If you will ever read this my brother,just know that I dedicated my self to be praying for you that you get healing,peace and the strength to move on,,it shall be well my brother...
Have you ever thought of forgiving and accept her apology. The devil is a lier and he comes to steal, destroy and kill. Mwanaume you got the devil in the process, wake up and be a winner as a family don't let the devil prevail over you. I beg you as a brother/man.
If you wish I talk to you. I'm available. Calm down and analyze your wife and compare good vs bad, wrong vs wrong please. Disconnect her from previous friends
This guy is a gem. Maturity, wisdom, focused, he's been very patient with her woman it shows that he really loved the gal. May God give him peace and help him make the right decision..
@@paulmumu8468 You may not understand the man’s pain! His cheating was before marriage. Just one time bad behavior. The woman is conniving!! Living in marriage while secretly planning to have a muzungu baby!!! That is a killer!! Laughing with you yet planning to dump you!!!! Inexcusable!!!
@@paulmumu8468 true pia yye alicheat and the girl forgave in and so should he do the same and in this world we do alot that makes God angry but he really forgives us so pia yye arahisishe roho and forgive her hakuna ambaye hakosei
God never blesses such honest men in Kenya on matters relationship,they do trust too much hence they do suffer a lot.He is an example.He trusted too much.Hence as a man put yourself first,love yourself first then these sisters of Bethseba will respect you.Zingine tuwache kuwekelea God,this guy placed the needs of the lady way above his,wanaume mjipende sana.This guy should learn a lesson so that in his next relationship he needs to put himself,his happiness first.He needed to have a better smart phone than even the lady not that kadudu in the name of sacrificing for love.Most of these ladies do not know how to reciprocate respect and love back to one who doesn’t love and respect himself more than anything else.
I have felt so bad for myself man, I really have not been doing enough for myself and my family,this guy has taught me I lesson,from the first episode and now this one,I will work twice as hard and also this Guy has Jesus in his Life,such words of wisdom can only come from the spirit of God, Welcome Holy spirit inside me too
This man is very composed and well mannered, he is also that kind of a man who appreciates women coz despite of him been hurt he described her accordingly. Be strong God is there
Th gentleman today is full of energy last tym he looked tired nikaa th gal was eating everything including his happiness , invest in urself first n become strong
True..articulate too. I suppose he is the lucky one in regards to the episodes I have watched. This was girl talk. She hadn't had an a fair unlike other girls Aki.. I respect that girl..
To forgive is healing then move on with yo life, the big mistake she did is to control pregnancy while she has been fully married that means she had a mission and ladies and gentlemen let's choose friends wisely, God bless you all🙏
Nothing hurts like being denied to be a dad am sorry bro you are a gem you deserve the best let her go heal and move on God will give you someone who will appreciate your struggles 🙏🙏🙏
Brandon• Nelson Mandela did divo divorce winnie. Winnie was the one who life Mandela..most humans doesn't know story behind Mandela who humans think was..that Mandela is not the really people think..winnie was a hero woman
Listening to your testimony about your wife, you have come from far, you are a man of wisdom and a big heart. Please find in your heart to forgive her and give her another chance, she is meant for you bro, bad things happen so that good things can happen. She has learned her lessons and I believe by her involving your parents and hers into come back arrangements, she is serious. It's just this bad influence which you can help her overcome by forgiving her and believing in her again. We all fall short of God's glory many times but He never gives up on us. I wish I would meet and encourage you in person.
Ladies ladies!if you ain't interested in settling with someone stop wasting their time and allowing them to go an extra mile for you ,vitu zingine ni kujitaftia laana.This guy's mum will never forgive the lady
After I watched the first video I kept thinking about this guy... finally I prayed for you am happy to see you...you are looking healthier without her in you life...
Stevoo good job on this follow ups. They help a lot on the affected parties and us the viewers. We learn . We just pray for this guy to find someone true to his expectations.
Stevo I think you should give these guys some time like 2 months after the loyalty test to call them back to the show. My feeling is that a few days is too short because the emotions are still raw and people are still mad and in that situation, it's not easy to make a rational decision. Give them a little bit more time to heal.
