REGRETS: Why I wish I never shared this part of my life (the consequences)
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ม.ค. 2023
- With every decision there are consequences and I regret this decision. I definitely paid the price for sharing something that, well, maybe I should have just kept hidden.
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Thank you for watching! I hope you enjoyed this video and the various ways in which I'm changing and adapting to this new part of my life. Are you going through any changes? Have any regrets?
Many many changes too. I'm one of those people that gets bored easily and my life changes every two to three years. Some people like change, others don't. What really matters is that we find peace, joy and love in our lives everyday, and we are responsible for making ourselves happy! ☮💌Still enjoy viewing your videos no matter the content
Yes, as we speak I am turning into a werewolf & it is sooo annoying. 😜 Kidding aside, I have a question. Since rv/vans are still at a premium, are you considering at all selling your van while at it's highest value? Or just worth keeping for the moment? Thanks
I am in the process of changing jobs from an office sit down all day job to a more mobile job that's more outdoors. I am finishing some dental work with my current great dental coverage. God knows what kind of dental my next job will have. lol 🦷
I am preparing for a major life change. My youngest started college this past August. I am getting my house ready to be put on the market. I need to decide where I want to live just for myself. I follow you and other travelers to see parts of the country that I have not personally been.
🎼"Regrets, I've had a few..."😉Life brings change. I'm one of those few humans who embrace change. Boredom has been my enemy since I was a little kid! But stupid pandemic wrecked me, truly. Became agoraphobic, the PTSD came back, the ANXIETY swallowed me whole. I barely left my house except to go to my little cottage in the Summer. Jan '22, I got uterine cancer, finished treatment in June, am finally moving out of the "rage" phase. Now, I have NO fear. Screw it... I lived! My husband is still so scared, thought he was gonna lose me (sweetie!).. But I'm staying here for the FUN. I'm going to the Caribbean next week! I'm done with fear, open to all adventures. Still anxious, always will be. But I win, anxiety. No fear. You're doing GREAT, Amber. Happy for ya! Cute place!!! 💐(Got your sticker on my car and my laptop... I'm representing you, pretty lady!!!)
I'm glad that you've been authentic with your process. I know you've gotten some flack some some people, but I wanted to give you the other side. It totally makes sense to me that you would get tired of being on the road after a number of years. Full time on the road isn't for everyone, especially not indefinitely. So thanks for continuing to be authentic with your own story chasing adventure, and not trying to produce a story that other people want. What I appreciate about you is your realness. As somebody who has had a lot of depression and anxiety, it makes me feel like I can relate to your situation. Although my situation is very different, I can definitely relate to the occasional uncertainty of life. And the uncertainty of what should go next.
Kim thank you for sharing your perspective and kind compliments. It’s sometimes hard to navigate this path when I’m also thinking about what’s best for me, how can I show something that might help somebody else, and still make a entertaining and successful video. It can be agonizing and I out a lot of pressure on myself. I hope you are being kind to yourself with the anxiety and depression and have support. It can be hard to deal with otherwise.
All that really matters are you happy thats important
So well said!
What she said. So well put.
@@AmberJBaldwin By this point your followers are just interested in your story no matter where you are living. Life is ever changing and if you are authentic, that's all that counts.
Your authentic voice was what drew me to your channel. Dealing with suffering is something we share in common. Our best life stories are about struggling with loss and changes. Do not regret showing us that part of Story Chasing. It is powerful and moving. Some people run from that. The rest of us are saying "Yes, I understand".
Thank you Christine I’m so glad that you shared your perspective.
I am sorry you felt so harshly judged for sharing a difficult part of your life. I think more people appreciate it than look down on you for it. I have always preferred to surround myself with people who aren't afraid to show some of their hardships - it's easier to relate to those kind of people and easier to then open up myself. Sometimes you just need to talk it out and not be afraid that you will be judged for your feelings. Thanks for being you.
And btw, I love that bed frame. My dream is to have one just like it! And it's been fun to come along with you as you decorate your little part time home. ♥️
Live your life Amber, I finally stopped worrying about what others think of me at 63!! Be you, you are loved!❤
Amen!!!
