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  • @JhonLd
    @JhonLd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3445

    The moment when he said "We could have more then 10 minutes, we could have a week" hits even harder at the end.

    • @styrofoamfeelings
      @styrofoamfeelings 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      NOW YOU MADE ME CRY

    • @beautifulale15
      @beautifulale15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      UGH YES

    • @benjamingerbensparreboom5675
      @benjamingerbensparreboom5675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ... not get the clue, WHY?!! ... I lost, and hold them to the end...:’( ...2times My Wifes :’( ) (cancer)... and I Wish,had The Choice To Join///

    • @amandaroman3471
      @amandaroman3471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      It is hard to hear I agree however the longer you wait the more your body deteriorates and she had acted somewhat confused at times... it’s possibl she had a form of brain cancer... which can take you down quick in the end.... no one wants to die alone in a cold hospital wearing a diaper unable to move in horribl pain etc etc
      Yea perhaps a year
      More but that year would be in hospital in complete agony/ that’s not living - that’s forcing them to stay alive.
      If I was terminal and able to do this - I would in a heartbeat.
      Not having what if’s or I wonder if’s with a loved ones death is a beautiful gift not many people will get/ remorse regrets and the wondering can really eat at people for years when we arent there with a terminal loved one passes ya know what I mean!
      It’s ultimate up to the person who’s ill obviously but I’m just ranting here sorry. But yes I agree I thought that too at the end back at the week comment I didn’t get before...
      Movie was one of the best I have ever seen... the way it’s laid out and everything is just epic.... awesome acting story is beautiful and painful at once aahhh I’m up mad late half delirious as it is lol
      X done rambling sorry you where my chose. Victim lol

    • @lisamorales4286
      @lisamorales4286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Room 143, 1-I, 4-love, 3-you. Oh my God it was so sad but at least they love each other. Till the end.

  • @mynoolife
    @mynoolife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4365

    Beautiful how he kept himself so strong throughout her emotional ordeal. So supportive and so selfless. This is so heartbreaking. I can't get over it. 💔

    • @jayrogilfabian4445
      @jayrogilfabian4445 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I got really shocked, was not expected 😱🥺😥😭

    • @bobafett8637
      @bobafett8637 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      It makes it even more sad that they didn't even get to finish the treasure hunt before she passed

    • @corbiculacc6079
      @corbiculacc6079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      So basically “its so sweet that he didnt try and prevent her to commit suicide. What a good partner.” That is so incredibly twisted

    • @mynoolife
      @mynoolife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

      @@corbiculacc6079 the whole point of the short film is that, the right to die. Also, we don't know the back story :) may be he did try but couldn't convince her. May be he is just giving her a last good day. He wanted her to go peacefully, so he kept his sorrows aside. It needs you to be incredibly strong to be able to do that.

    • @corbiculacc6079
      @corbiculacc6079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mynoolife thats true. What sucks is that i don’t think she would have said i love you too if she was still alive to do so. How could she say she loved him if he didn’t even make her life worth living

  • @leobaron9417
    @leobaron9417 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2602

    I can't help but get amazed at how incredibly real this looks. This is heartbreaking.

    • @ey9198
      @ey9198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      It's because the writer is the girl...

    • @hannah-tl1yy
      @hannah-tl1yy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ece Yılmaz
      what does the gender have to do with it

    • @ey9198
      @ey9198 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

      @@hannah-tl1yy It doesn't have to do with anything. I just said it is real because the actress is the writer herself. It seems like she put a lot of thought into it, as if she lived this scenario in real life.

    • @shriharir6450
      @shriharir6450 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@hannah-tl1yy read it again
      (THE Girl)

    • @hannah-tl1yy
      @hannah-tl1yy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Ece Yılmaz
      oh, i’m really sorry, i read it wrong and thought you put “a girl” 🤦🏽‍♀️ again, i’m really sorry

  • @giuseppe2395
    @giuseppe2395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1539

    The vacuum cleaner in the background during the credits. Lovely touch. Life doesn't care, it just goes on. The day my mom passed away, I went for a long drive. There were other cars, pedestrians going about their business. My life had stopped so why not theirs? It's a feeling that i'm sure many of you who've lost loved ones can relate to.

    • @aldooze
      @aldooze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Well said.

    • @rtphotos4691
      @rtphotos4691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yes, you've described a common feeling with grief. Remembering that life goes on and that grief was private helped me to stay focused on myself and not do what so many do, which is take the anger out on others instead of processing the grief.

    • @veilbreak5867
      @veilbreak5867 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Jarryd, the morning my dad passed the guy came to fix my mothes toilet...I was about to turn him away, but mam said ''its ok, let him fix it!'' They'd been waiting weeks. I asked him how long he'd be, he said about 15 minutes....he was there almost 2 hours. It felt so bizarre. I was wishing Id turned him way. But i also thought a broken toilet would be one more stress. Who knows when he would have been able to come back. I felt as though i was disrespecting my dad.....even though I know for a fact, he'd have said...let him fix the toilet!
      Yes, Im sure it's something we all experience, that feeling of ''Why are they all going on as if nothing' happened?''...It's illogical of course, and also entirely natural.

    • @randywoods67
      @randywoods67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Exactly right... It was so strange for me to just get back into the car after my wife died of cancer, and then, impossibly, just drive home without her. How could that be possible?? How could the world just keep spinning around after such a tragedy??... But it does. I know it'll be a lifelong struggle for me to truly understand that. And that vacuum-cleaner is still running in the background...

    • @carsonb6136
      @carsonb6136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well said

  • @melhay9969
    @melhay9969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +740

    Watching someone you love die young is the most tragic of things. I watched my husband die of cancer, he was only 42. I held him in my arms as he took his last breath.
    I have since married again to a wonderful man. I feel so lucky to have had 16 amazing years with my first husband and two amazing children. To love is such a privilege we humans have x

    • @elizabethlightfoot649
      @elizabethlightfoot649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I'm sorry for your loss, but I'm happy you could love again

    • @neverthesame7887
      @neverthesame7887 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      oh Mel, I'm so sorry you went through that. Glad you remarried and was able to find happiness again. I lost two husbands to cancer. When my second husband was diagnosed, I thought for sure this time it's going to get eradicated, I won't let this happen again. But it wasn't to be, and there wasn't anything I could do about it.

    • @Sabrellaells
      @Sabrellaells 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      MukeshGates bro read the room 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @melhay9969
      @melhay9969 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      neverthesame. I’m so sorry you’ve had to go through this twice. I love my husband dearly and life is good again. But I honestly don’t know how I’d cope if I’d have to do it again x
      Sending love to you x

    • @davidwolstenholme3672
      @davidwolstenholme3672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i died the night my wife did in 2013

  • @joehuth2133
    @joehuth2133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6857

    omeleto rule: never read the comments before finishing the movie

    • @littlejonathorn6860
      @littlejonathorn6860 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      Ha! I am to late 4 that. Broke this rule in first 5 minutes.

    • @sarsuraaa
      @sarsuraaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      yesss they always spoilll

    • @sarou3457
      @sarou3457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      oh i think that to be true but i cannot resist

    • @hold3423
      @hold3423 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Okay, sorry, ur right, im gonna come back after i watched it

    • @joash3714
      @joash3714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I'm glad I saw this comment lol

  • @psunny5947
    @psunny5947 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1366

    This is one of those short films that I'm never gonna forget.

    • @mag2094
      @mag2094 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      For sure it felt so real

    • @Mohammad-my5yl
      @Mohammad-my5yl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Do you still remember it?

    • @ellamone9998
      @ellamone9998 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Mohammad-my5yl Remember what? 😁

    • @Mohammad-my5yl
      @Mohammad-my5yl 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ellamone9998 Read the main comment

    • @Luweezy
      @Luweezy 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here

  • @ronlawrence342
    @ronlawrence342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3149

    This is both disturbing and gut wrenching. My wife contracted breast cancer and fought it courageously for 5 years. In the end her lungs were saturated with the cancer and she was gasping even with the respirator . We still were able to talk, they gave her a shot ( she could no longer breath with out the respirator and even that was beginning to fail) I repeatedly told her I loved as she went out into eternity. For 29 years we snuggled and lived a full vibrant life. I’ll never ever forget the horror of the moment she no longer responded or took another breath. It was a shock wave I’ll never be able to describe. I’m Christian I do believe I’ll see her again . That was 9 years ago and I still dream of us young and in college in the early eighties. This short really hit me hard.

