That’s a lesson learnt ✅as a woman be independent and have your own money ✅Veronica looks so young and beautiful 🥰it’s not always about the pain,God will change her story of tears to a story of blessings and happiness 💕💕💕
hahahaha Anna Nyaguthii we would be loosing focus of the guest's story. But you have a point, we appreciate that Wambui is not hiding this her pregnancy journey from us. All the best Wambui wa Mwangi
Mum wazungu don't give money coz ulaya kuna equal rights. He is expecting you to work and help each other. I am married by mzungu but nafanya kazi ili nijifanyie mambo zangu
Aki how can someone live with a person who sees you as useless and nothing, someone who does not value you and he is your husband or wife, just love your self more and value yourself.
Haha Dunia ni ndogo😂😂...Vero tulifanya marketing Vikings uchumi house tukiwa na Ivy and the rest😂😂😂...such a bubbly and cute lady ...Vero ukisoma hii comment salimika sana.
We as Africans need to kill the perception of white men are wealthy, we should never allow to be intimidated in our own country regardless of who we are or what we have. Ladies out here before you get to know someone, obey your instincts and never ignore the RED FLAGS, be financially independent and no one will ever degrade you. As fr you babygal, you are beautiful, intelligent and talented, pick up the pieces and move forward. May you shine like a queen👑. I wish you nothing but the very best🙏
Exactly our sisters fall prey of wealthy men just because of being desperate unaware of the repurcusions behind it , it's high time they learn to be independent.
wambui I can't believe i am watching this 2 years later and feels good still. Hiyo ngombe in background chukueni panga mwende hapo kando ya bárbara mufyeke manyasi mrushe thru fence itawapea peace and love❤
Haki what a complicated story. Sasa ikifika hapa mtu hufanya nini? Watoi in an expensive school so huwezi toka kwake. Now what to do? Mungu tu afungulie njia
I have a white husband (he is 36, I am 32. We have been married for 4 years after dating for 2 years). When we met, I already had a masters degree. After marriage, we moved to his country and because he wanted to empower me, he encouraged me to go back to school and he paid for my 2nd master’s degree (May I add that we’ve always had a joint bank account because he did not want me to feel like I was lacking anything). He would even take days off from work to stay with our baby, while I study for the exams. My first job interview, he rehearsed with me for hours! I got that job(in a field I am very passionate about) I had not even graduated when I got the job. He believes in me more than I even believe in myself. I honestly think being white or black does not define an individual.
Hey siz don't mind about that mzungu husband of yours claiming you take a matatu about Uber simplicity is the best thing ever remember you yourself where you come from and where you are heading to
My sister you are married to gikuyu guy. He must be born in cities. Yes when you are married by a luo guy but not a gikuyu. In gikuyu culture men speaks women make food and children.
I Truely second you JH, it depends on individuals who choose to be human or in human, we cannot put everybody in the same sac, but we should consider red flags
@@priscillanjenga7581 wako better 100% times than gikuyu men.mzungu can cook for, clean house for you.they are very romantic compare with gikuyu men commander in chief .they put their ass down waiting women to cook. I hate this!!I can live without a mzungu
Please advise your friend asimake mistake ya kwenda ulaya na huyo mzungu ati akifika huko atajipanga anajipanga aje surely in a foreign land na ameshindwa huku? it won't be as easy as she thinks ananyongewa Kenya abroad atakufa for real, risks zingine ni za upuzi aki.
Can relate..but atlist your kids are big enough now you can find a job and take care of them usijali wataenda shule gani..but am sure he'll take of them ata ukitoka..so stay strong usikae apo utazeekea apo n the way you're beautiful..
I have raised my 4 kids alone since my hubby died for more than 20 yrs now. When he died they took everything including money and l was a housewife but l thank God this far he is Ebenezer. I have sold fruits. Hawking, washing clothes etc and l thank God Atleast l didn't depend on a man. I can do any job as long as l don't depend on anyone. So sorry beautiful. Thank God that rent , food , fees are met...sisi nyumba tulizoea kulipa na fees na unga
I think by virtue of a long cohabitation with kids to boot you could be considered married. Your relationship was never based on love from both parties so I suggest you continue to persevere there for the kids sake but try to get something to occupy yourself and get some money. You are both using one another so get as much out of it as you can . Jaribu muwende kwenyu ama Kwa dC
Am following and after some time you bring her again to tell us what happened coz it's as if she can't move out but it's good to prevent than cure siatoe kids Nairobi aende nyumbani without minding what people will say aai Sasa anangoja watoi waende Netherlands aanze kulia huku na hajui how soon 😱
Let me give you a little advice marriage does not matter mzungu, African or American what matters is who you get married to,you can even get married to your tribe and face more troubles than what you are going through
True! But i think there is a bizzarre fixation on 'mzungu' by some people, I think they think white people are special in some way? It's embarrassing. Watu ni watu..skin has nothing to do with it. Kama mtu ni mbaya ni mbaya, despite their skin colour.