Do not apologize for being an honest human being......
No reason to apologize. So glad you are content with the changes you have made. Keep well. ❤
As someone coming up on 70.....I can tell you the one constant in life is constant change.
Adaptability is your Friend.
We all write our ki en story.
I am so proud of you for writing/video taping your own story authentically.
Keep up the good work!!!!
Enjoy every moment of your own story!
Never been to Ikea. I had a friend who wanted to go there for a lunch break. Thanks for sharing your world with us. We will keep chasing your stories.
Awesome! Thank you!
I was just at the IKEA in my hometown last week. 😊It’s not far from my work so me and a coworker went to have lunch at the cafeteria. I had never been to the cafeteria before. Good food!
to see you painting as you shared at the end............made me cry!
not to worry about those who left, FT vanlife now is precarious, at best, imho.....
i love to watch people grow and share their gifts! Thanks, Amber! xxx
You have gone through so much. It’s can be hard to see you suffer. My heart goes out to you. Love your living room. Very special. ❤
You will NEVER please everyone no matter what you are doing. Just do what is best for you and let the haters go! You do you boo! 😊
it takes a lot of courage to admit a need for change. your show of vulnerability is a show of strength. Bless your beautiful soul
You seem so happy to be back near your sister. Life is a journey---enjoy the ride!
Hi
I’m not allowed in IKEA without a responsible adult.
Lmao. Uh oh. I hope I didn’t cause a problem here. 😉
Everything is coming together so nice...Everything looks beautiful. I fell in love with your new plates i love them! I've noticed how much calmer you are your relaxed and just enjoying life the way you want for a while. I like this part of your life but I also like the van life part too! But I know it's very hard being on the road all the time. No matter how you choose to do life I will still be following you. Just be safe at all times! Wishing you the best!! ❤🙏
Thank you for letting us in you life. I love it. Best wishes
Glad you enjoy it!
Your little apartment is just perfect. I love your bed frame, and that seems to be the style right now seeing the wooden base. Your all good.
You do what you want to do, I was very happy to see you here today.
I think sharing that part of your life was really a good thing. It cuts through the “everything’s perfect in my life” facade which can often be portrayed on social media. That does a lot of harm to people too. More harm I would suggest than you sharing your real life challenges. Thank you for keeping it real and I think the situation you are in is perfect and would likely suit a lot of other people. Your true followers are those who watch the channel for you. I love where your at now and I’m looking forward to seeing what you get up to in 2023. 🤗💖
Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today? And how is the family all are doing? And how is the weather over there?
I don't feel you need to apologize for sharing your feelings , anxiety and some of the tough things you went through . You are human and showing all sides of your life the good times and the tough times . The reality of life for everyone. I think it helps us viewers of your channel and also helps you as well , since we can comment and respond to you in a show of support of advice . Thank you for showing us the Temple . It's very beautiful. Your new place looks beautiful too. Thanks again Amber .
Amber, I think that you are very brave. You went on your journey instead of staying in a long lasting daily grind job. I myself worked at the same business for almost 35 years. Became a vacation traveler but dreamed of doing more. You seem like an interesting, fun & kind person. Plus, a dog lover. Like myself. I enjoy your TH-cam stories! PS love your living room look!
Thank you so much!
I love IKEA, you can’t just nip in and out you have to do the whole shop. You look so relaxed and happy, love your videos ❤
Thank you!! 😊
Don’t apologize for being authentic. Also, love that cart 😊❤
You seem so much calmer and happier now that you've changed to having a home base close to your family. Congratulations on seeing the change through
Hello,
I have to say its very refreshing to hear true feelings and honesty. Youve been through so much in the recent past, and sharing this with all of us isnt an easy thing to do.
I just wanted to tell you that you are very much appreciated and that you are a very inspiring person.
Thank you
Be safe, stay well and God bless
🙏🙏🙏 🌈 🌹❤️ 🍀
You look so much happier these days. It's good to see you taking care of yourself.
