Grace your very beautiful at 30 it is not late to be someone wife what I can advise you never settle for less speaking from experience I got married at 21 where I found my x husband not working and I finance everything including my wedding now am divorce with 2chilrens my man left me.after he used all my resources be careful
Feminism (empowerment) and too much education have been the bane of marriages not just in Kenya, but worldwide. It has pushed women away from God's design for marriage which entails SUBMISSION, not just in words but in action. A successful man does not care about how educated you are nor how much money you make, he wants COOPERATION, SUBMISSION AND PEACE as well as VISUAL APPEAL. Sadly, well educated and successful women like this one have MASCULINE ENERGY and hence find it hard to have the qualities I have listed above that successful men are looking for not just in theory but IN PRACTICE. Therefore women with masculine energy always end up with weak men with financial problems/not successful (beta males) because those are the type of men who can live under a woman's masculine energy. My advice to this lady is very simple. 1. Eat healthy and gonga gym like a nonsense to hit the FIT criteria asap. This is the easiest to achieve as it's totally within your control 2. Tone DOWN the masculine energy and try to OVERCOME YOUR EDUCATION AND EMPOWERMENT by being humble, agreeable, cooperative, submissive and non-confrontational around successful men, but only after you are FIT and visually appealing neck downwards (very important to a man) 3. AVOID listening to single, bitter, unmarried or divorced women who say singlehood is paradise. They are ALL miserable, but have adopted the defence mechanism of trying to convince themselves that they are happy. Finally, if you truly believe in God and are praying, pray for God to help you conform to his design for marriage and life. That a woman should SUBMIT to a man and not COMPETE WITH or ANTAGONISE him. And that her work on this earth is to be his HELPER and not his equal who feels her education and money make her at par with him so he has to be challenged on issues you disagree with him about. Take my advice and you will find yourself married in due course. Ignore it and just buy a dog, get your degrees, get obese over time and die alone!!!
Feminism (empowerment) and too much education have been the bane of marriages not just in Kenya, but worldwide. It has pushed women away from God's design for marriage which entails SUBMISSION, not just in words but in action. A successful man does not care about how educated you are nor how much money you make, he wants COOPERATION, SUBMISSION AND PEACE as well as VISUAL APPEAL. Sadly, well educated and successful women like this one have MASCULINE ENERGY and hence find it hard to have the qualities I have listed above that successful men are looking for not just in theory but IN PRACTICE. Therefore women with masculine energy always end up with weak men with financial problems/not successful (beta males) because those are the type of men who can live under a woman's masculine energy. My advice to this lady is very simple. 1. Eat healthy and gonga gym like a nonsense to hit the FIT criteria asap. This is the easiest to achieve as it's totally within your control 2. Tone DOWN the masculine energy and try to OVERCOME YOUR EDUCATION AND EMPOWERMENT by being humble, agreeable, cooperative, submissive and non-confrontational around successful men, but only after you are FIT and visually appealing neck downwards (very important to a man) 3. AVOID listening to single, bitter, unmarried or divorced women who say singlehood is paradise. They are ALL miserable, but have adopted the defence mechanism of trying to convince themselves that they are happy. Finally, if you truly believe in God and are praying, pray for God to help you conform to his design for marriage and life. That a woman should SUBMIT to a man and not COMPETE WITH or ANTAGONISE him. And that her work on this earth is to be his HELPER and not his equal who feels her education and money make her at par with him so he has to be challenged on issues you disagree with him about. Take my advice and you will find yourself married in due course. Ignore it and just buy a dog, get your degrees, get obese over time and die alone!!!
The 1st problem was thinking and saying you need to be married. You don't need another person to make you fulfilled. Only you can do that. If you get married with that mindset, you'll always be looking for something even in that marriage that you won't find. Change your mindset and see wonderful things happening.
You're a RARE GEM Grace❤ Rare gems are hard to find. But once found, they're a treasure for a lifetime. Trust me, who you seek is also seeking you. What you've done is manifestation. Your prayer has been answered. Soon, it will manifest in the physical. Patience and grace❤🎉
I don't know what to be more worried about. That an educated woman over 30, still thinks like this. Or that she is a teacher, entrusted with moulding young minds,😮😮
It is sad that in Kenya one would feel late not being married at 30/30s, and it's all because of society. I'm so glad to have gone out to other societies and seen people, especially men who love women who are mature, who have pursued their careeers, and get into relationships because they are compatible. Sis, please don't compromise and settle for less, or beg anyone to take you. Look beyond the Kenyan/African borders and you'll see people who see your worth, not settling for second wife or to be taken for granted. In your 30s, you should be a treasure because I believe that you're more mature and even financially independent, to grow a family with a responsible man.
