Boredom in metrimonial relation: |urdu| |Prof Dr Javed Iqbal|

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  • How to handle boredom in relationship with spouse: Prof Dr Javed Iqbal responds to a question in a session.
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    Prof Dr Javed Iqbal is a surgeon with special interest in laparoscopic and cancer surgery. His professional qualifications are FCPS, FRCS, FACS, FICLS, MCPS-HPE.
    He is one of the pioneers of laparoscopic surgery in the region. He has trained more than 50 surgeons formally as their supervisor and thousands more who have worked with him in various capacities during his four decades long professional journey. He is an official mentor of Royal College of Glasgow and International Course Director of American College of Surgeons for Advance Trauma Life Support (ATLS). He is a well known medical educationist and has been a part of College of Physicians and Surgeons, University of Health Sciences and Nishter Medical University as faculty of medical education.He is on the reviewers penal of various index medical journals. He has more than twenty five research publications on his credit along with a book on surgery entitled "The Operative Surgery"He is a published poet, shot story writer, critic and broadcaster. His current areas of effort are teaching and training of soft skill at various national and international fora. He is very active on social media and his team runs a very well subscribed youtube channel covering versatile topics& interests. He is regularly being invited on national & international TV shows for his intellectual contribution. He is an influential speaker. Millions of people are getting benefit from his videos on medical education, FCPS training, parenting, relationships, human wellbeing and various other social issues.

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  • @mariachohan5703
    @mariachohan5703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +948

    I gave my husband all whatever I can and I always tried my best to communicate whatever I m feeling but he always took me for granted and whenever I said him that u r so important for me u r world to me he said tou ab yh aik bt m sari zindge sunu ga kya nd it is not that I hv been saying this thing to him daily but on and off it is very difficult to make a man happy after becoming his wife according to him what he can gave me was just physical attachment 😢😢😢😢and then he left me for no reason! he didn't divorced me and also didn't want me with him .... It's my request to all who r reading my comments give love to ur wives and respect them praise them and make them realise that you love them!😢😢😢it's really hard for a girl to bear all this

    • @zorroali6303
      @zorroali6303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Yeh rishta dono taraf se parwaan charhta hai, Sometimes women also feel that this man should br pressed max so that he can’t look around and he should act like a puppet... Women must make his men like a KING so that She can have life of a QUEEN.... 👍 BEST FORMULA 👍

    • @allaboutblender1647
      @allaboutblender1647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Very sad, actualy he dsnt desrvs ur love and attntion, best wishes for your future.

    • @MK-yf1vk
      @MK-yf1vk 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      I cn feel ur pain sis😭
      Same happening with me nd im pregnant too.having the most severe depression i cant explain.he nd his mom emotionally abused me throughout the time on different issues.nw when i conceived he left me at my parents place nd didnt contact me

    • @thefooderspecialist4383
      @thefooderspecialist4383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@MK-yf1vk
      ALLAH ki zaat ki gai ziadti nai bholta

    • @alikazmi7525
      @alikazmi7525 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      میری بھن اللہ کی زات اپ کی مشکلیں اسان کرے ،،پنجتن پاک کہ صدقے بی بی فاطمہ سیدہ خاتون جنت سلام اللہ علیہ کی پاک چادر کہ صدقے اپ کہ خاوند کو ھدایت دے اور اپ اپنے گھر اباد ھو جائیں

  • @faisalzafarkhwajazafar4188
    @faisalzafarkhwajazafar4188 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Cheating, betrayal, selfishness, indifference, disinterest and lying is killing this relationship these days. People lose interest and attraction in each other.

  • @shahidmahmood6932
    @shahidmahmood6932 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    جزاک اللہ خیر بہت ہی اچھی باتیں ہیں اللہ تعالٰی ہم سب کو عمل کی توفیق دے آمین

  • @ayeshamariyam1418
    @ayeshamariyam1418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    اللہ پاک ہر شوہر کو ہدایت دے اور اپنی ذمہ داریوں کو ذمہ داری سے سنبھالے

    • @traza2185
      @traza2185 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Our her wife ko bhi jo wo zalim hoti hien

    • @ZeeshanHaider33938
      @ZeeshanHaider33938 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ayesha ap married hain?

