Wife/husband should be always 1st priority then parents. Parents are our love & duty but life partner is a part of life journey everyone should understand this & stay with a good environment. for mrg a girl live every thing which is not easy but every girls do, this is only a nums of Petriarty society only.
Whether a girl is financially independent or not. It's a curse to get married mom's son. People who go through similar torture in real life will understand. All the relationship should be handled in a way how it should be dealt with. One relative cannot replace the other. Each one is role is unique.
Ya but it's totally a responsibility of husband bcoz agr inlaws apni bahu ko mentally torture krte h aur usse stress dete h, usse bura treat krte h sirf aur sirf isiliye kyuki unlogo ko apne bete se hi himmat milti h aur isiliye husband ka sahi hona bohot jaruri hota h warna ek ghar tutne m der nahi lgti, ek ladki apna sab kuch chodhkar apne husband k ghar ati h aur yahi sabse important pehli baat husband aur uske gharwalo ko samajhna chahiye.
Aise issues ka sirf ek solution hai - 90s jaise nuclear family. No in laws, no torture. Parents 70 ke age tak fit hote hai apna apna dekhne ke liye. Tab tak unme energy hoti hai aur ye energy woh kaam na karke planning aur plotting me laga dete hai. Aur agar parents itne hi mahan aur sacrificing hote toh woh khud hi bete ko apni biwi se zagda karne ka, usse alag karne ka stress nhi dete. Woh apne bete ke liye baddapan dikhate, picche hat jate, kabhi kalesh nhi karte ghar me. Par they don't even care about their own son's mental health n life. Aur aaj kal shaadi ke liye ladkiya mushkil se milti hai par maa apne ego aur control ke liye bete ka divorce karane se pehle ye tak nhi sochti ki uske baad beta akela pad jaega. Dusri biwi milti toh badi mushkil se hai aur mil bhi gayi toh bholi bhali milegi uski kya guarantee hoti hai. Ladko ko bhi divorce ke baad bohot compromises karne padte. Aur shadi ke baad beta bhi bahu se physically n emotionally connected hota hai. Kya uske liye asan hota hai apni wife ko bhulna? Woh kya hai aaj kal ke bete ho gaye hai selfless aur maa baap ho gaye hai selfish. Ulti duniya ho gayi hai. Baghban film ki ulti duniya. Hum North Indians ko bete ke maa baap ko bhagwan banana chhodna hoga. Waqt ke sath rishte bhi badalte hai aur priorities badalni padti hai. Kya paida hone pe ek bachcha apni maa se jitna physically close hota hai, kya woh jawani me bhi utna close hota hai? Shaadi ke baad agar priority biwi ko hi deni chahiye.
This is society issues. Some families daughters stay with their parents after marriage Make son in law as pet. Some Families has reverse , mom kid Anything depend on man. Man duty to manage both parent and wife. Every member should know and live within limit. Couple need their space And time which parent should Not enter. And son too spend Some time day with parents. Every person contribute think Other comfort which create harmony. All these if couple living joint family.
When the Girl (Life partner) left their home & came in new home with new responsibilities. So She deserves respect with love from each of family members.
Really wonderful script. Usually, sons r always support their mother irrespective of judging things. There are wicked n cruel mothers in this world who doesn't think a second to ruin her own son's life by murdering daughter in law. I feel ashamed of such people.
Same happens with me, my MIL yesterday hit me becouse she know her son will take her side. She always create drama to create fight between us and tell lies everytime to her son
@@vyasjwalit3999Jali na...someday leave your parents and go and live with your wifes parents with everything ...experience the treatment then come home and install a spy cam and see how your wife is treated when you are NOT around. You will understand wat women are talking about here. This man is sych a RED Flag.
Every one should have their place in life. If a man couldn't give the right place to his wife and always wants to be mama's son he shouldn't get married.
Very good message👏👏 Respect your wife too, we dont say not to love or respect your mom, Men should balanace both mom n wife, if you cannot do it, dont get married
I’m pregnant and it’s my 9 month going on, my mother in law daily talk to her daughter but during my pregnancy and any ups n down she never showed concerned for me. She never called me and showed her concern for me. But I’m lucky that my husband understands all this he gives respect to his parent but never let down me in front of them. But the only thing is that he never n ever fought with them . When I asked him than his answer was always that parents are parents. This is the thing that bother me sometimes but thankfully we are living abroad so no chance of fighting amongst family may happen..
@@enviralsGOOD STORY JII GIRLS KO ISS SE BACHNE KA EK HII TRIQA HAI JII WOH HAI KII SABHI GIRLS FULL INDEPENDENT HON AUR SENIOR SEATS PER HON LIKE IAS, IPS, DOCTOR, ENGINEER KUCH GALAT LIKHA HO TOH SORRY JIII
In the comments section many people have asked why cant she be financially independent and why can't she go for a job. The problem in this kind of a family is the husband will be like i am earning you dont have to go for work, i married you to take care of my mother. Even if she says i want to go for work its my wish, she will be psychologically traumatised. As he is a Mumma's boy he didn't marry her to have a wife but a servant for his mother. Hence he wont let her be financially independent. Hence it's difficult. He will be like i am earning but he wont give her money also.
Well you are right and every women should be financially independent and no one has any business to question that even the inlaws cannot question that, they should grow in their career while being confident having bold attire and should celebrate her success and show that they are equally talented as their husbands,then only their mother in laws ego and arrogance will come down
@@MohitSingh-gv3gf lerkiya selfish nehi hui he bal ki unme self respect a geyi he......pehle k jamane me saas ko lagtatha ki isko kuch v bol du kuch v kar du ye kiya hi kar legi...par ab esa nehi he.....agar saas hamari ya phir hamari gharwalo ki beizzati kare to hum nehi sehne wale....saas ko kaho tamiz se rehne k liye..agar saas bahu ki respect karegi to bahu v saas ki respect karegi..
@@MohitSingh-gv3gf -then better to forget mother after marriage else tell parents you will not get married if parents going to interfere- there should be an undertaking signed by the boy's mother at the time of marriage and it should be kept in court as a proof. This will avoid all issues.
People always think a woman only needs money in a marriage. There is more to a marriage than finance. Even if you are an independent woman who earns well, marrying a mummas boy is not fun. Emotionally he will always choose his mother over you. You will feel like an outsider between them.