    • @musclegainman5244
      @musclegainman5244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      God bless you so much

    • @wahidaanwar6075
      @wahidaanwar6075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      I am sorry for your loss

    • @ronlawrence342
      @ronlawrence342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@wahidaanwar6075 Thank you!

    • @chaitanyakapadiya3900
      @chaitanyakapadiya3900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      Your comment is just as moving as this video sir. You will surely reunite in heaven.

    • @ronlawrence342
      @ronlawrence342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@chaitanyakapadiya3900 Thank you

  • @dexterpristley3940
    @dexterpristley3940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +566

    It’s so heartbreaking to realize that he has to continue living without her. To me it’s always the most devastating part thinking about loved ones, who are gonna suffer from their loss afterwards.

    • @savannahsaenz6463
      @savannahsaenz6463 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yup and usually it won’t b long til the next one wants to die 😞💔

    • @thyroft6448
      @thyroft6448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@savannahsaenz6463 If you're surrounded with other people that you love, and most importantly, staying strong for the person you lost, trust me you'll get over it as time goes by.

    • @savannahsaenz6463
      @savannahsaenz6463 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thyroft ok but yet sometimes not always cuz the other person ends up going too

    • @shadowhunter388
      @shadowhunter388 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thyroft6448 I mean, this is someone you grew an attachment with like no other, someone you feel can never be replaced and has made a larger impact on you than life itself. I couldn't even imagine living to see another day after something like this. Especially in the condition she was in at the time she chose to take her life. Everyday after that moment would be hell. No amount of family or support would fix that. I mean she was even begging at the beginning to extend the time. I think she knew she didn't really want that but felt she had no choice because nobody was gonna tell her no and her condition (if it was that) was already progressing (assuming it was medical) to a point where it may leave her suffering. (which I don't understand why that option wouldn't be reservable when someone is near death and not healthy or seemingly healthy like in this film.

  • @OtisMedia
    @OtisMedia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +607

    I felt that emptiness and silence after she drifted off. When I lost my loved one it felt like the whole world shifted and I could no longer view it the same ever again. I miss my baby.

    • @samjane4443
      @samjane4443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Me too. That feeling of silence and stillness, and the sinking in your chest after realizing that you’ll never seen them again. The world seems to somehow shift and you’re left in a state of sadness, longing, and confusion. Why does life have to end😔 I lost four people in 2020 and all to sickness and cancer, and it’s still difficult to continue on with life without them.

    • @dollymarie5359
      @dollymarie5359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      my grandfather passed away, he was the father figure in my life since I was a baby, when he passed when I was in my 20's, I felt like my world was over, any joy I had was taken away from me, I don't even like to celebrate christmas because its not the same without him. But I do it for my kids

    • @Tripl3Nippl3
      @Tripl3Nippl3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      You will see each other again. True Love is like energy.....it can never be destroyed. Death is not the end & you guys will be together again. I know I don't know you, but I love you. All of you. Stay blessed & be well.

    • @samjane4443
      @samjane4443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Brian Najarian thank you 💜

    • @OtisMedia
      @OtisMedia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Tripl3Nippl3 Thank you so much. You are a wonderful person for reaching out. I really appreciate your words as I'm sure the rest of these good people do as well. Life is a crazy ride and it should be spent loving others and being kind and you embody that. Thank you.

  • @nooralhoudaatwi8777
    @nooralhoudaatwi8777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1983

    The poor nurse how many times had he passed through such moments of pain.

    • @altitudechallenged
      @altitudechallenged 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

      Like doctors they have built a lot of tolerance for these things. It's their job.
      Their psychiatrist bill must be expensive

    • @thyroft6448
      @thyroft6448 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      He almost looked like he's indifferent

    • @alexkg1
      @alexkg1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      @@thyroft6448 He has to be. A job like that would take a serious toll on his psyche

    • @airikkalerofficial
      @airikkalerofficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      nah he's prob done this 1000 times to the point where it's just a normal day for him

    • @nooralhoudaatwi8777
      @nooralhoudaatwi8777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

      He is a human not a robot. No matter how many times he did it, it will surely leave an effect on his mentality. Like josie said his psychiatrist bill must be expensive!

  • @corridones_YT
    @corridones_YT 3 ปีที่แล้ว +551

    Her acting is so good and on top of the she wrote this story and produced it and directed it I mean she is just amazing

    • @hollyperrin7353
      @hollyperrin7353 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So true! I was wondering if her co-star, Jason Ritter, is the son of John Ritter.

    • @rattusnorvegicus4380
      @rattusnorvegicus4380 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@hollyperrin7353 Yes he is.

  • @johnperkins1301
    @johnperkins1301 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3501

    At the beginning, I wondered why such a young and in love couple wouldn’t be making love after the bubble bath. By the end, I cried knowing that making love is all they were doing the entire time.

    • @113dmg9
      @113dmg9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Very nicely put.

    • @fallinangel150
      @fallinangel150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      I cried while reading this comment. You did put this comment perfectly

    • @1234577p
      @1234577p 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Wow absolutely correct

    • @a.m.thomas9366
      @a.m.thomas9366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I guess in the USA you guys only show " love" by sticking your thing in a woman. Nobody believes in waiting after marriage anymore.

    • @VJ-ss7il
      @VJ-ss7il 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      A.M. Thomas not everybody believes in marriage buddy, you can love and live with someone and just not want to get married, it’s just a piece of paper

  • @sinister3651
    @sinister3651 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5473

    Okay so for those who don’t understand. She is sick, that’s why she is coughing. She has a disease that is not curable and does not want to suffer a horrible death, so she drank some pills to sleep and never wake up which will cause death. The registered nurse is just there to visualize everything, in the beginning she says why did you spend so much on the hotel room. Because she knew she was gonna die anyway, the scavenger hunt was something to distract her off her mind that death was coming. There last conversation was when he said I love you and she did not respond back back because she had already passed, and that was the end.

    • @vasilaking
      @vasilaking 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Maybe Covid-19 heh

    • @varshanampui975
      @varshanampui975 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@vasilaking and the boyfriend is next!!

    • @pallav2223
      @pallav2223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      Oh u saved my
      31:48 min

    • @IkaraPentiki
      @IkaraPentiki 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @capt Obvious It's real, and this is what it's used for.

    • @ulala5219
      @ulala5219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      So why didnt she coughed before drink this white liquid?!

  • @ArtsyNiv
    @ArtsyNiv 4 ปีที่แล้ว +497

    This was Hella heart breaking to see. I'm balling my eyes out now. Okay I get it, she was sick and decided to die early on maybe because she didn't want others to suffer along with her but what's even more heartbreaking is that your lover decides to die and you finally come to terms with that and you try to make their last day as happy as possible, we as lovers are so selfish sometimes and we don't want to let go of our partner but damn this guy, he, he literally let her go because she wanted to. So I can't imagine the amount of strength he has.

  • @kenziejones1922
    @kenziejones1922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +770

    When she said “cuddle time” I let out the worst sounding sob. I say that to my boyfriend and I was just imaging us in this situation. This film really broke my heart

    • @jakewright434
      @jakewright434 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Girl me too

    • @fallinangel150
      @fallinangel150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I knew what time it was. Damn it "Omeleto films DAMMIT!"

    • @jasmineparnham5430
      @jasmineparnham5430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Oh legit same I couldn’t stop imagining my boyfriend and I in that situation

  • @kaylinde2321
    @kaylinde2321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2237

    They didn’t even get to finish the scavenger hunt. Goes to show that even with a planned death, you’ll never be done with life. You have to know when to accept you’ll never get to do all you had planned, you just have to know when to stop and appreciate what you already have.

    • @saeedahadian
      @saeedahadian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      Some friend once told me, "death will always be an interruption."

    • @antonboludo8886
      @antonboludo8886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@saeedahadian So true.

    • @abdulrahmanmohamedhabib9519
      @abdulrahmanmohamedhabib9519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      wow, Kaylinde, that is such an amazing observation, well done

    • @fallinangel150
      @fallinangel150 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amazingly put

    • @dikshashahakar3767
      @dikshashahakar3767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This is so wholesome. Perfectly put!

  • @supertrooper3438
    @supertrooper3438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +765

    i have never in my whole life cried so hard for a fictional event. a masterpiece

    • @sharonwolfe5210
      @sharonwolfe5210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Absolute fact.