A van or a house-doesn't matter; when you're not feeling it, becomes a cage.
What a well-done video! Thanks for showing us the temple, taking us shopping, and the beautiful bed. You be you and talk your story. None of us are always joyful and happy. Going through things is life. Enjoy life and be you! Thanks for an amazing video!
I respect your authenticity!
Living full time on the road is exhausting.
So many decisions just to handle basic living chores.
I’m happy you found a nice sticks and bricks!
I tune in to your videos because you are real & show the hard truth & feelings you deal with. This is true life. 99% of your videos are upbeat. As you go through life changing things I am happy to continue along the journey to see what's ahead!! Keep your chin up...No Regrets!
Hi Amber, ...love, love your bed, rug, cool cart, etc. I need to get me one of those carts.
...everything is looking great. Good job at ikea and I agree, keep it minimalist since your plan is going back into the van later on. You can at least take the comforter with you, for the van, when that time comes.
You look very happy and relaxed. Painting does help with relaxing. Love seeing you with your sister. You both always have a good time together. When I'm with my sisters, we are always laughing and having fun. Actually, talking about doing some crafts together. I'm so sorry to hear you lost some subscribers but it will build back up again. Well, I need to check on dinner; thank you for another great episode. 🤗💞
Wow. I have never been to an Ikea. That place looks huge!! You look great by the way!!
Thanks so much!
No thank you!
Thank you for your vulnerability, and openness. And although you stated having triggered others anxiety.. I feel strongly that being open about mental health, vulnerable, authentic and open to discussion is really key in wellness with mental health, and is also key in public understanding... As mental health is often kept under wraps, or behind closed doors... And as a person with deep anxiety, that can be very isolating for me.. And some channels that are more open and honest help me feel connected, so thank you for telling your story authentically, and being yourself.
Boy can I relate to you today! 2022 was one of the hardest years for me as well. Sickness sidelined me and “forced” me into an early retirement. I have recovered and am welcoming the change as I had a very stressful job and was constantly being given additional responsibilities outside the scope of my job. They were burning me out from the inside out!..Pretty toxic now that I can dissect it from a far. Glad you are feeling better. Anxiety/depression sucks! Take care..❤your channel. Been riding along with you for about 4 years now..Hugz…..Laurie in Tampa Bay, FL.
Nice video! Thanks for keeping it real❤️😊
We use the bowl as every day plates, they work for every meal.
Hi there! Amber, you are enough!! You are perfection no matter what path you choose to take! You were not created to be the vessel for others sadness, disappointments or anger. I am glad to see you replace the darkness with hope and light. I’ve missed you❤️
So glad you are feeling better! This "story chasing" chapter is so much fun! May I please respectfully add if buying feather products please make sure feathers come from a cruelty free source? Some companies still support live plucking. 😢 Thank you so much for sharing your life! 💖
I don’t feel like you need to apologize for having anxiety. Your channel is about yourself and what you’re going through as your journey. The journey isn’t always going to be sunshine and roses. I appreciate all of the parts that you show us the viewers.
All your stories are beautiful.
That bed frame is awesome!
Isn’t it?? Just love its simplicity.
So happy for you and what an awesome video❤️❤️🥰❤️❤️
Love you and your adventures!❤❤❤
Thank you for staying true to yourself!!❤
Thank you for sharing your story! You look amazingly happy!
I LOVE your rug, bed, and dishes!
Oooooh, love the rug 😍
It is lovely to see you so happy. We lived in a van full time for two years then I needed a base. It was the best thing we did. We travel part time too. So happy for you
I hope your regret about sharing doesn't keep you from being the honest person you are. I relate to you so much more than others on youtube and I hope it stays that way!
I think it's great you show everything...real life is full of anxiety, changes, etc. People ought to understand and appreciate your transparency. If they want to watch some fake "everything is roses all the time" content, there are plenty they could go choose from. Keep doing you!
