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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.ย. 2024
- Why do women stomach such things?
Esther had been married for several years...years that she calls of great pain. She lost her two children when they were 10 months. Every-time she was about to deliver, her husband would run away for weeks. according to Esther, he was such a brutal man! He would wake her up at 2am, forcefully send her to the shamba to get potatoes so that she can make mūkimo. She would go...and after all that hustle, the man would refuse to eat that food.
#methayakagoni #trending
True story, and the nduthi man is me, kwa hivo yote hayo na kwweli na pole sana mama patty na Mungu die anajua mahali atakufikisha.
Really
Tell us more
Really
Haiya
😳😳😳😳
Mimi ni commenter but today am speechless nime feel pain vimbaya sana😢😢😢
Esther, Pole for the experience,
Knowing you from your upbringing, i know you're a great woman, Now be kind enough to show us the guy please, we would like to have a word with him
Maina let me tell you!!!! Nie kafa hike maita 150 tondu🤦🏽♀ ndingihota!
😂😂😂😂anga nitwahanana🤝🤣🤣
Woiye my neighbour never judge ati mtu amerudi kwao may God heal you its sad 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
Parents let's enable our daughters to differentiate abuse and submission. Wuueh!😢
That man anataka kufunzwa lesson nzuri sana na hio mukimo yake.
Monica bring shows about the importance of self care, love , how to differentiate narcissism , contrand true love. Parents, please know how your children are doing in marriage, especially if you know you know, cucu said" wandehera kiimba njike atia nakio" she knew something. This is very painful. Wakiama listen to this and address.
I nursed one for 8 months and I could sneak some fruits for him. He got well and accused me of causing the accident that made him be hosptilized.He added that I slept with the security guards to sneak in his fruits.I thank God he gave me strength to get out.
😮😮😮😮Pole it painful
Pole sana
Heee that's a very sad story.. Don't you all think kikuyu men wanakuaga na shida ?
True, they care less.
Ata mm naona ivo Kikuyu men's nikama wako na spirit mbaya ya kutesa mabibi zao
Yup
Si wote...ju mine is different...
For the sake of women like Esther, God help me do better in my psychology classes. To be able to be a resourceful, helpful helper. May God help me to never take light this area that only He could guide me into.
Nisipitie shule tu kupata papers, but to actually do justice.
Hope she gets a helper in her neighborhood ata hosi za kanjo. I'm sure a counselor can walk with her to full recovery.
Blessings, i wish you well mama
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Never force love where is not needed,value ur self more than anything
True
True mm nilitokanga
Aki na vile she is lovely with calm voice😢
What do men want,....May God heal this lady...someone volunteer to assist this lady
Honestly she deserve better. I wish someone would come out and help her to heal. 😢😢😢
I hope u have learned to love yourself now,ucio ni urimu gutecwo uikarite hau ati ni gwaka muciu
Parents let's teach our kids about self love, self appreciation, let's make sure they have high self esteem,
Nikio itathiyaga kanitha cia ngoma😢 pastor angi ni ngui coa andu😢
Ushaitani mutheri in the name of churches.Yesu angefanya nini in that situation
Ghaii mum umenikumbusha mbali 2012 my mum hakua Amelipa card ya kanisa 3 months zile alikua mbagathi hospital, only that made thr salvation army church not to come to bury her 😢the church I was born in , the church that my mum loved to the core 💔 refused to come , licha yakusikia we are only 2 kids nobody to support us ..since then me n church is a no , I know God exists but churches are people's business premises
Healing to you baby girl
Wangari my Neighbor n Friend,may God give you the peace that surpasses human understanding....
Ngai reke ngire ouguo tondu ihiko ingi ni cia ruo,Esther Ngai witu akuhe thanyu wa ngoro na kirathimo gitari muthia,ucio ndari muthuri ni nyamu ya mundu.
I have listened to this story with a lot of bitterness. Let me advice the young girls as a single parent the following
1. Never force marriage or force yourself to a man coz you deserve your respect.
When mistreated by your husband go back to your parents tondu nduoraganite.
3. Though marriage is good it wasn't meant for everyone so if the man does not respect you quit it you go and look for another man who is the right husband or live as a single woman.
4. Never allow any man to demean you
Ngai this is sad pole mamaa aki nashkuru wangu ata kama hatuna he does take care of me ata kuosha mtoi na I can't remember me taking my kid to the clinic yani ata sijawai peleka mtoi clinic ata siku moja ananiacha kwa nyumba
Woie aki some men heri kukaa bila
Pole mam
Woi, this is a sad story and a painful one! thayuu! thayuu! ûrogîa ngoroinî yaku! That's my prayer
Im so sorry Esther for what you went through, you deserve happiness
She seems like a very good wife.. That man lost a very very good wife
Woiii thise girl is beautiful ❤❤❤😮😢😢😢😢
Esther am sorry because you really loved that fool..so much...sorry for loss of two children...and lastly sorry for the pastor and church that failed you
We huyo nibinadamu ama ni mnyama singwesi vumilia
shetani mwenyewe mim Ngomaaa na finally mliachana
This girl is beautiful...Lord restore her in Jesus Name
Ukizakiwa Kwa umasikini ni kitu baya sawa! Mambo zingine mtu ufumilia akiogopa umasikini kwao! Nilipitia mangumu kupitia hayo niliteswa kuliko yeye yaani nilipigwa mpaka zingine si wezi sema😢
Mimi ata umasikini huwezi nizuiya for God sake
But mwishowe nilitoka
There is no glory in suffering so much to keep a relationship.
