I'm over 30 and I need a husband now - Grace Ndegwa Shared Moments

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  • @janecourageous6702
    @janecourageous6702 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Grace your very beautiful at 30 it is not late to be someone wife what I can advise you never settle for less speaking from experience I got married at 21 where I found my x husband not working and I finance everything including my wedding now am divorce with 2chilrens my man left me.after he used all my resources be careful

    • @rodahmusyoka831
      @rodahmusyoka831 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@janecourageous6702 Great advice thankyou.

    • @diasporareturnee
      @diasporareturnee หลายเดือนก่อน

      Feminism (empowerment) and too much education have been the bane of marriages not just in Kenya, but worldwide. It has pushed women away from God's design for marriage which entails SUBMISSION, not just in words but in action. A successful man does not care about how educated you are nor how much money you make, he wants COOPERATION, SUBMISSION AND PEACE as well as VISUAL APPEAL. Sadly, well educated and successful women like this one have MASCULINE ENERGY and hence find it hard to have the qualities I have listed above that successful men are looking for not just in theory but IN PRACTICE. Therefore women with masculine energy always end up with weak men with financial problems/not successful (beta males) because those are the type of men who can live under a woman's masculine energy. My advice to this lady is very simple. 1. Eat healthy and gonga gym like a nonsense to hit the FIT criteria asap. This is the easiest to achieve as it's totally within your control 2. Tone DOWN the masculine energy and try to OVERCOME YOUR EDUCATION AND EMPOWERMENT by being humble, agreeable, cooperative, submissive and non-confrontational around successful men, but only after you are FIT and visually appealing neck downwards (very important to a man) 3. AVOID listening to single, bitter, unmarried or divorced women who say singlehood is paradise. They are ALL miserable, but have adopted the defence mechanism of trying to convince themselves that they are happy. Finally, if you truly believe in God and are praying, pray for God to help you conform to his design for marriage and life. That a woman should SUBMIT to a man and not COMPETE WITH or ANTAGONISE him. And that her work on this earth is to be his HELPER and not his equal who feels her education and money make her at par with him so he has to be challenged on issues you disagree with him about. Take my advice and you will find yourself married in due course. Ignore it and just buy a dog, get your degrees, get obese over time and die alone!!!

    • @diasporareturnee
      @diasporareturnee หลายเดือนก่อน

      Reply deleted? Very funny. The truth hurts!

    • @diasporareturnee
      @diasporareturnee 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Feminism (empowerment) and too much education have been the bane of marriages not just in Kenya, but worldwide. It has pushed women away from God's design for marriage which entails SUBMISSION, not just in words but in action. A successful man does not care about how educated you are nor how much money you make, he wants COOPERATION, SUBMISSION AND PEACE as well as VISUAL APPEAL. Sadly, well educated and successful women like this one have MASCULINE ENERGY and hence find it hard to have the qualities I have listed above that successful men are looking for not just in theory but IN PRACTICE. Therefore women with masculine energy always end up with weak men with financial problems/not successful (beta males) because those are the type of men who can live under a woman's masculine energy. My advice to this lady is very simple. 1. Eat healthy and gonga gym like a nonsense to hit the FIT criteria asap. This is the easiest to achieve as it's totally within your control 2. Tone DOWN the masculine energy and try to OVERCOME YOUR EDUCATION AND EMPOWERMENT by being humble, agreeable, cooperative, submissive and non-confrontational around successful men, but only after you are FIT and visually appealing neck downwards (very important to a man) 3. AVOID listening to single, bitter, unmarried or divorced women who say singlehood is paradise. They are ALL miserable, but have adopted the defence mechanism of trying to convince themselves that they are happy. Finally, if you truly believe in God and are praying, pray for God to help you conform to his design for marriage and life. That a woman should SUBMIT to a man and not COMPETE WITH or ANTAGONISE him. And that her work on this earth is to be his HELPER and not his equal who feels her education and money make her at par with him so he has to be challenged on issues you disagree with him about. Take my advice and you will find yourself married in due course. Ignore it and just buy a dog, get your degrees, get obese over time and die alone!!!