    • @traza2185
      @traza2185 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ZeeshanHaider33938 app rishta dhond rhy ho aik mere liay bhi plz

    • @Gtv1000
      @Gtv1000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      عایشہ صرف husband کو ا

    • @muhammadjamil1597
      @muhammadjamil1597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      عائیشہ مریم. . . آپ کا نام کتنا متبرک. اور پاکیزہ ھے۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔اپنے نام کی لاج رکھیں اور عائیشہ اور مریم بن کر دکھائیں۔
      ۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔
      جب آپ اس دنیا اور اسکی ھر چیز سے بڑھ کر اپنے شوھر کو اھمیت دیں گی تو قانون قدرت یعنی عمل اور رد عمل برابر ھوتے ھیں کے تحت آپ کو وہ کچھ حاصل ھو جاے گا جسکی آپ تمنا کرتی. ھیں۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔۔
      اپ نے ایک بات دل میں سوچنی اور ایک دن میں کئی دفعہ دل میں دہرانی ھے۔
      " اسمیں شائید. میری غلطی ھو "
      جس دن آپ نے اس فقرے پر یقین کر لیا آپ کی زندگی بدل جاے گی۔ازمائیش شرط ھے۔

  • @massagefortruth6811
    @massagefortruth6811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    💐Dr.sahb me aapko apne ustaz ki tarh sunta hu masha allah hme aapse bahut kuch sikhne ko milta he Allah aapse razi ho. 🇮🇳India rajsthan ❤️

  • @lifeteaches4477
    @lifeteaches4477 3 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    This relationship is dead in West & on struggle phase in Pakistan. I think smartphones have created a big challenge in such relations.

    • @saimarehman6573
      @saimarehman6573 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes my husband work at telenor and remain so busy.... Infact always his phone is everything for him

    • @DIG3T
      @DIG3T 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      True....it is destroying my home and 18yrs of marriage as husband is into dating apps

    • @domesticmomlife7436
      @domesticmomlife7436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

    • @kalsoomjaved4580
      @kalsoomjaved4580 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes bcz fn mn sb kch available hota hi awse logon klie.bad qisamti se jo limmits hmain Quran pak mn btai gai hain un ko cross krne ki wja hi rishton mn twazun khtam ho raha hi.

    • @searchfortruth6889
      @searchfortruth6889 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@saimarehman6573 so the prob is not mobile phone, its materialism

  • @nigellaonceagain7453
    @nigellaonceagain7453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    I’ve been married for over 26 years Alhamdolillah and if you met us you would think we just met. A Marriage I feel is a cooking pot of a variety of ingredients with patience being the fuel,You will need a handful of respect including acceptance of your faults, a dash of passion, a spoon of empathy and compassion stir in some value add in a cup of friendship and allow it space to release its own individual flavour. Don’t over stir Or mould out of character. Spending time doesn’t mean shopping or eating out putting more strain on an already strained wallet, activities you can do together going for walks,simple picnics,cooking, gardening, playing games etc can bring closeness and laughter

    • @hellokitty-lw2mb
      @hellokitty-lw2mb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Love the analogy you used here. This comment was a pleasure to read

    • @sheezariaz8920
      @sheezariaz8920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MASHALLAH 😇

    • @hasbasmamavlog1280
      @hasbasmamavlog1280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are lucky ma shaa Allah

    • @shehnazbaig4977
      @shehnazbaig4977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maa Sha Allah subhan Allah

    • @thelaibslife1379
      @thelaibslife1379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yah most of the time we don't have enough money to go for hoteling nor for shopping but we spend quality time. We don't use cell phone when we sit together. Peace of mind is more important than luxury life we both are working and please pray for me May Allah blessed us with happy healthy kids Ameen it's 6th year going to our wedding

  • @wszaks3842
    @wszaks3842 3 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    Mostly husbands does not like to listen this sort of communication but always said behs mat karo. so end result is anger hate etc

    • @everythingispossible9382
      @everythingispossible9382 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😞

    • @sanasameer486
      @sanasameer486 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I agree with you. I personally suffering from the same situation.

    • @muhammadumarhashmi3146
      @muhammadumarhashmi3146 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aap right ho asa h hota

    • @muhammadumarhashmi3146
      @muhammadumarhashmi3146 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Husband's nami loago k biwi s kuch sunana achha ni lagta

    • @drhina8780
      @drhina8780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That's true
      Communicating and discussing something to husband related to their odd behaviour comes under arguments

  • @muhammadarsalan8859
    @muhammadarsalan8859 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I really appreciate you(sir),you are spreading maturity in society through your knowledge and giving our society a new and broad way of thinking and analyzing things

  • @nighatnoor3472
    @nighatnoor3472 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    ‏بال، کپڑوں، جوتوں اور بناؤ سنگھار سے زیادہ اپنے مطالعہ، شعور اور گفتگو پر کام کریں...کوئی بھی دس سیکنڈ یا زیادہ سے زیادہ ایک منٹ تک آپ کے بناؤ سنگھار سے متاثر ہوسکتا ہے...اس کے بعد آپ کو گفتگو ہی کرنا ہوتی ہے....!!!🌸

  • @_farhatkadri_1003
    @_farhatkadri_1003 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ma Sha Allah... This session was really beautiful. Actually very little communication creates miracles 👌👌👍

  • @themultitasker9332
    @themultitasker9332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Sometimes communication creates fights

  • @doua-zia-
    @doua-zia- 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Dr sab app 100% such kah rahy hy.jab her waqat tahzek orr byintha tanqeed ky rawaiye ka samna karna parta hy to insaan zinda Laash ban jata hy orr phir rozana jab shohar boly main to aik laash ky sath rahta hon tooo insaan roz marta hy .......😢😢

  • @ravinderbhat6163
    @ravinderbhat6163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Dr. Sahab has saved my marriage.....God Bless you Dr. Sahab.