A body is the temple of God... Don't let people to injure it for anything... Peace and self love is not evil or stupidity
Wakiama witu uka ututetithie ..nikuri kuhika Na ukombo..
Huyo aliekuwa Bwana yako anaushetani Sana atakukumbuka siku mmoja
Heey.... I thought I went through hell in marriage.... May God of healing and God who healed me after going through dipression heal you Esther. Ni kama mtu hukua amefungwa na mapepo coz when you look back, you wonder what you were doing there. But pia am ready to date again and have a family
The day we the agikuyu people realise this churches are businesses and these pastors are people at work with actually no taxes to pay , that’s when we shall have freedom
It’s sad 😞
Girl you were soooo good to Such a man. Forget It I can't take it!
Huyo mwanaume alikuwa mchawi. But... Ya muhimu ni kuwa, malipo ni hapa hapa duniani.
Thanks you atalipa with interest very very painful .
Hey pole sana Esther sijawahi soma ingine kama hii this was too much.Lakini wacha tuhope mungu atakupigania utaheal
Self-love is important to we ladies ....pole Sana ... peace of the Lord be upon you
Weeee, speechless, Ladies lets learn to love ourselves. Year 2024 lets change for the sake of our kids and future. Pole Esther.... Guess its naivity from getting married at young age
Gai what is this God! Jameni what kind of people are these? Am so sorry Esther for going through hell and not being strong enough to get out, I hope you heal completely
OH MY GOODNESS ME, JUST ONE PERSON CARRYING ALL THAT IN HER HEAD? MAY GOD CONTINUE TO RENEW YOUR STRENGTH. KINDLY JUST ADMIT THAT GOD LOVES YOU. HE IS NOT THE ONE WHO INFLICTED PAIN IN YOU. YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN, YOU ARE STRONG AND GOD HAS A PLAN FOR YOU. ❤❤🙏🏽🙏🏽❤🙏🏽❤😢😢😢
Aki Esther ulipitia magumu pole sana Mungu akupee amani....ata mimi nilitoka early 2014 na watoto 3 and he never takes care be strong mammy
Kagoni tell this enablers the truth a stranger who you are in a relationship is not blood kagoni stop pacifying them😢
Huyo pastor namjua,na ti mundu ucio
That is a lot to take...I pray that this lady heals and find it in her heart to forgive, hell is a place you don't want to end up in.
So sad what she went through, may God heal you, really.
Don't stay in a "marriage" just to be accepted by the society, single parents are always judged and shunned away, these children are also affected. May you heal and forgive
I understand her at some point kwanza hiyo ya kuongeleshwa vibaya na pastor when i lost my son niliambiwa maneno mingi za uchungu and i did nothing i think the pain of loosing a child makes someone feel she deserves more pain no kai aria majikire uru njikaraga ngarurumukwo i forgave them but distanced and choose silent tondu tukipitana sai kitaripuka
i thank God,,,,nimepitia mengi inthe name of marriage,,,,,, mungu nipe nguvu za kuzidi kuishi yale aisha... niliwai ishi na ninayo ishi...... mimi ni mpole ndio,,,, kwa wale waliowai chukulia upole wangu kw kuto jielewa nli wasamehea,,,,
Ni rejection kama bado ujaenda for deliverance enda sio wewe tu many children wa single parents hupitia rejection sana
I stopped asking people why they're in toxic marriages when I realised they have no other option than to stay. Yes ako na kwao but she's still not needed there.
Mimi humwambia ajipange pole pole tu aende when she's ready😢😢😢 very sad.
🥲yeah ni ile unajiuliza unatoka huko uwende wapi...and also having a hope that someone will
This is so irritating...what a diabolical, human being? As Monica ask, why could this girl not go home? Was she so abused that she felt OK in all this abuse??
I am getting angry on Monica's behalf
Am also getting so angry
I bet to differ. Just as Wamuratha tells us, she was minding about what others would say instead of minding about her life. Though she is still hurting because of her children's death she did well to leave that man. Am not wishing bad on that man but I know in due time he will pay for everything he did to her.
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What a traumatic experience. Hope the lady heals from such pain and loss.
This is very very sad i pray that GOD will heal your heart 😢😢😢
Why can someone go through this w
To a point you loose children change someone diaper and you can't even share with your parent 🤷🤷 women we should love ourselves ♥️♥️♥️
Everyone makes mistakes. I have all the problems with people who ask others ‘how could you?’ As though they are all perfect themselves!
Ucio endaga kurathwo twatwatwa,alaaaaaaah,kwani iko Nene?But you were also very very patient.Mimi na ukirinyaga wangu tungeuana ama nitoke tu huko na hizo miezi Saba.
kai andu magurukaga. that behaviour is very demonic. anyway,,,More grace to you Esther.
