The biggest problem is the majority says “am Muslim” while their behavior and dress code doesn’t They don’t part they don’t wear correct hijab they lie ….
@@samielkarrat9114 every human being sins there’s no perfect human only the prophets peace be upon them (and even them did mistakes but of course not major ones ) So even if you kill someone or do something extremely bad you are still a Muslim I’m the eyes of god because you might repent and be a better Muslim so they have every right to say they’re Muslims and of course it’s up to us others to encourage them to be better people and to follow the right path
@@lili13 no there’s things that makes you out of Islam like not prying as the prophet says العهد الذي بيننا وبينهم الصلاة، فمن تركها فقد كفر Like for الكاسيات العاريات لا يدخلن الجنة و لا يجدن ريحها 🤷🏽♂️
@@lili13 he meant that she is just one example of women who have the choice to make sins, choice to wear hijab or not and how she wears it. Many other Muslim women aren’t even allowed to study or leave house
Proud for actually what ? In india muslim women have half rights of what women of other religion have. Do you knw rwcently there were protests bcs supreme court said women have rights in alimony ?
@@dodo-nz2nj i am proud to be muslimah it's mean I am follow islam and I know about allinomy which impliment in India recently but as a muslimah we take allinomy for what let me say one thing in islam their two.think one , mehram, that means that man which you cannot marry like your biological bro ,sun other one one is nonehram that mean that man who can marry with you and after divorce the relationship between husband and wife will automatically end that' why her ex husband will become non mehram for her and according to islam a non mehram have not right to full fill the needs of her ex wife yes if they have any kids than man have mendetary to give money for their kids and you said allinomy allinomy through this suprem court not give us right infact they take our right , if anyone not happy or they not like to each other in relationship than they take divorce but you take the right of Muslim women if someone wants to take divorce than she cannot take divorce become he never give becouse if he give divorce her than he should give allinomy untill death than tall me he would give her divorce if she wantsand also you take the right of man I hope you understand if you not than I will try you should understand yet cannot speak anything about knowning anything
There Is Only SAFETY In The Name God Of👍ISRAEL"S Nation👍/JHVH.Messiah Or Jesus Christ Is The Holy Spirit And Word Or Verses In TheForm Huaman Child🙏Jesus Christ God Is The WAY And The TRUTH And The LIFE🙏Differents By Muslim/ISLAM That Worshiped God Of Muhammad Is TheArants.Perverted.Crazy.Like Polygamy.Robber.Sex Predator"s Of Underage Women.Killer Or Muhammad Is Dead Man Is Desert DAJJAL"S allah Or Desert DEVIL"S god Of HIRA Cave Or ARAB"S Land.hhhhh DISGUSTING
in which parts of the world before the 19th century, women had the right to study, the right to inheritance, had a say in making decisions, the right to apply for divorce and court proceedings, the right to apply for a dowry at will, the right to receive property in divorce, the right to custody of children if the child was not yet an adult and the costs had to be borne by the father, the right having your own wealth, the right to lead a company and so on... all of this has existed since the beginning of Islamic law and has existed since the time of the Prophet Muhammad SAW....
exactly, ma sha Allah, those who through these accusation see Children dying in certain places not only in Middle East also the poor ones in Africa who have their resources taken by their countries that pull human right cards, and yet "certain media" wants to tell us they worry about women rights .. this does not work anymore, people are seeing it with current war..
😂 I'm a Muslim and the mother always has the custody elness there's a reason why she can't have it like being I'll or being immoral... which is logical@@FINALBOSS-BF
I was gonna comment that as well. All this meanwhile the women in the Western world didn‘t have these rights or at least not all of these. And let‘s not forget that it was a Muslima who invented (not sure if that‘s the correct term here?) the university.
I think its kind of like how you saw people change perspectives during the 'covid lockdown'. A lot of Westerners want something with more substance, and a deeper life. The shallow materialistic empty existence is wearing on them. They seek real connections and then find it through Allah.
Obviously you are too stupid and ignorant to know that first woman to be elected as prime minister of a country was Sirimavo Bandaranaike of Ceylon (present-day Sri Lanka), when she led her party to victory in the July 1960 general election, and in the West ,Margaret Thatcher was prime minister in 1979. To show much islam respects women, Benezir Bhutto was shot in the head in pakistan.
The talk focuses on the objection of feminists in Islam because of: polygamy, Islamic inheritance law, dress codes, women’s freedom in elections, and I believe gender equality. 1.Polygamy is beneficial for women: Many women suffer from problems with infertility or illness and are unable to provide for their husband’s needs, whether physical or to have children. Polygamy helps the first wives to keep their husbands, as well as an opportunity for the second wife to obtain a husband, and the interests of the three people are achieved. Many things can be provided. There are various examples of the benefits of polygamy for women, but men will certainly suffer from greater responsibilities in polygamy, such as financial support, justice between wives, etc. 2. Inheritance: The rules of inheritance are related to many things, such as gender, kinship, and the number of individuals of each gender. Therefore, women get a larger share than men in different situations. But what feminists ignore is that the inheritance that men take is a legal duty to be spent on his women, his wife, his mother, his daughter, etc. . While the inheritance that a woman receives is her right only, and there is no law that obligates the wife to support her husband or her relatives. On the contrary, support is for men only. 3. The Islamic dress code is for the benefit of women, to protect them from rapists and harassers of women, or those who pursue women to seduce them with false marriage promises, then exploit them physically and then say, “I am not thinking about marriage now.” Therefore, a woman’s body, clothes, perfume, and hair are among the things that naturally arouse a man’s instinct for a woman. Therefore, men will love to have a relationship with her, so he may try to exploit her or flirt with her to get a romantic date, but it is not a romantic date, but a date only to relieve his lust. While in Sharia law, modest clothing, such as a seat belt for a woman, will not attract the attention of foreign men so that they will not harm her. It will also give a signal to men that the woman is respectable and deserves to be his future wife because she does not try to draw the attention of foreign men to her. 4. There is no concept of gender equality in family law: because women have greater care rights commensurate with the nature of their gender, and men have greater responsibilities according to their physical nature and strength of character. However, according to the penal laws, everyone is punished with the same punishment, because they are both sane and will be punished for their actions in accordance with Islamic law. 5. Regarding women’s voting in elections: There is no concept in Sharia of democratic elections in the West, but the king or president is often chosen from people of opinion who are close to the government and know the best people to head the government. The issue of collective elections is a way to manipulate people's minds with false promises or to provide them with desires and money, and not for the sake of preserving morals and protecting society from money thieves in gambling clubs, usurious banks, etc. 6. The ban on women driving cars was due to the nature of social, cultural and security life, because no father or husband would make his wife drive a car in desert areas without protecting his family members, as well as the changing social circumstances in the inability of many men to serve their wives with the increase in the number of female employees. Therefore, the workplace of the husband and wife was very far apart. Likewise, the fatwas of some Muslim scholars stated that a woman driving a car was safer for her than riding alone with a foreign driver. Therefore, approval has been issued for women to drive cars now, while achieving great interests for the Saudi family and women.