    • @sadiaasad7513
      @sadiaasad7513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bhai keep on listening so you don't forget

    • @realknowledgeitv9542
      @realknowledgeitv9542 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read Quran in ur language

    • @pa2359
      @pa2359 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He just said set boundaries, how he save your marriage

    • @DontOpenThisChannel
      @DontOpenThisChannel หลายเดือนก่อน

      Allah has saved your marriage.

  • @KanwalsLife
    @KanwalsLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    MASHA ALLAH stay blessed Sir
    Apki videos sy hamesha positive vibes ati hain 😍
    I wish k hr insan apko sunana shuru kar day to sary fasad hi khatam ho jay families ma

  • @brightstartiktok2m925
    @brightstartiktok2m925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    There is no doubt that the future of our nation must and will greatly depend the type of education we give to our students......

  • @shahidtahir77
    @shahidtahir77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Personally speaking..it's all based on mutual respect.give repect,take respect...love begets love

    • @sabaishfaq2309
      @sabaishfaq2309 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Curiosityoffsite aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

  • @AliAhmadAwan
    @AliAhmadAwan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    Bht Zabardast baat! 👏

    • @brightstartiktok2m925
      @brightstartiktok2m925 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Love you

    • @sumairavirk1466
      @sumairavirk1466 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes Ali bro

    • @adnanasrajpootji7195
      @adnanasrajpootji7195 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love day par rakhte Hain 🖕🙄

    • @tahabaloch5281
      @tahabaloch5281 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I always watch ⌚ your videos and liked your channel......Ali Ahmed Awan

    • @mubasherzaidi8286
      @mubasherzaidi8286 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dr javed ap bht qabil doctr ur ak achy insan hain keep it up mein apsy milna chata hn kc din mein khd be dr hn phd kr rha hn

  • @farheenanjum8901
    @farheenanjum8901 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    اسلام علیکم جناب اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کو جزائے خیر عطا کرے اللہ تعالیٰ آپ کی حفاظت فرما آپ کی عمر دراز کرے آمین یارب العالمین

  • @InfoRangOfficial
    @InfoRangOfficial 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    سر آپ بہت اچھی باتیں کی ہیں اللہ تعالی آپ کو سدا خوش رکھے آمین..

  • @ahsanulhaque1092
    @ahsanulhaque1092 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Ma Sha Allah keep teaching of us like this and I love when you make understand openly ❤️

  • @siddiqze
    @siddiqze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I find it extremely disrespectful to share jokes specially related to spouses. This is the root of all relationships as all the relationships are created based on this relationship. Love your spouses for the sake of Allah SBT. Any injustice committed will be a sin on our part for which we will be questioned.

    • @iryaprince840
      @iryaprince840 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sir agr spouse sunna hi na chahy to kiya kre??bar bar in ki ignorance ko ignor kr deti hu phir b whi sunna hi nae kuch b..kiya kits jaye

    • @raheelsharif6316
      @raheelsharif6316 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@iryaprince840 dear madam find out the cause of the problem , Kon SE waja SE ho la taluq hogya haii ho reason dondo and cheating selfishness

  • @stealthisgreat
    @stealthisgreat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you! For the kind video you made Dr. Sahab.

  • @kaneezaskari2062
    @kaneezaskari2062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    im married from 8 yrs Alhamdulillah my husbnd so caring,loving nd responsible person ...even when i hv some problem he take carr of our kids gv him food,bath everything nd he always says if u dont with me how can i live without u...but never say k 'mai tmse bht pyar krta hu, if i asked him do u love me he always says no...

    • @Vs0105
      @Vs0105 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ma sha Allah❤️

    • @bilalcorner8567
      @bilalcorner8567 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      MashAllah.

