I Abandoned Everyone During a Kayak Camping Trip on Georgian Bay 🇨🇦

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  • In this video I head out on a group kayak camping trip in Georgian Bay, Canada. I was looking forward to spending time with this group of guys I considered friends and having spent a lot of time outside of Canada this year, was also looking forward to being out on the water and getting out on a camping trip.
    The weather was incredibly windy with gusts up to 65 km per hour and a warning at the park office advising everyone to stay off the water.
    One of my rules for backcountry camping and for canoeing or kayaking is to always stay together with my group. This time I decided to abandon the group and I think I made the right decision.
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  • @CathyMartinTBW
    @CathyMartinTBW ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There is only one rule. Do what you're comfortable with. You did the right thing.

  • @danielmailhotoutdoors
    @danielmailhotoutdoors 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You made the right call. It's one of the main reasons why I prefer to be self sufficient with my own solo boat with my own gear. I can bail anytime I'm not happy with how things are going.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And one of the reasons I’ve done more solo trips than group trips, but I do like to have company with me when it’s a good fit.

  • @TOOZECRUISE
    @TOOZECRUISE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You did the right thing Jay.
    Know your limit, play within it.

  • @jtucker4201
    @jtucker4201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You made the right choice. Being uncomfortable in a kayak in heavy water with high winds is a recipe for disaster - your body tenses up and it effects your balance and paddling.
    I don't know if your swiss army knife has a toothpick or not, but if I remember correctly there is a company (firefly?) that makes ferro rods which will replace the toothpick. This way you have a firestarter if you have your knife.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes it does, and I’m going to look that up right now. Thanks!

  • @crazyhorsejohnny1974
    @crazyhorsejohnny1974 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It’s always better to be safe than sorry. Without a doubt you made the right decision. Thanks for sharing. Take care and stay safe.

  • @bernardbergeron2472
    @bernardbergeron2472 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I think you made the right decision, I don’t think you abandoned them, they abandoned you.

  • @CanoehoundAdventures
    @CanoehoundAdventures 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Good Call Jason. Never take a risk in those conditions if you are uncomfortable. Stay safe out there

  • @clifffawcett
    @clifffawcett 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    For what it’s worth I think you made a great decision. You are safe and that’s what’s most important. I would’ve done the exact same thing in that same situation. Thank you for sharing this. I know your decision whether or not to share it was difficult and I think you did the right thing because I believe feeling this will empower others to do the same if they are in a similar situation

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks and yeah, it was a tough decision and of course I edited out some of the details to not offend anyone but I like to record and share what I'm doing and in this case this was an important moment. I don't know if it will empower anyone but it at least is a conversation piece.

    • @clifffawcett
      @clifffawcett 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TrailguidePictures I could plainly see your approach (and editing) was intended to extend benefit of the doubt and kindness. I agree it’s an important discussion topic. Thank you for sharing it.

    • @grahamfisher5436
      @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Cliff .. your wonderful comment..
      is Worth EVERYTHING 👌🤗💗
      TO this 💛 bloke

    • @clifffawcett
      @clifffawcett 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks @@grahamfisher5436

    • @grahamfisher5436
      @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@clifffawcett Thanks all round..
      this guys mindset , actions ...
      is SPOT ON
      and his EMERGENCY
      P.L.A.N
      constantly reassessing changing it.
      was incredible...

  • @thebimbler7190
    @thebimbler7190 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Having been in a very similar situation in the wilds with a reckless 'leader' I empathise with your situation and admire that you stayed within your own safety boundaries not someone else's.

  • @colettedescent2456
    @colettedescent2456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Your decision to follow caution and safety was intelligent and sound; you showed the knowledge and experience of how potentially dangerous the back-country can be. Mark's flip in the water could easily have turned into hypothermia or worse. Considering you were also fighting a viral infection, continuing the trip would have added even more stress and uncertainty - no fun at all. We've assisted a young man with a serious laceration (fall on portage) as well as two canoeists ill-prepared for the cold and rain of Temagami - luckily we were well stocked with first aid supplies, hot paws and energy bars. Things can go wrong so quickly. You've got a well-stocked ditch kit (indispensable) and your wits in making a decision based on all the essential factors. We were on Lake Obabika last week and had to curtail much of our route because of winds and weather. Plans need to be adaptable. Safety comes first, always. I hope you've recovered from your virus and that everyone made it back home safely. Whereabouts were you on G.B? Philip Edward Island? Looked gorgeous!

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Colette. Yeah, things can go wrong easy and quickly. In my opinion, it's great to just be out there, so no need to push in bad conditions. The virus is gone now and was leaving on these days of the video, still not the best feeling while out there but was manageable with a bit of Tylenol. Thanks again.