This lady is so great if she can just get to being up her kids on her own no matter what she may go thru' my advice may b is if she can just decide to start again without fear of facing it especially the kids, just hide from the man n b safe with your kids , it may seem soo hard but has no regrets in future, try girl try n all the best you are a worrier
Muthungu ucio ti muru Tondu Niragura irio wee niwe kiguta urenda guikara maisha maiguru.tena ujue huyo mzungu ni kenya kimbo amechanuka sana.hawezi kuwa fresh ideas. My dear menyaga uhikitio ni njoroge ti muthungu ucio ni muchanuku muno
Strong lady , pole sana shida yako ni family yenu how can ur sister ad Aunt sleep with ur husband? Backroot iko nashida kwenu , even if u snach him from ur best friend , kheri angechukuliwa na rafiki kuliko sister yako it's painful
@@wanjikuchelsea7587 tit for tat is affair game afumilie tu hata kama sio tamu ameze vile iko then mzungu amerudiana na huyo besty yake waaaa madhalau juu ya ingine
A man will get away with whatever you allow him to do. You allowed him to play you, you allow him to control you, you will continue to suffer until you take control back from him. One of those ways is earn your own money.
I'm surrounded by single White men who want to have a relationship with me, while I'm desperate for a Kenyan man. I'm in the U.S, I have a great job and I know these people very well. There's nothing special about them. It's okay to fall in love but don't look at skin color
Wooi Wambu andu aya matimenyagirwo,nii ndakorire mundu utari tukianjia thi nake no riria agiire ndigana gutamburwo onake anjiririe kwenda nginya sister ciakwa na akihikania na bado akora my niece kuria ndaikaraga no aramwenda ona tutiganite
Many women think a mzungu is a demi god😌empower yourself first before giving yourself away to someone..if you have nothing going on in your life, you will stomach any B/S from anyone
Wazungu are simply the best because of their culture despite they don't give you money. They help you to look for a job and have your own thing different with gikuyu men.gikuyu men want to control you never haver have anything you own zote ni zake na akipata pesa ana marry second wife mzungu don't that
@@cytkl yes wazungu they are pure evil because you don't know their culture. Wazungu and their culture are simply the best.in wazungu culture women are not given money because you don't own.it is abusive to give money to a woman. In wazungu culture woman and men are equal. I am married to a mzungu 21yrs and he doesn't give me money infact I do help him to pay bills because I work and I am left with a lot of money.
@@janewangombe5668 thats why He is with you because you are foolish. 🤣🤣🤣 unasaindia mzungu Saindia waafrika wenzako. But maybe wee ni aria mahoyaga jesu muthungu. Mentally enslaved selfhating fools
Sijui ni advice ama nimsaidie aje, but kama anataka kusaidiwa na custodian ya watoto lazima kwanza aonyeshe marriage certificate, aede nayo embassy yao awaelezee shida yake na atasaidiwa, but kama hana marriage cert itakua ngumu kidogo, then fr the evidence anaweza tumia passport stamp yenye alitumia kusafiri nayo, anyway hii platform nidogo ya kupeana advise but all the best
Sad story. May you get something to do and stabilize.. I wish once you are a bit stable you can leave.. Even if it means lowering the standard and changing the school, to keep your children safe... than losing them..Also it messes you mentally to be in this kind of relationship... JUST KNOW you are so pretty and a happy soul. I pray that things work for you and God make away. 🙏
I feel sorry for you little gal, I can assure you that not all mzungu are bad, I was married by a Kenyan and I went through hell for a whole year. He was bitting me like daily after a small argument, everything I bought in that house with my own money he could make sure he break them every time we had a fight, sometimes he could hammer my toes, throw a knife to me, sometimes he could pour the food I cooked on the floor, ... The list is endless.... , I saw I was not worth or this disrespect and I left, but I can say by good luck I got a boyfriend from Netherlands and he is soo respectful, caring and loving.He has taught me how to be independent, how to love myself again, computer skills, driving, how to do business and through him I got back my self-awareness, respect and at this time I can't allow any bullshit or disrespect from anybody, irregardless whether you are my friend, family member my happiness comes first. I can say that it was a bad luck for you to be married by an animal, this is not a human being, he just wanted kids from you and nothing else. Don't allow again people to bring you down because you are the one who is giving them all freedom, take heart and start a new life.