  • @asimfiroz4527
    @asimfiroz4527 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    ماشاء اللہ بہت خوب
    آج سے اور زیادہ توجہ دونگا

  • @BushraComputer55
    @BushraComputer55 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Sir "Allah" aapko lambi umer se nawaze......🤲

  • @rashdawaseem1689
    @rashdawaseem1689 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great sir....yours talk is always impressive and
    heart touching.JazakAllah

  • @IkPtipolitics
    @IkPtipolitics 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dil cheer dia apki is guftagu ny. Asa laga Jasay Mari hi bt hurai hu. Main St kuch nh nh sakti. Allah apko ajar dy

  • @muhamamd784
    @muhamamd784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    This relation is so beautifull plz guys always respect girls they r so cute

  • @sohailshaikh1334
    @sohailshaikh1334 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Pataa nahi insaan Kyo nahi samajhtaa ki ye duniya hamesha kaa thikaana nahi hai.. Dil bahelaane ke liye Jannat hai naa ?? Allah Taufeeq de.. Ameen

  • @fouzianoreen9102
    @fouzianoreen9102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir.....mashaAllah yr health n weight is getting more maintained ....keep it u...
    ( physicality )PQ is improving...

  • @NajeebKhan-ks8ty
    @NajeebKhan-ks8ty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Well said dear & you have been very impressive right from your education days, stay blessed.
    Najeeb Khan, writers colony if you remember

  • @scatteredpearls4483
    @scatteredpearls4483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    سر یہ شعر حفیظ ہوشیارپوری کی غزل سے ہے۔
    دلوں کی الجھنیں بڑھتی رہیں گی
    اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے

  • @dramnarasul-dermatologist366
    @dramnarasul-dermatologist366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Very well said sir, Spouse is the Best Relation in the world 👍

  • @IMN0tVer3
    @IMN0tVer3 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    u have such a positive thinking about this relationship...if every man understand these little points so every house will be paradise

  • @farhanghani9774
    @farhanghani9774 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent video of you tube channel... Allah Pak bht kamyabyan ata kry Ameen

  • @sheezariaz8920
    @sheezariaz8920 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You're an inspiration ❤️🌸

  • @umairbinarif728
    @umairbinarif728 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    دلوں کی الجھنیں بڑھتی رہیں گی
    اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے
    حفیظ ہوشیارپوری

  • @fauziamunir7221
    @fauziamunir7221 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautifuly explained, JazakAllahu kheir

  • @mansoorahmed9578
    @mansoorahmed9578 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sir you are inspiration to medical students plz also make videos for students THANK YOU 😍

  • @deebars7413
    @deebars7413 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s the best of luck if you find a loving and caring person in your life as a soulmate , a husband or wife . Both have to be flexible and honest with each other. Marriages take a long time to settle. Communication is the key. I was so shy to communicate when I was angry about something and used to get silent and never say anything. My husband gets the credit that he changed me , he helped me changing this annoying habit of me. I had that self pity self harm habits but I worked hard to get rid of them and be positive.

    • @raheelsharif6316
      @raheelsharif6316 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nowadays communication is totally lacking in our society .instead of blaming another partner one should find some mistakes in ourself then try to blame ..this is the biggest problem in our relations now

    • @irumemaan976
      @irumemaan976 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@raheelsharif6316 ............0.........................,................................................................

  • @muneebkhan7465
    @muneebkhan7465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    If you really love eachother's company you will never get bored.

    • @syed__.
      @syed__. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sir ager koi asi bt Suny na shoher bt hi na Sunay to

  • @shehnazbaig4977
    @shehnazbaig4977 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful talking dr saheb, jazak Allah khairan kaseera

  • @raheelthegenius878
    @raheelthegenius878 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dr sahab your intellactual thinking and thoughts are really admiring, i always follow your great advise.

  • @sasajjad3437
    @sasajjad3437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    'دلوں کی الجھنیں بڑھتی رہیں گی
    اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے'
    یہ شعر حفیظ ہوشیارپوری کا ہے۔
    غزل کا آخری شعر :
    حفیظ ان سے میں جتنا بد گماں ہوں
    وہ مجھ سے اس قدر بر ہم نہ ہوں گے

    • @syedibrahim3322
      @syedibrahim3322 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agar sab log use samaj jaye tho insha Allah saare fasad SE Bach jayenge

  • @quratulainainee2210
    @quratulainainee2210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sir if you see my comment please make a vedio of family behavior in which parents give more values and respect to earning child and always taunt jobless child and alwaya give examples of others

  • @muazkashif4761
    @muazkashif4761 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so knowledge able and great person!God bless you!

  • @rangzindagikay-5
    @rangzindagikay-5 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great job Masha Allah bht humble aur dheema lehja hai Aap k samjhane ka really like a professor 👌

  • @mihbaarmalik5117
    @mihbaarmalik5117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wonderful propagation Sir. But with due respect, I'd like to do a little correction regarding poetry which you used.
    The poet's name is Hafeez Hoshiarpuri, not Tufail Hoshiarpuri and it's
    'Dilon ki ULJHANEN bharti rahen gi
    Agr khch mashware baham na hn ge.'

