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  • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
    @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    this is the hack to a better friend group.. only choose people that’s choosing you
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    • @Joostin_n
      @Joostin_n หลายเดือนก่อน

      Im focusing on school work (I'm 17) I struggle with lust and I have a girlfriend, it really makes me sick that I'm willingly doing this lusty things even when I have such an amazing woman by my side. However, I will keep doing my best. At the end of the day all we can do is try.

  • @santiago-kq9nd
    @santiago-kq9nd หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    True story. I’ve been single for about 2yrs now. Chose to leave my last relationship because the energy flipped. I never cheated, never disrespected her, never acted suss. After 5-6 months of gaslighting she finally told me that “She’s letting me go because I wasn’t happy.” Literally told me how “I” felt as a grown man. Once I knew she preplanned the breakup I calmly said …”I’m not staying where I’m not welcomed.” After 7 years together that was a wrap. Now I’m single, working out every day, chasing NOBODY. Just working on myself , listening to your channel ✊🏼
    Never let anyone tell you how YOU feel, and never sell yourself out by staying in a bad relationship.

  • @opaozinhodequeijo
    @opaozinhodequeijo หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    “I’m only choosing ppl that r choosing me” me listening to this on an empty room happy enough because I’ve got the message!

  • @muva-j6u
    @muva-j6u หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    It's crazy how hard it is to find someone that's going to speak life into you

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      right! it’s crazy smh

    • @musicbeat8120
      @musicbeat8120 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Brother @muva-j6u dont doubt yourself in life thats it 🦾💯 also i wish you a happy day i dont hope i know it is some life spoken to you or it wil help you remind of it

  • @mobjae6494
    @mobjae6494 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Did anyone see how the cat started listening😂. Shows how big of an impact this guy is. Don’t stop!!!

  • @seaseajacques
    @seaseajacques หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I walked away from someone that wasn’t a bad person but wasn’t adding value in my life. I didn’t give an explanation but I decided it was best not to explain. My circle is small those that are in it are purpose driven people. 🙏🏾

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน

      💯💯💯purpose driven people only. it’s better that way 🙏🏽

  • @BrandonAlexanderWalks
    @BrandonAlexanderWalks หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    You got it with this one! The circle can only be so big and everyone doesn't fit inside!

  • @coarse.bandHTX
    @coarse.bandHTX หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    everyday ive watched this channel, I’ve watched my life improve as well. Your words are truly inspirational man, keep up the good work 🙏

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you! 🙏🏽 truly grateful i can make an impact

  • @MarxHaven
    @MarxHaven 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Had to watch this 3 times back to back. Going through a slow break up of a long term relationship where she doesn't see the value that I bring, the contributions I make, the effort I put in, the emotional and mental work I do for her. I give, she takes, and doesn't appreciate it. I'm deciding where I need to cut back as we finish going through this process, and its hard to do because I still care. This video is helping me process the situation and see it for what it is. I can't keep giving and giving or I will have nothing left and she will have moved on.

  • @prod.pll0
    @prod.pll0 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    10:47 Amen 🙏🏽

  • @tahu1235
    @tahu1235 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What I have found is it can be mutual. I called out my close brothers for both of us not communicating. Sometimes its unintentional and life gets in the way. Other times they weed themselves out. Take accountability. Reach out to your brothers and have those real talks. Since then now we have two way communication. We had the vulnerable talks to get over the hurdles of being emotional with each other and having those heart to heart moments and now have grown even closer and found ourselves through this process. Mad respect bro!

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน

      i agree wholeheartedly brother great point to give to the brotherhood 🙏🏽

  • @mobjae6494
    @mobjae6494 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I admire you bro. You really seem like you’re my mentor brother. Much love for you bro

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน

      much love bro that means a lot 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @ZAZA_822
    @ZAZA_822 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Bro this video came at a perfect time, i know you gotta face life alone weather you like it or not but this video takes that message way more deeper, thank you bro these videos are a life saver

  • @ILiveUpToMyName
    @ILiveUpToMyName 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    All praises due to The Most High 🙏🏾 I needed this reminder. Well said and articulated!!!

  • @musicofdarius
    @musicofdarius หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you for the message. I've been wanting to be around positive people for years.

  • @SonyaBallard-ex4ml
    @SonyaBallard-ex4ml หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That's true, why I listen to you, great job

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน

      i appreciate you Sonya! 🙏🏽

    • @SonyaBallard-ex4ml
      @SonyaBallard-ex4ml หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ForPurposeDrivenMen thank you, for being present!!