God is good your comments gives me hope been through the same and more he could brought in women to the house we we're splitting rent,countless times I slept at chief office with my daughter..it's 2yrs now since I walked away and vow never to look back..may God remember me also and bless me with someone who will love me unconditionally 🙏
@@Shikuwanjoki trust in the process dear, the God who gave you courage to leave your toxic ex-husband will provide you with your other half and its good that you have learned what you want and what you don't want in a relationship, love yourself more and always enjoy life whether you have money or not, peace of mind and freedom is priceless. Take care and good luck
It is important to realise that wazungu are normal human beings like the rest of us, there are good ones and bad ones. unfortunately, the recent narratives in the media show that some who come to Africa seeking spouses are sexual predators and they know they can get away with a lot in our countries. I do hope you get a good lawyer, I would not trust that man with any child.
That’s true this one has no boundaries he will molest with kids ..he won’t try that in his country..best to leave him he is too much..he is an embarrassment to wazungus aki
@@gracemaina673 I would advocate for this too coz in Holland, schools are free, insurance is affordable, support from the state is available and she can look for a job or train in her preferred career. I hope the children have Dutch passports and if not, they might require an acknowledgement of paternity to establish if the hubby is the father more so if the children were born out of wedlock.
They were both immoral. The man for sexual favours the woman for comfort. There was no marriage, just a convenient relationship as with many others we have nowadays
Woooi mama shunga sasa kunyanganyua watoto heri yote ukose na uichi na watoto... njipange pole pole...Naa utafaru but hapo hakuna maisha...omba sana Mungu akufungurie njia mama.
court injunction to bar him from taking children out of the country without your consent and involvement is an urgent matter here please let's help her get a count order or we get pro-bono legal help or via government ombudsman.✍🏽📖💪🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
Oh dear pole sana Shiku... Times like this am glad I don't have any sisters and to think they're the best pillars in each others lives kumbe kuna tule tu tupepo? Talk to Lynn or Kagoni as well... Pole dear kuna wazungu wakoloni sana not all are nice and kind and loving.
Get that thing out of your head "bibi ya mzungu and stop pleasing people with that mzungu thing..kubali kurudi chini mum na utainuka tena we all make mistakes and I know shida zinaweza skuma mtu kufanya mambo zingine.that man isn't interested in you and he does all that to manipulate you umuondokee he can't change ndio anataka watoto ..naomba tu aki upate usaidizi ya watoto and please look for a job and I wish you well🥰
Mami ulikosea kuleta wageni kwako.ukiwa na relationship na mzungu ni wewe but not your friends and family. I never invite wageni kwangu wengi wao ni wasaliti.next time stay with your kids
Most of Wazungus don't give women money..girls should be cautious...but if she could find her way to live in Netherlands she has all the rights and support being a mother of Dutch children.
Its not about the mzungu, men are men! The moment you put your self worth aside and decide to sleep with anyone just so you can be accommodated and maybe cover yourself from the shame of going back to your parents you've lost it and it will take you more than you can imagine to regain your dignity in that mans eyes, him sleeping with your relatives and you still there🙆 wangekuwa wangu they'd be in Kimende Primary. Wueeeh! You got strength mama. May God see you through.
Ujue your siz amesikia hii story atamwabia mzungu you're planning to secure your kids so mama be careful
That’s a lesson learnt ✅as a woman be independent and have your own money ✅Veronica looks so young and beautiful 🥰it’s not always about the pain,God will change her story of tears to a story of blessings and happiness 💕💕💕
Aki be independent as a woman,,,,a big lesson learnt as well.
She is a great story teller, despite the challenges she's going through... May she find happiness in her life.
She's so beautiful 😍❤️ moral lessons don't get married to escape poverty because you will make it worse
Unfortunately, that's what most girls are doing.
True true. She ends up getting children, the man abuses her and leaves. Back to square one with more problems.
