Had back surgery and his podcasts got me through recovery. He was like the uncle that always tells you what you need to hear, whether you want to or not.
Dated a nurse, oh my god. She never want to talk emotionally. She was all about the physical which got to the point had to walk away cause didn’t want to open up which just told me was not ready for a relationship
This is the best description of what's going on in life currently. Women don't have enough time or energy to care, especially after a stressful day on the clock. It's not personal, it's survival. Sad but Tru.
@@Ibelieveinmyself100 ~ ~ ~ I think that is really IT. In a nutshell. We have to prioritize the family. It's all we got when it comes right down to it. The men need and shall be placed first in the order of importance because they are the ones to whom The LORD speaks.
I was talking to my step dad last night about life and relationships. He said that he taught his daughters to be independent. He didn't want them depending on a man. 👀 So, it's not only black women who teach their daughters this; black men do as well.
Ty it’s bm the most. My mother never taught me this but my father did. However I am independent because it’s been who I have been before adulthood. Just to see my father become a man living off of women once no longer with my mother. I know no bw whose mothers or other women taught them this but I know plenty whose fathers, uncles, brothers and male cousins taught this. Whether they were players or regular dudes. Hmm, I wonder why? 😏
I hear black women say all the time that it was their fathers that taught them that. My father taught me that as well. And it’s because fathers know that black men are under performing and aren’t providers. Black women women have their shortcomings for sure. But black men like to live in denial about where they are financially, and what they built. A man that loves his daughter is not going to throw her to the wolves, knowing that these people don’t have the resources to take care of her or a family.
At 6.5-7min he's absolutely right about women being emotionally spent after managing an emotionally taxing job. I've a cousin who was an excellent nurse but when she got home she was so spent she would spend over 3 hours watching soap operas, not even watching it because tbh she really was too tired and in the end after many many years he walked away from their marriage. There was a lot more going on than just this but if it's how you start a marriage you have to ask yourself if it's going to get better or worse? Like KS says, it takes a LOT of work to be there for someone.
This man saved many so much headache and heartache. Subscribed in 2018. You are greatly missed!! The pandemic shows were GOLD!! RIP godfather. Soar high 🕊️ 🕊️
I'm Congolese born and raised in France, lived in Canada for 5 years, hustling. I felt like a man, always working, tired... like for what?! I came back to Paris last Sept, I have 46 days of vacation, less stressful job. Working like an ass didn't bring me joy/fulfillment, I want a soft life. KS is defo right
Yall got to stop with the “soft life” phrase, it comes off as fake. It’s basically saying your not naturally feminine but want to be but that’s the problem, you either are or your not.
This is why God designed it the way he did. When the man is not working and he comes home, because women don't have the same endurance, emotional control or overall energy that men have, she is supposed to help relax him and re-energize him so he can go to work better the next day. If he comes home to and exhausted, irritated, frustrated emotionally drained woman who has no ability to focus on him, cook, clean, give him attention either physically emotionally or sexually, or if she is so full of stress, anger and is simply emotionally drained herself, she is only making the situation worse for them both. She will then nag and harass him about every little thing that is not done around the house because regardless of how much women focus on their career or think they are career woman, women are still programmed deeply to be obsessed about the house. But because she now has no energy left to care about the house women now have demanded men take up the slack. But men are not the ones that change the dynamic between men and women in marriage, it was women and they simply assume that because they were then working that men were automatically going to agree to now do more chores around the house. But men never made such agreements, women simply assume that they would agree to this, but men refuse to.
You are 100% correct. God knows what He does. There is an order to things, but we as humans want to do things are own way, and then complain that things aren’t working out or it’s “too hard”.
@@itszbebabaybee well it was women, fully deceived because of their incredibly gullible nature, deceived by feminism, that changed dynamic between men and women. This is not something that men wanted at all but women who are further deceives and lied to about being oppressed and all this other nonsense. This is why it is men who have resisted these changes from the beginning and women are not learning how disastrous feminism has been to relationships and to society which is why some are even trying to go back
An addition to the dynamic of men and women working is that in many cases the wife's income contributes say 30% of the overall household expenditure (her personal expenditure should not count since that is her personal stuff) but the wife will still feel the man should do 50% of the chores even when he is still bearing more than 50% of the financial burden
I remember I was in the gym when I heard Kevin passed, I literally cried that night. This was a good man. This is who black men should aspire to be like instead of all the fake bs rappers.
