Letting a Dad Down
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ก.ย. 2024
- The plaintiff claims his daughter and her husband owe him money for an unpaid loan to help them pay rent, so he's suing. The defendants argue the plaintiff said they didn't have to pay back the loan.
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If you don't have the money for rent, why are you having a wedding.
Not to defend a $2400 venue; but covid screwed up everyone’s wages. I totally can believe they thought they could manage; then they got covid and lost weeks of wages.
But then my finances was screwed over during covid. I went from fine to liquidating stocks and emptying counts
She's creating exactly the same PROBLEM for her kids as SHE had with her Mum. They will have NO grandfather simply because her Mom decided that she didn't want her husband in her life.
So many families are twisted around like this for hate among the adults and it is the children who suffer.
SHE cannot even realise after having lived through it herself that she is denying her children their own grandfather !
What a loser this chick. She takes his money to pay for a wedding but doesn't invite him ? WHO does that ... Then he wants to help her out and she decides that he is harassing her BUT it's her that owes HIM money he gave a loan of for HER rent !
Did she say she was "very shy" and yet she's on national tv!?!?! lol
I was thinking the same thing!
Makes sense she had no shame and knew she would have to pay it back but since verdict was in plaintiffs favor the drybegger didn’t need to pay it back the show did. She’s not shy she just seems to be a professional victim🫠
She's such a fake person. Nasty.
False equivalence. There are plenty of shy people in the entertainment industry.... Besides they get paid to be on the show.
An appearance fee gets them every time. No matter how shy!
The family is struggling but yet you’re getting married at a venue for $2500 and you say you’re still struggling🤔🤔. Maybe just go to the justice of the peace. Where are your priorities. Soooo he’s good enough to take money for rent and wedding but he’s such a horrible person to not invite him to the wedding. So in plain words he’s a walking ATM for her got it.
Exactly! I'm so tired of people thinking their are entitled to someone's money. He's sooo awful with no proof because her mother is a saint ( yeah right), yet let me get his money. She's another entitled brat.
@@Shellygrrl2573 I agree. Absolutely he wasn’t that awful to take his money. If she really didn’t want his money she would have stood firm and said no thank you but it was nice to take it. Always blaming fathers out there but yet god for bid people question a mothers motives.🤔🙄
@@lee4094They ALWAYS blame the father even with no proof. People need to go look at all these court custody cases of mothers lying their tail off, even blatantly so, and alienate their children away from the dad.
@@Shellygrrl2573 I agree. I’ve witnessed things with my own eyes to the point I had to break a friendship off with someone because of the things she was doing and saying.
And she is so shy...🤷...
Funny how the loan maker becomes the villain when the recipient doesn't want to repay.
Well said my God is so obvious but then she can stand there saying she took the down payment for the venue but didn't invite him to the wedding. Maybe she takes after her mom and this is how her mom treated her father.
Happens a lot when there is a one member who is a bum and begs family members for money, even wait for some to die, thinking they will get money from the dead. It never works out well.
Thaaaaank you
You're so shy? You weren't shy about asking for that money.
And so shy she decided to come on national TV
Exactly
Hmmm
@@oldageisdumb yep, that’s what I was thinking!
Well said! I personally couldn't have done that...
She’s a user!!! If she didn’t want to have anything to do with her father then don’t take his money!!!!
Period!.
He kinda still owes some financial support . Back support. He could have found her. He didn’t try hard enough
She is too shy to meet with him UNTIL he's going to give her money.
He offered
@@pisto30 she asked go back in the fathers testimony
thats the LEAST he could do after not putting in the EFFORT to find where his child was for 20+ years. tf? lol
@@2LitProduction Right?! Honestly, people in the comments don't make any sense.
That's how them chicks on Backpage used to do me.
Sounds like mom poisoned her mind against her father.
How sad, most caring Dads never have a standing chance.
Sadly a lot of mothers do the same as revenge and spite and use their children as pawns for their own selfish purposes.
He didn't look for her that hard though did he 😢
My biodad was a big old POS who spread it around. I have half brothers and sisters littering the area. One half brother is 3 day younger than me. But my mother never ever ever bad mouthed him. Not once and gave me all the info on him shecstill had from the child support court procedures for me and my full brother.
I only learned what a blow hard- tell them anything -kinda jerk he is.