I f girl Mature enough to see from Husband mother shoe she will able to understand , mother nuture child From baby to adult boy, 25 to 30 Years mother take care of his health His daily wear, food ,after marriage She has to disconnect from these Habits not easy. Vice versa Son Also forget that he's married his Wife take care henceforth he has to Distance from his mom. This depend on Boy maturity level and Balance both, create friendly atmosphere so mutual respect and harmony prevail in family life
एक कोशिश की जा सकती मां और बीवी के बीच में हालात गलत दिखाएं जाते तो अच्छा होता। मां को बुरा बनना जरूरी नहीं था कोशिश यह होती की हालत के कारण दिक्कत होती@envirals
@@umadevi8431 yaa but a women who also stayed with her parents for 25 to 30 year don't she have any feelings and yaa a girl priorities her husband after marriage but a boy always priorities his parents first and then his relatives and later on his friends and then if he has time he will priorities his wife and yaa now don't tell that boys do this that because boys don't take care of girls parents even when he is getting dowry but inlaws need a girls who does all house hold chores without any in interest and even she needs to follow her in laws blindly even when boys parents has done nothing for her they expect her to be a free slave if you don't believe then ask your own mom that when she married what did her inlaws and your father did to her and ask when you used to go to your Nani home for vacation within what days your father and dadi tells you to come to home and also ask when your mother needed something in her early age of marriage I would bet no body full filled her need and yaa also ask whenever your mother asked your father to take her out how your dadi dadaji used to react on it and also ask how your father blindly followed your dadi I bet you while telling all answer for above questions your mother will have tears in her eyes and also tell your mother and also tell your mother that in future don't do what your dadi did to her because your dadi also went through the same face and she could not take her frastration on her mother in law she took out that on your mother and she will also do same with your wife if you don't make her understand
I was this kind of person but as a brother in law to my bhabhi,i always used to take sides with my mother, and thinks that she is wrong always but the same bhabhi taught me a lesson one day when she was arguing with my mother and i started shouting at her then she at once slapped me hard 😢 but i keep staring at her, then she slapped me again infront of my mother,then my arrogance vanishes and i put my face down, it was the first time in my life someone slapped me and opened my eyes and then she made me realise my mistakes by counseling me for days and finally i apologized to her for my behaviour and from then on i never took blind sides and she shut my mom's mouth there after because she was wrong and my bhabhi was right and from that day i started respecting females and their choices, and my bhabhi always teaches me about how women should be treated even by inlaws and she is even teaching me how to respect my future wife feelings and most importantly our mothers are not always right I used to hate her but now she is my mentor and i will always try to respect her
@@Abhay81855what the knowledge are you talking about....I am a married person of 29 yrs old and I too have Mom at my home.... she's not like that....and i am seeing my maternal uncle as well as my sister too , they have mothers and mother in laws too they don't face certain situations....then what is the knowledge are you talking about ? you better know how this universe works....
जिस दिन हम ये समझ लेंगे के हर रिश्ते की अपनी जगह और एहमियत होती है , एक रिश्ते की तुलना दूसरे से कभी नहीं करनी चाहिए , उस दिन हमारा संसार खुशियों से भर जाएगा 😒
Kitni achi video he kash ye video har sas or bahu dekhe,or ye samajh Jaye ki jis ghar ko ek maa ki jarurat he usi Ghar ko ek Bahu ki bhi jarurat he,agar dono miljul ke rahe to wo ghar swarg se km nahi hoga.
Waa kya soch Hain re Teri... zindagi bhar ek ladke ko pal pos ke bada Kia or jab ladke time Aya unko dekhne ka chor do unko unki halat main waa sabash...
@@AbhijitBarman319 Kyu ladki ko paida karne me and use palne me Kam kharcha and Kam mehnat lagti hai Kya? Phir bhi ladki ki maa shadi ke baad use independent rehne k liye chodti nahi.
@@AkkshayMShaah Hope ur sisters n daughters n ur family members get this type of mother in law...... Only people who face such conditions will understand this......
@@AkkshayMShaah we as a wife always love every members of husband bt they also should understand what wife needs.....Understanding is most important thing is relationship.......
She said these type of parents need to live in old age correct She did t say all need to live .. After all girl is also some 1 s daughter If u don't want to give her palce as family member ,if u don't like her presense plz don't take her to ur home Here these kind of of mama s boys became angry withou reason Thn plz don't marry no one force u to do so
Ye jo mama's boy hote h na inse kbhi sadi ni krni cahyye kyunki agr sadi k bat maa or biwi me ladai ho jati h to kbhi biwi ki side ni lete chahe vo sahi kyu na ho...vo bolte h maa ko galat ni bol skte
Living with in laws makes a person forget his/her responsibilities towards their partner. It's best for parents to make married children to live on their own immediately so both start taking responsibility serious .It is Not good to live with in laws . The word " LAW " says it all.In laws forget that the girls was provided in their own homes with eating etc
That's why my brother don't live with my parents with his family and only comes on festivals and that too with limited conversations and my sister in law doesnt do much household work as she has to take care of her children also , she taught me to respect working women and i understand why my brother support her and I too will not live with my parents after my marriage as I cannot destroy her life and have to give her first priority this way peace will be maintained
Because this is a TH-cam video, the ending is like that. In reality the boy and his mother do not come for the girl like that. In reality they will want the girl to come to them.
In reality the mother will force her son to marry an another girl.. and she will say in the society that the ex wife is not good, she ran away by her own wish
It seems like my first marriage story. same things happened to me so I got divorced and now I am happy with my partner and in laws too in second marriage. If partner gives importance to his wife she automatically start loving your parents she never feels outsider...boys be a men and make balance between ur mum and partner
@@addict4165Men who only grow physically, and not mentally are just boys in adult bodies. One should be mature enough to know how to balance between wife, and his family. Otherwise, it’s only a series of traumatic incidents, followed by a tragic ending is what one will be left with.
@@yavnikanegi094- you are a baby girl in an adult body. Misandrists and feminists are the real one who destroys families." Papa ki pari " is worst than a mama's boy.