I have a Hindu friend who has two wives. The first wife took cares of the kids and household while the second wife helps him in his business. Regretfully because the Law only recognized the first wife the second wife and her children are not protected by Law.
This woman's name is Fatima Al-Fihri Al-Qurashi, the daughter of Uqba bin Nafi, the conqueror of northern Morocco. Therefore, she is a Quraish Arab, but she is definitely Moroccan in residence
@@عبدالله-ن6ه2ص That's not correct. Fatima migrated with her father and sister from Qayrawan in Tunisia to Fez in Morocco. hence the name of the university. She was Tunisian.
Archeological records show that Nalanda in India was established in 427 CE and is still considered to be the first residential university. The university taught philosophy, grammar, medicine, logic, and mathematics. It flourished for eight centuries until it was destroyed by islamic savages in the 12th century and was designated a UN Heritage Site in 2016
Didalam Islam lelaki boleh poligami berkahwin sehingga 4 isteri, tetapi kebanyakan didalam lelaki muslim Islam tidak ramai yg melakukan berpoligami berkahwin sehingga 4 isteri. Itu realitinya. Jika seorang lelaki tidak mampu didalam poligami dari segi kemampuan kewangan ataupun tidak mampu dari segi lain tidak di izinkan berpoligami, cukup sekadar seorang isteri saja. Kebanyakan lelaki muslim realitinya tidak ada yg berpoligami, mungkin 1/1000. Kerana kebanyakan setia pada 1 orang isteri saja. Hanya jikalau ada kekurangan dari segi isu kekeluargaan, seperti isteri tidak mampu mempunyai anak, maka pilihan lelaki berkahwin UTK isteri kedua. Kadang-kadang si suami mampu dari segi kewangan dan segi batin maka lelaki boleh memilih berkahwin lebih dari 1 orang. Tapi hakikatnya tidak ramai yg melakukannya berpoligami realiti lelaki Islam masa kini.
The funny thing is, Islamic sharia regarding marriage used to be the thing christians would rebuke islam for in the medieval ages. The complaint then was that women had rights and could appeal for divorce etc, meaning Islam was too liberal in their point of view. But today you see Islamic sharia for marriage and women being criticized by the same society for the exact opposite reason, that Islam is too conservative.
As a convert I am even more accepting of polygamy than some women who were born Muslims and got brainwashed by the western idea of what a marriage should be. I love my muslims sisters and I would prefer sharing a good husband with one of them than seeing them or me ending up with a bad husband. If I had a husband who didn’t treat me correctly then I wouldn’t want him to get a second wife just because I don’t want my sisters in Islam to go through what I am going through. If all the good man had more than one wife and women would accept it, life would be easier. I feel bad for some muslims women that never got married, all of them should be able to have a good husband and a family.
I am from Saudi Arabia all the girls in my family finished PHD some in USA and some in Uk.. all worked and drive cars except few they didn’t want so they bring a driver cause they find the traffic crazy 😅.. we chose who to marry or not and of course we travel around the world in vacations.. what else we need ???😂😂😂😂
On heritance, one of the reason the daughter would get half of her brother: Husband has to provide for his wife. All her essential needs are taken care of. House bills, food, etc all has to be provided by him. Even if she were to work, she gets to keep 100% of her salary for herself. Husband can not force her to provide as well. Ofc, a marriage means to also compromise. If the husband is struggling, out of the goodness of her heart, she can also take care of the family. Since in life, the man has more financial stress and burden on his shoulders, The Creator of the Worlds, ordered for the son to get twice as much as the daughter. Say a woman gets 10k and the son gets 20k: the son will share the 20k with his wife and kids. The woman gets to keep her 10K. There are more laws as regarding the wife when the husband dies, mother and sister..but I just gave an example between a daughter and son.
iIndonesia is a predominantly Muslim country and one of the nations with the largest Muslim populations. It has been led by a female president, whereas for many years, despite its democracy, the United States has never had a female president, at least not until now.
When you get a chance, watch ‘The Bible Led Me To Islam’ revert Joshua Evans story. It’s long, about 90 minutes but he explains his story in a light hearted funny way. It’s a really good video
{فانكحوا ما طاب لكم من النساء مثنى وثلاث ورباع فإن خفتم ألا تعدلوا فواحدة} وفي السورة نفسها في موضع آخر، نقرأ قوله سبحانه:
{ولن تستطيعوا أن تعدلوا بين النساء ولو حرصتم} الآية واضحة جدا بأنه لايجب التعدد الا بالضرورة القصوى فقط ويفضل دائما الزواج بواحدة فقط لتحقيق العدل. {marry as many women as you please, two, three or four, and if you fear that you will not be able to do justice, then one} In the same Surah in another place, we read the Almighty saying: {And you will not be able to treat women justly, even if you strive} The verse is very clear that polygamy is not required except by extreme necessity and it is always preferable to marry only one woman to achieve justice.
Even i as a muslim iraqi woman think about this topic a lot , unfortunately this depends on each individual, ive changed the way my father and mother and brother, till this day we bicker about what's a traditional and what's religiously acceptable, it needs patience and lots of work. بس الحمدلله
As a man i can confirm 99% of us will want more than one if given the chance but i can also confirm 90% of that same grp will regret it after a 2/3mths. Taking care of one is straining enough physically and mentally esp if in Islam you’re are obligated to go 50/50 on everything. Each wives obligated to have their own house, if one gets a gift every wives gets the same, if you spent a night with one you have to spend a night with the rest the same etc. God really said He will give us the pleasures and burdens of Polygyny😭🤣
Probably mostly Arab people. If I have money and the opportunity to get a second spouse, I will not. I don't see the point of having more than one. If you talk about sex, one wife is plenty enough for that
@@ricedrown i can respect that. To each their own. But there’s a reason why so many scandals happened when a man reached midlife. It’s human nature to get bored of the same person, even more so for men. Men stay content and loyal bcoz we choose to be. In a alternate universe where its normal everywhere for polygamy and women have no jealousy on that nearly everyone that can afford it will marry again when they reach a certain years in their first marriage.
