I love this conversation 😍😍 Two beautiful ladies on my screen 😊 You see this topic is very dicey at the end of the day At the end of the day allow God to help you pick your spouse. We humans change and hide things that we are not proud of. I don’t belong to any team 😂
@@tommuzima1146 what I meant with my statement was that there are two sides to this whole thing. I can’t even remember everything that was discussed in this video as at when typing this. Yes, it is true that we have choices and can make choices but I will always talk as a believer, when making those choices in life generally you have to involve God 💯💯💯and choosing a spouse isn’t outside this, so that it won’t be a wrong one. We humans are always unpredictable
Actually i really enjoyed this video and want more of this kind, Personally living with a guy for an extended period of time is good, Therefore one can know truly well if he or she can tolerate somethings not yet known or seen from a distance. Love you guys..❤❤
I agree that new habits pop up here and there but i believe living together at some point will show you some basic habits that you may not necessarily see by visiting. It’s also just like in the uni days where you have roommate that you can’t cope with because of their habits that you only found out when you lived with them .
Very interesting session. Personally, cohabiting with your partner before marriage is good but it also depends on both partners understanding of each other. Weekends don't cut it, because people pretend a lot, 2weeks - 1month is good for a start. Cohabiting is also a screening process for both parties to understand what they can tolerate about each other, no one is perfect. Cohabiting is for serious relationships that has a dedicated intention, commitment and discipline.
I understand where you’re coming from, but like I said, in the video, I will definitely encourage people to stay for extended periods with whom they want to marry before getting married to avoid stories that touch, knowing that at least you did your part in getting to know this person.
@Arabatosin wtf are you talking about you have to live with a mf before you decide that you can marry a mf stop judging based of your own principles we don't have arranged marriages in the west mf
I agree with you; cohabiting is totally wrong. Living with him for eternity does not mean the relationship will end in marriage or that the marriage will succeed even when you know him like your brother. Marriage is two people willing to compromise and make each other happy, and it takes your lifetime to do the job. Would one keep living together with as many men one goes into a relationship with?
I agree with staying for an extended time with your partner especially if it’s a serious relationship so you know……But with the dating scene here in Toronto is it still advisable esp for our naija brothers😮
@@OnyekaAsamaka perhaps you could do a dating series playlist and have a discussion about this topic because a lot of women are just like you and will not accept dating younger. Would be interesting for your viewers to hear the views from three or four other ladies. Merry Christmas.
If we go back to God's plan of becoming husband and wife BEFORE cohabiting and actually both parties walking in OBEDIENCE to God's standard (Exodus 20:3-17), things will be far better. Yes, we live in a sinful world and challenges will come but God's ideal is always the ideal.
Short video wish it was longer but learnt a lotttt . Always been a fan. Thank you Onyeka Merry Christmas
Glad you enjoyed it and merry Christmas 🎄
@@OnyekaAsamaka same here Onyeka😊
Loved filming this❤️. Great conversation 👌🏾
Same here love💕
I love this conversation
😍😍
Two beautiful ladies on my screen 😊
You see this topic is very dicey at the end of the day
At the end of the day allow God to help you pick your spouse. We humans change and hide things that we are not proud of.
I don’t belong to any team 😂
Hahaha fair enough ❤️❤️
How can God choose a husband for you if you cannot chòse him yourself?
@@tommuzima1146 what I meant with my statement was that there are two sides to this whole thing. I can’t even remember everything that was discussed in this video as at when typing this.
Yes, it is true that we have choices and can make choices but I will always talk as a believer, when making those choices in life generally you have to involve God 💯💯💯and choosing a spouse isn’t outside this, so that it won’t be a wrong one. We humans are always unpredictable
Actually i really enjoyed this video and want more of this kind,
Personally living with a guy for an extended period of time is good, Therefore one can know truly well if he or she can tolerate somethings not yet known or seen from a distance. Love you guys..❤❤
Good to see you again onyeka
Likewise ❤️❤️
Cohabiting won’t make you know a person if you can live together. Even as couples you see new habits you can’t deal with but you stay.
I agree that new habits pop up here and there but i believe living together at some point will show you some basic habits that you may not necessarily see by visiting. It’s also just like in the uni days where you have roommate that you can’t cope with because of their habits that you only found out when you lived with them .
Enjoyed watching this😍😍
Glad you enjoyed it dear ❤️
Very interesting session. Personally, cohabiting with your partner before marriage is good but it also depends on both partners understanding of each other. Weekends don't cut it, because people pretend a lot, 2weeks - 1month is good for a start. Cohabiting is also a screening process for both parties to understand what they can tolerate about each other, no one is perfect. Cohabiting is for serious relationships that has a dedicated intention, commitment and discipline.
You took the words right out of my mouth!
You both have great energy 😂❤
Haha thanks ❤️❤️
Cohabiting together before marriage is totally wrong that's why alot of relationships don't end in marriage
I understand where you’re coming from, but like I said, in the video, I will definitely encourage people to stay for extended periods with whom they want to marry before getting married to avoid stories that touch, knowing that at least you did your part in getting to know this person.
@Arabatosin wtf are you talking about you have to live with a mf before you decide that you can marry a mf stop judging based of your own principles we don't have arranged marriages in the west mf
I agree with you; cohabiting is totally wrong. Living with him for eternity does not mean the relationship will end in marriage or that the marriage will succeed even when you know him like your brother. Marriage is two people willing to compromise and make each other happy, and it takes your lifetime to do the job. Would one keep living together with as many men one goes into a relationship with?
I agree with staying for an extended time with your partner especially if it’s a serious relationship so you know……But with the dating scene here in Toronto is it still advisable esp for our naija brothers😮
Yes we want more 😊
Will do!!!
Nobody is perfect doesnt mean i will tolerate dirty environment or being abusive.
Haha i agree ooo
Honestly, I'm team do what works for you but i won't recommend cohabitating for too long frequently. Lisa's top is cute 🥰
Both of you ladies are beautiful 😍
Thanks girl ❤️❤️❤️
Would you date a younger man and if so what's the cut-off age?
Haha, honestly I wouldn’t but if i had to, probably 1year younger max!
@@OnyekaAsamaka perhaps you could do a dating series playlist and have a discussion about this topic because a lot of women are just like you and will not accept dating younger. Would be interesting for your viewers to hear the views from three or four other ladies.
Merry Christmas.
This is like De'Javeu, I think I've seen the guest speaking on the same subject on another channel.
You’re probably mistaken, this is her first TH-cam appearance. Probably a lookalike
Not everyone will be married, stay married or stay in relationship.
True… commitment is not for everyone!
So basically just like what we have in Nigeria 😂
yes ooo but Nigeria is better abeg
If we go back to God's plan of becoming husband and wife BEFORE cohabiting and actually both parties walking in OBEDIENCE to God's standard (Exodus 20:3-17), things will be far better. Yes, we live in a sinful world and challenges will come but God's ideal is always the ideal.
People pretend for longer. i encourage cohabiting for a bit, you get to know a lot more.
I totally agree
I think I like d fair lady. Hi..
Of course you do
@@OnyekaAsamaka can I get to know her more pls. Like seriously. Jokes apart