This is my situation struggling from last 3yrs.....requesting to all mama's boy please do change ur self bcuz u r now not only a son also a husband having some responsibility towards ur wife..... Why n what fault is ours to b a wife....
In only these situations I appreciate western people, they would easily divorce and find someone who loves and respects them. These types of husbands doesn't deserve love. I doubt he'll ever change :(
@@dezyagrawal6995 Aisi hi sooch aajkal ki ladkiyo ki hai.. tabhi toh ladke unki taraf emotional nahi ho paate.. aur waise bhi jisne janam se paal pos kar bada kiya hai uski taraf hi emotions thode jyada ho sakte hain na??.. aur jo anjaan hai, naya-2 aya hai life mein usse apnane mein time toh lag hi sakta hai na?.. subconcious mind thodi samjh sakta hai ke biwi mayake bhag jayegi agar thodi bahut unch-neech ho gayi toh. baki iss video mein toh exaggerate karke dikhaya hai kyuki itna injustice koi ladka karega toh patni ko bura toh lagega hi.. aur maa bhi jan boojh kar dono mein problems create kar rhi hai iss video mein.. real life mein toh alag hi issues hote hain :(
I think am mamma's boy , therefore i dont want to get married , becoz my mom's behavior with my brother wife is little bit same ... I dont want to spoil the life of an innocent girl therefore i will be stay single forever.
@@Viralshorts-w6dwhat the hell dude!?.. it's not important to get married in Islam..it's a choice..and by not marrying nobody will be sinning in Islam..so don't spread false things about Islam.
What a sick human being this husband is. After all this he is sad he has to "sleep alone". If he has a sex partner he would hardly miss his wife after all the torture she had to go through !!! In real life the MIL will happyly find another doormat (DIL) and if that girl does not even have the guts to stand up for herself then she is just going to die suffering in silence
At least, this story had a happy ending, where the MIL and husband came to a realisation. Many a times, the DIL is cornered, tortured, and MIL keeps brainwashing her son, who already views her mom with rose coloured glasses. These sons have been conditioned to be this way since childhood. Mostly, such mothers have had a bad relationship with their husband, and the son becomes an emotional scapegoat which he never realises. The mother acts like a wife to her son, and feels jealous towards his wife. Such marriages are just a facade for the sake of society. There’s no emotional connection between husband & wife.
Mere sath bhi starting of the marriage yahi hua tha . Na jaane kitni baar meri Galti na bhi hui fir bhi Maine mere MIL ko sorry bola hai . But ab shadi ko 8 yrs ho gaye hai and muje 2 kids hai and I am happy
Yes, you're absolutely right. In several videos, when we attempt to portray reality without presenting a happy ending, some viewers express dissatisfaction. Nevertheless, we strive to maintain a realistic approach, addressing issues prevalent in society that are often overlooked. Your understanding is valued.
Everyone should strike a balance between relationships. And, in this case mother should act wisely. She is playing a victim... This movie is exaggerated, no boy behaves/acts like this in this time and age. Aur, aaloo ke parathe pahle nahi Bana sakti thi jab bahu thi..tab to din bhar baithkar TV dekhati rahti thi...
Its a good thing to respect your mothers and do each and every thing by putting in theur minds what u do ,but if u have to take permission then also take permission That "mummy may i go to washroom"😂😂
Even if the girl is working many dont have field freedom. Only you are out of ugly situation at the time in office. Once you're home you're unsaid servant. My mother in law always wanted to sit in front. I was abroad and only came for vacation for first three yrs. Mother and her daughter always pull my husband when I am home.
@gourinaik708 Jitni priority apke husband apke relative ko dein, utni hi aap unke relatives ko do. Aur financially independent raho. Drama Karo relatives se friendly rehne ka par andar se husband ko manipulate Karo. Usko uski behen ki tareef karo aur jab behen se galti ho toh kaho ki ye kaise ho gaya??? Aise hi dheere dheere husband apki baatein manega
1. A girl after marriage doesn’t belong to the in laws house or husband. She belongs to her house equally. 2. The guy also belongs to his home and the girl’s home equally. 3. The girl mentally does everything for the guy, the guy should also do the same. 4. None of them should take the other person or the things they do for granted. 5. All the works he needed her for in the video, is not hers, he should also do it if she was on the other side. Just remember to have equality, respect and most of all.
It was quite the powerful visual to see the mother coming out of the room where the wife usually comes from, when the husband needed help. I know of a story in real life where the woman felt that the husband and his mother almost had a husband/wife relation because of how close they were....
Patni ko acha pati chahiye hota hai acha beta nahi . Acha beta maa ko chahiye hota h . Yeh jaruri nahi ki jo beta acha ho woh pati bhi acha ho . So balance your life .
Kabhi kabhi jyada pyar bhi sab bigad deta h... Or ghar valo ki same mentality m hum bhi unke jaise ho jate h kabhi kabhi ghar vale bhi selfish hokar decision lete h... Jo bache apne parents k sath rhna chate h or apne pyar ko chod dete baad m pachtata h 🙂
This was a short film that is why Happy Ending came much earlier had it been a daily soap Opera this problem would have been stretched over 6 months or even 6 years.
Ghr ko babaad krne me maa ka role kafi hota he kahi ladke ki maa ka to kahi ladki ki maa ka, isliye in maao ko b kahi bsy rehne dene ki koshish krni chahiye
I m in the same situation after watching this video.. and trust me it's useless to point towards in-law when the main culprit is our husband who can't maintain a proper balance between her partner and mother
Such husbands are enmeshed sons. Google, “Mother-son enmeshment”. Even my husband is like that, and my marriage has been an emotionally traumatizing journey so far. He prioritises his mom and sister, and always acts biased towards them even when they’re doing something bad. What a sick family! Let him live with them… I don’t even feel like I have a husband!
The real culprit is mother who is acting innocent Jhuti sympathy ke liye bete ke saamne acting karti hain Koi problem nahi hote hue bhi apne budhape ka bahana karti hain Aur bahu ko ek cheez ki tarah istemal karte hain Use izzat nahu dete pyar nahi dete Fir kehte hain kya kiya hamne Khana kapda ghar sab to hai Bas aur kya chahiye aurat ko Wife ke koi emotion nahi hote bas maa ke emotion hain
The son is the real culprit. Being an adult he should learn to balance between wife and mom
Exactly ✅
Yes very very true n well said indeed
Yes very very true n well said indeed
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Wife/husband should be always 1st priority then parents. Parents are our love & duty but life partner is a part of life journey everyone should understand this & stay with a good environment.
for mrg a girl live every thing which is not easy but every girls do, this is only a nums of Petriarty society only.