Not true..you just have to be wise
@@florencemusei3843
Waooooo very true 💯💯💯💯
She is a good story teller despite the challanges amepitia...all the best mama
Nobody is talking about how the interviewer is beautifully pg...kudos for the good work
Absolutely we wish her well in Jesus name
hahahaha Anna Nyaguthii we would be loosing focus of the guest's story. But you have a point, we appreciate that Wambui is not hiding this her pregnancy journey from us. All the best Wambui wa Mwangi
She is my neighbour ..meaning her hubby's place🥰🥰🥰
Toroka na watoto wako bana wataenda even the stories unapeeana utajinyonga bure the early the better achana na mzungu
It would be dangerous to let those kids leave with this man. She needs justice
Mum wazungu don't give money coz ulaya kuna equal rights. He is expecting you to work and help each other. I am married by mzungu but nafanya kazi ili nijifanyie mambo zangu
It's not equal rights, it's called equal opportunities my dear 👍🏿
Wazungu are so stinjy ..u are a good story teller ..may God see you through qnd your babygals
Kairitu, I wish you all the best, mzungu anamfaitia mtoto wake kabisa! Hope you get a good lawyer
Hugs Vero ,yaani napenda vile unaelezea. Your beautiful, I hope she can find a way to support herself financially. I love her story is authentic
Aki how can someone live with a person who sees you as useless and nothing, someone who does not value you and he is your husband or wife, just love your self more and value yourself.
It's takes time to heal,,and to move out
Make a choice, and be wise Enough. Muthungu tiwe Ngai .. Hoya ngai akuonie njira
Ndio huyu mimi hapa na mzungu wangu alikufa this year na shida yenye nimepatana naye nitafute nikupee story.
You are such a beautiful girl,,,,na uko na a long way to go mamaa,,,never give up
I have loved how the interviewer is giving this lady time to explain everything without distractions kudos🎉🎉
I love the story! Life ya wazugu Yawa, 🤣, You're beautiful girl!
Waaaah pole sana my sister Kwa yale umepitia juu ya family yako.
Potea uende far na watoi! Acheni kusema mnawatumia muende ulaya! Without papers utaangamia huko and wazungu wenzake will not care! Oh my Goodness
Haha Dunia ni ndogo😂😂...Vero tulifanya marketing Vikings uchumi house tukiwa na Ivy and the rest😂😂😂...such a bubbly and cute lady ...Vero ukisoma hii comment salimika sana.
We as Africans need to kill the perception of white men are wealthy, we should never allow to be intimidated in our own country regardless of who we are or what we have. Ladies out here before you get to know someone, obey your instincts and never ignore the RED FLAGS, be financially independent and no one will ever degrade you.
As fr you babygal, you are beautiful, intelligent and talented, pick up the pieces and move forward. May you shine like a queen👑. I wish you nothing but the very best🙏
Exactly our sisters fall prey of wealthy men just because of being desperate unaware of the repurcusions behind it , it's high time they learn to be independent.
wambui I can't believe i am watching this 2 years later and feels good still. Hiyo ngombe in background chukueni panga mwende hapo kando ya bárbara mufyeke manyasi mrushe thru fence itawapea peace and love❤
Take heart dear, it is well, ciana ni ciaku he cannot be granted their custody, huku ni kenya si ulaya,
Haki what a complicated story. Sasa ikifika hapa mtu hufanya nini? Watoi in an expensive school so huwezi toka kwake. Now what to do? Mungu tu afungulie njia
Ooh dear, pole sana.
Ask for Wakili Ndegwa.
The one who helped Virginia Kamotho to get her kids back
Ngai. Mutumia WA Muthungu🙆. The solution to your problems is within you! Make a choice my sister...
Well said ..
It is ONLY GOD WHO HAS the SOLUTION not man
I have a white husband (he is 36, I am 32. We have been married for 4 years after dating for 2 years). When we met, I already had a masters degree.
After marriage, we moved to his country and because he wanted to empower me, he encouraged me to go back to school and he paid for my 2nd master’s degree (May I add that we’ve always had a joint bank account because he did not want me to feel like I was lacking anything). He would even take days off from work to stay with our baby, while I study for the exams. My first job interview, he rehearsed with me for hours! I got that job(in a field I am very passionate about) I had not even graduated when I got the job. He believes in me more than I even believe in myself.