I can't imagine following someone for years and having them hide a sad time in their life and their temporary feelings. To out on a phony happiness all because real feelings might "trigger" somebody else. NO! Life is not like that. There are ups and downs and all that matters is being normally authentic. I'm glad you showed it all and your transitioning thru it the best way for you. Blessings Dear!
It's nice to see you feeling happy.
So glad you have your "SPARK" back again; you look so HAPPY and relaxed. I adore your content; I feel like I'm always watching a good friend as she continues her "Story Chasing".
Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today? And how is the family all are doing? And how is the weather over there?
I appreciate that you share the ups and downs of life.
I love this new adventure of living life. I was married for 37 years when my husband passed away. I had to find my new normal, which is so hard to do. I feel like you are doing the same thing that I am experiencing. Love to see the peace and happiness that shines through you. Gives me hope.
You've got this! 😊
I'm happy for you! And I also really enjoy your filmmaking style :)
Amber, you are such a lovely person. I enjoy watching all your endeavors. ❤️
Thank you so much!
Enjoy watching your story unfold girl! Keep doing you! 🌸✋🏻🌼
God bless you in all that you are doing!!
You are doing so well. Good to see you more rested, calm and creative. Blessings
The rug did put the two pieces together nicely. Good find.
Listen girl, I just read a bunch of the comments n all I see is Love n Support for you. I like so many others appreciate your honesty n realness in all situations. We love you!
The rug tied it all together! Looks great!
Thank you very much!
They make a glass weight that you put on top of “the onions “ of whatever you are pickling. It holds the product down into the pickle fluid. I have looked in stores, guess have to order online.
Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today? And how is the family all are doing? And how is the weather over there?
Love that rug...really ties things together in your living room!
This Lady Right Here, Story Chasing Absolutely Love Her Channel ❤️
Love watching you go out and shop! 😂
Amber this video is great glad to hear you have slowed your pace for a better life for yourself. looking forward to your future adventures.
It's so nice to see you so happy! I enjoy watching you build your new life. 😁
For the last 11 or 12 years, I was the caregiver for my precious brother, Dad, & Mom. Losing them, & having no other family has been a very difficult & an emotional challenge. I was so wonderfully blessed to have such a loving family, I don't regret anything except that I couldn't do more & I couldn't fix their health. During my life, I have also lost many precious pets which was also very painful. They're not "just an animal" to me. But I am no different than millions of other people who've experienced similar losses, difficulties, health issues, etc. The gift of love we receive from family, friends, & pets is worth every tear, every broken heart, the loneliness, & all the healing time. At some point, we begin to let go of some of the pain so that the happy memories take over most of our thoughts. I'm on your side, & so are thousands of other people. You aren't alone. 😊🤗❤️
Thank you for sharing your life. Your journey has been amazing over these years and I am excited for your future adventures.
Loved this video. You do you and be where you are happy and cosy and warm. I will always watch xx
Amber I appreciate your stories, humor and insights. May this adventure be a peaceful journey being with family is a blessing
Omg I’m so feeling your haircut! Dark hair is your look for sure! ❤
Amber, I love your channel! ALL OF IT! Enjoy your life and keep sharing it, the good the bad and the difficult!!!
Thank you for sharing your life stories with all of us. I appreciate your honesty and look forward to following the rest of your adventures. You have inspired me in many ways. If there are others who don't see that or only look forward to perfect moments that is on them not you because life isn't perfect, sometimes it's just a bit messy too. Best wishes as you continue your journey wherever it may lead and just know many of us will still be here to cheer you on.
I am so glad I started watching your channel. You are authentic, real and especially honest about how full time van life really is.
Soooo many people comment on full time VL and they’ve never even been camping much less built a van they could actually live in, sold off/gotten rid of almost everything the own and set off on an adventure with their heart in their throat.
If you know, you know.
Most people will never know the angst that comes from your phone blaring out the emergency weather alert and having to figure out how to get to safety, find a place to sleep where there could be fire, flooding, hail the size of golf balls, tornado or excessive unsafe heat waves.
The struggle is real and it’s intense sometimes. It’s also one of the best things I have ever done.