It's mother's duty also to tell the son what's right behavior for him after his marriage
Exactly 💯
jaruri nahi hai aisa shadi k baad bhi maa ka hq hona chaiye maa jaisa bolegi waisa hi hona chaiye ye dhyan me rakho
वह कुतिया तो कह रही थी कि लड़कियों की कमी नहीं।
वह तो अचानक बदल गया वर्ना यह तो तलाक दिलवा देती।
One rarely finds that infact they poison the sons mind more
Just shut up @@kallolsingingpage7866
Whether a girl is financially independent or not. It's a curse to get married mom's son. People who go through similar torture in real life will understand. All the relationship should be handled in a way how it should be dealt with. One relative cannot replace the other. Each one is role is unique.
Ya but it's totally a responsibility of husband bcoz agr inlaws apni bahu ko mentally torture krte h aur usse stress dete h, usse bura treat krte h sirf aur sirf isiliye kyuki unlogo ko apne bete se hi himmat milti h aur isiliye husband ka sahi hona bohot jaruri hota h warna ek ghar tutne m der nahi lgti, ek ladki apna sab kuch chodhkar apne husband k ghar ati h aur yahi sabse important pehli baat husband aur uske gharwalo ko samajhna chahiye.
Aise issues ka sirf ek solution hai - 90s jaise nuclear family. No in laws, no torture. Parents 70 ke age tak fit hote hai apna apna dekhne ke liye. Tab tak unme energy hoti hai aur ye energy woh kaam na karke planning aur plotting me laga dete hai. Aur agar parents itne hi mahan aur sacrificing hote toh woh khud hi bete ko apni biwi se zagda karne ka, usse alag karne ka stress nhi dete. Woh apne bete ke liye baddapan dikhate, picche hat jate, kabhi kalesh nhi karte ghar me. Par they don't even care about their own son's mental health n life. Aur aaj kal shaadi ke liye ladkiya mushkil se milti hai par maa apne ego aur control ke liye bete ka divorce karane se pehle ye tak nhi sochti ki uske baad beta akela pad jaega. Dusri biwi milti toh badi mushkil se hai aur mil bhi gayi toh bholi bhali milegi uski kya guarantee hoti hai. Ladko ko bhi divorce ke baad bohot compromises karne padte. Aur shadi ke baad beta bhi bahu se physically n emotionally connected hota hai. Kya uske liye asan hota hai apni wife ko bhulna? Woh kya hai aaj kal ke bete ho gaye hai selfless aur maa baap ho gaye hai selfish. Ulti duniya ho gayi hai. Baghban film ki ulti duniya. Hum North Indians ko bete ke maa baap ko bhagwan banana chhodna hoga. Waqt ke sath rishte bhi badalte hai aur priorities badalni padti hai. Kya paida hone pe ek bachcha apni maa se jitna physically close hota hai, kya woh jawani me bhi utna close hota hai? Shaadi ke baad agar priority biwi ko hi deni chahiye.
Mother in law and Son must understand importance of life partner.
This is society issues. Some families daughters stay with their parents after marriage
Make son in law as pet. Some
Families has reverse , mom kid
Anything depend on man. Man duty to manage both parent and wife. Every member should know and live within limit. Couple need their space
And time which parent should
Not enter. And son too spend
Some time day with parents.
Every person contribute think
Other comfort which create harmony. All these if couple living joint family.
Right 👍
When the Girl (Life partner) left their home & came in new home with new responsibilities. So She deserves respect with love from each of family members.
Definitely
But most women including me are dealing with such idiots.
It's true but who cares
@@jessicam4830better become independent and leave them 👍
When their parents will not be there after a certain age then they will realise
Really wonderful script. Usually, sons r always support their mother irrespective of judging things. There are wicked n cruel mothers in this world who doesn't think a second to ruin her own son's life by murdering daughter in law. I feel ashamed of such people.
Same happening with me...
Same happens with me, my MIL yesterday hit me becouse she know her son will take her side. She always create drama to create fight between us and tell lies everytime to her son
But this is the reality of life...
Same with girls mother.
@@vyasjwalit3999Jali na...someday leave your parents and go and live with your wifes parents with everything ...experience the treatment then come home and install a spy cam and see how your wife is treated when you are NOT around. You will understand wat women are talking about here. This man is sych a RED Flag.
Every one should have their place in life. If a man couldn't give the right place to his wife and always wants to be mama's son he shouldn't get married.
What if wife gives more importance to father than husband is it correct for you i mean am asking???
Mother in law must not do this.
Yes very very true n well said indeed
@@shreyashreya1328Damn she already left her father and came to create new life with her husband. Still you ask this question?
@@bhavanibhandary1971and son already left his mom to marry some girl , if he wants his mom then why did he marry
This video so clearly depicts that how we boys tend to forget relationships and related balances between mom and partner
Worst acting except for daughter in law
@@lakshmimantha8029 good joke
He tried to copy R. Madhavan in RHTDM
Boys top priority his parents only
@@amritbirsinghwe should balance between parents and spouse , it is not good to prioritise either parents or partner
Very good message👏👏
Respect your wife too, we dont say not to love or respect your mom,
Men should balanace both mom n wife, if you cannot do it, dont get married
So should the mother in law n the daughter in law .
Get married and show your brother how it's done the right way .
Thanks for this. Many separation in real happened due to this
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Yes ,true ..
Yes
real reasons of separation shuold be end.it is not reason for it
@@enviralstum saare short film Wale log maa bete ke rishte ko kyo itna bura baap aur beti ke rishte pe to koi nahi bolta
Wife ka respect bhi jitna jaruri hai jitna maa ka 👌
thk kaha aapne bt kuchh log nhi samjhte or apni ego ki vjh se apna ghr barbaad kr lete h
I’m pregnant and it’s my 9 month going on, my mother in law daily talk to her daughter but during my pregnancy and any ups n down she never showed concerned for me. She never called me and showed her concern for me. But I’m lucky that my husband understands all this he gives respect to his parent but never let down me in front of them.