  • @michaelk.4641
    @michaelk.4641 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You made the right call Jason. This was definitely an eye opener. Best of luck in your future travels.

  • @pounceonyou1958
    @pounceonyou1958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good on you for making our own decisions, and not letting someone else make them for you.

  • @loraineriddell7157
    @loraineriddell7157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Jason, you absolutely made the right decision! How many times have we read about and seen stories of adventures gone wrong which ended in having to call out emergency services or God forbid, a serious injury or fatality? And the rest of the group could learn something about going at the pace of the slowest person.
    That water and where you camped was absolutely stunning. How I wish I could do what you're doing ..... 😞. But as I said previously, I'm doing it through you. Thank you.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks Loraine.
      That's something that's often on my mind when doing these things - not becoming one of those stories we hear about.

  • @chrisschell90
    @chrisschell90 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Rumor has it Jeff is still paddling ahead/away from the group to this day:)
    Edit: this is one of the most honest yt outdoors video I've yet seen

  • @dannyroberts5056
    @dannyroberts5056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jason I'm 100 o/o supportive of your decision. Speaking from experience sometimes we experienced paddlers forget we all start at the beginning . I made a decision once while doing an afternoon paddle. I had my four year old daughter with me on a lake I had paddled many times. The wind had been blowing all day 25 plus miles an hour. It had finally stopped blowing and I couldn't wait to get on the water. I had just finished putting a fresh coat of varnish on my cedar strip kayak two days earlier. In the process of loading my gear my daughter wouldn't stop bugging me to go. So I finally gave in. In my rush to get to the lake I left half of my gear at home.
    The trip started well enough with about a two mile an hour wind. I put my daughters and my life vest on then started loading the boat. That's when I realized I had left the airbag at home, the cushion she sits on, dry close and a towel. At that age I put my daughter in the back storage compartment with the airbag behind her as a back rest. She sat on a close cell foam cushion and she loved it.
    The trip out went great no issues at all. We talked, sang and I laughed as she talked to the fish making bubble sounds. We had paddled for about forty five minutes and crossed the main channel of the lake. We stopped on the opposite shore and took a break to eat some snacks and rehydrate. While on our brake the wind picked up very quickly. My daughter started getting cold so we packed up and started paddling across the lake with the wind at our side. It felt like I was on the ocean back in Florida. At one point she said she didn't like the waves. I told her to pretend she was riding a horse. She replied but the horse ride is to wet daddy. I second later I noticed the front of my kayak was way out of the water. Then I was hit in the back by a large wave. I turned to see the back of the kayak was under the water. I calmly explained to my daughter what we were going to do. I rolled the kayak on its side and we both got out. She held onto me as I dumped the water out. I then put her in the cockpit and swam beside the kayak back to shore. She was so worried that daddy was going to drown. I told her I would be fine because I had on my PFD.
    About two minutes later two local fisher men I recognized came by and I flagged them down. They took her on their bass boat and wrapped her in a huge jacket to warm her up. I paddled the kayak across the lake without any issue . With her out of the back I didn't take on any water. She was so tiny and didn't weigh much at all. Without the airbag in the back and her weight we took on water fast. I knew the boat wouldn't sink because the front hatch lid was on and the boat is all wood. I road with the men on the bass boat back to the ramp . I loaded my daughter in the car after taking all but her undershorts off. I turned the heat on high while I was loading the boat and gear. I then stripped my close off to. We both road home like this. She talked my ear off all the way home about how scared she was that her daddy was going to drown.
    Im happy to say no I'll effects happened do to my bad decision that day. If I had gone on my own I would have been fine but I went against my instincts instead. My daughter and son both paddle to this day. Rivers and lakes are were we kayak most of the time. She is now 24 yrs old and just got married. My son is now 21 yrs old.
    You see I had almost talked myself out of going because it was still early May here in the Ozarks of Missouri. The temp that day was in the mid 70s but the water was still very cold. I got in a hurry and forgot allot of essential items I always take when I go kayaking. I had never needed any of those items until that day. I was the one who was responsible for her safety and I let my bad choices put her in danger. People tell me I'm two cautious but they have never felt the fear I felt that day. I knew I wasn't going to drown that day. What I didn't tell my daughter was how cold daddy was. I was really concerned about hypothermia. I'm glad the good Lord was looking over us that day in spite of my stupid pride.
    Don't apologize for your decision and if Jeff I believe you said his name was is a true friend he will understand.
    Thanks for sharing your trip with us.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you, and thanks for sharing your story.
      I think it's easy for us to make mistakes like these and the most important thing is that we learn from them and hopefully sharing them will help to educate others in some way.

    • @dannyroberts5056
      @dannyroberts5056 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree Jason. That's what my parents taught me. Never be ashamed of your mistakes but learn from them.

