Dick Van Dyke Talks Openly About His Alcoholism | The Dick Cavett Show

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  • @dreamcatcher5502
    @dreamcatcher5502 หลายเดือนก่อน +468

    Dick was 49 in this video and it was 50 years ago. Now he is 99 this year. Happy Birthday Dick !!! 🥳🎉❤

    • @screamstation
      @screamstation 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      True, funnily enough, he looks a bit older due to his grey hair, which, as we now know, is not an indication of a shorter life. :) Dick is in fine form, and I can see him crossing 100 with no sweat!

    • @Culinaryboy1
      @Culinaryboy1 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Turn 99
      Years Old

    • @allysonf419
      @allysonf419 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Amazing man!!

    • @MOONZAY
      @MOONZAY 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      99th like lol god bless ya Dick

    • @JulieGraham-u7b
      @JulieGraham-u7b 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Watch him in the video with Coldplay.

  • @Williamwestp24
    @Williamwestp24 หลายเดือนก่อน +405

    Both Van Dyke and Cavett are still with us as of December 4, 2024. God bless them both.

    • @babblingalong7689
      @babblingalong7689 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Incredible. Imagine being able to say 'Hey, remember us talking 50 years ago'.

    • @Larsen3306
      @Larsen3306 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      Love listening to them both ❤️❤️❤️

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amazing

    • @Wandering.Homebody
      @Wandering.Homebody 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@babblingalong7689I mean, I m "only" 46, and just pointed out to a friend that her 8 year old kid is now roughly the same age as when she, my friend was telling how much she loved a particular movie (that I just randomly sent her a clip of, earlier this afternoon). So when we are this guy's age, we'll have spoken 90+ years ago 😂

    • @Jeremy-y1t
      @Jeremy-y1t 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Van Dyke supports child abuse.

  • @mitchellbrack763
    @mitchellbrack763 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    My 11th year sober...went to see Mary Poppins recently "God Bless you Dick"...Pass it on! X

  • @dsscam
    @dsscam 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Now, the greatest of all time, my favorite ever- Dick Van Dyke- is 4 months into his 99th year and still going strong- happily married to a woman 47 years younger- still performing. Alcohol did nothing to hurt his physical health. I hope he lives forever.

    • @lisahayes8834
      @lisahayes8834 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      His 99th birthday was this past Dec. 13th, so he's only four DAYS in.

    • @alexxbaudwhyn7572
      @alexxbaudwhyn7572 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      It was his 99th year alive prior to his 99th birthday.
      He's now in his 100th year.
      When you were born, you were 0 years old, and began your 1st year at birth, and were 1 year old 12 months later, and were 1 year old for the next 12 months after your 1st birthday, but you started your 2nd year day after your 1st birthday

    • @coldwinter5710
      @coldwinter5710 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Alcohol abuse ALWAYS does damage to the body. If you quit "in time", your body can often repair this damage, as it obviously did in his case.

    • @Javajo
      @Javajo 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      No one lives forever!!!! Grow up

  • @AndywayVideos
    @AndywayVideos 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5685

    45 years later and he is 93 now and still kicking... proof you can get over your addictions and recover and still live a full life

    • @tonymontana-uw1bq
      @tonymontana-uw1bq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      I work the nightshift at a Sydney Hospital. We watch Diagnosis Murder at 3am most mornings...DVD is awesome!!!

    • @stuboy13
      @stuboy13 5 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Damn, the grey hair made me think he was far older than 48

    • @richardmaslinski422
      @richardmaslinski422 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Andy Way good for him

    • @born2biscuit
      @born2biscuit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      but wut if the alcohol is what made him live longer
      Alcoholics: 1
      Normies: 0

    • @cynthiaennis3107
      @cynthiaennis3107 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes! Isn’t it wonderful! 😊❤️

  • @alechaos7759
    @alechaos7759 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3261

    42 years sober here. This talk saved my life. Everybody can change, remember that.

    • @michaelmcdonald3275
      @michaelmcdonald3275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      I love it awesome for you !!!

    • @forreal245
      @forreal245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Wonderful!

    • @davidb9114
      @davidb9114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Do you ever have a desire to drink or how long have you not wanted to?

    • @alechaos7759
      @alechaos7759 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@anthonyo.460 You can do it, don't ever lose faith in yourself.

    • @alechaos7759
      @alechaos7759 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@davidb9114 I smoke a cigar occasionally, maybe that's my substitute but because of my past, I have no desire to drink again.

  • @Shabazzelbey
    @Shabazzelbey 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2728

    I love how the audience isn’t applauding or sighing at every line.. you actually can watch a show and derive your own emotions without a studio audience cue

    • @geoffhill6992
      @geoffhill6992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      I noticed this - bak then - 70s - was a more thoughtful time?

    • @Kents1969
      @Kents1969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Yes!

    • @nickywilcox942
      @nickywilcox942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Amazing perception! XXX

    • @Tsaier
      @Tsaier 4 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Same. Then I imagine watching Bill Maher's show and cringe about the audience applause. Everything has to be so blatantly virtuous.

    • @ethos1236
      @ethos1236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Wonderful and refreshing, isn't it?

  • @thepenultimateninja5797
    @thepenultimateninja5797 ปีที่แล้ว +336

    Wow, I didn't realize he was still alive. He's 97 now (2023).
    I guess that is a testament to the human body's ability to repair itself if given a chance.

    • @kevinhayden4605
      @kevinhayden4605 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Both of them are still alive. Wild

    • @ayokay123
      @ayokay123 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      He's now 98 and can STILL dance a few steps.

    •  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      longevity and resilience to addictions like alcohol and drugs is all genetical. like all these body builders you see it isn't just lifting weights and eating lots of protein, it's also genes.

    • @thepenultimateninja5797
      @thepenultimateninja5797 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Yeah you're right. Lifestyle does play a part, but it's largely down to genetics.

    • @steelhurricane4041
      @steelhurricane4041 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      ​@@ayokay123yes. He will turn 99 in December 2024. He said he's praying he makes it. He's still a funny guy.

  • @diogeneslantern18
    @diogeneslantern18 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2015

    41 days sober. Longest I have been in 12 years. Such a wonderful feeling :) \o/

    • @ChrisJagusch
      @ChrisJagusch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      One day at a time! I hope you're still doing well!

    • @landru303
      @landru303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Keep going!

    • @Cityzen567
      @Cityzen567 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Hope you’re still doing it. I’m on day 1 and never want to drink again.

    • @grizzlybear4
      @grizzlybear4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Congratulations!

    • @Reflexwoman
      @Reflexwoman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I hope you are still staying strong! Sending you love.

  • @designermannyc
    @designermannyc 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    Amazing how candid this was for 1974. People didn’t talk this openly back then, especially on TV. He’s a hero for doing this

    • @marymichael1211
      @marymichael1211 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Thank you for pointing that out. I am an alcoholic who stopped drinking in 1981 and it still wasn't openly discussed. ☝️

    • @coldwinter5710
      @coldwinter5710 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      💯! This was a VERY big deal at the time.

    • @marymichael1211
      @marymichael1211 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      @@coldwinter5710
      Yes, it was, and still is, because not all alcoholics recover. My recovery began in 1981 and I am 74, and Dick Van Dyke living to 99 now inspires me. He's attracting a lot of attention not only because of his age but because of his vibrant liveliness. I hope that his being a recovered alcoholic and that excellent film he made in 1972 called "The Morning After" with his dramatic acting being as excellent as his comedy will become more widely known and seen so that he will be appreciated even more and will inspire alcoholic recovery. ✨

    • @KatiePiszczak
      @KatiePiszczak 22 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      You’re so right I agree. Things like this help people and he did that in 74. It’s an honest, pride aside acknowledgement to something about him, in his life, that was completely destroying his life. I think that vulnerability speaks to people.
      Always a charming entertainer but what a great way to use his platform!