Plus all the half brothers and sisters i have a huge family of atep children too that decided to try and bond with me to the point of obnoxious behaviors where i just finally went no contact.
When i started dating my mom gave me a list of guys inshouldnt date in case we were related because i often drove over to my old home town and hung out with my cousins during weekends. She was worried i would date a brother 🤦♀️
She didn't want a relationship with him from the start.
The mother wanted her to herself. That is obvious. She probably wouldn't let her play with other kids. That is why she is so SHY.
@@mymobilebuddy4392Good point!
@@mymobilebuddy4392 agreed
She is a greedy spoiled mama daughter. Shame on her, when he dies, she will get nothing.
You're not working, about to get kicked out of your home. But you have enough funds for a wedding. Come on.
If he was such a horrible person, why would you take his money…😳😳😳
She didn't ask her mother for the money. Telling.
Her mom is a loser like her daughter.
Because her mother took care of her he didn’t it’s the least he can do
I mean if you dont think raising a child on your own can deplete you, clearly you haven't raised any. Thats a single mother raising a child after she was abused and father chose not to contribute. He could easily go to court and request to pay child support at the very least to help raise his own child. But dead beat fathers only show up when the child is grown up so they can skip the really hard part of scheduling your entire life around the child
Hasn't mom done enough? Why can't dad help?
@@puzzlite mhmm. And honestly the mom spent so much more for her daughter her entire life. They always want to come back thinking you don’t remember, when you’re so used to a deadbeat not being there . My dad is like this man, and sadly my ex is to our kid. I don’t have him on child support I’d rather not have anything to do with him
She knew her dad would see the post on Facebook. She was dry begging smh.
3:06 She also DM'd him and directly asked for money.
Exactly
Perfect post
Sounds like everything the sister said on Facebook was true. She was the definitely fleecing him for money and the dad was letting it happen probably out of guilt for being absent.
She’s completely ungrateful. She’s using his absence that was created by her mother as a reason for her not paying back the money. She was all good when he was handing over money. If her mother didn’t take her away like that, then why didn’t she hit him up for child support, unless she (mother) didn’t want him to know where she was. Yes he should have tried harder, but her stance is now ridiculous. She didn’t have proof because it didn’t exist. I find her to be a liar, her story doesn’t add up.
And she didn´t EVER gave her mother crap for not letting have a relationship with him. She´d have to try and decide for herself if it was true.
That “father” is just as much to blame as that horrible mother. He didn’t care that the kid was gone. He would have looked for her and fought for her if he cared. But I do agree the girl was using him. Right or wrong she probably thought he owed her something. Her mom did create this whole situation but she’s not the only adult to blame.
I tend to agree with you 99%. But the defense of not wanting his ex to loose her nursing lisence as an excuse not to inform authorities that his children have been kidnapped by their mother is piss poor. I tend to think he had a new gf or family and didn't wanna deal with his ex anymore and the cost was his kids and he choose to let them go. Maybe the claim that there was some kinda abuse was somewhat true and he didn't want it to come to light but I'd only believe THAT with proof.
He didn't anything to stop the absence though. He just let it be.
well said
Defendant: “you can be in my life if but only if you pay for my stuff, if stop paying you’re not my dad”
I disagree, It is odd to build a new relationship with a parent who wasn’t there much. I lived in the same city as my estranged dad for 2 years and never told him. We only texted and called.
It took time to build that trust and that connection.
If my dad ever sued me for 1300 dollars I would be so sad because what’s 1300 dollars, if he really cared he would have realized that the sister’s words hurt. And she probably wasn’t ready for all the drama and things that would come along with having this relationship with him.
He offered to help with the wedding people like to assume that you have to get something for things you give. If it’s truly to be helpful that’s the reward.
I hope they can build a relationship because it’s not easy. People in these comments make it seem like she was so wrong. She is a child hurt. That he never thought to search harder for her. Regardless of her mother.
bingo
how many years of child support did he save tho? and it’s not like he really wanted to be in her life, judging by the years of no contact
@@MrAgj200child support has nothing to do with anything. Child support typically doesn’t take care of the child anyway! Do your research and stop being a simpleton.
This woman has some major issues. Why on earth would she take money from him and then not invite him to the wedding?
