Wish there was more people venting their feelings...it is so comforting to know that other people have struggles too since I always believe I am less than others
Giiirl your words describe exactly what I wanted to say , especially the "i feel like i need more hours in my day" part and the "ik you can do better " part i had the exact same experience in my last college project 🤦🏻♀️. - i hope things get better for all of us and that any one reading this finds his peace and stability again , luv you
Good video, good on you for setting your boundaries, you can't make everyone happy so it's good that you are least able to set boundaries where they are needed. Keep on staying confident and beautiful 😆
its not correct to sue people and not tell them as if that werent it, they frane the creature for egotistic refurbishing he was gud and now he is still gud ty ❤🫶
We should never have to feel guilty being honest about our struggles. I believe in you and I know you believe in others and I completely feel and understand where your head is at. The stress of our lives makes us need to connect and it’s lucky when we have places to do that. Everyone deserves that and finding and giving those spaces is vital between us. Whatever we deal with, we should be able to openly share, collaborate and respond around whatever is giving us difficulty or stress as well as ask for and give input. Even when that doesn’t solve the problem, sometimes it’s a start to getting us down the path we’re trying to find. Sometimes, being overwhelmed doesn’t have an easy response, but one thing none of us should ever have to be is alone. Whatever stresses any of us are dealing with, none of us should ever have to be afraid or feel we don’t have others to help carry some of the weight. I think you can tell your teacher the truth. That you have alot of responsibilities and stresses and it’s been difficult to prioritize while you have been overwhelmed and that the way he talked to you wasn’t constructive or helpful. It is possible they should think more about empathizing, understanding, connecting and communicating with their students in ways that help them to perform better. Building and functioning positively in any relationship has to be a conversation that goes both ways and unconstructive criticism and blame might not get us anywhere. I don’t get alot of advice, but someone told me recently that I should never apologize. I didn’t totally agree, but I knew why they said it and alot of what makes us feel like we’re not good enough and that we have to apologize for can restrict us and make us anxious and keep us from performing. No one is helping us get where we need to go, but just telling us it’s the wrong way. You don’t deserve to feel that way and as we grow it’s not how we should be made to feel. You know you’re truth and you can speak it and be it and if people don’t add something constructive to that it’s probably not helping. One thing good journalists do is to tell the truth and not get pulled into conflict. A good teacher does the same and should help the student find their way. Either way, I’m sorry for what you’re going through, girl. I totally just want to give you a hug. I think you need it. Go find someone to hug if you can. It’s all going to be okay. Remember that standing up for your truth never has to be a conflict and you should never feel bad about it. Our words are supposed to help us meet in the middle and build and you are doing that. Remember that wherever you choose to go and put your energy, you are doing an amazing job. Whatever you do it will be fantastic and beautiful and you will not just succeed, you will excel. And however you come to this channel, it should look and feel how you want it to. This is your space. Come as you are. You are wonderful. Have a wonderful evening.
I was so overwhelmed today with school, my family and just my social anxiety in general. Everything you said I related to almost immediately. You make such a difference and you made me feel heard. I really can’t thank you enough ❤️✨💫
Girl I totally feel you!!! There's so much going on in my life, I don't even know how to cope with all this... thank you so much for the video!!! It was amazing!!!