I honestly think being white or black does not define an individual.
Hey siz don't mind about that mzungu husband of yours claiming you take a matatu about Uber simplicity is the best thing ever remember you yourself where you come from and where you are heading to
My sister you are married to gikuyu guy. He must be born in cities. Yes when you are married by a luo guy but not a gikuyu. In gikuyu culture men speaks women make food and children.
I Truely second you JH, it depends on individuals who choose to be human or in human, we cannot put everybody in the same sac, but we should consider red flags
I second you my sister 👏🏾 not all white men are bad,iam married to a Dutch guy and i can’t complain
@@priscillanjenga7581 wako better 100% times than gikuyu men.mzungu can cook for, clean house for you.they are very romantic compare with gikuyu men commander in chief .they put their ass down waiting women to cook. I hate this!!I can live without a mzungu
Si wote wabaya, i went through hell from a kenyan man until i met my mzungu husband i thank God for him
Wah iwish naeza pata mzungu
Imagine naogopa mzungu siwezi lala akiwa karibu
Please advise your friend asimake mistake ya kwenda ulaya na huyo mzungu ati akifika huko atajipanga anajipanga aje surely in a foreign land na ameshindwa huku? it won't be as easy as she thinks ananyongewa Kenya abroad atakufa for real, risks zingine ni za upuzi aki.
Some countries don’t allow domestic violence
@@nq4733 Not some but MOST but that doesn't mean that it doesn't happen and it doesn't necessarily have to be physical abuse.
@@beenjeery7959 tell them before it's too late
@@nq4733 Maybe but she is not empowered and knowledgeable enough. She has to have a plan. Unfortunately, that plan would include his willingness....
@@nq4733 she might not get justice as long as she is alone, black and no legal papers
Wah sad,but kuna wazungu wa pow kama murio wa waitherero mama Kinuthia 🥰🥰🥰
This lady is very pretty God remember her
True
Very touching story but be strong,,,me I'm married by white na ako very cool na i thank God because all time anakuanga my side
😂😂😂😂😂 wacha nicheke mm kabla ifike pa kulia 😂😂😂
Can relate..but atlist your kids are big enough now you can find a job and take care of them usijali wataenda shule gani..but am sure he'll take of them ata ukitoka..so stay strong usikae apo utazeekea apo n the way you're beautiful..
This is so sad!This beautiful girl has been through alot!I pray that you find stability and ability to leave that toxic relationship.
I have raised my 4 kids alone since my hubby died for more than 20 yrs now. When he died they took everything including money and l was a housewife but l thank God this far he is Ebenezer. I have sold fruits. Hawking, washing clothes etc and l thank God Atleast l didn't depend on a man. I can do any job as long as l don't depend on anyone. So sorry beautiful. Thank God that rent , food , fees are met...sisi nyumba tulizoea kulipa na fees na unga
Despite everything she's such a good story teller 🥰🥰
What
She is , i can listen to her the whole day
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣uchio ni njoroge muthungu
I think by virtue of a long cohabitation with kids to boot you could be considered married. Your relationship was never based on love from both parties so I suggest you continue to persevere there for the kids sake but try to get something to occupy yourself and get some money. You are both using one another so get as much out of it as you can . Jaribu muwende kwenyu ama Kwa dC
@@marynjeri5176i have only listened like 3 minutes from where wambui apologizes on behalf of cow mowing
Am following and after some time you bring her again to tell us what happened coz it's as if she can't move out but it's good to prevent than cure siatoe kids Nairobi aende nyumbani without minding what people will say aai Sasa anangoja watoi waende Netherlands aanze kulia huku na hajui how soon 😱
Let me give you a little advice marriage does not matter mzungu, African or American what matters is who you get married to,you can even get married to your tribe and face more troubles than what you are going through
True! But i think there is a bizzarre fixation on 'mzungu' by some people, I think they think white people are special in some way? It's embarrassing. Watu ni watu..skin has nothing to do with it. Kama mtu ni mbaya ni mbaya, despite their skin colour.
Ata afadhali ungekaa na Nyakundi...
True 🥂
Very true
@@betty541 inaitwa white jesus complex. Minyororo ya akili
Please leave and hide away from this narcissist. Please leave before you pregnant again. Good bless
🤣🤣🤣🤣she is from kiambu very sharp girl. Si kajinga hata mukimuona hivi
So beautiful and wambui love your work!