THE SOCIETIES YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT DIVORCE RATES ARE ALMOST 60%.IN OTHERS THEY REFER WOMEN ABOVE 30 YEARS AS "LEFT OVERS".WOMEN ABOVE 30 HAVE A DECLINING FERTILITY
@mufunyiibrahim3655 Research shows that couples that got married older have the least divorce cases. Tafakari hayo. On declining fertility: how many kids can you afford to have and adequately care for, in this day and age? The declining fertility is still ok, because 2-3 kids are the preference of many people who want to give their kids their absolute best! I know so many people married in their 30s, especially in my family who got 2-3.
Grace, you're on the right track and you have genuine focus. Delight yourself in the lord and he will grant you the desires of your heart to pass. Spend more time on your knees and surrender all to God. In his time ,he will give you the partner of your your life. In the meantime standstill on this issue and be busy in what you are doing .
I know that with age comes pressure and expectations. I, however, in my opinion, believe in first being content with who you are as a person and pray to God for the right husband. But until then, build on yourself. I know you have, but keep on doing so .
Grace , 30 is not too late. The right person for you is around the corner. Don't listen to lies regarding your age. Many men would die t9 have a principle, smart & hardworking woman like you.
Being educated and having academic knowledge does not mean you are street wise. God of all creation help us women to discernthe truth fromthe lie and live our lives. where are the men in their 40's looking for a spouse??
Majority of men in their 40s are in clubs chasing around gurls in their twenties yet they have wives at home. So both genders and agemates aren't satisfied with their love lives.
Marriage is an insane institution, a union where there's no mr.or miss right and quite automatic when the time is ripe. Going for a date with books sister to show that you're are an avid reader, can't add up. Be focused do one thing at a time. I'm sorry, God won't give you a perfect patner but araw material for you to mould in prayer. Successful marriages has no papers nor does it have luxurious things since time immemorial do remember. I do abide by your wishes anyway.
Grace your very beautiful at 30 it is not late to be someone wife what I can advise you never settle for less speaking from experience I got married at 21 where I found my x husband not working and I finance everything including my wedding now am divorce with 2chilrens my man left me.after he used all my resources be careful
@@janecourageous6702 Great advice thankyou.
Feminism (empowerment) and too much education have been the bane of marriages not just in Kenya, but worldwide. It has pushed women away from God's design for marriage which entails SUBMISSION, not just in words but in action. A successful man does not care about how educated you are nor how much money you make, he wants COOPERATION, SUBMISSION AND PEACE as well as VISUAL APPEAL. Sadly, well educated and successful women like this one have MASCULINE ENERGY and hence find it hard to have the qualities I have listed above that successful men are looking for not just in theory but IN PRACTICE. Therefore women with masculine energy always end up with weak men with financial problems/not successful (beta males) because those are the type of men who can live under a woman's masculine energy. My advice to this lady is very simple. 1. Eat healthy and gonga gym like a nonsense to hit the FIT criteria asap. This is the easiest to achieve as it's totally within your control 2. Tone DOWN the masculine energy and try to OVERCOME YOUR EDUCATION AND EMPOWERMENT by being humble, agreeable, cooperative, submissive and non-confrontational around successful men, but only after you are FIT and visually appealing neck downwards (very important to a man) 3. AVOID listening to single, bitter, unmarried or divorced women who say singlehood is paradise. They are ALL miserable, but have adopted the defence mechanism of trying to convince themselves that they are happy. Finally, if you truly believe in God and are praying, pray for God to help you conform to his design for marriage and life. That a woman should SUBMIT to a man and not COMPETE WITH or ANTAGONISE him. And that her work on this earth is to be his HELPER and not his equal who feels her education and money make her at par with him so he has to be challenged on issues you disagree with him about. Take my advice and you will find yourself married in due course. Ignore it and just buy a dog, get your degrees, get obese over time and die alone!!!