Cause she dont care about him shes mad he left and feels like he owes her money for leaven
She needs to be in therapy here she is deeply embedded issues started by her mother then transferred to her
We're looking at a generational curse called unforgiveness transferred from mother to daughter
Well, she said the post came AFTER the giving of the money, but BEFORE the wedding... she probably rescinded the invite
Money issues she has, needy and greedy.
He might want to cut ties. She will continually punish him over and over if he doesn't.
Yeah until she deals with her issues with abandonment
Abandonment is not her issue, its called avoiding responsibility by *not paying her debt@@Bebedollie
@@Bebedollie that and she refused to answer the question if the mother ever told her stuff about him growing up so clearly, the mother is at fault I can’t stand parents like that
The crazy part, there are two sides. She's only taking her mom side.
@@SimplyNina1usually there's 3 sides ⛛ to every story. Hers, His, and The Truth
People will take your money even when they hate you.
100%
Pretty sad to borrow money and then concoct excuses to not pay it back.
Sometimes its best just to leave people alone, family or not.i think the father had good intentions but went about it the wrong way. The daughter seemed like she didnt care either way.
idk about good intentions when he folded like a wet suit about custody/visitation. he didn’t really seem to really care about his daughter, or enough to do a 5 minute google search in however many years, so his daughter doesn’t care about him. can’t say i blame her
It's sad. But he's better off without her. She showed herself to be a user.
what?? he’s a scumbag father who couldn’t even be bothered to parent his kids
And he showed that he only know how to throw money at a situation and has no idea how to truly love unconditionally
@@lauraanne5175 Blame the disgusting mother for feeding her daughter a bunch of BS. Typical ex wife behavior.
@@peterpan31000Her mother may have been lying and may be a terrible person. But it’s not “typical ex-wife” behavior any more than his behavior is “typical ex-husband” behavior. He was a terrible father - absent and not even trying to find her.
He spent less than $5k on her in her entire life and sued her for half of it. Bottom of the barrel father.
I think the father should be happy to end this relationship…. It’s unfortunate
I don’t get it she says she never had a father in her life. She has her father trying to be in her life and she dosnt want it. 🤦♂️
She didn’t have a relationship with her father her entire life, but she sure rush to ask him for a loan. Who does that?
Why not? It's her dad.
That’s her dad still
@@Amy-ej2pxShe hasn’t acted as if he is. Just a convenient source of funds.
@@yung1717 No, that's a stranger. Did you not hear her?
@@Amy-ej2px Did you not hear her? She said she basically didn't know him and what she did say she knew about him was that her mom said he was "borderline abusive." There's a difference between "man who raised me" and "man who impregnated my mom." He was a complete stranger and the first thing she did was hit him up for money.
By her own account they're strangers and she used him so I'd sue her too.
I also think she wanted his money, because she never liked him in the first place. She ignored him because she didn’t like him and never intended to pay him back.
The other daughter, if it was actually her, is as childish as the rest of them. They all sound like there’s an asylum, somewhere, that’s missing them.
Also, it sounds like the mother raised her as poorly as her father would have. She used him, but he deserved it, as I’m assuming he never paid child support.
Really, he should have just eaten it and not embarrassed himself in such a way. I would rather that the financial hit that look like a confirmed dead beat dad, on national television.
@@daynasafranek7807 her bratty sister peeped her and she was right, a user
The daughter is ungrateful, his money is good enough but apparently he’s not. Imagine taking someone’s money for a wedding and not inviting them.. just horrible.
The mom is the major issue
That man never even look for his daughter
Exactly! That’s cruel! And then not pay him back..THeck!!
Sounds like her mom started this girls issues. Now she's harboring hate for life. Only hurts her
He was absent and didn’t make an effort he even said that
Yea but mom started that whole thing ruined the relationship for life
@piinkam0r an adult or child acts like based on what their caregiver told them about the other parent. She needs to let that hate go. She's not the only child in the world to grow up without a parent. Depending on mom relationship with dad, I can guarantee is why he did not try harder. I had male friends who said they couldn't see their child because the mom would always give them grief or call the cops for no reason and them arrested, so they had to back away. The courts only do so much to hold a hostile parent responsible for their actions. I have family who has been in the same or similar situation and can't deal with the other parent because they are selfish and want to keep the other parent out of the child's life. I still blame the mother because it's the seed she planted in the child's mind, you should never talk bad about the other parent regardless unless they did some serious harm to the child, because otherwise, they grow up like this young lady, angry and miserable.