    • @yenchu1237
      @yenchu1237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Fiction for you is reality to some...

    • @sydward9814
      @sydward9814 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yes me too literally just looking through the comments to make sure I wasn’t the only one balling my eyes out

    • @violetwade6528
      @violetwade6528 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sydward9814 i havent cried in like 5 months but this one just hit hard, tears rolling down my face rn

    • @gaitrikaram3325
      @gaitrikaram3325 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I crying too! Tears keep rolling down the sides of my face as I lay down and watch this at night😭

  • @zirak93-2
    @zirak93-2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +801

    He is really a sweet man. He looks like the ideal husband any woman could wish for. What a sweet man. That was a real saddening story. Hard to watch, what a heartbreaking story.

    • @Aviationgeek21
      @Aviationgeek21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes but she doesn't seems like the wife I would want because she left me by death btw I'm jk

    • @malaikawebb5675
      @malaikawebb5675 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@Aviationgeek21 joke wasn't funny

    • @brendielahooha
      @brendielahooha 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes. Unfortunately he helped his girlfriend go through euthanasia. I sometimes think if I would have the strength he had. To go through losing a loved one, helping her through her decision to do this, and having a happy face to cheer her up in the saddest day of his life

    • @kingmusic8774
      @kingmusic8774 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@malaikawebb5675 yeah I'm not sure if it was suppose to be funny buddy

    • @Aviationgeek21
      @Aviationgeek21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kingmusic8774 yeah that's why I said jk not just joking that's why I didn't respond to him 😂

  • @leigha98
    @leigha98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +829

    I'm positive I just lost 10 percent water weight from the sheer amount of tears produced watching this. What a beautifully done piece.

    • @Hexnilium
      @Hexnilium 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      She deserves a bunch of awards for this. They all do.
      That was intense.

    • @jmurdock8303
      @jmurdock8303 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

    • @randywoods67
      @randywoods67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      And like most good films, it hits even harder and more poignantly when you watch it an second or third time. Devastating and beautiful... with just the right amount of humor that is so believable. We should all be so lucky to laugh at absurdity the moments before we breathe our last.

    • @_luke420
      @_luke420 ปีที่แล้ว

      SAME

    • @RemoveLola
      @RemoveLola ปีที่แล้ว

      same :(

  • @m00n_flare3
    @m00n_flare3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2146

    everyone commenting about how touching this is but I can't stop thinking "what if death just looked like a middle-aged guy in a polo with slacks?"

    • @tari9681
      @tari9681 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I mean you aint wrong

    • @azusaproductions5089
      @azusaproductions5089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This does happen irl you know

    • @dawnstar6727
      @dawnstar6727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Who says Death isn't exactly that? Death is a busy dude and a polo shirt and slacks is a very comfortable and efficient choice of clothing.

    • @brucebloot
      @brucebloot 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      He certainly stylish.

    • @siddharthaotaku8982
      @siddharthaotaku8982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I can't take that though out of my brain now

  • @topseriesrecaps1484
    @topseriesrecaps1484 4 ปีที่แล้ว +620

    even in her moments of near death, she didnt think otherwise when the song played. she knew beyond doubt he loved her, thats why she found it amusing. thats love! its a beautiful story i hate to love

    • @voidmain9519
      @voidmain9519 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nicely put. I hate to love...

  • @eg1197
    @eg1197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1829

    This is a strong film about a subject that doesn't get talked about or made into a film too much. Well done and acting was splendid💯.

    • @benjamindejarnette5714
      @benjamindejarnette5714 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Me Before You had an excellent portrayal of this. It's a really great movie that moved me to tears. I'd really recommend it.

    • @jaihitachiin148
      @jaihitachiin148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Very well said

    • @cahidijoyoraharjo7833
      @cahidijoyoraharjo7833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@benjamindejarnette5714 I've watched Me Before You. It was a heartbreaking story.

    • @eg1197
      @eg1197 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@benjamindejarnette5714 I think I've seen it. I remember he gifted her a pair of vibrant color knee high stocking 🌈. It was indeed a tearful movie😭. This movie we just seen, it would of done well in the theatre. The director who also played Jane was excellent. Hope she's doing another movie. I loved her vision. Thank for sharing Ben 🙏

    • @Susanc06
      @Susanc06 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      E G I think they are a real couple and wrote this short film 🎬 so it was real feelings.

  • @micry8167
    @micry8167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    That awkwardness from the beginning was effective. I thought he was trying to rekindle their relationship and she was not optimistic. Even in the tub he was treating her so gingerly (no pun) and she seemed to be put off by his deliberateness. Only when they were in sync and laughing, enjoying their food did I realize where this was all going - and it would be her going. It still remained heartbreaking…and surprising…and hopeful somehow. Gonzaga’s writing and her performance of the role paid so much respect to this couple. Ritter was no slouch either. Amazing.

  • @aletheia584
    @aletheia584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +609

    Weeping and sobbing does not describe the guttural whelps that escaped my body after I finished this I need a hug and a drink

    • @zainabtello3090
      @zainabtello3090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @vincentlenart1697
      @vincentlenart1697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same here. I haven't cried like this in years.

    • @onuraagdas8051
      @onuraagdas8051 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can give you that drink

    • @rosebflowin
      @rosebflowin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm watching this at work and have to hold my weeps in. I'm just silently crying, wishing I could just let it out.

    • @shivang15
      @shivang15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hugs

  • @MowkMeister
    @MowkMeister 4 ปีที่แล้ว +161

    This is the most powerful example of strength. Him holding it together for her for so long and her reassuring him that its gonna be alright and letting the moment end in love instead of sadness.

    • @flowersafeheart
      @flowersafeheart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes this was true true deep love.

  • @hannahclarke2611
    @hannahclarke2611 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2123

    Oh Lordy, I clicked on this innocently and was not prepared. Heartbreakingly sad, funny....beautiful. I would pay full cinema prices for even 10 minutes of something this good.

    • @cadavher
      @cadavher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Check out "how to die in oregon", its real life people who do this. It's beautiful, just like this short film was done so beautifully.

    • @deepdownthelane
      @deepdownthelane 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      To be really honest, I was in for some good romance as was depicted in the thumbnail. I'm broken without warning

    • @wayneaj3603
      @wayneaj3603 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'd like a girl like him

    • @flow1111-m5v
      @flow1111-m5v 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i sped it up to 2x cuz they dragged the film out way too long it should've only been 10 minutes, but why do they never tell us why she is choosing this

    • @Appachoppa112
      @Appachoppa112 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I thought she was acting weird cuz she was gonna break up w/ him

  • @randywoods67
    @randywoods67 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Wow, what a gut-punch... This lovingly made film instantly brought me back to the death of my wife from uterine cancer in April 2020. She had fought for 9 months, but the cancer was at stage IV when we discovered it. At the end, we found out it had gone to her brain. In less than one week, this strong, artistic, beautiful soul slid into brain fog, then lost her speech, fell unconscious, and died at age 52. Because Covid was still relatively new at the time, no one was allowed to be in to hospital room with her -- I was not even technically allowed either, but the heroic, wonderful, compassionate nursing staff allowed me to stay for the five nights she hung on. This film dredged up all the things I wanted to tell her as her breathing slowed and finally stopped. I said all I could, but will never know if she heard me. I wish I could have had a final conversation with her, or that she could express her feelings right before the end. It was so sudden, we always through we'd have more time... That's my only advice for those in the situation of these characters: Don't wait any longer. Find the courage to express your love as soon, and as often, as you can...

    • @littlemermaid8638
      @littlemermaid8638 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I'm very sorry for your loss, your comment was extremely touching to read. I hope you were able to find some joy in your life again.
      I know that my words may mean nothing to you because I'm a stranger, but your words reminded me of how precious life is and this is what I just wanted to let you know.
      I wish you all the best for your life. Lots of love from Austria 🇦🇹, Europe

  • @advancedassessment6974
    @advancedassessment6974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2681

    The girl acting wrote and produced this film.

    • @itbelikethat1488
      @itbelikethat1488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      ADVANCED ASSESSMENT damn and she was the best actor for it

    • @pplett8238
      @pplett8238 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      @@itbelikethat1488 yes she was. This story is very strong all they needed is a room three people. And they made a story that was very strong.

    • @sandragrace6402
      @sandragrace6402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Her name is on the credits for the song too 👏👏👏

    • @iampoch01
      @iampoch01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@pplett8238 four if you count Cupcake Lady

    • @kriskelvin5775
      @kriskelvin5775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      She is Jim Carrey's ex-girlfriend.