I'd love to see more of your guys' reaction to Mohammad Hijab. This dude is smart and I'm sure y'all can learn a lot from him as I learned a lot from just watching him, Mashaallah.
Pilgrimage marriage has rules and it is not a click of a button in husband's application. Also Muslim woman does not take husband's family name, she keeps hers.
She is amazing as always the same as you are , please take care of each other may Allah bless you both and your family and may Allah guide you to the right path and bring you peace happiness and love with good health. You guys are very lucky Allah loves you that’s why you’re discovering this beautiful Islam religion. Love you and love your show.
many men died during wars and many womens with the children are left without their partner this one of many reasons islam has allowed to have more than one wife so would you prefer to be a second wife or not marry at all ?, you can only marry a second wife or third if you are able to maintain equal lifestyle and financial stability, example if you bought one your wifes home or car other wifes should have similar things not more or less, and it goes beyond it not just about finances but also with love and spending equal time with your wifes, and many more.
i recommend that you watch more of mohamed hijab he has so much knowledge that i myself have learned about my own religion more because of him, so id definitely recommend you two listen to more of his videos!!!
I live in Indonesia. We've been the biggest Muslim majority country in the entire world & my mom was a government official, so IDK what she's talking about. 🤷
women can handle that emotionally. they get mad because they know they cant trip because he has another and he can quickly replace her or she knows she cant control him or manipulate him.
As a Muslim woman, it took me some time to accept the idea of polygamy. I realized what really stops us from accepting it is the Western ideology about love. The Western world portrays love like a fairy tale. That kind of love does not even work in their own culture thus almost 50% end up divorces and that is if your relationship even made it to marriage. Now I'm working on absorbing what love really means with respect to fulfilling my deen.
He hasn't answered the polygamy correctly. The full answer in Islam is “If he marries a 2nd wife he needs to treat them both fairly, he cannot have a favourite. If he does injustice to one wife then on the day of judgment the husband's whole body will be bent. So one wife is better. I've had this discussion with my husband and he said he will never marry a second wife. I'm enough for him Alhumdulliah for a beautiful person like my husband ❤
Quite frankly, the men who exercise polygamy in Muslim countries are an overwhelming minority because there are so many pre-requisites to satisfy such as the ability to be fair, being able to afford two or more families, no to mention having the energy. Polygamy is more of a situational flexibility than a right that can be exercised. From war widowers, to an imbalance in male to female population ratio and women having their rights safeguarded through matrimony. It solves more problems than it creates
I am a muslim living in the middle east, if i get married i will write in my contract that: my husband is more than welcome to marry again another woman but, divorce me first. If you want someone else go ahead be my guest but divorce me first. Its not coming from ego or anything, i cannot handle it emotionally and its not forbidden in my religion and i have the right as well. If as a woman i am not given this choice in Islam, i wouldn't be a Muslim
Telling him to divorce you will make him look bad. At the same time, you are opening the door for him to easily divorce you also. If he ever decides to marry a widow, or an orphan, or a divorcee for example, try to remain in the relationship. If after a while, you cant handle it, then ask for the divorce. Btw in divorce, I think the wife gets nothing - properties etc are his if he paid for. It s not like in the west where it is 50/50 even if the man paid for everything.
There is hadith where prophet Muhammad said when man marry, he complete half of his deen. By this because man should be content, mature and reliable enough to be marry a women. That kind of man will be provide enough things that would make his wife happy and their family. Polygamy is pemissable but not necessary, because that would be near impossible to do so. If a man couldnt give what supposingly he give then he will be unfair to his wives. Then he will be the bad husband.
it's not about only woman even men also cover their hair if you see many Muslim wear hat because they have less hair so the hat keep the job done and woman have long hairs that's why hijab scarf can be required
As a muslim teenage girl who learned about islam after years of just ringing around thinking which religion is righteous and i always wondered Why islam asks women to cover herself up but obliges men to cover up only from a navel to knee which is very important that,a man can not show it to the other man, So I started noticing the fact that When a woman passes from a street where group of boys stand & no matter how respectful they are in general but atleast once in their lives they do say something No one would ever want to hear and men & women both have different perspectives when a woman talks about a random guy even if he is not that good looking,it is always different than what men usually talk about a woman either she is ugly or not and this is true that it is the fault of men not her & that's why islam prohobited men to look at women and look down when a women is passing by no matter what her age is and no matter what she is wearing either it is burqa or shorts, And also western community has made the womenhood look like it is only about the way her thighs look or her body type or her breast,this is so desrespectful but women themselves never realise it,Overall as much as I know is that We muslims who have basic knowledge of islam we view objectificlation completely different then west does.
I am angry muslim about women rights in Islam but this is for our test and for better community very important, after many researching got everything has deep positiveness. Yes my grandfather got 2 wives, bcoz at war time he was happy with his first wife with children but my grandma parents worried to kidnap young girls so my grandma 12 years old when she got marry but she was ok she said there was so cruel time and i got safe after marriage with old man 😢, at least he was in police and in war time little girls getting married to them to safe theirseves not to be kidnapped from enemy groups.
if you want to hear it from the Quran and our side as Muslims and how we see it i would recommend you to watch ' Zakir Naik ' he has alot of videos about almost all the topics mentioned in Quran and comparing it with other books from other religions
Love how Han is pleasantky suprised with Kelly when she talks about polygomy and says woman should work through the emotions 😂❤ Polygamy in the Muslim world is not as common as people may think. Very few men persue the idea as it is a lot more complicated to commit to more than one wife in reality than in their imagination.
Small correction: You don’t need to say sharia law, sharia translated to English means law. So you can just say sharia or Islamic sharia, because by saying sharia law you’re basically saying law law. 😅
Polygyny (polygamy) can be a beautiful things, if done well and everyone is mature about it. It can give you the opportunity to grow and be a better version of yourselves
What did paul say about women hair in the bible? Corinthians 11 "And every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head--it is just as though her head were shaved. If a woman does not cover her head, she should have her hair cut off; and if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut or shaved off, she should cover her head."
I would simply answer, Muslim Countries do not necessarily mean they follow Islam. Just as Usa is suppose to be a Christian Country but are aiding a Genocide of Children in Gaza. So , Yes Women have rights in Islam.