You have become my favorite asmrist. You make exactly the kind of videos I like- real and honest ones. Thanks for being transparent about your experiences… I know it will help a lot of people. As someone who’s had an anxiety disorder and has been through college already, I’ve been where you are and I know how much it sucks in the moment, but one thing that always helped me was to put school in the grand scheme of my existence as a human. You have much more to yourself . So take care of yourself and the rest will follow as it sounds like you are ❤️
fem, i just want you to know that you are so loved and appreciated for everything you are and everything you do, and we as ASMR consumers are all 100% sure that you've changed the community more than you'll ever know (in the best ways possible ofc). please stay strong, we're here for you just like you're here for us 💕
you play hockey?? wow that's awesome lol never even skated in ice before. you definitely put in enough effort btw. treat yourselffffff. take a step back and relax at times so you can take a look at everything and look at it with fresh eyes. your instructor could've told you how to do better not just told you that you could do better. he could do better in being more specific. you said you have been in school since like 2 years old, be careful and watch out for yourself. you're not lazy lol don't just listen to people forcing you to be a certain way. make your own way. my tip is get a nice pair of headphones and start listening to music that makes you feel good lol i did that earlier today and was vibing. haven't vibed like that in a while. it's a good way to get away from current life stress and remember what really amplifies your life ⚡️⚡️
you have zero obligation to us btw. don't ever make these videos feel like work if it feels like work we don't waaaaaant it haha take all the make up off if you want put it alllll on if you want. feel comfortable when you come here please (: (: don't even show your face if you don't want. there's so much asmr where the creators don't even show their faces up close. so much to talk about lol you'll be good just don't make this stressful the people who like your content the most i promise you don't care about your appearance ♥️
I play field hockey, actually! I always forget there's a difference hahah. I listened to some music and it definitely made me feel better :)) Thank you for your words of encouragement, I really appreciate it
I can relate. I know how it feels! It's painful and stuff but I'm here for u!! :D I'm new to your channel so I'm sorry for not really knowing you and I'm so sorry if one of my word is triggering you! xoxo
fem yes we all have our own struggles there are definitely not enough hrs in the day sometimes I go to work and get everything done but then this week I couldn't get everything done it was time to leave, wow this teacher sounds like he's a bigshot tell him your internet boyfriend doesn't like people talking to you like that (I'll beat him up 😂) yea I don't know exactly how you feel but my mom did she passed in 2000 she stressed herself out which led to panic attacks which led to her getting cancer she was 43 yrs old. you didn't have to post this there's plenty of other asmrtist's so if you ever need a break feel free to take one yes I don't care that you don't have makeup on right now I do care that you're sweater should be green not red...matt: yea shutup...see didn't that make you feel better!!
No one cares more about your problems than you. Take care of yourself first regardless of what others may or may not think. Most people have no idea of your struggles.
Wish there was more people venting their feelings...it is so comforting to know that other people have struggles too since I always believe I am less than others
sending love ❤️
Giiirl your words describe exactly what I wanted to say , especially the "i feel like i need more hours in my day" part and the "ik you can do better " part i had the exact same experience in my last college project 🤦🏻♀️.
- i hope things get better for all of us and that any one reading this finds his peace and stability again , luv you
Good video, good on you for setting your boundaries, you can't make everyone happy so it's good that you are least able to set boundaries where they are needed. Keep on staying confident and beautiful 😆
its not correct to sue people and not tell them
as if that werent it, they frane the creature for egotistic refurbishing
he was gud and now he is still gud
ty ❤🫶
I've been feeling really stressed and overwhelmed lately, because of school and your videos have helped me a lot and I'm so glad that you exist
I’m glad u exist too 💗💗
@@femkegls omg I love you so much!💕💕💕
Girl I agree completely I feel the same way rn and I’m so sorry you’re going through that. You’re not alone!🤎
We should never have to feel guilty being honest about our struggles. I believe in you and I know you believe in others and I completely feel and understand where your head is at. The stress of our lives makes us need to connect and it’s lucky when we have places to do that. Everyone deserves that and finding and giving those spaces is vital between us. Whatever we deal with, we should be able to openly share, collaborate and respond around whatever is giving us difficulty or stress as well as ask for and give input. Even when that doesn’t solve the problem, sometimes it’s a start to getting us down the path we’re trying to find. Sometimes, being overwhelmed doesn’t have an easy response, but one thing none of us should ever have to be is alone. Whatever stresses any of us are dealing with, none of us should ever have to be afraid or feel we don’t have others to help carry some of the weight.
I think you can tell your teacher the truth. That you have alot of responsibilities and stresses and it’s been difficult to prioritize while you have been overwhelmed and that the way he talked to you wasn’t constructive or helpful. It is possible they should think more about empathizing, understanding, connecting and communicating with their students in ways that help them to perform better. Building and functioning positively in any relationship has to be a conversation that goes both ways and unconstructive criticism and blame might not get us anywhere.
I don’t get alot of advice, but someone told me recently that I should never apologize. I didn’t totally agree, but I knew why they said it and alot of what makes us feel like we’re not good enough and that we have to apologize for can restrict us and make us anxious and keep us from performing. No one is helping us get where we need to go, but just telling us it’s the wrong way. You don’t deserve to feel that way and as we grow it’s not how we should be made to feel. You know you’re truth and you can speak it and be it and if people don’t add something constructive to that it’s probably not helping. One thing good journalists do is to tell the truth and not get pulled into conflict. A good teacher does the same and should help the student find their way.