But the only thing is that he never n ever fought with them . When I asked him than his answer was always that parents are parents. This is the thing that bother me sometimes but thankfully we are living abroad so no chance of fighting amongst family may happen..
Same
My mother in law is also same as yours
.......only my husband is there for me to care
Yes same
This girl is really a talented actor and her acting is also getting better with every video.
Thank you Soumen for always supporting ❤
@@enviralsGOOD STORY JII GIRLS KO ISS SE BACHNE KA EK HII TRIQA HAI JII WOH HAI KII SABHI GIRLS FULL INDEPENDENT HON AUR SENIOR SEATS PER HON LIKE IAS, IPS, DOCTOR, ENGINEER KUCH GALAT LIKHA HO TOH SORRY JIII
सासूचे बदललेले वागणे नाटक आहे बिनपगारी मोलकरीण गेली हे खरे दुखणे आहे
Here the son is main culprit... Mom and wife both are important and he shld behaved accordingly.
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No same concept apply on you
Why son is culprit he is attachment with his parents it is natural
@@amritbirsinghto shadi nahi karna chahiye
@@anusinha1911correct.... marriage is not for a mommy's boy
In the comments section many people have asked why cant she be financially independent and why can't she go for a job. The problem in this kind of a family is the husband will be like i am earning you dont have to go for work, i married you to take care of my mother. Even if she says i want to go for work its my wish, she will be psychologically traumatised. As he is a Mumma's boy he didn't marry her to have a wife but a servant for his mother. Hence he wont let her be financially independent. Hence it's difficult. He will be like i am earning but he wont give her money also.
Well you are right and every women should be financially independent and no one has any business to question that even the inlaws cannot question that, they should grow in their career while being confident having bold attire and should celebrate her success and show that they are equally talented as their husbands,then only their mother in laws ego and arrogance will come down
Yes bilkul sahi kaha 😢
@@MohitSingh-gv3gf lerkiya selfish nehi hui he bal ki unme self respect a geyi he......pehle k jamane me saas ko lagtatha ki isko kuch v bol du kuch v kar du ye kiya hi kar legi...par ab esa nehi he.....agar saas hamari ya phir hamari gharwalo ki beizzati kare to hum nehi sehne wale....saas ko kaho tamiz se rehne k liye..agar saas bahu ki respect karegi to bahu v saas ki respect karegi..
restpect women's girls celebrities👍 in our country@@MohitSingh-gv3gf
@@MohitSingh-gv3gf -then better to forget mother after marriage else tell parents you will not get married if parents going to interfere- there should be an undertaking signed by the boy's mother at the time of marriage and it should be kept in court as a proof. This will avoid all issues.
बेटे बेटी का घर उजाड़ने में मां बाप ही जिम्मेदार होते हैं।
Bilkul sahi
One thing. Good actors. Well written. Well performed. Appreciate the makers.
Thanks ❤
People always think a woman only needs money in a marriage. There is more to a marriage than finance. Even if you are an independent woman who earns well, marrying a mummas boy is not fun. Emotionally he will always choose his mother over you. You will feel like an outsider between them.
Finding a balance that ensures both partners feel valued and supported is key.
I f girl Mature enough to see from Husband mother shoe she will able to understand , mother nuture child
From baby to adult boy, 25 to 30
Years mother take care of his health
His daily wear, food ,after marriage
She has to disconnect from these
Habits not easy. Vice versa Son
Also forget that he's married his
Wife take care henceforth he has to
Distance from his mom. This depend on Boy maturity level and
Balance both, create friendly atmosphere so mutual respect and harmony prevail in family life
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एक कोशिश की जा सकती मां और बीवी के बीच में हालात गलत दिखाएं जाते तो अच्छा होता। मां को बुरा बनना जरूरी नहीं था
कोशिश यह होती की हालत के कारण दिक्कत होती@envirals
@@umadevi8431 yaa but a women who also stayed with her parents for 25 to 30 year don't she have any feelings and yaa a girl priorities her husband after marriage but a boy always priorities his parents first and then his relatives and later on his friends and then if he has time he will priorities his wife and yaa now don't tell that boys do this that because boys don't take care of girls parents even when he is getting dowry but inlaws need a girls who does all house hold chores without any in interest and even she needs to follow her in laws blindly even when boys parents has done nothing for her they expect her to be a free slave if you don't believe then ask your own mom that when she married what did her inlaws and your father did to her and ask when you used to go to your Nani home for vacation within what days your father and dadi tells you to come to home and also ask when your mother needed something in her early age of marriage I would bet no body full filled her need and yaa also ask whenever your mother asked your father to take her out how your dadi dadaji used to react on it and also ask how your father blindly followed your dadi I bet you while telling all answer for above questions your mother will have tears in her eyes and also tell your mother and also tell your mother that in future don't do what your dadi did to her because your dadi also went through the same face and she could not take her frastration on her mother in law she took out that on your mother and she will also do same with your wife if you don't make her understand
I hope all mothers and sons learn from this .
Rightly said
I was this kind of person but as a brother in law to my bhabhi,i always used to take sides with my mother, and thinks that she is wrong always but the same bhabhi taught me a lesson one day when she was arguing with my mother and i started shouting at her then she at once slapped me hard 😢 but i keep staring at her, then she slapped me again infront of my mother,then my arrogance vanishes and i put my face down, it was the first time in my life someone slapped me and opened my eyes and then she made me realise my mistakes by counseling me for days and finally i apologized to her for my behaviour and from then on i never took blind sides and she shut my mom's mouth there after because she was wrong and my bhabhi was right and from that day i started respecting females and their choices, and my bhabhi always teaches me about how women should be treated even by inlaws and she is even teaching me how to respect my future wife feelings and most importantly our mothers are not always right
I used to hate her but now she is my mentor and i will always try to respect her
@@Justafriend55your wife will not like your closeness to bhabhi . Some bhabhis act like mother in law
They will never learn
@@envirals hopefully when you become an mother of a boy u will better understand when your son wife will behavior with you..
Wife is not a slave she's a life partner, love and respect her.