  • @colleenc5932
    @colleenc5932 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    New subscriber here. Thank you for being so honest. You did make the right decision!

  • @michaelmclaren7373
    @michaelmclaren7373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As the builder of an identical kayak, I’m glad to see that the Shearwater handed those conditions so well. On the other hand, I’m glad to see that you recognized the challenges weren’t worth the risk, chose to stay within your safety margin instead of forcing to adopt someone else’s Iron Man pace.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nice! Where do you paddle yours?

    • @michaelmclaren7373
      @michaelmclaren7373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Minnesota - so The Boundary Waters, Lake Superior (near shore), Mississippi and St. Croix Rivers and some of the area lakes. I’m a sailor and only have a few years paddling a sea kayak, so lots to learn. I have a cousin who lives on the Bruce, so a Huron trip is next.

    • @michaelmclaren7373
      @michaelmclaren7373 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      btw - I have the same paddle and noticed your extension setting and how comfortable your form was. I think I’ll try that next trip out 👍

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nice! I was living up at the south end of the peninsula for many years. I'm a bit jealous of Boundary Waters - it's an area I want to explore one day.

  • @kevinguthrie5495
    @kevinguthrie5495 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good call, beautiful place! My paddling buddies have fallen by the wayside over the decades. I'm retired, so now I watch the 10 day forecast and head out solo when the wind and rain forecast looks promising.

  • @timmaude1369
    @timmaude1369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very beautiful locations. I made a similar trip 20 years ago with a group of fellas. We braved rough waters and fortunately did not tip. I think back on how unprepared we were for a capsize/dunk. You may remember me. My wife Darcy and I stayed in the same place in Queretaro and you took our picture. We think your vids are great. Keep up the good work.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Tim, I replied earlier but for some reason it didn't save. Thanks for the kind words. I hope the two of you are doing well. I'm out in Halifax now but will be returning to Ottawa before heading back to Mexico.

  • @sherrierifenberg2199
    @sherrierifenberg2199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Been in your position…totally understand why you stuck out on your own…a beautiful area! Love Georgian Bay! Enjoy, Jason!

  • @jc.5537
    @jc.5537 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I did a solo on Phillip Edward in the beginning of sept this year and spent 4 days there, was supposed to be 5 but 1st day winds were 35kph with wind gust of 65kph. That inlet is no joke especially if you’re in a wooden canoe/kayak, one hard smash into the rocks and it could go bad. Your fellow kayakers had fibreglass and plastic kayaks so they had more confidence per say in their abilities. Also they probably didn’t bring expensive camera gear like you did let alone expensive camping gear as well, there’s paddling with camera gear and there’s paddling without and people don’t understand this concept until they’ve done it. You made a good decision just going solo at your own pace, being comfortable was the most logical thing you’ve could’ve done. Pushing to pull through can be really dangerous and paddling worrying isn’t healthy, hopefully your buddies understand and see their faults and you guys can reconcile.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks. Your comment is a big part of my reasoning for myself and that I mentioned to them. Unfortunately, they don't understand.

  • @RiverbendlongbowsOutdoors
    @RiverbendlongbowsOutdoors 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Only you can take care of yourself.
    Sounds like it's time for new friends

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yeah, unfortunately after this experience I don't know if I could trust their judgement for future trips. Not a good idea to head out into remote places with people you can't rely on.

    • @RiverbendlongbowsOutdoors
      @RiverbendlongbowsOutdoors 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrailguidePictures for sure

  • @pd-g3960
    @pd-g3960 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As many have said before you made the right decision, problem with groups of people is that there’s invariably a ‘Jeff’ amongst them! Looking forward to you next trip.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, unfortunately it's difficult to find a group that's a good fit for these types of camping trips.

  • @tommieb14257
    @tommieb14257 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wise decision, been out there, exactly, when the wind came up. Beautiful hybrid, CLC 17? THAT is why I travel solo, with a radio.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you and yes it's a CLC Shearwater 17 hybrid th-cam.com/video/O3FBamDjzn4/w-d-xo.html

  • @BrianthatiscalledBrian
    @BrianthatiscalledBrian 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your buddy is braver than I am. Third time kayaking on a windy Georgian Bay. Gotta love that area, though. Thanks, Jason. 🙂👍🛶

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks for watching! Yeah, it's a beautiful area and I was looking forward to this trip. I'd love to go back there.

    • @grahamfisher5436
      @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Great comment.
      however I'd use the word
      "Stupider" .. than ..
      👍💛🤗💗

  • @ihikefar
    @ihikefar 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yeah, I’m with you on this one. Good call.

  • @luciadiane6682
    @luciadiane6682 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good for you for following your own lead. Jeff is probably a good guy, but wasn’t making team decisions and being a bully is just a negative vibe for a trip that was supposed to be unforgettable for positive experiences. Always better to take the high road, less traffic. Take care.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Jeff is a good guy, no question. This experience was very disappointing.
      Thank you.