@@phylliskamau4203 he's respectful not just stupid. Even a kid know the deputy president's words were inappropriate. Just because siasa imeisha doesn't mean the brain should stop working and we bury our heads in the sand.And by the way, old age doesn't translate to wisdom because even fools get old.
This.guy covered it all...he is a mens spokesperson..we go through all the things u mentioned...and your closing statement is on point 👉☝️...God above all
Uyu dame hakucheat...she was only texting...apo Kwa kutozaa swezi mblame...mtoto is a permanent mark.... listen to the lady and forgive her ..some of us talk trash but never do that
At 21 minute mark when he says " I realized I was a stepping stone". That's the reality bro. Jezebel was using you to upgrade herself and then dump you for a mzungu. In the future avoid these transactional relationships. Take time to heal, work on yourself alafu uoge na urudi uwanja
May God grant you with someone who loves and cares for you the way you're. I really love the guys who appreciate BMS revealing their cheating partners. Thumbs up Stevo
The first step in healing is acceptance.At times we might want the best for people yet they do not envision themselves as we do . Take as much time as you need bro it's healthy for now
The way he praises her tells so much about how he loved her...but then She was not so sure about the so called marriage that's why she protected herself from getting his child.
Sorry for the previous video ..it has been pulled down by You tube community after being reported and we are working on it
Aaaiii leo umetucheza
nimeshangaa venye nilikuwa nangojea sana
Why was it reported?Did it have any illicit content?
Navenye ilkua intresting
Who reported it before it even aired? We want to know who Tony is.
If you will ever read this my brother,just know that I dedicated my self to be praying for you that you get healing,peace and the strength to move on,,it shall be well my brother...
Kabisa. Thanks Kelvin. This guy was super hurt
🙏🙏it shall be well for him he was really hurt 😢
Have you ever thought of forgiving and accept her apology. The devil is a lier and he comes to steal, destroy and kill. Mwanaume you got the devil in the process, wake up and be a winner as a family don't let the devil prevail over you. I beg you as a brother/man.
If you wish I talk to you. I'm available. Calm down and analyze your wife and compare good vs bad, wrong vs wrong please. Disconnect her from previous friends
It's sad for me cause I know the guy, old friend manze. I hope he pulls through and be blessed, abundantly.
This guy is a gem. Maturity, wisdom, focused, he's been very patient with her woman it shows that he really loved the gal. May God give him peace and help him make the right decision..
Yes he's so mature
But the guy also cheated and he was forgiven why would he not forgive 🤔 .
@@paulmumu8468 You may not understand the man’s pain! His cheating was before marriage. Just one time bad behavior. The woman is conniving!! Living in marriage while secretly planning to have a muzungu baby!!! That is a killer!! Laughing with you yet planning to dump you!!!! Inexcusable!!!
True, but is it possible we pray that they reconcile.
@@paulmumu8468 true pia yye alicheat and the girl forgave in and so should he do the same and in this world we do alot that makes God angry but he really forgives us so pia yye arahisishe roho and forgive her hakuna ambaye hakosei
This guy is a symbol of Kenyan honest people, wherever they are, they know themselves.
God will bless you all one after the other. 🇰🇪 🙏🏾 🇰🇪
Amen
God never blesses such honest men in Kenya on matters relationship,they do trust too much hence they do suffer a lot.He is an example.He trusted too much.Hence as a man put yourself first,love yourself first then these sisters of Bethseba will respect you.Zingine tuwache kuwekelea God,this guy placed the needs of the lady way above his,wanaume mjipende sana.This guy should learn a lesson so that in his next relationship he needs to put himself,his happiness first.He needed to have a better smart phone than even the lady not that kadudu in the name of sacrificing for love.Most of these ladies do not know how to reciprocate respect and love back to one who doesn’t love and respect himself more than anything else.
@@johnnyaula7503 🤣🤣🤣 unasema ukweli why
Didn't he say he used to do this to women am shocked venye anaifeel karma is real
@@johnnyaula7503 best advice
I have felt so bad for myself man, I really have not been doing enough for myself and my family,this guy has taught me I lesson,from the first episode and now this one,I will work twice as hard and also this Guy has Jesus in his Life,such words of wisdom can only come from the spirit of God, Welcome Holy spirit inside me too
Someone do an altar call
Good job Edwin
I think I love this man,,he is a gem..May God help him
He thinks he lost her...bro...She lost you.you deserve better
In life I have learned to move on.