  • @aaronhudgins5810
    @aaronhudgins5810 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Facts the ending of this video hit hard

  • @thestreetspeaker1
    @thestreetspeaker1 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I Listened To That OutWitting The Devil Audiobook 🙏🏾 Real Game 💯

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      so much game in there bro glad you checked it out 🔥🙏🏽

    • @thestreetspeaker1
      @thestreetspeaker1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @ Facts 💯

  • @joelatona150
    @joelatona150 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dropped this at the perfect time for me

  • @Uncommony
    @Uncommony หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    We all are the chosen ones. Choose who you allow to enter into your life Wisley. Stay Uncommon!

  • @rekz.073
    @rekz.073 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    it be like this i done dropped so much people who didnt want to be around me because i used to be a beggar now its different love from the UK i always wait around midnight for your videos to drop 💙💯

    • @rekz.073
      @rekz.073 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      11:00 💯

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      appreciate you! 🙏🏽💙

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      and i’m proud of your growth! 📈 keep going

  • @HeyItsAbb
    @HeyItsAbb หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lovely post @ForPurposeDrivenMen really nice to see self aware emotionally intelligent conversations from young men. Good on you 👍

  • @lonimimeseko
    @lonimimeseko 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Needed to see this

  • @lilpeices
    @lilpeices หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nah this one hit Amen brother

  • @Esmeralda.M.
    @Esmeralda.M. 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’ve never seen a bigger sign!

  • @bekahmatthews
    @bekahmatthews หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    yeahh this video definitely hit harder , the last person i wanted so bad to be in my life was the first and last time i ever did that lol . it’s crazy cause i thought it was different butttt i’ll forever wish him the best! on the bright side , listening to these videos during a workout is probably the best thing ever forsureeeeeee

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      so glad you relate, i appreciate you tuning in while you on that grind working out! 🔥🔥🔥

  • @jayswiftx
    @jayswiftx หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Another purpose driven video 💪🏾💪🏾 dope bro. Let’s keep putting in the work & recognizing our worth as kings

  • @tapat12
    @tapat12 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Awesome! 🐈 how you greeted your cat. Thank you for sharing this message.

  • @tmscharles4721
    @tmscharles4721 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    needed this one. real reminder

  • @thatomothupi5051
    @thatomothupi5051 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Underatted asf!⚡🤎

  • @healthiswealth682
    @healthiswealth682 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    FACTSSSS ! Preach bro

  • @jorge7246
    @jorge7246 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    UNDERRATED

  • @danielleryan6617
    @danielleryan6617 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    All I heard was bars ❤ Needed to hear this

  • @janinepolanco319
    @janinepolanco319 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    FELT this

  • @tiiiadore1455
    @tiiiadore1455 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Same only choose people who choose me, not focusing ANYTHING on

  • @benharris4149
    @benharris4149 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Really needed this Rn, Preciate it Bro! Be Blessed!

  • @janinepolanco319
    @janinepolanco319 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this

  • @Bryys0nnnn
    @Bryys0nnnn หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great video 🔥🔥

  • @nevillelewis9206
    @nevillelewis9206 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Give and you will be blessed.

  • @malcolmbaker7407
    @malcolmbaker7407 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank u brotha i needed to hear this

  • @raven.vesante
    @raven.vesante หลายเดือนก่อน

    This came at the right time. God is good 🔥. Going through something like this right now. Giving my all to someone who isn’t giving me that much. It sucks, but I’m purpose driven so we move forward 💪🏽

  • @musicbeat8120
    @musicbeat8120 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    COME ON MY MAN Malique Spitting Facts 💯🦾👁🌟

  • @JugMan81
    @JugMan81 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One of the shorter but factual videos. Discarded the emotional baggage once I locked in and some people disappeared.

  • @denzelrodriguez1282
    @denzelrodriguez1282 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    WOW BRO, the ond of the video, impact me!.

  • @JojoAces
    @JojoAces หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    We must protect our energy in all ways and regards🗣️⚠️🔑

  • @jordonfrazier6205
    @jordonfrazier6205 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Perfect timing on this one 😮‍💨

  • @Youngmayne
    @Youngmayne หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    thank you

  • @RonnieWisdom
    @RonnieWisdom หลายเดือนก่อน

    Powerful message and reminder! Thank you, brotha!

  • @Immaburnthekitchendown
    @Immaburnthekitchendown หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "People gotta understand you the same way you trynna understand them" This quote is gonna stick by me fr

  • @BillionaireBur
    @BillionaireBur หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    confirmation!!!!!

  • @justgaming124
    @justgaming124 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Amen, only people that lift you up, especially in your faith walk with God. God will give you the people you need not always the people you want. Praise Lord Jesus 🙌🏽✝️🌟🕊️🌎💛

  • @Dually7
    @Dually7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Perfect timing bro

  • @Jacobponders
    @Jacobponders หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I haven’t tuned in a while but I love just listening to what you’re saying and letting it affirm in my mind; it’s a great source for real and bro on that third “Why are we still choosing people who aren’t choosing us?” I was hype haha much love and god bless brotha 🙏 I’ve been thinking about making similar videos. How did you start or what did it look like? Are you more confident in your videos then when you first started ?