  • @beingmisspaul5519
    @beingmisspaul5519 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The 1st problem was thinking and saying you need to be married. You don't need another person to make you fulfilled. Only you can do that. If you get married with that mindset, you'll always be looking for something even in that marriage that you won't find. Change your mindset and see wonderful things happening.

    • @duncanmuoki194
      @duncanmuoki194 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@beingmisspaul5519 💯facto

  • @nellyresian3289
    @nellyresian3289 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You're a RARE GEM Grace❤
    Rare gems are hard to find. But once found, they're a treasure for a lifetime. Trust me, who you seek is also seeking you. What you've done is manifestation. Your prayer has been answered. Soon, it will manifest in the physical. Patience and grace❤🎉

  • @Tin_wanjala
    @Tin_wanjala หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I don't know what to be more worried about. That an educated woman over 30, still thinks like this. Or that she is a teacher, entrusted with moulding young minds,😮😮

  • @edwinowino3773
    @edwinowino3773 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    what was the main reason for this interview?

    • @nq4733
      @nq4733 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@edwinowino3773 to get husband

    • @fionajill4311
      @fionajill4311 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I wonder

    • @dawesesolutions8638
      @dawesesolutions8638 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the headline speaks it all. my thoughts though

    • @benjaminnjoroge4602
      @benjaminnjoroge4602 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      To shift blame for her onto men and or society. It's a cultural enema.

    • @mamakisan
      @mamakisan หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yawn!!!.Maybe she could speak Swahili to express herself better......maybe look into yourself girl before you go to another man.

  • @kandisphere8828
    @kandisphere8828 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It is sad that in Kenya one would feel late not being married at 30/30s, and it's all because of society. I'm so glad to have gone out to other societies and seen people, especially men who love women who are mature, who have pursued their careeers, and get into relationships because they are compatible. Sis, please don't compromise and settle for less, or beg anyone to take you. Look beyond the Kenyan/African borders and you'll see people who see your worth, not settling for second wife or to be taken for granted. In your 30s, you should be a treasure because I believe that you're more mature and even financially independent, to grow a family with a responsible man.

    • @rodahmusyoka831
      @rodahmusyoka831 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ❤❤❤❤Such wise counsel thankyou very much .
      Life is all about learning and re learning .
      Grace ,you're worthy and beautiful

    • @janecourageous6702
      @janecourageous6702 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Your good heart lady you spoken my words to her thank you

    • @HeleneaTroy
      @HeleneaTroy หลายเดือนก่อน

      Very true, I hope & pray that you soon find a good man 🙏🏾, who will appreciate the treasure that you are ❤❤❤

    • @mufunyiibrahim3655
      @mufunyiibrahim3655 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THE SOCIETIES YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT DIVORCE RATES ARE ALMOST 60%.IN OTHERS THEY REFER WOMEN ABOVE 30 YEARS AS "LEFT OVERS".WOMEN ABOVE 30 HAVE A DECLINING FERTILITY

    • @kandisphere8828
      @kandisphere8828 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @mufunyiibrahim3655 Research shows that couples that got married older have the least divorce cases. Tafakari hayo. On declining fertility: how many kids can you afford to have and adequately care for, in this day and age? The declining fertility is still ok, because 2-3 kids are the preference of many people who want to give their kids their absolute best! I know so many people married in their 30s, especially in my family who got 2-3.

  • @AngelaImali
    @AngelaImali หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    A relationship with God requires submission and sacrifice , marriage is also about submission and sacrifice...

  • @rachelmilanya7191
    @rachelmilanya7191 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She's pretty ..she deserves the best🎉❤

  • @aliceyalenga7267
    @aliceyalenga7267 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Pray to God to bless you with the man he created for you

  • @kiturdk
    @kiturdk หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Grace, you're on the right track and you have genuine focus. Delight yourself in the lord and he will grant you the desires of your heart to pass. Spend more time on your knees and surrender all to God. In his time ,he will give you the partner of your your life. In the meantime standstill on this issue and be busy in what you are doing .