You should watch the movie The Message, where you can understand that women before the advent of Islam were worthless and humiliated, and with the advent of Islam they had many rights. Islam supported women and treated them as a person of high value. The Islamic countries in which women are humiliated are countries that preferred to apply outdated traditions as well as Islam, for example, Tunisia, a Muslim country in North Africa, has the second most important group of female scholars in the world, and the percentage of female judges and doctors is higher than the percentage of men. I hope you watch the stories of the daughters of our Prophet Muhammad, the Messenger of God, and you will truly know that Islam honors women
In my opinion, polygamy in Islam is a solution to a condition, because in the verses of the Koran polygamy is permitted accompanied by a condition (the perpetrator must be able to act fairly), so it cannot be done carelessly.
God is certainly the All knowledgable!! And his Shariah or Divine legislation works in all times places and circumstances. Just think about it guys!! In times of wars and conflicts when the majority of men go to defend their lands Which often can result in females out numbering males who gonna take care of the left over women?? How society gonna assures its survival?? Hence we muslims take our morality from the Creator's infallible divine objective source not from the creation subjective one Which keeps changing with whims and desires. And human history is the best witness to it.
In Pakistan Men can marry more than one women but losses his respect in family as children grow older. So marrying more than one is just not good for Men in long run. Hijab other other hand liberates women from all the fashion industry and she can out make-up when it's necessary.
funny! Every person believes diffrently i think but what i believe is islam is the most "woman right based religion ever" just think our prophet always been surrended by women 2 mothers sisters and only daugters... Like a sign... what i believe is in Islam there is "female prophet" -Prhophet: person who talked with the angel gabriel - in Quran it is directly wirtten that mariem talked with gabriel.I believe that women are way more precious than the men think in İslam ...
I am not a Muslim scholar rather a Muslim born in a Muslim family in a Muslim nation, so I might not be able to explain every nooks and crannies about it. But about polygamy, in islam, if you have multiple wives, you have to treat them equally. If you can't, you will be confronted by Allah for your irrational and unjust actions, words and every other things you share with those women. Now, how many polygamy can we see in this society that has this character? In fact, the wives(RAA) of our prophet Muhammad (sm) used to think about each of them that individually, she was the most beloved to him(sm). That is the condition and ideals that a man in polygamy should have accordingly to be a true Muslim. If you can't fullfil this, don't take a second wife. Because, in almost every case, the newest partner is the most beloved due to physical and other reasons. So, better to stick to one.
When talking about marrying more than one wife in Islam, not every one understands there are certain rules a man has to follow. Firstly, he has to be able to afford it. If he can't, then the answer is no he can't have more than one wife. Why? Because it's his job as the man to financially support and maintain the wife and kids. If he can support more than one, then he also has to be fair to each wife. This means what he gives one wife, he's gotta give the other. The only difference is if one wife has more kids or if someone has health problems, then it may be more time and money has to go to that house (but not bc he wants it that way, it's bc of a reason). Those are the main points. As said, if a man can't afford multiple wives, no. If he can't be fair, again no. But from a woman's perspective, think of it this way: You know where he is: if he isn't at work, he's either with you or her. If he has kids with her, it isn't hidden. He's not fooling around getting all kinds of diseases to bring home. It's up front and open, not hidden so there aren't any lies. It keeps the trust between husband and wife.
the thing to polygamy in islam that it is also conditioned by being equal and fair to the women like even to the samllest details like if u took one out to get icecream u should take ur other wife also to get icecream. also the thing i think shiekh mohamed skipped while talking about that women having the same rights as men except men has one better is by that men is responsible for any payment needed by the family. islam just wants the family to function in the right direction.
Polygamy in Islam has conditions and reasons The Quran says of the conditions is pluralism Justice in dealing with everything If you can't, then only one, otherwise it is considered a sin Anyway, polygamy is permitted by God because of the nature of the man so that he does not commit adultery or betray his wife and because of life circumstances Maybe in case of wars men die and women are widowed and children are orphaned and this is the main reason then men must take care of those women and their children as the Prophet did
I was also in tention when heard God Allah allowed more than one wife and it's not a sin if u married more than one but all wives must be happy and getting your perfect focus otherwise if u neglect any one than Allah has worst punish to him ,so think this before getting more than one wife . But if wife wanna leave him she can if she think she has no value after another wife 😢, this is different aspect, may be first wife is so cruel and harsh with him so he want another wife but can't leave first one without her choice 😮.
I’m a Muslim woman from Algeria 🇩🇿 and a pharmacologist and researcher 😊 women are highly valued in Islam
Well said bent bledi. Thank you
The biggest problem is the majority says “am Muslim” while their behavior and dress code doesn’t
They don’t part they don’t wear correct hijab they lie ….
@@samielkarrat9114 every human being sins there’s no perfect human only the prophets peace be upon them (and even them did mistakes but of course not major ones )
So even if you kill someone or do something extremely bad you are still a Muslim I’m the eyes of god because you might repent and be a better Muslim so they have every right to say they’re Muslims and of course it’s up to us others to encourage them to be better people and to follow the right path
@@lili13 no there’s things that makes you out of Islam like not prying as the prophet says العهد الذي بيننا وبينهم الصلاة، فمن تركها فقد كفر
Like for الكاسيات العاريات لا يدخلن الجنة و لا يجدن ريحها 🤷🏽♂️
@@lili13 he meant that she is just one example of women who have the choice to make sins, choice to wear hijab or not and how she wears it. Many other Muslim women aren’t even allowed to study or leave house
I am Muslim women from India and alhamdulillah proud to be muslimah
Proud for actually what ?
In india muslim women have half rights of what women of other religion have. Do you knw rwcently there were protests bcs supreme court said women have rights in alimony ?
@@dodo-nz2nj i am proud to be muslimah it's mean I am follow islam and I know about allinomy which impliment in India recently but as a muslimah we take allinomy for what let me say one thing in islam their two.think one , mehram, that means that man which you cannot marry like your biological bro ,sun other one one is nonehram that mean that man who can marry with you and after divorce the relationship between husband and wife will automatically end that' why her ex husband will become non mehram for her and according to islam a non mehram have not right to full fill the needs of her ex wife yes if they have any kids than man have mendetary to give money for their kids and you said allinomy allinomy through this suprem court not give us right infact they take our right , if anyone not happy or they not like to each other in relationship than they take divorce but you take the right of Muslim women if someone wants to take divorce than she cannot take divorce become he never give becouse if he give divorce her than he should give allinomy untill death than tall me he would give her divorce if she wantsand also you take the right of man I hope you understand if you not than I will try you should understand yet cannot speak anything about knowning anything
You should watch movie "The Message" its on youtube. It shows how woman was treated badly in the Mecca and Islam came to abolish those harassments.
Yes please, watch that movie I have been waiting to see that movie reaction
yes Please
It should also be noted that, there are several errors in the movie. But, overall it gives a decent overview on the beginning of Islam.
