I used to shame guys who pays for ashawo but now I dont do it anymore because an Ashawo offers more value to a man these modern day chick we are dealing with.
@@twainalex996When you take an ashawo, you pay little money and she gives you sex..When these guys meet a girl who is for free, they pay more money and they sometimes still don't get sex and let's say they end up marrying her, they pay more money and she brings no value to your life..The only value she can bring is spreading her legs and she still won't even do that..She can also divorce you and talk half of your wealth.. So in the long run who is wiser?
I appreciate your unbiased take on this subject, you made great points and my favorite takeaway is you are still going to pay for box directly or indirectly
Bro I just realize few months ago paying for it is more sensible because all the relationships av had as cost me a lot financially mentally one nearly cost me my life his God who saved me.
I agree 100%... my roommate brings in different unilag students week in, week out with token, Buying food and small change. Not a flex for me though...
After exploring both routes, I can state that paying for decent gurl is better. Since you can afford to pay, find one clean smallaa, (18+) tell her clearly that you like her, and you want to be taking care of her. She understands that it's hook-up. If she's available, she'll go with you. It's basic paying for smash arrangement. But you'll be enjoying some free cooking, TDB, even non-committal companionship. Most gurls don enter street. So they are open to decent hook-up...in a nice neighbourhood.
For the sake of personal experience, knowing the difference between paying to smash and paying to date is all there's to understand. Once that understanding is grounded, no guy or no chick should complain.
Even if you attract her with your looks and personality and charisma, you will still give her food when she comes, you’ll still buy drinks, you will still SPEND MONEY REGARDLESS. The only differences is that you didn’t use the money to attract her and what you spend will be little because the affair was not transactional. So in summary as a Man regardless of your method of attraction whether physically or financially, you’ll still spend regardless.
But you forgot to talk about a very serious point: health and wellness, spending money is a relationship is expensive but treating unknown STDs can be worse .....if God helps you and you don't contract Aids
Some guys value their time more than attempting to prove they are confident enough to get a woman without money (which is a sort of fallacy unless you go Dutch on all dates). A lot of big men import girls from schools and other states, even countries just to smash. Ain't nobody got time for that!
LONG STORY SHORT IF YOU WANT TO GET IT FAST, JUST PAY FOR IT AND AVOID THE LONG PROCEDURE, CAUSE AT THE LONG RUN YOUR STILL GOING TO PAY DIRECT OR INDIRECTLY!!!
Paying for a woman services is very expensive and risky I rather stack that money and have peace of mind and live life to the fullest in fact dating and relationships are expensive and stressful
If you Don't plan on dating just make it quick, thing is some guys just too dey obsessed with one particular girl 1 week with small spending u no where u stand.
I don't know if it's just me but for sex only i prefer hookup services than dating Just more cheaper for me to be honest forget the rest of the opinions.
@@davefx_Your discipline might not be enough to sustain your wife. Your right for what you said and you can believe anything you want, but if we really want to be logical, do you really think marriage can stop a woman from doing whatever she feels like doing at the moment? Most women can't/where not raised to control their emotions. That's why naija woman dey leave husband when she makes more money and she's in a 1st world country.
You wont pay for transport? These men are crazy. You are the one that wants to see someone but you wont pay for their transport? Instead of that, why dont you visit her in her own house instead of telling her to come over to yours
Personally I think its more feminine when the girl pays for her transport.. look at it this way.... When I order food and pay for delivery that payment comes with a sense of entitlement and expectations of what it should be Whereas if you come on your own accord ill give more respect and weight to your decisions and values it shows the attribute that your attention can't be bought but rather available to any man that you deem worthy!! And even if we don't knack that day ill always remember it
@@kenbeat Hell na, this is what manipulative and broke men say. This is a manipulative trick used by men to also say why am I paying for sex if you are my girlfriend, but you will pay a woman you don't know for sex. The girl becomes more foolish than an olosho because she is giving her pussy for free. Men will say they don't value oloshos, but will give them money to spend the night with them. If you are giving someone money, it means that person has something of value. If you want to see someone, you should put in the effort to see them. The time she is using to see you, she will use it to be making money. And this is 2024, stop comparing women to things, food, or keys. We are human beings. If you really value her time, you won't have a problem paying for her transport. A man that actually wants to see a woman has no issue with paying her transport just to see her face. This is 2024, no girl is falling for the bullshit of if you don't demand money, you will be respected and seen as a girl of value when in reality, men will only take women that they invest in ( spend on ) seriously. Not paying for her transport shows lack of effort, if you can't pay for transport , how will you be able to pay for a date? Men will always take more seriously a girl they are spending on ( even if they don't like her) than a girl they are not spending on( even if they like her)
@@kenbeat If a girl comes without transport money, it means that her attention is cheap and her presence is worth nothing. If something is valuable to you, you put effort and resources to want to see that thing or person. Do you think Frank Edward is going to perform in any show for free? He has value and that's why he is being paid to perform .