    • @grahamfisher5436
      @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrailguidePictures the question is..
      what did Jeff
      LEARN to APPLY
      from this situation/ experience.. 🤗💛👍

  • @thunderboxdiaries
    @thunderboxdiaries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't think they ever take that sign down! We had the exact same experience circumnavigating Philip Edward Island last year...and we were in canoes. It was pretty choppy and we had to choose our route wisely. We ended up wind bound for a day on Big Rock Point because the swell was just too big. No one capsized though!

  • @denisesarazin6753
    @denisesarazin6753 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Although your footage in the big waves was thrilling, I was nervous just watching it. Bravo for making the right choice for you.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks 🙏
      Yeah the footage has that effect on me too.

  • @loversofthepark5668
    @loversofthepark5668 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You said it right that you should always travel at the pace of the slowest person. You made the right decision. Me and Erin hope to paddle up that way one day soon. Beauty yak

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It’s a very beautiful area, you’ll both love it I’m sure

    • @grahamfisher5436
      @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      slowest / weakest man goes first
      sets the group pace..
      if at the back .. the group will not know, notice if they fall behind, get cut off, lost.
      this happened in SAS
      BRAVO TWO ZERO. Mission.
      so yes even the BEST make mistakes.
      what important
      is
      A ... LEARN FROM THE MISTAKES
      B.. LEARN CORRECT
      METHODS
      C ..APPLY CORRECT METHOD'S
      D.. LOSE THE EGO AND "NEGATIVE" PRIDE
      E .. BE ABLE TO
      RE - GROUP
      F.. KNOW YOUR GOING TO BALLS UP AGAIN.
      G.. TAKE A TALKING TOO
      H.. BECOME A BETTER STRONGER INDIVIDUAL
      I..BECOME a BETTER STRONGER TEAM / PLAYER..
      J..KNOW THIS WILL MAKE YOU A BETTER EXPERIENCED PERSON
      K.. GET A BREW ON
      AND LAUGH ABOUT IT..
      L..BE WILLING AND ABLE TO TELL OTHERS..
      YOU F@*KED UP.
      M... KEEP ON FILLING YA GLASS WITH GOOD KNOWLEDGE.
      👍💛💗

  • @OldSoulPammy
    @OldSoulPammy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    BRAVO, Jason! You 100% made the best and safest decision. You are the bravest of the bunch, willing to move against the group. I've said before, there are no coincidences. It's very possible that someone will see your video, follow your example and make a difficult and possibly disappointing decision that ends up saving their or someone else's life. Always listen to your gut, those feelings are your Higher Self guiding you. You've come too far to just follow along when others are on the wrong track, especially if members are not considering the safety of the entire group. I admire you for what you did. Excellent video, one of my favorites 😁. ☮️❤️😎

  • @mlotschek01
    @mlotschek01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such a shame, you are 100% in the right. You always stay together and move at the slowest persons pace/comfort level. I have had issuse in the past, when people on our trips would push and push and almost look down on the slower or less experienced in the group. I don't get the rush, and I think you loose some of the tranquility and reason to be out there, in end you got an amazing site with a gorgeous view!

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, a big shame it all happened. I was looking forward to the trip for months and still something inside of me questions my decision and I think it’s mostly due to my disappointment. But at least I had a nice camp and sunset to enjoy.

    • @mlotschek01
      @mlotschek01 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TrailguidePictures well, if you ever need another camping buddy. I'm up for it 😁

    • @michaelmclaren7373
      @michaelmclaren7373 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s it right there. The journey is the destination - not where you end up. Georgian Bay is so beautiful that anywhere you stop is going to be amazing.

  • @valyd45
    @valyd45 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That looked ominous and don’t blame you in your decision. Your friend there wanted to be the alpha dog and like sheep the others followed. Good on you and I hope you are feeling much better now.

  • @kainowak
    @kainowak 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello. I frequent phillip edward island all the time. I see that you uploaded this in September 2022. That whole year was extremely windy, my friend, brother and I were out there on Canada's day and it was so windy that we couldn't take the boat out and fish. We just talked and chilled on the island with some drinks. You're okay with a north wind, however knowing the prevailing wind, its most likely always coming from the South-west. Chik/Phillip edward island is the best place, and the bay can get bad. All the times coming out of Collins Inlet and when it was wavy we would always be passing canoes. I always said either one of two things. They have balls, or they are crazy. I would recommend an app its called "Windy" I use it all the time. This video makes me miss summer. Cheers

  • @jacknobrex
    @jacknobrex 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watched both videos in this series, and seems to me you made the right call. Safety must always be the priority. Well done. 👍

  • @iamlostinaforest
    @iamlostinaforest 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Safety first! Hoping the serene sunset island time added calm and strength and the fever discontinued in time for a great 2nd day on the blue waters.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, sometimes you need to listen to your gut, especially when safety is an issue.