Men is not a atm machine he also deserves respect
@Nishantsharma150 it's not about ATM machine it's about respect and mutual understanding.
@@abhaybgh it should be from both sides not one side
Es ka ulta bhi hota hai bro.. duniya me dono tarah k log hai
A person who maintain balance relationship thats a right human being.
How immature you are......07:47 can a normal mother say like this to his son ???? nope , a mom always wants his sons to stay happy
@AEnglishtutor-vo7qx if you don't have knowledge then why are interfering here.
@@Abhay81855what the knowledge are you talking about....I am a married person of 29 yrs old and I too have Mom at my home.... she's not like that....and i am seeing my maternal uncle as well as my sister too , they have mothers and mother in laws too they don't face certain situations....then what is the knowledge are you talking about ? you better know how this universe works....
@@AEnglishtutor-vo7qx what's wrong in what he (@Abhay81855) said? He is just saying that a person who balances relationship is a right human being.
A wife who supports her husband financially is real woman 👑
जिस दिन हम ये समझ लेंगे के हर रिश्ते की अपनी जगह और एहमियत होती है , एक रिश्ते की तुलना दूसरे से कभी नहीं करनी चाहिए , उस दिन हमारा संसार खुशियों से भर जाएगा 😒
Very good decision of Nisha to teach the lesson to her husband.
Kitni achi video he kash ye video har sas or bahu dekhe,or ye samajh Jaye ki jis ghar ko ek maa ki jarurat he usi Ghar ko ek Bahu ki bhi jarurat he,agar dono miljul ke rahe to wo ghar swarg se km nahi hoga.
apki mummy v kisi ki saas banegi
Aankho mai aashu aa gye par har story ki happy ending nhi ho paati😢😢
Mother's should let go their sons after marriage let them be independent.😊
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People like u are mentally sick
@@MegaSajjadhussainno people like u are mentally sick.....
Waa kya soch Hain re Teri... zindagi bhar ek ladke ko pal pos ke bada Kia or jab ladke time Aya unko dekhne ka chor do unko unki halat main waa sabash...
@@AbhijitBarman319
Kyu ladki ko paida karne me and use palne me Kam kharcha and Kam mehnat lagti hai Kya? Phir bhi ladki ki maa shadi ke baad use independent rehne k liye chodti nahi.
This type of parents deserves to stay in old age home
Some day you'll be a parent too, someday you'll get old too.. just wish or hope this doesn't turn against you.. 😏
@@AkkshayMShaah some day he wont behave like that but if you will surely your son or daughter will have to pay for your old age house expenses
@@AkkshayMShaah Hope ur sisters n daughters n ur family members get this type of mother in law...... Only people who face such conditions will understand this......
@@AkkshayMShaah we as a wife always love every members of husband bt they also should understand what wife needs.....Understanding is most important thing is relationship.......
She said these type of parents need to live in old age correct
She did t say all need to live ..
After all girl is also some 1 s daughter
If u don't want to give her palce as family member ,if u don't like her presense plz don't take her to ur home
Here these kind of of mama s boys became angry withou reason
Thn plz don't marry no one force u to do so
At least the mother in law’s insecurities eventually resolved, otherwise most couples in such situations usually end up getting divorced.
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Same here
Very true
Right
M getting divorce..reason is same, he is mummy's boy
Heart touching soo deeply touch my mother in law was same as it is but after so many sacrifices my life is normal
Ye jo mama's boy hote h na inse kbhi sadi ni krni cahyye kyunki agr sadi k bat maa or biwi me ladai ho jati h to kbhi biwi ki side ni lete chahe vo sahi kyu na ho...vo bolte h maa ko galat ni bol skte
Maa ka beta le lo, maa ko baher nikal do. Yahi to chati ha, aaj ke lerki.
Yes maa baap ko uf tak bhi nahi bolsakte
Respect and love your partner because she’s lift every things for you ❤
Sahi hai balance ⚖️ krke chalna hi achha h mom first priority h isme koi Shak nhi pr life partner ki bhi khyal rakhna chahiye very good story
First priority wife honi chahiye kyuki uski first priority aap ho
Ekdam sahi baat boli aapne 😊@@aashna8891
Hr maa ko esa samjhdar hona chahiye...to kisi ldki ki jindagi barbad n ho
Living with in laws makes a person forget his/her responsibilities towards their partner. It's best for parents to make married children to live on their own immediately so both start taking responsibility serious .It is Not good to live with in laws . The word " LAW " says it all.In laws forget that the girls was provided in their own homes with eating etc
That's why my brother don't live with my parents with his family and only comes on festivals and that too with limited conversations and my sister in law doesnt do much household work as she has to take care of her children also , she taught me to respect working women and i understand why my brother support her and I too will not live with my parents after my marriage as I cannot destroy her life and have to give her first priority this way peace will be maintained
@@Justafriend55😊
@@Justafriend55 shame on ur brother .. he'll realise what he mistook
@@pritamacharjee5498that way shame all women for leaving their home after marriage
Because this is a TH-cam video, the ending is like that. In reality the boy and his mother do not come for the girl like that. In reality they will want the girl to come to them.
Exactly 💯 %
In reality the mother will force her son to marry an another girl.. and she will say in the society that the ex wife is not good, she ran away by her own wish
he did not love his wife he loved having a free servant
Just like she loved having a free atm machine
Respect and love more important in our life
@@loveyourself-n6y Marriage is transactional so can't blame both.....
That's how it is.....
Bande ki wife toh kitni balancing hai actual she is right in her places, nice presentation..😊 she deserves equal respect
There’s some goodness in mother-in-law
Daughter-in-law is also having the attitude of forgiveness.
Anuradha matlab kya
Even when son's are not mamma boy mothers tend to do such things
And then get insulted
Women be mother or wife need to understand each other
It seems like my first marriage story. same things happened to me so I got divorced and now I am happy with my partner and in laws too in second marriage. If partner gives importance to his wife she automatically start loving your parents she never feels outsider...boys be a men and make balance between ur mum and partner
Exactly
What do u mean by boys be a man
@@addict4165Men who only grow physically, and not mentally are just boys in adult bodies. One should be mature enough to know how to balance between wife, and his family. Otherwise, it’s only a series of traumatic incidents, followed by a tragic ending is what one will be left with.