True
They lost each other
He deserves better.Who knows what else she was hiding?
He's so handsome i didn't see him this handsome in the last show
This man is very composed and well mannered, he is also that kind of a man who appreciates women coz despite of him been hurt he described her accordingly. Be strong God is there
This man deserves better. All he said is the plain truth. I pray God meets the desires of his heart.
After listening to my brother I have learned a lot mostly about women's
I'm here looking for him in fact even .me I need samone oooh
He looks good today,,,yaani wanawake mmeweka wanaume baridi mkiwa nao wanakaa Babu zenu
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Are u married wewe ama ni mdomo ,,, don't judge
Th gentleman today is full of energy last tym he looked tired nikaa th gal was eating everything including his happiness , invest in urself first n become strong
The dude just look sick
Maybe ilikua nguo alivaa that day, he looked so thin
3 good years
This lady has actually lost a gem 💎
He speaks with so much wisdom
I wished you knew how it goes about unalima shamba expecting one to conceive.😭😭
Plus another 3 years they dated
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@@victoriamuthoni6923 🤣🤣🤣🤣kurarua blanket kumi, juu ya kibarua, na hakuna matunda
The wisdom on this guy is on another lever.
It's above sea velaaaa!!
Well spoken. The guy himself is his own therapist and very good at it. Just don't get back with her after all that.
This man can be a motivational speaker
Character development makes one so🥺🥺
Meanwhile kindly niongezee subscription dear 🥰🙏
Amepata character development ya ajabu
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Very much true
The wisdom of this guy is on another level
wisdom na jamaa anaumia
His IQ jo
But atapata Mrembo ameweza wasonge na life kapisa , nothing attached with the fool😅😅
Whoever skips the hodari homes advert you will never see heaven 😂
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Back to u the writer 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Am always skipping it, these children of Abraham want me to miss heaven. Look at u😜😜😜😜
This young man was brought up well. He knows his worth & exactly what he wants.All the best in your endeavours boy child.
His eloquence though👍👍👍
LughA! ingekua swahili sawa
True..articulate too.
I suppose he is the lucky one in regards to the episodes I have watched.
This was girl talk.
She hadn't had an a fair unlike other girls
Aki.. I respect that girl..
The words from this guy really has made me to move to another level of thinking 🤔 😕 he is very intelligent and he deserves a better soul
What were you waiting for 😁
@@johnkush920 you
Wisdom is what this guy has wishing him all the best
This are the words my heart was yearning for, thanks bro
The guy is a good communicator
He know how to talk
This guy is a gem......he deserves better
To forgive is healing then move on with yo life, the big mistake she did is to control pregnancy while she has been fully married that means she had a mission and ladies and gentlemen let's choose friends wisely, God bless you all🙏
Very much true.
She was just waiting for an opportune time for mzungu to come then aache the guy.
Akwende kabisa.
True there is friends who can mislead you
I choose to have small circles of so called friends.. Some friends can mislead..
He has too much motivational words, thank you.
You helped me out bro i healed from my relationship through this videos man💪
Ukaona huyuko peke yako cheating😂😂
Meanwhile kindly niongezee subscription dear 🙏🥰
Nothing hurts like being denied to be a dad am sorry bro you are a gem you deserve the best let her go heal and move on God will give you someone who will appreciate your struggles 🙏🙏🙏
True
you never know how precious something is until you loose it,, you deserve someone better and may God help you locate her
Thanks BMS for putting up another episode, those of addicts we were sick waiting for a full dose of BMS.
Nelson Mandela forgave those who imprisoned and mistreated him but he never forgave his ex wife, Winnie for cheating. Men dont forgive cheating
That's true, never forgive a cheating woman.
A man can forgive you for anything but not cheating.
Brandon• Nelson Mandela did divo
divorce winnie. Winnie was the one who life Mandela..most humans doesn't know story behind Mandela who humans think was..that Mandela is not the really people think..winnie was a hero woman
@@nancymuseve3249 i have my facts right. Just know that no man forgives cheating.
@@nancymuseve3249 feminism propaganda
This man has just made me to download this video so that I can watch it time by time 👍 to that man.