  • @RoMenendezT
    @RoMenendezT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +451

    This broke my heart in so many little pieces. The fact that they looked so happy and blissful together but were making such a tough choice. The way he distracted, supported and loved her til her very last breath.
    I honestly don't think I'll ever be able to forget this work of art nor the imprint it left on my heart.

  • @Soulociraptr
    @Soulociraptr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2126

    I originally thought that they were spending the day together because she would soon be arrested and taken to prison. Boy, was I wrong, and this is so much worse. v.v

    • @hannahjacobs9138
      @hannahjacobs9138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      i thought that too

    • @khushishah7106
      @khushishah7106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same oh my lord

    • @HamiltonIsLife
      @HamiltonIsLife 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      That’s what I thought

    • @jeanproctor3663
      @jeanproctor3663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I thought the same.

    • @abbydowns757
      @abbydowns757 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I thought maybe it was the day their child died and he was trying to take her mind off it by doing the things the child liked

  • @anoushkasingh2355
    @anoushkasingh2355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Her acting was so amazing that even when I wasn't sure what she was crying about, I cried with her.

  • @anirie6747
    @anirie6747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +340

    Can we just appreciate the brilliant skills of the lead actress, director, writer, producer Ginger and her co-actor Jason!
    All the supporting actors did an amazing job as well!

    • @Metalshark100
      @Metalshark100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      don't forget cupcake lady!

    • @haphoerart
      @haphoerart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Metalshark100 and additionally she's a filipino
      Great acting skills ya got there cupcake lady :>

    • @Metalshark100
      @Metalshark100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@haphoerart true! Amazing acting 🎭

  • @jtreal
    @jtreal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1205

    Sad...my wife passed away at home from breast cancer in my arms, she was more ready for the end than I was..she was the strongest, smartest, beautiful inside and out woman I've ever known. I miss her everyday and wish she was still here.

    • @hoopieee7338
      @hoopieee7338 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you know what a physic is or an prophet ?

    • @aishaalqaydi4679
      @aishaalqaydi4679 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      I am so sorry, be strong for her memory.. its not easy but you can 🌸

    • @nobody-iw1fb
      @nobody-iw1fb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I'm sorry for your loss ❤

    • @sharonwolfe5210
      @sharonwolfe5210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      As long as you can say her name, she is with you.
      Strength, dear one.

    • @tamzinyim
      @tamzinyim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      she is still with you everyday : )

  • @globglobglobgalab889
    @globglobglobgalab889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    The fact she said I’m sorry is so heart breaking. 😢😭😖

  • @pringlw
    @pringlw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    Extremely powerful. At first I felt she was “wrong” to make this choice. Then I reminded myself that I know nothing about her story. Nothing. It was a brilliant decision to leave that out of the narrative. We know absolutely nothing about each other’s stories in real life.

    • @jeremywithacamera235
      @jeremywithacamera235 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Indeed...there is SO much about this story that is unanswered.

    • @MzClementine
      @MzClementine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Right on never judge a book by its cover. It can be the most incredible read of your life.
      Sorry I didn't mean to post. I'm crying and I can't see the buttons. We don't know each other's lives. And when someone lets their walls down and shows us fragments of their life. How much they bond us together. Even if we don't know the full extent of the story. What compassion we can have. Life is so beautiful.

    • @mariopot789
      @mariopot789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      All I could think was in order to cut short a love like that she must suffer immensely . She wasn't escaping her love she was escaping the pain that distracted the two from it .

    • @orange11squares
      @orange11squares 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      it's idiocy, no matter the reason.

    • @ItAllMakeSenseNow82
      @ItAllMakeSenseNow82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@orange11squares even if she were terminally ill? That's the reason that stands out in my head but honestly, who knows.

  • @johnboylong40
    @johnboylong40 4 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    I think the song mistake was brilliant. It’s just like life... it just doesn’t go the way you wish, hope or think it will (best laid plans and all), It throws hard curves and we have to roll with them. We can all hope we have someone like this guy in our lives, there for us in the end.

    • @genaro_nr
      @genaro_nr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I thought it was just a clever way to offer some comic relief but okay

    • @flowersafeheart
      @flowersafeheart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      And it showed how much the strength of their love was about play and laughter.

    • @113dmg9
      @113dmg9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True. Life does throw hard curves.

    • @david203
      @david203 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was not actually a mistake, just in case you didn't catch that. It was part of his comic planning, possibly even with the nurse's advance knowledge, since the nurse couldn't help smiling.

  • @eyereese1225
    @eyereese1225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    Credits to Miss Ginger Gonzaga, Writer, Director, Producer and the lead actress in this short. She's a genius

    • @krashd
      @krashd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She also wrote the song from the credits.

    • @creatednewlearning7216
      @creatednewlearning7216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      It makes me wonder what she felt inside to create & do so much in such a sad film.

    • @Andyhoots
      @Andyhoots 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      AND one of the most beautiful :)

    • @Sophie-ni8qm
      @Sophie-ni8qm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She's an amazing actress. This is the most I've ever cried because of a film lmao and I basically never cry cuz of this stuff

  • @MsSupernameless
    @MsSupernameless 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1674

    So far this is the saddest i've seen from omeleto

    • @shreyashshankar9819
      @shreyashshankar9819 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      then see omletoo "An inmate is selected to undergo" video

    • @BeauteOr
      @BeauteOr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      SHREYASH SHANKAR I saw it twice actually. I find it sad just extremely cruel , from the society but also from the father of the mixer girl. He s even worse than the criminal....

    • @suraiyaurme9777
      @suraiyaurme9777 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Watch this in case u have not : A local cop uncovers a disturbing truth about a strict Christian family's missing daughter. | Ritual
      Its sad and scary at the same time.

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yesssss , my sentiments exactly

    • @MsSupernameless
      @MsSupernameless 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Hannah Bellamy wow! that one was crazy, thanks for the suggestion.

  • @barodrinksbeer7484
    @barodrinksbeer7484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +345

    I have scars all over my body from my mom stabbing me with a super hot piece of iron, and I spent about a month locked in my family basement expecting to die at some point. But I have to say that the pain; the suffering; the evil, it doesn't compare to the good things in life. Especially if your willing to go out and give love to others, and make the world a better place.

    • @SergieRachmaninoff
      @SergieRachmaninoff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      Sorry you had to go through that. Glad you've found the light in life.

    • @ClockworkAnomaly
      @ClockworkAnomaly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank You

    • @creationanomaly6026
      @creationanomaly6026 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I hope you are fine now. 🙏❤️

    • @chemistsrawananwar9671
      @chemistsrawananwar9671 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I'm glad you had the strength to walk out through your path and find your light ♥️♥️♥️I'm really glad ..because no one deserve to go through physical torture just because they made mistakes

    • @blanchegreco7201
      @blanchegreco7201 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      OHH MY GOOOOOOOD!😨 you’re very strong. Wish you the best of the best and a big virtual hug 💗

  • @cesargonzalez6959
    @cesargonzalez6959 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1362

    I cried ...because my wife died in my arms also. She was sick for almost a year after giving birth to our twin daughters who died after 1 day because they were 6 months pre-mature.

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

      Im really sorry. I dont know you but I wish you happiness. Please know they are with THE FATHER in HEAVEN

    • @adevore1971
      @adevore1971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      This comment is so much sadder to me than this movie.. I'm not feeling the same as most of the commenters here.. i mean the acting is amazing but this girl seems perfectly healthy, isn't suffering and ended her life too soon and a beautiful perfect relationship.. she didn't face and endure suffering..I'm not trying to offend anyone, that's just my honest feeling...., YOU have suffered and likely will suffer all your life from what you experienced.. my heart really goes out to you and I hope the pain you feel makes your heart wide open .. 💚💖💚💖 prayers and blessings to you

    • @dmckenzie7333
      @dmckenzie7333 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I am sorry for your lost and God comforts you.

    • @siddhusaini7440
      @siddhusaini7440 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      im sorry for your lost brother. it broke me so hard after watch this short movie, even harder near to the max when i read your comment. Cant imagine how strong you go through this. God bless you.

    • @flawlesswhoreless7691
      @flawlesswhoreless7691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      So sorry for your lost my friend stay strong there up there with God

  • @VERYWEIRDHOOMAN
    @VERYWEIRDHOOMAN 4 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    It's cruel how a 31 minutes and 48 seconds film can break me.