  • @mercyndegwa5367
    @mercyndegwa5367 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    All the best Grace.....May God fulfill your heart desires....u r one hardworking lady....God will come thru

  • @nyamburaalice2276
    @nyamburaalice2276 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Beautiful lady.
    All the best Grace❤

  • @rodahmusyoka831
    @rodahmusyoka831 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    ❤❤❤❤❤Grace.
    May God grant you the desires of your heart.
    All the best dear 👌
    You're amazing 🥰

  • @MikeMbachi
    @MikeMbachi หลายเดือนก่อน

    Grace take heart. God will see you through

  • @theuriisaac7369
    @theuriisaac7369 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    all the best but you are so full of yourself, everything is about you,,,, trush just continue working

    • @irenelusweti5674
      @irenelusweti5674 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactly it's all about herself.

  • @Phillpns413
    @Phillpns413 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I know that with age comes pressure and expectations. I, however, in my opinion, believe in first being content with who you are as a person and pray to God for the right husband. But until then, build on yourself. I know you have, but keep on doing so .

  • @SteveIrunguJermaine
    @SteveIrunguJermaine หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    My friend marriage is not a rehabilitation centre please wake up from illusions by Steve Irungu Jermaine

  • @chebukosiwasike
    @chebukosiwasike หลายเดือนก่อน

    She is doing poetry!

  • @judithn3716
    @judithn3716 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Grace , 30 is not too late. The right person for you is around the corner. Don't listen to lies regarding your age. Many men would die t9 have a principle, smart & hardworking woman like you.

  • @scaramel7208
    @scaramel7208 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Is she challenged in some way? Her speaking/posture is different. Had to watch at 1.75x speed.

    • @rodahmusyoka831
      @rodahmusyoka831 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@scaramel7208 No she's not .
      I know her personally,it was just a case of being nervous,first time being on camera 😊

    • @fullcircle503
      @fullcircle503 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ooh okay ,i was thinking that way too initially ​@rodahmusyoka831

    • @poulroul3738
      @poulroul3738 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Ni kukata maji mob 😂

    • @GO-wr3de
      @GO-wr3de 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@poulroul3738😂

  • @theuriisaac7369
    @theuriisaac7369 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    she is soo full of herself good luck

  • @kimsexpert2087
    @kimsexpert2087 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Also tell us the age would you prefer

  • @EmanuelMasikaWekesa
    @EmanuelMasikaWekesa หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow,may God see you through

  • @mamaallanbettybosire2303
    @mamaallanbettybosire2303 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What l can advise you to fast and pray for even two days or five and God in Heaven will give you the suitable spouse.
    Tina Mama Allan from Nakuru.

    • @irenelusweti5674
      @irenelusweti5674 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No it doesn't work that way.
      She needs a relationship with God.

    • @irenelusweti5674
      @irenelusweti5674 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Before you fast ensure that t you have given your body as a living sacrifice holy and pleasing to God. Romans 12:1.

    • @irenelusweti5674
      @irenelusweti5674 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Isaiah 58 shows us there time we fast in vain

  • @theuriisaac7369
    @theuriisaac7369 หลายเดือนก่อน

    it's not negotiations, this is not a business, just say talking and come to mutual agreement

  • @justinanthenge619
    @justinanthenge619 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Being educated and having academic knowledge does not mean you are street wise. God of all creation help us women to discernthe truth fromthe lie and live our lives. where are the men in their 40's looking for a spouse??

    • @nellyresian3289
      @nellyresian3289 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Majority of men in their 40s are in clubs chasing around gurls in their twenties yet they have wives at home. So both genders and agemates aren't satisfied with their love lives.

  • @toniengechu
    @toniengechu หลายเดือนก่อน

    aiii sisemi kitu bt kuna some challenges hapa....hata kama nini mhu mhu ....sio kwa ubaya bt mhu mhu

  • @chibandamwende3676
    @chibandamwende3676 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😂😂😂wueh bora Msiguse Murima! Sasa huyu!