Pole sana kwa yale unapitia na watoto..lakini PLEASE BE CAREFUL USI SIGN PAPER HATA MOJA! PLEASE..NEVER WITHOUT A LAWYER! Anyway all the best. 🙏
Athungu a ngoma!arume othe nitamahananaiine
Maa niangomaa
😂🤣🤣🤣 maisha matiri itheru
Wacha nifanyie waarabu job mimi,maneno ya wazungu wacha ikae
@@maryngugi6828 wazungu especially dutch
Ukweri KABISA nimesituka hatasitaki
You never put boundaries especially towards your family members
Kikulacho kinguoni mwako?
You open your doors to the demons!!!
Not all family members are bad,some r very good,the bad ounce,avoid them.
The mzungu never loved her lakini mweusi mpumbavu yesu mzungu aliwaroga
7:10 Really camera man apewe chai🙈 good shoes 😄
Pliz take care don't and never give those documents to this man Kuna rafiki yangu alinyang'anywa watoto hivyo tu it's not easy
😁😁😁😁😁😁uko na vituko wewe dada
This lady is so great if she can just get to being up her kids on her own no matter what she may go thru' my advice may b is if she can just decide to start again without fear of facing it especially the kids, just hide from the man n b safe with your kids , it may seem soo hard but has no regrets in future, try girl try n all the best you are a worrier
Muthungu ucio ti muru Tondu Niragura irio wee niwe kiguta urenda guikara maisha maiguru.tena ujue huyo mzungu ni kenya kimbo amechanuka sana.hawezi kuwa fresh ideas. My dear menyaga uhikitio ni njoroge ti muthungu ucio ni muchanuku muno
Wa guku thī urīhagirwo oo guku thī wishing you all the best
Huyu Dem ni comedy 🤣🤣 Dem wa muzungu but huyo alikuwa masikini muzungu
Strong lady , pole sana shida yako ni family yenu how can ur sister ad Aunt sleep with ur husband? Backroot iko nashida kwenu , even if u snach him from ur best friend , kheri angechukuliwa na rafiki kuliko sister yako it's painful
true ata Yeye mzungu alikua wa rafiki yake mwenye Wali share ata nguo na akamkubali,. tit for tat,.
@@wanjikuchelsea7587 tit for tat is affair game afumilie tu hata kama sio tamu ameze vile iko then mzungu amerudiana na huyo besty yake waaaa madhalau juu ya ingine
A man will get away with whatever you allow him to do. You allowed him to play you, you allow him to control you, you will continue to suffer until you take control back from him. One of those ways is earn your own money.
What is striking is her strong will and beauty.
She is very authentic.
You are a beautiful young lady, I hope you get help and fight for the rights of the kids. For your sis and aunt wangonje karma.
This gal is such a hilarious lady,😁😁😁
Walk mummie walk.. hapo ni kifo unangoja
I'm surrounded by single White men who want to have a relationship with me, while I'm desperate for a Kenyan man. I'm in the U.S, I have a great job and I know these people very well. There's nothing special about them. It's okay to fall in love but don't look at skin color
God will give you..I dated a white man before and I know what you mean
Geithika mercy
C u give them my number I want one
Hoping i'll find u,,don't be desperate any more
Say it again louder ndio wasikie
May the good Lord see you thru mama,,pain is not your portion .woie naorea wi muthaka
Mimi kama ni wewe I'll run 🏃♂️with my kids heri niende nika hustle Turkana. This wazungu sio mchezo.
Anamalizwa akicheza mzungu adui yako milele na milele
hawa wakikuyu watatuonyesha mambo hii ndunia
Wooi Wambu andu aya matimenyagirwo,nii ndakorire mundu utari tukianjia thi nake no riria agiire ndigana gutamburwo onake anjiririe kwenda nginya sister ciakwa na akihikania na bado akora my niece kuria ndaikaraga no aramwenda ona tutiganite
Ni.nyamu cia andu
Many women think a mzungu is a demi god😌empower yourself first before giving yourself away to someone..if you have nothing going on in your life, you will stomach any B/S from anyone
Wazungu are simply the best because of their culture despite they don't give you money. They help you to look for a job and have your own thing different with gikuyu men.gikuyu men want to control you never haver have anything you own zote ni zake na akipata pesa ana marry second wife mzungu don't that
Mzungu mkora ni mkora .ukiona mzungu analala na your sister and aunt don't allow him to be with your daughters.