@@stevehamilton6313 as someone who grew up with a dad just like this , if they wanted to they would . He even said he didn’t try looking until she was older . That little girl in her wanted her father (like I did) so when they come back around yes you feel like they owe because they never helped and seeing your mother do it all
@@SimplyNina1 there’s nothing saying she has hate. I don’t have hate for my sperm donor just when he wanted to pop back in my life of course I took the money also he offered. I’ve blocked him since I’m used to him not being there. And there’s no one stopping a male except himself that’s the oldest lie. I have male friends who did the work theirselves and some even have full custody. I just hate that excuse because I’ve seen women who have narcs ex’s who take their kids they fight to get their children back. I’m a mom myself now my ex makes 0 effort tells people I keep him away, not my responsibility to reach out.
And you don’t know what the mother said to her growing up
She feels intitled to the money because he was absent. I feel like she brought that up to him and that's why he actually gave her money twice.
If you're so broke, stop having kids!!!
Can you please stop making so much sense...you may kill of the content. 😂
@@CeeYa1989 😆🤣😂
Yes!!
Thaaaaaaank you!
But...but...the free wic, food stamps...
My ex sister in law did the same thing with my nephews. My brother's children. She violated all custody agreements and moved several states several times. The oldest son finally made contact at age 18 after 14 years of his mom's lies. That nephew has no relationship with his mom at all. My brother spent thousands of dollars trying to do visitation and court costs.
So sad. People are quick to say fight and go to court, but that can cost a lot of money that some folks just don't have. It's easier said than done. On top of that, some moms refuse to act correctly no matter how many times they're told to by a judge. I'm glad your brother was able to fight and eventually got the relationship with his son.
The mother is reaping what she sowed. Karma.
The true failure in this case is the mother.
“I was too shy to meet him” but you weren’t too “shy” to ask for money and let him cover for your wedding venue smh Asking for help and money would be the last thing I would ask, better yet I wouldn’t even ask especially when you knew you had a father yet made no attempt to find him or make contact with him.
They both crank their neck to the left when they speak that’s how we know they are related lol
😂😂😂😂😂😂
It's funny good catch
Thank you! I noticed that too. 😂😂😂
The defendant has a masterclass in dry begging. 🙄
Right? A “facebook post” about being sick and not having enough money to pay rent/about to get evicted, if not her dad she was hoping SOMEONE would reach out and offer
@@LissyVee Exactly...it's pathetic.
What's dry begging
@@BebedollieDry begging is when someone starts whining about their money problems and waiting for you to volunteer to bail them, so that later on they can turn around and say “…but I never ASKED anything! You gave it to me on your own, and you KNEW I did not have it.” And, trust me when I tell you that you ain’t NEVER gonna see THAT dough again.🤔🤭😩🤪🌹
@@rosierambo144thanks for that !! I was wondering 🤔
That girl used him for the money. She stopped staying in touch before the Facebook posts, and that's why his other daughter was enraged by it. She knows it was his daughter. She's foolish and I am glad he sued her. Her mother probably lied because I don't know abusers who are generous like that.
The exact same thing happened to me. My father reached out soon after i turned 18 and we spoke via email but ultimately i decided i didnt want anything to do with him and even though i was young and looking for a way to pay for school i could never imagine asking him for a cent! You cant pick and choose when to be offended and hurt based on convenience.
She is such a liar! Poor me…she didn’t even try!
Deadbeat had to pay! It was over a year ago. She thought she got away with it
He's not a deadbeat for never helping raise her??? His excuses for not making a effort are lame 🙄
@@KitaHolms Why would he be a deadbeat when the defendant admitted in open court that her mother told her she didn’t want him to have a relationship with her?? When are the mothers going to accept accountability????
The only character that was in question was the defendant!
Her mother manipulated the entire situation, guaranteed
Agree
He freaking should get his money back for the way she used him.
I don't like the refrigerator. She is a heartless, greedy, despicable person.
yeah she a sow
They’re struggling but she’s pregnant….. a very dysfunctional situation!