  • @jordangibb
    @jordangibb 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    Still a recovering alcoholic at 99, beautiful man and message ❤

  • @StyledObject
    @StyledObject 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Both of these lads still kicking about in 2024, absolutely fantastic, 50 years later.

  • @drpete0616
    @drpete0616 ปีที่แล้ว +1000

    This was the interview that got me sober. It's been almost three years now without a drop.

    • @gabbyhyman1246
      @gabbyhyman1246 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Awesome!!!!

    • @jayrainstone4764
      @jayrainstone4764 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      ❤🙏🏼

    • @MISNM0
      @MISNM0 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Very encouraged by your sobriety. Still, one day at a time.

    • @travissimms544
      @travissimms544 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He was drunk while preaching this whole thing to us! My dad had those same eyes.

    • @Madronaxyz
      @Madronaxyz ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Much respect.

  • @beckyluckner1140
    @beckyluckner1140 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    I’ll be forever grateful for his disclosing his alcoholism. He helped me so much to accept my own disease. If Dick VanDyke is an alcoholic it’s not disgraceful for a woman to accept it in herself. Thanks Dick.

  • @victorwilson4138
    @victorwilson4138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3303

    Quit booze at 30, walked off roof of 4 story building while blacked out. Heart stopped in ambulance, came back after 2 mins, spent year in hospital. Broke both femurs, both ankles, 12 ribs, left arm, fractured skull. 73 now, 43 yrs no booze.

    • @SurfsideRick
      @SurfsideRick 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      Good for you, Victor, and congratulations. I didn't have near the experience you did, but I had my own issues. At 31 years old on 6/23/1989 I made the decision "that was it." I rolled my last joint, drank the beers in the fridge, and watched the movie, "Clean and Sober." Went to my bathroom, looked in the mirror and had a tearful talk with myself. I was still able to have a successful IT sales career, despite the "stigma" of not going out partying with friends and clients. Now I'm over 62 and never, ever missed it for a single minute. I hope people realize they may have a problem before they have to go through hitting "rock bottom" or, worse, hurting someone else and ruining their lives. Good on you, brother.

    • @victorwilson4138
      @victorwilson4138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@SurfsideRick it's worth it. Look ahead, past don't matter. I don't miss a minute of it either.

    • @recabitejehonadab2654
      @recabitejehonadab2654 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Your lucky you survived that fall and got a second chance!

    • @benjantzen8910
      @benjantzen8910 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Oh My Word. God Bless.

    • @NathanLJustice
      @NathanLJustice 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Whoa. That's crazy!

  • @kpec3
    @kpec3 ปีที่แล้ว +759

    I always admired the way Dick communicates, good voice, good confidence, very alert, wise, funny, smiling. America's treasure.

    • @TANTRUMGASM
      @TANTRUMGASM ปีที่แล้ว +23

      A fantastic speaker..., He could have been a very effective political leader, statesman, military officer, attorney, ambassador, councilor, professor, he tried and tried to join the Army Air Force during ww2, but was deemed "too skinny" ...but finally accepted him as an Army radio announcer becaausee of his voice....he then was transferred to Army Speccial services to entertain trooopps.... I am glad he never became a pilot, and was taken into entertainment !!

    • @kpec3
      @kpec3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@TANTRUMGASM All true. I watch him to learn how to better engage with people.

    • @Madronaxyz
      @Madronaxyz ปีที่แล้ว +5

      ​@@TANTRUMGASMI agree. I am glad he did not become a pilot because he might not have survived the war otherwise. What a loss that would have been.

    • @michellelekas211
      @michellelekas211 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Our first crush as kids: him and Rod Sterling

    • @kpec3
      @kpec3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@michellelekas211 It's kind of weird to have a crush on Rod Serling. it's like entering the Twilight Zone...

  • @authorjohnwquinn
    @authorjohnwquinn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2658

    God willing I'll celebrate 21 years of sobriety on the 4th of July. Thanks for blazing the trail, Mr. Van Dyke!

    • @tonfiselier1818
      @tonfiselier1818 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Congratulations! No small feat, keep up the good work!

    • @moc7323
      @moc7323 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      John Quinn well done lad ..

    • @Albow58
      @Albow58 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Congrats ! 21 years for me on Sept 14

    • @JordanMoffitt
      @JordanMoffitt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Congrats!!!!

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      John Quinn congratulations🎉 having a father and x husband who drank in excess I wish I had found the movie Food Matters and the Website Doctoryourself.com Niacin and Niacinamide would have helped them in there dry drunks decades of pain ...

  • @Matticus09
    @Matticus09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1768

    I'll be 3 years sober in Feb 2020. Best decision of my entire life.

    • @gamalsankara1388
      @gamalsankara1388 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Keep going mate, you can do it.

    • @LittleJo-
      @LittleJo- 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Keep going, you've done brilliantly and you should be very proud. Wishing you all the best and continued success.

    • @a.r.c582
      @a.r.c582 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Me too! February 2nd is my three year anniversary

    • @markg.4246
      @markg.4246 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Live in the problem, or live in the solution. Sobriety is as simple as that! Best wishes to you!

    • @jakebaron4385
      @jakebaron4385 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Congrats on three years!

  • @mccloysong
    @mccloysong 4 ปีที่แล้ว +557

    He took a HUGE heroic risk labeling himself alcoholic back then, before getting sober was cool. And how candid and open. Back then, people winced. Now he he's a trailblazer. He walked the perfect line between outing himself but not the program of AA.

    • @nickywilcox942
      @nickywilcox942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Very well said. x

    • @Paul-dw2cl
      @Paul-dw2cl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @mccloysong oh yeah, good observation, I didn’t notice that

    • @nstix2009xitsn
      @nstix2009xitsn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bull.

    • @mccloysong
      @mccloysong 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nstix2009xitsn I take it you got sober in the early 70s, then.

    • @machineofadream
      @machineofadream 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      How he presented the information spoke to a lot of people, and I think that was the key to him not endangering his image by coming out. The federal agency to research alcohol abuse (NIAA) was founded in 1970, so I think that there was definitely at least some awareness that this was a public health crisis by then, but surely Dick did a much better job persuading people to take it seriously than the government could have.

  • @donnaquintal6348
    @donnaquintal6348 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    I've been sober since 1/1/2019. I was a nurse for 30 yrs. Passed out woke up 6 wks later disabled. I wasn't shocked at all. I'm staying sober. Loved this show. Very cool

    • @liscel3556
      @liscel3556 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I appreciate your comment as a nurse who work for 30 years also and now it's dealing with football and alcoholism and trying to get into treatment not football sorry full-blown alcoholism and trying to get into treatment my daughter hasn't talked to me and almost a year because of my drinking now she's visiting here and I'm not seeing her because she will not see me until I go into treatment and I'm trying to go into treatment but relying on my husband to well your insurance changed and our insurance changed anyway but then I found out I have some type of problem that may be cancer and I can't even call them because I'm so dealing with the alcoholism and trying to get the treatment I really am I really do want to go like today or wanted to go like a week ago I've been wanting to go for a week but he won't well anyway he is supposedly is he's talking to somebody about me being in a 28-day program and my insurance only pays 8 days so we're trying to get the money togetherhe's trying to work it out but meanwhile my heart is breaking because I just found out about this cancer thing I don't even know exactly what they're going to say I mean they just sent me a certified letter saying that I have to call the GYN office you know because there's something really wrong but anyway as a nurse who worked for 30 years you know just appreciated your comment so sorry to take it for time thank you have a good night and Happy Thanksgiving

    • @lemurianchick
      @lemurianchick ปีที่แล้ว

      @@liscel3556 Football????!!!! Dafuq??? 😳

  • @JJSPARROW1978
    @JJSPARROW1978 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1712

    How come we stopped being like this?
    A pure adult conversation dealing with addictive substances, mental issues in a clean, clear and civil manner.
    What happened?