Mzungus are pure evil lakini mweusi mpumbavu.
@@cytkl yes wazungu they are pure evil because you don't know their culture. Wazungu and their culture are simply the best.in wazungu culture women are not given money because you don't own.it is abusive to give money to a woman. In wazungu culture woman and men are equal. I am married to a mzungu 21yrs and he doesn't give me money infact I do help him to pay bills because I work and I am left with a lot of money.
@@janewangombe5668 thats why He is with you because you are foolish. 🤣🤣🤣 unasaindia mzungu Saindia waafrika wenzako. But maybe wee ni aria mahoyaga jesu muthungu. Mentally enslaved selfhating fools
Sijui ni advice ama nimsaidie aje, but kama anataka kusaidiwa na custodian ya watoto lazima kwanza aonyeshe marriage certificate, aede nayo embassy yao awaelezee shida yake na atasaidiwa, but kama hana marriage cert itakua ngumu kidogo, then fr the evidence anaweza tumia passport stamp yenye alitumia kusafiri nayo, anyway hii platform nidogo ya kupeana advise but all the best
You sound like a very strong lady, l know you will make it without him.
Waooooo very true 💯💯💯💯
Mzungu kimbo 😂😂😂nı rangi ya thao ulıpenda
Sad story. May you get something to do and stabilize.. I wish once you are a bit stable you can leave.. Even if it means lowering the standard and changing the school, to keep your children safe... than losing them..Also it messes you mentally to be in this kind of relationship... JUST KNOW you are so pretty and a happy soul. I pray that things work for you and God make away. 🙏
May God see you through. Ya dunia ni ya dunia. Atakulipishia
I feel sorry for you little gal, I can assure you that not all mzungu are bad, I was married by a Kenyan and
I went through hell for a whole year. He was bitting me like daily after a small argument, everything I bought in that house with my own money he could make sure he break them every time we had a fight, sometimes he could hammer my toes, throw a knife to me, sometimes he could pour the food I cooked on the floor, ... The list is endless.... , I saw I was not worth or this disrespect and I left, but I can say by good luck I got a boyfriend from Netherlands and he is soo respectful, caring and loving.He has taught me how to be independent, how to love myself again, computer skills, driving, how to do business and through him I got back my self-awareness, respect and at this time I can't allow any bullshit or disrespect from anybody, irregardless whether you are my friend, family member my happiness comes first. I can say that it was a bad luck for you to be married by an animal, this is not a human being, he just wanted kids from you and nothing else. Don't allow again people to bring you down because you are the one who is giving them all freedom, take heart and start a new life.
No sex tourist is a good man.
God is good your comments gives me hope been through the same and more he could brought in women to the house we we're splitting rent,countless times I slept at chief office with my daughter..it's 2yrs now since I walked away and vow never to look back..may God remember me also and bless me with someone who will love me unconditionally 🙏
@@Shikuwanjoki trust in the process dear, the God who gave you courage to leave your toxic ex-husband will provide you with your other half and its good that you have learned what you want and what you don't want in a relationship, love yourself more and always enjoy life whether you have money or not, peace of mind and freedom is priceless. Take care and good luck
*regardless
You should go for help at Kituo cha Sheria
Na kai mwedete athungu aya atia!!! Muthungu takataka arakoma nainyue inyuothe akamuthiururuka???!urimu!
Irimu cia jesu caitani muthungu. Niicio ici
@@cytkl nicio ici dakuira
wooooiii aki. hii maisha wacha tu
She needs to start recording everything what that mzungu is putting her through for a strong evidence to defend herself with in court .
Sure
Indeed
She is wow ..veroh big up . And wambui kazi safi💋💓💗💗💖❤💯💥👊👊👊👊
It is important to realise that wazungu are normal human beings like the rest of us, there are good ones and bad ones. unfortunately, the recent narratives in the media show that some who come to Africa seeking spouses are sexual predators and they know they can get away with a lot in our countries. I do hope you get a good lawyer, I would not trust that man with any child.
That’s true this one has no boundaries he will molest with kids ..he won’t try that in his country..best to leave him he is too much..he is an embarrassment to wazungus aki
I agree, this so called Mzungu should not be set free in our villages he’s a predator!!!
Very true he might take advantage of the girls
Congratulations wambui wa mwangi l can see baraka iko jiani
We all make mistakes, I wish you the best, may God protect Ur kids. You shall overcome ... Trust in God.