Yung ~~~ Yes, and that is why we drawing a line in the sand A line like there is an earthquake and the earth splits down the middle. It does not break in half. It is not destroyed. It simply is revealing the line of demarcation so that we may Decide who we are and place one's self on the side of those most like ourselves.
Conor ~ ~ ~ Yes, exactly. When the manosphere has been informing them (xx) and advising them to submit to their husband. Well, get a husband and then submit to him. For so long the men have been informing them. And they just continue to honor and worship their bosses.
I can see why because they don’t want to lose their jobs and probably trying to get raise and more money to bring home So she’s just tried and wants her husband to help her relax not add more stress she already stressed from work
This man left a legacy and he actually impacted life’s. I’m Chicano and all my friends we share his video. He educated us. Checked us and made us better. Thanks to the godfather!
This man is right women wait too long for marriage, I have a woman that double back 12 years later asking me to marry her. I was looking at her she's about 30 pounds heavier with a daughter. She has a nice house and a career in management ,but I was thinking what's in it for me in marrying her? She's a 41 year old obese baby momma,, I can just come through like I did 12 years ago and get sex without the marriage.
When I was out of work my wife finally broke down and said what she wouldn't while I was at that finance company. Now I'm teaching, workload is less, pay is down but her being able to rest has made our relationship better as we transition to her not working. So many missteps could have been avoided if she didn't listen to her father and feel burdened to work.
This is so true. My mother is prime example. Got her masters and hated working til she got laid off. My daddy took over and she never worked since. By then I my sister and I were grown. He so on point with this.
This might be his best video yet. These women can’t handle all of that responsibility and start to point fingers at the men saying they don’t know what to do and what men to guess what they’re thinking and already know what they want. Whole time it’s women exhausted from their overloaded life
I watched him here and there in the beginning but I started to pay attention to his messages forreal after one of his streams about no mans land (I was 25) years back .Fast forward I let go of the dogs and I’m getting married in November🤞🏾💕
He is so right. I’m a TL at a call center & the amount of people I help everyday & coach can be very emotionally draining. Im so glad my man is mature and is working hard to earn enough to make me a stay at home wife. He doesn’t like that I work so hard, he wants me to relax or atleast save enough energy for him everyday ❤
I’m a nurse with kids and with kids daddy. I have to work. I’m tired. Not working so I can be emotionally available is IMPOSSIBLE. ITS 2024. I’m not a millionaire. I pay most bills too. It’s life. Maybe we not “happy” and 100 emotional and we are busy but we are family and grateful by the grace of god we have each other.
He defines "emotional labor" in the sense that it is way harder for women to regulate their emotions during work hours and is spent by end of day. Feminists twisted this one to say they do the "feeling" for everyone in the family. Yet only care about their own feelings ONLY
😂😂😂 I forgot about "I don't NEED a cookbook!" whomever is running the channel now should run flashbacks of the episodes that birthed those key phrases he clipped for future use & put it in the title🎯
Still can’t believe he’s gone man.. KS was such a great teacher
🙏🏼
He was Stephen A. Smith of talking about women. Entertainment. Still sad.
Lesson learnt is don't drink red bull. Rip godfather
Now we have ask a older man name paul....check him out!!
That's wt they do. Erase all the woke good ones!
R.I.E.PARADISE 💔✨️
The Godfather is back like he never left. May he rest in peace.
Preach 🙌
When he passed it was the very first time I heard the expression “rest in power” so fitting
RIP to The Godfather 🙏🏽
Often imitated, never duplicated.
💯👍🏾
👍
@@WMB6022 Think Patrice O'Neal was the First publicly outspoken one. I still credit Kevin though
Had back surgery and his podcasts got me through recovery. He was like the uncle that always tells you what you need to hear, whether you want to or not.
You and me both, in both cases!
FACTS!!
I feel sorry black women. He was only trying to get them open their eyes.
Crabs in a barrel
Truth
That Vivica fox ordered a hit on KS Godfather 😢
most women dodge accountability and are hypogamous. KS gave them an honest assessment and they didnt like it
Some I do and some I dont
Dated a nurse, oh my god. She never want to talk emotionally. She was all about the physical which got to the point had to walk away cause didn’t want to open up which just told me was not ready for a relationship
We miss you KS you were right about it all
A high school gf once told me she doesn't want to work and only wants to shop at whole foods. She has divorced 3 times lol.
Margul ~~~ Probably because she bought all the good food at Whole Foods
and did not bother to cook it for her man.
Who still controls his page this is nice !!
No one unfortunately.. 😢 his stuff is just out there
His daughter that’s what I heard.