Shame on u.. don't worry karma will hit u back
@@yavnikanegi094- you are a baby girl in an adult body. Misandrists and feminists are the real one who destroys families." Papa ki pari " is worst than a mama's boy.
Story is nice..but a mammas boy will never miss his wife neither drink..n do create such a scene..it will not matter if his wife is alive or dead..
Hi😮
Yes you are right.
@@faridanagori5891 kha se hai
Very good acting and very good script ❤
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Amazing Outstanding story .I have seen some real cases like this.
Both are important ..
Treat equally..
Nice... Amazing. Based on true. Well awareness.
What kind of respect a wife wants from their child after her child marriage, the same kind of respect a wife should give to her grandmother.
This is my situation struggling from last 3yrs.....requesting to all mama's boy please do change ur self bcuz u r now not only a son also a husband having some responsibility towards ur wife..... Why n what fault is ours to b a wife....
Unse kaho so bhi mma k pas jaya kre.....or baby bhi vo he de dengi.....😂😂
@dezyagrawal6995😂😂 nice one guess what i will never leave my wife when I will get married better to be loyal to my wife than some frustrated people
In only these situations I appreciate western people, they would easily divorce and find someone who loves and respects them. These types of husbands doesn't deserve love. I doubt he'll ever change :(
@@dezyagrawal6995 Aisi hi sooch aajkal ki ladkiyo ki hai.. tabhi toh ladke unki taraf emotional nahi ho paate.. aur waise bhi jisne janam se paal pos kar bada kiya hai uski taraf hi emotions thode jyada ho sakte hain na??.. aur jo anjaan hai, naya-2 aya hai life mein usse apnane mein time toh lag hi sakta hai na?.. subconcious mind thodi samjh sakta hai ke biwi mayake bhag jayegi agar thodi bahut unch-neech ho gayi toh. baki iss video mein toh exaggerate karke dikhaya hai kyuki itna injustice koi ladka karega toh patni ko bura toh lagega hi.. aur maa bhi jan boojh kar dono mein problems create kar rhi hai iss video mein.. real life mein toh alag hi issues hote hain :(
restpect women's girls in our country they both have celebrities models those beautiful cadt in it@@anenthusiast9080
Mamas boy should marriage their mum
Very well said
Stupid aisa bhi khin hota hai u was wrong
I think am mamma's boy , therefore i dont want to get married , becoz my mom's behavior with my brother wife is little bit same ...
I dont want to spoil the life of an innocent girl therefore i will be stay single forever.
Good boy
Instead Make the right change slowly make her realize her mistakes.
Ur mother might be narcissistic
Hw honest u r.. 😢
@@Viralshorts-w6dwhat the hell dude!?.. it's not important to get married in Islam..it's a choice..and by not marrying nobody will be sinning in Islam..so don't spread false things about Islam.
yeh wali sass sudhar gyi bt mere wali tan is toh v extraordinary aa
What a sick human being this husband is. After all this he is sad he has to "sleep alone". If he has a sex partner he would hardly miss his wife after all the torture she had to go through !!! In real life the MIL will happyly find another doormat (DIL) and if that girl does not even have the guts to stand up for herself then she is just going to die suffering in silence
Why" Mother in Law " not understand that life is good with them together?
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Exactly and he was just missing her for doing his chores, not out of love.
In some cultures narcissistic abuse by a convert narcissistic mother is acceptable.
Moral of the drama try to make a balance relationship..
Would like to watch similar narration of 'Paapa ki Daughter'..Few very well educated and unmatured women behaves similar way..
अपने बच्चों को कितनी टेंशन देती हैन ऐसी मां
At least, this story had a happy ending, where the MIL and husband came to a realisation. Many a times, the DIL is cornered, tortured, and MIL keeps brainwashing her son, who already views her mom with rose coloured glasses. These sons have been conditioned to be this way since childhood. Mostly, such mothers have had a bad relationship with their husband, and the son becomes an emotional scapegoat which he never realises. The mother acts like a wife to her son, and feels jealous towards his wife. Such marriages are just a facade for the sake of society. There’s no emotional connection between husband & wife.
Mere sath bhi starting of the marriage yahi hua tha . Na jaane kitni baar meri Galti na bhi hui fir bhi Maine mere MIL ko sorry bola hai . But ab shadi ko 8 yrs ho gaye hai and muje 2 kids hai and I am happy
I am facing the same problem, Mysore husband has no any emotional relationship towards me
Hi😅
If we understand each other's emotions, then it will make our life beautiful.
ऐसी मां दुनियां में किसी को ना मिले।
अपना पराया की शुरुआत सबसे पहले माता-पिता ही करते हैं।
My mother in law is best mom❤❤❤ she is my best friend ❤❤❤❤
Itna easy nhi h jitna aapne dikhaya h kaash sb ladke isko dekh le
Yes, you're absolutely right. In several videos, when we attempt to portray reality without presenting a happy ending, some viewers express dissatisfaction. Nevertheless, we strive to maintain a realistic approach, addressing issues prevalent in society that are often overlooked. Your understanding is valued.
Everyone should strike a balance between relationships. And, in this case mother should act wisely. She is playing a victim...
This movie is exaggerated, no boy behaves/acts like this in this time and age.
Aur, aaloo ke parathe pahle nahi Bana sakti thi jab bahu thi..tab to din bhar baithkar TV dekhati rahti thi...
A,,
Both are Important,As an adult it’s your responsibility to balance both relations.
Its a good thing to respect your mothers and do each and every thing by putting in theur minds what u do ,but if u have to take permission then also take permission
That "mummy may i go to washroom"😂😂
Maa apney bachhon ka hamesha bhala hi karti hai❤
Best short film ever I seen. All characters act are " lajavab ❤❤❤
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Bahut accha video bhaya.
Even if the girl is working many dont have field freedom. Only you are out of ugly situation at the time in office. Once you're home you're unsaid servant. My mother in law always wanted to sit in front. I was abroad and only came for vacation for first three yrs. Mother and her daughter always pull my husband when I am home.
Moms son never realize the importance of wife. In real life end will be something else
Really
And papa princess also don't realise importance of husband nowadays
Very nice video good, ❣️heart teaching
Sorry to hear about your loss 😢 May her soul rest in peace
ye real life hai meri. .. sirf yahan saas hai aur mere life me husband ki didi jijaji bhanje bhanji yehi sab hain..