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      glad you enjoyed the video bro, it’s simple i just pressed record and i made sure to be as authentic as possible. authenticity is all that matters nowadays, if you’re being yourself your tribe will find you 🙏🏽🫡

  • @PrettyPaidLuv
    @PrettyPaidLuv หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Literally

  • @jamesmatias9000
    @jamesmatias9000 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This one hit dif😢

  • @ezloco2920
    @ezloco2920 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Saludos my boy , happy Monday let’s get it 👏

  • @chrissilewis366
    @chrissilewis366 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💯🙏🏽

  • @FelixGarcia-u4u
    @FelixGarcia-u4u หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    god bless everyone

  • @SonyaBallard-ex4ml
    @SonyaBallard-ex4ml หลายเดือนก่อน

    Understood!!

  • @djfred5027
    @djfred5027 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Vid is purreee facts ! Only choose folks who choose you. Your wasting time with them. Move on !! 💯 and I’ll sleep in Batman clothes to bro ! 💯

  • @drain0001
    @drain0001 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    facts

  • @magnusklinke7090
    @magnusklinke7090 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.". Great vid

  • @maustinminnis
    @maustinminnis หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @RichMills23
    @RichMills23 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💯

  • @brixtersanchez7296
    @brixtersanchez7296 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Colossians 3:1-4: “Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is, seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things.

  • @akhilkrishnan8878
    @akhilkrishnan8878 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm trying to do things that are necessary on days that I don't feel like doing it. I'm trying to learn about financial literacy but I'm just able to do on days I feel like doing it and on the days I don't feel like doing it, I become complacent and lazy to give a fuck. Any tips?

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน

      th-cam.com/video/QbSB_jUqk_Q/w-d-xo.htmlsi=7UvPbcdh-wLIbP1P

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      you got this

    • @akhilkrishnan8878
      @akhilkrishnan8878 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ForPurposeDrivenMen appreciate you bro. Keep inspiring us

  • @prod.pll0
    @prod.pll0 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    3:40 Jesus

  • @tiiiadore1455
    @tiiiadore1455 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Early🥳

  • @aaronhudgins5810
    @aaronhudgins5810 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m struggling with this I thought I would help up lift her and you can only do things or help overs when they are ready to receive it

  • @JohnnyDVS
    @JohnnyDVS หลายเดือนก่อน

    For the fellas , Cory MF Wayne.

  • @humbledev_
    @humbledev_ หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Going through this now. Chasing after someone I love because I think it’s the right thing to do.
    Nah you right, choose those that choose you 🫡

  • @Liqo315
    @Liqo315 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🧘🏿‍♂️💫👁

  • @Lauravalentinav
    @Lauravalentinav 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    And I’m gone ❤️‍🩹

  • @JesusSaves383
    @JesusSaves383 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Jesus-Christ is Lord and Savior.
    Whoever believes in him will not perish, but have Eternal Life 🙏

  • @Andres-bs7bz
    @Andres-bs7bz หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The only reason your channel doesn’t have more views is because everyone getting locked in now

    • @ForPurposeDrivenMen
      @ForPurposeDrivenMen  หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      i don’t even care about views, it could drop to 1 and i’m still showing up, i’m proud do everyone locking in that’s what it’s suppose to be 🔥🔥🫡 appreciate you!

  • @Somni_Rex
    @Somni_Rex หลายเดือนก่อน

    B , Im W, so what? , fk

  • @Lauravalentinav
    @Lauravalentinav 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your videos. God is speaking to me through you, really. Thank you so much king 🪽

  • @HananeKHELIFA-t6f
    @HananeKHELIFA-t6f หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    U are right . But this is thé problem WE Always bé Desperate for no reason . And i learned that ( dont chase;just attract ) . And thank u brother Always when i need thé advice thé notification of yours give it to me thank u so much ❤️‍🩹

  • @AnellaSharpes-px3xq
    @AnellaSharpes-px3xq หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I sorry that I share something that
    I share with some people because
    some use it against me. I been not
    texting or calling no one since
    September and taking the time
    to read my Bible and praying more.
    being by myself it's a good thing
    for me because I can find myself
    more and don't have to give no one
    reason for why my life is the way it
    is. but I'll be back texting and calling again at the end of November. thank you this
    is a good book
    How to Deal
    With
    Toxic people
    by GREGORY L JANTZ P H D
    WITH KEITH WALL
    thank you again for showing us
    so much love and empowering
    us to choose right and stand up for
    ourselves thank you God bless you