  • @UncleBuck327
    @UncleBuck327 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with the call. I sympathize with the guy who was pushing because I’ve been there but you were ultimately right. The poor guy dumping, the unnecessary risk from the swimmer (respect for his abilities!), the warning and gut feelings add up. Besides, you’ve already lost one great hat to a dubious decision. 😄

    • @UncleBuck327
      @UncleBuck327 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      But I also like that you mentioned that it’s important to push yourself and take risks. The point is that you’re pushing yourself and not others who have voiced rational, experienced reservations.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂 Yep, definitely didn't want to lose another hat 😀

  • @licmarthadiaz
    @licmarthadiaz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always go for common sense and safety..good Jason! Wow so beautiful Canada, Kayak never tried it, hope someday, not scared of water I am a good swimmer.. I believe in San Luis Potosi Mex some Kayak can be practiced...too..

  • @ianbracken7973
    @ianbracken7973 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The only person who you can really take responsibility for is always yourself. As many other people have already said you made the correct call.👍👍

  • @conniewaite1371
    @conniewaite1371 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    With all the traveling you have been doing,its a physical and emotional roller coaster.you are wearing yourself out.you need rest and alone time. I agree with you on this one,Jeff wasnt right

  • @iviewthetube
    @iviewthetube 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have to listen to the voice inside; it is there for a reason.

  • @neilpountney9414
    @neilpountney9414 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Knowing your own and the most inexperienced person in the groups limits is absolutely basic safety in all outdoor activities. You should always absolutely without any exception take no risks whatsoever. The group leader was irresponsible and full of bravado. Your decision was the only sensible one to do. If it costs you some friendships (I have not watched all the video so far) so be it. They are people you do not need in your life.

  • @robertplewa3877
    @robertplewa3877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Having been a wilderness guide and trip leader, the points made about pacing around the slowest paddler and taking in consideration the lowest skillsets of the group are what a good leader does. Many of the suggestions you made were solid choices for the conditions. You made the right call by listening to your apprehensions and unease with the situation. There was no plan for rescue in the event of a mishap like the one that occured. I call it the death of a thousand cuts--not one mistake could cause disaster, but a few building on each other could end up being the tragedy that makes the news that day. You sensed that and it disturbed you enough to give you a sense of foreboding. I can tell you struggled with your decision, but your self-awareness helped to pull the plug on a bad situation. I'd like to recommend a book to you "Deep Survival: Who Lives, Who Dies, and Why" by Laurence Gonzales. It's a fascinating and easy read. Spoiler: survival isn't about skills, it isn't about being overly cautious either.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks, and I'll look into that book.
      You know, I think something else that bothers me about this experience (that I don't mention in the video) is that although I don't have a lot of open water kayaking experience, there was someone with less experience than me and I feel like the people with more experience did a bad job of "teaching" or at least demonstrating how to safely do a kayak trip. It just felt very irresponsible.

    • @grahamfisher5436
      @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      weakest link of the chain ⛓
      needs the most protection.
      Fantastic comment.
      I'd feel confident to go out "there" with you in a group 😀👍💯💯💯💯💯💯💗💛

    • @grahamfisher5436
      @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Knowledge
      Knowledge
      Knowledge
      apply
      apply
      apply
      safety
      safety
      safety
      = fun
      fun
      fun

    • @grahamfisher5436
      @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrailguidePictures I had a terrible experience..
      I'm UK 🇬🇧
      went on The British Canoeing
      AWARDS COURSE.
      the COURSE LEADER
      COULDN'T KEEP THE GROUP TOGETHER.
      IT TURNED INTO AN EMERGENCY SITUATION, WHICH I TOOK CONTROL OF..
      THE COURSE LEADER ( pass/ fall power turned the rest of the group against me)
      one person on the course, could not demonstrate 2% of the Still and moving water Self/open canoe rescue .
      I had to become a safty boat for them ...
      yet the COURSE AWARD LEADER ""MJD""
      PASSED THEM
      IMAGINE MY HORROR
      TO DISCOVER THE PERSON WHOM COULDN'T DEMONSTRATE 99% OF THE COURSE, was the UK OCA southwest WELFARE OFFICER..
      I REPORTED IT DIRECTLY TO BRITISH CANOEING
      AND THEY DID ABSOLUTELY NOTHING.
      ID HAVE INSTISTED THE PERON RETAKE THE COURSE IN FRONT OF 3 QUALIFIED INSTRUCTORS..
      the course leader MJD
      told me I was using my serious mental health conditions
      PTSD
      APD
      etc AS A EXCUSE and WAS HIDING BEHIND IT
      It resulted IN me
      HAVING A MENTAL BREAKDOWN..AND RECLUSED IN MY ROOM FOR 5 MONTHS ...
      so I completely understand JASON..
      ID PADDLE WITH THIS BRILLIANT GUY.. 👏👌💯💛💗🛶🏞

  • @keithmoriyama5421
    @keithmoriyama5421 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never high pack the deck of your kayak!