Same here am downloading right now
I just feel like this guy was just talking to me 🙏🙏 be strong bro 👊👊
Thanks brow
Listening to your testimony about your wife, you have come from far, you are a man of wisdom and a big heart. Please find in your heart to forgive her and give her another chance, she is meant for you bro, bad things happen so that good things can happen. She has learned her lessons and I believe by her involving your parents and hers into come back arrangements, she is serious. It's just this bad influence which you can help her overcome by forgiving her and believing in her again. We all fall short of God's glory many times but He never gives up on us. I wish I would meet and encourage you in person.
I concur
Wrong advice ,this lady is a gold digger,hii madharau ni mbaya ,she can't change, better a breakup now than later in life say in his fifties!!!
Always face your fears like a man!
He should let go in order to get other big things she took his man for granted
Forgiveness is the best
Thank you , I needed those last words 😢😢
Ladies ladies!if you ain't interested in settling with someone stop wasting their time and allowing them to go an extra mile for you ,vitu zingine ni kujitaftia laana.This guy's mum will never forgive the lady
Rebecca thats true
Treu
This man is full of wisdom.
Hawa wasichana wange juwa. Hakuna mabwana. Mimi nitakwabi kijana mungu atakupeya mwanamke mwema
wow, I love this guy. I feel him
It's really painful may will of God sent us right person,I feel it too
Chebet ak kibet oamunee😁
This guy is very intelligent and the respect he has for this woman is on another level I pray that may he find peace
Very wise & mature guy! Appreciates self,acceptance n knows his true worth….👍🏽
the guy is looking good today😍😍
Na Ile siku
@@justineabarasa672 🤣🤣eee
I from now I have to know the kind of friends my woman keeps
such a strong man despite the heartbreak
His eloquence though.He should start a podcast
𝕋𝕣𝕦𝕖
It hurts when you realise that you're not important to someone you thought you were. It hurts when someone you love loves someone else
What do ladies want?
@@michaelmarisio5208 sijui adi pia 😂
Thank God for opening your eyes..He knew this will happen to you, and He will give you a lady who deserves you ..take heart my brother
total motivational speaking💯...bruh stay strong,after every tunnel(dark place),there comes a light.#there is God in heaven
This guy has been hit below the belt, he's so hurt and pained to the extent that his soul is not at peace, it's been torn apart by love.
This guy oozes wisdom
This guy is just a gem …. he’s grown , focused and maturity is on another level … respect to him …. He’s a symbol of other men honest.
Courageous,wise focused etc, I think you've thought me a lesson you're really brave
This guy is a gem🙌
Fuata nafsi yako my dea bro..Mungu amekufungua ma ho..ukirudiana nayeye ,utakuwaga hapo but mind yake na ambitions ziko kwa wazungu
After I watched the first video I kept thinking about this guy... finally I prayed for you am happy to see you...you are looking healthier without her in you life...
His command of the queen's language is commendable...
This guy is blessed and wise may God grant him a good fruit of his soul
Stevoo good job on this follow ups. They help a lot on the affected parties and us the viewers. We learn . We just pray for this guy to find someone true to his expectations.
Nothing hurts more to be being denied a chance to be called a father. The pain this man is going through is unbearable. Be still karma never forgets 😌
imagine so of us want babbies but kuna hii hapa
@@ruthwanjiku3721 very painful in fact he needs time to heal the wound
Gawsh..my heart melts for this guy..I wish he can come my way
The man is so down to earth. God will provide him his right partner
Ahh the uninitiated, and their mundane mindsets.
God is faithful. He will be blessed. We serve God of another chance.
Stevo I think you should give these guys some time like 2 months after the loyalty test to call them back to the show. My feeling is that a few days is too short because the emotions are still raw and people are still mad and in that situation, it's not easy to make a rational decision. Give them a little bit more time to heal.
Alafu tuwatch what??
Mesh 😂😂😂😂
At this early stages is when they can pour their heart out...helps them to start their healing too
@@Blessedandchosen 😂😂😂
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Guy is a gem. Smart and wise.
Good people like you deserve better
Wise and extremely articulate.
My thoughts too....