  • @evanddyjerry6411
    @evanddyjerry6411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +181

    Its so much hurt when they hold on it, so they choose to let go.. can't imagine how much pressure the husband has to bear..

  • @bekindyall5555
    @bekindyall5555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +154

    Why . Why was this in my recommendation, why did I watch this .
    It broke me into pieces , now I feel like telling my family and frnds how much I love them . Be grateful and cherish every moment .

    • @KumeOzoro
      @KumeOzoro 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should

    • @trishaagz
      @trishaagz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ikr, why did i click on this. It's 1 am and my parents are asleep even though they were arguing and fighting before they went to bed. I wish they would resolve things faster because they love each other, it's just that being stuck together for so long in this pandemic has made them argue over the smallest things. Why can't they fix things faster for my sake? Sorry, i just need to let these thoughts out

    • @KumeOzoro
      @KumeOzoro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@trishaagz why not share these thoughts with them? You could always write it in a note if you don't feel comfortable with a one on one. You have influence here. Why not use it?

    • @trishaagz
      @trishaagz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@KumeOzoro that's a great idea, I've never tried that before. Currently I think the main issues have been resolved but I typically do tell them about how it affects me when it goes on for too long. Thank you for your response

    • @KumeOzoro
      @KumeOzoro 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're welcome@@trishaagz

  • @XpoSZioN
    @XpoSZioN 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    Hey you guys know that the actress Janes real name is Ginger Gonzaga and she actually created this fine piece of work!
    I just realised when I seen the credits at the end
    She not only wrote and produced this powerful story but she was the star of this masterpiece.
    I say that because although they are both talented actors, however I have to emphasise that i really felt her emotions and deep portrayal of this character. I really connected with her straight away because the way she acted wasnt forced, It almost seemed effortless thats how natural she was.
    Wow She is a force to recognise when it comes to acting and so naturally beautiful too.
    You Go Girl, you really should be so proud of yourself, its hard enough to write a story and direct it but to starr in it and actually do a phenomenal job that takes real passion for what you believe in, incredible work!

    • @mikeserrano3813
      @mikeserrano3813 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I believe the husband was the late John Ritters son of three company fame...

    • @gingergonzaga1749
      @gingergonzaga1749 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank you for this.

  • @SagiTabachnick
    @SagiTabachnick 4 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    I've been binge watching omeleto for several hours now. I remember the laughing, but it's all over now.
    My God, what a heart wracking understanding.
    This is a masterpiece. This is life.

    • @kesangkwh
      @kesangkwh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, agreed :)

    • @abbydupuis4759
      @abbydupuis4759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m binging too lol

  • @paulpanmei1748
    @paulpanmei1748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +765

    The moment she stopped responding, I would just die of heart attack, if I was him.

    • @classicambo9781
      @classicambo9781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      It's possible, partly why the nurse just walking off is unrealistic. No way they leave a recently bereaved person alone like that, especially without confirming death.

    • @varun009
      @varun009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What are you, gay? Lmao.

    • @APKaisen1
      @APKaisen1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@varun009 what?

    • @varun009
      @varun009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@APKaisen1 irreverent, juvenile, reductionist humor.

    • @fallinangel150
      @fallinangel150 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG absolutely

  • @gigih.hammer306
    @gigih.hammer306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +241

    I'm pretty good in figuring out plots, but this one totally threw me. This is so so sad. If I would've been in her position and could've not laughed and acting as normal as those two did. OMG, what a heart breaking ending.

    • @finnlira-surette9228
      @finnlira-surette9228 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      wait, why did she do that originally, was there a reason? im very confused

    • @gigih.hammer306
      @gigih.hammer306 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@finnlira-surette9228 She had a very painful condition that threatened her life. She and her husband or bf didn't wanted her to suffer unimaginable pain. So the both decided and agreed that she kill herself. He gave her the poison drink. That about blew me away.

    • @theluncher
      @theluncher 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gigih.hammer306 ah i was wondering why she took it

  • @raybrickerson
    @raybrickerson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    Never have I ever laughed and cried so hard at the same time! I’m here holding my wife like I’ve never have before. She’s truly my world.

  • @moonsister3515
    @moonsister3515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +255

    I watched this cried my eyes out at that last "I love you" part when she stopped saying it to him. And I showed it to my man and he responded by being super angry and refusing to talk for a while and told me never to send such stuff again. We finally managed to talk about it again just now, and we both started crying over it. We talked about making our lifestyles better so that we can live as long as we can with each other. Cried alot....
    Whoever this director is, we both can't decide if we hate the person or respect for making such a video....

    • @gingergonzaga1749
      @gingergonzaga1749 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      that is so beautiful. This film usually makes men cry. It was a beautiful experience at film festivals. A lot of men would come up to me crying and thank me because it had been a while since they felt the need to cry. But there is a small 5% portion that get angry, because they don't want to feel. But I love hearing this and that you both got to have a beautiful conversation, and did get to discuss all of your feelings. It's so beautiful.

    • @monkiram
      @monkiram 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I literally can't stop crying since I watched this and it's been like 15 minutes. My husband isn't home and I'm debating whether to show it to him or not. I know it would really affect him too because we're both so scared of losing our loved ones. But at the same time I want to share it with him so I don't have to be sad alone lol. I was just trying to take a short relaxing break from work, not destroy the rest my day!

    • @SYH653
      @SYH653 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@gingergonzaga1749 It made this man cry. The tears didn't really start rolling until I saw that "Jack & Jane" were singing the credits roll. Goddamn that hurt.

    • @mc6148
      @mc6148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@gingergonzaga1749 Thank you.

    • @mikkat8613
      @mikkat8613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She made it

  • @darbeymartin3465
    @darbeymartin3465 4 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    The most moving film I have EVER seen. I watch horror, drama, romance all the time and they have never hit as hard. Not even the fault in our stars. Incredible performance and story.

    • @samriddhisaxena5575
      @samriddhisaxena5575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly my thoughts. I also thought about TFIOS. I just wanna stop crying and go to sleep. But idk I can't stop the tears rolling down my cheeks.

    • @cadavher
      @cadavher 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It was done extreemly well. Very very well. Watching this i cried just as hard as I did watching the documentary about people who go through this.

    • @Skyrim_Shuffle
      @Skyrim_Shuffle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Welcome to Omeleto, friend!

  • @mamabear4576
    @mamabear4576 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Jason's dad would be so proud of this. This is beautiful.

  • @MrBlarginFlarg
    @MrBlarginFlarg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +493

    For those confused:
    She most likely had some kind of sickness / disease that has no cure and probably has some painful or other unwanted side affects. So, instead of going through all of that, decided to pass on through her own terms via the pill. It's pretty obvious she would have loved to have had more time with her beloved but this was the best and most peaceful way for her. He seems to be in agreement with this and did everything he could to make her last day and moments some of the best. At least this is my take on it anyway! Truly touching and amazing stuff as always Omeleto.

    • @pneumaa
      @pneumaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Emil Mariyam Reji it’s assisted suicide

    • @r0xdab0x96xo
      @r0xdab0x96xo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @Emil Mariyam Reji I think at this point in todays day and age, suicide should be renamed. "Lost their battle with Depression" or "Lost their battle with "cue terminal illness". Suicide in today's day and age sorta devalues the situation. The gravity behind it etc. People deem it as a cheep cowards act of running away.
      We use death as a punishment, we take aways peoples right to live for being horrendous.
      Why can't we use death as a mercy? To give people their right to end their life for living horrendously?

    • @1NavyLT
      @1NavyLT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@r0xdab0x96xo I see your point and agree that people should be allowed to choose.

    • @BelindaShort
      @BelindaShort 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Emil Mariyam Reji So here's the thing. You can have any opinion and belief that you want. You can dislike the movie or what it's portraying, but that doesn't stop people's own rights.

    • @immortal4613
      @immortal4613 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      There’s a cure for every disease.

  • @giovannithompson6213
    @giovannithompson6213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I don’t think I’ve ever seen two actors act out love so well.. although it cliche, it was felt very strongly I would say

  • @marksatterfield
    @marksatterfield 3 ปีที่แล้ว +586

    "We could have more than ten minutes. We could have a week. Because, we don't know. It doesn't have to be tonight." :(

    • @darkpearl88
      @darkpearl88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Exactly. It doesn't make sense. She wasn't in pain and she was still able to function. Why rush???