  • @ecttreker9816
    @ecttreker9816 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Correct decision, regardless of who says what. Never do anything outside your personal comfort, especially on the water. Cautious is always better than dead.
    👍👍

  • @WaynesGoneWild
    @WaynesGoneWild 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good call! 👍

  • @maydacardin1215
    @maydacardin1215 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You made the right decision. BE SAFE!

  • @jackkat8825
    @jackkat8825 ปีที่แล้ว

    You did the right thing.

  • @dont_delay
    @dont_delay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very sensible . Intelligent and experienced . A true leader . Thank you for sharing your thoughts . A pity that the others didn't agree . Your way prevents tragedies

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah it was a potty, could have been a nice trip with the guys.

  • @brentkelly5445
    @brentkelly5445 ปีที่แล้ว

    you said you are not suppose to camp there? isn't that phillip edward island(crown land) so you can camp anywhere?

  • @OldBlindDougArtist
    @OldBlindDougArtist 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cool video Jason, what no hammock,? Lol

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not on this trip, I wasn’t sure how the trees would be out there and opted for my little bivy.

  • @MB_07
    @MB_07 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello. You made a wise decision staying back and not setting out on that choppy water. Better to be safe than sorry. The direction of the wind also has meaning.
    Nice little spot you found. Did you find any matches?

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks. I actually chose not to have a fire because of the wind and mosquitoes but it was a nice evening

  • @loin897
    @loin897 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm curious why Derek and the fella who dumped not stay with you?

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Well, I think in general people get caught up in ego and pride. It's not just them, but a human thing. When there's someone pressing to move forward, I think it's difficult for people to not follow along because they don't want to be seen as weak or a trouble maker, or maybe it's because they admire the person pushing?

  • @cindyk3076
    @cindyk3076 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm glad that you stuck to what you know is safe, Jeff sounds like a bully. The area is really pretty. I hope you are feeling better.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think Jeff is a good guy but I think he had tunnel vision and maybe was feeling like it was an opportunity for him to show his abilities. I don't know.

  • @shermanpatterson
    @shermanpatterson 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good call, Jason.

  • @dealman3312
    @dealman3312 ปีที่แล้ว

    Travelling alone is the best

  • @terrythomascra
    @terrythomascra 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    100% Agree!

  • @beckyhay4878
    @beckyhay4878 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm sure this was the same day we were out there. Friday of the labour day weekend? We went out in a canoe and almost lost our canoe. Just coming out of the river. We had to pull a shore to the left and spend the night there.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This was actually filmed back in July.
      Funny you said about pulling left because that's what my suggestion was leaving the parking lot. There were people in the car park who said conditions were bad and my suggestion was that we could stay in the river where it was sheltered and go take a peak. If it was bad in the open water we could stick left along the shore or just pull out and either sit until it calmed down or camp the night.

    • @beckyhay4878
      @beckyhay4878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TrailguidePictures yes it was our best option. There were 3 other couples that had to camp there as well. We were told we would be fine going out lol. Not with waves higher than the boat we weren't. It was pretty scary.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@beckyhay4878 I believe it! I've been in big waves before and I'm really not a fan of that situation. I learned and now I just won't do it. I'm more interested in seeing the landscape and having a relaxing time then fearing for my survival.

    • @beckyhay4878
      @beckyhay4878 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TrailguidePictures I agree no more big water for us lol.

  • @NickSchade
    @NickSchade 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good call. You need to know your limits and be willing to accept them.
    From the sounds of it, you are all relatively novice kayakers. A little experience can be dangerous. Previous happy experiences can lead to a false sense of competence. It can take quite a bit of experience before you know what you know and more importantly an ability to recognize what you don’t know.
    Regarding the assertion that a rescue was not possible and someone had to swim out… Rescuing a capsized sea kayaker is a pretty common and straightforward process. With a bit of training and practice an experienced paddler should be able to get a beginner kayaker back into a sea kayak within a couple minutes even out in the middle of windy bay. But, once such an situation arises, that is a clear sign that the conditions are such that the same thing could easily happen again. Plans should be adjusted accordingly.
    One of the dangers of kayaking is, its pretty easy. Easy enough that you can trapped into thinking that anyone can do it safely. It is only easy and safe until it isn’t, and then it takes a lot of experience and judgement to understand your limitation.
    Again, good call on managing your own risk. I do recommend taking some time to learn some sea kayaking safety and handling skills. I’m sure there are some folks in your area who could help you learn the skills to make a windy day like you experienced a very straight forward and fun day to be on the water. Until then, be safe.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks Nick, great advice! I agree 100% and it's always been my intention to take some courses but travelling (lately) has made it not possible. It will be something that I do, perhaps next season.