@@user-zc2hz3yj2k Yeah its not perfect. But it shows a general idea how bad Saudi was in terms of woman's rights.
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in which parts of the world before the 19th century, women had the right to study, the right to inheritance, had a say in making decisions, the right to apply for divorce and court proceedings, the right to apply for a dowry at will, the right to receive property in divorce, the right to custody of children if the child was not yet an adult and the costs had to be borne by the father, the right having your own wealth, the right to lead a company and so on... all of this has existed since the beginning of Islamic law and has existed since the time of the Prophet Muhammad SAW....
exactly, ma sha Allah, those who through these accusation see Children dying in certain places not only in Middle East also the poor ones in Africa who have their resources taken by their countries that pull human right cards, and yet "certain media" wants to tell us they worry about women rights .. this does not work anymore, people are seeing it with current war..
Dont lie. Its the father who has the custody of the child as it should.
@@FINALBOSS-BF it is the mother. but if you insist , show REFERENCE! Reference, not from sahih foxCNN
😂 I'm a Muslim and the mother always has the custody elness there's a reason why she can't have it like being I'll or being immoral... which is logical@@FINALBOSS-BF
I was gonna comment that as well. All this meanwhile the women in the Western world didn‘t have these rights or at least not all of these. And let‘s not forget that it was a Muslima who invented (not sure if that‘s the correct term here?) the university.
The majority of the reverts be American Women
The same in England UK
I think its kind of like how you saw people change perspectives during the 'covid lockdown'. A lot of Westerners want something with more substance, and a deeper life. The shallow materialistic empty existence is wearing on them. They seek real connections and then find it through Allah.
some choose islam some choose OF
Pakistan had a women prime minister before any Western country did which is Muslim country
do you really think pakistan is Muslim country? or its only in name
@@さいとう-c6b government is not showing any Islamic way of treat 😢, bank interest is on top but still saying here Allah God forgive me
@@さいとう-c6b ita a muslim majority but not islamic country
Obviously you are too stupid and ignorant to know that first woman to be elected as prime minister of a country was Sirimavo Bandaranaike of Ceylon (present-day Sri Lanka), when she led her party to victory in the July 1960 general election, and in the West ,Margaret Thatcher was prime minister in 1979.
To show much islam respects women, Benezir Bhutto was shot in the head in pakistan.
It,s Muslim majority but not in a sense of real Muslim country
11:32 Man your wife is a future Islamic scholar..... InshaAllah.... Ameen
It's about western polygamy in which woman have no rights
InshaAllah
The talk focuses on the objection of feminists in Islam because of: polygamy, Islamic inheritance law, dress codes, women’s freedom in elections, and I believe gender equality.
1.Polygamy is beneficial for women: Many women suffer from problems with infertility or illness and are unable to provide for their husband’s needs, whether physical or to have children. Polygamy helps the first wives to keep their husbands, as well as an opportunity for the second wife to obtain a husband, and the interests of the three people are achieved. Many things can be provided. There are various examples of the benefits of polygamy for women, but men will certainly suffer from greater responsibilities in polygamy, such as financial support, justice between wives, etc.
2. Inheritance: The rules of inheritance are related to many things, such as gender, kinship, and the number of individuals of each gender. Therefore, women get a larger share than men in different situations. But what feminists ignore is that the inheritance that men take is a legal duty to be spent on his women, his wife, his mother, his daughter, etc. .
While the inheritance that a woman receives is her right only, and there is no law that obligates the wife to support her husband or her relatives. On the contrary, support is for men only.
3. The Islamic dress code is for the benefit of women, to protect them from rapists and harassers of women, or those who pursue women to seduce them with false marriage promises, then exploit them physically and then say, “I am not thinking about marriage now.” Therefore, a woman’s body, clothes, perfume, and hair are among the things that naturally arouse a man’s instinct for a woman.
Therefore, men will love to have a relationship with her, so he may try to exploit her or flirt with her to get a romantic date, but it is not a romantic date, but a date only to relieve his lust.
While in Sharia law, modest clothing, such as a seat belt for a woman, will not attract the attention of foreign men so that they will not harm her. It will also give a signal to men that the woman is respectable and deserves to be his future wife because she does not try to draw the attention of foreign men to her.
4. There is no concept of gender equality in family law: because women have greater care rights commensurate with the nature of their gender, and men have greater responsibilities according to their physical nature and strength of character.
However, according to the penal laws, everyone is punished with the same punishment, because they are both sane and will be punished for their actions in accordance with Islamic law.
5. Regarding women’s voting in elections: There is no concept in Sharia of democratic elections in the West, but the king or president is often chosen from people of opinion who are close to the government and know the best people to head the government.
The issue of collective elections is a way to manipulate people's minds with false promises or to provide them with desires and money, and not for the sake of preserving morals and protecting society from money thieves in gambling clubs, usurious banks, etc.
6. The ban on women driving cars was due to the nature of social, cultural and security life, because no father or husband would make his wife drive a car in desert areas without protecting his family members, as well as the changing social circumstances in the inability of many men to serve their wives with the increase in the number of female employees. Therefore, the workplace of the husband and wife was very far apart. Likewise, the fatwas of some Muslim scholars stated that a woman driving a car was safer for her than riding alone with a foreign driver.
Therefore, approval has been issued for women to drive cars now, while achieving great interests for the Saudi family and women.
I have a Hindu friend who has two wives. The first wife took cares of the kids and household while the second wife helps him in his business. Regretfully because the Law only recognized the first wife the second wife and her children are not protected by Law.
To add on 1. Women can also get a divorce... if they "cannot take care of their husband's needs"
this sister is so smart mashalah God bless you sis
His wife
The first university in the whole world was built and created by a Hijabi Muslim women.(Fatima Al fihri) In the city of Fes Morocco.
I love the reaction of some of my western friends when I tell them than the first university in the world was founded by a muslim woman in Morocco..
This woman's name is Fatima Al-Fihri Al-Qurashi, the daughter of Uqba bin Nafi, the conqueror of northern Morocco.
Therefore, she is a Quraish Arab, but she is definitely Moroccan in residence
@@عبدالله-ن6ه2ص That's not correct. Fatima migrated with her father and sister from Qayrawan in Tunisia to Fez in Morocco. hence the name of the university. She was Tunisian.
@@hadirmaamouri4204the first university is the zeitouna university in tunisia
Archeological records show that Nalanda in India was established in 427 CE and is still considered to be the first residential university. The university taught philosophy, grammar, medicine, logic, and mathematics.