Ma narcissist treat people like that and they always provoke to see your reaction akuanze hapo
This gal need justice 😢😢
That was not a marriage, it was slavery 😢.
Very true the marriage was slavery for sure
I understand this woman. I was like that...still there but sahii my eyes are wide open.
Ngai, may God help you so you are able to leave that relationship, permanently. My prayer is that the Lord keeps you and your family safe.
@@user-un5ts6tk2d Amen! thanks
I stopped judging such pple .until the victims feels enough is enough ata mkimwambia atoke hawezi
Lakini nobody can mistreat me anywhere close to this level😢people know who to bully 🙄🙄
Yes they first text your how naïve and desperate you can be
sometimes nashindwa kuelewa about marriages so sad to suffer sometimes heli kukaa single kuliko kuteseka kwa ndoa na hutakikani😢
Kweli
Wanaume narcist
@@wanguindungurechealwambaya sana
Ivo ndivyo Mimi husema being married by a narcissist it's better be alone
Mm pia naongopa kuolewa sana
Ucio ndaimono ciake cionaga o mukimo😂
Woi maa pole Sana mamie😢😢
😢😢 woiii have no words may God help this girl to heal from her past
Ngoma iturikaga ni guthijiruo
Good
Urandakaria taki.ngoma iyo yahonokire mutinoini ikunyarire
Just like kagoni i feel so agitated, lord why now, that was too much. I can't
Of all the animals I have heard of, this particular one takes the cake! Sorry excuse of a human being…May she find peace and find true love AND her self esteem. No human should ever take this kind of treatment from another no matter what…
Am speechless,so painful.
It was such a painful experience for this lady. Ladies lets not persevere to any abuse in the name of keeping a marriage. The public will talk whether you are married, single, divorced or any other situation one is in. Let's love ourselves more and empower our gals not to persevere in an abusive marriage.
Ngaii I thought I went through hell but this lady wee but don't call that kihii man huyo nikipii OK😢Aiiiii ladies should know real men and vipii
Kihii kia FIU kiu
Of all the stories nimeskiza Kwa hizi platforms,yako imeniuma. I am so sorry mum for the things you went through 😭😭
Ngai ndûkanareke ngágerera maya woi....God to give you strength Esther
The agitation on Kagoni's face 😂
I just watched this and I share the agitation with Kagoni. I would pause to cool down first.
@@rachealmbarire2184me too. She tolerated so much nonsense
Wa hi kitio ni ngoma mundu 😮
Nikikumbuka what I went through in the marriage, Mimi Kuna wakati nilichapwa na mimba 😢 ni mungu tu , in the meantime wacha niendelee kukaa single tondu ma it's not easy
Pole sana Esther, you're a strong woman.i can't terolate narcissist husband in the name of marriage.when i hear search testimonies of may ,i add more years to single life.i love my self so much so i cant accept anyone to abuse that's a no😢😢😢
God of mercy some other stories make marriage to have no taste. Hii aki me siwezi.God hv mercy on our daughters
I cannot comment because I have too much pain 💔 because of this lady going through hell in the name of marriage. Let me not say anything more. 😮
Me too 😢😢😮
I have never heard this type of testimony,so angry
Usijali dadangu mm nilifukuzwa
i swear this story is making me so angry because it can never be me...but lets say everyone has their own limits.Its well mamaa
Take heart esther..God still on the throne..and He help you..
May you find peace in the Lord
Nmekasirika sana
Ni thengiu kwi Ngai tondu niwahotiri kuuma kuo
Walai ata saa hii ndio nasema walai yako ni ile yangu
Who is else is unable to can😢😢 Aaai this is too much
Dingehota ma😢😢😢😢
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So annoying
Watching this right now and let me say Monica you are so strong because I've cried throughout the whole interview because I can't really imagine that animals roam amongst us in human bodies. Aki Mungu aiponye roho ya Esther na wengine waliopitia magumu kama yake
Ester case inakaa ya dame najua... was in a very toxic marriage... lost 3 children... and her experience is bad... fortunately for her chch ilimshikilia
Nikiona story kama hizi nasema tano tena
Ladies never assume a man will change. I waited for 34 years in marriage but in vain. I left and am happy
Fear men God protect women 🙏🙏🙏
people knows who to bully😢😢😢.Mimi hata kunielekeza kidole in an argument is enough nichukue virago for good nangwite ngui nyingi muno
My mother's compound is the best kwa maitu vero i can never become a slave of marriage
Nii ningereire Maunduini maingi ta maku no nindaumire na ruo ruingi no ngai niandeithitie kuhona ,,na ngahota gutungata twana twakwa,,Monica no nyende guheana rugano rwakwa ni getha hone makiria
Esther u r strong woman,hao watoto r in Jehovahs memories.john 5:28,29.lesson usingoje Toka haraka.moni how is ngunjiris daughter pls.
May God restore you.
Sorry mum for what you went thru bt I wish you left that guy that moment you lost your first child.That man is a narcissist.
Pole saana mungu akupe faraja za ajabu na amponye dada yetu kunaye mungu