  • @zacharykuhn4066
    @zacharykuhn4066 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mark dumps and you pull the camera out? Everyone keeps talking about how you prioritize safety and yet you left him out to dry for the drama? I understand you don’t have a lot of experience but I’m pretty sure pulling footage is not more important then helping out in any way you can. By the way the video looks great from your point of view .

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not sure what you mean. I was nowhere near where Mark dumped. How do you think the video would look if I filmed the conversations in the parking lot with the two women who were sitting by the shore with their kayaks and said it was too rough out so they weren’t going out, or the fishing guide who told Mike and I not to go out because it was too rough and then gave us alternative places to go to be safe, or if I filmed the conversation with Jeff while we had a snack when I told him that we should just wait it out, or ……. Truth is, I cut a lot out of the video to try to let a couple guys save a little face. Thanks.

  • @camper69
    @camper69 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It can be difficult to make the right call when your kayak mates want to make the wrong call. That is probably the hardest part. Glad that you "stuck to your guns" and did what was right. You had a great campsite by the looks of it!

  • @margaritapaige
    @margaritapaige 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m a new subscriber, so did you change your mind about moving to Mexico? I think your videos are very honest

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Oh, welcome to the channel.
      No, I’m heading back there again in a while but wanted to do a bit of travel, some time camping and visit family in Canada.

    • @margaritapaige
      @margaritapaige 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TrailguidePictures like I said in another comment, I found your channel while I was going thru other channels about people retiring in Mexico, I’m Mexican but I live in California right now. I’m planning to retire in Mexico, I’m from Acapulco 😊
      I think it’s nice to see people from other countries looking into Mexico as a place to live 🇲🇽

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@margaritapaige Yeah, it's a beautiful country with mostly great people. I haven't been to Acapulco yet. Hopefully one day.

    • @margaritapaige
      @margaritapaige 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@TrailguidePictures Oh we might run into each other in Acapulco someday haha I go to visit very often 😃

  • @oxfordblaze4392
    @oxfordblaze4392 ปีที่แล้ว

    Smart move on your part. Sad that someone elses selfish agenda put others at risk. I would not adventure with that person again....can't be trusted.

  • @LauraC369
    @LauraC369 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Testosterone vs common sense.. my opinion. Glad to see you take the high road and live to tell the tale, as they say. Happy trails and until the next video. 👋

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks 🙏

    • @kbsuess
      @kbsuess 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I like to tell people that when I paddle with a group I like to have women along. Less testosterone and better, more honest assessment of abilities and risks.

  • @BuckMckawtheotherone
    @BuckMckawtheotherone 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good decision to bail, Jason. That leader was not a leader, he was clearly just a show off, inconsiderate and dismissive of the weaker members of the group. That aside, I recommend you carry always, a means for fire (BIC or matches), a metal container to boil water (try a stainless steel Klean Canteen. You have a water bottle at the same time) whenever you travel outdoors. You had shelter and a signaling device, which did you well. It will be safer, and at least more comfortable next time out if you add these basic essentials, with a knife.

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, yeah lesson learned. I do normally have those with me but let my guard down travelling with this group that I had done trips with in the past and shared equipment. Never again. Another lesson in not relying on anyone

  • @kevinseversonandhisvizslas8287
    @kevinseversonandhisvizslas8287 ปีที่แล้ว

    are they still your friends?

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  ปีที่แล้ว

      🤔 Probably not. From what I understand they blame me and think I should have done something different.

    • @kevinseversonandhisvizslas8287
      @kevinseversonandhisvizslas8287 ปีที่แล้ว

      Try to patch things up, because good friends are very hard to find, and those friendships should be able to withstand disagreements.

  • @adventuron
    @adventuron ปีที่แล้ว

    I think you made a good de ision.A good friend would not push another if they didnt want to go.

  • @brentkelly5445
    @brentkelly5445 ปีที่แล้ว

    I used to trip with friends who were combative too much. I just said bye bye. went with my brother , just combative. if they had experience i would maybe say ok i'm learning something but they were zero knowledge. went with another group of guys and smooth sailing the entire time.