    • @herman3376
      @herman3376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      @@darkpearl88 you dont know that

    • @17MrLeon
      @17MrLeon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@darkpearl88 Because saying goodbye today is going to be as hard as saying it weeks away. But eventually, the pain would come.

    • @namenullvoid
      @namenullvoid 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@darkpearl88 yes it really doesn't make enough sense to me either although one hint was her extreme sensitivity to his touching to indicate her whole body was in general pain. Lips, back, hair head etc But, we must acknowledge the complexities of cancer cannot be fully understood or portrayed truly either really.

    • @Chunstka
      @Chunstka 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@17MrLeon But pain is a part of life. And there are ideas that the pain we get to experience in this life alleviates pain in the next. Much better to experience it here than there.

  • @MsDarkLightening
    @MsDarkLightening 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    As soon as she started apologising, I just broke down in tears 😖

  • @JustinLHopkins
    @JustinLHopkins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +482

    Omeleto is a gift to humanity in these troubled times. The stories are absolutely incredible.

    • @nikhilsingal824
      @nikhilsingal824 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes absolutely right bro... And you know what i used to watch these sad short stories whenever I get tired of studies in my library in a peaceful environment.its so beautiful to watch this Love from India

  • @notyourdamnbusiness5974
    @notyourdamnbusiness5974 4 ปีที่แล้ว +789

    Ooooffffff, that were way too many feelings for 30 minutes. I think I need a coffee and a cigarette now..

    • @pocaluneksmierci
      @pocaluneksmierci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Not your damn business I just realised it was over half hour long. It felt like ten minutes.

    • @strawberrypez2938
      @strawberrypez2938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Amen

    • @zirak93-2
      @zirak93-2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Smoking is bad for ya, pal. Try to quit. :)

    • @danpaulin6859
      @danpaulin6859 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Legit

    • @elizabethlightfoot649
      @elizabethlightfoot649 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I don't enjoy either of those things but honestly that's how I'm feeling right now

  • @wendyw9685
    @wendyw9685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    I was convinced I was watching a cute film and thought the twist was going to be like covering up a murder, but was completely thrown off by the ending. By the end I thought maybe she had clinical depression or a mental illness of sorts, also a lot of people suggested that she might’ve had an incurable physical illness (hinted at the coughing near the end, but I thought that was the drug taking effect idk). Either way it was an extremely moving film, I deadass had to rewind a few times to try and listen if she ever replied with “I love you” again. The actors were so good my god, I really felt as if I was watching a genuine collection of happy memories in the making and her reactions to finding the surprises were so sweet. Probably one of my favourite films on Omeleto now, my dad had to ask if I was okay from my sobbing lol.

    • @wendyw9685
      @wendyw9685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      looking back, the part where she mentions her hair extensions might actually be more important than I thought. It might hint at hair loss, which could imply cancer (chemo?), or again depression.

    • @sadie_bear
      @sadie_bear 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yeah I don’t think they do assisted suicide for psychological illnesses.

    • @nabeel9187
      @nabeel9187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought they were going to get a divorce and then the nurse guy mentioned assisted suicide.

    • @monkiram
      @monkiram 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      As far as I know, there is nowhere in the world where it is legal to have assisted suicide for a psychiatric illness. It is only offered for incurable illnesses that will inevitably end in death. The person will die anyway, so you just do it a little earlier so that you can avoid the deterioration phase. She seemed extremely healthy though, so I would think somebody would choose to do this later on in the course of their illness when they start suffering, not when they're still healthy and able like the girl in the movie.

    • @wendyw9685
      @wendyw9685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@monkiram aahh is that so? I didn't know, I might've misunderstood the concept of assisted suicide when I was younger and never looked into it enough afterwards. Thank you for clarifying :)

  • @thomasagelidakis2062
    @thomasagelidakis2062 2 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I'm 18 years old right now and I don't remember a film in my life where I cried. This was the first time and I really couldn't hold my tears back. I experienced something similar in my few years alive so it emotionally catched me at the end. Brilliant job done here for the way it was portrayed. Thank you.

    • @imashadow699
      @imashadow699 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe Try Anime?
      I Know Some That Won't Disappoint You With The Tears

  • @ljs08240
    @ljs08240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    I wonder if anyone caught “Room 143” maybe the husband planned that too. This was such a beautiful film

    • @MsChantae
      @MsChantae 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ohhhhh niceee

    • @wynnraleighsimmons
      @wynnraleighsimmons 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Hi, please explain that to me

    • @nicolemariemusic
      @nicolemariemusic 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@wynnraleighsimmons it means I love you

    • @wynnraleighsimmons
      @wynnraleighsimmons 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@nicolemariemusic Nicole loves me or 143 translates to I love you

    • @amilaano1
      @amilaano1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@nicolemariemusic How's that?

  • @saint9958
    @saint9958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    I really relate to this film a lot. Last year i had attempted suicide. I was of course admitted to the hospital. 2 weeks after that, i met an amazing person that basically transformed my life. We were both on vacation and i remembered crying, balling my eyes out in the hotel room bathtub. i realized if i had successfully attempted it, i wouldn't experienced nor had felt genuine love. We wouldn't be traveling together and have a good time. Thank you Omeleto as always for giving us great and unexpected content ♥

    • @anoushkasingh9074
      @anoushkasingh9074 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      So happy that you’re doing better now!

    • @bekind8302
      @bekind8302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I am so happy for you
      You made it!🙏🙏❤

    • @zak1992j
      @zak1992j 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I can’t tell you how happy i am that you’re still here and found the love of your life at the same time.. wish you the best my dear.🙏🏻🤍

    • @jessiconstant8912
      @jessiconstant8912 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      J

    • @roxanarosado8706
      @roxanarosado8706 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish you a very happy life together

  • @carlycharlesworth1497
    @carlycharlesworth1497 4 ปีที่แล้ว +264

    This has to be the most tender and painful to experience film I have ever seen. My heart ached so deeply for them both but most assuredly for the young woman. As I watched her drink down the drug that would kill her, I was quietly crying my eyes out. This short film had such a deep level of realism that I felt the truth of it, if that makes any sense. It packed a mighty punch to the emotions. 10/10 for realism and effect. I'm still crying now and the film finished 10 minutes ago. Well done.

    • @cadavher
      @cadavher 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Check out "how to die in oregon"

    • @snakesa1
      @snakesa1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why she kill herself

    • @cadavher
      @cadavher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@snakesa1 because she was sick and usually dying from certain diseases or cancers are extreemly slow and painful. This way the person has control over their death, and can pass peacefully at their own choosing with loved ones by their side.

    • @savage22bolt32
      @savage22bolt32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@snakesa1 we have to assume she had a terminal illness. Maybe a form of cancer that would lead to a more difficult death. We have to decide for ourselves if her decision was ok.

    • @jennag4541
      @jennag4541 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes maam well said!! This film was beautiful 💛

  • @HennessyNoDash
    @HennessyNoDash 3 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    Just watched this now and my heart is BREAKING, my throat is clogged up with air and I really cannot stop crying. This has to be the most beautiful thing I've watched.

  • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
    @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +407

    The fact that the drug literally takes between 5 to 10 minutes to have an effect... It's such a short time.
    That rap song though honestly was unexpected and very funny.

    • @monkiram
      @monkiram 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I couldn't even laugh at that point... I couldn't find anything funny after realizing what they were all about to do. I'm still trying to get over it

    • @markd8508
      @markd8508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I was wondering why they don't use secobarbital for executions. Seems like a pretty painless death,

    • @Dreary_heron
      @Dreary_heron 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Comic relief for the win

    • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
      @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Dreary_heron Yes, we needed that in such a heavy, sad moment :'(

    • @myheartwillstopinjoy8142
      @myheartwillstopinjoy8142 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@markd8508 I don't know much about it, but it's true that it's weird they'd give her a painful and slow death like that (I mean it may seem like a short time for the living, but for the person who's agonizing, it's a pretty long time)

  • @jimfischer63
    @jimfischer63 3 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    It's two o'clock in the morning, I just finished watching this, and I can't stop crying. It has left me feeling so utterly alone.

    • @wallykramer7566
      @wallykramer7566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hopefully you have a loved one you wrapped your arms around...

    • @malliawatson8028
      @malliawatson8028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      *air hug* 🫂☹️

    • @trishaagz
      @trishaagz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same here

    • @ashishkumarsharma1323
      @ashishkumarsharma1323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hey human, you are amazing!