I’m also super happy that you made the decision you did and are honoring your decision. There is no sense in living even short term in a place with your bed on the floor and living in surroundings that don’t bring you joy and afford you the opportunity to step back and plan your next adventure. Decorate, nest and enjoy it !!!
As for the viewers you lost, I am pretty sure you would not intentionally harm another person and if they were triggered that isn’t anything you could control. As you move forward you will attract new people who want to share in your story and what ever will come next for you.
I think you are handling this great and doing all the right things ❤❤❤
Peace and love to as you walk into your future.
Great video! Love your home, that wagon is great! Thank you for sharing the hard parts of your life, I know it’s not easy and you do look more at peace. Plus it’s always good to be around your family ❤
I just subscribed to your channel and I love your vibe on life and recognizing when to change. It takes a lot when to admit faults and to apologize especially on camera. I will be binge watching your videos.
I'm so glad I found your channel. It actually makes me relax listening to your adventures. I think the way you live is amazing and such a good idea. I'm always watching for your next video. Stay safe.
I’m so sorry you lost viewers as you shared your most vulnerable side. I respect and have the utmost empathy for those who didn’t know/couldn’t handle your story (anxiety,depression). It was heart breaking to watch in some cases. Sheesh, even in the opening of this video when you held Lily’s tag saying how much you love and miss her made me cry all over again. The sad part is we ALL go through it one way or another. I guess it depends on how we handle it. I’m even happier for you now that you took the time you KNOW was well overdue. Stay warm. Stay safe.
I am so sorry that you had such a hard time especially last year. It’s wonderful to see you at peace and I love your apartment and it’s a calm and relaxing home. When you are ready to go out on the road again you will be going with a new outlook especially knowing that you have family and your home to return to. blessings and peace to you 🙏🙏😊🥰
No regrets! You were still "Story Chasing." Not all chapters in our life are happy and carefree. You lived yours and shared the good the bad and the ugly. I am happy for you to be in a steady environment with family close by. (Especially after Lily) Thanks for continuing to take us on your life adventure. I love your new space and your bed looks sturdy (love the wagon) and could you possibly share your pickled red onion recipe? And what do you use it on?
Your videos are amazing! You do you regardless of what anyone says- they don’t live ur life only u do! Keep em coming you rock ❤
I like the rug!
Thank you so much for sharing your journey, sometimes it is just what each of us needs. Knowing each of us has a journey that might not be for everyone, but that is what makes it so wonderful! See you next time. 😊
Hi Amber , you got this and God got you. I love your videos and seeing you so happy. Honey, when we go thru the storm it's preparing us to be stronger to handle up and you got it. Continue doing you I love it God bless 🤗🥰
I love my thuma bed! Glad you do, too. Happy you're doing better.
One of the best gifts to possess is the ability to see the end of something. You have that part of your intuition. It’s useless to fight it. Good for you. I actually like your channel more now that you’ve made the change. You’re honest…never apologize for that. ❤
Hi pretty lady. How are you doing today? And how is the family all are doing? And how is the weather over there?
I found your videos in the beginning of 2022, and loved your honesty and vulnerability. Much better than artificial cheeriness. I love your channel. ❤️
Your life is coming together perfectly. You look happy and relaxed. Keep doing what you’re doing.
You’re a wonderful painter. ❤
Always really happy to see you new video, you have a beautiful soul and authentic personality. Sending you a lot of blessings from SF, CA.🚐🚐
You're definitely a good person, Amber. Don't let people mess with you. 💙 Love the elephant statue.
I love your decorating style. The Japanese bed is gorgeous.💕
You live your best life and we are here for you. Thank you for shaving it with us.
Keep changing....it's the best way to maintain a life worth living. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you for your honesty and authentic sharing ✨ really appreciate you Amber X 🌻 🙋🏻♀️🇦🇺
I used to take my mother to ikea for breakfast. She loved it better than McDonald’s breakfast. Seeing you eating there brought back memories:). Wish you warm and healthy in your new place and path!