Either way, I’m sorry for what you’re going through, girl. I totally just want to give you a hug. I think you need it. Go find someone to hug if you can. It’s all going to be okay. Remember that standing up for your truth never has to be a conflict and you should never feel bad about it. Our words are supposed to help us meet in the middle and build and you are doing that. Remember that wherever you choose to go and put your energy, you are doing an amazing job. Whatever you do it will be fantastic and beautiful and you will not just succeed, you will excel. And however you come to this channel, it should look and feel how you want it to. This is your space. Come as you are. You are wonderful. Have a wonderful evening.
Thank you for your kind words and your advice. It means a lot to me. I appreciate it more than you know. I'm sending u a virtual hug back
@@femkegls oh, that’s really sweet, thankyou. Jeez, that was a long comment. Sorry, I get wordy.
I was so overwhelmed today with school, my family and just my social anxiety in general. Everything you said I related to almost immediately. You make such a difference and you made me feel heard. I really can’t thank you enough ❤️✨💫
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Girl I totally feel you!!! There's so much going on in my life, I don't even know how to cope with all this... thank you so much for the video!!! It was amazing!!!
You have become my favorite asmrist. You make exactly the kind of videos I like- real and honest ones. Thanks for being transparent about your experiences… I know it will help a lot of people. As someone who’s had an anxiety disorder and has been through college already, I’ve been where you are and I know how much it sucks in the moment, but one thing that always helped me was to put school in the grand scheme of my existence as a human. You have much more to yourself . So take care of yourself and the rest will follow as it sounds like you are ❤️
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Je bent inderdaad niet de enige, maar het komt allemaal goed.
Keep up the good work, u got this
fem, i just want you to know that you are so loved and appreciated for everything you are and everything you do, and we as ASMR consumers are all 100% sure that you've changed the community more than you'll ever know (in the best ways possible ofc). please stay strong, we're here for you just like you're here for us 💕
Thank u 💕 I appreciate it so much
please make more omg i love this so much
This is insane how I have to search these things up because I can’t find anyone to listen to me
you play hockey?? wow that's awesome lol never even skated in ice before. you definitely put in enough effort btw. treat yourselffffff. take a step back and relax at times so you can take a look at everything and look at it with fresh eyes. your instructor could've told you how to do better not just told you that you could do better. he could do better in being more specific. you said you have been in school since like 2 years old, be careful and watch out for yourself. you're not lazy lol don't just listen to people forcing you to be a certain way. make your own way.
my tip is get a nice pair of headphones and start listening to music that makes you feel good lol i did that earlier today and was vibing. haven't vibed like that in a while. it's a good way to get away from current life stress and remember what really amplifies your life ⚡️⚡️
you have zero obligation to us btw. don't ever make these videos feel like work if it feels like work we don't waaaaaant it haha take all the make up off if you want put it alllll on if you want. feel comfortable when you come here please (: (: don't even show your face if you don't want. there's so much asmr where the creators don't even show their faces up close. so much to talk about lol you'll be good just don't make this stressful the people who like your content the most i promise you don't care about your appearance ♥️
I play field hockey, actually! I always forget there's a difference hahah. I listened to some music and it definitely made me feel better :)) Thank you for your words of encouragement, I really appreciate it
I can relate. I know how it feels! It's painful and stuff but I'm here for u!! :D I'm new to your channel so I'm sorry for not really knowing you and I'm so sorry if one of my word is triggering you! xoxo
I am really sorry
fem yes we all have our own struggles there are definitely not enough hrs in the day sometimes I go to work and get everything done but then this week I couldn't get everything done it was time to leave, wow this teacher sounds like he's a bigshot tell him your internet boyfriend doesn't like people talking to you like that (I'll beat him up 😂) yea I don't know exactly how you feel but my mom did she passed in 2000 she stressed herself out which led to panic attacks which led to her getting cancer she was 43 yrs old. you didn't have to post this there's plenty of other asmrtist's so if you ever need a break feel free to take one yes I don't care that you don't have makeup on right now I do care that you're sweater should be green not red...matt: yea shutup...see didn't that make you feel better!!
Could you please do a body positive affirmations video🥺
GREAT VIDEO!!!
No one cares more about your problems than you. Take care of yourself first regardless of what others may or may not think. Most people have no idea of your struggles.
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hi!! please post more :))
stay okay femlem.....😊
Had a shit day so thanks for this😂
I'm here for you 💕💕
A): I could not have noticed that you weren’t wearing any make-up, and b): these are your best kind of videos, because you get more sensitive.
Sus she vented
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A): I could not have noticed that you weren’t wearing any make-up, and b): these are your best kind of videos, because you get more sensitive.