Better yet...the wedding was the important thing here.
i hate when people use the i never had a father in my life crap. what does that even mean. but yet you can ask him for money. is she preg again
Her daddy tryna have a relationship with her. She wasn’t shy getting them monies. And asking for stuff. User. Momma drama out on the children!!!
he should've tried 28 years ago lmao, I hate when parents do that. "I created this child, left, made a fully conscious decision not to pursue custody in court, raised other kids in the meantime, but I'll blame it all on the parent who actually bothered to stick around and I'll come back for the mutt once I'm nice and old and close to dying because the kids I actually bothered to see in the last few decades don't like me anymore and I don't want to pay for an in-home nurse in a few years."
As a naive kid when your deadbeat parent tells you 'I tried to see you, HE/SHE wouldn't LET me!" you might believe it, but as an adult and a parent myself I immediately know they're taking the easy way out of explaining why they didn't fight for you, their CHILD, just like they took the easy way out of parenting. There isn't a planet on which I would EVER just 'give' my kids to the other parent. We can split custody even if I need to relocate, provide proof of a stable environment, anything I would be required by the courts to do. I would never just 'not know' where my kid is.
I could even give it to him if he pursued custody and lost, but he made literally no effort whatsoever and then was just like 'well I didn't want to get the person who allegedly kidnapped my child from me in trouble with her job so I just didn't pursue any form of custody or visitation for two decades." A court would have given him at least partial visitation, so why would he just decide "Well my ex doesn't want me around anymore so I'll just never see my kid again."
Believing your parent exclusively that the other was left because they were "borderline" abusive, is crazy to me. I would have soooo many questions.
what’s crazy to me is that he didn’t bother to google his kid for like 20 years. i’ve googled ppl i went to hs with more than that
maybe its easier to believe the dad is abusive when he shows he doesn’t care about you (like at all, for 20 years), while the other takes care of you for 20+ years
@@MrAgj200 Exactly! He didn't try hard enough to find her.
This daughter is ungrateful and just trying to get over on her dad trying to help. She definitely owes the money and doesn't want the relationship because she's mad she has to pay the money back.
HES A DEADBEAT
Am I the only one who wouldn’t sue my child who I didn’t support for years and giving a few thousand dollars is literally not important enough to sue and not only that to sue on national tv. People are coming for the woman but also the father is weird.
My dad was gone for many years of my life and he would never ask me to pay him back if he gave me money. He knows he missed time. And not that I ask him for a ton of money but it’s normal for 20 something year olds to ask their parents for money. That’s what children do.
Also it took many years for me to feel comfortable around my dad again it’s not like the movies it takes time to trust someone again. It’s not easy. I think people are too rough on the defendant and so easy on the plaintiff.
I wouldn't take or ask my father I hadn't met in 25 yrs for money .
And what about her beloved mother, why didn´t she demanded through the court for him to make him pay child support?
@@justicierodelaliga why didn't this sterling father demand that the court to give him visitation?
@@justicierodelaligashe said he was an abuser…she may not have wanted him t9 have access to her address or any contact. Who knows?
Her husband should be paying for their wedding.. he's standing there accepting handouts like a bumb..
Not just blaming him.. but I would have stayed seated and been there for moral support
Beta male wearing a man bun.
Bride’s family traditionally pays for the wedding , grooms pays for the honey moon, which makes sense that the father would offer.
Bro can’t be the sharpest tool in the shed getting mixed up with that anyway.
Terrible opinion
man bun!
That last comment tells me all I need to know about that man - "she's just like her mother". He just let her mom take her without ever trying to get in touch with her, and then his other daughter gets weird about the new daughter in his life, which he seems to enjoy that she doesn't want to "share" him (ew). They definitely owe him the money, but this guy is a real piece of work and should have just taken the loss as repayment to his daughter for never being there for her.
She shouldn't have asked for the favor then.
and then doesn’t bother to find out what happened between his daughters to cause the rift. hes a pos father and i don’t feel sorry for him
Shes just like her mother..a liar. That girl knew he didn't make those posts. She ghosted him before the facebook posts after she got the money and said it was because she was working. How much effort does it take to respond to a text? We don't even know for sure if what she said that her mother told her is true. She could have made it up for the case. The actual fact is he eventually looked for her and tried. He even said he didn't pursue because the probation would cause her mom to lose her nursing licsense..you missed all that? She is just like her mother, a bad person.