Andrew Tate
@@teeh7614it has to be someone since this was posted just today, years after his death. Can't post itself.
@@teeh7614 Are you kidding me?
This page runs like clockwork
And you think no one is in charge?!
SMH
This is the best description of what's going on in life currently. Women don't have enough time or energy to care, especially after a stressful day on the clock. It's not personal, it's survival. Sad but Tru.
That’s apart of being a adult my mom worked, cooked, cleaned and still had enough time to care
@@Figgs101 Your mom was built different, women in this era are divas and models.
@@Negus37They aren’t taught anymore or shown how to prioritize family. Thanks to KS, he’s shown me that prioritizing the man is very important.
@@Ibelieveinmyself100hopefully you’re young enough to change the tide, and maybe a couple black women will follow your lead
@@Ibelieveinmyself100 ~ ~ ~ I think that is really IT. In a nutshell.
We have to prioritize the family.
It's all we got when it comes right down to it.
The men need and shall be placed first in the order of importance because they are the ones to whom The LORD
speaks.
Still presenting value from beyond. When you leave the world, maybe a dozen people hopped in the shoes and still haven't filled them -- miss the man.
AGREED!!
This information is worth literally millions $$$$
Rip to the GOAT. Love that his family still uploads videos. May his legacy live long and prosper
All these new videos. It’s like Tupac. Maybe the both alive chilling in Bora Bora laughing at Shirley
Unfortunately no these are his Instagram videos
Big facts 🤣💯
I like that one 😂
I was talking to my step dad last night about life and relationships. He said that he taught his daughters to be independent. He didn't want them depending on a man. 👀 So, it's not only black women who teach their daughters this; black men do as well.
Ty it’s bm the most. My mother never taught me this but my father did. However I am independent because it’s been who I have been before adulthood. Just to see my father become a man living off of women once no longer with my mother. I know no bw whose mothers or other women taught them this but I know plenty whose fathers, uncles, brothers and male cousins taught this. Whether they were players or regular dudes. Hmm, I wonder why? 😏
Not only black people
Not only people living in america
Not only few countries..
This virus is everywhere spread
They go be independently single and not submissive
I hear black women say all the time that it was their fathers that taught them that. My father taught me that as well. And it’s because fathers know that black men are under performing and aren’t providers. Black women women have their shortcomings for sure. But black men like to live in denial about where they are financially, and what they built. A man that loves his daughter is not going to throw her to the wolves, knowing that these people don’t have the resources to take care of her or a family.
Peace and Blessings To The Family, Salute The Truth 100% Essential 🌊
Checking in. Let's do it. I'm listening.
Thank you for helping to maintain this man's legacy. Truly a larger than life figure.
At 6.5-7min he's absolutely right about women being emotionally spent after managing an emotionally taxing job. I've a cousin who was an excellent nurse but when she got home she was so spent she would spend over 3 hours watching soap operas, not even watching it because tbh she really was too tired and in the end after many many years he walked away from their marriage. There was a lot more going on than just this but if it's how you start a marriage you have to ask yourself if it's going to get better or worse? Like KS says, it takes a LOT of work to be there for someone.
She was cheating
@@susiervo1yall be hurt bro stfu and read the message
R.I.P Godfather….. your words are still going strong today…thank you.
Thanks!
This man saved many so much headache and heartache. Subscribed in 2018. You are greatly missed!! The pandemic shows were GOLD!! RIP godfather. Soar high 🕊️ 🕊️
I'm Congolese born and raised in France, lived in Canada for 5 years, hustling. I felt like a man, always working, tired... like for what?! I came back to Paris last Sept, I have 46 days of vacation, less stressful job. Working like an ass didn't bring me joy/fulfillment, I want a soft life. KS is defo right
Yall got to stop with the “soft life” phrase, it comes off as fake. It’s basically saying your not naturally feminine but want to be but that’s the problem, you either are or your not.
This is why God designed it the way he did. When the man is not working and he comes home, because women don't have the same endurance, emotional control or overall energy that men have, she is supposed to help relax him and re-energize him so he can go to work better the next day. If he comes home to and exhausted, irritated, frustrated emotionally drained woman who has no ability to focus on him, cook, clean, give him attention either physically emotionally or sexually, or if she is so full of stress, anger and is simply emotionally drained herself, she is only making the situation worse for them both.
She will then nag and harass him about every little thing that is not done around the house because regardless of how much women focus on their career or think they are career woman, women are still programmed deeply to be obsessed about the house. But because she now has no energy left to care about the house women now have demanded men take up the slack. But men are not the ones that change the dynamic between men and women in marriage, it was women and they simply assume that because they were then working that men were automatically going to agree to now do more chores around the house. But men never made such agreements, women simply assume that they would agree to this, but men refuse to.