    • @TheMaxKids
      @TheMaxKids 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Extended childhood in affluent cultures. USA is #1.

    • @bronsky1410
      @bronsky1410 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Social programming

    • @VerisimilitudeDude
      @VerisimilitudeDude 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Greed is what happened. People love negative and conflict. It's interesting and it makes the viewer feel superior. It's like mind candy and makes more money, so they cater to the lowest common denominator. That's why the Bible says the love of money is the root of all sorts of evil.

    • @robomarty
      @robomarty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      We've been dumbed down and fed garbage labeled entertainment. It's now acceptable for an adult to behave like and share interests with teenage dropouts.

    • @wildkeith
      @wildkeith 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      The failed War on Drugs. You can blame Reagan for the stigma that addicts faced after that. Ever since then, they are seen as criminals instead of people who need help. 50 years later and many people, even those who claim to be Christian, spit on the idea of helping addicts.

  • @letitiarydjeski2320
    @letitiarydjeski2320 5 ปีที่แล้ว +497

    Van Dyke was decades before his time. He was eloquent and heroic in this interview.

    • @kelleyhice
      @kelleyhice 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wrong, the guy was a star in "his time".

    • @harrynac6017
      @harrynac6017 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@kelleyhice And made an a typical movie about alcohol addiction, where he showed his not funny side. That was a big risk.

    • @melissasaint3283
      @melissasaint3283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This was so, so brave of him, really admirable!

    • @kennethgarcia25
      @kennethgarcia25 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      But not completely accurate...

    • @melissasaint3283
      @melissasaint3283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kennethgarcia25 As far as I can tell, everything here was at least believed to be accurate at that time...is there something you find concerning?

  • @Argumemnon
    @Argumemnon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +837

    Cavett's show was a real talk show. People actually talked about interesting stuff.

    • @ardien.535
      @ardien.535 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      i know. it's amazing how watered down things have become.

    • @dahalofreeek
      @dahalofreeek 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I like that the interview is 20 minutes long so ideas can actually be explored a little. The modern interviews are usually well under 5 minutes and are just a boring pre-approved anecdote most of the time.

    • @coyote000
      @coyote000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, like the Parkinson show in England. Little to no pandering to the audience.

    • @dahalofreeek
      @dahalofreeek 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Boco Corwin Oh for sure he's a highlight guest on late shows but he's the exception not the Norm.

    • @ChrisM-bn5vr
      @ChrisM-bn5vr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Ardie Naimi We still have interviews like this, listen to a podcast like Joe Rogan, that's the modern version of a real talk show. No one listens to TV crap anymore.

  • @SweetBerryWine3000
    @SweetBerryWine3000 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Dick Van Dyke is an absolutely amazing human being, and a National Treasure. ❤

    • @contractmed1
      @contractmed1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I couldn't agree more!

    • @poorthing
      @poorthing 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I just wrote basically the same comment

  • @heywoodplanes6651
    @heywoodplanes6651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +497

    it needs to be said that it is incredible that Dick Van Dyke could talk about his own addiction with this much candor, in that era , on national television. And that Dick Cavett managed the conversation so professionally - again - in that time period.

    • @prince.mushroom
      @prince.mushroom 2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      It's inspiring to see men being this honest, vulnerable and intelligent at this time. Incredible intelligence and self-realization. Really grateful to DVD for putting himself out there like this, and in awe of DC for his career of brilliant generosity.

    • @jordieag
      @jordieag ปีที่แล้ว +13

      It’s one brilliant interview

    • @cynthiadavid5282
      @cynthiadavid5282 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Excellant interview good watching this eye opener

    • @cynthiadavid5282
      @cynthiadavid5282 ปีที่แล้ว

      Loved dick cavett

    • @ivanvanogre-nd1sw
      @ivanvanogre-nd1sw ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Dick Cavett suffered from depression for many years so he has a clue.

  • @jow6845
    @jow6845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    He’s talking so well - calmly and non-boastfully - just honestly. He’s a good conversationalist. Dick Cavett is very natural also.

    • @finster1968
      @finster1968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I have to give credit where it’s deserved: Cavett was an exceptional interviewer. He was able to modify his style depending on the interviewee. It’s what made his show highly successful. Actually, watching this is embarrassing for today’s talk shows by comparison.

    • @ronniejones8052
      @ronniejones8052 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      My father was a raging alcoholic I saw things from the age of three or four that most adults couldn't handle ,I too became an alcoholic even though I rember praying that I would never drink,I'm 62 now and have not had a drink in decades,my childhood still haunts me.

    • @Larsen3306
      @Larsen3306 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Love them. Such class acts

  • @JP1970
    @JP1970 3 ปีที่แล้ว +842

    This is one of the best talks about alcoholism I have ever heard. Thank you! I've been sober since 10-27-17, and it continues to be the best decision I've ever made!

    • @sakeboersma
      @sakeboersma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I’m trying and have relaps now and then… it’s a struggle! But Van Dyke is a focus for me! I will succeed! Just like you!!

    • @CrashBandiscoot
      @CrashBandiscoot 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Just found out today that he is a recovering alcoholic! I just love the guy. So I came across this interview and I have no idea when it was filmed but it’s just as accurate today. Sober since 11/13/20 here!

    • @Warp75
      @Warp75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Indeed JP
      FREEDOM

    • @joejones9520
      @joejones9520 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@sakeboersma if youre a real alcoholic the idea of a relapse is deadly serious, not to be spoken of lightly. I suspect youve never felt the real pain alcoholism can cause and therefore a relapse doesnt seem significant, over time if you keep on youll see what i mean.

    • @Sketch_Sesh
      @Sketch_Sesh ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I also stopped drinking around Nov 2017.. got 5+ years now

  • @therealdoug1000
    @therealdoug1000 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    The generosity of this man, to openly share his battle, is remarkable. And a wonderful artist.

    • @Mark-pp7jy
      @Mark-pp7jy ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The biggest roadblock to sobriety is "battling". Recovery begins with "surrendering".

  • @thefilthelement
    @thefilthelement 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1190

    That man has more style in his beard than I do my whole body

    • @jennyoshea1958
      @jennyoshea1958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      thefilthelement Lol 😊

    • @winnifredforbes8712
      @winnifredforbes8712 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I agree! And I'm a drop-dead, gorgeous, blond, 21 year old!
      Just kidding.

    • @DMRJ53
      @DMRJ53 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      thefilthelement lol

    • @homiefromtheset7786
      @homiefromtheset7786 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, but YOU DO. You're just not seeing it yet.