  • @malakbarkatali3429
    @malakbarkatali3429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Good wife is gift of Allah take care of this gift

  • @muhammadishaq7112
    @muhammadishaq7112 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sir u r blessing for all of us..May u live long

  • @Mahaahmedvlogs
    @Mahaahmedvlogs 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kia bat hai sir aapki...♥️😍amazing logical example I hope sab ko yeh bat samajh ajaye jinki life me AISA Kuch problem hai...sir Muhabbat to miljati hai but izzat se Muhabbat Karna or usi izzat se rishte ko nibhana hi Kamal hai

  • @munirmusawar8111
    @munirmusawar8111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    سر میاں بیوی کے رشتے میں اکتاہٹ صرف اور صرف برے معاشی حالات، مرد کی مردانہ طاقت کی کمی کمزوری، بیوی کا اولاد پیدہ نا کرنا، عورت کا منہ پھٹ ہونا اور مرد کا ہتھ چھُٹ ہونا ہے،. ان سب سے بڑھ کر یہ دو مختلف نیچرز کا ملاپ ہوتا ہے، اگر دونو کی نیچر نا ملے تو شادی کے دوسرے ہفتے ہی اکتاہٹ ہونے لگتی ہے.

  • @beenish434
    @beenish434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    We lack the appreciating attitude, so we loses the best relations, plus ego is another big issue among males

    • @aminaraza4060
      @aminaraza4060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True

    • @fizanasif4625
      @fizanasif4625 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fake...

    • @sanasameer486
      @sanasameer486 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It is true

    • @fizanasif4625
      @fizanasif4625 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sanasameer486 Then you women's don't have understood the reality of men's till today

  • @mshahbazriasat
    @mshahbazriasat 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    بہت خوبصورت باتیں ۔۔۔ شعر جو آپ نے سُنایا وہ غالباََ حفیظ ہوشیار پوری کا ہے

  • @s.ksharingkanwal1551
    @s.ksharingkanwal1551 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    mashaAllah
    amazing and true sharing
    stay blessed bro
    bht bht jazakAllah
    🥰🥰

  • @zafar6e
    @zafar6e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    دلوں کی ۔۔۔۔الجھنیں۔۔۔ بڑھتی رہیں گی ۔
    اگر کچھ مشورے باہم نہ ہوں گے

  • @asmapsychologistofficial2153
    @asmapsychologistofficial2153 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    اگر کسی کو نفسیاتی مسئلہ ہو ocd یا بائی پولر یا کوئی بھی صحت سے متعلق مسئلہ ہو تو ہم سے رجوع کریں۔اللہ سب کو صحت مند رکھے شکریہ
    ..

    • @aqstarrzz415
      @aqstarrzz415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dimagh kharab ho gia hay pakistan ke mahol ko dekh ke or sun ke.....in sab logon ko fix kar do please 🙏

  • @sameerahali807
    @sameerahali807 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautifully explained
    JazakAllah khair

  • @BasitAli-ql1zd
    @BasitAli-ql1zd 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great topic sir you are such a nice man God give you long life

  • @drzalikhairfan9046
    @drzalikhairfan9046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Conditions getting worse when you r living in a join family and husband is more inclined towards his siblings and parents..uo apko usi tarah treat krna shuru kryega jaisy usky ghr waly apky bary ma sochty hai.pyr krna duur ki bat bs taunting behavior shuru hote ha bat bat pay...am a doctor.going to hospital in the morning and back to home in the evening..at home my husband is trying to find my faults and taunting me for everything..this makes me very 😢.. sometimes I want to get out of this relationship but bcz of my kids I can't take any step

    • @adeelkhan7065
      @adeelkhan7065 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shohr tani hui rassi pe chalta ha joint family system ma..
      Mgr m ye sochta hon k job k sath bachon aur ghr ko time dena ktna mshkl hota hoga apke leye.. Kya aisa ni hoskta k aap kch arsa job skip krden.. Phr jb ghr smbhal jaye to ksi moqa pr phr s shuru krlen
      Beharhaal sbr ksi b rishta ki kamyabi k lye bht zrori ha dr sahiba

    • @aminaraza4060
      @aminaraza4060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry for you..they have an ego problem..do not appreciate that u r working..may Allah guide n protect you 🤲❣️

    • @mohammad4548
      @mohammad4548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Pursue your job so that you can get out of this tensed environment for some hours of the day ,, otherwise the house wives develope all the hypertensive diseases before age..n yes susral wants a deaf n dumb robot , who can't even breathe with her own wish n will.n they treat you like paun ki juti, even servants of the house have more respect...but mufaqat e amal happens ,it can take five to ten years or so but surely Allah rewards the sabir..