@@EChristian329 Yes, we do know it's true, because the father admitted it. The mother took the kids away and he made zero effort to find them or stay in contact with his own children. He eventually looked for her and "tried", ok cool - that's the very LEAST he could do. What kind of man gives up his kids because they want to make sure the other parent is ok? That is a tired excuse because it was easier for him to just let them go. Anyone who says "you are just like your dad/mom" is an egotistical, self-centered, immature person. If you missed it, I did say that she obviously owed him that money - but he's obviously a crap person.
I don’t know why HE should be owing her money for not being there when the mother purposely kept her out of his life. Some of you people are out of touch with reality.
She had that victim excuse, 1) he left me 2) I got covid and have lupus 3) I got some evil texts 4) he is a liar 5) I don't have money ...
Struggling but the venue is $2500 smh...ungrateful b
She’s not shy! She knew exactly what she was doing!
Marrying someone who can’t afford rent is not real smart…
"I'm a very shy person" *proceeds to appear on national television*
I'm glad the father was awarded his money. That woman is selfish and didn't want him in her life until he coughed up the money. Smh.
HE didn't want to be in her life for 28 years before that, so what does that make him? He's only out $1,300 (and not even that anymore), he missed her entire childhood without even making an attempt to fight for custody so he can't ACTUALLY say "I did everything I could to find her and be there for her."
Father and daughter both are a piece of work. Woman runs off your kid but you don’t go to court about it because you don’t want the woman to lose her nursing license? That makes no sense.
He had not been there for her for 25 years! You couldn’t have let her have that lol bit of money? Smh
I agree. I'm seeing all these comments and I truly don't understand why ppl are being hard on her.
The only thing that she could remember is that her dad has money😂
I'm nosey. I need the real background on what happened? What does "borderline abusive" mean? Why did the mother leave? Is there a question of paternity for mom because she was a baby? What about the other children? What about the other partners. Would they characterize him as "borderline abusive?" Why would she believe the worst about him especially with what was expressed in the post? Why would he publicly shame anyone when he knows his personal history of being an absentee father? Any of his children could have clapped back. She should get some therapy because her mother AND father traumatized her.
Exactly something is off like with how she says he tried to reach out she kept ghosting him then got mad because her sister called her out, like if mom left without him knowing how would she know I consider some brain washing the daughter here saying my sister said I used him for the money but still didn't pay the money
The plantiff should have just let them keep the $1300 and never lend them money again. Going to court against your estranged daughter that you didn't help raise for 18 years is pretty pathetic. The daughter and her BF are POS themselves, but just let it go, dude. Have a relationship with her but don't offer her money again. No reason to sue.
Edit to add: why isn't the BF working? The daughter keeps saying, "i couldn't work" or "i was sick," etc etc
I can tell who you'll be voting for this upcoming elections. NOPE. NO LEACHES EVER. Typical libtards, just using everybody's money, mismanaging their own money but hey, "we got a wedding party coming up" for that: hell yeah$$
Agree. $1300 are pennies considering 25 years of absence. Taking her to court guarantees no relationship w the daughter, no relationship w the grandkids. You could've given her a very wide berth for her mistake.
And if he was so awful and also didn´t want anything to do with him...why asked for the money? And let´s say he did offer, why take it?
More so, she took the money and didn´t invite him to the wedding? Yes, he wasn´t in her life for whatever reason (she could have also tried reaching him...and her mother let her not have a relationship with him either) but if he did give you the money the least she could have done was invited him. At some point a relationship starts.
Look at her expression of "nailed it" when she gave the middle finger at a post where her sister told her that old she did was ask for money and another one gave it a like. And at that moment the Judge reaction like: "You did ask for the money".
It seemed like the defendant had a distaste for his daughters who were writing the posts. So instead of her separating her remorse for the daughters from her getting to know her father, she clumped it altogether, resulting in anger for all of them.
I agree with you. I wouldn’t have sued her either.
I can see it. I wasn't raise by my parents. But I i can't understand how people make family seem so awful. But they will get money or a free babysitter in a heartbeat 😅
She agreed to the loan. I would have never agreed to a loan from my absent father.