    • @dreamitable
      @dreamitable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      hah thats funny, another funny thing is he is related to my husband thru George Soule from the Mayflower, they have the same DNA, also does Richard Gere....Dick is gorgeous and reminds me of my brother David who is tall too, Dick's voice is lovely and he is quick, another funny thing is my husbands girlfriend in the 70's was a waitress, she worked at a bar where Dick and other famous movie stars would frequent, in Scottsdale, AZ, Dick and many other famous men would pinch the waitresses butts, they were used to it and got big tips, she said Dick did this a lot, and I bet he was drunk at the time maybe does not remember but what do I know right...she told my husband this, so there is your proof...

  • @TheReal7Bit
    @TheReal7Bit 5 ปีที่แล้ว +829

    Cavett was at his best here. Compassionate but not pitiful, asking direct questions without being patronizing or judgmental. Beautiful little conversation piece, made all the more better by Van Dyke's acceptance and openness about his disease.

    • @Priory99
      @Priory99 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Agreed, he has a direct attitude and brought out the best in Dick Van Dyke.

    • @brian-beeler
      @brian-beeler 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Well said Mr. Tulip.

    • @lemurianchick
      @lemurianchick 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Mr. Tulip: You meant "not pitying."

    • @brainsareus
      @brainsareus 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Dick VD, is also, a good; socially conscious man.

    • @kevinodriscoll19
      @kevinodriscoll19 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Agreed, Cavet’s interviewing technique was spot on. Intelligent and conversational style. Dick Van Dyke has integrity and is open and honest. Puts the current interviewers to shame.

  • @ScottishMatters
    @ScottishMatters 5 ปีที่แล้ว +484

    One of the most eloquent, ego-less testimonies I've heard on alcoholism. It will continue to save lives with its release today.

    • @BIGTRBLINLILPODCAST
      @BIGTRBLINLILPODCAST 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Love

    • @leonardohummel8658
      @leonardohummel8658 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This was a classic and very helpful testimony and conversation.

    • @PittsburghSonido
      @PittsburghSonido 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It will save lives like Bernie’s presidency.
      LETS GOOO
      #BERNIE2020

    • @mattparr3038
      @mattparr3038 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeeeah buddy..

    • @Iconoclasher
      @Iconoclasher 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Dick Van Dyke was always a class act. One of the great icons of the 1960s. He was to TV what Clark Gable was to movies. Strikingly handsome with that beard!

  • @suneyeintuition4315
    @suneyeintuition4315 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I love that these two great gentlemen are still with us. August 2023. ❤❤

    • @marytheresejacksonlutz2533
      @marytheresejacksonlutz2533 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Amen! Still with us 12/15/2024. Van Dyke just celebrated his 99th birthday. Two of the good guys.

  • @gabbana1993
    @gabbana1993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    22days sober ,i know it looks short period of time,but i never been sober for so long since 2010,i even started to smile and workout😊

    • @lahicks9773
      @lahicks9773 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Gabbana, great job! It takes courage to do what you are doing. Be strong enough to ask for help when you need it. You are worth the effort. ❤

    • @stuartmacdonald4443
      @stuartmacdonald4443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Best of luck. I hope you can stay with it. If you fall off no shame start again.

    • @roberttownsend7397
      @roberttownsend7397 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You were a nicer person when you were drunk! Now you're a pain in the ass cleaning up the house and complaining about cobwebs in the corners and behind the TV set and dog hairs on the sofa! Ha! You won't be long getting tired of constantly cleaning up the house and brushing up the back yard and cutting the lawn! At least with having a belly full of booze the house could be like the town dump and you'd be lying on the floor happily snoring your head off with bubbles of whiskey coming down your nose! 22 days! For Gods sake have pity on your poor family and go back on the sauce! At least when you were on the floor snoring and half buried under last weeks newspapers, you were not bothering anyone! Now your a pain in the ass...get out there, get a few bottles and give your family a little peace and quiet!

    • @roberttownsend7397
      @roberttownsend7397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@gabbana1993 When I was commenting about you I was of course talking about myself and I was just about reaching the end of a bottle of whiskey. I speak in all honesty when I say I wish you the best of luck in what might not be a life or death battle, but is certainly a chance of a better life. It's a bit late for me since the woman I married was a non drinking battle axe, now she's a wine drinking bottle axe.! She's a Catholic who says that if wine is good enough for the Pope it's good enough for her! So she spends a lot of time in church lately, and she's inclined to sway a little when she comes home! No shortage of wine in the church so I'm told, so she might run off with the priest poor man, in any case my friend I'm off to lie on the floor under last weeks newspapers but I send you my genuine best wishes!

    • @thelapgods7374
      @thelapgods7374 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It isn't about time. It is about surrender acceptance and intent. Much love. You can do this.

  • @guitarreilly
    @guitarreilly 2 ปีที่แล้ว +401

    Still alive at 97 what an amazing story of recovery this man is. He’s so inspiring to me as an alcoholic. I used to think it helped. Now I feel so isolated and drink only by myself. It’s astonishingly destructive and no doubt the worst drug there is

    • @deb7518
      @deb7518 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Don't worry Friend, you'll get there. Sounds like you're already halfway there by admitting it. I'm praying for you.

    • @nostalgicbliss5547
      @nostalgicbliss5547 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Won't say the worst just the most easily accessible and socially acceptable.

    • @SofaKingShit
      @SofaKingShit ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@nostalgicbliss5547 Benzodiazepines are actually worse.

    • @nwicconsultants6640
      @nwicconsultants6640 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@SofaKingShit Absolutely two thumbs up on that statement. For those who have had to deal with the withdrawal effects from benzodiazepines.....any thing else is a walk in the park. Best wishes to you.

    • @TheTanelChannel
      @TheTanelChannel ปีที่แล้ว +5

      that plus it is interesting to see that even with alcohol abuse.. it did not shorten the lifespan like many would let you belive it would

  • @wendyporter1093
    @wendyporter1093 5 ปีที่แล้ว +470

    So nice to see two “real gentlemen “ have a non-judgmental conversation on a difficult topic. Good job, gentlemen! 👍🏻

  • @jspidey2k
    @jspidey2k ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I've met a lot of big name actors, and rockstars and I have to say, Dick Van Dyke is my absolute favorite. Unbelievably humble, kind, funny, open and engaging. A REAL star.

    • @brothajohn
      @brothajohn 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I worshipped him as a child. His TV shows, his guest appearances on Carol Burnett, Chitty Chitty Bang Bang. He was amazing.

    • @contractmed1
      @contractmed1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      One of the greatest entertainers and most charismatic people who ever lived. Words cannot describe how lucky we are to have him!

  • @macaz1986
    @macaz1986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +423

    9 months sober! It all started because of this video.

    • @kilgoretrout6136
      @kilgoretrout6136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Wow. Good for you.

    • @Neelt2001
      @Neelt2001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      That's wonderful. Congrats & best wishes going forward.

    • @lisamurry1371
      @lisamurry1371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are doing something very hard. You should feel very good about yourself.

    • @dereksmallsuk
      @dereksmallsuk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lies

    • @macaz1986
      @macaz1986 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dereksmallsuk thanks buddy!

  • @UltravioletFilms
    @UltravioletFilms 5 ปีที่แล้ว +220

    One of the most eloquent discussions about alcoholism I've heard.

  • @blessedmslady7016
    @blessedmslady7016 4 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    I'll have 1 year sober on Friday September 11, 2020🙏HALLELUJAH🙏

    • @NSGrendel
      @NSGrendel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Fred Sanderson Oh Fred. You went there. >_

    • @dirtysanchez941
      @dirtysanchez941 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good on you!!!