It flourished for eight centuries until it was destroyed by islamic savages in the 12th century and was designated a UN Heritage Site in 2016
@@mikwik-n6vShow references. I’ll read them.
The population in Egypt is more than 100 million. Most car drivers are women.
meanwhile in Indonesia women specially older mother is the king of street.
@@Kendung-ic2iplmao 😹
@@mouhameduzi667 you can find in many street where older women when she turn right side but the lamp sign is on left 😃
Didalam Islam lelaki boleh poligami berkahwin sehingga 4 isteri, tetapi kebanyakan didalam lelaki muslim Islam tidak ramai yg melakukan berpoligami berkahwin sehingga 4 isteri. Itu realitinya. Jika seorang lelaki tidak mampu didalam poligami dari segi kemampuan kewangan ataupun tidak mampu dari segi lain tidak di izinkan berpoligami, cukup sekadar seorang isteri saja. Kebanyakan lelaki muslim realitinya tidak ada yg berpoligami, mungkin 1/1000. Kerana kebanyakan setia pada 1 orang isteri saja. Hanya jikalau ada kekurangan dari segi isu kekeluargaan, seperti isteri tidak mampu mempunyai anak, maka pilihan lelaki berkahwin UTK isteri kedua. Kadang-kadang si suami mampu dari segi kewangan dan segi batin maka lelaki boleh memilih berkahwin lebih dari 1 orang. Tapi hakikatnya tidak ramai yg melakukannya berpoligami realiti lelaki Islam masa kini.
Ubat kuat tok berlagak ada dont worry
Aren’t 75% of reverts women at least in America
I just wanna say, the first university in the world, Muslim woman created it
It's in Morocco..right
The funny thing is, Islamic sharia regarding marriage used to be the thing christians would rebuke islam for in the medieval ages. The complaint then was that women had rights and could appeal for divorce etc, meaning Islam was too liberal in their point of view. But today you see Islamic sharia for marriage and women being criticized by the same society for the exact opposite reason, that Islam is too conservative.
That s a good point actually. Never thought of that.
As a convert I am even more accepting of polygamy than some women who were born Muslims and got brainwashed by the western idea of what a marriage should be. I love my muslims sisters and I would prefer sharing a good husband with one of them than seeing them or me ending up with a bad husband. If I had a husband who didn’t treat me correctly then I wouldn’t want him to get a second wife just because I don’t want my sisters in Islam to go through what I am going through. If all the good man had more than one wife and women would accept it, life would be easier. I feel bad for some muslims women that never got married, all of them should be able to have a good husband and a family.
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I am from Saudi Arabia all the girls in my family finished PHD some in USA and some in Uk.. all worked and drive cars except few they didn’t want so they bring a driver cause they find the traffic crazy 😅.. we chose who to marry or not and of course we travel around the world in vacations.. what else we need ???😂😂😂😂
More videos!!!! I’m a born muslim but can always learn some new with yo vids
I'm a Muslim woman from Tunisia, and I have rights ^^
We have to many rights in tunisia😂
@@yonag9071 exactly xD
On heritance, one of the reason the daughter would get half of her brother:
Husband has to provide for his wife. All her essential needs are taken care of. House bills, food, etc all has to be provided by him. Even if she were to work, she gets to keep 100% of her salary for herself. Husband can not force her to provide as well. Ofc, a marriage means to also compromise. If the husband is struggling, out of the goodness of her heart, she can also take care of the family.
Since in life, the man has more financial stress and burden on his shoulders, The Creator of the Worlds, ordered for the son to get twice as much as the daughter.
Say a woman gets 10k and the son gets 20k: the son will share the 20k with his wife and kids. The woman gets to keep her 10K.
There are more laws as regarding the wife when the husband dies, mother and sister..but I just gave an example between a daughter and son.
Dear Han 'Sharia Law' is another most misunderstood term in the western world...
iIndonesia is a predominantly Muslim country and one of the nations with the largest Muslim populations. It has been led by a female president, whereas for many years, despite its democracy, the United States has never had a female president, at least not until now.
You should watch and react on dr zakir naik replying a non Muslim *rights of woman in islam* in the light of Quran and hadith.
goood video
Salam brother Han and sister Kelly
Indonesia, Pakistan and Bangladesh have had female presidents or prime ministers
what about the United States?
I'm a Muslim woman from Indonesia, I'm an engineer working in a contractor, women are valued in Islam, clearly... 🥰🥰🥰
im a muslim girl from Pakistan and im also a good driver just don't ask my family plz 😉😁
Then why women in pakistan are doing protests ?
MashaAllah tabarakallah, both of u are awesome.may Allah takes good care of both u
When you get a chance, watch ‘The Bible Led Me To Islam’ revert Joshua Evans story. It’s long, about 90 minutes but he explains his story in a light hearted funny way. It’s a really good video
Me too, Alhamdulillah we are luck Allah guide us to true beautiful
{فانكحوا ما طاب لكم من النساء مثنى وثلاث ورباع فإن خفتم ألا تعدلوا فواحدة}
وفي السورة نفسها في موضع آخر، نقرأ قوله سبحانه:
{ولن تستطيعوا أن تعدلوا بين النساء ولو حرصتم}
الآية واضحة جدا بأنه لايجب التعدد الا بالضرورة القصوى فقط ويفضل دائما الزواج بواحدة فقط لتحقيق العدل.
{marry as many women as you please, two, three or four, and if you fear that you will not be able to do justice, then one}
In the same Surah in another place, we read the Almighty saying:
{And you will not be able to treat women justly, even if you strive}
The verse is very clear that polygamy is not required except by extreme necessity and it is always preferable to marry only one woman to achieve justice.
Even i as a muslim iraqi woman think about this topic a lot , unfortunately this depends on each individual, ive changed the way my father and mother and brother, till this day we bicker about what's a traditional and what's religiously acceptable, it needs patience and lots of work. بس الحمدلله
Do you guys all live in Iraq or outside it?
Watch more videos of Muhammad Hijab...he is a genius and an islamic person....
As a man i can confirm 99% of us will want more than one if given the chance but i can also confirm 90% of that same grp will regret it after a 2/3mths. Taking care of one is straining enough physically and mentally esp if in Islam you’re are obligated to go 50/50 on everything. Each wives obligated to have their own house, if one gets a gift every wives gets the same, if you spent a night with one you have to spend a night with the rest the same etc. God really said He will give us the pleasures and burdens of Polygyny😭🤣
Probably mostly Arab people. If I have money and the opportunity to get a second spouse, I will not. I don't see the point of having more than one. If you talk about sex, one wife is plenty enough for that
@@ricedrown i can respect that. To each their own. But there’s a reason why so many scandals happened when a man reached midlife. It’s human nature to get bored of the same person, even more so for men. Men stay content and loyal bcoz we choose to be. In a alternate universe where its normal everywhere for polygamy and women have no jealousy on that nearly everyone that can afford it will marry again when they reach a certain years in their first marriage.