    • @jmurdock8303
      @jmurdock8303 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MakamuShihachi
    @MakamuShihachi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    The nurse! What a tough job. To watch a family go through this. 😭😭

    • @david203
      @david203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would feel honored to do this job, relieving a family of the impact of inevitable pain and suffering. I live for helping people.

  • @tomcoryell
    @tomcoryell ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I last saw my sister in a Hilton Garden Inn before she died from cancer two weeks ago. This was so very well written and acted. Bravo to Ginger and all involved. This was so real.

  • @SevenTailedWolf72
    @SevenTailedWolf72 4 ปีที่แล้ว +244

    The acting was beautiful. He played in the Netflix series Raising Dion. I cried at the end...he will find her she will be waiting for him. But she won’t be a ghost...she will be flesh and blood as beautiful as the day she passed. She won’t be sick, but healthy and strong. Right here on earth...a paradise earth.

    • @dadrago2789
      @dadrago2789 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spoililert

    • @dadrago2789
      @dadrago2789 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      What’s the movie called

    • @flawlesswhoreless7691
      @flawlesswhoreless7691 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      🙏🏻👌🏻

    • @mairedaly4548
      @mairedaly4548 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh I was wondering where I'd seen him before! Gosh he was terrific in that too.

    • @littlemonsterpants
      @littlemonsterpants 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Look at him again......John Ritter's son!
      Now that you know you'll wonder how you didn't see it right away, check the credits.
      Both actors in this are amazing & the fact the gal wrote, produced, acted in it & wrote the song is beyond impressive!🤓

  • @qaleague7940
    @qaleague7940 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I sobbed. Jesus, this is such a powerful film. The fact that the nurse arrives so early should illustrate how heart wrenching the rest would be.

  • @fredichini3
    @fredichini3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    This is so powerful to me. I've never had to experience anything remotely as heartbreaking but from the small heartbreaks I've had, I can only imagine the amount of pain and sadness both characters, the girl and the guy, are going through. This brings me to tears because my biggest fear is losing someone for good. And having to respect their wishes to want to die early before the disease kills them is one of the hardest things anyone can do. It shows real love and support. To not be selfish and keep them in their suffering, but to rather live on while their soul is at rest without you.... That breaks my heart... This was very well made. Thank you.

    • @monkiram
      @monkiram 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's my biggest fear too. Sometimes I feel like that fear is always there in the background of everything I do and I just have to distract myself to forget it will happen someday. I pray that I will die first so I never have to experience that.

  • @MrThemarcusman
    @MrThemarcusman ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I’ve been binge watching Omeleto videos by most popular but for some reason I chose not to watch this one when I came across it, thinking I wouldn’t have enjoyed it. Watching through it now I was trying to think of what horror or sci-fi twist it might have and was more horrified when I figured out it was such a realistic concept. Well done Ginger and crew, I needed that cry.

  • @Sp0oky_princess
    @Sp0oky_princess 4 ปีที่แล้ว +460

    I'm bawling my damn eyes out at 4am while my boyfriend and puppy are sleeping next to me. I just kissed my boyfriend on the forehead and cuddled up to him. He means everything to me and I can't imagine if we were in this situation. (I mean we will one day everyone dies but not something like this) Omg. This was such a great production. It was beautiful acting, I felt their heartbreak and sadness and their love. Really makes you think. Remember to always show your loved ones how much you care for them and how much you love them as much as you can.

    • @sumanachoudhury5158
      @sumanachoudhury5158 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I cried a lot and told my bf about this film but he disagreed to watch it after seeing my disappointment and heartbreak.

    • @MzClementine
      @MzClementine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      This hits all too close to home for me. I'm bawling my eyes out too. My husband is so afraid of losing me. And I just hope I make it another 2 years. I need a specific vascular surgeon so bad. There's three that can handle my case. Life is what happens when we are making plans. And I always promised him I will haunt him. I can't quit crying. I got a new dog. She's a pit lab. Every time I cry out she goes crazy and gives me kisses and is really trying to call me down. It's the most precious thing in the world. She's 8 months old, and she's huge. Everyone that lays eyes on her says oh my God she's huge. She's like a linebacker. 🤣😅😂😭😭😭😭😭
      My husband and I have been together 21 years he's so good to me.

    • @RaghavNagpal1
      @RaghavNagpal1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MzClementine 😭

    • @lightningbolt4419
      @lightningbolt4419 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sumanachoudhury5158 Clearly he is a sigma male with no time for female emotional instability.

    • @RD24LFG
      @RD24LFG ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@MzClementineso..you alive?

  • @MeSillyWoohoo
    @MeSillyWoohoo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Her upset at there being 15 more minutes hurt my heart so bad. She wanted her 15 minutes. 😭😭 That's when I started sobbing because I knew

  • @sherriviz1055
    @sherriviz1055 4 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    Now I know why he seemed so familiar. He is John Ritters son. I totally see it. I used to love threes company. Okay but back to the movie. Great performances by both. Heart breaking. My eyes welled up. Very good story. Thank you.

    • @mjproebstle
      @mjproebstle 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      wow, i’ve not seen him in anything, but i kept saying the same thing, he looks familiar. it brings back memories of his dads death, which was so sudden and sad. after a long break from the spotlight so to speak, he had just started a sitcom that was doing pretty well. we should all be so lucky to go quickly, near loved ones, doing something that we love. based on this, his son has a promising career ahead of him i think

    • @kellykerr5225
      @kellykerr5225 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sherri Viz I was wondering that too. He seemed like a pretty good actor too. I don’t usually like romance, but this was touching.

    • @cahidijoyoraharjo7833
      @cahidijoyoraharjo7833 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I saw him in "Freddy vs. Jason". He doesn't age! Still looks the same!

    • @kierariddle6430
      @kierariddle6430 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      mjproebstle he’s in the Netflix show raising dion !

    • @ribsybrown510
      @ribsybrown510 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      As soon as I saw the name, I thought John Ritter Three's Company. Classic clean sitcom.

  • @DtownCapo
    @DtownCapo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I repeatedly got chills from different scenes in this short. But nothing compared to the comment section. Everyone putting this film into their own perspective was chilling

  • @yiqingwang967
    @yiqingwang967 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    How could one heal after losing such profound love? The girl is really lucky to have her loved one holding her, wearing lovers’ pajamas, and singing for her at the end of life...

  • @onmyway7970
    @onmyway7970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This movie was so painful. But at the same I’m so glad their love because it’s everything we need. You can notice how much this man supports and loves this woman, its so selfless.
    Thank you.

  • @viderequi6695
    @viderequi6695 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    man, that broke my heart. i havent felt an upwelling of raw emotion like that in so long. so sweet and so sad. i love humans so much, at the end of the day, were all just walking eachother home.

  • @masonedmusic
    @masonedmusic 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    I need to stare at the ceiling for a moment and calm down because goddamn I haven't cried like that in a while

    • @malliawatson8028
      @malliawatson8028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same, I had no idea what to expect, hit me like a got damn plane attached to a freight train 😭😭😭☹️🥺

  • @cocovee7870
    @cocovee7870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    You guys are acting circles around some recent academy award winners. No cap.

  • @alisonn7200
    @alisonn7200 4 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    This was beautifully and skillfully written, acted and directed. I was in tears the entire way through. It made me think of an ex, who took his own life and of all those moments, which have now become so significant. As it says in the description, "time is all we have".

    • @gladiusbladeofthenorth9939
      @gladiusbladeofthenorth9939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Im.....sorry,hes in a better place now,and I hope you're doing better.... I don't know if these words mean something,but I truly wish you the best...

  • @bluedamsel1185
    @bluedamsel1185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    In the beginning I thought they were celebrating their wedding anniversary in a unique and personal way; as the story slowly unfurled and she began to panic about it getting dark and counting the time left, maybe she had a mental health condition....until she removed a hairpiece from the weave and I thought, oh. The build up was done magnificently, only that I wish I could have watched it without the urge of bursting into tears.

  • @mzero7487
    @mzero7487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I wish they finished the game and delayed it a few more hours. The physical pain that she was suffering is no more. This feels so real.