    • @risha2888
      @risha2888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Angels around you.

    • @lisamurry1371
      @lisamurry1371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are amazing in every way

    • @cammo777
      @cammo777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NSGrendel it was Israel.

  • @Israelwins
    @Israelwins หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Im recovering ive been sober and am thankfull for that since New Years eve 2023

  • @sign543
    @sign543 5 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    This is one of the best, most eloquent discussions about alcoholism I’ve ever heard. He knows his stuff.

    • @sign543
      @sign543 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ph0b0s0 - Thanks, I will! 👍🏼

    • @sleeves1235
      @sleeves1235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I am addicted to opioids and just replaced the word alcohol with pills and listened to this interview 2 or 3 times. I mean how great was Dick Cavett. If it was jimmy Kimmel, or jimmy falon, or james corden everything would of been laughing or a joke or interrupting the poor guy. What a classy interview guys. Thank you

    • @IsaacAsimov1992
      @IsaacAsimov1992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I'm addicted to sugar (chocolate, ice cream, cakes .....) and have to say there are very strong parallels with what Dick says about his addiction to alcohol.

    • @Mekinhumbel
      @Mekinhumbel 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sleeves1235 So true, but there's a lot of podcasts nowadays that are just as interesting as Dick Cavett's interviews were...you just have to look around.
      Good luck man. Get all the help you can, and just do your best to beat the demon. I've struggled with addiction myself, and I'm seeing some things in this interview to be concerned about alcohol-wise. The main thing I think is to find a way to give yourself a chance to compare what life is like with the drug vs. without it. I beat smoking that way--I forced myself to stay with the program even though I knew I felt better without the cigarettes. In the end, I was counting the days until I could stop smoking again--I was so glad to be rid of those things, and I still am.

  • @BrooklynJackBlue
    @BrooklynJackBlue 5 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    Six months clear and sober so far. Amazing to see this.

    • @pennyfleming3006
      @pennyfleming3006 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well done

    • @martinbrodie8507
      @martinbrodie8507 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      What I learned about staying sober is that it requires "rigorous honesty," like Mr. Van Dyke was.

    • @BrooklynJackBlue
      @BrooklynJackBlue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Currently sixteen months sober! A day-to-day reckoning is required with what I am and what could happen if I relapse, but so far? So good!

    • @williamolsen20
      @williamolsen20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for you. Keep up the good work.

    • @ChrisJagusch
      @ChrisJagusch 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Congratulations! I hope you're still doing well today

  • @katherinethacker4263
    @katherinethacker4263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +151

    Cavette was likable and good commentator. He didn't attack his guest or put them down. He asked intelligent questions and let his guests answer the question without interrupting or talking over them.

    • @richardking1438
      @richardking1438 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I like the seriousness of the conversations unlike today's crap

    • @dennissneed2214
      @dennissneed2214 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Too bad today's talk shows can't follow Dick Cavett's example...

    • @aj2isotadxing
      @aj2isotadxing 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      VERY rare these days. A great host and nobody pushing an agenda

    • @bobjohnson205
      @bobjohnson205 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@richardking1438 Like on "Kelly and Mark". lol

  • @JuniorExecutive1987
    @JuniorExecutive1987 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Imagine a time when this level of honest thoughtful conversation made for compelling enough content for people to sit down and listen to?

  • @CreativeCreatorCreates
    @CreativeCreatorCreates 5 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    He’s so smart, aware and true. His eyes are so deep and soulful. Bless him.

    • @juliecasey3283
      @juliecasey3283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sydney Jane I've met Dick he has the bluest eyes like wow great man

  • @mollydooker9636
    @mollydooker9636 4 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    I’ve never seen Dick interviewed before, he is incredibly self aware and articulate. Great interview. I miss these long, well researched and in depth interviews. Thanks for posting.

    • @dreamitable
      @dreamitable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree Laura, so lovely to enjoy and to experience, very well said...

    • @TehPwnographer
      @TehPwnographer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Some podcasts available now definitely reflect this style of interviewing! You just can’t find it on TV any longer.

    • @kenny8ism
      @kenny8ism 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@TehPwnographer Dick Cavett is a great interviewer

    • @ethos1236
      @ethos1236 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's a tribute to his character that he hasn't become judgemental and preachy, as some recovering addicts do.

    • @bartcolen
      @bartcolen 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You can find the video of Dick Van Dyke on Kevin Pollak's Chat Show in TH-cam. It's fantastic. Dick Van Dyke is SUCH a cool guy.

  • @gibsondrummer
    @gibsondrummer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +742

    That is the frankest admission of alcoholism i have ever seen in a celebrity

    • @trentsc4929
      @trentsc4929 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      No it's fraudulent. The demon of alchoholism and addiction is spiritual, supernatural portal for possession. This guy is saying it's all physical, and redirecting from the truth. Jesus cures these things, aa defines alchoholism as a spiritual problem also btw, that's the main reason for its success.

    • @Smudgie
      @Smudgie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think only an established actor whose very name ensures box office success could be so frank. We would probably condemn anyone less worthy.

    • @mysticblade35
      @mysticblade35 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Richard Burton's interviews are pretty good. He admits he has a problem, knows he has a problem, but the tragic part is that he doesn't want to stop.

    • @thewizardofperdido3059
      @thewizardofperdido3059 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@trentsc4929 So if a faithful individual isn't cured through faith alone, your supposition that you will present in analysis of their continued addiction will of course be that they are clearly not faithful enough, that there is a deep flaw in their character preventing them from being faithful enough to be cured by Jesus, rather than acknowledging the possibility that you are wrong or that you are a liar who is looking to invalidate the statements of those who have found medical treatment successfully, to deprecate them and accuse them of fraud in the interest of elevating your own hit-job ministry.
      Most people here aren't going to have much difficulty, looking between your statement and his, in determining who is engaging in fraudulent suppositions. He didn't invalidate the statements of those stating that they were cured by their faith, yet you felt the need to try and invalidate those who acknowledge a physiological cause in which their addiction is rooted. In favor of one which makes the faithful infallible to addiction and if which addiction is proof of faithlessness, of course. Also, AA fails somewhere around 95-97% of the people who enter into it, and attributes that failure of all but about the 3% of people entering into their program to character flaws/lack of faith rhetoric, rather than taking responsibility for a flawed praxis or lack of substantive alternative treatment practices, just as you're about to do. Something else which you were poised to try and lie about. Condemning those 97% to continued disease and suffering for the sake of attempting to advance your personal ministry through your mortal and lightly educated ley interpretation of scripture at the full expense of the sick and the vulnerable is a shameful and treacherous, blasphemous obscenity.

    • @bredtimestories
      @bredtimestories 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Craig Ferguson did a really good monologue about his alcoholism on his old late night show that started off as a defense of Brittney Spears when she was having a hard go of things; definitely worth a listen!

  • @bonnibling
    @bonnibling ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I love him. Always so humble and honest. His wife describes him as, "the most perfect human being, I've never met anyone so happy, so genuine, so amazing." Wishing him continued good health. ❤

  • @Quiche543
    @Quiche543 5 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    What a FANTASTIC explanation of alcoholism, heavy drinking and social drinking....I was really struggling tonight wanting to drink to numb some emotional pain from my sibling's recent death. In fact, I have two bottles of unopened wine sitting on my kitchen counter. I even got a favorite glass rinsed & ready for the pour, but hesitated long enough to watch this interview and before I got half way in, the craving vanished. You see, I've been sober for 14 months and LOVE being sober. I was SO angry today and so very angry today, I just wanted to drink it away and numb my pain, but really there is not enough wine in the world to numb me out and it will NOT take it away, just delay it. BUT it was THIS interview....I always loved Dick Van Dyck as an actor, but now admire him as a man who has a problem that he is successfully dealing with and helping the rest of us to deal with ours. Thank you Thank you Thank you for this whoever put it on here. It has stopped me from a big regret tomorrow.