  • @mainamuthoni1715
    @mainamuthoni1715 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🎉I know her she trained me in kamahuha cemestea

  • @joskyshams4758
    @joskyshams4758 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I have just want 2 minutes of the story and im already tired. So what is the point?

  • @kimsexpert2087
    @kimsexpert2087 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What kind of a man would u like example financially independent etc

  • @MikeMbachi
    @MikeMbachi หลายเดือนก่อน

    Looking pretty

    • @MikeMbachi
      @MikeMbachi หลายเดือนก่อน

      For real

  • @justinanthenge619
    @justinanthenge619 หลายเดือนก่อน

    nikubaya!!!! mungu saidia!!

  • @GO-wr3de
    @GO-wr3de 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    There are good oranges and bad oranges ,bit there is no that one orange

  • @simongithu6391
    @simongithu6391 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Repent and seek God

  • @SteveIrunguJermaine
    @SteveIrunguJermaine หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My friend you have woken up from slumber

  • @irenelusweti5674
    @irenelusweti5674 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is this all or there's part 2😢

  • @SteveIrunguJermaine
    @SteveIrunguJermaine หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My friend please wake up from slumber if you have a feminist mind you will not go far im telling you the bitter truth period by Steve Irungu Jermaine

  • @johnnjoroge6483
    @johnnjoroge6483 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please,the contracts

  • @maggierattz8552
    @maggierattz8552 หลายเดือนก่อน

    atapata uko kwao murima 😮

  • @kip1052
    @kip1052 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No way. Red flag septic tank

  • @wambuikimani9652
    @wambuikimani9652 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Okay ❤

  • @irenelusweti5674
    @irenelusweti5674 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Is challenged in some way😮

  • @benjaminnjoroge4602
    @benjaminnjoroge4602 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Speech impairment or drugs?

  • @sarahgoretty2103
    @sarahgoretty2103 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What was /is the objective of conducting or even posting this interview?

  • @irenelusweti5674
    @irenelusweti5674 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Lusungu lwa University lwakhaire😂😂

    • @jerrybwibo2589
      @jerrybwibo2589 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@irenelusweti5674 vekesingia lusungu muuniversity nomba....

    • @chebukosiwasike
      @chebukosiwasike หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yaya! khakakho,omanye lusugu!

  • @mamakisan
    @mamakisan หลายเดือนก่อน

    Next time speak Swahili....

  • @Faluthe
    @Faluthe หลายเดือนก่อน

    You've been around the block quite a bit 🚩🚩🚩. But best of luck. 13:09 kichwa ngumu huyu, no wonder 😅😅😅.

  • @peterkahure4545
    @peterkahure4545 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They can't all be wrong, seems your weakness is extreme

  • @ChrisWabwire
    @ChrisWabwire หลายเดือนก่อน

    Marriage is an insane institution, a union where there's no mr.or miss right and quite automatic when the time is ripe. Going for a date with books sister to show that you're are an avid reader, can't add up. Be focused do one thing at a time. I'm sorry, God won't give you a perfect patner but araw material for you to mould in prayer. Successful marriages has no papers nor does it have luxurious things since time immemorial do remember. I do abide by your wishes anyway.

  • @aliceyalenga7267
    @aliceyalenga7267 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Cat changed into a Lion 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @alearn2714
      @alearn2714 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@aliceyalenga7267 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 a lion is in cat family.

  • @allanrashid2287
    @allanrashid2287 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You dont need a husband....you need a retirement plan😂😂😂...... After years of being in the streets now is when you want to settle😂😂

    • @chefabby3800
      @chefabby3800 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@allanrashid2287 be kind to her....

  • @davidomondi8179
    @davidomondi8179 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm David Omondi interested in Grace Ndegwa kindly share with me her contact.

  • @jumaismaelchamps7273
    @jumaismaelchamps7273 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can't see the contact we connect