  • @laurarickli8444
    @laurarickli8444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    I think this was so beautifully written and done. I also find it interesting that when I go back to watch this I notice new things, like in the beginning after slipping in the bathroom the husband says “be careful you’re going to Jill yourself” and then sits there and sighs. I truly think this was well done

    • @cookiecrazycool
      @cookiecrazycool ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I knew right then she was going to die somehow

  • @mohammedalkhaldy564
    @mohammedalkhaldy564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    This made me absolutely speechless just contemplating on how he managed to hold it together while knowing the end is near .....
    May the souls of those whom decided to end their lives with dignity Rest In Peace
    🙏🏼

  • @elloguvna6820
    @elloguvna6820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    “I wanna do it today like we said”
    “Ok”
    😭😭

  • @ellatheevil
    @ellatheevil 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I watched this a couple of years ago and I think about it constantly. I can't even imagine filming this without crying.

  • @theholyvirgin9
    @theholyvirgin9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    Can't stop crying. I need to call my boyfriend now and tell him how much I love him.

  • @ShakeyScoops
    @ShakeyScoops 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I felt depressed all day today and just needed to let out some emotion but couldn’t, I tried to fall asleep but couldn’t, so around 11pm I started looking for something to make me cry and this is it, it is now 6am and I think this is what I needed. Thank you 🙏

    • @ardientetatts30
      @ardientetatts30 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      hope you're doing okay mate, I've become very desensitised due to my depression and this made me cry for the first time in ages. Made me feel blessed to have life ahead and that there are people I love. Stay strong 💪

    • @bibaolaitan5189
      @bibaolaitan5189 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I am glad i am not the only one that goes through this..

  • @TM-gu6bp
    @TM-gu6bp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I dunno why im crying like a little girl right now. Could be several reasons:
    1. Such young carefree love and them having so much fun
    2. Impeccable acting. Ginger looks stunning and strong yet still vulnerable. Jason, whom looks 95 percent his dad with simmilar inflections and mannerisms; stands far away from John Ritters shadow. Such an amazing talent.
    3. Being so well written. Feels like we get an unfair look into the end and beginning of a love that may possibly have no boundaries

  • @savedketchup5993
    @savedketchup5993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I have never once cried at the death of a human in a film but damn this hit me hard

  • @Top4o100
    @Top4o100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    I thought she might be an inmate, and had a day off to spend with her husband. I know that sometimes in prison inmates get free time like day or two, i don't know how it works when you have to go back, did they pick you up or you have to return alone but this is what i thought its gonna be. Death by dignity was a harsh surprise :(

    • @540fastlife2
      @540fastlife2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      I think her cough was meant to be a sign of terminal illness . Probably lung cancer

    • @LilAquaticVision
      @LilAquaticVision 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They have an ankle monitor that keeps track of them, so even if you don't show back up, or you try to run away, they can still track you down

    • @aidanwengel9488
      @aidanwengel9488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought this as well

    • @MS-ez8sm
      @MS-ez8sm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought that too until she talked about her weave and then I thought she may be sick and dying soon.

    • @sarahmccann6615
      @sarahmccann6615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      First I thought it was a boyfriend getting ready to propose (and her getting the courage up for a breakup) I then thought she was spending her last moments with her husband before it was time for her to check herself in to prison. I literally thought she had an 8 o'clock pickup for prison. So imagine my surprise that it was something so drastically different. The awkwardness was genuine because how else could you react to the situation? Trying to pretend it's OK for the last few hours, and knowing why you're really there. Such beautiful acting

  • @tomadera707
    @tomadera707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    The 'uy! you have cake' from the filipino maid is so very filipino lol

    • @zaupineppo927
      @zaupineppo927 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Everyone else is talking about the main casts,and here you are commenting about that cleaning lady. Must be a pinoy yourself,that snobbish pinoy pride as usual;I suppose.

    • @leixx_17
      @leixx_17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Ikr!? I’m Filipina and i knew she’s filipina the moment she spoke, it’s so awesome

    • @saint9958
      @saint9958 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      yuusss same her accent i straight away know she's pinoy hehe

    • @evangelinearizobal9713
      @evangelinearizobal9713 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I noticed that too...

    • @erperejildo
      @erperejildo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's Spanish in fact

  • @Nabooru
    @Nabooru 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Anyone who has ever lost a loved one, who has ever had that last conversation... THis hits home so hard.

  • @Takedownman
    @Takedownman 3 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    This is a sad story, but one that happens more than people think. It would have just been nice to know what was going on with her. I believe in dwd, but have no idea how I could keep my composure with the person I love knowing it was coming to an end.

    • @bxlly4817
      @bxlly4817 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What does dwd mean

    • @roshandevadiga783
      @roshandevadiga783 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      death with dignity, i suppose

    • @MzClementine
      @MzClementine 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I'm walking a fine line of life and death. I believe in DWD as well. But I don't have the balls to ever do that. I have more bad days than good days. My husband notices them. He's so afraid of me leaving this earthly plane. This made me cry so hard. We see each other I believe every 4 to 6 months. He's in trucking he works so hard for us.
      And he spoils me rotten. I love him so much. The pain I endure is my burdened bare. I carry it proudly & lovingly as well.
      I have ehlers-danlos hypermobile and vascular type. I had lithotripsy. It did a terrible thing to me. I have three occlusions in me ticking time bombs. It's off of my iliac vein the one that runs your heart. If anyone has ehlers-danlos I suggest they stay away from lithotripsy. To look at me you would think there's nothing wrong. Yet there is. Stents fall out cause more damage. There are three states that can handle my condition or I should say doctors in three states. Right now we're not in the position to just pick up and move for my surgery. We have a son five dogs. You know a life. I truly believe in manifestation. And wherever your will is there's your way. I hope I can make it.
      In vascular ehlers-danlos we normally don't make it past 40. My birthday is in a few weeks. I'll be 44. I hope I make it to my 50th birthday. Life is what happens when we are making plans.
      And I will endure what I have to endure. For the Love of my son and my husband and my animals. We're almost there. My son will be graduating soon. Soon he will be driving. We'll work so hard to get him to this point. He's advanced he has an incredible mind.
      If my husband were to come home, how would we survive. You know what's going on with the country in the work and how it is. And he knows this as well. So day by day I count them down. Prayerfully I'll make it. My fingers are crossed my prayers are said. The rest is up to the universe I hope it aligns exactly when I need it.
      Adding in. Oh my God my husband and I talk about that. Only because my mother always said she would haunt me. And the day that she died she actually called our home twice. Incredible experience. Blew his mind and I laughed and said see I'm telling you we just change in form. Don't worry I will haunt you if I die.

    • @samjohnson4883
      @samjohnson4883 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@MzClementine
      Sadly 5 years ago I watched the love of my life take her last breath, it was the worst pain ever, but I so glad she would never suffer again.
      I do not know anything about your illness, but I hope you are not in pain. All I can say is try to make the most of every day, I know how your husband feels being away, I was a truck driver too until I gave up work to care for her. There is nothing I can say but God bless you and give you peace, and to your family strength

    • @bjhorselover2016
      @bjhorselover2016 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She was talking about her weave, maybe cancer?

  • @kronicwolf9944
    @kronicwolf9944 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I dont normally comment..ever..
    But I'm so taken aback and felt so much in 30 minutes.. I also learned about the reality of "assisted suicide" and that it exists from this short film... I was confused at first.. Then speechless and crying. even had a moment of laughter with the song..
    So sad yet so much more at the same time. Truly captivating.

  • @swathics4930
    @swathics4930 4 ปีที่แล้ว +472

    This is really painful, but I think definitely more dignified than disintegrating in a hospital. It should be an option for everyone

    • @sharonwolfe5210
      @sharonwolfe5210 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Mary Jane Wolfe
      September 11, 2001
      Long may you run...

    • @ezeltjeswag574
      @ezeltjeswag574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@sharonwolfe5210 no one asked

    • @shivamjaiswal7154
      @shivamjaiswal7154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@ezeltjeswag574 no need to be rude here

    • @ezeltjeswag574
      @ezeltjeswag574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@shivamjaiswal7154 no one asked.

    • @marcotramontana8206
      @marcotramontana8206 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      sure was painful...............................................to watch!

  • @jeanproctor3663
    @jeanproctor3663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    This is so wonderfully done, so many emotions in that half an hour. It really should have a load of awards behind it for absolutely everything a film can get an award for. I kind of wish I hadn't watched it (and I'm guessing that a lot of other people feel the same), but it was impossible to tear myself away when I realised what was happening. And I cried. I cried so much. It really was impossible not to.