    • @sultansahib3304
      @sultansahib3304 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mohammad4548 jahan ye sb shuru ho jaye wahan mamlat ka Sahi ho Jana Aik mujza he hae...
      Warna bs azeyat he hissy main ati hae...ab wo sabar py depand karta hae k ktna arsa wo azeeyat leni hae

    • @ashowbizchannel4883
      @ashowbizchannel4883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      U are right..joint family m rhna aziyat sy km ni🙏🙏🙏

  • @muhammadharoon3591
    @muhammadharoon3591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ye un logon k liye ha jo parhy likhy Han ya un me kuch shaoor hy jahil logon ko izzat dy k daikha to wo khud ko pta ni kya samjny lag jaty Han aik parhi likhi biwi ko an parh shohar bht mushkil zindagi ho jati hy.

    • @saifuali2654
      @saifuali2654 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Very so much reality ........ Izat do tu ulta sir pr cherh jatay hain k hum tu ye hi izat deserve krte hain.....

  • @rasheesyed8834
    @rasheesyed8834 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Boht achi batein ki apne dr saab...jazakallah

  • @iaman00b65
    @iaman00b65 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great service for all families in this video

  • @khurramali007
    @khurramali007 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Sir In-Laws Start Treating Daughter-In-Law as a Maid After Some Time.

    • @ayesha7766
      @ayesha7766 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That time won’t last forever, one day he would regret and

    • @waheedabashir4898
      @waheedabashir4898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There are two reasons why parents marry their children off
      1. to preserve ones chastity
      2. To continue the next generation of offsprings
      Nowhere does it say to bring home a maid.
      In Islam no where does it tell you to be a maid. If your in-laws wanted that then perhaps they should pay for a maid. However, If you wish to increase the love between you and your spouse then you can support your husband with his family but it’s not obligatory upon you and one shouldn’t feel shy in expressing that.

    • @zurbafpoppyzurbuft9366
      @zurbafpoppyzurbuft9366 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ap thora ca kam kr lain gi to mot nahi a jati...apny parents or apny lye bhi to kam krty han ap.
      Ladles admiyon sy sub kuch chahti han.....or family ko help out krty waqt selfish ho jati han

    • @ummakaash3380
      @ummakaash3380 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sometimes??
      No!
      All the times

    • @MNTL_Venomofficial
      @MNTL_Venomofficial 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@zurbafpoppyzurbuft9366 app ki language bta rahi hay k app kitnay mohazzab Hain aur kis Tara treat kertay Hain logo ko

  • @safiafaisal4254
    @safiafaisal4254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    sir ap ke sari batin thek hain..
    mgr yoh husband jo apni wife ko ar beechon ko time nhi dety ..
    joint family m rhty hovy ; parents ar bhen bhiyoun ke waja sy...
    un k bary m kiya khin gy..

  • @hcgdco2537
    @hcgdco2537 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bht zabrdast ser...sari mery dil o dmag ki batyn ki hn apny...

  • @AbdulMannan-mz4vk
    @AbdulMannan-mz4vk 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    v. well convey your message.
    or yehi rishta hy jo jannat main b qaim rhta, so indeed this relationship is big blessing or gift for us.
    Allhumdullelah🙏

  • @muhamamd784
    @muhamamd784 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Bwain bohat poyari hoti hain insan mai akal hni chye only kesay bewian hamari itni khidmat krti hain

  • @arshdhiman9039
    @arshdhiman9039 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love from india thanks ji 👌👌👏👏

    • @lifehacks9760
      @lifehacks9760 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love from Dhanbad Jharkhand India ❤️❤️

    • @salmanzabha7428
      @salmanzabha7428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What a amazing Explained

    • @lifehacks9760
      @lifehacks9760 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@salmanzabha7428 bilkul

  • @upwardsacademy
    @upwardsacademy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thankyou very much sir g .
    U r so great . I m really very thankful to you for this vedio . Because it will change me . And like me others 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @Fatima-rz8qg
    @Fatima-rz8qg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bht pyari batin ki Hain ap ny sir. JazakAllah

  • @romeoprince4164
    @romeoprince4164 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    وہ کام👨‍🏭 ہی مت کرو جس 🎗️کو کرنے کے بعد معافی🙏 مانگنا پڑے👉

  • @lodhi9337
    @lodhi9337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    سول ہسپتال بھاولپور میں ڈاکٹرز کی دستیابی یقینی بنایں کرونا کے مریضوں کا کوی پرسان حال نہیں

  • @ajambashir4263
    @ajambashir4263 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great sir .......sub sae pehli baat feeling hoti hae ..feeling not want money.........aap ke baat Bagair kahay samaj jaye aap ke khushi mae khush aap ke dukh Mae aap ke sath it's real relation of husband and wife.....which not between us last 30 years my deeply experienced.....practically things settle kerna too much difficult in life ....wohi samaj sakhta hae jis pee guzarti hae.........Allah bless you

  • @TalibHussain-bx2cp
    @TalibHussain-bx2cp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great sir.
    I would love to see you once in my life sir🥰

  • @mehsharhabib1692
    @mehsharhabib1692 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love from india...