I'd love to see more of your guys' reaction to Mohammad Hijab. This dude is smart and I'm sure y'all can learn a lot from him as I learned a lot from just watching him, Mashaallah.
Pilgrimage marriage has rules and it is not a click of a button in husband's application. Also Muslim woman does not take husband's family name, she keeps hers.
The lady will be great muslim scholar in future. her thought process is too good.
She is amazing as always the same as you are , please take care of each other may Allah bless you both and your family and may Allah guide you to the right path and bring you peace happiness and love with good health. You guys are very lucky Allah loves you that’s why you’re discovering this beautiful Islam religion. Love you and love your show.
Kelly smart 😊
mufti menk about hijab
funny but deep
many men died during wars and many womens with the children are left without their partner this one of many reasons islam has allowed to have more than one wife so would you prefer to be a second wife or not marry at all ?, you can only marry a second wife or third if you are able to maintain equal lifestyle and financial stability, example if you bought one your wifes home or car other wifes should have similar things not more or less, and it goes beyond it not just about finances but also with love and spending equal time with your wifes, and many more.
i recommend that you watch more of mohamed hijab he has so much knowledge that i myself have learned about my own religion more because of him, so id definitely recommend you two listen to more of his videos!!!
May You Be Blessed Aameen
I'm a Muslim man, a woman is number 1, simple
I agree with Kelly. I pray for you both to have very loving, long relationship. Love you both for the sake of Allah
Spread love in WAY, by maintaining the rights of women and children after that.
I live in Indonesia. We've been the biggest Muslim majority country in the entire world & my mom was a government official, so IDK what she's talking about. 🤷
You should watch I think its called “Girl blown away by womens rights in islam” by AliDawah
women can handle that emotionally. they get mad because they know they cant trip because he has another and he can quickly replace her or she knows she cant control him or manipulate him.
As a Muslim woman, it took me some time to accept the idea of polygamy. I realized what really stops us from accepting it is the Western ideology about love. The Western world portrays love like a fairy tale. That kind of love does not even work in their own culture thus almost 50% end up divorces and that is if your relationship even made it to marriage. Now I'm working on absorbing what love really means with respect to fulfilling my deen.
He hasn't answered the polygamy correctly. The full answer in Islam is “If he marries a 2nd wife he needs to treat them both fairly, he cannot have a favourite. If he does injustice to one wife then on the day of judgment the husband's whole body will be bent. So one wife is better.
I've had this discussion with my husband and he said he will never marry a second wife. I'm enough for him Alhumdulliah for a beautiful person like my husband ❤
Quite frankly, the men who exercise polygamy in Muslim countries are an overwhelming minority because there are so many pre-requisites to satisfy such as the ability to be fair, being able to afford two or more families, no to mention having the energy. Polygamy is more of a situational flexibility than a right that can be exercised. From war widowers, to an imbalance in male to female population ratio and women having their rights safeguarded through matrimony. It solves more problems than it creates
I am a muslim living in the middle east, if i get married i will write in my contract that: my husband is more than welcome to marry again another woman but, divorce me first.
If you want someone else go ahead be my guest but divorce me first. Its not coming from ego or anything, i cannot handle it emotionally and its not forbidden in my religion and i have the right as well.
If as a woman i am not given this choice in Islam, i wouldn't be a Muslim
Telling him to divorce you will make him look bad. At the same time, you are opening the door for him to easily divorce you also.
If he ever decides to marry a widow, or an orphan, or a divorcee for example, try to remain in the relationship. If after a while, you cant handle it, then ask for the divorce.
Btw in divorce, I think the wife gets nothing - properties etc are his if he paid for. It s not like in the west where it is 50/50 even if the man paid for everything.
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There is hadith where prophet Muhammad said when man marry, he complete half of his deen. By this because man should be content, mature and reliable enough to be marry a women. That kind of man will be provide enough things that would make his wife happy and their family. Polygamy is pemissable but not necessary, because that would be near impossible to do so. If a man couldnt give what supposingly he give then he will be unfair to his wives. Then he will be the bad husband.
it's not about only woman even men also cover their hair if you see many Muslim wear hat because they have less hair so the hat keep the job done and woman have long hairs that's why hijab scarf can be required
Han may god bless me with a wife who has rational thinking like yours. You have a gift there my bro. Might wanna tell her put a hijab now😂😂😂
In this time and era there’s some ppl asking this question 😮
Nice video
believe me, there are discourse about poligamy in islam.
its not as simple as a man can marry up to 4 wives.
As a muslim teenage girl who learned about islam after years of just ringing around thinking which religion is righteous and i always wondered Why islam asks women to cover herself up but obliges men to cover up only from a navel to knee which is very important that,a man can not show it to the other man, So I started noticing the fact that When a woman passes from a street where group of boys stand & no matter how respectful they are in general but atleast once in their lives they do say something No one would ever want to hear and men & women both have different perspectives when a woman talks about a random guy even if he is not that good looking,it is always different than what men usually talk about a woman either she is ugly or not and this is true that it is the fault of men not her & that's why islam prohobited men to look at women and look down when a women is passing by no matter what her age is and no matter what she is wearing either it is burqa or shorts, And also western community has made the womenhood look like it is only about the way her thighs look or her body type or her breast,this is so desrespectful but women themselves never realise it,Overall as much as I know is that We muslims who have basic knowledge of islam we view objectificlation completely different then west does.
I am angry muslim about women rights in Islam but this is for our test and for better community very important, after many researching got everything has deep positiveness. Yes my grandfather got 2 wives, bcoz at war time he was happy with his first wife with children but my grandma parents worried to kidnap young girls so my grandma 12 years old when she got marry but she was ok she said there was so cruel time and i got safe after marriage with old man 😢, at least he was in police and in war time little girls getting married to them to safe theirseves not to be kidnapped from enemy groups.
Women have the right to divorce if they wanted to. No one is forced to do anything they dislike. The idea is stability
if you want to hear it from the Quran and our side as Muslims and how we see it i would recommend you to watch ' Zakir Naik ' he has alot of videos about almost all the topics mentioned in Quran and comparing it with other books from other religions
I like his thought
“Men shall take full care of women with the bounties Allah has bestowed on them, and what they may spend out of their possession…” (Surah An-Nisa 4:34
Love how Han is pleasantky suprised with Kelly when she talks about polygomy and says woman should work through the emotions 😂❤
Polygamy in the Muslim world is not as common as people may think. Very few men persue the idea as it is a lot more complicated to commit to more than one wife in reality than in their imagination.