Funny thing is…when you compare a single man’s house or apartment to a single woman, his is cleaner, neater, and better furnished.
You are 100% correct. God knows what He does. There is an order to things, but we as humans want to do things are own way, and then complain that things aren’t working out or it’s “too hard”.
@@itszbebabaybee well it was women, fully deceived because of their incredibly gullible nature, deceived by feminism, that changed dynamic between men and women. This is not something that men wanted at all but women who are further deceives and lied to about being oppressed and all this other nonsense. This is why it is men who have resisted these changes from the beginning and women are not learning how disastrous feminism has been to relationships and to society which is why some are even trying to go back
An addition to the dynamic of men and women working is that in many cases the wife's income contributes say 30% of the overall household expenditure (her personal expenditure should not count since that is her personal stuff) but the wife will still feel the man should do 50% of the chores even when he is still bearing more than 50% of the financial burden
So when does the woman start doing this before giving up sex how can she secure a marriage with a man and actually be that nurturing woman to him
I remember I was in the gym when I heard Kevin passed, I literally cried that night. This was a good man. This is who black men should aspire to be like instead of all the fake bs rappers.
facts
Exactly !!….great black man ..! Definitely made the matrix scared that he was going to drag black man away from the street where the system likes them
Yung ~~~ Yes, and that is why we drawing a line in the sand
A line like there is an earthquake and the earth splits down the middle.
It does not break in half. It is not destroyed.
It simply is revealing the line of demarcation so that we may
Decide who we are and place one's self on the side of those most like ourselves.
I couldn’t believe that he died, it felt like something good came to an end…. Abruptly 🤦🏾♂️
@@OnlyOneBoomer It was a shock wave felt round the world. ✝
As a former male nurse I’m becoming emotionally exhausted just reminiscing hahaha ahh man . He was brilliant and 9 out of 10 times spot on
Tried dating a nurse & it didn't last long. She worked night shift & the idea of getting home to an unavailable woman was too much to deal with.
So why not retire her ?
Much love to the OG, you are loved and missed God Father 🫡💯🔥👊😎
Absolute legend. Never experienced having an older brother, but that’s how I saw KS. Thanks for all your wisdom.
Thank you for keeping KS message alive.
"Emotional labor" ...I needed that term! Thanks Kevin!!!!
would love to see the original post date on these reposts
Imagine wifing these women who treat their jobs and bosses as their actual husbands.
Conor ~ ~ ~ Yes, exactly.
When the manosphere has been informing them (xx) and advising them to submit to their husband.
Well, get a husband and then submit to him.
For so long the men have been informing them.
And they just continue to honor and worship their bosses.
I can see why because they don’t want to lose their jobs and probably trying to get raise and more money to bring home
So she’s just tried and wants her husband to help her relax not add more stress she already stressed from work
They want children and run out of emotional capacity with them too. SMH
That’s a fact
Real shit 💯
Now I’m paying all the bills and babysitting because you’re tired from being a stay at home mom. When do I get a cop out.
@@Fabrizio7171 then they have the nerve to get fat and not have pristine hygiene
Even beyond the grave, this man is still putting in work 💪🏾 Bless up K.S🙏🏾
This man left a legacy and he actually impacted life’s. I’m Chicano and all my friends we share his video. He educated us. Checked us and made us better. Thanks to the godfather!
Thank you, Sir.
Rise in power to The Godfather 😎
AGREED!!
We witnesses, participants, & beneficiaries of His Legacy. Let's all do our very best to honor this most blessed gift.
This man is right women wait too long for marriage, I have a woman that double back 12 years later asking me to marry her. I was looking at her she's about 30 pounds heavier with a daughter. She has a nice house and a career in management ,but I was thinking what's in it for me in marrying her? She's a 41 year old obese baby momma,, I can just come through like I did 12 years ago and get sex without the marriage.
As a male nurse, I can attest that he is 100% right
When I was out of work my wife finally broke down and said what she wouldn't while I was at that finance company. Now I'm teaching, workload is less, pay is down but her being able to rest has made our relationship better as we transition to her not working. So many missteps could have been avoided if she didn't listen to her father and feel burdened to work.
Yep is not for them
Miss you Mr. Samuels. RIP buddy. The legacy you built and crystal clear messages delivered will forever live on. Thank you sir. ✨🌹
😔 🕊️🕊️🕊️RIP king 👑 fly high wish you even more blessings in heaven.