  • @grahamfisher5436
    @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jason..
    you might have watched..
    on TH-cam..
    John "lofty" Wiseman
    ( SAS)
    PLAN
    protection location .....
    you have the """right""" mindset temperament .
    😉👍

  • @grahamfisher5436
    @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    the film
    *Deliverance*
    shows exactly the group dynamics
    and how the False matcho man (( Burt Reynolds - caricature - Lewis Madlock ( surname is very clever "MAD" and will not re- avaluate his mindset - "LOCK" .
    quickly get folks into dangerous environments and situations ...

  • @arielestulin9706
    @arielestulin9706 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've paddled this exact stretch probably a dozen times. If it's windy, wait it out. Georgian Bay is no place especially for a relative beginner. And 500km is a 2-week long trip for a kayak so I doubt he's paddling 5000k a year unless he's out for weeks at a time.

  • @grahamfisher5436
    @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    honestly.....
    this video has really
    MOVED ME ,,
    I was in a very similar situation .
    God I'm feeling for Jason
    It's absolutely shows how some folks in a Power positions, course assessment leader ,welfare offers, will affect the rest of a group.
    and not listen to the voice of sense and sensibility..
    especially if they could be on a assessment course, which means if they speak out against the course leader, , they could risk getting failed , so stay
    A ..SILENT
    AND MOST TERRIFYING
    B. lie ..
    I came into the Watersports
    ( open Canoeing) expecting THE leaders to BE 100000000% honest and professional
    and take responsibility for their WRONG Behaviours.
    because the innocent
    are seen as the bad bad person and excluded from groups / trips..
    the victims get to be the fall guys ..to stop opening the can of worms
    it's COWARDLY
    ITS WEAK
    ITS SHAMEFUL
    AND ITS DANGEROUS To make the victim the FALLGUY
    and it MAKE THE VICTIM
    FEEL AWFUL ..
    YET I CAN LOOK EVERYSINGLE PERSON IN THE EYES AND TELL THE TRUTH. AND STAND TALL WITH A 100000% CLEAR CONSCIENCE..
    MJD
    JA .
    YOU KNOW... THE TRUTH.
    YOU CAN LIE
    BUT YOUR CONSCIOUS
    WILL HAUNT YOU
    YOU CANT HIDE FROM IT
    ESPECIALLY IN THE NIGHT TIME
    DRIP
    DRIP
    DRIP
    YOU CAN HAVE ME.. EXLCLUED
    PERSECUTED
    BUT I WOULD DIE
    FOR THE TRUTH..

  • @grahamfisher5436
    @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    slowest / weakest man goes first
    sets the group pace..
    if at the back .. the group will not know, notice if they fall behind, get cut off, lost.
    this happened in SAS
    BRAVO TWO ZERO. Mission.
    so yes even the BEST make mistakes.
    what important
    is
    A ... LEARN FROM THE MISTAKES
    B.. LEARN CORRECT
    METHODS
    C ..APPLY CORRECT METHOD'S
    D.. LOSE THE EGO AND "NEGATIVE" PRIDE
    E .. BE ABLE TO
    RE - GROUP
    F.. KNOW YOUR GOING TO BALLS UP AGAIN.
    G.. TAKE A TALKING TOO
    H.. BECOME A BETTER STRONGER INDIVIDUAL
    I..BECOME a BETTER STRONGER TEAM / PLAYER..
    J..KNOW THIS WILL MAKE YOU A BETTER EXPERIENCED PERSON
    K.. GET A BREW ON
    AND LAUGH ABOUT IT..
    L..BE WILLING AND ABLE TO TELL OTHERS..
    YOU F@*KED UP.
    M... KEEP ON FILLING YA GLASS WITH GOOD KNOWLEDGE.
    👍💛💗

  • @grahamfisher5436
    @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    from a open canoe paddler
    you did exactly THE RIGHT THING.
    it's called DROWNING MAN ..
    you assess the situation.
    what risk are there if I "go in/ stay" TO......
    A ..yourself
    B.. your team
    C.. your equipment
    You knew you were doing the RIGHT THINGS..
    don't carry that burden..
    I'd paddler any time with you... and we always stop and assess the situations and environments ...
    we paddle with NO EGO
    on the waters .
    👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍👍🏞🏞🛶🛶🌊🌊🌊🌊💗
    ps.. a lot of folks should watch and learn a lot from this video..

    • @TrailguidePictures
      @TrailguidePictures  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thanks, those three things are exactly what I was thinking about and what I discussed with them.

    • @grahamfisher5436
      @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank YOU JASON 👍
      are you ok...

    • @grahamfisher5436
      @grahamfisher5436 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TrailguidePictures 100% correct risk assessment..
      you dealt with speaking your thoughts. off camera. with humanity and decency.. and as a youtuber.. not going for the drama views ...
      there's far toooo many folks going onto the wonderful.. yet.. kill you in a instant waters ..
      watching you
      looking at your EMERGENCY choices and
      P.L.A.N ..
      was incredible 👏