Going through the relationship route is more expensive, risky and time consuming
Exactly 😅😂😂😂😂
I used to shame guys who pays for ashawo but now I dont do it anymore because an Ashawo offers more value to a man these modern day chick we are dealing with.
😂 you can’t be for real 😂😂😂
@@twainalex996When you take an ashawo, you pay little money and she gives you sex..When these guys meet a girl who is for free, they pay more money and they sometimes still don't get sex and let's say they end up marrying her, they pay more money and she brings no value to your life..The only value she can bring is spreading her legs and she still won't even do that..She can also divorce you and talk half of your wealth.. So in the long run who is wiser?
Nah. You're just not attractive and fine enough. Or confident. They're doing it because you're paying.
I appreciate your unbiased take on this subject, you made great points and my favorite takeaway is you are still going to pay for box directly or indirectly
Bro I just realize few months ago paying for it is more sensible because all the relationships av had as cost me a lot financially mentally one nearly cost me my life his God who saved me.
I agree 100%... my roommate brings in different unilag students week in, week out with token, Buying food and small change. Not a flex for me though...
how him dey take do am. help make us understand boss
d tin don tire us
Everybody pays one way or the other, we just get discounts
When you don't play the game, the rules don't apply to you! Abstain & Rack your money up!✊🏾✌🏾
See person wey get sense. All these men are just being exploited.
😂dey play
@@sannezpondabeat sorry o. Make we dey play, make you dey pay
@@sannezpondabeat There Is no easy way Out Bro...Make Your Choice,and Face the consequences!👊🏾
Relationships are now poverty alleviation
Bro you pay ashowo to leave when you are done, bro spiting facts
You are so right, my Gee 😅
After exploring both routes, I can state that paying for decent gurl is better.
Since you can afford to pay, find one clean smallaa, (18+) tell her clearly that you like her, and you want to be taking care of her.
She understands that it's hook-up.
If she's available, she'll go with you.
It's basic paying for smash arrangement. But you'll be enjoying some free cooking, TDB, even non-committal companionship.
Most gurls don enter street. So they are open to decent hook-up...in a nice neighbourhood.
E be like say na to jxt hold your mullar and everything settled I guess
@@uchennakingsley1354 that's all.
Have your bar...nd d confidence to ask for exactly what you want from dem
😢 It's actually stressful to date in 2024. All these rules then if the person isn't attracted to you, it's a waste of feelings.
For the sake of personal experience, knowing the difference between paying to smash and paying to date is all there's to understand.
Once that understanding is grounded, no guy or no chick should complain.
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The girl is collecting Ur money , if U like call it for date, the girl knows what she is doing 😅😅😅
All men must pay as long you are dealing with a woman, marriage or not, u must pay. Marriage men pays more self.
Paying for something wey one low-key boi don chop finish. Omo !
raise am raise am raise am.......
Texting two months 3 months?.... wetin we dey talk?😂
Broo 2 weeks if I no see you smash I don movee
Even if you attract her with your looks and personality and charisma, you will still give her food when she comes, you’ll still buy drinks, you will still SPEND MONEY REGARDLESS.
The only differences is that you didn’t use the money to attract her and what you spend will be little because the affair was not transactional. So in summary as a Man regardless of your method of attraction whether physically or financially, you’ll still spend regardless.
Bro everything you said have been facts because it’s true
You just got a subscriber bro💯💥
I support you bro, 100%😊
Good points. Make another video and tell us what your opinion is about legalizing prostitution.
But you forgot to talk about a very serious point: health and wellness, spending money is a relationship is expensive but treating unknown STDs can be worse .....if God helps you and you don't contract Aids
Some guys value their time more than attempting to prove they are confident enough to get a woman without money (which is a sort of fallacy unless you go Dutch on all dates).
A lot of big men import girls from schools and other states, even countries just to smash.
Ain't nobody got time for that!
"you go dutch on all dates" watchu mean hommie ?