I miss his videos because they encouraged me to be better.
Salute god father
Shout out KS. Miss you deeply. They wasn't ready for you. Thankful we can still hear your voice.
That intro put a smile on my face, no cap
The Godfather Back with Another Classic
Man this is some of Unc's best work. No lies told.
This is very true for a large number of black women I know.
The wisdom is much appreciated. RIP to the good brother
Woman here, he hit the nail on the head 💯
This is so true. My mother is prime example. Got her masters and hated working til she got laid off. My daddy took over and she never worked since. By then I my sister and I were grown. He so on point with this.
This might be his best video yet. These women can’t handle all of that responsibility and start to point fingers at the men saying they don’t know what to do and what men to guess what they’re thinking and already know what they want. Whole time it’s women exhausted from their overloaded life
King ~~~ Yes
Knocked the ball out the park with this one!!!
I watched him here and there in the beginning but I started to pay attention to his messages forreal after one of his streams about no mans land (I was 25) years back .Fast forward I let go of the dogs and I’m getting married in November🤞🏾💕
can't believe women were upset at him while he was trying to help them succeed!
He is so right. I’m a TL at a call center & the amount of people I help everyday & coach can be very emotionally draining. Im so glad my man is mature and is working hard to earn enough to make me a stay at home wife. He doesn’t like that I work so hard, he wants me to relax or atleast save enough energy for him everyday ❤
Judgements based on outcomes.....and that's the only way!
These videos made him immortal!!
Salute Kevin!
Yes, that's the plan
i needed this advice today, the godfather doing gods work from above
I will always listen to The Godfather!!!
Thank you for posting his videos.
Hi again sir, my story is worthy of a chat as think all the food I do with homeless and life I try to tell your messages as the world needs u x
Ray ~~~ yes, homeless are a problem in our society.
😂😂 man the beginning took me out. I miss this brother here. Salute to the Godfather 🫡🫡
Patrice O'Neal the first one, not taking away from Kevin. Just sayin
RIP KING
We miss you KS ❤ Sending you love where you are ❤️
Just curious, when was this originally posted. Really just curious.
I’m a nurse with kids and with kids daddy. I have to work. I’m tired. Not working so I can be emotionally available is IMPOSSIBLE. ITS 2024. I’m not a millionaire. I pay most bills too. It’s life. Maybe we not “happy” and 100 emotional and we are busy but we are family and grateful by the grace of god we have each other.
Elizabeth ~~~ Where is their father?
ALWAYS remembered!! May he rest in peace.
I love it!!!
Wow! This is one of the many reasons my wife is my perfect. This was a great video.
I am so very happy for you.
You're greater than MLK...you changed/saved/rejuvenated my life.
This video came at the perfect time…thank you KS
Only spoke facts! RIP
"I dont need a cook book!"
Hearing this will never get old.
🤣🤣🤣
OMG...This video spoke to my heart! Emotionally drained n dating? He's so right
He defines "emotional labor" in the sense that it is way harder for women to regulate their emotions during work hours and is spent by end of day. Feminists twisted this one to say they do the "feeling" for everyone in the family. Yet only care about their own feelings ONLY
0:45 Dem Red Bulls yo... 😩🤔😭🤔😩
Exactly. Such a loss
Nah the GOVERNMENT
11:50 BINGO!!!! This is the reason why I leave relationships!!!
Miss Kevin what’s your height/ dress size/how much did you weigh last time you weigh yourself your size of a linebacker 😂😂😂😂😂 RIP KS
What a guy. Even after death he keeps inspiring us.
We love and miss you ks ❤
PREACH!!
This man is NEEDED today smh
Ai has changed the game. Look to see more videos of the Ai Kevin spitting hot flames of truth as usual. 🔥🔥🔥🔥
This is GOLD!
😂😂😂 I forgot about "I don't NEED a cookbook!" whomever is running the channel now should run flashbacks of the episodes that birthed those key phrases he clipped for future use & put it in the title🎯
Exactly keep them in line Kevin 👍
This video shows KS understood women's side of things as well as the men's side
He’s the man. His legacy will live on
Rip godfather
Shoutout to KS! RIP & thank you for the advice.
These boss chicks 😂😂😂
We miss you always GODFATHER. Get your rest. You earned it.
We miss you Mr. Samuels.
Very good video. 💯
The GOAT
RIP - and thank you.
right! with all that debt that comes with it, no one, man or woman, gets a master or phd “just in case”
Just in case . . . . . Definitely fear mode.