Reply deleted? Very funny. The truth hurts!
Feminism (empowerment) and too much education have been the bane of marriages not just in Kenya, but worldwide. It has pushed women away from God's design for marriage which entails SUBMISSION, not just in words but in action. A successful man does not care about how educated you are nor how much money you make, he wants COOPERATION, SUBMISSION AND PEACE as well as VISUAL APPEAL. Sadly, well educated and successful women like this one have MASCULINE ENERGY and hence find it hard to have the qualities I have listed above that successful men are looking for not just in theory but IN PRACTICE. Therefore women with masculine energy always end up with weak men with financial problems/not successful (beta males) because those are the type of men who can live under a woman's masculine energy. My advice to this lady is very simple. 1. Eat healthy and gonga gym like a nonsense to hit the FIT criteria asap. This is the easiest to achieve as it's totally within your control 2. Tone DOWN the masculine energy and try to OVERCOME YOUR EDUCATION AND EMPOWERMENT by being humble, agreeable, cooperative, submissive and non-confrontational around successful men, but only after you are FIT and visually appealing neck downwards (very important to a man) 3. AVOID listening to single, bitter, unmarried or divorced women who say singlehood is paradise. They are ALL miserable, but have adopted the defence mechanism of trying to convince themselves that they are happy. Finally, if you truly believe in God and are praying, pray for God to help you conform to his design for marriage and life. That a woman should SUBMIT to a man and not COMPETE WITH or ANTAGONISE him. And that her work on this earth is to be his HELPER and not his equal who feels her education and money make her at par with him so he has to be challenged on issues you disagree with him about. Take my advice and you will find yourself married in due course. Ignore it and just buy a dog, get your degrees, get obese over time and die alone!!!
The 1st problem was thinking and saying you need to be married. You don't need another person to make you fulfilled. Only you can do that. If you get married with that mindset, you'll always be looking for something even in that marriage that you won't find. Change your mindset and see wonderful things happening.
@@beingmisspaul5519 💯facto
You're a RARE GEM Grace❤
Rare gems are hard to find. But once found, they're a treasure for a lifetime. Trust me, who you seek is also seeking you. What you've done is manifestation. Your prayer has been answered. Soon, it will manifest in the physical. Patience and grace❤🎉
I don't know what to be more worried about. That an educated woman over 30, still thinks like this. Or that she is a teacher, entrusted with moulding young minds,😮😮
what was the main reason for this interview?
@@edwinowino3773 to get husband
I wonder
the headline speaks it all. my thoughts though
To shift blame for her onto men and or society. It's a cultural enema.
Yawn!!!.Maybe she could speak Swahili to express herself better......maybe look into yourself girl before you go to another man.
It is sad that in Kenya one would feel late not being married at 30/30s, and it's all because of society. I'm so glad to have gone out to other societies and seen people, especially men who love women who are mature, who have pursued their careeers, and get into relationships because they are compatible. Sis, please don't compromise and settle for less, or beg anyone to take you. Look beyond the Kenyan/African borders and you'll see people who see your worth, not settling for second wife or to be taken for granted. In your 30s, you should be a treasure because I believe that you're more mature and even financially independent, to grow a family with a responsible man.
❤❤❤❤Such wise counsel thankyou very much .
Life is all about learning and re learning .
Grace ,you're worthy and beautiful
Your good heart lady you spoken my words to her thank you
Very true, I hope & pray that you soon find a good man 🙏🏾, who will appreciate the treasure that you are ❤❤❤
THE SOCIETIES YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT DIVORCE RATES ARE ALMOST 60%.IN OTHERS THEY REFER WOMEN ABOVE 30 YEARS AS "LEFT OVERS".WOMEN ABOVE 30 HAVE A DECLINING FERTILITY
@mufunyiibrahim3655 Research shows that couples that got married older have the least divorce cases. Tafakari hayo. On declining fertility: how many kids can you afford to have and adequately care for, in this day and age? The declining fertility is still ok, because 2-3 kids are the preference of many people who want to give their kids their absolute best! I know so many people married in their 30s, especially in my family who got 2-3.
A relationship with God requires submission and sacrifice , marriage is also about submission and sacrifice...