Small correction: You don’t need to say sharia law, sharia translated to English means law. So you can just say sharia or Islamic sharia, because by saying sharia law you’re basically saying law law. 😅
Hii Han Hii Kelly ❤
Come on guys, why would you cut the video before he makes his points????
This vedio is great Mohamed hijab and more
Polygyny (polygamy) can be a beautiful things, if done well and everyone is mature about it. It can give you the opportunity to grow and be a better version of yourselves
Perspective changes over time, so do moral values.
What did paul say about women hair in the bible? Corinthians 11 "And every woman who prays or prophesies with her head uncovered dishonors her head--it is just as though her head were shaved. If a woman does not cover her head, she should have her hair cut off; and if it is a disgrace for a woman to have her hair cut or shaved off, she should cover her head."
I'm from muslim country; conservative one.i'm 40y old and i dont know anyone who has more than one wife in my real life.
Where do you live 🤣
the oldest running university in the world was founded by a muslim woman in 859 AD -- Fatima Al-Fihri
God bless ❤
You two are good thinking people most of them watching are not genuine..but you guys are..❤
I would simply answer, Muslim Countries do not necessarily mean they follow Islam. Just as Usa is suppose to be a Christian Country but are aiding a Genocide of Children in Gaza. So , Yes Women have rights in Islam.
Islam is a solution for all humanity 😊
You should watch the movie The Message, where you can understand that women before the advent of Islam were worthless and humiliated, and with the advent of Islam they had many rights. Islam supported women and treated them as a person of high value. The Islamic countries in which women are humiliated are countries that preferred to apply outdated traditions as well as Islam, for example, Tunisia, a Muslim country in North Africa, has the second most important group of female scholars in the world, and the percentage of female judges and doctors is higher than the percentage of men. I hope you watch the stories of the daughters of our Prophet Muhammad, the Messenger of God, and you will truly know that Islam honors women
you two are the most open-minded people I've seen in years.
In my opinion, polygamy in Islam is a solution to a condition, because in the verses of the Koran polygamy is permitted accompanied by a condition (the perpetrator must be able to act fairly), so it cannot be done carelessly.
Love from Pakistan❤❤
God is certainly the All knowledgable!! And his Shariah or Divine legislation works in all times places and circumstances. Just think about it guys!! In times of wars and conflicts when the majority of men go to defend their lands Which often can result in females out numbering males who gonna take care of the left over women?? How society gonna assures its survival?? Hence we muslims take our morality from the Creator's infallible divine objective source not from the creation subjective one Which keeps changing with whims and desires. And human history is the best witness to it.
In Pakistan Men can marry more than one women but losses his respect in family as children grow older. So marrying more than one is just not good for Men in long run. Hijab other other hand liberates women from all the fashion industry and she can out make-up when it's necessary.
funny! Every person believes diffrently i think but what i believe is islam is the most "woman right based religion ever" just think our prophet always been surrended by women 2 mothers sisters and only daugters... Like a sign... what i believe is in Islam there is "female prophet" -Prhophet: person who talked with the angel gabriel - in Quran it is directly wirtten that mariem talked with gabriel.I believe that women are way more precious than the men think in İslam ...
I am not a Muslim scholar rather a Muslim born in a Muslim family in a Muslim nation, so I might not be able to explain every nooks and crannies about it. But about polygamy, in islam, if you have multiple wives, you have to treat them equally. If you can't, you will be confronted by Allah for your irrational and unjust actions, words and every other things you share with those women. Now, how many polygamy can we see in this society that has this character?
In fact, the wives(RAA) of our prophet Muhammad (sm) used to think about each of them that individually, she was the most beloved to him(sm). That is the condition and ideals that a man in polygamy should have accordingly to be a true Muslim. If you can't fullfil this, don't take a second wife. Because, in almost every case, the newest partner is the most beloved due to physical and other reasons. So, better to stick to one.
Watch My Journey to Islam by Idris Tawfiq
It depends on what country you're talking about. If you're talking about Iran then of course not if you're talking about turkey then yeah of course.
More woman revert than men!
When talking about marrying more than one wife in Islam, not every one understands there are certain rules a man has to follow. Firstly, he has to be able to afford it. If he can't, then the answer is no he can't have more than one wife. Why? Because it's his job as the man to financially support and maintain the wife and kids. If he can support more than one, then he also has to be fair to each wife. This means what he gives one wife, he's gotta give the other. The only difference is if one wife has more kids or if someone has health problems, then it may be more time and money has to go to that house (but not bc he wants it that way, it's bc of a reason). Those are the main points. As said, if a man can't afford multiple wives, no. If he can't be fair, again no.
But from a woman's perspective, think of it this way:
You know where he is: if he isn't at work, he's either with you or her. If he has kids with her, it isn't hidden. He's not fooling around getting all kinds of diseases to bring home. It's up front and open, not hidden so there aren't any lies. It keeps the trust between husband and wife.
Kelly Blossoming ❤🎉
Next please watch My Journey to Islam by Idris Tawfiq
I like the polygamy explanation by kily ❤ totally true
Dears a humble request for your reaction on:
"yvonne ridley - from captive to convert"
the thing to polygamy in islam that it is also conditioned by being equal and fair to the women like even to the samllest details like if u took one out to get icecream u should take ur other wife also to get icecream. also the thing i think shiekh mohamed skipped while talking about that women having the same rights as men except men has one better is by that men is responsible for any payment needed by the family. islam just wants the family to function in the right direction.
Polygamy in Islam has conditions and reasons The Quran says of the conditions is pluralism Justice in dealing with everything If you can't, then only one, otherwise it is considered a sin Anyway, polygamy is permitted by God because of the nature of the man so that he does not commit adultery or betray his wife and because of life circumstances Maybe in case of wars men die and women are widowed and children are orphaned and this is the main reason then men must take care of those women and their children as the Prophet did
I was also in tention when heard God Allah allowed more than one wife and it's not a sin if u married more than one but all wives must be happy and getting your perfect focus otherwise if u neglect any one than Allah has worst punish to him ,so think this before getting more than one wife . But if wife wanna leave him she can if she think she has no value after another wife 😢, this is different aspect, may be first wife is so cruel and harsh with him so he want another wife but can't leave first one without her choice 😮.
Woman in islam is treat like a princess 👸 im one of them 😊😊❤😅😅