Somehow people wey no de collect money nai de sabi enter our eye na why we de use the dating format
Underrated comment 👏 😅
LONG STORY SHORT IF YOU WANT TO GET IT FAST, JUST PAY FOR IT AND AVOID THE LONG PROCEDURE, CAUSE AT THE LONG RUN YOUR STILL GOING TO PAY DIRECT OR INDIRECTLY!!!
Paying for a woman services is very expensive and risky I rather stack that money and have peace of mind and live life to the fullest in fact dating and relationships are expensive and stressful
If you Don't plan on dating just make it quick, thing is some guys just too dey obsessed with one particular girl
1 week with small spending u no where u stand.
1 week is too long to waste on parole preps
Olohun! If she no like you she no like you gbayii ;
But pls what does genuine desire mean to a guy
How can contact you brr 😭 I’m hurt 😔
Use the consultation link in the description
I don't know if it's just me but for sex only i prefer hookup services than dating Just more cheaper for me to be honest forget the rest of the opinions.
You didn't talk about the std aspect as I saw in your thumbnail
I rather marry than waste money and chances
You can still marry and the things you avoid in a bf and gf relationship can still enter the marriage
@@EditCrafting when I have zero discipline
@@davefx_Your discipline might not be enough to sustain your wife. Your right for what you said and you can believe anything you want, but if we really want to be logical, do you really think marriage can stop a woman from doing whatever she feels like doing at the moment? Most women can't/where not raised to control their emotions. That's why naija woman dey leave husband when she makes more money and she's in a 1st world country.
@@EditCrafting So what's your point
You can arrange, have less sex and pay with half of your wealth.
Egbons.. Wetin e mean a girl addressse you as "swii"
Thou shalt not pay for box !!!!
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not web development💀💀💀
These things are suppose to be free
Awon osho free 😂😭😂
Lmao
Lol... Go through history and check out men that had success with women, either they are very wealthy or they had status. What do that tells you 😂
Bigman na depression yeah depression
What have you got against Tekno loll.
Ijigi okwu
You wont pay for transport? These men are crazy. You are the one that wants to see someone but you wont pay for their transport? Instead of that, why dont you visit her in her own house instead of telling her to come over to yours
Personally I think its more feminine when the girl pays for her transport.. look at it this way....
When I order food and pay for delivery that payment comes with a sense of entitlement and expectations of what it should be
Whereas if you come on your own accord ill give more respect and weight to your decisions and values it shows the attribute that your attention can't be bought but rather available to any man that you deem worthy!!
And even if we don't knack that day ill always remember it
@@kenbeat Hell na, this is what manipulative and broke men say. This is a manipulative trick used by men to also say why am I paying for sex if you are my girlfriend, but you will pay a woman you don't know for sex. The girl becomes more foolish than an olosho because she is giving her pussy for free. Men will say they don't value oloshos, but will give them money to spend the night with them. If you are giving someone money, it means that person has something of value.
If you want to see someone, you should put in the effort to see them. The time she is using to see you, she will use it to be making money. And this is 2024, stop comparing women to things, food, or keys. We are human beings. If you really value her time, you won't have a problem paying for her transport. A man that actually wants to see a woman has no issue with paying her transport just to see her face.
This is 2024, no girl is falling for the bullshit of if you don't demand money, you will be respected and seen as a girl of value when in reality, men will only take women that they invest in ( spend on ) seriously. Not paying for her transport shows lack of effort, if you can't pay for transport , how will you be able to pay for a date?
Men will always take more seriously a girl they are spending on ( even if they don't like her) than a girl they are not spending on( even if they like her)
@@kenbeat And you analogy is funny. Have you ever ordered for food and not paid for delivery? Oya answer. Who does delivery free of charge?
@@kenbeat If a girl comes without transport money, it means that her attention is cheap and her presence is worth nothing. If something is valuable to you, you put effort and resources to want to see that thing or person. Do you think Frank Edward is going to perform in any show for free? He has value and that's why he is being paid to perform .
@@lawonyinye7056 So from your analogy your girlfriend is a celebrity and you are a fan, right?
😢 It's actually stressful to date in 2024. All these rules then if the person isn't attracted to you, it's a waste of feelings.
You keep yourself surrounded with the wrong people
😢 It's actually stressful to date in 2024. All these rules then if the person isn't attracted to you, it's a waste of feelings.
Sorry 💀
😅my guy dey tell am sorry @@ICHAP