It feels like the daughter was being spiteful for her dad not being present based off what the women in her life stated and she just wanted money. Smh
Not good enough to be her father just good enough to take money from him
she thought she was getting free money 😂
This case is truly saddening to hear. While it's tempting to say 'shame on you' to the daughter, there are likely unseen family dynamics at play here. She may not have been ungrateful, but rather overwhelmed by the situation. It's worth noting that the defendant, the daughter, didn't seek out her father; he initiated contact with her, which, although late, could be seen as an honorable attempt on his part. However, it's concerning that in a text, the defendant referred to him as 'Dad,' a title typically earned through shared experiences as a family. The defendant mentioned communicating with her father via text for over a year before meeting him in person. Despite any awkwardness, she accepted his offer to pay for her wedding venue, and later sought financial assistance for rent. While it may seem she's motivated solely by financial gain, there could be deeper reasons at play, layers we don't see in the courtroom. The defendant's sister publicly criticized her for only accepting their father into her life when it was financially beneficial. While this may appear true on the surface, there could be underlying motivations. The father, as the plaintiff, was likely trying to reconnect after 25 years, perhaps attempting to make up for lost time by covering wedding expenses. As Judge Milian explained, he was striving to be more than just a father, but a 'Dad,' a title with personal significance in a family dynamic. While it's possible the daughter was trying to use him, maybe she was genuinely trying to embrace his role as the 'Dad' she hadn't had for 25 years. Judge Milian's decision to order repayment of the loan was indeed justified.
Nah. She used him. Her own testimony says she stopped responding to his texts BEFORE the Facebook post. And the other sister didn’t make those posts until the defendant didn’t invite her dad to wedding and she ghosted him. She made it clear that it wasn’t the dad making those posts. That woman used that man.
@@EChristian329 You've made some valid points, and your opinion is respected. However, I'm only scratching the surface here, just as these cases do within the time allotted, aiming to convey the essence of the situation. It's quite simple to be on this side of the case and form biased opinions, perhaps because this case or similar ones strike a chord with the observer, or they identify strongly with a particular opposing viewpoint. I never implied that she didn't take advantage of him; it's possible she seized an opportunity due to his 25-year absence, perhaps attempting to prompt him to fulfill his paternal responsibilities. While I may not agree with her objectives, there's likely more complexity to this situation than meets the eye. Her demeanor, at least from my perspective, didn't suggest ingratitude. Nonetheless, there are undoubtedly unseen layers at play.
I mean she even said herself that they were texting all the time when he was paying for the wedding and her rent, then she just stop answering him? if im his other daughter im thinking the same thing.
@@cameronbolden5064 Yes, I concur; it seems characteristic of a user. Another perspective to consider is that she might have viewed it as a form of retribution for his absence over the years, and this was the minimum she felt she could do. Her only source of information about abuse came from her mother's account. Therefore, in her perception, it might have been a means to assert entitlement to his assistance. However, I don't endorse this viewpoint; there are undoubtedly more constructive approaches to address this scenario. Nevertheless, it's crucial to note that this wasn't a gift but rather a loan.
Defendant said she never had a father figure yet says she has a step sister? Wonder what the step father thinks.
Maybe her mom did the same thing to her stepsisters dad and that's why her comment.
"BORDERLINE" ABUSIVE ???!!!!!!!!! Disgraceful that the judge did not deal with such a vile, crass accusation.
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I totally agree! Loved the fact that the judge didn't judge when it comes to not growing up with a father ❤
I’m glad my venue was $200. Saved the $$ to buy a house
I bet she is EXACTLY like her mother. The new hubby better run.
What a shame......
From what I see that guy owes 18 years worth of Child Support
Not if the mother absconded with, and alienated him from his child!
The daughter looks so much like her father. She was unduly influenced by her mother and she’s the worse for it, thinking she’s a victim and is owed everything
he abandoned his responsibilities as a father for 28 years after not even attempting to fight for his own parental rights, came back randomly, offered to pay $1300 for her wedding (which doesn't even put a DENT in how much he truly owes her as a parent since he suddenly wants to be daddy dearest when it's close to nursing home time) but coincidentally when she abandoned their agreement like he abandoned her, he could fight for his MONEY in court.
Mothers who use kids as pawns are the worst. Grown kids who use people because of their abandonment issues aren't much better.
Husband is definitely a loose, man bun and all.