Woiye am sorry 😔 take heart. I would like to be your friend 💯
I wish you can get a way to come here in netherlands,because here you have alot of rights to be here with your Kids and he has to support his kids.
She should go straight to the embassy in Nairobi. For sure they will help
Exactly, because she has Dutch kids,and that guy has no right to treat her the way he’s treating her .
Can you inbox me plizz
@@gracemaina673 I would advocate for this too coz in Holland, schools are free, insurance is affordable, support from the state is available and she can look for a job or train in her preferred career. I hope the children have Dutch passports and if not, they might require an acknowledgement of paternity to establish if the hubby is the father more so if the children were born out of wedlock.
@@priscillanjenga7581 its true,
She is so funny nimecheka hadi nikaumwa n mbavu
Madam si uachane na huyo mzungu please don't be fool.. Funguka macho chunga us usikuje kuria badaye. Huyo akieda na watoi hutawai waona tena
🤣🤣🤣outcome ya kutaka softlife😅😅
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ako funny ati ahithaga twara 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 Nyakundi 🤣🤣
Njoo Mombasa kwa nabii Betty pls hiyo ni kitu kidogo sana
I really feel for her and I believe a good lawyer can take this issue based on his immorality he can't be trusted with a girl child.
They were both immoral. The man for sexual favours the woman for comfort. There was no marriage, just a convenient relationship as with many others we have nowadays
Woooi mama shunga sasa kunyanganyua watoto heri yote ukose na uichi na watoto... njipange pole pole...Naa utafaru but hapo hakuna maisha...omba sana Mungu akufungurie njia mama.
court injunction to bar him from taking children out of the country without your consent and involvement is an urgent matter here please let's help her get a count order or we get pro-bono legal help or via government ombudsman.✍🏽📖💪🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽
Waah very sad story ,this girl mwambie atoke huko huyo muzungu ni bure kabisa.May God remember you.
At times having relatives, friends in your home when you are married is a recipe for disaster, help them at a distance
Oh plizzz the mzungu is the issue here hampendi mweusi asipolala na relativ atalala na wengine. Black women tuwapende wenzetu .
@@cytkl ata relatives ni shinda mbona wakubali kulala na yeye ...I don't blame mzungu I blame the desperate relatives Kasia tu
True
Oh dear pole sana Shiku... Times like this am glad I don't have any sisters and to think they're the best pillars in each others lives kumbe kuna tule tu tupepo? Talk to Lynn or Kagoni as well... Pole dear kuna wazungu wakoloni sana not all are nice and kind and loving.
Get that thing out of your head "bibi ya mzungu and stop pleasing people with that mzungu thing..kubali kurudi chini mum na utainuka tena we all make mistakes and I know shida zinaweza skuma mtu kufanya mambo zingine.that man isn't interested in you and he does all that to manipulate you umuondokee he can't change ndio anataka watoto ..naomba tu aki upate usaidizi ya watoto and please look for a job and I wish you well🥰
🤣🤣😅😅this is for the best story telling character😭
Ciku thanks for sharing your story. May God remember you 🙏
You are not alone some Kenyan men are worse than huyo mzungu
Nie wambui ndiretha muthungu na nijui ni nguona mwega in jesus name
Mami ulikosea kuleta wageni kwako.ukiwa na relationship na mzungu ni wewe but not your friends and family. I never invite wageni kwangu wengi wao ni wasaliti.next time stay with your kids
Woiyeeee aki its too late now, how i wish she knew
Oh dear, this is too much of painful situation. May God see you through it and change your situation for the better tomorrow.
Most of Wazungus don't give women money..girls should be cautious...but if she could find her way to live in Netherlands she has all the rights and support being a mother of Dutch children.
True..
Mzungus in africa hukunja kutumia watu. But Most fools suffer from white jesus complex
😂😂🤣such a good story teller ..huyu afungue TH-cam channel
Its not about the mzungu, men are men! The moment you put your self worth aside and decide to sleep with anyone just so you can be accommodated and maybe cover yourself from the shame of going back to your parents you've lost it and it will take you more than you can imagine to regain your dignity in that mans eyes, him sleeping with your relatives and you still there🙆 wangekuwa wangu they'd be in Kimende Primary. Wueeeh! You got strength mama. May God see you through.
May God make a way for you mama...alafu unaweza kuja gulf na ulee watoi wako