsCoool😂
1:29 gives me chills
GUYS IM GONNA SING THIS AT MY SCHOOL WISH ME LUCK🙏🙏🙏
edit: Guys, I did it a long time ago, I forgot to edit this comment and it went pretty well. thank you a lot for the ppl that wished me good luck😭💗
GOOD LUCK!!
GOOD LUCK!!
send me the video of yours singing...
how did it go ? 👼
GOOD LUCK ❤❤
This helps me to stop crying
held my bearded dragon in my arms as she let her last breath out today. I'll always be there to hold the hand of those i care about as they pass if I can help it, in hopes that i wont have to die alone either. They deserve the comfort of being held, knowing they are safe and remembered.
we love you and your bearded dragon
I'm so sorry for your loss,May Your Baby Fly High❤🕊
im so sorry that happened to you my man
mitski means a lot to me, due to the fact that she helped me cry it out by listening to her music. i don't know if i was saved or became worst.
i didn't feel safe in my house, my wrists are in the risk of having a chance of being harmed, everything's been shitty but when I found mitski, i felt like her music embraced me warmly
i felt so scared and trapped in my home since my mom isnt the gentle type in punishments, it's those memories that doesn't stay temporarily when thinking about it
but if I find a way out of here, i'll try to life my way and make sure im not active alot in public since there's no doubt that my family is going to reach out
thank you so much, mitski
i'll cherish the times you helped me during the darkest times
Hai M0TH,
I just read your message. I wanted to say that you’re not alone, that you are worth it and that life can get better even when it doesn’t feel like it. God loves you and he will never betray you. I hope you’re getting better and is getting that help. Take care of yourself. 🫶🏽
They way you can interpret this song any way you want and it still makes sense, makes it 100 times better
Every time i hear this i cry.
I'm a losing dog who bet on others losing dogs so the "say it to me" and "i wanna feel it" hit hard
Fr :(
I'LL BET ON YOU
The “my baby my baby, your my baby say it to me” always makes me cry because when I feel like cutting my boyfriend will always hold me tight and say that line to me with that goofy big smile of his. 🥹❤️ thank you Mistki!
the lack of a comma had me so lost for a bit
this is so sweet :((
@baldetari.SAME- 💀😭😭
ME TOO LMFAOO
@@lillygatchalife2046natshettaintnfunny corner it's al poker
I WAN A FILLET 😞🥩 1:54
RADFORD PFP!?
@@Skeletonrizz OH MY GOD JOHN??
Me
why must you interrupt my mental breakdown😨
Omg I saw this comment at that moment and you ruined it 😭😭😭😂
It's good to finally hear this amazing song again and not have to worry that I'm living the feeling
i see a lot of different interpretations in here, so im going to add mine. "i bet on losing dogs, i know theyre losing and ill pay for my place by the ring" and "im losing by their side" to me means that she is putting her bet, her trust, into a person (the dog) all the while knowing this person will let her down, and lose. and this means she will lose as well, as she has been hurt. "i always want you when im finally fine" means that she always is drawn back in as soon as she starts to come out on top.
EXACTLY RIGHT?
this is exactly how i interpreted the song. like a toxic relationship you know will only hurt you, but you keep coming back
except the dog is the one losing and the money being bet on it is perpetuating its fight in the ring to constantly lose. seems like an underdog fetishization. this song seems mad narcissistic to me idk. like yeah you paid for your place, but you chose to pay for your place, feeling victim of your own choices while the Dog is dealing with the consequences of the emotional masochism that they return to. If they frame betting or putting money into the dog as putting trust, than each time they lose money on a bet they’re losing trust. and when they’re fine, able to trust again, they return to throw their money and lose their trust once more.
what’s the dog losing here tho.idk. seems pretty fucked and abusive, but mfs wanna come and say its a toxic relationship, when the toxic relationship is onesidedly a result of the one betting, the one choosing to go to dog fights (where all dogs are ultimately losing), the one self victimizinf themself, and feeding themself the gratifying narrative of some nurturing savior fantasy trope, when they’re the very source perpetuating the dog to its doom.
@@Zero-fh2wb sounds like you interpreted it completely differently from most of us. I see it more as she is in love with the loosing dog. but she knows itll only drag her down more, but since she is so in love with it she cant let go, and lets herself get ruined with it. so not abusive on either side, and theres not really a villain of the song. maybe a bit of codependency at most.