She's pretty ..she deserves the best🎉❤
Pray to God to bless you with the man he created for you
Grace, you're on the right track and you have genuine focus. Delight yourself in the lord and he will grant you the desires of your heart to pass. Spend more time on your knees and surrender all to God. In his time ,he will give you the partner of your your life. In the meantime standstill on this issue and be busy in what you are doing .
All the best Grace.....May God fulfill your heart desires....u r one hardworking lady....God will come thru
Beautiful lady.
All the best Grace❤
❤❤❤❤❤Grace.
May God grant you the desires of your heart.
All the best dear 👌
You're amazing 🥰
Grace take heart. God will see you through
all the best but you are so full of yourself, everything is about you,,,, trush just continue working
Exactly it's all about herself.
I know that with age comes pressure and expectations. I, however, in my opinion, believe in first being content with who you are as a person and pray to God for the right husband. But until then, build on yourself. I know you have, but keep on doing so .
My friend marriage is not a rehabilitation centre please wake up from illusions by Steve Irungu Jermaine
She is doing poetry!
Grace , 30 is not too late. The right person for you is around the corner. Don't listen to lies regarding your age. Many men would die t9 have a principle, smart & hardworking woman like you.
Is she challenged in some way? Her speaking/posture is different. Had to watch at 1.75x speed.
@@scaramel7208 No she's not .
I know her personally,it was just a case of being nervous,first time being on camera 😊
Ooh okay ,i was thinking that way too initially @rodahmusyoka831
Ni kukata maji mob 😂
@@poulroul3738😂
she is soo full of herself good luck
Also tell us the age would you prefer
Wow,may God see you through
What l can advise you to fast and pray for even two days or five and God in Heaven will give you the suitable spouse.
Tina Mama Allan from Nakuru.
No it doesn't work that way.
She needs a relationship with God.
Before you fast ensure that t you have given your body as a living sacrifice holy and pleasing to God. Romans 12:1.
Isaiah 58 shows us there time we fast in vain
it's not negotiations, this is not a business, just say talking and come to mutual agreement
Being educated and having academic knowledge does not mean you are street wise. God of all creation help us women to discernthe truth fromthe lie and live our lives. where are the men in their 40's looking for a spouse??
Majority of men in their 40s are in clubs chasing around gurls in their twenties yet they have wives at home. So both genders and agemates aren't satisfied with their love lives.
aiii sisemi kitu bt kuna some challenges hapa....hata kama nini mhu mhu ....sio kwa ubaya bt mhu mhu
😂😂😂wueh bora Msiguse Murima! Sasa huyu!
🎉I know her she trained me in kamahuha cemestea
I have just want 2 minutes of the story and im already tired. So what is the point?
What kind of a man would u like example financially independent etc
Looking pretty
For real
nikubaya!!!! mungu saidia!!
There are good oranges and bad oranges ,bit there is no that one orange
Repent and seek God
My friend you have woken up from slumber
Is this all or there's part 2😢
My friend please wake up from slumber if you have a feminist mind you will not go far im telling you the bitter truth period by Steve Irungu Jermaine
Please,the contracts
atapata uko kwao murima 😮
No way. Red flag septic tank
Okay ❤
Is challenged in some way😮
Speech impairment or drugs?
What was /is the objective of conducting or even posting this interview?
Lusungu lwa University lwakhaire😂😂
@@irenelusweti5674 vekesingia lusungu muuniversity nomba....
Yaya! khakakho,omanye lusugu!
Next time speak Swahili....
You've been around the block quite a bit 🚩🚩🚩. But best of luck. 13:09 kichwa ngumu huyu, no wonder 😅😅😅.
They can't all be wrong, seems your weakness is extreme
Marriage is an insane institution, a union where there's no mr.or miss right and quite automatic when the time is ripe. Going for a date with books sister to show that you're are an avid reader, can't add up. Be focused do one thing at a time. I'm sorry, God won't give you a perfect patner but araw material for you to mould in prayer. Successful marriages has no papers nor does it have luxurious things since time immemorial do remember. I do abide by your wishes anyway.
Cat changed into a Lion 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@aliceyalenga7267 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 a lion is in cat family.
You dont need a husband....you need a retirement plan😂😂😂...... After years of being in the streets now is when you want to settle😂😂
@@allanrashid2287 be kind to her....
I'm David Omondi interested in Grace Ndegwa kindly share with me her contact.
I can't see the contact we connect