    • @klewis2048
      @klewis2048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I would love to hear that you are 15 months sober now

    • @Quiche543
      @Quiche543 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      @@klewis2048 675 days & 21 hours sober according to my Quit Drinking app LOL

    • @lorimiller4301
      @lorimiller4301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Quiche543 way to go, good job. ☺

    • @Walter37165
      @Walter37165 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Very proud 👏 of you. The old adage the "Straight and narrow" is one of the most powerful things to ponder and understand that its courage that keeps one on that golden path. It will be two years July 11th for me. Keep strong!

    • @katandpapa
      @katandpapa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So sorry to hear about your loss...so thankful you didn't succumb to temptation! BE SAFE, GOD BLESS!🇺🇲🙏❤

  • @Skazzuk
    @Skazzuk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It's amazing how refreshing these old interviews are compared to the noisy, fast paced, overly fragmented talk shows you get today. Television bosses now think that viewers don't have the attention span to deal with two people just having an uninterrupted conversation for this length of time. They would see this as slow and boring. But that's just not true. It's fascinating, honest, engaging, eloquent, thoughtful and just wonderful.

  • @markmatthews248
    @markmatthews248 3 ปีที่แล้ว +268

    Coming into my 25th year of being sober. I can relate to all he said. It is liberating for an alcoholic to be free of the addiction.

    • @SuperBroncosguy
      @SuperBroncosguy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Addiction weighed me down. Emotionally & physically. Happy since 5-23-12. Bravo to all!
      Peace!

    • @93Jubilee
      @93Jubilee ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Congratulations~

    • @cynthiadavid5282
      @cynthiadavid5282 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Always admired dick van Dyke we can learn from this he is very honest forth coming

  • @zoltankaparthy9095
    @zoltankaparthy9095 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Cavett was a genius. The interview is perfect. Van Dyke was spot on. Clean and sober here since 3:30PM, 4 March 1982. My life has never been better.

    • @bbuzzard57
      @bbuzzard57 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Cavett also has conducted some of the worst interviews ever

    • @suescherdel6278
      @suescherdel6278 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Amazing! That’s about the same amount of time my (step)dad was sober until the day he passed away. What a blessing he was to my family. Congratulations on your sobriety! 😊

    • @zoltankaparthy9095
      @zoltankaparthy9095 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@suescherdel6278 The joke is that sober alkies are the only people in the world who expect a pat on the back for doing themselves a favor. LOL
      I am happy that your stepdad was able to get better and make your life better. That's the program. ;o)

  • @MrPlooky
    @MrPlooky 5 ปีที่แล้ว +311

    I can't see any movie stars today with this kind of honesty, and humility..

    • @blackbird5634
      @blackbird5634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      a very strong, sensitive discussion about a terrible disease. The disease model of alcoholism was not as widely accepted as it is now. But there is still stigma and much ignorance around the subject. This, as you say, is a beautiful and honest exploration of it.

    • @nossasenhoradoo871
      @nossasenhoradoo871 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      "I can't see any movie stars today with this kind of honesty, and humility."
      You're just fooled by the acting!

    • @helveeta
      @helveeta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And intelligence! Class act these guys were!

    • @PeteTash32
      @PeteTash32 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      There are very few movie stars today, there are just people who are in movies

    • @AllThatJuice-
      @AllThatJuice- 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      now its needed more than ever. celebs flaunt mental illness likes its the latest trend, but i cant remember a celebrity ever being this open about such a personal topic

  • @blaugranisto
    @blaugranisto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +164

    I'm 4 months sober and I relate to everything Dick said in this video! I'm not a social drinker, I drink alone and I drink just so I can feel better. It is a constant battle but it helps to know you are not alone.

    • @johnnymadcap4126
      @johnnymadcap4126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      How you doing? Hanging in there?

    • @blaugranisto
      @blaugranisto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@johnnymadcap4126 yes! I'm 1 year 4 months and 5 days sober. Thanks for the check up 🙏

    • @johnnymadcap4126
      @johnnymadcap4126 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@blaugranisto 7 months here

    • @blaugranisto
      @blaugranisto 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@johnnymadcap4126 That's awesome brother.

    • @PainShape
      @PainShape ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@johnnymadcap4126you still staying strong buddy? 8 months here

  • @clausmarcuslund
    @clausmarcuslund 5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    How eloquent this man is, this is high class. Great interview.

  • @brycemeyer839
    @brycemeyer839 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    50 years ago this aired, about 30 years before I was even born. I’m 20 and a mentally unstable man. Seeing something as raw as this from a time I thought was way more civilized just adds to my disappointment of current society, but also hope of being able to still have these serious moments. I’ve never really struggled with drinking, although I’ve had my moments, but this eloquence, honesty and integrity of this interview is astonishing. Thank you for blessing my often muddled feed with a pure clip as this one.

    • @terry9berry1
      @terry9berry1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You are so articulate, best wishes!

  • @vasishtvasan75
    @vasishtvasan75 4 ปีที่แล้ว +505

    He's still alive. Let that sink in.

    • @Hamigal
      @Hamigal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yes I was married to one for 28 yrs and with him for 32 yrs and he is dead...colon cancer 2008. Sad. He was a good man who could not quit.

    • @VioletJoy
      @VioletJoy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Hamigal Sorry to hear you lost your love. 💔

    • @paulwoodhouse4757
      @paulwoodhouse4757 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I saw this before the latest Mary Poppins and when he featured at the end... I just cried and cried... because we know what he has been through. If I live to 94+ I’ll be so surprised

    • @checkingmypito3125
      @checkingmypito3125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They freeze him?

    • @samsonmcgloughlin
      @samsonmcgloughlin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      William Shatner's wife also was lost to alcoholism. He found her floating face down in the pool.

  • @BrandonScottFox1
    @BrandonScottFox1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    This is amazing. I think Dick Van Dyke convinced me I can quit alcohol and still be a total badass and then some. I’m definitely an alcoholic and he made me understand why. He gave me the courage to know it’s perfectly fine to be sober. This man put forth so much class, wisdom, eloquence, knowledge and understanding it’s unbelievable. This is gold right here for anyone who may have an issue, which I do. Me and Van Dyke actually share the same birthday :) Bless you all

    • @quicksylver5684
      @quicksylver5684 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup you can do it .definitely.

    • @elessar5848
      @elessar5848 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Go for it! Don't give up !

    • @markg.4246
      @markg.4246 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Live in the problem, or live in the solution. It’s as simple as that! 5/8/94.

    • @SirPeter6464
      @SirPeter6464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I have never had a problem with alcohol because I realised it was a bad drug for me. So I don't do it. Not saying I would have been an alcoholic, but as soon as you think it is the answer to something you have lost. It isn't the answer. How could it be?

    • @gabriellejones6451
      @gabriellejones6451 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @nameless one you’re a worthy beautiful soul you can do all things through Christ who strength- nothing is impossible !

  • @brianfreeman5048
    @brianfreeman5048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    No bullshit this just changed my life

    • @woodyobi
      @woodyobi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Brian Freeman wow

    • @4orrcountry
      @4orrcountry 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@woodyobi Watch this video repeatedly and share it with others. Best wishes.