  • @nageen90
    @nageen90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    What if communication is done but action is never taken even aftr communicating... doesnt tht bring more hostility

  • @shawakhan9073
    @shawakhan9073 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    ماشاء بہت خوب جناب اللہ آپ کو جزائے خیر سے نوازے اور دنیا و آخرت کی خوشیاں عطا فرمائے آمین ثم آمین یا رب العالمین ابو عبداللہ خان

  • @Mashooqali110
    @Mashooqali110 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Again smart effort shows different result.nice job Dr sb.

  • @samarbaloch263
    @samarbaloch263 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    U r right sir Communication is key but man would say u r always complaining... even discussing in soft n positive way that what I'm going through because of your ignorance . Eventually they pretend they r victims and you r evil 😓 what to do in that scenario

    • @saimashahid9239
      @saimashahid9239 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @samar baloch this is so so true

  • @AbuFatima
    @AbuFatima 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Once a wise man said;
    You can’t live with a woman and cants live without a woman.

  • @nkk6465
    @nkk6465 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    بہت عمدہ ترین میسج
    Salute

  • @trashwithibbi8531
    @trashwithibbi8531 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are such a positive person MA

  • @ARWORLDinUK
    @ARWORLDinUK 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Husbands aisa kuch sun'na b pasand nhi karty aur na he ye batain samjhty hain kash apki soch har mard ki soch hoti

    • @wow..2860
      @wow..2860 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes u r right

    • @ARWORLDinUK
      @ARWORLDinUK 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@wow..2860 😊

  • @user-jj5ei5sz9c
    @user-jj5ei5sz9c 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    مجھے میرے شوہر کے ساتھ رہنا وقت گزارنا بہت اچھا لگتا ہے اور شوق ہے مگر وہ بیرون شہر کام کرتے ہیں مہینے بعد آتے ہیں تو ساس انکو میرے لیے نہیں چھوڑتیں اپنے ساتھ مصروف رکھتی ہیں ۔اس بات سے ان حرکتوں سے میرا دل دکھ گیا ہے کبھی لگتا ہے کہ میں گھر میں ہوں ہی نہیں پھر چپ کر کے روتی رہتی ہوں ۔میرا دل ٹوٹ گیا ہے ۔ میری شادی کو سات سال ہو گئے ہیں میری خواہش ادھورہ ہی ہے بہت رونا آتا ہے کہ مجھے سمجھ نہیں آتی کہ میں کیا کروں۔ اگر وہ مجھ سے بات چیت کرنے لگیں تو ساس کہتی میرا دل رکنے لگا ہے چلو ھاسپٹل لے کر ۔۔۔۔۔ پھر میں ان دونوں کے درمیان نہیں آتی ۔ساس اپنے پاس سلاتی ہیں شوہر کو ۔۔۔۔۔ کیونکہ میرے سسر فوت ہو چکے ہیں 😭😭😭😭😭😭 خدارا میرے لیے دعا کیجیے

    • @sadiqaminkhattak3058
      @sadiqaminkhattak3058 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Phr bety ki shadi q karwai hy ? Shadi na karwati ,to sari zindgi sulati apny bety ko apny sath,pata nhi kesi maaye hoti hyn ,k doosron ki betyon ki zindgi barbad kar deti hyn ,Allah poochy aesi maaon ko ,apni betyon ko to damad k paluwon se baand k rakhti hyn ,or bahu ko bety se door,

    • @aminaraza4060
      @aminaraza4060 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Allah pak apke liey Asaniyaan paida Karey...ameen

    • @kashifsaleemchudry8018
      @kashifsaleemchudry8018 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Try something new

    • @parvenakhtar4791
      @parvenakhtar4791 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @truthvoice8803
    @truthvoice8803 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Buhat hi zabardast bat ki hy ap ne javeed sar rishton me in chezon ki waqiye zarorat hoti hy

  • @anonlinetech8506
    @anonlinetech8506 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The strongest people make time to help others,Even They are Struggling with Their Own Problems, Your One Click can make me happy God Bless You🤲❣k

  • @sshaikh8104
    @sshaikh8104 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Most of husband take it for grant

    • @fatimaali5622
      @fatimaali5622 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right

    • @badarswati450
      @badarswati450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Society me dekha jaey to ghaltiyan dono taraf se hoti hain. Hamara almiya ye hy k Females or males aik dosry ko criticize karty hain. But I think kisi jaga aik responsible ho to dosry case me dosra responsible hoga.