@@ahoee except a dog has little autonomy and is forced to fight in the conditions and way its been brought up, and she exploits that for her own masochistic gratification, and turning back to it whenever she is fine, meaning her wellbeing is gauranteed regardless but the dog's isnt, and she can frame herself under the delusion she's some saving grace, whilst simultaneously being the very cog that propels the dog to continue fighting thru her money being placed on him
0:26 THAT HIT HARD
„Tell your Baby that im your Baby“
"tell your baby that im your baby.." Hits hard in my opinion
Wow, this is the cutest thing I've ever heard. I remember now all the moments I've been through in my life
1:54 I WAN A FILLET
filet mignon
I love your humor
When I got to that part, this comment appeared-
This is my first time listening to Mitski outside of TikTok (not that I don’t like her music but she isn’t my usual type of artist ), but now that I’m actually listening to her stuff I get why people like her music. It reaches this part of me that I often ignore but is always there yk. Ig what I’m trying to say is I FEEL this song in my core.
I NEVER REALIZED I BET ON LOSING DOGS WAS THAT PAINFUL OMG😭
I lost my dog a few months ago, but it still feels like it happened yesterday. I looked up this song cause I remembered it from TH-cam shorts I have heard. I never knew the lyrics until now and I started crying. Its an amazing song, I just can't handle the amount of sadness I feel from it. My dog had been by my side for my entire life ( other than these past few months), and I never thought he would go. Rest In Peace to all the other people or animals that have passed, and I hope everyone is doing okay!
I'm literally crying awhile I'm listening...
The beginning "my baby, my baby" reminds me of my baby kitty named Savannah... She was put down yesterday because her kidneys were failing... She didn't even make it to the age of 2... I miss you and love you so much, Savannah. You were my baby
I’m so sorry for your loss
I'm so sorry for your loss fly high savannah❤🕊
@@SereneMandel Thanks! I got a new kitty recently and he reminds me of Savannah all the time
One of the kids in my classes committed suicide 2 days ago. I didn’t really know him well, but my friend loved him (platonically). When my mom called he to tell me he had killed himself, I was broken. I didn’t even know him and I feel to the floor sobbing.
This song helped me cry every ounce of water I had.
Thank you Mitski
This always makes me cry 😭🫶🏻
Mitski's songs never fail to make me depressed 🔥🔥
"tell your baby that I'm your baby" is just making me melt down..
"I'm not a violent dog, i don't know why others think i bite." inspiration by a person i don't know!!!
That quote is from isle of dogs
"im not a violent dog. i dont know why i bite" is actually the quote
@@Crimson-fog27 I GOT INSPIRATION FROM THAT QUOTE I MEAN😭
@@myskibidirizzler11111 oops mb
perfect sound track
this makes me cry because both of my cats died from a drunk driver.. when i listen to this song i remember all the good times ive spent with them.. they were only 1.. it hurts that the ones i truly loved died in my arms.. they both were severely injured and flies were everywhere.. no one did anything about it.. i sit in the road and watch my cats meowing slowly fading away.. this ruined my childhood.. i now have three cats and im happy with them.. i wanna protect them from this happening again...
Stop I'm sobbing- "i sit in the road and watch my cats meowing slowly fading away." Thats depressing, I hope you can heal from it.
Same here. Except now I'm alone, and I can't get a new cat. I'm allergic. All this love has nowhere to go.
I'm so Sorry for you losses,May Your baby's Fly High❤🕊
IM DROWNING IN MY TEARS AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
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Bro is drowning my comment section
Same bro same
Uhm
THE BEST SONG I HEARD IN MY LIFE
ts heavenly🙏🙏
such a fucking good song I had to share it with my boyfriend because I met him at a time when he was really in a tough spot in life and I could not stop bawling the guitar, the vocals, the lyrics *chef's kiss* ugh I haven't cried to a good song in a MINUTE
Release the cover
AWW did he like the song?
It was 3am when this song finally hit me and I started sobbing. Wow, I am mentally unwell :')
I know this is about relationships and all, but I've lost my dog (he's not dead just lost; well I pray to god that he's fine and either got saved by someone or manages to survive); and just the "my baby my baby" makes me cry so much I miss him so much please come back to me my baby 😥🤍🤍🤍
i hope you, and your dog, are doing okay 💙
This song never gets old..