    • @stephenconway2468
      @stephenconway2468 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good luck.

    • @brendaannedufaur6244
      @brendaannedufaur6244 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So so so happy for you

    • @twkotb
      @twkotb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Brian Freeman Good luck, you can do it

  • @lauradean4332
    @lauradean4332 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    I have just balled my eyes out at this someone I adore & idolise has been where I am now, im 30yrs and I'm checking into detox again and for the 3rd time I am determined I totally relate to every word he's said I also have cut off all the user friends that just want to party! Thanks Mr Van Dyke for your openess and honesty. ❤ from UK

    • @jeffknighton5707
      @jeffknighton5707 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Praying for you. Ask God to help you. Be humble and vulnerable.

  • @samberger0357
    @samberger0357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    3.5+ years sober, and the only regret is that it took so long. Watching this is a wonderful reminder.

  • @HoodooMd
    @HoodooMd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Five years sober.
    My heart goes out to those who are lost in addiction.
    You deserve to live, and live well.
    Good luck.

  • @ArrKayLondon
    @ArrKayLondon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    17 years sober for me. Best thing I ever did, one day at a time.

  • @1234pouvez
    @1234pouvez หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    Today is December 13TH 2024. He was born 99 years ago. Happy Birthday.

    • @tsad5611
      @tsad5611 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Gives this old alcoholic hope for some longevity.

  • @frankdodd3355
    @frankdodd3355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +222

    I'm someone who found alcohol to be the "social lubricant" they say it is. I was terribly shy, until college. Alcohol turned that corner, and I had great experiences. Life opened up. Then, as alcohol took its toll, it became a burden. It's a toxin. It's a horrible, murderous thing. Alcohol is the saddest thing shy people ever discovered. It is death.

  • @Archer335
    @Archer335 5 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I’ve never seen Mr. Van Dyke in an interview before.
    What a classy, intelligent, articulate man.
    I’m glad that he got over his addiction.
    And Mr. Cavett did another great job as interviewer.
    Wonderful, just wonderful.

    • @iainsinclair8875
      @iainsinclair8875 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      The pros of a good drinking habit!

    • @zapkvr
      @zapkvr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Addiction my arse

    • @4orrcountry
      @4orrcountry 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@zapkvr Alcoholism is when the body is addicted to alcohol. That's why drunks have the shakes until they have their next drink. It's also why they have delirious tremors (aka the DT's...) and the shakes when they begin the process of stopping drinking.

    • @zapkvr
      @zapkvr 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@4orrcountry It's delirium tremors you IDIOT. Jesus. And you're wrong about everything else

    • @Pedro-kt7qg
      @Pedro-kt7qg หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zapkvrcome again?

  • @lotrcdefender
    @lotrcdefender 5 ปีที่แล้ว +458

    Damn he’s a beautiful guy.

    • @schmingusss
      @schmingusss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It's his hair.

    • @SweetBlackSistah
      @SweetBlackSistah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I always thought he was handsome.

    • @roccop913
      @roccop913 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That smile

    • @dreamitable
      @dreamitable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      so so yes !!! I am enjoying so much, love how he changed his face when expressing forgot what it was, his acting talent was so evident there....

    • @grizzlybear4
      @grizzlybear4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True!

  • @SmartStart24
    @SmartStart24 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Wow what a handsome, kind, thoughtful, and well-spoken man! Please start making celebs like this again!

    • @contractmed1
      @contractmed1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      One of the great ones!

    • @KnowingDogs
      @KnowingDogs 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think he is one of a kind!

  • @runly1
    @runly1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    This is the most succinct explanation of alcoholism I've ever heard. I am recovered, but the only reason I clicked on this was because I've loved Dick Van Dyke for over a quarter century and never heard his take on this subject. Almost everything he said was my exact experience. Is it possible to love him more?

  • @strwbrywoman
    @strwbrywoman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    One of the finest explanations of alcoholism I've ever heard.

  • @maciejk3991
    @maciejk3991 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    Dick Cavett is probably one of the best - if not the best - interviewers in TV history.

    • @humidhaney
      @humidhaney ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agree

    • @robbratcher4675
      @robbratcher4675 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yep

    • @funkychickenthesecond2102
      @funkychickenthesecond2102 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Personally I can’t stand him and think he’s just average as an interviewer. He got great guests though and who were very interesting, so this helped him a lot.

  • @hibob418
    @hibob418 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    This show was in what, the mid-70’s?
    Talking of addiction as being a disease back then way ahead of its time. Many people to this day don’t believe that’s the case, whether it’s booze, or opioids, or even pot.
    Dick was just one of a kind. Still going at 98, such a wonderful man, and the frank openness about his own battle has hopefully gotten a lot of people the help they truly needed - some even commenting here on this clip. Continued strength to you all.

  • @stellarocquie7957
    @stellarocquie7957 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    This was SO heavy, and UNHEARD OF IN DISCUSSIONS, particularly publicly at the time. WOW! Kudos to Dick for bringing this to America, almost 50 years ago! P.S. Dick looks almost the same on this show as he does in 2022! Amazing! Thank you again for being such trailblazer!

  • @frizzyred1292
    @frizzyred1292 5 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Dick Cavett is a gentleman, just the best at interviews.

    • @theUroshman
      @theUroshman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definitely, as is Dick Van Dyke! The epitome of class, both of them.

    • @abelincoln5698
      @abelincoln5698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And got the most interesting interviewees

    • @japan32japan
      @japan32japan 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      frizzy red I totally agree... his questioning was sharp but respectful at the same time and he did ask a lot of questions that were interesting..... 2 fantastic entertainers

    • @abelincoln5698
      @abelincoln5698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Councilman Les Wynan today's talk show hosts are self important chumps who are trying to get their own misguided agendas across , and the laughs are few and far between.

  • @haroldclark1787
    @haroldclark1787 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    He is a national treasure, a gift to humanity, and a very good soul, indeed.

    • @dreamitable
      @dreamitable 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      he sure is !!!

  • @P99-v6n
    @P99-v6n หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Two gentlemen have a meaningful and nuanced conversation on TV. Complete impossibility today.

  • @johndimick1767
    @johndimick1767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I had no idea that Dick Van Dyke is such a thoughtful, well-spoken, gentlemanly person.
    If you should happen to read this, Mr. Van Dyke, just add me to the list of millions whose lives were made just a little bit better by you.
    And likewise to you, Mr. Cavett,. You gave us a certain high-quality access to many of the leading personalities of our times. Ali, Brando, Lennon, Burton, Rubenstein... just a few of your many interviews that informed my life.
    And now there's treasure that I'd missed, like Dick Van Dyke and Ian Mckellen -- and you.
    I didn't know then, but I know now, how much is accomplished by even a small act of goodness. It ripples onward forever. So thank you both.

  • @leolovell6218
    @leolovell6218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    The man is pure class he's been sober since 1972.

  • @jamesdrynan
    @jamesdrynan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Van Dyke is so eloquent and forthright about his illness. Cavett didn't shy away from the discussion, which probably had a significant impact on some viewers who shared the affliction. Without breaking the anonymity pledge, he laid it on the line. He had a fantastic life after achieving sobriety. An important dialogue for any time.

  • @suzyjack1
    @suzyjack1 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Many years ago I had the pleasure of assisting Dick Van Dyke at waht was then the Century Plaza Hotel with his checkout. He is the most gracious, lovely person that you can imagine. He waited in line patiently and smiled at me and made small talk. He is a true gentleman.