The daughter makes many excuses to get away from paying. So weird that she freely trashed talking the father and claimed herself as shy.
If she's married she shouldn't be asking ANYONE for help. She can struggle by herself.
But asking the government for help is okay, right?
@@user-gl9su8du3w who said anything about the government…stop reaching. I said what I said ✌🏾
@@shawnda8317 bec if people are struggling they always turn to the gov. Which are taxpayers $$$. Most of America is living off of that, and she wants money from the man who MADE her? I see no issue lol too many deadbeat dads!! Be a girls girl!!
If the plaintiff did not have the text messages, I'm sure the defendant would have said "I didn't ask for the money, he just offered". This statement is so common with defendants that deny owing a loan that it is comical.
Pay the man his money! Lots of adult children feel parents owe them!
I agree 100% with the judgement . only his character was in question not his money.
Never been around, she asks for help on rent and you sue her? 🙄 My mom has helped me countless times and would never.
Agreed. However, if she said LOAN. She could have made an effort to pay something....
But her Dad wrong and full of excuses.
@@momoboolman8820 I get that but suing her is extreme.
By her account he's a stranger and she used him so...sue on.
A loan is a loan a gift is a gift two different things. But of course everyone always looks at fathers as “never around, deadbeats” but ladies hey y’all pick them so what does that say about you ladies.
@@Liiinda4 He fathered her, and never paid child support.
She didn’t have invite him but KEPT the $$$!
She's a hot mess because of what her mother told her about him. Parents can be very vindictive and tell their kids whatever they feel like about the other parent because of their own feelings, but the daughter didn't try hard enough either. Both are at fault. I can say, I would NOT let 25 years go by...I'd hire a detective if I had to. Unless a parent is mentally or physically abusive, I would say, " Honey, I want you to have a relationship with your dad, if you want to. We just won't be together as a family. But we both love you."
The defendants pretty much look like I would have thought even before setting eyes on them.
He owes her 18 years of back child support he probably didn’t pay if “he didn’t know” where she was. I wonder if a person can sue for that? I don’t know how that works. Does anyone know?
The mother is supposed to petition for child support, but then she would have had to agree to visitation. If she violated the visitation agreement she wanted her all to herself. And that's what she got.
@@allbullaside7778actually in most states. Visitation and child support are sperate. One has nothing to do with the other. There's people I know that pay child support for kids they don't even see.
Give Dad back his money!
She was using her dad too . But sad family
He should of paid child support he whole life. She learned from a absent father
It sounds like the mother poisoned the daughter against the father and the daughter was looking for any excuse to validate what her mom told her growing up. And he's involved with his other kids and at least one daughter is very protective of her father. Not inviting him to the wedding was a low thing to do.
This woman didn’t care to reconnect with her father. A lot of abandoned children have the mentality that the absentee parent owes them something.
Heal people. & show the parent that you can be great without their help.
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Im 59 yrs old and when i was 2.5 (1968) my parents were going thru a divorce, my father went to Vietnam and came home in 1973, but not to me. I heard from him once in 1973 or 74, then again in 1977, (the Saturday after Elvis died) then nothing else. I searched for him for over 30 yrs, it was my driving lifes mission. Like a deep down burning desire that nothing can satisfy but his presence. So JM statement about not seeing why she would still want him around, as someone that has lived that situation, she is totally wrong and have always had both parents in their lives cant possibly understand. My family never said a cross word against my father, they wanted me to form my own opinions of him. I was never a pawn nor did they allow their opinions, feelings and/or anger of him influence my thoughts of him etc. I clearly understood that theom influenced, intentional or not, the kids ideas of their father.
Just my 2¢
I'd rush to take money from a man who neglected me my whole life too. He owes it to her.
Save that energy for the mother who ran off with the child.
@@keylacmckemp1309 You're believing a deadbeat that doesn't have a relationship with kids that don't come from that mother? Lol!
@keylacmckemp1309 Nah. Let's save it for the guy who doesn't look for his daughter for years and THEN thinks giving her money makes up for it.
The judge is shocked she took the money like that’s not the least he could’ve done for not being in her life. Who cares where the mom took her, that’s your kid and you fight for your kids
Omg she is heartless and so sad wow
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Just give the woman the money. He’s done NOTHING for all of her life. What a jerk.