This guy has a lot of wisdom, the choice of his words are much better than the Deputy President
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Train yourself to be little respectful,I think you have a long journey to be in the age of that man,siasa imeisha.
@@phylliskamau4203 he's respectful not just stupid. Even a kid know the deputy president's words were inappropriate. Just because siasa imeisha doesn't mean the brain should stop working and we bury our heads in the sand.And by the way, old age doesn't translate to wisdom because even fools get old.
He's a gentleman may God heal him
Great speech from the boy child,,I'm proud of you regardless of what you're through,,,,apply the same theory in your life.
I feel sorry for him but he's so wise
Sure i agree...bt on the other hand he shud have seen this happening from the day he her on contraceptives.
This.guy covered it all...he is a mens spokesperson..we go through all the things u mentioned...and your closing statement is on point 👉☝️...God above all
wow the spirit is right bro keep up may God see all us as men
You're going far with that spirit my brother 💪
The end reminds me of a saying by bob dylan.."you cannot be wise and in love at the same time".. love blinds us all..don't worry brother.
It was bad 💔💔💔Sorry.The lady in her texts said she was too young and beautiful for this man and so she wanted her beauty for wazungu 😒😒
What else?
You can be beauty with empty minded full of water in the dander head what is the use being beuty.just to open legs
Sure she said she don't want to suffer
Noo there is avedio she delete just now hii achana nayo
I feel for this man ...he really desrve the best 👌
Ur full of wisdom bro may God give u peace🙏🙏
My brother be strong all will be well . May God give you strength to overcome the problem 🙏 ❤
I pray God to give me such a gentle man some don't know what they have unless they lose it
My prayer too
Good advice, Thank you so much
Uyu dame hakucheat...she was only texting...apo Kwa kutozaa swezi mblame...mtoto is a permanent mark.... listen to the lady and forgive her ..some of us talk trash but never do that
Bt she have a shindano kwa mkono
Alikuwa anaprepare vile ataacha huyu boy
Be strong for your self..... that is a key 🔐 point.
You will just be fine brother, at the appointed time
Oooh nooo, all will be fine bro you're very humble and intelligent
Stevo,i need this guy for real!he is a vibe
At 21 minute mark when he says " I realized I was a stepping stone". That's the reality bro. Jezebel was using you to upgrade herself and then dump you for a mzungu. In the future avoid these transactional relationships. Take time to heal, work on yourself alafu uoge na urudi uwanja
May God grant you with someone who loves and cares for you the way you're. I really love the guys who appreciate BMS revealing their cheating partners. Thumbs up Stevo
Man rise and pull through, it pains to be taken for granted, God is there to open a new happier doors for you💪
The pain comes from all the sacrifices made....that's what makes it hard to forgive people
So sad,,I fail to understand thz,,why does good pple with good intentions,meet the wrong ones,it's vice versa..I feel your pain
This is so touching 💔😭 take time and move on man never forgive a cheating partner
You are the King bro, keep it up and Never take her back.
Destroying such a good soul is really heartbreaking.
Contraceptives for 3 years coz she was waiting for her soulmate Mzungu ndio sasa amzalie wewe ubaki hanging
The first step in healing is acceptance.At times we might want the best for people yet they do not envision themselves as we do . Take as much time as you need bro it's healthy for now
This man deserves better
Wise man for sure, may you find strength to forge on with life
It's ok Steve.
Hope it's sorted cz thus is a good educative channel
Kumbe this guy is Soo handsome like this waaauuu,
😁😁😁😁aki wewe kumbe ume notice ako👌
Let's focus
Excellence and words of wisdom God above all my prayers to you Bro 🙏🙏
Sending you hugs 🤗, time is the best healer. God will bring the right woman your way, keep trusting in Him.
The way he praises her tells so much about how he loved her...but then She was not so sure about the so called marriage that's why she protected herself from getting his child.
if she wasn't sure then why didn't she walk the road alone
@@samiraltarriq2793 she was just there waiting for her soulmate
@@annitahmuthee5713 Yup! I feel she now has all the time to find one.
Right. And after he once cheated on her. Women never trust. Never forgive etc
@@annlewa1136 aaaaiii, she was just evil, almost all men cheat, and their wives gives them kids.
God shall reward you in His own way. Through this programme God protected you from future harm