  • @myopenmind527
    @myopenmind527 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    You really have to respect his honesty. I didn’t realise that he’d gone through this ordeal.

    • @DMRJ53
      @DMRJ53 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      My OpenMind he IS really calm and honest

  • @drunkdadchronicles
    @drunkdadchronicles ปีที่แล้ว +22

    i'm 19 months sober from my alcohol addiction. Dick is a true hero for coming forward and also offering up such great insight, and to be honest a lot of it I already know but as an alcoholic you really need it reinforced to yourself on a daily basis believe it or not because the alcoholic thought process is constantly working against it's self. What can i say hearing this interview is a true blessing and is a reminder that if you're suffering from alcohol addiction you are not alone there is hope if you choose to embrace it.

  • @DJWHITE_
    @DJWHITE_ ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Its great that these kinds of interviews are timeless. It's a shame TV isn't like this any more.

  • @soulone22
    @soulone22 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    The most eloquent discussion I have ever heard regarding alcohol addiction. Thank you Dick Van Dyke for being so honest, humble and open about your past addiction to alcohol.

  • @trublgrl
    @trublgrl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Reading the comments from people who have overcome alcoholism is absolutely thrilling. I salute your strength of character, your stick-to-it-iveness, and your love of your selves and your families. While falling in may not be a failing, rising out is a triumph. Thank you for your stories.

  • @daxxonjabiru428
    @daxxonjabiru428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +732

    No random hooting or applause breaks from the audience. It was a simpler time.

    • @SteveMudflapMcGrew
      @SteveMudflapMcGrew 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Daxxon Jabiru it was a much better time We were a civilized society

    • @c.suepalmer3795
      @c.suepalmer3795 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Daxxon Jabiru - Yes, it was a time when rudeness was unacceptable. And civil discussion was “normal”. I’ve seen just how downhill our discourse has become from the 1950’s.

    • @nathanbruce1992
      @nathanbruce1992 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@SteveMudflapMcGrew wasnt this when interracial marriage was still illegal and black people weren't given equal protection under the law?
      I mean to point out that it is easy to view the past in a certain lens by choosing one or two things. I think we are much more civilized now, and just like back then, the timeless conversations will be what last

    • @SteveMudflapMcGrew
      @SteveMudflapMcGrew 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Nathan Bruce yawn. Tired. And totally wrong. But keep pushing a victim mentality

    • @SteveMudflapMcGrew
      @SteveMudflapMcGrew 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Blank Blank yawnnnnnnnn. Victim mentality bs.

  • @Tmanaz480
    @Tmanaz480 5 ปีที่แล้ว +254

    A pure conversation show. Not a variety/chat show like we see nowadays.

    • @anaaguilar2310
      @anaaguilar2310 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Tmanaz480 Ya incredible, touching interview

    • @Dwellerz
      @Dwellerz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The pure conversation has moved from television to podcasts

    • @kremzupa_69
      @kremzupa_69 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Indeed. Incomparable to the Ellen show, for example.

    • @sugarfalls1
      @sugarfalls1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Takes a lot for a high profile actor like that to admit to having a flaw. I'm sure he touched a lot of people.

    • @michaelhutchinson3901
      @michaelhutchinson3901 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tmanaz480
      Check out Joe Rogan Here on TH-cam. 3 hr conversations like this... Really more free flowing. Rohan doesn’t ask as many pointed questions. It just meanders and ends up in tons of interesting places.

  • @Mamalinz00
    @Mamalinz00 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What a wonderful interview! So happy to have stumbled across it.
    Words of wisdom from dear old Dick…I am 1 yr & 2 months sober and in recovery from this wretched disease of alcoholism.
    Anyone who is battling to get and stay sober, please don’t stop trying! It took me 5 yrs to finally put it down and if I can do it so can you ❤

  • @obelix703
    @obelix703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    And he’s still alive, and in better shape than many (literally) half his age.

    • @vincentanguoni8938
      @vincentanguoni8938 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought he must have died...I grew up watching his show!

    • @celtictillidie67
      @celtictillidie67 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I thought he was dead also I was shocked when I stumbled upon this hes very handsome very honest n very handsome

    • @ImHandlingIt
      @ImHandlingIt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And STILL alive today!​@@celtictillidie67

  • @markzappasodi
    @markzappasodi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Dick sounds so professional here he could be mistaken for an alcohol counselor himself. Very well spoken and educated. Congratulations on your sobriety.

    • @4orrcountry
      @4orrcountry 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Well not only did Dick go through the process of stopping drinking alcohol, his wife also did the same and then became an alcohol counselor.

    • @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823
      @windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Most CADCs I know are morbidly obese. I personally never got how they're addicted and going to tell anyone else how to get better.

  • @stevepayne5965
    @stevepayne5965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    What a kind, beautiful, gentle and honest soul. I always expected him to be a nice man; I never knew he was this lovely.

  • @georgeh5075
    @georgeh5075 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I'm a young man, way below 30, and it's very sad to me that this calibre of interview and respectfulness no longer exists

  • @paulaalves7501
    @paulaalves7501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    this is the most well done interview ever done about alcoholism to a very intelligent person that suffer from this addiction. USING THIS IN MY CLASS

  • @glyph2011
    @glyph2011 5 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Wow. What a conversation. Both of them Living Legends. Marvellous interview.

    • @menssuccessbible3806
      @menssuccessbible3806 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Van Dyke is a legendary racist that makes sure the only brown people around are servants.

  • @cliffbarber6058
    @cliffbarber6058 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    He's telling it like it is. and still relevant in 2020. 30 years sober here.

  • @123yeet
    @123yeet ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Wow - this is truly astounding. Dick Van Dyke speaks so intelligently and calmly. Just a timeless piece that is just as helpful today as when it aired. Nothing of value like this on TV today.

  • @dodgedriver9720
    @dodgedriver9720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +334

    that beard is magnificent

    • @lisadc4681
      @lisadc4681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He is magnificent! Always loved him since
      childhood..and yes, that beard just enhances his beautiful face. ❤❤❤

    • @deanwilletts7428
      @deanwilletts7428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      dodge driver Same beard he had in that Columbo episode he did!

    • @dodgedriver9720
      @dodgedriver9720 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@deanwilletts7428 thats right , i wonder if he had just done the episode before this interview .

    • @gopherstate777
      @gopherstate777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think they call it, a Van Dyke!

    • @ML-rc7kb
      @ML-rc7kb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No beard better

  • @Pretermit_Sound
    @Pretermit_Sound ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Watching in May, 2023, and D. Van Dyke is still with us. Amazing interview. So grateful that these old shows are available here on TH-cam

  • @reedallyn1767
    @reedallyn1767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Class act, and credible and articulate. He is still alive and seems to have come out the other end.

  • @FPwLola
    @FPwLola ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Dick Van Dyke was one of my first crushes. He has remained a beacon of wholesomeness and talent and he's a comedic genius. I never knew he was an alcoholic, but he is even more dear. That he overcame and is still here. Thanks, this was good. 💗

    • @cincin4515
      @cincin4515 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mine too. He's still tall, handsome and looking 20 years younger than his real age.
      Must be all the smiling and dancing and lovely personality that keeps him young.

    • @FPwLola
      @FPwLola ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cincin4515 Indeed! I heard him on a late night show and he said he eats an ice cream sundae every day, because as a kid he could never have ice cream and he loves it. That might be part of his longevity too. Quality of life! 😊