Same😢
@@sayantikade6626sad apki shadi kisi sanskari ladke se honi chahiye thi 😢
@gourinaik708 Jitni priority apke husband apke relative ko dein, utni hi aap unke relatives ko do. Aur financially independent raho. Drama Karo relatives se friendly rehne ka par andar se husband ko manipulate Karo. Usko uski behen ki tareef karo aur jab behen se galti ho toh kaho ki ye kaise ho gaya??? Aise hi dheere dheere husband apki baatein manega
@@minarvatripathi9561shadyantra 😂😂... But honestly khud ki mental health ke liye zarurat padne pe ye karne mein bhi burayi nai hai
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Evil mother 😡. And Worse son he is not eligible to get married . He should have been single throughout his life with his mother only.
Haha, I feel you! 😄🫶❤
Absolutely correct 💯🤬
It is necessary to raise your voice when you feel ignored, not respected or loved.. no need to 'ghut ghut ke rona' and all..
Pata ni saas ko kaisa sukoon milta h bahu bete ki khushiya chheen k
Ok, it is very, very inspiring to us ....thanks
Be a balancing beam between Mother and wife. So there will be no problem at all.
Such guys shouldn't get married in first place. If they don't feel the need of partner, then ehat's the point in ruining an innocent's life like this.
It's definitely a valid perspective.
Humne bachpan main uloo ke pathe ka naam sunna tha. Aaj dekh bhi liya!
Short films are way better than theatre movies ..
Wn she doesn't get respect she took correct step to go her house.
1. A girl after marriage doesn’t belong to the in laws house or husband. She belongs to her house equally.
2. The guy also belongs to his home and the girl’s home equally.
3. The girl mentally does everything for the guy, the guy should also do the same.
4. None of them should take the other person or the things they do for granted.
5. All the works he needed her for in the video, is not hers, he should also do it if she was on the other side.
Just remember to have equality, respect and most of all.
It was quite the powerful visual to see the mother coming out of the room where the wife usually comes from, when the husband needed help.
I know of a story in real life where the woman felt that the husband and his mother almost had a husband/wife relation because of how close they were....
Patni ko acha pati chahiye hota hai acha beta nahi . Acha beta maa ko chahiye hota h . Yeh jaruri nahi ki jo beta acha ho woh pati bhi acha ho . So balance your life .
Right bro sb jgh sbki aapni jodi aapne apne hi jgh sahi lgta hai
Maa ki jagah maa aur biwi ki jagah biwi ho to woh ghar nahin jannat hai . Bahut kamyab kahaani hai .
Amazing film and amazing lessons in this movie, this should go viral
Why dint we have a full fledged film on such topics
Har kisi ko apne hisse ka pyar milna jaroori hota hai ❤
Kabhi kabhi jyada pyar bhi sab bigad deta h... Or ghar valo ki same mentality m hum bhi unke jaise ho jate h kabhi kabhi ghar vale bhi selfish hokar decision lete h... Jo bache apne parents k sath rhna chate h or apne pyar ko chod dete baad m pachtata h 🙂
Wooooow🙏🙏🙏 Right🙏🙏🙏 Mohtarma🙏🙏🙏
Husbands always support her mother chahe koi b bat ho
Mother ya wife ko support nahi
Dono relation me balance karna chahiye .
A good ending. Well-scripted. I'm happy that the mother realised her fault.
This was a short film that is why Happy Ending came much earlier had it been a daily soap Opera this problem would have been stretched over 6 months or even 6 years.
Hi😊😅
true 😂😂
Ghr ko babaad krne me maa ka role kafi hota he kahi ladke ki maa ka to kahi ladki ki maa ka, isliye in maao ko b kahi bsy rehne dene ki koshish krni chahiye
That's why there's saying " If you want a perfect wife, marry your mother".
Kuch log nafrat me itne andhe hogaye hai, ki itni gandi baate karne lagte hai chhiiii
@@HasanSheikh-it6qdsahi kaha 😰😰😰😰😰
Oh bhai, mind your language 😾😠😡👿👿
U should also marry ur father then
U bloody,Have u married ur father ???
In reels mama's boy:🤡
In reality mama's boy:😎
actually
Thank you so much everyone ❤keep supporting 💗
Kash esa ending sabka ho Jisko ese pati or mother in law mile hai , unko jaldi samj aajaye ki ek ladki ka life ese barbaad na karee ... I pray 🙏
Yup 😊 @@swagatikapatro982
I m in the same situation after watching this video.. and trust me it's useless to point towards in-law when the main culprit is our husband who can't maintain a proper balance between her partner and mother
Such husbands are enmeshed sons. Google, “Mother-son enmeshment”. Even my husband is like that, and my marriage has been an emotionally traumatizing journey so far. He prioritises his mom and sister, and always acts biased towards them even when they’re doing something bad. What a sick family! Let him live with them… I don’t even feel like I have a husband!
@@yavnikanegi094 Don't play victim card .. get lost
@@pritamacharjee5498 Another one spotted... Lol
Jali nah teri 😂😂😂😂😂 @@yavnikanegi094
Hum ladke ache se jante hain tu kis category ka aurat hain 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Restpect women's girls celebrities love from new Delhi
The real culprit is mother who is acting innocent
Jhuti sympathy ke liye bete ke saamne acting karti hain
Koi problem nahi hote hue bhi apne budhape ka bahana karti hain
Aur bahu ko ek cheez ki tarah istemal karte hain
Use izzat nahu dete pyar nahi dete
Fir kehte hain kya kiya hamne
Khana kapda ghar sab to hai
Bas aur kya chahiye aurat ko
Wife ke koi emotion nahi hote bas maa ke emotion hain
Sons r there first priority
Seriously it's heart touching story.love u guys from Nagaland
Jealousy and possessiveness kabhi achhi nahi hoti woh chaahe fir Saas mei ho ya bahu mei..🙏🏻
निशा मॅडम आपलं काम खुपच सुंदर आहे विशेषतः आपली बोलण्याची पद्धत खूपच सुंदर आहे.आपणास मनापासून खुप शुभेच्छा.
Awesome story 🎉