    • @muhamamd784
      @muhamamd784 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We take forgranted but when we think deeply how a lady 👩 leave her every thing for a man to give him new generation when i think i cry ....we cannot leave our home for a day and girl leave for ever so if someone do for u and go to that extend we males also die for such relation

    • @muhamamd784
      @muhamamd784 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But we as a males should give females some space they r not like males they r soft their minds are also diffrent from males we should give them some space in case they made mistakes

    • @Saida_Sithik_Ali
      @Saida_Sithik_Ali 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      U r right🥲

  • @shaguftahmoin1958
    @shaguftahmoin1958 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Agar koi communicate hi na kerna chahey

    • @sohailnajmi5118
      @sohailnajmi5118 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ap hussband ko nakhra dekhaia karo

    • @BATen-Yaden-Masti-Nazaary
      @BATen-Yaden-Masti-Nazaary 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sohailnajmi5118 tum or mamlaaat kharb kro unk.... Mashwara de kr..

    • @areejtales
      @areejtales 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@BATen-Yaden-Masti-Nazaary hehehhe

    • @malihmefeslamnzornhichhipa6624
      @malihmefeslamnzornhichhipa6624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      دعا میں بڑی طاقت ہوتی ہے

    • @arifmemon4461
      @arifmemon4461 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      kuch time k lea dafa kr do khud he aqal ajaege, yahe to masla ha , ek simple se bt ha jb khana bht zeyada samne rakha hota ha to dakh k pet bhar jata ha, wese he agar orat mukamal mel jae to mard k je bhar jata ha to es lea kuch dore lazmi ha, fasle bht zarore hn taake mojodge or germojodgi k ahsas baki rahe. its my practice nd usefull.

  • @Polyskill
    @Polyskill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Eminent sir, you are absolutely right.

  • @sadiaalyas610
    @sadiaalyas610 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lovely msg..very truely said ..investment zaruri ha rishte ki khubsurti uski mazbuti k lye or yhe hum chor dete hain.

  • @arts_adventure111
    @arts_adventure111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Communicate kr b len to b koe Faida nai hota jb Dosra sunta he nai.aur agr sun b ly to admit nai krta apni ghalti.

    • @AZN.EDITSS
      @AZN.EDITSS 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Waqe asye hi hy sis

    • @mahnoorali2944
      @mahnoorali2944 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      True,sunny ka or glti manny ka hosla hi nae hota

    • @traza2185
      @traza2185 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Think app foran toke deti hoon gi
      Galti kerne ke kuch din bad smajahna chiay oure pyaar sey
      Gunda ban ker nhin

  • @umairiqbal2880
    @umairiqbal2880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    میں تو کہتا ہوں
    پاکستانی مردوں کو شادی سے پہلے کورس کرانا چاہئے
    کہ بیوی کو کیسے رکھتے ہیں
    اس کا احترام، اس کی خواہشوں وغیرہ کو
    کیسے سمجھتے ہیں اور پورا کیسا کرنا ہے

  • @shhhh9780
    @shhhh9780 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jis nay nhi chahna hota usk liy kuch b krlo wo nhi chahega, sabar Nmaz aur bachon ki khatir brdasht krlyn, dil p na Lyn, aur Allah sy ajar ki khatir iss Duniavi zindagi myn brdasht krlyn dua kryn k Allah uska dil bdal dey, kbhi b hurt na Hon blk zayda khubsurt healthy happy rhyn, confident, tundi bad mukhalif sy na ghbrah aey aqaab yh to chlti H tujhy uncha uraany k liy, na jhgra kryn, pyar pyar sy achy ikhlaqi sy rhny ki try kryn, phr b na bny to usko usk Hal py chor dyn, bahir sy dhky kha k ya to aqal a jaygi ya phr Allah apk liy so darwazy kholdyga agr chor b dey to, so never b hurt yourself please.

  • @oneall2785
    @oneall2785 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dil ko Thandak pauhnchti sir ko sun ker.. Doobti kachtiyo ko bachaney ko baat kertay sir hameesha. jis hud tak mumkin ho saath jurey rehne aur ALLAH per tawakal ki naat kertey sir.

  • @kiulmstutorialvideos2820
    @kiulmstutorialvideos2820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    میں تو احمد فراز کا یہ شعر کہوں گا عشق بھی کھیل ہے نصیبوں کا خاک ہو جائیں کیمیا ہو جائیں

  • @dr.shubhamaggarwal5729
    @dr.shubhamaggarwal5729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Pakistan mein apke jaise sahib aur ho.. love from India

  • @yahyagamerz2035
    @yahyagamerz2035 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ALLHA PAK hum subki zindgi pur skoon guzare..ameen

  • @waseemmohd6254
    @waseemmohd6254 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jazakallah khair sir Allah apko sehat mand aur khush rakhe